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Hey there, TikTok lovers! It's Charlotte Dobre, and today we're talking about some tea that got spilled on the app. That's right, we're diving into some messy drama that's been making waves across the internet.
You know how it goes: one person shares something, and suddenly the whole world knows about it. That's exactly what happened when a group of users decided to spill their tea on TikTok. They started sharing their personal stories, exposing secrets, and airing out dirty laundry for all to see.
Some of the stories were pretty shocking, with people revealing scandalous details about their personal lives or their friends and family members. Others were more lighthearted, but still got people talking. No matter what the topic, though, everyone was hooked.
Of course, not everyone was thrilled about the tea being spilled. Some people got upset, and there was a fair amount of drama as a result. But for those who were just watching from the sidelines, it was pure entertainment.
So if you're looking for some drama to spice up your feed, look no further than TikTok. Who knows what secrets will be spilled next?
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The first story happened in my city. After the incident the shop sold cupcakes with little edible orange sunglasses on top of them. 😂 Edit: This was in Vancouver, Canada.
I love this.
😂😂😂 I'm dying! 😂😂😂
This is so great!
This is so funny 😂😂, I really want to meet that guy in person
Was it Canada?
Cupcake thief dude was drunk, had to pee and had the drunk munchies. Dude tried to clean up his mess, and even called to apologize. Honestly that’s the most wholesome theft I’ve ever heard.
After he broke in, he sat down at a table like he was waiting to be served. I don't think he had any bad intent -- just poor comprehension of "business hours". 😵💫
Lol this is why I do my drinking at home 😂 But he definitely gets points for the cleanup and the apology. Mistakes were made, but he had the integrity to own up to them, which is rare these days.
Poor guy must've been so hungry 😂
Y'all left out the coolest part: Bakery made a cupcake honouring the thief, decorated with those iconic orange sunglasses!
He showing people how to be accountable for your actions
It’s not about her “getting” the guy. It’s the knowing that she was his second choice. It was NOT just any other pretty girl. It was her friend. He “downgraded”…he “settled” for the lesser than because of his insecurities. He crushed her heart, her world. No, it’s not her friend’s fault. She should have left the relationship bc now she doubts his feelings and motives. Now she is acting out the very thing HE caused and blaming her for the way she handling it when it all started with him.
She should leave him... Hes crap
I agree with you, mostly.
But it's not like he intentionally caused that. He didn't cause her to react that way. Though it's understandable how she would feel after learning of the real reason why he chose to talk to her.
There some insight here, I remember a guy feeling like he was my second choice…he wasn't who I was first checking for but… he wasn't who I settled for either. Oh well, the insecurity got to him. And what do insecure men often do? Cheat. And that was the end of us. Years later he expresses his regret as he knows now, that my feelings were sincere, he wasn't the most attractive man, but I did care and love him deeply and he became beautiful to me.
People aren't always automatically smitten by their partner’s looks. But that doesn't always mean that they “settled.” or that they won't later become the most beautiful person to them. Love makes people beautiful.
Maybe it's different for men tho.
As for the story about Jamie, it’s not about someone else being more attractive, It’s finding out that you were second choice and never being sure if you’re just there until he find someone else. The 2:00am shame shag.
And if he breaks it off or doesn’t propose, then she was second choice
I completely agree no one wants to feel like second best or the consolation prize.
I think being concerned over how she treated OP is fair, but I think the question would be if the bf would still be interested in OP if he found out OP was interested even though he had Kate. I think not finding me the most attractive initially is one thing but if you're serious enough to consider proposing, then you should find your partner as the most attractive person since you're gotten to know them and you're feelings can change over time
yeaaaa but in this case it’s also about someone else being more attractive. or at least the perception of such. she said herself, she tied her self worth up in finally being chosen over the more attractive one.
this situation is also very much about someone else being more attractive.
@@LynetteTheRogue completely agree.
You said it, I totally feel for Kate. No one deserves to feel that way
I can't say I've ever been drunk enough to brake into a shop and steal.
The fact he owned up, apologised and paid for his behavour speaks volumes.
Kudos to him.
WoW, this certainly got some reaction...lol
People see what they want to see....
I was mearly saying the fact he apologised, owned up and paid up speaks volumes compared to not doing anything at all.
Good luck to you all.
Yeah, he's much better than the thief that tore into my package from Chewy last week and destroyed about $65 worth of dog and cat food!
I live waaaay out in the boonies where no company will deliver to my remote house, so I have packages left at a neighbor's who is only a mile down the dirt road, from the closest paved road (I'm 3 miles from there).
I got a text that my package had been delivered late the previous afternoon so I went to get it, only to find the box ripped apart and most of the food gone. Damn thief! I know who it was but I'm not going to confront her.
Probably the same mountain lion that killed two of my goats last month. She's kind of an angry beeyotch!
Kudos for being a criminal and doing the barely minimal of paying for the damages he caused. How about the inconvenience and the stress of it all? He should have been arrested, maybe then he would learn to drink less.
@@cristela4034
Yeah the victim really does sound like severely distressed and trully harmed
@@cristela4034 It could have happened to you too ❄️you never know what you do under influence. Yes I don’t encourage such behaviour but that man owned up to his wrongs,apologised and paid for the whole thing .
@@Andrew.25 I don't drink cause I like to keep my wits at all times so that would never happen to me. He's still a criminal, apologizing doesn't change that.
I absolutely LOVE the psychological warfare! The jerk deserved every minute of the reverse gaslighting he got🎉
I agree he’s a d-bag and deserves worse. What’s really scary is, that only a mentally ill psychopath would be able to pull that off without showing any emotion for a week straight. Can you imagine what it would be like to be in a relationship with someone who’s capable of that level of manipulative behaviour? Yikes.
I agree. I'm surprised he didn't hide his phone when it kept turning up with those dirty photos every morning. Or change his password. Or DELETE THE PHOTOS. lol
She’s a genius. I took notes
The sad thing is, that mental torture of not being able to explain what's going on while your SO is acting like nothing's happening is just a slice of what cheaters put their partners through.
I mean, we don't even know what the photos are.
If the photos are bad, the girl is a f insane and gives me creeps.
Either way, good for the guy, he dodged a cannon ball.
Props to bandana lad for being articulate, funny, professional AND Batman.
why is articulate the first adjective to describe a well spoken black person like its an anomaly 🙄🤔
@@RequiescatInPaceIs this a thing? I use articulate all the time 😳
@madelineroberts4693 I use articulate all the time too bc people in general arent usually all that well spoken but I also remember watching a Dave Chappelle interview where he said this exact thing so I literally went into these comments bc I KNEW it was going to say something like this. Haha
Yup. To all reading, it’s a thing. I’m Mexican and this is said about Mexicans as well. It doesn’t anger me, but you WILL be silently side-eyed.
Articulate is a perfectly fine adjective, don't worry about offending those small few that get offended at even this. This isn't offensive language as its intention is clearly not derogatory. and you are absolutely correct. The young man was so well-spoken despite probably being frustrated at the audacity. Good on him for staying calm, doing his research and remaining unrattled.
I have a similar story to the jealous friend. I used to have a best friend who was way more attractive than me. When we would go out she would always be the one who was hit on the most. Guys would usually only talk to me to ask about her. Although I never let it show or talked about it (at the end of the day, she cant help being pretty!), of course it bothered me deep down. You end up feeling you're not good enough.
Well, me and my friend decided to go on holiday to Morocco (we are both British) and found their beauty standards were very different from the UK. For the whole week, just about every man we talked to flirted with me and ignored her. She was seething, and didn't even try to hide it. It resulted in a blazing row one evening and her accusing me of ignoring her and 'trying to get all the attention' as if I had been desperately throwing myself upon every man we'd come across.
Needless to say, we are no longer friends!
Yeah I had the same experience with an ex friend. Guys only talked to me to ask what her name was.
Can I ask what was beauty standard in Morocco ? What was different between you and your friend ? And yeah good to you that she showed you her true colors. Even she was considered pretty in her country she was still really insecure and needed validation 😂
@@dianaselnekovicova948I'm Moroccan and Moroccans there usually love white women that are a bit bigger. Not having a tan means you don't work outside and are from a 'better' family. I do need to say that the beauty standard is changing with the youth because of influence from all over the world. I remember when I went on holiday my grandma was always like don't get a tan, stay inside etc 😂
@@ivorysol7828 I remember when I was 17 and going to France and all of a sudden I was hot, come back home to Canada and it was back to being not hot.
@@dianaselnekovicova948 sure you can. In Morocco they seemed to love 'larger' women. They don't seem to have the same standards of skinny as western Europe. And they also seemed to favour blonde hair and blue eyes, paler skin. I've always been chubbier, have naturally lighter hair and skin and pale blue eyes. I took it as I seemed 'exotic' to them. Moroccan's generally have brown skin, darker eyes and hair. Just like my ex-friend. I stuck out as something different there, she stuck out as something different here, with her olive skin and shiny dark hair, which is ironic because we both have a white British background.
I guess it just shows we all have our insecurities. Although it wasn't her insecurities that bothered me, I understood them better than anyone! It was the way she handled them I couldn't stand!
The bakery owner has the kindest soul! She could have easily pressed charges after orange sunglasses called, but she chose not to ruin his entire life. I'm going to remember this story & apply it in my life (not such dramatic stuff, but azzhole co-workers.) ❤
A couple of years ago my twin was hit by a car that was backing out of a parking space. After the investigation and everything the police came and spoke to my sister. The woman was a new mum, and the baby was about 6 weeks old. (My sister needed to go the hospital but was more worried about the baby so wanted the baby checked first). The police asked what she wanted to be done. The options were charging the mother or giving her a warning. My sister said she would rather the mother be given a warning as the mother had been very traumatized. The officer said that most people said to charge them. They didn't only go on what people said (they try to only give warnings, especially in a first offense) but in this case he was glad that my sister was being compassionate. It doesn't take much to think of the other person.
I totally agree but remember people that do stuff like this ruin their own lives the people calling in about their broken into or stolen things don’t ruin it for them but the dude calling to apologize and pay is really nice and I love he didn’t just run away forever
Yes! Love it!❤
In November I was helping 2 internationals buy a train ticket but they didn't understand that you needed go to a 7/11 or a train station with a customer service desk (this station didn't have the desk). So I explained that the machine only does card top ups not buying a new card and they didn't believe me because it said that it does. So they were making fun of me and belittling me. They were about to attack me so out of self defence I pushed one of them. Three weeks later I got arrested and charged for assault causing injury. This was my first offence. Instead of them being compassionate and hearing my side they went through with the charges. My mental health declined and so many other things happened too. The officer interviewing me said they didn't know a word of English. I responded saying I don't believe that as they both said f*ck you to me after I pushed them. Also it was a broken wrist which I don't believe. They also spoke in Italian and I am currently learning the language so I did understand a bit what they said. Point of my story is that not everyone will give a warning for a first time offence.
If youve never been drunk enough to break into a bakery youve never LIVED 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂 did you just admit to a crime bestie?
Please tell me he came back the next day to pay for the cupcakes and window. He seems like the type to do that. - N/M Should have just kept watching.
@@CharlotteDobre I think she did, we don’t snitch tho
@@GenesisMoodie lol yeah we ain't snitching
@Charlotte Dobre nah not me! Lol friend of a friend 🤣 and it wasnt a bakery it was a swat vehicle. Im sober off of alcohol 8 years now!!
For the girl that wasn't "the hot one." I feel so bad for everyone involved. There are certain things that are better left unsaid. My husband said something similar to me about wanting to date a particular girl because she was so pretty but she wasn't interested. For the longest time I felt like he settled for me and it bothered me. I could have gone my whole life not knowing that information and been just fine. The last clip was adorable. My kind of humor.
girl he did settle for you do you not see what’s wrong with that?
I know it affects people but there are tons of not optimally attractive men an women. For most normal people, looks only take you so far. Once you get to know someones mind and who they are as a human being, looks eventually become secondary, no matter what. How you get there though certainly can be via second choice. Frankly, thats OK if you really end up clicking.
soo he settled for you, and you are okay with that??
@@FaithMichelle420 how though?? so if you were interested in someone any time in your life and they turn you down that means that you can never be with another person because then you're settling? That doesn't even make sense. Most people have been turned down by someone.
And saying this to her is so ugly, especially based on what she's expressing in her comment.
@@rubinfeuerherz3799 I have been turned down by someone in my life, then found someone else that I liked even better. That's just living life. he'd never should've said that to her because it's very hurtful, but that doesn't mean that he settled at all
I totally feel for Kate. Getting older I’ve started to realise a lot of my insecurities came from being taught that the ultimate goal is to get male attention, it’s something I feel we have thrust upon us so it’s not surprising when we base our worth on that. Very sad though :(
It's not only thrust on us but the human instinct since the beginning of time.
@@nonenone9892 good point!
I’m sorry this has happened to you. I hope you leave that partner because they dont respect you.
If my friend asked me not to outshine them, I would happily oblige….especially if her only concern was her bf’s attention. Definitely don’t think I would just refuse to go. That being said, probably for the best that they parted ways, just sad it basically happened over a guy.
Somehow my friends and I get the same amounts of attention. We have similarities in appearanes-brunnetes with brown eyes, not particularly tall, none wears much make up, we were always moving around in jeans, but somehow we have a different vibe towards men and also really really different tastes i men. So it was very difficult to ever compete for the same guy, I would never know that feeling.
Girl. I just recently got love bombed by a military romance scammer. I had you in my head when I found all the fake accounts. “You’ll never get away with it. Women WILL find out!” Damn straight we will!!!
I caught a love scamming contractor who tried to scam my good friend 😎I’m sure he still hasn’t forgotten my loquacious email🥳😂
@@doreenchiasson2878damn I love the word loquacious and even more knowing it's still in other people's vocabulary!!
@@doreenchiasson2878the fact you used loquacious tells me all I need to know😂
I get all the cowboy romance scammers, always do the reverse image search before anything 😂
they are always in military, divorced or widdowed, have a kid or more, etc. If a guy has those, red flags! Also if a guy is way too good looking and they hitting on me, I get suspicious.
The cupcake burglary must've been in Canada. He was too nice to be in America 🤣
Yep, it was in Canada 😂
Of course. Look up the story of the hitch hiking robot social experiment. "HitchBot"
Agreed. Canadians are so clean and considerate compared to my fellow Americans.
Vancouver, BC. Next day owner sold "special" cupcakes.... chocolate champagne cupcakes topped with orange sunglasses decoration. 👍
We grow them polite up here, even the thieves....
I feel for the girl who said she had attached a lot of her self worth to finally being picked over her friend, as sad as it is. I had a best friend who constantly got picked over me, and when she said no they'd come to me second. It definitely hurt. And it took me a lot of soul searching to heal and realize that she was never the problem. Ironically I am now the girl that they hit up first at bars, and that's what made me ultimately realize it's a shitty situation for both girls, truly.
It's a painful topic for like 99% of women out there. Even if you're like VS angel or something! Probably even more, being so validated for their looks. Glad to hear that you took time and effort to overcome that. We all should
I had a friend that got upset because every time we went someplace a guy would ask me for my number she frustratedly yelled one day why!? Why do they only ask you for your number!? I felt bad and didn’t know what to say. My other friend would tell every guy she started dating (before they met me) you’re going to meet my friend, you’ll probably want to fuc! her. ☹️ I hate that my friends felt insecure around me,they’re beautiful women inside and out and really had no reason to.
The guy is a jerk peroid
God, that Kate story is nothing short of the word heartbreaking. At least it was handled decently with some emotional maturity.
When I was in middle school, guys used to dare each other to ask me out or confess they had a crush on me, then laugh about it with their friends. It used to really get under my skin. If I found out my partner is only with me because they thought I was ugly enough to talk to, compared to my friend, I might react the same way that woman did.
The same thing happened to me .
That happened a lot to me. But it came to a point whenever a group of guys I didn't know would bother me and say "Hey, he thinks you're cute", I would just state at them and go "Okay?" Or just ignore them. Honestly, I feel bad for the girl and insecurities are the worst, but her friend isn't to blame and the boyfriend told her the truth. Yes, he liked the friend because she was prettier (it happens), but dint think he got a shot and choose her instead and he admitted he was happy he choose her instead because she was the LOVE OF HIS LIFE. That's so much better!
Same here. It caused me to be really harsh to anyone at a club or anywhere else that approached me because I was guarding against being made the butt if a joke. I really feel for Kate in the story because I can relate 100%
This happened to me too, and is literally why I think people who flirt with me as an adult are just mocking me or trying to get a reaction. I was admittedly very ugly as a kid/teen, and as an adult I look very different. My brain refuses to believe that any romantic interest in me is genuine now, and it screws me over a lot.
In middleschool I even got asked out by my now best friend as a prank (I don't hold it against her, we were all stupid kids) which really hurt because I had a crush on her back then.
I had something similar happen to me in middle school. The guys dared their friend to put his arm around me at lunch. He sat down and raised his arm before going “nope. I can’t do it.” I felt humiliated. I just kept thinking “what is so bad about me that he can’t even bring himself to do it? And why do this as a joke?”
I really feel sorry that the four friends who got herpes from the hookah and probably had a painful outbreak, but I do also want to say that oral herpes is actually very common and it is estimated that about 70% of the population has it. The amount of outbreaks and frequency varies from person to person but I feel like its something that shouldn't be so shocking or looked down upon. Avoiding sharing utensils or kissing people with outbreaks definitely helps you in not getting it but I do not want people to get too scared/ worried if they find themselves with oral herpes.
Yeah I’ve had it since I was a little kid. It’s definitely not spread in a dirty or shameful way. It’s very common and spreads easily.
Was looking for this comment - apart from very common, herpes is also wildly contagious.
Yes not just for herbs mono can be giving the same way
The bad part of the story is how the shop wasn't cleaning their hookas properly
also, if you've ever had chicken pox, measles, mumps, or rubella- a lasting side effect in most people is oral herpes & in some cases shingles in later years. My youngest had the varicella shot & has mouth herp outbreaks worse than my older 2 that got chic. pox from school. It's not like herpes simplex B.... that's in the nether regions.
The fact that the lady from the second story paid money to possibly get herself arrested for impersonating a lawyer over a tiktoker is hilarious to me for some reason 😂😂😂
Wow, M-A-J-O-R respect to that first business owner for not pressing charges and being so cool and understanding about it! If I lived in the city she was located in, I would make it a priority to get to that bakery.
Vancouver,BC 🇨🇦
You can do some amazing things with social media. My ex-SIL was murdered by her husband and he fled the state. I waited for the arrest warrant to be filed (kept in contact with a reporter in the area, I'm in a diff state) and I went on the hunt for him. It took me 14 hours, 3 police departments in different states and much help from FB contacts. They found him in a tent in the middle of a state park (of course, 2 hours after I go to bed) and he's currently incarcerated for his crime. Moral of the story is, check yourself before you wreck yourself, there's always someone watching.
Wait, isnt't the husband of your SIL your brother? I'm confused
@@cadany4292 Says ex SIL, so could be an ex husband’s sister. At least that’s how I read it. 🤷🏻♀️
Or her brother’s ex wife
@Megan Alexandria no that simply means her brothers ex wife, the only thing I can think of is she probably doesn't want to call him brother anymore I mean I wouldn't
Good for you! Awesome that you tracked down a legit murderer! Real life isn't like CSI and most cases go cold before authorities are able to find the person. My condolences about your ex-sil, but she got justice in the end because of you.
Loved the first story but major props to the Tik Tok guy who went nuclear on his investigation. Well done dude. That is impressive commitment!
I feel for the "hot girl" story, I really do. I remember being good friends with a girl back in high school. We were hanging out with a bunch of other friends, guys that I knew and talked to frequently. out of nowhere, they decide to compare me to my friend and choose which one of us they'd rather sleep with and every single one of them picked my friend. It's not a competition either of us wanted, and while I wasn't upset with her, I couldn't handle being around her for the rest of the day.
She felt awful, and I felt terrible for not being able to reassure her at that moment it wasn't her I was upset with, but I couldn't handle the idea that me being next to her was making my friends think about how less attractive i was. We remained friends after that, but I don't know how I would have handled it if she weren't there when it happened. How could I tell her something like that? I like to think it's all in the past but I'm sure it still haunts my self-esteem whether I want it to or not.
For the girl with insecurities, its not the looks that made her like that but knowing she was only the 2nd choice or option because the hot one is kinda unreachable is what made her like that. So sad. Its really sad to know that your love one didnt initially chose you.
Yeah, I'm also the 2nd choice, when my bf is my first love and I still tease him about it. 😂
The bakery story basically happened to us this Christmas. We moved to a remote tiny island with very little crime, people rarely lock their doors or cars. Anyway my husband wakes up on the sofa having fallen asleep watching TV and thinks our eldest son (he is 14 but almost 6ft) had come downstairs and fallen asleep on the sofa with him. He does a double take, the hair is wrong, he pulls the blanket back, the guy won't let him, and he realises it's a random grown ass man! He manages to wake him, he is clearly very drunk and just wants to sleep, he had taken his coat off and really settled in for the night! After a little persuasion that this is actually our house and it was time for him to go home he did. He got a photo of him though and we found out who he was, he had been out to a Xmas party. He came round to apologise with prosecco, beers and chocolates. We still take the absolute piss out of him as he lives a few doors down 😂
That's hilarious 😆 It could have had a tragic ending, but turned out to be a great story instead
For anyone who doesn’t know, oral herpes, often known as cold sores, and genital herpes aren’t the same. People who get cold sores should, and usually do, know better then to share stuff like this when they have an outbreak tho smh. Those people who got it are now going to have to deal with them for the rest of their life :/
This might not be good news to anyone reading this but like 70% of the world already has oral herpes. Even when no sores are present the virus is still present in the body, it has a lower transmission rate when there's no symptoms (1-3%) but you can still get it. Some people can also spend years without showing any symptoms and they wouldn't know that they are infected but even they can infect others albeit at a slower rate.
Had to go looking for this comment it is wild how many people do not know that Herpes I and Herpes II are completely different. Cold sores are very common and are often passed from parent to child so people have them their entire lives. Pro tip though if you feel the tingle of a cold sore coming put ice on it!!! It can cause the cold sore not to form if you catch it early.
You can also get each type on either place, or if very unlucky, both in both.
You are right about them not being the same, but "oral" and "genital" herpes are somewhat misleading terms, because you can get oral herpes in the genital area just as much as you can get genital herpes on your mouth.
I get those all the time. But mostly it happens after sharing a straw
Sunglasses dude was probably black out drunk and woke up panicking wondering how he got the cupcakes. I’m so glad they didn’t charge him he genuinely sounded like he was upset with himself. aww that was kind of a fun story
I can relate to the AITA story. When I was dating my now husband, we actually had our first fight over something similar. We had introduced some of our friends to each other at a dinner. Not long after he casually brought up to me that one of his friends asked him why he didn't go after one of my friends instead of me and his response was "because I'm not shallow" basically implying he found her more attractive than me. He thought he was telling me something sweet about how he chose me for me but it really hurt and shattered my confidence. It took some time for me to get over but I also realized that there would always be women who are better looking than me and it wasn't a good reason to hold a grudge or end the relationship.
You realize he was telling you straight up he wanted to meet somebody, but maybe he had a bad experience with people who were very attractive, and so tends to shy away from them for that reason so he goes for people he doesn’t find as attractive. It’s not your insecurity, he said that to make you feel insecure, he should’ve been saying that he feels or found something about you that was alluring.
@cicichambers3887 lol I love how you think you know so much about my husband based on a short internet comment 🤣 We've been married over 12 years so I'm pretty sure I know him pretty well and that he finds me plenty attractive. He didn't have a lot of dating experience before we met and he was very very picky and looked for someone with similar morals and values as him. He didn't pursue a lot of women for that reason. He's not shallow at all so the way someone looks has never been his top priority in a relationship so in that moment he truly felt like he was saying something really sweet and just didn't communicate it in the best way. He also never said he found her more attractive than me, I'm the one who took it that way.
@@acardamone9 it's honestly hilarious when people in CZcams comments think they know our spouses better than us. People are wild as hell 😂
@@AnaHaze777 especially based on one tiny comment that doesn't even give the full context of the whole story 😂 people need to have more chill
Acardamone9 you sound like a very mature person with a healthy perspective. I hope you for joy.
"Mistake number 2 is giving a young man technology and not expecting him to use it and abuse it." 😂
Right? That guy was awesome!
For the girl who had insecurities over her friend being "hotter" than her, I can testify that, as the non-hot girl of my friend's group.....we're talking: never got a Valentine's Day card in school, never had a secret admirer, never went to prom (while my bestie went to 2) I will say, God paid me back tenfold. While my other friends have all been married multiple times, but have all now found their Prince Charming, I got mine on my first ever date. I've been blessed for 36 years with a very handsome man (who got more attractive as hes aged) who is the most solid, good guy you could ever meet. He's always willing to help others and he can literally fix anything. He's artistic & super creative. He's a great father & fabulous Poppa and not to be too TMI, God was very good to him which is very good for me 😁 So, even if you're not the hot girl, you can still get the best man.
This was very beautiful!❤️❤️❤️
I’m so happy for you sis.☺️😍🥹
I hope to one day find my perfect person
for sure
Love it!
I have a similar story....years later, I learned that the most attractive in the group typically has this story. I was used as a model at times, I was not good with signals... and thank God. It made me picky. It made me have a 'low' experience. I've been with my hubby for over a decade. None of them have a long-lasting relationship. I have the male version of me. He is my best friend....none of them reach out or have long ago ghosted me after my Mom died (very young), I went through a tough time and none of them treated me the way I would have treated them. Two of them contacted me last week. I told them I was done being the only one who reached out. None have reached back out sense. I always thought I needed them in my younger years.....I don't. I am grateful for my inner strength and my wonderful husband.
i fail to understand why one can't work on having the hottest personality. more for me, then xD lol
I could never ask a friend or anyone to dull their shine just so I could shine more. If I'm passed over for them, then good for them, I'm honestly glad for them
If anything I'd ask them to help me shine as much as them. So then we'd both be happy and shiny(that last bit sounded weird, but you know what I mean 😅)
That Bakery owner is the best! She could have been so pissed at him and press charges and for the fact that she made light of the situation and heard the guy out and what was going on is amazing
I've read the kate story originally from reddit and let me say it was tough like real tough... The way OP handled the situation was so good but what's even worse than the story was the fact that some commenters decided it was their job to tear OP and insult her for literally anything and everything about her... she ended up deciding not to go to the party and deleting her account after the update
I don't understand that. She didnt do anything wrong? Is she supposed to be punished for being pretty? Is she supposed to make herself look ugly just so her friend can feel better about herself? I don't understand throwing away a friendship over some guy. I feel bad for OP she lost her friend over some ahole guys
Eta: I feel like thay came off as me saying those things to you. I'm sorry about that. I just got really irritated hearing that people were attacking her
Do you remember if the update included what happened to Kate and the bf? Did they stay together or break up? I tried to find it on Reddit, no luck.
I remember hearing the story on TikTok. Did that really happen? That's terrible!
That is so sad! But I wouldn't want a friend that secretly competed with me/etc. I hope Kate got over her insecurities! Does anyone know the outcome for everyone or have pics!?
am I the only person who would feel uncomfortable if my man was best friends with a girl who really dressed sexy? Like. there's no way. I just feel like we all need to be a bit honest here and realllllly put ourselves in the shoes of the person who feels the insecurity
I loved the bakery thief, but the young Batman detective work was chef's kiss brilliant.
For the Kate story, she didn't shot herself in the knee and she didn't ruin it for herself.
Her boyfriend ruined their whole relatinship and a friendship that lasted years.
Kate isn't to blamed for the way she feels and neither is the friend for the way she looks, but it hurts to know that you were second choice for a person that you love!
Exactly, why are we blaming poor Kate. Her bf was a complete Jack ass
My bf has practically insinuated that if he hadn't met me first he would of gone with my cousin, not gonna lie my cousin is younger and freaking beautiful and in no way her fault, but has caused so much insecurity in myself and in my relationship and every time I bring it up he acts it wasn't what he meant or he "didn't say it like that" but Kate's story brought that insecurity back into me and I feel like crying because even though I would never NEVER blame my cousin for any of it, it really makes me feel like a second choice in a relationship with a man I've been with for 2 years
Sorry I have so much on my chest, I'm crying and had to rant
Low-key embarrassed right now
@@danystander2573 You have nothing to be embarrassed about and I'm sorry you went through something similar! ♥
This is so sad. You should never be anyone’s second choice and your partner isn’t supposed to make you feel insecure. If you have the courage I hope you give yourself the chance to find yourself, love yourself and leave him. Someone can love you better I promise. But it starts with leaving.
@@danystander2573sir ma’am please leave. You don’t deserve to be second choice.
Currently struggling with mom-bod acceptance…… watching this with my hubs, and he tunes in with the Kate story, AND agrees with every word Charlotte said. So I can attest that someone who loves you sees more than looks.
It takes a lot of courage and humility to own and admit your mistakes. And the attitude of the bakery owner is STELLER!!! Great examples on both parts! 💜👍
I’ve heard the story about Kate before, that would be really tough. I’ve definitely been that girl, too. And I wish the boyfriend had explained it in a better way, that he was glad his preconceptions hadn’t kept him from the love of his life.
It didn’t help that he was drunk, and that his friends were complete assholes.
@@kaybadberg534Yeah, who tf asks that kind of question in front of the girlfriend/soon to be fiance?
But didnt he say he was not going to propose anymore?? I guess not the love of his life anymore?
@@doeeyes2I think it’s more so because the situation is a mess not because he loves her any less. It would seem they’d have to have a long chat before getting engaged to come to a better understanding 😊
@@doeeyes2I guess the boyfriend realized she's so insecure that even a proposal wouldn't be enough to convince her, or she would interpret it as him doing it out of pity. Honestly, both scenarios are bad enough to make him reconsider. There's no way to solve it unless she let those insecurities go.
17:13 yeah they need to change the whole "you cant get that from sharing" if theres saliva on it, you can get it.
As someone that was the non pick friend i get it. It definitely hurted when the guys would befriend me soley for the point of getting near my friends. But i never told my friends to tone it down or not be themselves. I just firgured i would be myself and the right one would come along. And it did happen
I feel Kate's pain acutely, having also been the ugly one, and/or the fat one, in every group of friends I've ever had. I've been passed over so many times, so consistently, I eventually just gave up. I've been single for almost 10 full years, haven't been on a date in around 8 years, and I don't anticipate that changing. It hurts. It hurts so fucking bad, there are times I can't breathe. But I would never. _NEVER._ Not under any circumstances!! Lay the blame for that on my beautiful friends, or punish them for being prettier than me. Because that is UN-FUCKING-HINGED behavior. They can't help being pretty any more than I can help _not_ being pretty. That's just how it goes sometimes. It sucks, believe me I know how much it sucks, but it is what it is.
I feel you. I’m 33 I’ve never been on an actual date. The only person I kissed was in middle school and he turned out to be a complete monster. I’ve had long distance relationships but that’s about it. The only man to show any interest in me is married and old enough to be my father. I really would like someone to cuddle.
Yeah, I feel like people have forgotten this despite it being in the title of the post. At least she's apologized and is hopefully getting therapy because she clearly needs it. It would help her so much. I've felt like the "ugly" friend before, (I don't really anymore,) but I would never try to do this to someone.
I hear you, l was always the ugly friend til, l gave up. Saddest thing is, l look back on some of the few photos l let be taken and realise l wasn't the ugly one at all.
You know, I was the same. I was 6 feet in junior school. Skinny,"unwomanly", with acne and potato for a nose. I did all the wall support at all school dances, I never went to prom, graduation ball, doctorate ball, no academy balls despite the fact that I bought myself a new nose right as I hit 18 and revamped my fashion. I've spent most of my money on plastic surgery, a lot of time at the gym.. I don't know who is looking back at me anymore.
It didn't solve anything. I don't feel more worthy because I get more creepy encounters at the rare time I go out . Lately a university friend told me that "all guys at university wanted to date me and now I've turned into some else" - yeah, so why didn't they, huh? Why I always felt I was the one who had to make the effort?
Now, friends tell me that I just"scare people away".
You can never win. It's not about how you look really. It was my shit attitude towards myself that poisoned the way I behaved. People of all looks,shapes and sizes find love and companionship really, I see it, I know it for a fact. But I don't know if I'll ever be able to shake the feeling of being"worse ", and that, complete with the new, shiny packaging, makes me even more afraid that I'll always be alone.
@@margodphd The things we say to ourselves are cruel and it certainly doesn't help if our low opinions of ourselves are reinforced by other people ignoring us. I'm sorry to hear you don't feel surgery has helped.
I understand being sad that you're the ugly friend in the hot girl group and getting left out, cuz its also me... BUT blaming your friends for being pretty or taking your insecurities out on them is not the way to go!
Back in the 80s I had a beautiful friend who loved going dancing at clubs but didn't want to go alone because of all the creeps. I knew she brought me along as a homely "wing" girl, but I was fine with that!
Our favorite club was called elan (all lower case). It was popular with SMU students and fashionistas like my friend and more sophisticated than other Dallas nightclubs.
We'd split up once inside because she was there to dance (I don't dance in public for good reason, remember Elaine from Seinfeld?), but she knew where to find me. I was in the back room with the soft comfy chairs and backgammon tables, where it was quieter. That room was decorated like a rich man's library, lux furniture, dark wood paneling and rows and rows of real old books lining the walls that were fun to look through (for geeks, anyway!). It's also where many foreign college students liked to hang out and I found them to be fascinating. The guys from India and Korea were especially charming and funny and told the best stories!
yeap, ugly duckling between my friends. And also that fat friend.
Yeat, I have never even thought that I would tell my friends how to dress or something like that.
I honestly feel for Kate as someone who has never been picked. Still working on myself for about 3 decades now. It's hard out here, man.
That first story warms my heart to know that there are still good people in this world even when they're just drunk and have no sense of what they're doing and then wake up and realize what they did and feel the need to make things right.
How understanding and kind the whole cupcake burglary turned out to be was everything, we need more of this energy with each other when people mess up. 😊
I relate to the story of the girl losing her friend over her looks. My ex-best friend started ignoring me when she got with her boyfriend because she was worried I'd take him from her, even though I have my own boyfriend. I felt bad that she has those insecurities, but she chose someone who is obviously is only going to feed them instead of someone who would have supported her.
Same😔 Especially because I thought I was the ugly friend the whole time! That was a bit of a shock for me.
12:46 this story honestly ended very civil and mature, i feel like it could have gotten real toxic but both ladies seem to understand whos at fault for the rift between them and they are smart enough to admit its hard to be friends now without being toxic or shaky
The right response to the 'Jamie knew he couldn't get the hot one' should have been Jamie responding with 'yo, I *did* get with the hot one.' what a self esteem slash to be told you're 2nd choice for the man you want to spend your life with!
Also Charlotte NOT being the first choice?!?! I don't believe it. Charlotte you are scary gorgeous and you are tall and have an inner power that no one with confidence issues would probably approach. YOU ARE GORGEOUS - your friends are also, but you have goddess energy and your friends (that you've introduced) are talkative, bubbly, approachable and also gorgeous in different ways. You seem to have networker style friends and you are a tall, strong and discerning character that weak personalities don't stand a chance with. Mike is rad, BTW. I hope you guys continue to be happy and fulfilling with each other ❤
You are so wonderful; thank you so much for the kind words. You're such a special person and I'm grateful to have someone like you watching my content.
@@CharlotteDobre I second that. Mike probably be floored by that. Dude found his QUEEN
@@CharlotteDobre Thank you for interacting with us! I remember you from IO and now my mother in law and boyfriend watch you daily because you, as you are, are fantastic. Thank you for your time and dedication to keep the content flowing, and I hope you take care of yourself also! *Keep up with vacations and whatever you need to fuel yourself, lady! You've got a solid fan base now.
Charlotte was not approached when her friends were because the MOST beautiful girl often inspires fear of rejection. She simply was TOO beautiful that men were afraid they wouldn't have a shot. I confirmed this with my husband who said Charlotte is definitely in the category of TOO BEAUTIFUL.
Literally what I was thinking! Hell, I’d try and hit on her and I’m married to a guy 😂😂
VERY TRUE!! Not only is Charlotte incredibly beautiful, she also has an amazing, outgoing personality and the gift of gab!!
She's cute but she's not all that. Maybe if she had some dogs as friends. Again she's cute solid 7. But she's not so pretty people would be scared. She seems like it's more she was always bombastic with a big personality and thats usually not very attractive on women. Again, she's pretty, but shes also no spring chicken anymore. I would imagine her dating life has been challenging but when she finds a guy she'd stay with him for years and be a great girlfriend.
Keep in mind im a fan so don't yell at me for my opinion.
@@get_lucky6402Wow, if you think Charlotte had a bad dating life, there's no hope for the rest of us because she's far above average. I also think it's absolutely hilarious for you to downplay being in a committed relationship as something only desperate women do? Like.....?????? Bless your heart, this is just one of those 'opinions' you should've kept to yourself.
@@mikaelapeoples First don't condescend to me just because you disagree. Where was I downplaying a committed relationship? I literally never said that. Maybe your reading comprehension is lower than the average so i have no problem getting down to your level and exaplin it again. I said she probably has issues dating and finding a guy but once she finds a guy I'm sure she's a wonderful girlfriend. I said she probably has problems because she's loud and bombastic and leads with humor and men don't usually find it attractive. And there's also the age component, its just a biological reality of women. But when she finds a man that does like that, as I acknowledge there are, she is a great girlfriend and wonderful to be with. Do you understand? I'm sorry im limited in the youtube comments so I can't use pictures like you're used to. I'd be happy to clarify anything further. But first you need to get out of those feelings. I'll take your silence as my apology.
I feel for Kate. As the "ugly" one in my friend group throughout my whole life due to horrible acne scars. Even to this day, im still dealing with my insecurities with my bf. My ex has literally told me that his mum said "you can do better" because he has a lot of prettier girl friends around him. Even my current bf, when we hang out with his friends, sometimes to topic if his exes will come up, and that they're attractive girls. But he still tries to reassure me every time, that looks didnt matter to him, he knew what he wanted in a partner and i apparently have all of the traits lol. "In the end of the day, i still choose to be with you and i still love you." I try my best to fight the insecurities with his words of assurance but some days it gets hard
just got to say the lady with the best friend and his brides insecurities, she handled that like a boss! you go queen. it takes a biiiiiig person to see all three sides of the story. and you handled it perfectly!
The girl who was jealous of her friend for being "prettier" - I would've broken up with my partner if I found out that I was his second option. I just wouldn't feel secure in a relationship that basically started with "oh well" from the other end. Not worth ruining your friendship
Yeah, I think this was totally the guys fault. He took his girlfriend as a consolation price and the girlfriend gets blamed for her insecurities? She is right how she feels, he literally confessed to her, that she is not the girl he finds attractive. It is so hard that both girls blame themselves, while it is the guy that sucks.
The cupcake burgler is so respectfull, love to see a respectfull king :)
Dear Charlotte, learning that you, at times, were "not being the first choice" is a big surprise to me and is a blessing in disguise : no girl should need to attract to herself some random superficial guy who only relates to preconceived notions of "looks" rather than on substance.
The situation with Jamie. I can totally relate how it is to be second choice every time. I've been there and it hurts a lot. But after hearing that, I would not have gone after my friend. I would have ended the relationship with Jamie. Kate will never feel secure in him again. The amount of energy that she will have to spend on healing a relationship that is unmendable is not worth it. Instead, I think what would be healthiest would be to be with herself and work on her self-esteem issues before getting a new partner. But I think Jamie is in the wrong here the most. Either go for the woman you actually want and be courageous enough to risk getting turned down or leave it. Taking someone as a consolation price is plainly disrespectful, no matter if it turns into love later. The fact that he is also shaming Kate (not gonna propose to her after the way she is "handling" it) makes me furious. Her reaction is understandable, even if it is punishing the wrong person. I'm sad for both women involved. This ruined their friendship.
I can totally relate to Kate. My friends were beautiful and got hit on, had boyfriends, got married. I wasn't ugly but I was the one that held the coats, got ignored and is still single. I don't go out anymore because I'm too old for that. I wish I had the chance to be treated like I was special. I had a guy ask me out as a means to get to my beautiful friend!
It happens to guys too. It happened to me, still single and have given up on finding a woman who will love me for me. If there is someone out there for me, she isn't anywhere in my area.
Please don’t give up!
@@jasonsummit1885- same. Being ugly I have also given up. Women doesn't select ugly men. Social status and height is less important than looks, despite what some claims.
You are definitely not too old to go out and meet someone! I met someone in my '50s and now have a steady boyfriend
Samedt. I'm always the leftover friend
As women we should be building each other up. Not comparing ourselves to one another. We are all beautiful in our own ways and that's what is important. Not what guy likes me vs. What guy likes you. That really does not matter at all.
Let me start by saying, "Those are great shoes, and you smell wonderful."
@@celiashen5490 and you are absolutely stunning. You have such pretty eyes
The teddy in your profile picture is so adorable!
@@grimshawelizabeth1 thank you so much. His is Clifford.
8:02 the level of petty in this one is insane
is it just me or does anyone else get excited to see what Charlotte's outfit is and is just blown away by her beauty in each video!!
I love a honest robber😂 I love that he is so sweet about everything! Also I ship the baker and the robber
It sounds like a perfect rom-com plot !
New chapter for the swipe life 😂
About the "other friends would be hit on and I would just sit there", I always felt like the ugly ducking compared to my best friend. She's the classic southern Italy beauty and up til the 2nd year of high school I was a bit overweight. I gained more confidence once I got skinnier, but still I always felt like I was less. Kudos to the guys who came up to us (strangers) and told us to my face that I was cute but she was stunning. As the years have passed, I finally learned that we have just very different kind of beauties, who likes her won't like me and viceversa.
But I still can remember all the comments of people comparing the 2 of us and frankly they still hurt. Never hol it up against her though
The story about the girl with the herpes is actually super common. A friend of mine had an outbreak of the downstairs variety and she was freaking out because she has never been intimate with anyone. Went with her to the ER and it turns out you can get mouth herpes from silverware at a restaurant and your body won’t react for years. Then when you do react you might get mouth or downstairs sores regardless of what variant of herpes you have. More than half the population has herpes and doesn’t know it. It takes a special blood test to find out and it’s not offered on usual STI screens, you have to ask for it.
You were either lied to by the person you are speaking of or your friend is uneducated about her condition. If you have HSV 1 (commonly known as herpes or the mouth or cold sores) on your mouth it does not randomly morph to HSV-2 or spread to your genitals. It is localized. Yes, you can have HSV-1 on your genitals as people who perform oral sex with an outbreak can spread it to someone’s genitals and their outbreaks will be localized in their genitals.
Unless she is a rare anomaly that disproves decades of scientific research, there is NO WAY your friend contracted HSV-1 through silverware and is now having genital outbreaks.
You were either lied to by the person you are speaking of or your friend is uneducated about her condition.
HSV-1 mostly spreads by oral contact and causes infections in or around the mouth, while HSV-2 is spread through sexual contact. If you have HSV 1 (commonly known as cold sores or fever blisters) on your mouth it does not randomly morph to HSV-2 or spread to your genitals. It is localized. Yes, you can have HSV-1 on your genitals as people who perform oral sex with an outbreak can spread it to someone’s genitals and their outbreaks will be localized in their genitals.
Unless she is a rare anomaly that disproves decades of scientific research, there is NO WAY your friend contracted HSV-1 through silverware and is now having genital outbreaks. Type 1 (HSV-1) mostly spreads by oral contact and causes infections in or around the mouth (oral herpes or cold sores). It can also cause genital herpes. Most adults are infected with HSV-1. Type 2 (HSV-2) spreads by sexual contact and causes genital herpes.
I thought the bakery one was wild with a plot t ending but the cease and desist letter one took the cake , chefs kiss. Pun intended 🤣🤣🤣
The sounds that came out of those women’s mouths after the “approve my outfit” line were everything!!🤣
The Kate story, totally get it. I stopped going to bars in my 20s with my friend because I was never picked, and the guys would only speak to me to get to her. I had to stop putting myself in that situation.
I like this video a lot because it is more wholesome and had better outcomes than other messy tiktok reactions. Please post more wholesome videos ❤
It's crazy that the guy from the cupcake shop was brave enough to come back after. He must have really been on something the night before.
I feel reasonably confident that the guy who broke into the bakery was himself baked out of his gourd, and just desperate for some bomb-@$$ cupcakes. Credit for his apologies, attempt at cleaning, and paying for his transgressions~🤣🤣🤣
He was very drunk and drunk munchies exist too!
My best friend is absolutely stunning, and she is even more beautiful inside. I could never hate on her for that and I take joy in picking out beautiful dresses for her. We’re both married to great guys, and if I had let my insecurities take over, I would have lost out on one of the most truly wonderful people in my life ❤
Thanks! Your videos always make me feel so much better every day, and I absolutely adore you!
You're the best! Thank you so much for the Super Thanks!!!
Dude Charlotte is seriously SO funny. Normally I don’t think it’s funny when people make silly faces and think they’re hilarious for it, but Charlotte doesn’t come off that way when she makes her faces. Like, they’re genuinely hilarious and you can tell she’s doing it because that’s just who she is as a person. She’s a fellow weirdo and I would love to hang out with her so much lol.
Love the little drink for the little guy. Gotta have good rapport and an even better sense of humour for that. Love the grins and laughter all around.
I watched it three times looking for ingredient tricks, order of mixing, anything to explain the joke... thank you! lol
@@pistachoo. I can see that. Guess it just says you don't pay much attention to a person's height or lack thereof.
Self-esteem and self-worth can't be built from others, it starts with yourself. Charlotte having beautiful friends makes sense too since she's also gorgeous. Good friends should bring each other up, if you drag a person down how are you their friend? Jealousy may be normal, but letting it consume you dulls your shine.
the "insecure" friend is right about her feelings. She has to feel insecure like every normal person, that just got told by the person that he/she loves, that you are just "the ugly one" second choice material. I can think of myself as being beautiful as heck, but if my significant other thinks I am not that attractive, and my best friend is the sexy one, there is nothing I can do about it. I can love myself as much as I want, but this does not change my boyfriends mind. She is right for her insecurity in this situation. But she is wrong, how she handles the situation. And I really hope she thinks about it and breaks it off with this guy, if he don´t thinks of his girlfriend as the prettiest girl in the room, she will be just a stepping stone for the future.
This is the BEST video for real. So much love Charlotte ❤️ 😅😊💯
Wow, wow, wow!!! Kudos to the tatt guy on no2 about the cease and desist form. Amazing, I would've never looked that far into it at all. He taught me a thing or 2 that's for sure.
The first guy sitting at the bakery counter. Pretty sure he thought someone would come take his order soon.😂
I can't understand how someone as stunningly gorgeous as Charlotte was "not picked" or wasn't a first choice. Like are these dudes blind?! Charlotte, you're definitely our #1 choice. Keep being your amazing self 🥰
Yeah, is she in a posse with the Victoria's Secret angels, Brooke Shields, Christy Turlington and Iman or something? (I'm old, I don't know who's a supermodel these days.) Even so, I think Queen Potato could hold her own.
She is tall I can see that guys will not approach her especially in high school. It was same for me, I realized that I am not ugly at all when I went to university.
She also has a big personality and loves to goof around and speak her mind. Lots of guys can find that to be a turn-off, sadly. They'd like her if they got to know her, but she's not necessarily who they'd pick on a night out. Their loss!
@@jenniferwintz2514 u need help
@@dianaselnekovicova948they're just scared. Also she might be loud, she has a large mouth. I think she is absolutely gorgeous and I'm not saying it too big I'm just observing and I can imagine dumb guys just being intimidated and misogynistic you know the toxic "I can't be shorter than the woman I'm with" kind of thinking. And women need to be delicate and quiet. So when the girls go whoop whoop shots drinking they might pick the quieter ones idk. Point is we don't need to care about guys hitting on us or not. But maybe I'm just speaking from pretty privilege and I don't fully know your situation so I'll shut up now
Love your videos Charlotte!! You are so beautiful and your videos are bingeworthy ❤❤❤ I hope you and your family are doing well! 😊
Charlotte ive been with you since the begining you just get better and better love ❤️
Perfectly timed the video today! Got my sandwich, the sun is shining, what more could a gal want ?!🤣🤣
Char char- It’s important for you to know that your videos can truly change the course of people’s day. Morning started out rough but your laugh and commentary literally knocked at the serotonin door like “Hey babe! Let me in 😊” Thank You!
that first story!! Love it!
3:17 my boy with the doo rag came in hot and destroyed her, he's one of my favorites in Tic Tok. Straight savage
First story, I want everyone to know, that just cause she didn’t press charges herself, the STATE can take the case and pursue it as they want. Throw it out, or charge him. If that court district wants the money enough, they can and will charge him, either way, I love the story, he looked great in those glasses! HAHHAHA
And second one, SKIN IS GLOWING MY MAN AND HIS TEETH ARE PERFECTLY WHITE AND STRAIGHT OML
Yeah I think that’s why after she said she isn’t she also said something about hoping they wouldn’t or something. However this happened in Canada, not sure if it works the same as the states.
If you're a real friend, you lift your friends up. You never tear them down. If you do have these issues, please work on yourself.
Story 2 & 3 are awesome!
In relation to the 2 friends and the insecurities of not being the hot one….my teenage/young adult boyfriend simply asked me if I found his friend’s attractive, I said “sure” (I was dumb and naive for sure not seeing the setup) and he had an entire meltdown for weeks and cheated on me because he felt that insecure about it. The worst relationship I ever had.
I kinda understand "Kate". It's not only about her feeling less attractive than her friend BUT it is also about a guy whom she had been dating for three years implying that the suggestion that he had hit on her b/c he had been afraid to approach her hotter friend was correct. That must have hurt... I think there are no winners in that situation - especially if the boyfriend was really just awkward with his words and that was not what he wanted to say.
If your friend thinks you’re prettier you have to also boost them up and tell them why you’re jealous of them maybe it’s their smarts or their kindness… Some people need that extra boost to realize we are all great in one way or another and that’s why he chose her
Why? Do we need to be first in something as a law? Most of my friends are more beautiful than me, taller than me, richer than me, healthier than me. I don't need them to think that it's ok for them to shine because I am "insert adjective' -er.
They just need to sincerely love me as I am. And I will do the same ❤
The girl that did the warfare on the cheater, she is my spirit animal. It's totally something I would do. Love it
I literally watch all your videos but this one 😘👌🏼absolutely chefs kiss!! So funny 😂 love u Charlotte 💕
I was always the “backburner” friend. The one that wasn’t as pretty, I was more awkward, more anxious, less stylish…but was invited along cause of “history.” It always sucks, however I am also the friend to gas up my friends and to make sure they always feel as great as they are people. I can’t imagine making my friends feel awful based off my own insecurities. What her man said was NOT her friends fault, it was her boyfriend and his stupid friends faults. 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
1:29 the weirdest break in ever 😂
The fact that i've already seen some of these videos 😂 we have the same fyp for sure!
I just wanted to leave a comment to thank you for being a light in my life during one of the toughest times. Over the course of the last 6 months I have gone for breast exams and scans due to a lump I discovered. After a recent biopsy and a serious cancer scare I am due to have an op to remove my tumor which has been confirmed to be benign but has the potential to develop into cancer. Your videos has helped me from going completely insane and allowed me to shift focus while keeping a smile on my face. I truly appreciate your content and thank you for constantly making me laugh ❤️
I sincerely pray that things will continue to be OK with your health. Continue to laugh, live and love. God bless you.
Yes, there’s always someone better looking out there. You just need to focus on being the best version of yourself.
that was the most respectful robber i have ever seen 😭he even cleaned up his mess
8:45 This here is a good example of something I recently learned. The THREAT of getting in trouble is scarier than ACTUALLY getting in trouble. Just don't react and watch them sweat. You'll even feel better mentally torturing them than if you were to scream and throw a fit.
To the jealous friend situation, that actually makes me really sad. I’ve found the more secure I am with myself, the more secure I am in all my relationships with others in my life. My friends and I raise each other up and it’s sad that insecurities can ruin friendships like that. Support yourself and your friends ❤️