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Hey ya'll! Today on my channel we are reacting to some MESSY tiktoks. I took a trip down a tik tok rabbit hole and found the messy side of tiktok. The DRAMA is like a car crash on the side of the road, I CAN'T LOOK AWAY. Enjoy.
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" Bagging a cheater is not a flex, it's embarrassing."
👑 ⚜️ *PREACH IT GIRL!!!!!!* ⚜️👑
SAY. IT. A-GAIN.
Yup. Also because just having his baby means nothing, he PROPOSED to the other girl, and still cheated, does she really think having a little screaming poop producing machine will bind him to her forever? If anything that shows how nothing really matters to him, not engagement ring, not wedding ring, not having a kid together. If she had really "won" by getting pregnant, why is she still the mistress? Why hasn't he broken up with the fiancé? Yeah. Both of them are gonna be single real soon, but at least the first one will just have a broken heart, the second one will have to raise all alone a baby that she basically had out of spite... and she deserves that. As the saying goes, "how you get them is how you lose them". Baby mama will be cheated on real fast, if she isn't already, then after giving birth, because "you can't have sex for 6 weeks, what am I supposed to do???" for sure. Pure trash.
I'm literally praying they're in one of those states that you can sue for alienation of affection if you are engaged and get compensation from both parties.
If they'll do it with you they'll do it to you!!
100% What a weird thing to brag about. It's sad.
As a 41-year-old woman, I cannot even wrap my head around any of my friends sending even remotely thirsty pictures to my man. Nor would I ever imagine doing that to any of my friends’ significant others. It’s just wrong on so many levels, call it insecure if you’d like, but this is a hill I will die on.
When I was young, 19/20, my best friend did that to my son's father before I got pregnant. He was a big fat cheater and she was promiscuous with low self esteem. After I got pregnant (20) and had the baby (21) I left him, but I forgave her before that because he was trash and always cheating on me and she was my bff since I was 12 and he talked her into sending the pics. We're 40 & still bffs. We've been thru a lot, but I'm glad I forgave her. Yeah she did something shitty, but I still feel like he was garbage in that situation over her. Lol
Fellow 40 year old woman here, and I 100% agree. This doesn’t even seem real to me that people would DO this to each other. It’s sad.
@@JBunny7482 ugh I am SO sorry you went through that!!!
@@sarahelizabeth7890 it makes me sad for my children and other young people when it comes to relationships.
Back story for this to make sense: the first guy I dated had tried asking out my friend at a football game but she declined cause she wasn't in to him. I had no idea because no one told me and I wasn't allowed anywhere out of school hours.
My friend would send my (ex) boyfriend bra pictures while we were dating. When he brought it up he said "well she's my friend thats why she sent it." They both made me feel like I was a drama queen for being upset and bringing it up to him.
Just told that story to my now bf and he just had a look of horror. It shows lack of respect rather than showing how insecure the gf is. Laugh at it now
Saying “just cause you’re not secure about your relationship…” is just pure gaslighting
💯
The gaslighter had a smirk with duping delight in her eyes. It's sooo obvious she's not sorry at all.
B*tch be gaslighting. Girl stop. She's so fake, it's ridiculous
From the moment they started arguing I knew that the blond girl was a manipulater
I thought the EXACT same thing.
The "it's not my fault you are insecure" that boils my blood. That's not a good friend if they don't care how they hurt you.
true. Leave her ass behind, you don't need that toxicity
Exactly ❤❤
That's what a narcissist would say. "Oh it's your own fault you feel bad, not the fact I'm being a shady cunt". Those people need really telling, but people fall for their shit because they fully believe themselves :/
Staged video anyway
That would literally be the last time I acknowledged their existence! A "friend" wouldn't say some rude a$$ shit like that.
"It's not even the cheating, it's the sloppiness that bothers me." Lady Charlotte, your Virgo is showing. LOL
As a Virgo, i agree the sloppiness is real!
As A Virgo I agree
Same 😂
Hey fellow Virgos 🙋😁💃
It's so crazy because Im a Virgo... And swear I've said the same... My ex was Satan in the flesh... 🤦🤦 Total waste...
I couldn’t stop laughing when the second woman telling her story “that she did a messy thing” then held up her son 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@mmlw6675 oohhhhh? Tell me more! 🤣
@@mmlw6675 😮😮 the one she had a baby with? Well, if it works out for them...
Yeah not so funny for the baby !!
That's some major stupid. Getting back by becoming a single mother?!?
Her ex dodged a bullet!!
@@JohnR219OR she actually WITH the guy and they have a kid together lol
Lol, the story of the wife being accused of lazyness reminded me so much of my ex husband.
I mean, after I found out about his affair, he tried to convince me to let him stay (and still keep his affair, btw) because "it would be financially beneficial for the both of us" and I still would go to work, go grocery shopping, cook, clean, wash and fold clothes etc for him too.
Yeah... Not gonna happen.
Lmao did he get hit in the head to think something like that was even plausible
@@daniellenelson5300 I can't tell you what was going on in his head, but he was absolutely CONVINCED that this idea of his was the best cause of action.
ouch, girl. My ex husband tried to do the same thing. He even said that I should accept that my “monogamy” was emotional but his affair was “logical”. (We’d been together for 10 years in “my monogamy”. And when I brought up being poly then too, he got MAD.)
@@Loveofmisery ah, yes, this sounds completely reasonable... Not. Sometimes I truly wonder if they really believe their own BS
…omg…omg…THE AUDACITY
This is why I firmly believe in "Mommy/Wife Strike". When people get used to things getting done for them automatically, they get hella entitled and ungrateful.
Lol. I remember my mother actually doing this.
Like all that girl needs to do, is take herself (and her kids - optional) out for a holiday and tell him she's giving him a "break"(/taking one) watch him realise just how much she does for him and how difficult doing it alone can get.
Iceland did that recently; woman's strike. The first one in the 70s collectively destroyed public life and the men freaked out 😅 the last one was to strike for inequality of wages.
Charlotte circling around in her wheelie chair, while laughing maniacally under the neon "petty".
Perfection.
Isn’t she though?
It was epic!
😂😂
Wheelchair? I think you mean office chair….🤔
@@julimartin7698 "wheelie" look twice.
I just imagine Mike is casually sitting out in the other room, just minding his own business, waiting for Charlotte to finish filming and then he can just hear the most evil laugh and shouting out of nowhere 😂😂
I think He's used to it at this point😂
I love the woman who admits to being a "Pick Me Girl," and I'd never heard the phrase before and completely understood the stereotype. Good on her for doing the personal growth work, too.
I was thinking the same!
It’s from Grey’s Anatomy, when Meredith asks Derrick to “Pick me, choose me” 😊
@@RachelRHCP Ah! Thank you for clarifying. It's not a show I've watched so it went right over my head.
I did too tbh and honestly like charlotte said it's refreshing to notice that. I used to like talk about ppl I hated bc of how they looked like or something different to my friends and wondered why they looked like they rather be somewhere else than with me. Now, I feel guilty or try to not talk bad about people I know with anyone.
P.s - I keep rewinding to the storytime of the teacher getting the student pregnancy because I have been in a situation like that before.
"Bagging a cheater isn't a flex...
That's embarrassing. *You're* embarrassing."
Say it louder for the people in the back, Charlotte! 🙌
"Bagging a cheater is not a flex. You're embarrassing" I love you Charlotte!!
Also, my ex didn’t even know how to book himself a doctors appointment when we split. It was a small slice of justice. Mwahahahaha.
I cannot tell you how embarrassed I am for these men who cannot call the doctor for themselves! One man gets his 90-year-old mother to make all his appointments and call for him!
@@terimkel3 There’s no way I’m gonna keep calling for my son’s appointments once he’s old enough to do it by himself. He’s gonna learn to be an adult and don’t rely on his mom or girlfriend.
He was like, “who’s my doctor?” And I became a deaf mute in that instant. Lol
@@terimkel3 I had to call in sick for my ex-husband at work when we were first married, and make his doctor’s appointments.
@@spacecrusade please tell me you broke up when you realized what you two where doing
I totally agree with Charlotte, “bagging yourself a cheater isn’t a flex, it’s embarrassing!” 😳
yeah, I think if some woman tried to act smug to me that she was having the baby of a man who was still engaged to someone else while they were seeing her I would cackle until I fell over at how stupid they sound lol
Ok. Storytime.
When I was still with my last ex, I became disabled due to a neuromuscular condition I developed. Now, we had lived with his parents at first, moved out and gotten our own place, but due to my being unable to work, we had to move back with his mother who had since separated from his step-father. Things were going well enough with him out of the picture, as step-father being a douche was one of the main reasons we moved out. I got a service dog. She was a rescue, and I have lots of experience with dogs, so training her was a snap. Ex-MIL got a new admin job that paid well. She worked a lot, but the house never got very messy and I was able to keep up with most of the daily chores. Things were good. Then, ex-MIL decided she wanted a puppy. Not just any puppy. A purebred Pembroke Corgi. So, she found a shady backyard breeder and ordered one. I knew it wasn't going to go well from the start. She didn't have the time to take care of a puppy, nor did she have the patience. Plus, despite the breeder's assertions that the dogs weren't inbred, she kept "forgetting" to provide the AKC paperwork we were assured she had. Nevertheless, bitch gets her bitch. At first, things actually went much better than expected. Despite me having to do most training, the dog did well enough, and the chores didn't suffer too much. The only issues occurred after ex-MIL got home and started spoiling her; not using consistent commands, rewarding her too much, etc. Then, ex-MIL got a promotion and had more time. That dog went from fully house-trained and obedient to "going" wherever and whenever she pleased and only responding to her name, "bed", and "sit" in about 2 months. I couldn't keep up with all of the messes she would make, but my ex stepped up and helped out and we did ok. Then, ex-MIL is treating my service dog the same as her dog. Her behavior starts getting worse, and soon it gets to the point where I'm not able to take her out with me anymore. I told ex-MIL probably a thousand times to stop and let me train my dog, but she didn't care. Before long, both dogs were tearing things apart, chasing animals, and not listening. My dog remained housetrained, but probably only because she was older. I couldn't keep up with the messes and the chores anymore. My ex did his best, but when his second, seasonal job was on (which was 9 months out of the year), he couldn't help me anymore. MIL would constantly fuss at me that I was lazy and the house was a mess. She had it in her head that just because I was home all day, I could clean all day. So, I said fuck it and started doing the daily chores, cleaning up my dog's mess, and leaving her dog's literal and figurative shit for her to deal with. Surprise surprise, she learned NOTHING and still yelled at me that the house was a wreck. Fine. I told my ex I wasn't doing jack shit for her anymore. I would wash our clothes, clean spaces we used (which was 4 rooms in the house total, including our private bathroom and bedroom), cook our food, and that was it. He supported the decision, but refused to defend me to his mother. A year later, I met a new friend group online who didn't live far away. They were shocked to hear what I was going through (with pictures), and offered me a place to stay. My ex and I had been together for 5 1/2 years, and he hadn't popped the question despite us going through a ridiculous amount of shit together. I still loved him, and didn't want to leave. He kept assuring me that he loved me and just wasn't ready, but things continued and got worse over the next 6 months. One night, I went to a party with my new friend group and had to stay overnight. He called me the next morning, and was really concerned that I had cheated on him at the party. I reminded him that he was invited and chose not to come. He had met these friends before, too. I told him we would talk when I got home. When I got home, I decided to confront him about everything. He told me he wasn't sure if he even wanted to EVER get married, but didn't want to tell me, because he knew it was dealbreaker for me. He told me he would never defend me to his mother, because he was scared of getting kicked out (she couldn't pay the bills without us, so that was never going to happen.) He cried, said he loved me and he didn't want me to leave, but I reminded him that if he STILL wasn't sure if he wanted to commit to me after 6 years, he couldn't love me that much. I called my friends, one of whom stayed with us for the 3 days that I packed, and they helped me move out. I suppose his concerns about my friends had some merit, as a few months later, I fell in love with one of them. He treats me so much better than my last ex (or any ex) ever did. Now, I live in a 40 year old camper in the mountains, have to drive 30 minutes to go grocery shopping, occasionally can't afford heat, and am still a million times happier than I ever was with him. My new fiance and I are getting married next year. My ex is still single. 💋
Congrats on your engagement! So happy for you! As a fellow disabled girl I really related to this, my ex was an animal hoarder. What started off as a small rescue/rehabilitate/rehome operation quickly turned into 40+ exotic animals that I had to care for. I would tell him no more animals and two days later 3 more would show up at the door. It got completely out of hand and on top of all of that him (and his kids) were total slobs. The apartment was always disgusting no matter how much work I put in. I would literally clean for hours on end until I physically couldn't move anymore. He never helped me with anything no matter how much I told him I needed help. Him and his kids wouldn't rinse off their dishes or even put food in the trash before putting dishes in the sink. The sink was always full of nasty rotting moldy dishes. I even bought a dishwasher but that was still too much work for him. His whole thing was that he would use every dish in the house then just throw them all away and buy new dishes. He never cared that I didn't feel appreciated or loved, he didn't care that I wasn't happy or satisfied in the relationship, all he ever wanted was a live in maid to take care of him like his mom did. He grew up with a really Christian mother who babied him and even in his 30s (her 70s) she still did everything for him. Some mothers really just set their sons up for failure.
GOOD FOR YOU BABE !!!❤❤❤❤
It seriously gets on my nerves how entitled people get when they have traditionally conventional job... They shit on people who do unconventional jobs like home-keeping , theatre manager , electrician , waste disposal contracter etc... Like these things you could not even function in daily life....
“Bitch got her bitch.” 😂
Also, congrats on finding a man who appreciates you!
Doesn't matter where you live as long as you're happy. Have you filed for social Security? You should be getting that. I hope you took your doggie with you because she would straighten up the minute that she left that house. God bless you most relationships 75% of them break apart after someone gets sick Don't worry about it. My husband and I we live as best friends luckily we were both going into our 50s when it happened my accident but it's sad to see what we lost because of my illness.
@@valiantsfelinesmccarty6678 I do get SSDI, but it's not enough to live on my own, because I was disabled young and had only worked 4 jobs. I unfortunately couldn't take my girl, because ex-MIL had pulled a sneaky and signed the paperwork while I was putting her leash and collar on at the rescue. They assumed I was her daughter and never said anything. Then, when she found out I was leaving, ex-MIL showed me the paperwork and said I couldn't take the dog, because she'd file for theft. And she knew a lot of police officers bc ex-FIL was a firefighter. I miss her dearly, but I couldn't afford legal fees to try to fight for her. But, I got a new boy, and he is doing very well. He's going to walk me down the aisle in a few days!! ❤ We've since moved into a 3-bedroom house in a nice town, and we only have to go a block to get groceries! 😆
YES can totally relate on the pick me girl. I just HATED other woman as a teen, and thought I was so "edgy" for those opinions. I'll never forget the day that a cheerleader struck up a convo with me and I remember realizing "oh wow this is just a normal human. I'm the jerk here." Insicurities are a hell of a ride LOL
Yes, I hated all of the popular girls as a teen. I now realize that I was just jealous and I admit it. Some of them were awful people, but most of them were actually really nice girls and never bullied anyone.
We can ALL relate !! ☺️
I struggle to put the blame on the individual girls, especially girls who aren’t even adults yet, because we live in a society where women’s looks are so valued that of course we’re gonna act like that. When you’re told your looks and body are what make you valuable and there’s nothing else to fall back on, you’re gonna hate the people who have that naturally (especially when it’s something you can’t even change). If girls weren’t constantly judged, ranked, compared to each other, bullied, etc. I really don’t think we’d act this way toward each other as much. Society sucks. Lol it’s still bad behavior - I’m not discrediting that. But the media has made young people believe that their “rank” in high school is the most important thing in the world and then you get into your 20s and you just question everything you believed as a kid. I firmly believe that if we all went back to high school with the maturity of our 20s, every girl in the school would be friends or at the very least, kind to each other (minus the couple of outliers who peaked in high school and don’t have any desire to grow out of that mindset lol).
@@cc1526 YES! Once we’re adults nobody cares about what people looked like in HS. You’re right movies and tv made it looked so much more important than it really is.
LOL IM HER!!! thank u for being kind im so glad we can all growwww lolol
I've been married 20years in 48hrs, not cheating is literally the easiest thing to do.
Happy anniversary.
I aspire to this 🥰🥰 congratulations
Almost 35 for me and yes not cheating is super easy.
13 years come September and literally the easiest
@@Fiona2254 idk why people find it hard, we've had our ups and downs, nowhere was it 50/50 we've had arguments ands let downs... But we've had so much more good memories and good ups that the bad don't seem so bad... 30+ years THATS an inspiration
As a person who always had a best friend who was a guy, unless he was gay, I ALWAYS worked to make sure that the girlfriend was absolutely comfortable with the friendship between her boyfriend and myself. Always. I would talk to my guy friend about it, too…sometimes chiding him for being less than supportive of his girlfriend’s feeling about our relationship as friends, and nothing more. I learned the importance of doing this when I was a young adult because I lost my best friend to his girlfriend who did not understand our relationship and felt threatened by me. It was awful. I was absolutely uninterested in that friend of mine romantically. But she did not believe me when I told her that when she confronted me…this was my friend’s first long term girlfriend, so I lost him as a friend. Hard lesson. Never had a repeat of that.
When the girl was talking about her nonexistent beef with the popular girls in high school and said “pretentious,” it reminded me of something my little sister said yesterday, “I recently realized most people don’t actually know what pretentious means. It means pretending to be smart, and I’m not pretending, so I’m not pretentious.” She has self esteem issues so it was a good moment
I had a "friend" whose ancestor was Wyatt Earp who was SO competitive. She ONLY went after men who belonged to someone else. (LOL..boy did I dodge a bullet there) After she had gone thru all her friends she took her last and very married friend's husband. Soon after he went blind and she had to be his nurse forever. And she was not a nurse kinda of person.
Whores gonna be whores 🤪
@@2007animegirl Her name was Roxanne and it was when that Sting song was popular.
Wow what a story!
@@CharlotteDobre I'm old enough now that I see the wisdom in "What goes around comes around". Her F**king my BabyDaddy saved me alot of wasted time. Raised my son alone and he turned out great. A very nice man, who would have been a jerk otherwise. So it's all good. :)
@@CharlotteDobre Congratulations on your show. :) You go Gurl! Make us Proud!
I complained to my bf that I felt like I did most of the housework meanwhile we both work full-time and he understood, apologized and now continuously tells me how much he appreciates me. I still do alot but mostly because of my high standards but I'm happy doing it when he appreciates me. I don't understand why some men can't just say thank you every once in a while
Not housework, but I feel you. Employment is the same, I go WAY out of my way to do a good job and save them issues and instead of appreciation, I get 💩 on for various reasons. It sure takes the wind out of your sails, heck, after decades of that professionally, getting cheated on by my (now ex) wife, dumped by so many women that turned out to be gold diggers (they wouldn't know gold if a truckload fell on them), I'm pretty sure I have PTSD now.
@@patrickbuick5459: A lot of employers seem to do that. You go the extra mile for them, so they seem to want you to go several more miles beyond. It's frustrating.
THIS!!! I told my boyfriend I was having a hard time working and doing housework, especially when I felt like it was all falling on me. He asked me what I hated the most, and now he does all of the laundry💕
@@mattbecham597 I hate laundry and so I taught my husband how to do it. If he’s unsure he just comes and asks me. He’s not ruined a bra yet 😂
@@mattbecham597 men aren't useless they can do laundry just fine or learn
I really appreciate the honesty, self awareness, and character growth in the blonde girl at 14:09. She’s got some real strength and inner beauty to be able to admit these faults- and then some real outer beauty too! Press on, queen! ✨
The "bagging a cheater" story reminded me of something that happened a couple of years, not to me but I was in the cafe where a similar situation went down. (sorry in advance this is kinda long)
So, my Mum and I were having brunch in a small cafe, when a guy and obviously very pregnant girl walked in. And almost as soon as they did they were being given evil eye by the waitress behind the counter. When they were looking over a menu, she was furiously texting on her phone and trying to "subtle" pictures of the two.
Once the two had decided what they wanted, they went up to counter and started to try placing their order when the waitress, very loudly for the whole cafe to hear, said "Aren't you, like, Christy boyfriend?"
The guy looked kind of taken aback (the waitress's tone was very unfriendly) and replied 'Yeah, I am." which in turn caused the waitress to pause but only for a moment before she absolutely unloaded on him, shouting that he was a cheater, that the girl beside him was a slut and that she (the waitress) had already told Christy and she was on her way down to confront him for cheating.
The guy kind just froze, while the pregnant girl, once the waitress had stopped to take a breath, calmly said, "I'm his sister."
Which I would have thought should have been the end of it - the two of them definitely looked like they could be siblings, but not according to the waitress because she just started going off again, calling them filthy cheating liars, filming all the while on her phone.
The manager of the cafe, who was also the cook, had come out by this time, looking horrified by what was going down and trying desperately to get the waitress to go outside and take a break to calm down, but the waitress absolutely refused, and just continue to shout abuse, to which the pregnant girl rolled her eyes and made to leave, only for the waitress reach across the counter and GRABBED THE PREGNANT GIRL'S ARM(!)
Luckily it was almost just as this happened, the mother of the guy and pregnant girl (I'm assuming she was meeting them?) and the guy's girlfriend, walked in the cafe. The girlfriend looked like she was on a warpath and the mother was looking rather shook, until she saw what was happening and she turned into mama bear and demanded that the waitress let go of her daughter.
I think this is when the waitress finally realised she had seriously fucked up, and she let go of the pregnant sister and all of them left the cafe, where once outside, everyone in the cafe could hear quite a bit of shouting going on.
Mum and I have not been back to that cafe since.
Wow. Just wow.
It’s always important to get the full story. Not like they were going anywhere. She could’ve held off a little.
Don't punish the owner of the cafe for the attitude of the waitress She probably doesn't work here anymore. Or she will always be very meek and very kind to everyone because she now knows she jumped to a very horrible conclusion.
I'm definitely not the drama, but I'll gladly watch Charlotte react to the drama. 😂😂😂
Me thinking that if Charlotte or Mike would ever cheat, this whole crew here would come for them and take revenge 🤣🤣🤣
Lmaooo Mike’s watching these videos taking notes on what not to do 😭😭
@@rachelfondeur yes 🤣🤣
"You look like a goofy." is my new favourite saying lmao.
so many props to the girl who took accountability for her bad behavior and attitude and grew from her experience, love it so much!
My dislike for the popular girls stemmed from the fact that they treated me as lesser and got away with bad behavior and never got in trouble for bullying. They formed cliques and deny that they are excluding others. I asked a girl if I could sit with her at lunch to prove she is friends with everyone and she ghosted me.
Rude. And yeah my popular girls were similar in my elementary. High school was better. There was minimal bullying.
My ex was working with a lot of the popular girls from my highschool (I don’t know why but they all became nurses or dental assistant, as if it’s the only 2 jobs available). He spent 4 years trying to convince me they were nice but I couldn’t talk to them. I don’t believe people can change that much. It wasn’t all of them however, some of them were really nice with everyone even in HS.
My bestie got into the popular girl group and wouldn't let me swim. So my oblivious ass just went and cannon balled by myself😁
@@cheeling794 that’s a power move
@@erikarussell1142 lol thanks I was like 10. Wish I could have kept the same energy aside got older😭🤣
Hey Charlotte! Whenever you sing "it costs that much because it takes me f-ing hours" I can't help but sing along with you. I have been well trained.
That is what I do too. 😂
11:09
The blonde girl tried to gaslight the fuck out of the other girl
When it comes to someone thinking you are their personal maid , it's usually their mom's fault 🤣🤣
OMG FACTS
Things like this is why my husband and I had several conversations about what is ok and not ok when we first started dating. Alot of this could be avoided. Just talk to the people you plan on sleeping with. And if you don't feel confident in having those chats( in person) maybe you are not ready or mature enough to be in a real relationship. Also if your partner gets mad when you try to have these conversations... run !
I love that you added “itchy” to the STD-cheater!
Awesome, I agree! (but can you please find out what'dustu,' means before using it again?t
@@heidikickhouse- ?
As for the part about being young and hating other girls, specifically younger, prettier, and skinnier ones.... I was sooooo guilty of it. I'm 32 now and know so much more about myself now and realize I was wayyyy in the wrong. But I was in a relationship with a guy for about 2 years up until 2010. I made things sooo stressful for him, and I still feel terrible about it. It wasn't even just the girls around us. My main anxiety was every time we walked through the mall and passed the giant Victoria's Secret wall with all the thin, big-boobed models in bras and panties. I couldn't help it. It made me so self-conscious that I would blow up on him after we left about looking at them, so much to the point that he would do everything he could to look the other way or stare at the floor when we would pass that store. Ugh, I hate so much that I used to be like that. Since then, I have been diagnosed with Bipolar 2 Disorder, OCD, ADHD, and I have pretty severe anxiety. I'm currently medicated for all of the above and am overall doing MUCH better. I've been with the same man for over 9 years now, and we get along great. We even "look" together, as that was another issue in myself that I needed to confront: I love women too! 😅 So much that I cheated on the guy from 13 years ago with a woman, like a total hypocritical moron. That was what ultimately broke us up. As terrible as I feel though, I don't regret it. Because I'm pretty sure it wasn't long after that he met his now wife, and they are SO happy. He was a great guy to me, more than I deserved at the time, and he deserves to be happy. Greg, if you're somehow seeing this, I'm still so incredibly sorry for everything I ever put you through, and I'm SO happy for you that you are in a much happier and healthier relationship with an amazing woman. You truly deserve it! 😊
Good for you , your S/O and your ex for getting life sorted and figured out ❤❤❤
I feel like if she really didn't have anything to worry about and was just being insecure, the "friend" would either be laughing because of how ridiculous it was or she'd be annoyed. The smirk with the repeated insistence that she's “not secure about your relationship" definitely gives me a vibe that she's not wrong to be confronting her
"Hey, everybody!!!"
Me: 👋👋
...as if Charlotte could actually see me waving, lol 😆
I thought I was the only one 😂
She saw your wave hun
I wave say Hello ,Goodbye 😁✌️😎🌺
@@autumnleaves4879 not gonna lie, waking up to her actually seeing my comment is pretty awesome!
Insecurities don't include when someone's purposely over stepping.
A true friend always shows their friends partners respect. At least until they loose it.
My husband is wonderful and helpful and absolutely contributes to the household chores and child-raising. I still go one a mini-holiday once a year, usually just a few days, and guaranteed he calls me on the second day and profusely gushes about how much I do around the house and how much he appreciates what I do for the family and household. He occasionally goes on little trips himself and I end up doing a similar thing 😂
Yeah, that girlfriend and boyfriends friend situation is like Schrodinger’s responsibility - whether or not who is in the right is completely dependent on what that friend was sending him
I just wanted to say thank you for your videos. They literally are helping me through some not so good times now.
Everything is temporary! Even the bad times! Chin up!
Everything will be better honey 💓 I've been there and I survived so can you too
Alway try to remember that what’s happening now won’t be happening forever. Life moves on and changes. Find someone to talk to, who will listen to you and not judge. This too shall pass and you will look back on it one day and think, yeah it wasn’t the end of the world ❤
Girl same. And when I have really bad anxiety I use Charlotte's videos to get me out of my head and calm down
This too shall pass, gorge.❤ Hang in there.🌷
I like how Charlotte gives solid advice/information that some people just aren't getting anywhere else. Sometimes we need to be reminded.
I wish we could have seen part 2 of the cat fishing story😂
I've been with my husband for almost 30 years... I do 99% of the "chores" because I'm crazy and prefer to just do it myself, and he and my son know it. They ALSO know not to SAY A FRIEKING WORD about what I don't get done!! 🤣🤣🤣
Tbh I feel this. We’ve been together 8 years. I do most of the cooking(my hobby) and chores because I am pretty OCD with how I like things done/put away. He takes care of the cars/garage, vacuuming and helps me with the dishes though. He knows I like my space and alone time while I’m cleaning or doing laundry lol he’ll walk in the house and be like ah you’re in the groove nvm and go back out into the garage to work on his projects until I’m done.
I love how the girl is trying to break in using a shovel, and the glass on the sliding door was NOT in the mood for this shit and didn't even crack. Either that's strong glass, or she's weak af. Also, I love her logic, "you're a shitty friend so I am going to commit a crime while you record evidence."
yeah, really, even if somebody is a shitty friend they should call the cops for that break in attempt 👮
The friend might be shitty, but that girl is an idiot!
Maybe they’re hurricane windows which are made to have things hit them without breaking as easily. 😆
She sounds drunk af
Looks like they are storm windows 😂 also she's hitting it with the flat end, to do anything she needs to try the edge.
As a sibling myself, can confirm: sis knew EXACTLY what she was doing 😏 it doesn’t matter if we get along-it matters that the rest of the world understands you mess with mine, I mess with you 😈
That’s so great to hear about the girl who was being honest about being mean when she was younger but recognized and moved on to be better
It takes a lot to admit what you did wrong and shows your character when you admit you were wrong.
Love that closing remark:
"Let's put the shovel down and pick the broom up cuz that was some messy drama." 😃
“When we know better, we do better.” Maya Angelo. Words to live by.
Exactly why I stay away from social media. Friendships get messy.
What pissed me off the most when my ex cheated on me, was how he insulted my intelligence. The betrayal angered me, of course but him being so obvious about it and calling me crazy, and I'm imagining things, was the worst.
10:18 Charlotte just you laughing and circling on your desk chair made my day. 😂
I remember reading an article that sad women are most (statistically) sad about breakups right when it happens while men tend to become more depressed as time goes on. I never understood why until I saw all the videos about women complaining about having to take care of their husbands laundry, dishes, housework etc and I was like oohhh
“Can you just get your hair out of your face and then continue?!?!” Lol I was screaming that in my head the moment you said it
All the love to you Char. Cant wait to see the pilot x
I learned something today-never heard of a pick me girl before. Entertaining and educational at the same time! You rock Charlotte! 😉😉😉
I first heard of "pick-me girls" on this channel too! I'm glad this particular one learned from her behavior and matured.
I can't relate, as I was always homely so I didn't even try to compete with the popular girls. I had good friends who liked me for myself. I was very into sewing and designing my own clothes, so I didn't dress like anyone else my schoolmates knew in 1977 (except maybe David Bowie, I love Ziggy Stardust!).
My friends were the "freaks" and the "nerds", and I loved them. When I was a Junior in HS, unbeknownst to me, my "freak" friends started a campaign to elect me Homecoming Queen. I came in 3rd place! I still think that's hilarious, and I love them even if it was meant as a joke to annoy the "socials" and "jocks".
Well now l feel young and hip for knowing that lol, but l have teen kids.....so they be guiding me through this on line minefield 😆
@@irishcountrygirl78 I learned from my kids too when they were teens! They are now 37 and 40 though lol.
The evil laugh swing made my shadow self giggle along!! 😅
Thankfully the two friends fighting over "suspicious snaps" at 10:30 was all faked,
I won't lie, I got so heated I ran to their page for a part two or background story and the girl who recorded made a video right after it saying that it was fake and showed the behind the scenes afterwards 💜
OOHHHHH this video was so juicy the tea overflowed! Love not being in drama but living vicariously through other peoples drama 😄
hi charlotte..just want to say thank you for your uploads, it gives me a smile and getting me through these times that im really really sick within the past few days...its like you are a friend talking to me as i get better...hopefully...take care always ☺️
get well soon ❤
You are so welcome! Get well soon!
@@CharlotteDobre thank you so so much! ☺️☺️
the cleaning one is so true because everytime whenever a guest arrives to my house, they always compliment how clean and neat the house is. In my home, ever since i was young, we each had our own role to the house. I took care of the cleaning the house all 3 stories. My aunt took care of laundery and ironing. My mom cook and my dad fixes everything in the house. We all run family business that i took over during covid. Yes, sharing household chore is the most important.
6:39 that girl was like “oh you’re making a coffin? I have some nails you can use!” FREAKING HOMEWRECKER!
That girl telling about her behaviour in school was so good!!!
I loved it❤️
She’s so brave to tell it out ❤️
omg hey its me THANK UUUU for being forgiving
@@maryaliceroach I really respect your video❤️
It takes lot of b@lls to tell these things❤️
@@hannavuorio83 thank you so much
11:47 Children. This is what gaslighting looks like. Just be aware. Anyone who’s your true friend will show you her messages to your man. End of discussion.
“Bagging a cheater is not a flex. That’s embarrassing. You’re embarrassing”. TRUTH!!!!
Charlotte’s energy in this video is just what i need🤣🤣👏🏼👏🏼 thank for providing us our daily dose of Vitamin C✨
Love u💗
I was an office assistant in highschool as well, it was the best. For over a month my job was to drive a golf cart around the parking lot(so like unpaid, underage security?) and I loved it. I also loved walking down the halls to get the requested people out of class for whatever reason. It was better than having actual class.🤷♀️
I think it's fine to share whatever pictures you want with whoever you want but you aren't being a great friend if your intentionally doing something that makes their partner uncomfortable. If they are super insecure you should be trying to help them feel comfortable or taking it up with your friend and separating yourself from that relationship drama to let them figure it out between them.
Me, married for 28 years, couldn't handle the crap anymore, moved on.
First two things he said - "I didn't realise how much you did around here" and "I miss your cooking"
Not "I miss you" or anything like that. Nope, just the things I did.
my phone is frozen at 0:11 & charlottes face is creepin me out tbh😂
My husband and I would start a weekly our full cleaning of the house early on Saturday. He liked to shop and would say he was just running out to pick up some things. I would be in my zone and do the floors, the bathrooms, the kitchen etc. And come about 4 or 5 o'clock he would come home. It took me a really long time to catch on. Great guy and a wonderful cook. I wised up and called him on it and told him when he leaves, I stop and will watch TV instead. He did point out it was great while it lasted.
@lydias2012😳😳😳
Lol what an ornery ass.
@@MADEbySOUL No my bad in explaining, we were together for 30 years until he passed. He was sheepish about tricking me. That is what he meant by it was great while it lasted. He stepped up after that and even went above and beyond. He was just a sneaky for a period. I always thought he would meet his friends at the store by accident not realising he would would go to the store and then swing by to visit when he talked about seeing them.
I read messy and I clicked sooo fast 😂
I’m getting too old to deal with such drama in my own life (I’ll be 50 in 2 months), but boy do I love hearing about it! 😂
Absolutely freaking adorable is: When Charlotte laughs hysterically at herself after she thinks she made a cute or funny remark.
14:30, i respect the growth as a person
Charlotte, Every time you say "Holy canolli " I get a craving and have to buy one. You now have cost me about $30 😄
2:24 if she's a stayvat home mother/wife then that is her job
100%
Okay y’all but at 10:30 in the video, the freaking side eye picture/painting up on the wall got me!! Fits the video vibe so well
Hearing you laugh Potato Queen, we are here for it! And what about that spinning on your chair, Chef’s Kiss!💖
Hey Charlotte!!
Thank you so much for laughs, the pettiness and fun! I love your videos! You crack me up! And you give me lots and lots of inspiration 😜 😉!
Hope you’re enjoying your break.
10:47 idk if the blonde girl is sending stuff or not, but the minute the girlfriend has to confront another girl for crossing a line, I'd be out of that relationship. the gf should be communicating her boundaries and the bf should be saying 'hey please dont send me xyz, i'm in a relationship'. no more women blaming women for their partner's infidelity in 2023, please! same thing with your friend and the close friends/thirst trap thing--your friend's partner should have removed himself!
That’s my thought, too - whenever I hear things like “I know what you did” or “I know what you said to him” I’m like “such as? Give details, or I’mma assume you’re just full of shit and seeing things as shady when they’re not even there.”
My bestie introduced me to your channel and I'm so glad he did! I watch your vids while I'm eating dinner, best part of my day imo thank you for all your great content, love your personality!💜👌
Its my bed time rituals watching your videos everyday, i rarely comments on your videos, want to thank you Charlotte for your hard work. Lots of love from India 🇮🇳 ❤️🤗❤️
My bedtime ritual as well. The best time of the day
Messy tiktok is here and the first one already got me shocked
Underapreciated. I was that man at one time. The wife asked for help often. She said her work didn't end when I got home, why does mine? I respond, your work doesn't stop? Like sitting around watching TV all day? That weekend, she said I'm going to my mom's for the weekend. The kid is yours, and I expect the house to look like it does when you get home from work when I get home. It did not, and I started making a lot more of an effort. That was approximately 20+ years ago. We are still married.
I went and made a cuppa ☕️! Enjoyed every second of this video! Thanks girl!
Thank you for doing what you do. Always brings me a laugh. ❤️
7:00
"Bagging a cheater is not a flex..."
Studies show that if a relationship starts as an affair, it will have a 85% chance of failing within the FIRST YEAR!!!! ... If they are willing to cheat WITH you, they're willing to cheat ON you....
My husband has only once pulled the you don't do anything card. So i sat on my butt for 2 weeks and didn't cook clean or do laundry. Yeah never said that crap again and actually started helping out.
😂😂😂 at 1:07 I was like "😂😂😂 1,2,3 April fools he got an in June he got married
The girlfriend arguing with the girl about crossing boundaries with her boyfriend - there's something about the friend's smugness and the friend saying, "I know the things you send him" that tells me this isn't about her insecurities - this "friend" is intentionally stirring the pot by sending flirtatious messages or photos, inappropriate snapchats etc. My guess is the "friend" has been "friendzoned" for years and does this with all his girlfriends.
I’ve had friends like that friend ick
Yeah. That "friend" is totally gaslighting her and everything.
Like, "you should be fine if I message your boyfriend."
Damn... next thing you know she is going to say "you should be thanking me for trying to steal him away. I'm just testing him for you. "
I have been watching you for about a year now and you are fantastic. The facial expression and just what comes out of your mouth is gold. I look forward to the daily upload and sometimes wait for it to come up before i go to sleep. It is 4am now. I am in Australia. Love the messy tiktok drama, the petty revenge/drama, the cheaters being caught, influences, the Karen's and entitle people. YOU ROCK and deserve greatness. Love watching the door and room decor change too. Plus hearing about naked man/ topless neighbour. I want a pic one day, LOL. Keep the laughs and belly holding coming. BTW I can't wait to see the pilot you have been working on. If it's anything like these clips you are going to be a roaring success. Thank you for helping keep me having more good days and feeling better about my own life.
that last one with the shovel, i had to play it over and over again because it looks like my younger sister, facial expressions and hand movements like my sister, and seeing as my sister once attacked me with a hair dryer that was still on, it wouldn't be a stretch to think my sister would do that with a shovel. But I've concluded its not my sister...but there is quite a resemblance.
I need the reaction to that catfishing one!! Follow-up video!
That girl that talked about being a pick me I can relate sooooo much I feel like movies and tv shows back then made girls feel like being popular meant you were a terrible person and being the “normal girl” made you unique. I was also insecure and I would have the same comments and it wasn’t until I got to senior year that I made friends with a lot of those girls and I really admire women like that who can be both beautiful and smart. I also found out I’m bisexual so there was some internalized homophobia there too 😩 I wanted to be them and be with them lmaooooo
Guuurrrl same shit 🗿💀💀💀💀
Wow crazy story but good for you for recognizing your mistakes and owning up to them!
hey! pick me girl here! so glad you can relate omg that time was soooo hard for so many people and i def didnt handle it the right way but really appreciate people who can be forgiving
Oh this made my day. There's nothing better than drama that's not mine 😂 Thanks Charlotte
I love when Charlotte says, “HOW ARE YOU NOT EMBARRASSED?”
FYI: CHARLOTTE have you noticed you have hit 1.5 Milions subs already in such a short space of time since hitting 1 Million and now only got half a Million to hit 2 Million subs. Well done 👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻. Love From Scotland xxxx 🏴
(Not long ago since you hit 1M and now your on the road to 2M and only half a M to go and cause the amount off time it has too, to reach 1.5M its for sure not going to long at all to reach 2M )