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Hey guys, it's Charlotte Dobre here, and I have some serious TikTok drama to share with you all!
We all know that social media is a breeding ground for drama, and the latest beef involves two best friends who have taken the TikTok world by storm. That's right, I'm talking about the duo who were once inseparable - but now things have taken a nasty turn.
Apparently, there's been some serious drama between the two friends, with rumors swirling about betrayal, jealousy, and backstabbing. Fans have been speculating about what could have possibly caused the rift between the two, and emotions are running high.
To make matters even more dramatic, the two besties have been throwing shade at each other on TikTok, with subtle digs and cryptic messages that have fans wondering if they'll ever reconcile.
So, what's the deal with this once-unbreakable friendship? Will they ever be able to patch things up and get back to making amazing TikTok content together? Or is this the end of the road for these social media BFFs?
You're not going to want to miss this video, so be sure to hit that subscribe button and turn on notifications. I'll be keeping you up to date on all the latest drama, and trust me - you won't want to miss a thing!
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When I was 16, my best friends boyfriend made a pass at me, and I IMMEDIATELY called to let her know, and I get blamed, shamed, and made to feel like total dirt. It took this woman like 20 years to get around to apologizing to me.
😢
@J LH true. My older sister’s fiancé hit on me, if you could call it that. It was more like a mild groping and an attempted kiss. I told right away. My sister flipped out, said I hit on him, I’m a liar, I’ve always had a crush on him. Sickest part is, they are 11 years older than me and I was only 15. I was horrified. Never ever been interested in someone older especially at that age, certainly not is turtle looking ass. Years later my husband’s best friend hit on me. I was terrified to tell him cause of what happened when I was younger. But I did and he ended the relationship with the guy immediately. Never told the guys wife though, I feel bad, but even my husband agrees she only name me.
So when you told her "bytch PHUCK you" what did she say? Because that's best response.😂😂😂
Your parents should of rang the police on him.
at that point you just told her to late for that shit, bye
I now have my husband and friends addicted to your channel. 😂 he comes home from work and is disappointed if I “watched charlotte without him. Yes we are adults in our 40’s. 😃 thank you over and over for giving us giggles every day!
😂😂😂❤
Yes! It's only a matter of time for my hubby. If I'm watching Charlotte while he's around, he'll always make a comment such as, Wow, she's CUTE! or That was funny! Only a matter of time before the Queen of Petty takes over the world and I'm here for it!
@@lizardog absolutely here for it!
same here!!! my bf loves your videos and it gives him a perspective on how girls really truly act.
Love it!! 🎉❤
I had a friend in high school who happened to be stunningly beautiful. I was a late bloomer. I had tons of guys and older men befriend me to get a date with her. What people didn't see were the many conversations my friend and I had about her low self-esteem from the way she was being objectified and hit on by creeps who could only see the surface. The lesson I got was that there will always be someone more intelligent, more charismatic, and prettier. And the way to rise above that is to be my best unique self, honor myself and honor our friendship. Not to get petty and punish others because they are shining right now.
Maaaan, this is so wholesome. You seem like an amazing friend 🥲
@noice buns Thanks! I don't know, sometimes I get it right and sometimes not.
You definitely sound like an amazingly dear friend!💜💕
I had a friend who used to cry to us about not getting boyfriends all the time like we did. We thought she was beautiful. She was curvy and tall. I remember having a conversation with her about how her being picky and careful saved her so much hurt. And not to change, because being chased didn't mean they cared. I'm glad she ended up with a good life. She deserves it.
My mom and dad always told me to never let anyone borrow anything from me. I didn’t understand. They said that personal items shouldn’t come between friends and family so if I let someone “borrow” I need to do it with the intent that I’m giving, and if the item is too precious that I’d be upset if something happened then don’t let anyone borrow it. I still do that to this day
That's the difference between insecure women and confident women: insecure women compete and confident women uplift. *Congratulations Charlotte on your CZcams award!!*
Eh, as a woman I can confidently say that girls uplift too. You never had a ride or die girlfriend growing up or in high school? Along with all the catty girls, there are some amazing girls out there too who care for and support each other.
@@kristenp1606 Honestly, it’s a matter of maturity. I’ve met young ladies that at ages 17-18 were over the catty behaviour while others were the same age and still partook in that childishness.
To be a woman you don't have to be older
It depends on your mindset. A 40yr old can be a girl too
@@Jazmine.x For all those who don't get the comment, it means maturity.
For all those who don't get the comment, it means maturity, not age definition.
Anybody not miss high school? Girl, I teach high school and have for decades. The drama is never ending. Can't tell you how many times I've listened to them angst-ing and crying over this stuff.
High school was torture for me. I liked most of my classes, had a few teachers I loved, but I was an awkward kid who didn't fit in with any cliques.
I dressed androgynously because I always hated dresses and uncomfortable shoes. That got me bullied by the popular girls who called me "lesbo". Truth was, I didn't like boys or girls, I was completely grossed out by sex and wanted no part of it. Many years later I found out that "asexual" is a perfectly normal place on the spectrum, I just wish I had found out sooner.
What saved me in high school was making friends with a sweet gay male friend who shared my love of the kind of music that wasn't popular yet in the 70s when we were in school in Texas. I first heard the "Talking Heads" at his house, and in 1978 he took me to a club to hear this new band I would love... it was DEVO, and he was right! We are still friends on Facebook all these years later. I wish I could hang out with him and his husband, but I moved 1500 miles away 22 years ago.
I'm a fan of a singer/songwriter named Mary Gauthier, and years ago I heard her on a public radio station singing her song called "Drag Queens and Limousines" that immediately got my attention. The first lines of the song are:
"I hated high school, I prayed it would end
The jocks and their girls, it was their world, I didn't fit in..."
The whole song is about finding friends and acceptance in unexpected places, and learning not to give a crap about the bullies, and owing NO ONE an explanation for being true to oneself.
Is it bad that I would find their little problems so entertaining??
I taught higher elementary, I wouldn't be able to handle the drama
I was a good student, in good with most of the teachers and admin staff, and so socially awkward. I hated all the drama and nonsense. However, I realized I only had to deal with it for 4 years and then I was gone. I left at 18 and never went back. It's been over 40 years, and I still haven't seen any of them, and have no interest.
I couldn’t do it. Nope. I would just be like “I know this SEEMS significant right now, but trust it isn’t… and no one CAAARREEESSS.” And then I’d be fired and have to work with teenagers who are in management for some reason… then I’d slap a coworker and go to jail. I’m seriously thinking, my son will be 17, my daughter 16… so I’m going to rent an air bnb for me and they can just teenage with out me hahah. Jk but…
Literally half of judge Judy cases are about people lending their cars to someone they thought they could trust and then they COMPLETELY wreck/scratch/don't take care of it. I wouldn't lend a car for more than a grocery trip ti my own siblings 😂
I learned never to lend cars to people. I had an old bomb that I lent to a work colleague. He locked the key in it so smashed the window to get in. I told him he had better get the window replaced but he refused saying the car was old anyway. Really wasn’t the point. The point was, if you borrow something, you return it in the same condition.
I had a 'friend' in high school who would get mad at me for getting better grades. One time we were taking a pop quiz in biology and she wanted me to show her my answers, so I did. We had a different answer for one question. When the results came, it turned out I was right so I got a B and she got a C+ or something like that. She was so angry with me for - get this - not *convincing* her to change her answer during the pop quiz. Bro what
It's been 10 years and I still remember it because it was so bizarre 😂
Same thing happened my junior year. Everyone in my year had to retake an EOC math test because of cheating (people who were supposed to fail ended up passing). She wanted my help, I said no and was told I was a fake friend. She failed both times and I passed both times (I got the highest score on the test 😊)
Imagine what her man has to go through……ppl liking to blame will stay blaming
@@carrinwesson9965 how is that the same... sounds more like you left your friend hanging, and for what? Would her passing make you fail? Never understood people like you
@@alisab4811 I left her hanging because I refused to help her cheat on a test that my entire grade had to retake because of cheating......that was her own fault. Sorry not sorry
@Carrin Wesson I'm not necessarily saying you were in the wrong, to each there own, but it's not nearly the same situation as her getting mad at you for doing better, she got mad at you for not letting her cheat (tho 'help her' were your words not cheat)
get you a bestie who will absolutely lift you up, who will compliment you, lift you up and raise your confidence... but also who knows when to say "no" and when to tell you you don't look good or when you're being an asshole. knowing when to tell someone the truth is also important in a friendship. they're not your parents but a reminder every now and then is a good thing!
100%, I was just going to say that
YYYEEEESSSS !!!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤
I feel like putting each other down is almost in our nature. Look at all those IG fitness models who sit slumped over to shoe rolls they really don’t have and position their thigh in a way to show the tiniest cellulite. They get so many posts like “OMG you made me feel so good about myself.” “Thank you! I needed this today” it’s so sick. There are exceptions, but generally speaking, girls and women hate to see someone they perceive as better.
@@vsand9798 No we generally don't? Yeah jealousy is a natural thing sometimes but saying that putting each other down is in our nature is very weird when it's really not. And just because someone thinks someone is better than them, doesn't mean they automatically would hate them.
I also strive to lift my ladies up and am happy for them if they do well...even better than me. However, I was not raised that way. My mother tried to teach us to be competitive and to "beat" other gals, even our friends.
My mom got annoyed with me one time because I "intentionally" let my friend beat me in a stupid 5K. My friend was just starting out running, so toward the end, I held back to run with her and provide her some encouragement. All of a sudden, she started sprinting to the finish line. I slowed down so she can hear me yell: "get it girl, you got this!!"
I was so proud of her. My mother: "why did you let her beat you??" Me: rolls eyes and walks away. I don't get it.
When I was in school I was so fed up with all the drama and kept out of it. Once I was in between two classmates fighting and they both turned to me asking who is right and I point blank told them I don't care who is right, they both act stupid and to keep me out of it as it has nothing to do with me. This attitude saved me later when my ex-best friend spread lies about me and tried to turn the class against me. They knew I was a no nonsense person and don't spread lies or insults about others so it backfired and everyone turned on her. Even when I transferred out in tenth grade I heard she had not a lot of friends left. Her own fault and I still don't know why she did that because when I asked she just said "you know what you did" girl 😂 I wouldn't ask if I knew 🤦♀️🤷♀️
I'd be so worried the girl with the car's friend didn't actually lose the key but either kept it or gave it to someone else and didn't want her to know.
I was thinking the same exact thing 😮😮
My 50 year high school anniversary was last year. I still remember graduation day going into the girl’s room and a bunch of drama queens were in there crying. One of them asked why I wasn’t crying as it was our last day. I laughed and said that I wasn’t crying because I was so happy to get the hell outa there. No I don’t miss high school crap.
Amen! I was bullied all through school by nearly everyone, every day, so I was like "Hallelujah! I'm finally free!" Next year will be 30 years since I graduated, and I've never been to a reunion.
Amen to that! I was bullied all throughout my scholarity, safe to say I was EXTATIC when I graduated 😂
I thought I was weird for feeling the same way I was happy to be out of there
Yeah, it's a tragedy when one realizes they peaked at 17 and one realizes they will immediately depreciate upon walking out the school front doors.
I hated high school! We moved so often that I went to 4 high schools in 3 years. It was horrible! I can’t name one person I went to high school with, except my sister, and I’ve never been to a reunion either!
Someone once told me that "you are the greatest hypewoman" and I have never felt prouder and happier at a compliment. All my friends really are so uplifting and I aspire to be anything like them. Get yourself friends like these!
Sounds to me like your friends are lucky to have you :)
That is for sure the best compliment you can get.
Queen shit ❤️
100 percent relate. That is honestly something I was told and I have tried to live up to ever since :)
I've had a few toxic friendships throughout my younger years.
I had friends basically disown me and start bitching about me because I made other friends and decided to sit with them for part of my lunch break one day. The tables were literally a few feet from one another, and our whole grade would typically go between tables anyway, but for whatever reason, this pissed them off enough to scratch mean stuff about me into a table 🫤
I also had a "best friend" just decide one day that her and her ADULT sister would aggressively bully me when I was over at her house. I ended up calling my older sister (also a teenager) to come get me. She rode her bike to my "friends" house, grabbed me, told them to go eff themselves and never to speak to me again, then rode home with me while I cried the whole time. I love my sister so much 🥰
The AMOUNT of women in this comment section saying that THEY were getting blamed when they were being hit on by their, friends, sisters, etc significant others and they did NOT want to be HIT on by their friends significant others is ASTOUNDING!! Y’all deserve BETTER!!
The scream I would have scrumpt if that roommate situation happened with me.
scrumpt
Scrumpt. 🤣🤣🤣
Nice reference for previous video!!! Gang assemble!!!
@@monedameow yupp from the queen herself lol I'm glad you recognized it.
Disclaimer not my thing from a girl on FB then Charlotte maybe Charlotte first idk
I love how Charlotte understands the balance of lifting each other up and the fact that humans have a need to gossip
Yes the gossip is the let the lizard brain do its thing before the Lifting Each Other Up part where we must say smart things and put our emotions/opinions aside for the well being of the concerned person. It is very scientific of us to enjoy gossip
I love that she’s a self proclaimed comedian, yet misses about 25% of the jokes or meaning. 😂. Adorably frustrating
Charlotte is the type of friend we all need ❤
Ah yes. Such a delicate balance that this woman does very well ❤❤❤
I had a "friend" in high school who used to start toxic drama with the whole friend group we were in it was ridiculous. She turned all our friends against me by spreading lies about how i was trying to steal a boy from the one girl in our group (i wasn't. I was encouraging them both to admit their feelings to each other because they were both too scared to start dating), this cost me a best friend of 9 years because the girl i was supposedly stealing from was her sister. Then another boy in the group liked me and when i started to contemplate the idea of giving him a shot she suddenly decided she liked him despite having an on again off again "soulmate", and when he asked me out i asked her if me dating him would bother her. I specifically told her i would decline his request to be his gf if it was gonna bug her. She said no go ahead hes been chasing you for months. The second i told him yes she texted me screaming about how i betrayed her and how could i do this to her when i knew she just started to like him. Then a month later when i broke up with him (just days after she came crawling back "apologizing" and had encouraged me to break up with him cus i was voicing that i wasnt sure it was working out) she started dating him literally the next day. Not even 24 hours had passed between me breaking it off and her getting with him. They dated for 3 months then she broke up with him to get back together with her "soulmate". I stopped being friends with her obviously.
omg what a crazy story🤯
I’m sorry you had her as a ‘friend’. She sounds horrible. I hope you found better ones ❤
Sounds like those two were made for each other honestly. Glad you dumped him, cause if he could move on that fast then he was just pure trash imo.
I went through something similar. I was friends with a girl in high school. She loved drama and being the center of attention, and had dated this guy I was into. Well, they broke up and she started fights between this guy and his best friend over her so she could have more attention. The guy I liked finally took some interest in me, just as a friend at first. Before I even entertained the idea if him and I hanging out without her, I triple checked she was okay with us hanging out and the potential for it to lead to something more, I later found out he did the same. She gave both of us her blessing and we eventually started dating. The second she found out, she blew up on the guy, said she felt betrayed and got herself put on psychiatric watch because I caused her to attempt to take her own life. She then tried to tell me he r-worded her (news flash, he didn't) he and I proceeded to cut contact and we were together for 4 years. She cost me my soul mate of a best friend, T. T was dating this girl's brother so of course she took her future sil's side. Lesson learned, some people suck, but you gotta dig through the trash to find the gold
I met this girl after I moved to my parents' home country during the first year of high school. I considered her my best friend and I thought I was hers too. Until one time when I was at her house hanging out, her mum and her started talking shit about me right in front of me in their language. They thought I didn't know the language. They had no clue I understood every word, I just wasn't comfortable speaking the language so I never did and everyone in school assumed I didn't either and that I was a foreigner. After that, I realised she'd talk badly about me to our classmates, she seemed to think she was above me. It was like she was in a very one sided competition with me.
I moved away at the start of the second year due to family reasons. I cut off all contact with her and any of that friend group. Its been like 15+ years since then and I still have major insecurities thanks to her. I still struggle with trust issues.
Damn. I’m sorry that happened! That’s so messed up. I hope you have some much better friends now
I feel really sorry for you
If they speak crap about me in another language i would have said
Bitch i understand you
Aww man, I feel you 😢
People like that are trash, seriously...
Congratulations Charlotte! You so deserve it ❤ Since your editor requested we roast you: If you get a sunburn while smoking does that make you a twice baked potato? 🥔😄❤️
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Nice
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The Virgo energy coming from Charlotte is making mine glow. I'm generous but don't like to share.
I had a close friend during the school. We were having a lot of fun together before one day she made a great scandal out of nowhere and broke our friendship on some imaginary reason telling me it's all my fault. I was heartbroken. Even considered if there was something wrong with me. Only later I've known that she just wanted to become friends with more popular girls and played this scene only for that purpose. I just wish to everyone not to meet that kind of cruel gaslighters 'cause in early age it's very hard not to blame yourself instead of the real bastard.
That happened to my daughter a few years ago. It was so sad
That's what happened to me, my best friend in highschool our senior year just stopped talking to me and never really told me why. I have tried to be their friend again over the years until I realized it wasn't worth it.
My bff in middle school called me the summer before 9th grade and said that she couldn't hang around me any more because she was gonna hang out with the popular people. Good riddance! Now? I'm much more successful than she is and I smile really big at her at our t's reunions.
I genuinely am insecure about myself, but when it comes to other people I’m the person who hypes others up because I know what it feels like to feel bad about yourself and I don’t want other people to feel the same way
My former “best friend” that I knew for over 10 years spent 8 years of our friendship making poor life choices I tried to talk her out of, but through it all I was there for her. Drove across states to help this woman AND her kids and more. I go through ONE year of an emotional rough patch where I had to do some major rethinking on life choices and rearrange myself and she has decided I was way too negative, told me she didn’t want to here bad news all the time and stuff 😒….k. Right when I got my life back on track she decides “I’m not getting better at the friendship” cuz I don’t have the same resources to come visit and go shopping. She never once tried to visit me. I just gave up and let her go. Never extending myself the way I did for her for ANYONE else that isn’t family again.
Holy cow, this sounds almost exactly like an ex-friend of mine and I.
I helped her move and get away from an abusive boyfriend. Helped her get a part-time job in the childcare center of my church. Listened to dating woes. Listened to her co-parenting woes with the father of her children (not the abusive ex). Helped and encouraged her when she decided to go back to school and so much more for 5 years. I was glad to do all of this. That’s what friends do for each other, or so I thought.
I start getting sick and having to go to many dr where they are unable to dx me. This obviously created anxiety. And she decides after 3 months of this, that I am an emotional drag and need to suck it up and deal with it because she “didn’t have time for all this.”
Sad that there are people out there like this, just sucking the life and goodness out of people for their own benefit, never to return the favor.
@@foxwoodjones9831 I’m so sorry. And yeah. It is sad
I had a toxic friendship that started in high school and lasted through college. We eventually had a falling out because she was always putting me down and saying nasty things about me. I found out later that she told someone that she was jealous of me, which was why she was alwasy nasty to me in public. Many years later she tried to "friend" me on Facebook...I wasn't having it. I don't need jealous and toxic people in my life. I would prefer to surround myself with people who actually like me.
My friend idmited the other day to her daughter. Why we weren’t friends. She goes cause mummy wasn’t very nice. Cause her daughter wanted to call me Aunty again like she use to. the first time I heard her admit anything even after she stole from my brother
Yes! This is the year I finally get to live free of jealous toxic people. I'm loving it 😁
@heywillow7064 that's effed up. Don't involve literal children in adult drama.
Oh yeh i’ve had all my high school bullies trying to friend me on FB 😂 hilarious that they think they have
a chance!
Anyone else still remember the lady in a Charlotte video about old people on the internet who left a place a 1-star review because she didn’t like yellow and didn’t want to see a bunch of yellow stars so instead stated it was a positive review, “I JUST REALLY HATE YELLOW” 😂 ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Haha I aspire to make everything about me when Im 80 years old!
That's hilarious!!! 😂😁🤣
Jealousy is a sickness ladies. 🤢🤢🤢
It honestly feels so good not having any friends involved in my personal life too much. I'm keeping everyone in the distance, and it's great. Well, granted, I have only one, close friend, and a couple others, that I wouldn't call friends as such, more like, we see each other at work every day and talk a lot to make the shift go buy faster, but they're nowhere near close. I don't really miss having someone to overshare, it's better to keep things for myself anyways. I still have my mom though, and she's the best friend I could ever have.
Huge congratulations on your new play button Charlotte, you absolutely deserve it and I am super proud of you hun.
Thank you so much!!
6:54 yup. my best friend (who is also my cousin) read my diary when we shared a dorm in college. she doesn't realize it, but at that moment, I put up a wall and drifted us slowly apart. She would bring up stuff she read it in and mock me about it, especially when she got drunk. It was the biggest betrayal and she has no idea how much it upset me, and she probably never will.
Next time she brings something up tell her. Oooh you know that from my diary right ?
That's why I never kept on writing into a diary anymore. My parents found it and read it and they've been blaming me for the traumas they gave me as a child.
Aside from the traumas, they gave me big trust issues.
@@L.-I. i never had an original experience.
@@ven7ce510
You're lucky then. Reading someone else's diary is such a grave breach of privacy. It's not only disrespectful, you lose trust in people and especially the betrayal of people close to you disregarding your trust is so traumatizing.
It was for me and that's why I have such big trust issues and cannot confide into people anymore.
@@L.-I. no, no I worded it wrong, I meant it as in "Everything that happened to me happened to someone else too" even the traumatic experiences.
I totally understand what you mean and I know the feeling of it all too well because my parents did the exact same thing.
I am very sorry that you had to go through this.
The second story reminded me of a fight I had with my cousin. She was friends with this girl who had a crush on this one guy my cousin was ‘friends’ with. I also was acquainted with both, but I wouldn’t call them friends. My cousin always encouraged her, but would secretly meet and flirt with him. She would often drag me along whenever they hung out. I was kinda like her alibi. I found that bizarre since I knew she encouraged her friend and I also knew that she wasn’t really interested in the guy since she already had a boyfriend of sorts. One day I told her that what she was doing wasn’t right. She accused me of liking the guy and was convinced I was jealous of her. I stopped talking to her for a while and found out she was telling everyone I liked that guy. She even made him believe that nonsense. He tried to test out the waters by flirting with me but soon realized I wasn’t interested.
It was ridiculous.
Now looking back I guess I was lucky, I wasn’t a teenager who was easily swayed by what others thought about me. I actually find these memories quite hilarious and entertaining 😂
"I'm not above gossip. I like it!" Exactly what we're all here for.
Rules to live by: Never lend anything (including money) that you aren’t willing to lose; never date a friend whose friendship you want to preserve. Yeah, you’re welcome.
I never lend money I’m not willing to part with. I never talk about religion or politics. And I also just don’t like a lot of people so that makes those three things pretty easy. 😂
And I'll add - don't live with your best friend.
I should have known I wouldn’t get my fancy magnetic chessboard back from my cousin after he hadn’t returned a board game I lent him but here I am minus 1 chess set.
@@opalleafeon-2236 I hope you're able to visit him one day, demand a fun game of chess, then offer to pack it up while asking him to get something for you in another room. Then swiftly slip it into a bag while claiming you've completely lost track of time. Make a quick exit and it's now yours again :D
Magnetic chessboard sounds pretty awesome
If I loan someone something I just consider it a gift bc I probably won’t get it back lmao
Though it does sometimes suck when your bestie is prettier, it isn't her fault. I've been out of High School for almost 30 years and my beautiful bestie (the one who's beauty always made me suffer by comparison) REFUSES TO AGE!! Instead of hating her for it, I'm happy she has it. She's always been beautiful inside and out and I love her for it.
We had one incident back in the day when some girls told me my man thought my bestie was hot. I responded with "she IS hot! Is he not supposed to notice?" Jealousy is a stupid emotion. It makes no sense.
I'm just glad she finally stopped drawing beauty marks on her face. 😅
I used to be the ugly one, but when we got into our mid-20s my high school girl bestie and I switched places. I lost 95 pounds, and she gained the weight I lost. When she was the prettier one we got along great, but now she calls me a narcissist and makes fun of how skinny I now am.
My best friend through middle school and into freshmen year of HS turned the whole school against me because her boyfriend liked me. The school was 75 kids (brother's graduating class was 13 kids) so it was fairly easy. I was bullied relentlessly. I switched schools and got bullied worse. I still think about her though, dream about her, and grieve our friendship. I'm only just now trusting girls again as friends.
Yeah. It takes a while to start trusting females again. I'm 32 . I feel more confident and I have better friends now . Good luck 💕
I met my friend Riley on a group chat that my "best friend" Sammy created so everyone she knew could get to know each other. Well, when Sammy found out I was making quick friends with Riley, she went behind my back and told Riley, "Be careful with Alex because she's been known to be quite manipulative at times." I was always putting up with more shit from her than I needed to, but that was the last straw. I never thought she would actually try and sabotage me like that. I completely cut ties with her and never looked back.
Took me almost 30 years of a friendship, to finally walk away from the person who was my life long bestie, the godmother to my first born... To end our friendship. Two times in one year, she told my abusive ex what I was doing while being safely away from him.
May i know how you end ur friendship?
I starting to realized how jealous my friends are to me bcs i came from a high income family. I never realized this until i open up about my mental health and how my parents only give me money since i was 8. I literally groomed myself since i was a kid. They dismissed my experience bcs of the money.
It really hurts me bcs none of them willing to listen. But, my circle was only them. I'm really afraid of abandonment 😢
Oh man, I'm sorry to hear that. Glad you left them both ❤️
@@asseylum_2.012 Sending you a virtual hug!❤ I know loneliness is hard, but being used or abused is worse. You deserve better friends, but untill you meet them you need to become your own best friend and just rely on yourself! ❤✌❤
She's not a friend. I faced a gun to pick up my girl from an abusive relationship.
8:11 "I'm sure you can imagine what I did next" 😮 I can imagine all I want but I still wanna know! This woman is 5 steps ahead and I wanna know what carnage and chaos she raised 🤣
I had a friend that would talk about herself ALL. THE. TIME. Our relationship was 80% her problems and 20% mine if that. It took me 6 years to finally break it off with her 6 years to LONG. When I told her I wanted a break she immediately started blaming my husband for being the problem and that he was manipulating me and I wasn't the girl she used to know. Ugh it makes me so mad she never realized how selfish she was. You can NEVER help people like this just RUN!! if they want help they need to ask for it.
I'm with you, Charlotte. I don't lend people anything! I was burned in the past, and I either never got it back, or it was ruined/broken when they finally returned it.
I'm grateful every day for my circle of supportive girlfriends. We've been together since the first Pirates of the Caribbean movie came out. We live in different parts of the country but we get together twice a year for a couple of weeks. We all support one another in whatever we're doing. They are the best!
True besties dont compete with you...they celebrate you just as you celebrate them❤
I was in a toxic friendship during elementary-freshmen year of high school. She would constantly gaslight, make me feel bad for wanting to spend time with my family, insult me for nothing, make me feel like crap if I couldn’t be on FaceTime for hours, and many more offenses(those are just the main ones). She even made me feel like crap for just turning 13 before her. It wasn’t just me. She was like this to our entire friend group. One of the good things that happened in quarantine was I was able to realize she was toxic and I able to ice her out. She made me think so one else would be my friend. Well, she was so wrong. I’m now writing a book inspired by our friendship with fictional characters in hope of helping other people in similar situations
I had a best friend who gaslight me constantly and acted like a girlfriend instead of my best friend. Constantly downing me for the same stuff she did and just not some one you'd want to be around. When I told her I was moving out of state she pretty much wrote a giant break up message to me about it. Still to this day she talks crap about me to people, im pretty sure she did last year with my ex boyfriend from 8 YEARS AGO. We were like 16-17, we are now in our late 20's. Some people just don't grow up. 😂
That "truple" one just reminds me of an old ex-friend. She brought a girl she was dating in one state back with her when she moved back to our home state. They started living in a house that her grandparents owned to be co-roommates with the dude who already lived there. The girlfriend ended up cheating on her with the dude, and then to get back at the girlfriend, my friend then also slept with the dude. Only one getting any goodness out of that whole situation is the dude who got to sleep with two "lesbians" who clearly weren't actually just lesbian.
Messy as hell. Lol. I don't know anyone this interesting. Thank goodness because I don't tolerate messiness in my life.
Had a friend in High School, she always told me I was her sister and how gratefull she was to have me. She always shared all her problems with me and made me feel I could trust her. After graduation I continue with the very close friendship and always felt safe with her until I moved overseas for a year. During my time away, I discovered she told all my personal stories to people that mistreated me and feed them with my personal stuff to continue the mistreat . She told them everything... but she didn't realise she was my only friend so no one else could have done something like that. When I returned I tried to meet with her pretending nothing had changed. She stood me up twice and ghosted me. Luckly I was prepared for the worst has I've already knew the kind of people she is.
12:53 This very much reminds me of the memoir "In the Dream House" by Carmen Maria Machado. Exact situation! Her gf was dating her and another girl at the same time. But she was extremely toxic. Always gaslit her. Was very abusive too. The author and the other girl stopped dating that toxic gf. Years later, they both got together and are happily married.
The best phrase I’ve EVER heard is: don’t tell me what someone told you about me, tell me why they felt so comfortable talking to you about me 👏🏼 👏🏼 👏🏼
My best friend from childhood constantly low key bullied me. She learned such horrible behavior from her parents. Her dad would call me a skeleton and many other offensive words for being so skinny. This “bff” always found ways to put me down and talked it down to “I’m just kidding”. When I would get mad or upset she would call me a bitch. A real friend will not make fun of your insecurities. They will not make fun of you every opportunity they get. This chick literally tried to make up for all her BS by throwing a compliment right after to try to “uplift” me. My self esteem and depression took such a hit for trying to preserve that friendship. She constants made me feel bad for wanting to get married young and wanted to control my goals. One day when I was 18 I said “f this I’m done”. I never looked back. She still has such a strong hate towards me as if I was the abusive one. If you ever come across a friend who preys on any opportunity to make fun of you just to play it off as a joke, they aren’t joking. Run as far as way from them possible. Guard your heart and happiness.
Yeah i am that guy who makes fun of my friends all the time. We chillin 10 years later and still good friends, some married with kids. U know when friends talk shit about you its for a good laugh right? Overly sensitive... as long as you're happy.
@@skyduster1190 there’s a HUGE difference between making fun of a friend because they tripped in a funny way, because they farted, or they said something dumb. It’s a completely different story to use what your friends are self conscious about, interpersonal battles or their depression and joke about it. If you took the time to take this personal, then maybe you aren’t that of a great friend as you think you are.
@@Lmr2021 and you're very judgy too. I'm sure the other side of the story is very different to yours. personal my ass. Couldn't give a damn. As long as you're happy.
@@Lmr2021 sounds like you dumped a narcissistic person. Good for you! And yes, there is a difference between friendly ribbing vrs abusive, gaslighting actuons.
@@skyduster1190Can I ask you to try something out for me and more for yourself..... okay.... try sitting your friends down... 1 on 1 if you're more comfortable that way and have a quick heart to heart and ask them to be dead honest with you.. ask them if they don't mind you making fun of their insecurities 24/7 when you are with them so YOU can get a laugh out of it... I'm sure if your a guy and they are guys about 50% of your friend group or even more will lie and say oh no Man your fine it don't bother me one bit... & also tell them up front that if they tell you that they don't like it, what your about to ask them, please tell me cause it WILL NOT hurt my feelings. Just sitting here writing this down is so weird to me that you find it funny to make fun of people's weak spots in life. I mean after reading what I wrote you do you feel like oh maybe I shouldn't do that?? Like making fun and playing around with friends is one thing but for you to continually make fun of all of your friends insecurities 24 7 is just odd... maybe you need to ask yourself why you feel the need to put all of your friends down all the time... is it to make yourself feel better about you or do you not care at all about your friends feelings?? I could never treat a friend like that ever in my while entire life. Hopefully this helps you in some way! Be good to everyone always... and more importantly be good to yourself first!!!! ❤😊
My ex actually got pissed at me because when I would post on Facebook I would get a lot of people interacting to my posts and when she would post, she would get hardly anyone that interacted to hers. I would always have her mad at my Facebook posts that I finally stopped posting. I even stopped interacting to anything she posted and she would also get mad. She basically took all the fun and joy of Facebook from me. I'm not saying that's why we broke up, but it really didn't help us to stay together.
That first one is so sad when she started crying. I hope Katie finds better, nicer friends who want her to thrive
Nothing is worse then being betrayd by a BEST friend, the one you tell EVERYTHING…like EVERYTHING!
So my 5 year old niece Gemma is the literal child version of you. After showing my entire family your videos to show them this fact, Gemma became obsessed with yoouu. She is so proud to be told you two look alike and are similar! It warms my heart 🥹😭
Now we need a picture.
Cute!
@@connieh9581 You and the 14 people who liked your comment need a picture of the 5 year-old? 🧐
@@Pumpkin0_0 To compare the resemblance, obviously. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
@@gravyz2cute4u It's still asking for the picture of a random child. And I'm more surprised that you're, in such a naive way, so ready and willing to *instantly* trust a complete stranger's intentions, especially toward a child. 🤔
I found out my supposed "best friend" went out of her way to become said "best friend" because she knew her boyfriend liked me. She thought by pretending to be into all the stuff I was into and being just the perfect friend for me, that I wouldn't get with him out of principle! She had me convinced for 6yrs! She also once admitted she wanted to beat me up because I was supposedly prettier than her and would cry in pub toilets when I got attention from random guys.
Just like you can't rush into a romantic relationship, you can't rush into a bestie relationship. It takes time to know what the other person's game is, like if they're trustworthy or if you're a cog in their drama wheel.
People need to be more discerning when choosing a best friend. They can't just be nice to your face and fun to hang out with, that's a title that's earned.
I can relate to the friend who read her diary. When I was 18 and not out as gay yet, a friend read my texts when I went to the bathroom and saw I was talking to guys. Instead of saying anything to me she texted our friend about it (who knew thankfully) and told her it was fucked up and to tell me and apologize. She did and we didn’t talk for awhile but I ended up forgiving her
With my first pay check, I went and bought a $50 dress for work. Compared to others in the industry wear it was cheap but to me, it was the most expensive and pretty thing.
The last video kind of gave me that vibe. Some people definitely are ungrateful and should be talked about.
6:00 im litteraly so happy abt the fact that my bestie is aromantic and is grossed out dating and romantic stuff
I had three "besties" back when I was 11. It was originally this one girl, let's call her A and the other girl, B. I met A, because we were in the same class, and I met B via her, and then C, the third "bestie" came in a year later.
Sh*t all went down when we reach the age of fourteen. B quits gymnastics, gains a bunch of weight and starts failing classes out of nowhere. Whenever I would ask her if she was okay, she would say yes, and I wouldn't push her further, you know, respecting boundaries and sh*t. It is only a couple of months later that she opens up in our groupchat about how much she hates her body, her life, her parents etc, and how all of her problems would be solved if only she had a thigh gap. I send back a what I hope was a supportive message along the lines of girl you're perfect, please don't change anything about your body, things usually get worse before they get better, we are here for you, please talk to us so that we can come up with a plan for you to love yourself. AND miss girl, this girl, proceeds to clap back with a message saying something like "shut the f*ck up you already have the perfect life AND the perfect body so don't tell me what to do I will not let you BRING OUT MY FLAWS so that YOU LOOK PRETTIER WHEN BOYS ARE AROUND US". What the flying f*ck.
No, that's not all. I and them officially have a fallout like a week later. I try to keep it nice, and it seems like they do too, but the minute I get home from school, C starts harrasing me on multiple social media platforms, making fun of my looks, my personality, calling me a pick me, a terrible person, and tells how much she wishes bad things to happen to me. B makes multiple Instagram and Snapchat stories talking absolute lies about me, even saying I once offered her to have a hookup when we were having a sleepover. We never even had one. Then, I learn from another friend that all this time when were were friends, B and C had a secret hate groupchat about me which they would force A to join back everytime she left. In this hate group, they would spend hours talking about this one bad grade I got, my ugly sweater, the new pimple on my cheek... I seriously don't get how these people could smile to my face and talk trash about me at the same time.
Crazy f*cking times, man.
The woman whose friend read her diary - I hope she changed all her passwords!
I’m happy to admit that I’m not above the drama. 🤣🤣🤣 I’d like to keep it out of my personal life, but love watching it on this channel! 💜
Makes me so grateful that I have a strong, supportive friend group. We’ve been tight since high school.
Am I the only one who's worried gaslighting ex-bff didn't actually lose the car key at all? She just got a cheaper replacement to give to the friend when she got back, so she could keep the original and 'borrow' the car whenever she wants. Maybe I'm just paranoid, but I'd be worried imho.
Fan behavior. That's the most creepy thing to ever experience, especially when they keep lying, denying and etc so innocently
Single white female vibes, am I right?
Just discovered you a little over a month ago and I have been obsessed with watching all your videos! I vibe with your genuine reactions and platonic perspectives. I'm excited to see your subscriber count grow and happy to be a part of it!
As a stranger I'm proud of you for releasing your worth and cutting off the toxicity at its root ❤
Thanks for being here!
the pure excitement is adorable.
My best friend and I met in 5th grade, and we’ve been friends for about six years since. I feel so lucky to have someone like her and that we’ve survived all the hormonal teenage drama together. Luckily, we don’t experience the drama together so we can’t get lost in translation and end up destroying our relationship in the end. I think it’s better to have a long distance friend growing up than not.
Sooo the girl that accused the other girl posting online just to get her BF's attention.... imagine she was right !! I've had that happen to me. I thought I was crazy, and had a talk with her. She told me I was being crazy, he told me I was being crazy too. The whole time they were gas lighting me cause they were sleeping together behind my back !!!!! (she was my "best friend", btw 😒)
Yeah unfortunately we don't know either side of the story and unfortunately cheaters will lie and make the victim look bad.
Meanwhile my friends purposefully took ridiculous pics together when we were in highschool and we still hype each other up to this day.
i never got why girls got upset when someone (objectively) looks a little better than them, i was always really happy if my friends were really pretty or cute or beautiful, i always felt proud to be their friends when someone would say so-and-so is pretty
4:49 You literally set off every dog within hearing range 😂
I'm talking to my 3 closest friends right now. I actually put on makeup, for a change since I have to leave the house.
All I got was compliments. Because that's how we are supposed to work.
Charlotte that plaque is soooooooo wonderfully deserved! You are incredibly relatable and we are all here for it. 🧡🧡
I’ve been going on a “Charlotte Dobre” binge for a week now. All day long I watch her videos while I do my day to day things 😂
HOOYAH!😂🤣😂🤣😂Insecure put you down,confident lift you up…Selflove is priceless 🙏🏽
Congratulations Charlotte! What a thrill! :) I am so glad I came across you on IO during the pandemic! You are one of my faves.
Thank you so much!
Yep, loved the skits with her and “Prince Eric” que potato 🥔, Mike should dress up as prince Eric too
These 1st two insecure girls thinks they are the Main Character. Lol
Congrat!!! 🎉 just subscribed a few weeks ago and I’m addicted lol keep it girl! ❤❤❤
Speaking of women building other women up... Congratulations Charlotte!!! You deserve this and so so so much more. I am so proud and happy for you! Your hard work is showing! 😘🤗🥳🎉🥂
Honestly same I hate lending things to people, the only exception are my siblings. I love them to the moon and back, I've shared with them my whole life and I don't mind doing it for longer. We're older and mature, responsible people so it's cool with me.
16:06 Like Influencers are so entitled and gossipy and just bad people…. Unlike me who at 21 was sooo poor that I had to steal an entire (expensive) birthday suit from Target or I wouldn’t have been able to show up to my own birthday party unembarrassed. Shhhhh, don’t tell anyone, bc for sure I’d get no other gifts from my poor friends and family on that day… like gosh or whatever. Influencers suck, right?
Being a good person…. You’re Doing It Wrong!
Charlotte gonna protect the gold play button like her first born child.🎉❤
It's so true that people who say they hate drama are usually the ones causing it! 😂
Exactly! Do not lend what you cannot lose.
Me and my best friend met later in life in 2017! Been besties for almost 7 years we have never had a fight so serious that we stopped talking! I'm glad I met her!
I had a friend that got mad at me for telling her she'd be missed when she couldn't make it to events... Literally told me that I was on purpose making her feel bad after she had asked me to show I wanted her at events... We are in are damn 30s 😅
Ooh I have a teenage daughter and this sounds SO familiar 😂like the second video- I have literally had to tell her "that is not your friend baby girl, I promise you . Please listen to me " and I am forever thankful that social media wasn't like this when I was in high school. It was brutal enough without social media. Lol
With friends like that,who needs enemies.
Lol the ad I got after Charlotte said “this sounds messy messy messy” was a Tide commercial saying “life is messy”
I was once in a situation tht I unintentionally roasted my bestie because she was cheating on her boyfriend 😬 I was saying like how proud I'm of our friendship that doesn't do stuff like talking behind ppl's back, putting other people down for entertainment n self fulfillment AND not pulling stunts like cheating. My bestie's face paled so much so fast 😅
that's what im talking about. finally some realism. Everybody in this comment section talking about their "toxic" friends. Like come on, who doesnt roast their friends once awhile? sooo much fakeness almost got me puking
@@skyduster1190 I don't necessarily see it as "fake", but maybe they just written as such that you get the impression like that.
Not as bad as the car story, but the last time I loaned a friend a book, she gave it back completely destroyed, and it was one of my favorites. It crushed me because I was super poor at the time and couldn't afford a new copy. I don't trust anyone with my books but my own mother these days. 🤣
i love that you say you hate lending your stuff - i am the same because people do not take care of things and they don't care how much you may have saved to get them x
At around 13 minutes, when Charlotte say, "this sounds very messy," I got an ad for Tide that started right off the bat with, "life is messy." 🤣
My sister had a friend when she was in high school that had a bad home life so we took her in. She tried to “Single White Female” my sister and tried to turn us all against my sister. She finally left and my sister and I had to heal our relationship a lot because this “friend” really tried to pit me against my sister.
What does it mean she tried to "Single White Female " your sister ? (I'm french)
@@melchiorlise2466 I believe it's when someone becomes so OBSESSED with you that they start to mimic you, act like you, dress and wear their hair like you, they actually try to take you over. To extremes.
@@bell6dandy564 Ahh I see, thank you !
Hmm... Sounds like she didn't try but actually succeeded if you had to heal your relationship.. thats rough
@@melchiorlise2466it’s a saying based on a movie of the same name. Single White Female came out in the 90s I believe. It’s about a girl who finds a roommate to rent a room in her apartment. The roommate then proceeds to dress like her, sabotage her career and try to steal her boyfriend before ultimately trying to kill her.
The issues in this video are exactly why I stay just me and my girls and family. Everyone else sucks and is such an unbelievable let down. Respect given to them is never what I get back. Being there whenever needed, time I give and taking on their emotional baggage is hard work. Especially when if I’m in need of a shoulder to cry on I end up just crying into my hands on my own. I tend to keep my ish to myself cos as always no one cares about what you care about as much as you do but with my friends if I see them hurt then I hurt. I’ve had to cut a fair few ties this year. Done allowing people to continue to use me as their door mat
This is why I only keep 3 friends that are true and trustworthy. Every other encounter have failed thus far and sadly takes advantage of my kindness. I have my walls up always.
I almost had toxic friends before, but I have a bs detector that prevents me to continue the friendship... I've been in situations with potential soon to be friends, and when they don't pass the test I run as fast as I can.
I got my sister and several others now addicted to your channel … just the most fun I can have watching a video and just always feel the positivity towards other women and just the world in general ! By the way my fave post of yours with mike is where you’re both dressed as mermaids and you do the family guy thing between Chris and Brian about feeling Bonita 😂😂😂😂
Congrats on your award, girlfriend!!! So so well deserved.... keep it up sweetie.
Thank you so much!!
@@CharlotteDobre you're welcome!!!
You get me through bad days. Thank you, Charlotte, for being hilarious and relatable! And congrats on the reward from CZcams!!!
Congratulations on your award Charlotte! So proud of you! Love your videos!