EXPOSING Evan Peters and Emma Roberts ABUSIVE Relationship
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- čas přidán 24. 11. 2022
- #EvanPeters and #EmmaRoberts had a rough relationship.. so let's get into it.
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What sucks is when a man gets abused by a woman, people say it was mutual. Sexism hurts both women and men.
Right!!!
Exactly!!! Wtf he didn’t touch her it was all her!!!! Dumb nepotism ho
@@grreeno I used to have a crush on her when I was in high school, but then I found out about what she did to him. So messed up.
I felt odd about her since the Johnny Depp trial, as she follows amber heard. No wonder, abusers stick together
Exactly!!! This makes me so mad.
y'all ever notice that when a man comes forward with domestic violence everyone sells it as mutual abuse instead of just realizing that women can also be abusive?? sometimes the men are just defending themselves ! (ie. bruises on emma's arms)
EXACTLY!!!
I am saying this for years...
I’m glad I’m not the only one who noticed this
Right! If he was abusing her I feel like she’d say it 😂🙄
Also in the case of Johnny and amber too, bc that b*tch amber is equally toxic like emma
Young people need to be taught to recognize the difference between trauma bonding and being in love. Too many Hollywood narratives present trauma bonding as a relationship goal.
i wish i knew it earlier. you don't really realize until it's too late or it's over
This is the most underrated comment on CZcams!
then they call normal behavior "vanilla"
this is not a thing specific to this generation.. it was even worse back then because there was absolutely no awareness.
Thank you for this
Defending yourself isn't abuse. Evan definitely looks like he's the one who's been targeted by Emma
how do you know that? were you there??
@@lrose.33child stop it. Women are abusers too and it's clear who was the aggressor here. Emma's toxic personality is well documented and that's without factoring in her alcoholic and abusive father.
I mean they both look unhinged with crazy eyes and they look like siblings 😂😂😂. I never understood people who date people that look like they could be related. It’s so odd.
Emma's dad, Eric Roberts, was in legal trouble for shoving his wife into a wall in the 90s. It's no secret that he's abusive. She most likepy witnessed that growing up.
@sloan do a video on this pls
She was estranged from him because of his behaviour.
@@pauldeangelis7481 ur talking ab him like u know him personally….
@@angel127_
I’m not, that’s what I thought about the people who were judging him.
Allow me to apologize for being so clearly bothered by this comment and topic. I’m just slightly on edge and stressed when it comes to relationships and so quickly and easily passing judgement on people.. I just extremely recently ended a 27 year relationship and my everything is so convoluted jumbled and endlessly confused right now. Everything meaning, my feelings my thoughts my emotions. I don’t normally react so strongly and seriously as I did. Can you please forgive me?
He was abusive due to drugs but I believe he cleaned his life up.
Shoving and punching as well as biting are not the same. It also doesn't matter what she seen as a child; doesn't excuse physically abusing another human being.
She is abusive; period. I don't care about her father or her mother. This often happens when women are caught being the perps; they had a bad childhood. So many of us had bad childhoods where abuse was rampant yet we don't abuse others. Plus, her job is to be narcassitic; she is entitled and to be worshipped.
Ugh Emma crying and Evan comforting her after she got out of jail for beating on him really reminded me of past abuse.. I got a bad feeling she was the root of the problem..
I am not the type to keep up with celebs, but I remember reading somewhere, years ago, that she has an explosive temper.
@@Meg-A-Saurus she probably has bpd?
@@emmainreverse9570 I have no idea...
Same :(
Agreed.. 💜🥲
The way Emma was "crying into Evans arms" (I'd say it was more crying AT him) gave me chills - looked exactly like my partner after our most serious domestic abuse incident and honestly the footage unsettled me. It looks like a type of love-bombing and a common part of the cycle of abuse - they hurt you and then overwhelm you with pleadings, I love you's, self-deprecation, "remorse", etc. to keep you, and then before long, it's back to hurting you.
I hope Evan finds the healing he needs to truly move on.
I think he haven't yet. But he will. Well, I hope so.
I remember that shot fucking me up in the worst way emotionally- radiated “he’s trapped” to all of us
To be honest, those bruises on Emma look NOTHING like the kind of marks a man with size and strength like Evan would inflict if he was truly abusing her. I’m constantly bruised like that especially on my legs because I’m clumsy and naturally just bruise like a peach. So being punched or hit physically, that’s a WHOLE different kind of bruising. She seems like the type to even hit herself or run into things out of anger. That’s not an insult, just an observation based on a lot of experience with mental health.
Exactly what I was thinking about
It’s hard to say it was mutually abusive. As someone that’s been in an abusive marriage, I can tell you there were times my ex had bruises and marks on him.. but it was from me trying to get him off of me and to let me go. Victims tend to go back at least three times.
Even bite marks.. if your being restrained and have nothing left to defend yourself. Not saying thats what happened in this case.
She’s crazy enough to bite herself to make him look abusive back becuase she knows she was abusing him.
I’m sorry you had to go thru that
@@22amboo well she bit him but my suspicion given she’s a notorious fall down drunk is that’s probably how she got the bruises. She was more than likely wasted and falling all over the place trying to get at him.
Also just the way she was “crying” to him in that clip after they released her from jail, was very very manipulative in my opinion. I’ve seen that display many times.
@@SallyJesseRaphael420lol and that’s rough, that’s how my marriage was too, and everytime he would sober up he was so charismatic that he could always convince me it was just the alcohol and he would quit, and it never happened. Abusive alcoholics are the worst because once they sober up they’re entirely different people and it’s always hard to give up on the person you know they can be.
It’s not surprising at all that they got engaged after. I did the same thing even after my ex got arrested and I ended up in the hospital. Abusive relationships are extremely difficult to get out of and you are constantly hoping it gets better because you love them so much and more than likely getting lovebombed and gaslit. Only people who have been in abusive relationships understand why you keep going back. I’m in a much better place and so happy with my current healthy relationship but when I was in that bad situation I hated it but I was terrified to leave.
May I ask you what helped with thoughts that are inflicted through the mental and psychological abuse? I have Ocd and my last partner had ocpd.. it was hell -and because of the trauma and also physical abuse I began to become a reactive abuser as well. It’s hard to get out of those mechanism and I am scared to scare off my current interest.. i don’t know if you have struggled with similiar stuff, if not so sorry for bothering :)
@@Kirschtorte112 Oh you’re not a bother at all! I struggled for a very long time and still struggle some days but it gets better and better over time. First, I had to love myself again and want/do better for myself. I think it’s all about getting out of that mindset and surrounding yourself with a good support system. As long as your current partner is understanding of the trauma you’ve been through and helps you through triggering situations and bad days you’ll be just fine :-) All the love ❤️
literally nobody in my life can understand why i stayed after the very first time, let alone stayed for years or went back and back and back. they just don’t. it’s so hard to explain and understand.
@@samanthaorologio6866 Most victims of domestic violence leave and go back multiple times before leaving for good. It's not simple or easy to understand, but I really do hope that you have some people around that actually try. Sending you love
Oh yeah I definitely understand that.
My last relationship was just a disaster. Everything came so quickly then came burning down with lots of abuse and deceit.
Im STILL not over it and I dont think I ever will
I have to be honest, and this happens in abusive relationships but I think Emma crying is a form of manipulation.
Abusers cry and be all apologetic because they were caught, but then they’ll repeat the cycle all over again.
Jesus, this looks a lot like her, since she's always been a spoiled brat.
@@LilyIglesias I used to watch some of her shows and movies growing up, until learning more about her. I don’t get good vibes that’s all I can say.
She probably cried to manipulate Evan to get her way.
It is a form of manipulation I agree with you
Emma Roberts has a HISTORYYYY of being abusive!!! She’s just naturally a mean girl and only famous really because of her aunt Julia Roberts. Unfortunately Emma has alwaysssss given off rude & entitlement vibes! So glad she’s being called out for this!!!
She was known to have abused the last guy she was with. He finally came to his senses and got out of the relationship. Looks like she found a new victim.
She seems really toxic
I believe its mainly from her side.
who's the last guy?
I thought she was married and now a mother
@@dootdoot94xo44 She's not married; Garrett Hedlund was her baby daddy and recently broke up. She's not stable at all.
She got physical with HIM! He was the abused here, not her.
@@sophiedelreys Shut up
@@sophiedelreys it could be from him defending himself but like you said we dont know them so 🤷🏻♀️
@@sophiedelreys he was the one punched and bleeding while emma was fine
@@sophiedelreys Shut up
You can tell who’s an abuser also by pattern I don’t think Evan had the same issue with Halsey
Notice how Evan and Halsey broke up in March 2020 which would've been the exact time that Emma found out she's pregnant. She probably told Evan and it was all too much for him. Honestly, Evan deserves a break. This toxic relationship has been going on while he had to play very evil roles for AHS for years. And now, Dahmer. I really hope Evan surrounds himself with more love and happiness in 2023!
emma is truly her roles in real life. no wonder she’s good at acting
My thoughts exactly. The roles shes had were in pretty toxic relationships.
@@YBMTL she gives me that vibe for some reason...
I'm sorry the "this Hayden person" had me laughing...I mean I get not everyone likes star wars but Hayden played Anakin Skywalker in the prequels. You know the man that becomes Darth Vader
Omg WHat!! Wild. I didn’t realize. I watched Star Wars for my first time this month. I also watched the mandalorian!
@@SLOANHOOKS I love how informed your videos are and it makes me happy I was able to do the same for you.
@@SLOANHOOKS You should watch the sequels as well! Ofc the movies are very long tho 😂
@@SLOANHOOKS awww get your nerd on Sloan! I love Star Wars, but the classic released 3 are my favorites (episodes 4, 5, & 6), my controversial opinion is episode 3 was my favorite of the newer trilogy (episodes 1, 2, & 3) i know it all gets kinda confusing beyond that lol. Lovvvve the mandalorian!!!
@@SLOANHOOKS ooo he's only in the prequels and now in the Obi Wan Series! Which I really recommend watching!
As someone who experiences panic attacks almost daily, I didn't know a panic attack now means just crying and hugging your boyfriend...
I was thinking that too. Many People do not understand what panic attacks are.
@@ml2620 yeah exactly. Often times you don't even notice someone is having one. I could be sitting on the train like i do everyday, just looking outside the window (seemingly). In reality im trying my best not to vomit, feeling waves of pure anxiety throughout my spine and feeling a weird mixture of a cold, feverish feeling and a claustrophobic inducing, feeling of overheating, with really clammy hands. But yea im just looking out the window right
@@Eeveefromeurope
I think I’ve experienced a panic attack once, but I’m not sure if it *was* a panic attack or if it was an anxiety attack. I started thinking about a close friend of mine and I just got this horrible sense of dread that washed over me, I started crying and my breath became very short, and I was having a hard time breathing, I also felt sick to my stomach, like I was going to throw up, and I was shaking badly. Was this a panic attack or an anxiety attack? I don’t know the difference between the two😓
@@jerika8694 the difference lies mostly in the cause of your experience. Was it caused by something which is normal to panic over? Like for example you're studying for exams but started way too late and now you're breaking down. This would be an anxiety attack. A panic attack is that but without actually having a logical cause for the panic. For example me on the train on the way to school. Im just sitting, watching the trees go by. Maybe im a tad bit too hot and next thing i know im having a panic attack
Seems more like she was trying to emotionally manipulate him into feeling bad for her
Reactive Abuse: "In a situation where one person abuses another, the other person may react. When this happens, the person who caused harm may be on the receiving end of an attack. They may then claim that the abused individual (who is acting in self-defense) is the abuser. This is a type of gaslighting called reactive abuse."
thank you i was waiting for this
@@vwebb7244 💖✨
This!!
This was the the word and definition I was thinking of during most of this video. Thank you!
The fact that she’s also a nepotism baby also doesn’t help her ego and entitlement to abuse her partner. Justice for Evan Peters
I had a friend who worked with Emma on set and she said that Emma and Evan regularly did coke together. For whatever that's worth.
You said this and not long ago I was scrolling the comments and someone said they were just talking about emma because apparently she was around their town for a concert and a cousin of theirs caught her stumbling around looking drunk and doing coke in the men's bathroom not seeming to care everyone seen her like that...
I mean people do drugs that’s not like a new thing.
That’s apparently a big problem in Hollywood in general.
Everyone does that drug. I'm not surprised celebs still do it lol
Another guy I used to date told me his friend worked for Postmates and was delivering food to Emma's house in the Hollywood Hills and that Emma screamed at her multiple times.
As a Tennessean myself who visits Broadway often, I will confirm that you do have to be pretty belligerent for the police to do something 💀💀
Yassss us Knoxville queens doing it differently down here 🤣🤣🤣
I need to take a trip to TN 💁🏾♀️😁💃🏾
“Ain’t nothing like a Nashville party” 🎶
That must be a big city thing. 😂 Because it sure ain't like that now in small towns in Tennessee - also a Tennessean.
She was always that one actress I hated as a kid and I couldn't figure out why. Whatever she was on I had to stop watching cause I found her annoying. When I figured out what she did to him, I finally felt glad about how I felt about her
Dude SAME
For real I never liked her either there was no reason as to why I just got this weird vibe from her.
i cant stand watching movies/shows with her in it i try to skip as much as i can
I’m no fan of her aunt either
Every time I see Emma Roberts I'm like, y'all forget she nearly bit some guy's nose off? 😡 Zero consequences for this toxic person - wonder why. It's almost as if she comes from a super-wealthy Hollywood family that basically gives her the protection to act with impunity. 😐
Funny timing on this video. I was just talking about her yesterday because she came to my hometown. My cousin works at Top Golf in Huntsville, AL. Apparently, Emma was in town for the Stevie Nicks concert and went to Top Golf afterwards. I was told she was stumbling drunk and walking around in a complete fog. She walked into the men’s restroom and didn’t seem to care. Ended up doing Coke in the women’s restroom and didn’t seem to care that people knew it. She is not doing well despite whatever pretty picture her team uploads to Instagram.
Wow! Damn I never knew how problematic she is....I didn't know she had a child either
Couldn’t of happened to a nicer gal
Omg when was this??
@@britneybritney yep a two year old son
Really sad. That poor toddler. Hope she can turn her shit around. Rehab would be a good start.
Hayden Christensen ( Anakin Skywalker from Star Wars) and Rachel Bilson ( Summer from O.C) was the relationship she broke. Allegedly.
I‘m sure it ripped Evans heart out when she got pregnant with a guy that she dated for only one year after 5 years on and off with Evan… and Halsey too. What’s going on with women having babies with men they have literally just met?
I don't believe it's mutual, bc his recent ex Frances also used him for money (she was writing that in her tumblr) , she posted a video of an intimate moment w them and u can see him hiding clearly not wanting to be filmed, she said she should get pregnant to trap him, she sold his info (phone number etc) to fans...
I think he's the kind of person that attracts toxic people some ppl when they have really low self esteem and they attract narcissists. He literally said that he has self esteem issues
Yeah people with low self esteem and mental health issues have no business being in relationships
Mutual abuse does not exist, please don’t use that term us wrong and dismissive
He comes off as having low self esteem. hopefully he's not going to engage with another narcissistic woman now. Maybe this time it will be Ariana grande
@@tikusblue you think Ariana isn't a narcissist too??
@@tikusbluebruh are you joking 😂
I feel like we don’t talk about domestic violence regarding women enough!!! I know so many past women that use to beat the heck out of guys all bc they know it’s “wrong to hit a girl”. But I feel like every human should be allowed to protect themselves.
right. i was at a college party last year and forgot my keys at this apartment so i go back and there’s a girl hitting her boyfriend! I stepped in straight away of course but it really was disgusting just seeing him feel like he couldn’t do anything :/
THIS.
although I feel like with the strength imbalance you should be careful and aim to disarm/restrain if possible, not escalate the level of violence and do more damage
The bruises on Emma are consistent with substance abuse and tripping, falling etc. the bruises are not consistent with DV. I have had substance issues and been in physically abusive relationships.
That’s exactly what I said! That’s falling up the stairs stumbling through doorways tripping over furniture. When someone attacks someone they typically don’t aim for their extremities, especially not below the knees.
That’s legit what I thought, she was drunk and stumbling potentially trying to beat on him. That’s what the bruising is consistent with
Totally agree, they look like “stripper bruises” idk we used to call them that when you went out for a drunken night and woke up the next day with bruises all over your legs 😂😬
@@doyoufeardeath666 no rational person would leave their head and face vulnerable to attack someone’s knees it doesn’t make any sense
My thoughts too. I used to get fucked up on H regularly, nod out standing up, stumble into shit, etc. The bruises are placed on the tops of her legs and knees. Suggesting falling to the floor or walking into a table/ chair.
But my abuse bruises were always on my belly from being punched, my neck from being strangled, or my upper arms from being grabbed.
He knew better than to mark up my face.
And the legs would be such a bizarre place out of easy reach to hit.
She seems like a really tough person to deal with in any type of relationship. I never thought her acting skills were that great. I'll be honest.
She plays a type. And she plays it well.
She is not a versatile actress. And that's fine.
I once seen her on Hollywood Blvd and she almost mowed me and a group of bystanders.
What acting skills she's always the bitchy girl and she plays it well on and off screen apparently
She's a C actress lmao
She’s def benefitted from nepotism bc of her famous aunt
Well… Emma being on amber’s side told me everything I needed to know. She stands abusive women bc she is one herself
They are both under mindcontrol. They do what their handlers tell them to do. Look it up. Mindcontrol is a common thing in Hollywood
It amazes me how eager other women are to throw these two women under the bus in these comments.So many women just jump at the chance to throw another woman who is gorgeous and talented under the bus. You need to ask yourself why that is.
Same
@@justme8841oh yeah. MK Ultra is real
@@TurdOfParadise amber was literally proven guilty of abuse be frl?
With Evan Peters it seems like it was his only abusive relationship but with Emma they seem to follow her. Like a pattern of behaviors
I remember Evan dated the singer Halsey after Emma Roberts and he seemed happier with Halsey. This was before she had a baby with someone else. I wonder what happened between them? I never got good vibes from Emma, I always thought she was snobby and entitled. I also thought her acting was mediocre.
Halsey said Evan was racist and broke up with him. Just look up her whole speech after their breakup lol
@@stephaniec9355 Wow, that's very sad. 😢 I will look it up. Thanks for sharing the info.
@@stephaniec9355 where dou yuo see that ???? racist with who????
He liked a post of cops taking down a looter and Twitter spun it that he was racist 🙄 he even apologized for liking that post and still got bullied until he deleted his social media
@@stephaniec9355me when i lie
She radiates the type of woman that will push a man to his very very limit and hit him and when she gets hit back she becomes the victim. It's absolutely disgusting.
have you met her?
Frrrr
I'm sorry but I'm on Evan's side. I see in Emma an abusive and self-absorbed person. I too have been in a toxic relationship in the past and I have to admit that I was the abusive person. I have raised my hands to my ex several times until he got tired and made him react. Her bruises tell me he was just trying to defend himself. Her tears after prison and the fact that he tried to comfort her is another proof that he was really exhausted and she was the abusive one. Let's stop talking in the plural when it comes to a relationship where the woman is abusive.
@@cherrypie20 this is just something truly lived by me as well.
Same
I’m glad I clicked on this video. I had no idea they dated, nor how toxic this was. I wish more people talked about this so other people are aware about this. It shows how women can be just as abusive as men (hoping people already knew that). No man shouldn’t have to go through ANY of what Evan went through. That goes the same way for women as well. This is a scary and difficult topic to talk about and I hope Evan never goes through that trauma ever again.
Her bruises don't look all that bad tbh. If she gave him a black eye and BIT him, he was more than likely defending himself. She's crazy and more than likely attacked him. Those aren't the marks of a true victim.
It’s not just Hollywood, it’s everywhere. Before I was properly treated for my mental health, I would 100% rage at my poor husband. I’m a cisgendered woman. It can happen to anyone, anywhere. And female on male abuse needs to be highlighted. I had bruises from my husband trying to restrain me. I would beg him to hit me hoping it would stop. He never would, but not everyone can or SHOULD have to sit there and take it. If you knew me, you’d know it is out of character for me. Once I was treated, I became my best self. Not only for me, but for my husband who loved me through the shitty times. Men can 100% be abused without being an abuser themselves. We need to talk about it.
You’re a pretty shitty person for assaulting you’re partner
Thank you for this. I have similar problems. What was your treatment plan???
Same I tend to lash out on my husband despite the fact that this man is 6 ft 3, 210 pounds never seems to dawn on me that with one kick he can take me out and yet he has NEVER put his hands on me.
You have BPD?
Doesn't need to be highlighted until men's femicide rate is widely acknowledged. Women get tired of being abused from basically birth to serve men and the whims of all adults around them.
im just going to say this, it seems like when a woman is abused then its cut and dry who did it and who is at fault, but when a man is abused everyone is quick to say its mutual. from what i have seen, he has had to defend himself. i mean the guy has to go to therapy just for playing the characters he has, he doesn't peg me as an abuser. she is a rude person IRL and she definitely is the type to abuse someone.
Yep
Does anyone else feel like they have always gotten dark energy from Emma
Yeah, she's always come across as "one of those" celebs to me.
Yep she comes from Hollywood lineage her career is built on nepotism and entitlement
Yes
@@missnataliedavis OOP-
At first I couldn't figure out why I just didn't like her whenever I saw her onscreen. I thought she was just another one of those nepo babies, didn't know she was this problematic. I was a little surprised when I heard somewhere that she gave birth 'cause that was around the same time reports of her being involved in a DV situation were surfacing
Evan is such a sweet man, he deserves so much better. I don’t believe he ever abused Emma, he was most likely defending himself. I’m so glad he got out of that relationship with that evil wench. I hope he’s happier now :c
It’s so easy to be on the outside and to say to leave an abusive or toxic relationship but once you’ve been with that person for a year+ it’s really hard(or even less than a year it’s just so difficult no matter what). Coming from someone who was in an abusive relationship for 2-3 years and it took me so long to be done with it. I’m glad I left.
So tired of the bruises , bite marks , being thrown around, and spat on. it got to the point where he had put a blade up to my neck and was threatening to kill me. He was arrested for domestic abuse 3 times and two of the times I didn’t wanna press charges but there were witnesses and the cops pressed charges themselves bc they had enough evidence (a stranger that lived in an apartment building next to us heard me screaming for help outside and started recording us to show the cops, he also called the cops as well . It takes a lot of strength to leave an abusive relationship , my heart goes out to anyone who has been in one or is in one.Also I don’t like the term of “mutual abuse” tho…abuse shouldn’t ever be looked at as a “mutual” thing.
It does take a lot of strength. I’m glad you made it through that and I hope you’re in a better safer situation. I agree - just call it an abusive relationship. Most people have no idea what’s happening. Calling it mutual abuse is often victim shaming when you don’t know the ins and outs of it. Abusers love to manipulate the narrative along with everything else.
@@jenh7417 just an abusive relationship. not no “mutual abuse” it’s just an abusive relationship- that’s all there is to it. At the end of the day we don’t know what’s going on in other peoples lives and we can’t just assume that it’s “mutual” abuse. But we can say yes it was an abusive relationship. “Mutual abuse” makes it sound like it’s just a normal thing to do when it’s not, makes it sound like it’s all good and normal “oh yeah they were in an abusive relationship - but it was mutual tho”. Sounds like it’s downplaying what an abusive relationship actually is. The comment above this one also explains why it shouldn’t be called mutual abuse.
@@angelicaguerino thank you so much, your kind words are much appreciated 💖 I’m glad I’m not in that situation anymore and it feels good to be safe. Thank you 🥹🙏🏻
i feel you on this. I had such a hard time leaving my abusive ex even after having my son and him going to jail. My famiky wouldnt help me and i had no where to go. I had to walk on eggshells all the time and my anxiety got really bad. I was on a wait list for a shelter for months before i was able to finally get away. I am so thankful for the shelter and the people there.
@@lyflingx23 omg im so sorry you had to go through that and im soooo happy to hear you’re in a better place now 💖 just know you are so strong - having to wait to get out of that abusive relationship must’ve been so hard to also be so brave and wait to get into the shelter. You’re not a victim
You’re a survivor just remember that. It takes so much strength and bravery to leave an abusive relationship I know we don’t know each other but I’m proud of you
We gotta break the cycle of abuse & violence that are past down generation after generation 💔
ive never heard anyone have a decent encounter w Emma roberts.Everyone says shes horrible to be around
thats the medias. pretty much everyone else said that she's very down to earth and sweet.
Thank you for covering tough situations.
Toxic relationships are an addiction, so you just can't quit. An addiction is an addiction and requires a lot of work to break the cycle.
I freakin love you Sloan! You always speak the truth which is scary on CZcams! Thank you for your thorough informative videos with eyes of empathy and compassion ❤️
thank you for this video Sloan! Been wondering if youd ever touch on this subject and thankful you are touching on subjects that dont typically get talked about. Many abuse victims if they are men arent taken seriously and that's not fair especially if the woman herself if a beautiful socialite and celebrity they typically dont get the same treatment as others and the males tend to suffer. Not fair any abuse isnt okay. Thank you again and look forward to many new videos in the future
6:27 Those marks doesn’t necessarily mean that he was abusive as well, those could be defensive wounds/fighting back against her attacks. True feminists know that it’s time we start holding female abusers accountable and raising awareness and support for male abuse victims, rather than assuming that abuse is “mutual” just because the man is harmed
As the old saying goes, 'You are what you attract.' I believe it's mutual because you see these kind of relationships more often than people want to admit. Some days the woman starts it, other times it's the man. All in all..they both need therapy and to focus on themselves lol
Mutual abuse does not exist
I don't know, the blows that were seen on Emma's legs don't give me the impression that they were made by Evan and i don't even understand why they assume that if Emma has marks, it's necessarily Evan's responsibility, as if he was the only person around her.
Those bruises remind me of all the times I fell to the ground when I was a child. In addition, she worked on sets, sometimes the actors have to record action scenes, where it is typical to leave with bruises. Honestly, I think if Evan had done something to her, her injuries would look much worse, after all, he's bigger than her and has big hands, hardly anything he'd done to her would match little bruises.
Thank you so much for this video Sloan. I had no idea any of this was going on. I’m so thankful for you 💚
I just did my own research on this literally like 3 days ago! Happy to see you cover it!
Thank you, Sloan!!! Love your updates!
I have NEVER clicked a Sloan video so fast in my life 😅 I asked for this video like a year ago 🥺💓 You're beyond amazing Sloan
There are definitely cases in which women abuse men and it's not mutual, saw it with my parents, my mom is a raging narcissist and can't help physically and mentally abusing all of us while my dad is a very shy, passive guy who'd never fight back. Of course he didn't tell anyone or try to leave because he was in denial and thought it's emasculating to admit your wife is abusing you.
Same
He's a p.ssy. I know exactly that dynamic.
My mother was 147cm tall and was already feeling like a leftover at the age of 28 unmarried. My father was an unmarried loser at the age of 40 with no achievments. But marriage would bring him stability and some sort of status also having a woman to work for him while also treating him like a king. He needed aomeone to feed him and wash his dirty underwear.
He was so passive that the only thing He did was come home at sat on the couch. My mother would lose her shit because she had to work, take care of husband and take care of children.
There were fight everyday. My father wouldn't have the initiative of picking the car and driving his wife with a sick child on her arms to the hospital because he needed to sleep.
Conclusion my mother was f.cking verbal, psychological and physical abuser, she couldn't physical abuse my father because he was way stronger than her but then he would leave the situation and allow her rage to be lashed out at his children. Good for him.
They are both equally responsible for the abuse.
So glad you covered this, many aren't aware about those happenings. Toxic indeed.
It’s Wild that they both keep getting major roles while some ppl are never forgiven even if they only have one physical incident with their past partner.
White privallage
📢 Chris Brown recent AMA cancellation.
I love them both I didn’t know this 😭
I have a friend in New Orleans the was a server at a club. And she was literally treating him like a slave and hitting him and she refused Emma service. Emma was like “why” and my friend was like “you’re being abusive and I’m not serving you.” Emma made them both leave.
This was a longgg while ago. During ahs beginning.
Must've been during the filming for season 3 AHS Coven. They filmed in New Orleans. Very sad to hear all these stories here in the comments of people who met them during their relationship. She seems so horrible.
why are you so obsessed with her.
@@idk-vu8ce they aren't?
@Sloan I knew this a long time ago like when men get abused it is not spoken out about enough I'm glad you brought this subject to light
Sloan exposes everyone in the name of JUSTICE and I'm here for it! You on fire Sloan🔥🔥
Thank you for this video!! LOVE YOU SLOAN ❤❤
Really exceptional video
Your so good at what you do and I love that you deal with so many issues that are effecting our society today ..thankyou sloan
When I worked at the west LA party city it was around the time of scream queens and one of the costume associates came in to buy boas. We chatted and she told me without telling me that Emma Roberts and lea Michele were nightmares to work with.
I've always had this vibe because she follows amber heard since all that drama. Maybe my vibe was right. She supports an abuser because she is 1 herself.
I’m glad you spoke about this. I feel like not enough people talk about men being abused. I know in this they both possibly abused each other, but too many people forget women can be the abuser this causing many men to not report and suffer in silence due to stigmas. Thanks for bringing awareness!
He didn't abuse anyone. She is the abuser.
Thought you described everything logically and were very compassionate in your take. Thanks for making this.
I really hope Evan finds someone not toxic, because even after Emma, he is (or at least a was, they most likely have broken up) with some woman named Frances Mairead who, by all accounts, is just as toxic (minus the physical violence).
Sloan, what a great retrospective of their relationship. You are so right in saying, that you don't have to have such a toxic relationship at this age. They both need therapy in my opinion.
Damn , if a relationship gets that bad , leave ASAP 😢
It's not that simple.
Wow really never would have thought
tell me why as soon as he said she had switched the name cards to sit next to him it came across as a red flag. Damn I like both of them a lot as actors. Had NO idea that this relationship was so toxic, awful and dangerous.
Yeah, if some random chic did this, everybody's first thought would have been "crazy stalker".
I hate the term "mutually abusive" is there no such thing as defending yourself anymore? Hitting someone back after they've abused you isn't abuse, it's defending yourself and the other person deserves it. Don't want to be hit, don't hit other people.
Mutual abuse does not exist
@@kelleylmiller it’s either reactive abuse or abuse. Mutual mean equal- abuse is not a product of equals. I’m not here to dismiss anything but to inform. That term was made by ppl to dismiss and deny victims of abuse who defended themselves. There are complicated situations but it can never be equal bc that’s simply not what abuse is about. Abuse cannot work if the two people are equal.
@@Angel-ts8rc there is such thing as mutual abuse. I have a friend who she and her boyfriend beat on each other. She gets mad and smacks , punches him. He gets mad and shoves, yells, breaks things . And they both act like there’s nothing wrong and it’s normal.
Mutual abuse exists pepper do fight each others get over it
Mutual abuse is different from self defence. It is when both couples participate in the emotional, verbal or physical abuse. One person may be the primary instigator but it is fundementally different from self defence in that the behaviours are abusive, not defensive. Self defence can result in injury, but the intent is not to injure but to prevent something more serious from happening. Self defense is about descalation, whereas mutual abuse escalates. ♡
FINALLY SOMEONE TALKS ABOYT THIS!!!GO SLOAN🙌🏻
this was riveting - sloan i love how you take these hollywood stories but make them more about lessons for others. your channel is always going to be one of my favorites.
Yessss Sloan came to the rescue on talking about things that no one talks about. This is why I like your YT channel so much
I am so glad I asked you to make this video, thank you Sloan 😊
Off topic but I appreciate the hard work you did here!! Keep up the good work!!!❤❤
Another Johnny Depp and Amber Turd scenario!
Awesome room so glad you’re accomplishing so much ! Yay SLOAN!!
For everyone who doesn’t know who Evan Peters is? I was like wait there’s people who don’t know who he is?
I feel like up until a few years ago women being abusive in a relationship was just ignored. After Johnny Depp and Amber Heard's trial many people realized women can be abusive too. It's still majority men but women too.
I love your topic choices Sloan. You always cover the ones where little is out but we all want to know about it.
Another great video👍 Sloan u have the best and most original content!!! I always look forward to watching your new uploads when the notification bell goes off. Watching your channel is a wonderful escape from everyday life.
Congratulations on your new place I bet it's beautiful just like u💗💗
Well said Sloan!!! You Rock!!! Love from Ont, Can! xo
I think another great lesson to learn from all this is that when you're in a relationship like this you're tied to them forever in some kind of way- wether it's through love, trauma, other's perspectives, whatever it may be, but that person becomes a part of your life forever regardless of how long you're with them. It's hard to let people go but don't let these kind of relationships go on longer than they need to🖤
No you’re not, you don’t have to be tied to them forever, they chose to do that by continuing to break up and getting back together when they should have cut ties
Mmmm nah you’re definitely not
Nup I don't agree either, you're only tied to someone if u choose it to be that way. Unless u had a child with someone.
Other people’s perspectives should not function as or be thought of as a “tie” to your abuser. The only perspective about your life that matters is your own, and you are entitled to leave any relationship you want behind.
@@wilsal2485 even then you’re really not can vouch
Bruises on legs and elbow definately isn't consistent with DV. I am constantly covered in bruises on my legs and arms being a result of being a bit gumby and not watching where im walking.. pretty common.
I love how thorough you are, I just subscribed. Great content!
Next time I get curious about any celebrity I’m just gonna check here first because Sloan always comes through with the receipts
do you really belive this?
Evan is such a kind soul he would never hurt anyone
you can’t be serious right? he also abused her stop defending him weirdo
at the end of the day theyre both celebrities so you never really know their true personalities
@@subliminaladdict101Emma Roberts fan is that you?
@@ophelia9604he’s just not delusional
I’ve been in a toxic relationship that was off and on for years. I don’t know why I didn’t end it sooner cuz he lied and cheated and physically abused me all the time. Was super possessive, degrading, mysogynistic and always thinking I was cheating, when it was him. Life is so much better without the pos.
I’ve BEEN WAITING for this one
Personally I’ve been in a toxic relationship like this. Mutually abusive but I’ll admit I was usually the first aggressor and honestly I’ve gotten bruised up from just lashing out myself. You never know she could have been bruised being restrained while she’s hitting him, dropping to her knees, throwing herself around dramatically, hitting herself even. I’ve done it. I’ve punched things threw things just going nuts. If she’s like I was in my teenage years, a tiny ball of rage, he may have never hit her. And yet of course there’s a possibility he has.
110% I agree and relate.
This.
Mutual abuse does not exist. Pls don’t use that term, it’s wrong and dismissive. It’s either abuse or self defense. Power is at the core of abuse and cannot be mutual.
@@Angel-ts8rc well when two people are both actively violent and it’s a power struggle in the relationship because you’re both unstable. Next week when the other person is angry and they are then abusive and the entire relationship is trying to get one up on each other, constantly acting out of line it’s not a sole abuser. It’s mutual that neither is trying to find the solution learn and grow to not harm each other.
Until you’ve been there you wouldn’t know. But if one person is always the one starting the violence and the other one fights back maybe. But that was not the case in my relationship and many others I’ve seen. I hear you, but it doesn’t apply on the comment you responded to.
@@botanicassie that’s reactive abuse!!
I feel like some people are just really, really bad for each other. I've seen people come out of one toxic relationship and not be toxic in the next, some people really just don't vibe and can't take a step back and decide to end it before it gets physical.
Emma always gave me red flag vibes.
Love you Sloan. You talk sense and brilliantly tell us all the biz. 😀☺️😉
I'm sooooo glad you said something about thisss
Interesting how when the woman is the abuser people give her a lot more grace than the other way around.
I was in a abusive relationship one day we would be so happy and then the next day we're both brawling. I am so glad I got out of that relationship. Part was my fault. We both were at fault for it and the break up was brutal because we were both dependent on each other. Now I have learned how to process my emotions better and I learned from it. 15 years later
I love your perspective.thanks for sharing
Emma would’ve gotten pregnant the same month Evan broke up with Halsey. I have a suspicion that he found out, took it hard, and his relationship with Halsey quickly crumbled. To my knowledge he hasn’t been with anyone since.