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As a guy it's pretty refreshing to see that being a terrible person isn't a gender issue
I think representation is important but I'm not the stupidest person in the room. There are always going to be idiots who will take one of Click's videos out of the overall wholesome context.
The alternative solution tastes like cardboard.
Oh yes. Being an asshole is non gender specific. It means we all need to work hard not to be one.
@@MissCaraMint Remember kids! Just because you HAVE an asshole, doesn't mean you should BE one too! 😊
its an human issue xD
@@Raiden4019lol, I gonna save that!
I usually just told my mother "just because they do it doesn't mean you should too, just be better and ignore them!"
But well... My mom using all her philosophical BS on me without even following it herself, she just says them whenever She feels like I should follow them...
I hate hypocrisy, she noticed and slowly stopped trying to "lecture" me, lol.
I lecture her from now on! 😈
Honestly, the "No means try harder" kinda girls are the worst here imo. Their behavior hurts other women because it encourages men to not accept no as a valid answer, and keep harassing people.
That mentality is legitimately scary because it's not even a grey area, it's just not okay
Because you know what's in store when they find a guy who won't take no for an answer, and they will swiftly find out that saying no should always be a clear option.
@@ShitkidOfJamrock Yes, exactly
I got shamed many times in my youth for “not trying harder” and that I “showed them I wasn’t really interested “ or “how easily moved on so I didn’t really had a crush” and I was always confused as heck. Now, as an adult actively in the kink community, I always have a long conversation about boundaries and expectations, and that attitude of “you should read my mind”is a huge red flag always for manipulative behavior.
Kings, don’t let anybody play with your feelings or your self perception. You can be masculine and project confidence without being aggressive nor a but-hole. You don’t need to fit yourself to their expectations. The right person will compliment you, not take anything away from you. Know yourself first and your limits before putting yourself out there.
Those are the kind of girls who "can't find a good man" because they're actively selecting for men who won't respect their boundaries, and then wonder why they keep getting in abusive relationships.
Them and the backup plan ones
Well at least the one toxic moron outed herself on social media so the guy can walk away
I had a massive “Not like other girls” phase
I realised later that I’m not like other girls because I am, in fact, a boy
i feel like so many of us had a "not like other girls" phase because we just weren't girls
Me in my early teens: Haha I'm not like other girls, I'm like a gay man in a woman's body
Me like a year later: Wait a damn minute.............
Now I'm just a gay man in a man's body, since if I'm a man and I have a body, that makes it a man's body ✨
character development
real. turns out i was trans AND autistic. double whammy
@@leoyakafudy Ayyy same! I got my autism diagnosis as a fun bonus while I was getting my psyche eval for gender dysphoria lmao
I wont lie. I remember being a young child, pre-teen and teen being told by all the women and media in my face "if he really loves you, he'll fight for you" and then i was really confused why no guys lived up to this mythical standard of "if you treat him like crap and tell him youre done, he'll try ✨harder✨" it took me years to realise that if you tell a guy you're done, the good ones will respect that and let you do you. The ones that cant take no for an answer and bend over bavkwards love bombing you after you break up with them are literal walking red flags.
As a kid I took that literally and thought “well I hope he wouldn’t have to punch people for me.” But yeah, I can see how that saying would confuse some people now. I just take things too literally sometimes, while reading too deep into other things.
i thought the "He'd fight for you" meant that he'd fight to protect you...
@@outer1329 in some cases, yes, I think this is what people mean. But, from my point of view as a child, in all the movies when she broke up with him, or told him she was done, or leaves, he would bend over backwards with ridiculous shows of love and attention, he would make a big showy display of his love, he would *fight* to keep her. I think that maybe warped my perspective of the expression. A lot of what was considered "sweet" in the 90s would be called stalking now 😂😂
@pixiesouter9461 Yeah, that's like every romantic comedy ever. It really sets a terrible example for both boys/men and girls/women.
Edit: Also, until I got into therapy, I definitely dated an unfortunate amount of guys who *did* act like that. I already had difficulty maintaining boundaries and trusting my gut bc of childhood trauma. And since I felt like I couldn't trust my own judgement the example set by media made me think that maybe I was wrong about what relationships were supposed to look like. I therefore ended up looking at those examples in media, and thought that maybe the guys I dated were telling the truth when they said that them "trying so hard" (ignoring my boundaries), reacting so strongly to things I did (being emotionally, mentally and physically abusive), and wanting to spend so much time with me (isolating me) were signs of how much they cared. It also made it a lot easier for two of them to literally gaslight me. And I stayed with them way, way too long. Like it'd take me at minimum a year to finally break up with them successfully. I say successfully bc in one case the guy just said "no" when I tried to break up with him. I was so broken, turned around, and isolated that it took me almost 4 years to finally realize that if you break up with somebody the relationship is done. They can't just argue you out of it.
Tl;dr: When I was younger the combination of not trusting my gut (largely bc of childhood SA), and what I saw in the media, ended up really affecting my judgement around relationships. It changed how I viewed the way I was treated by guys and, therefore, how I allowed myself to be treated.
I ended up dealing with this a LOT with a partner but it was during a phase when I was also a shit bird in a lot of ways, I did continue to chase them and work on myself but they also put a lot of effort in (we both thought a lot of weird things about relationships and we're pretty immature) but now we've been together 10 yrs and have rolled out all the kinks. Just a bit of hope for people in reckless relationships, not that any of it was okay, but follow your heart.
As some one who went through a "not like other girls" phase, it was actually a way to cope wit gender dysphoria. Cause being "not like other girls" was better than having to call myself a girl.
Congratulations on transitioning 😊
omg same!!
Honestly same. Happy you have been able to be your true self, dear. May your life be full of joy.
Damn literally same
Bro same help
I'd have said that thinking random non-gendered things are 'gay' or 'feminine' counts as toxic masculinity expectations.
Yes, that toxic masculinity could have been stamped multiple times already…
that’s not toxic masculinity, that’s just toxic
@@jimmkekw It's a toxicity assigned to manliness. What else would toxic masculinity be?
Omg that was bugging me thanks for saying that
For those, that's not masculinity in general, though. I'd say more homophobia.
Besides, for toxic masculinity, I'd expect more stuff about wanting an "alpha male", "man who won't take no for an answer", "man with a what he says goes personality", etc..
Relationship advice for all genders:
- Treat each other with respect
- Communicate your wants and needs
- Handle arguments in and adult way
- Don't treat your partner as a wallet
- Share the load
- Don't play (mind) games
- Surprise each other with small gifts
- Don't invade their privacy by snooping through their stuff
- Don't forbid them from having friends, or going out with friends
- Build good memories by doing things you both enjoy
- Have realistic expectations
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Internet Uncle-Gay🏳️🌈 here! I'm surprised by how many of these come standard in gay male relationships.
Love this!
I will still play games though!
Nothing beats the feeling of playing a simple board or card game with a significant other. It's one of the most beautiful things I've experienced
My friend got a bf recently and omg they're so adorable, I literally give them advice on everything. The thing is, my friend is nonbinary and their bf... well has said homophobic slurs before 😭
@@TamWam_ I'm so, so sorry to tell you, but no matter how cute they are at the start, this relationship is doomed unless this bf does some major growing Really Fast. Here, give this a hug:
As Dan Savage, the noted sex- and relationship-advice-columnist, says, "Homophobia is Misogyny's snot-nosed little brother. Where you see one, the other isn't far away." He will then go on to advise women, "Therefore, if your boyfriend is homophobic, he's also misogynistic at some level. So he therefore also _hates _*_you._* DTMFA"
And I, [cis] Internet Uncle-Gay🏳🌈, have a corollary to this: "Transphobia is pop-sci misconceptions about the Y-chromosome, dodgy-fake-genetics-masquerading-as-'bAsIc-BiOlOgY', Homophobia, and Misogyny, all standing on each other's shoulders while wearing a trenchcoat and a fedora." So, this homophobic BF hates non-cis-people, and almost certainly _does not_ see your friend as enby. Hell, he probably sees them as a girl that he can "fix".
Again, I'm so, so sorry, but, based on my 3 decades being out, I this relationship heading for trouble. I see misgendering in your friend's future as this bf invalidates their enby identity. ☹
Have some more ESDs:
I think this bingo needs a "slut shaming" box and a "random red flag" for those girlies who dont like men eating breakfast whit glasses
To be fair, glasses are hardly the most efficient tool to eat breakfast with... 🤔
Or a box for "X is gay/unmanly" where x is the most random bs like wearing glasses or watching movies...
@@Ellemieke25not with that attitude
@@dodobarthel2249 and the "Comparing ex's to current boyfriend as a put down"
I really need to know the reason why she thinks men with glasses or men who eat breakfast or men who watch movies by themselves is unmanly
I’m afab (assigned female at birth) who eats breakfast, has glasses and watches movies alone sometimes and I’d want to know the reasoning of a guy who tells me those things aren’t feminine because I am a feminine presenting enby so the first thing someone like they would see me as is a girl so how do they explain why having glasses, eating breakfast or watching movies alone is not feminine 💀
Im sure you can count the 'doing or wearing this is gay' as a homophobia bingo. They are using queerness as a negative so I personally think it counts.
Your bingo content is so much fun! Thank you for the lols. Hope you take care. ♡
Yeah for sure! And I noticed most of those can fall under the toxic manliness bingo too because of all "oh men are weak for wearing glasses" and that bs.
@@ashanenbyrogue804 oh most definitely.
I think that stuff also falls under 'Toxic "manliness" expectations'
@being_myself
Yep.
Expecting men to lead exclusively joyless lives without sweets, vision aids, vegetables or scarves is just weird.
Feels like their ideas of masculinity come exclusively from fast food commercials.
Was about to comment this!
How is the "Barbie wife" even an insult? Yeah thanks I WILL enjoy my smart beautiful successful wife that bought a house and two cars with a profit of her own business.
She probably thinks barbie is all looks with no personality or something
The wonderful irony that Barbie is a go-getter, self-starter, and usually an icon for girlbosses?!
Could be generational. My parents see Barbie as an icon for make expectations of women as beautiful with no skills.
@@hmnhntr TBH it really depends on the iteration. Recent barbie animated movies are often centered on the girls' abilities, and don't even always have a love interest for the main character.
In other contexts tho, it can clearly be toxic expectations
Awsome! That's what I am trying to work towards. I want my own successful businesses and non-profits to run.
I feel like every woman who talked about men being in their "feminine era" should have had a circle in the toxic "manliness" expectations square.
No kidding! I was wondering why Clicky wasn't marking it then....
@@ShinyAvalonguess he made up for it at the end. May have forgotten that square existed until close to the end
@@keriannekerr1876🎉vt
Every Insta profile I've seen talking about "feminine era" and "feminine energy" looked like it was part of a cult and I'm pretty sure it is.
thats what I thought myself...
"If he doesn't beat you, he doesn't love you."
Just... WOW.
I have no words to describe how very f$%ked up that is.
Someone definitely had an interesting time growing up.... Those behaviors are taught 😬
@@chaoticcar1052either a bad childhood, or is letting their kink bleed into their normal life
I hate seeing that because all it does is "prove" all women like being abused to them shitty incels
This was a very obvious case of both attention seeking and rage bait
@@chaoticcar1052No it's a kink
Response to the 'fetish' thing-
People who have a 'brat/brat tamer' dynamic normally do it in a healthy way. The 'brat/s will usually act out in a way that causes a fixable problem (sometimes repeatedly) or they'll annoy their 'tamer' and test the tamer's patience before the tamer 'disciplines' them in a way they've both agreed to'.
Consent is the main component in any relationship.
This! Being a brat doesn't mean being an asshole to people (except with negotiated consent).
Yes! A brat only brats after consent in a good brat/tamer relationship. Being a bitch out the gate isn't a brat thing, it's a bitch thing.
ya do things like steal a bite of your dissert. not emotional abuse
This!!! I loved the idea of being in either role, but it’s important for consent to be clear from all parties
Yes. And there's good bitches and bad bitches. Good ones are the ones that stand up for decency, kindness, compassion, empathy etc but might make a 'bitch' of themselves when confronting abuses and abusive societal norms. Bad ones... are what these gals are. @@katerinaadriah
There were people who thought I hated them based on my facial expression. Then I got glasses and they realized I wasn't glaring, I was squinting.
I totally believe this. I had a coworker once whose voice made her sound like...well, like the most chiche "Alpha B!tch" character in the worst-written teen drama ever made. Every word dripped condescension and contempt...or so it sounded. But we all realized pretty quickly that she had no idea she sounded like this, so one day when the boss was out we told her, and she was absolutely _horrified,_ and started fixing it right away.
A late friend of mine used to claim that if you give out a false impression, you _must_ be aware on some level, and it must be at least a _little_ true. I know that's not the case, and this incident was my best illustration why not. Sometimes you just _don't know_ how you look/sound from the outside.
Literally Randall’s arc from Monsters Inc lmao
I have this. It's like a mix between resting bitch face and resting sad face. And they all mean get new glasses
This just happened to my husband. He just got glasses for the first time at 31. I keep getting overwhelmed by making eye contact with him because his eyes have doubled in size 😂
@@ShinyAvalonJudging someone based on how their voice sounds is something to fix in oneself as well.
How are we glossing over the “Your mom doesn’t count” when asking for the most romantic thing a man has done for a woman? Who is out here romancing their own mum? 😂
Oedipus.
@@rolfs2165at least he wasn't aware of it.
I can only assume it's about the Boy Mom's son. If you grew up with a mother who basically dated you, then you might do traditionally romantic things with their mom.
Basically, the weirdest way of saying, "tell me you didn't do emotional icky stuff with your parent", but in the worst possible way
Chris.
@@Chilloutlilbrochan?
Toxic boy moms and sons... I guess.
She thinks glasses are gay because with 20/20 eyesight he can check out cute men 😂
The real reason I have glasses is for cute boys :3
(Seriously tho, I’m just gay & visually impaired lmao)
Reminds me of that joke/meme where someone calls anything gay, like, "being a private investigator kinda gay, whose privates you inspecting? 🤨"
This particular one is like, "kinda gay to wear glasses, what you looking at? Men?"
@@guggelguggel7491"Fellas, is it gay to wear glasses?" I mean, you're wearing something to be able look at men."
@@m4yr4i"When it's all about MMMMMMEEEEUHH!!!"
"Fellas, is it gay to like woman? You are literally in love with another man's sperm" is definitely the funniest one
I like these bingos, they’re reminiscent of the bingos Jacksfilms does with a nice twist to it. Your hair looks great btw, Cliccy.
I love cliccy thiccy wiccy
I also really miss the Jarvis Johnson bingos for Dharr Mann. It was like Jack’s bingo but earlier, and Jack’s bingos were keeping me going through the ending of that series.
Yea I hope he does more like this. I love Jacksfilms bingo cards
I got WAY too invested in this game of bingo. At one point I thought I missed one and I was low-key outraged lol.
Jjjacksfilms’ one was less staged
I was a not like other girls girl in middle school, I was boyish and didn’t really care what anyone thought about me, I was happy to exist as I was and didn’t care to change myself to what people thought girls should be. It turns out I was just neurodivergent, tired of patriarchal expectations, and bi.
Honestly! And by being like that we were just like other girls XD wild isn't it?
@TheRainyKingdom Omg! Absolutely the same, I’m bi too! I’m AuDHD, hbu?
Same. 😂 Fortunately grew out of it by the time I left high school. Mine was triggered because my fifth grade teacher complimented me on "not being like other girls" because I was into science and reading vs makeup and hair, so that became a personality trait of mine for several years. Thinking back on it now is super ick. 🤢
Same!
In a way you were right, because your brain was wired differently.
(I’m autistic and ADHD, hyperactive presentation.)
I recently came out as trans to my friends, one of them asked if I wanted to go out for food to celebrate. So me and one of my friends were hanging out when a “girl boss” came up to us and said “you know that’s a girl right? How do you two fudge?”. First off I happily have a boyfriend and am not very comfortable with that kind of talk. And my friend. Decided to say. “We don’t! But I fudge your dad!”. The most iconic line I ever heard.
That’s an amazing response! 😂 And congratulations on your coming out 🎉
Wait, just so I can get the full picture here, are you he or her
I’m a trans guy, but my phone was set up by my transphobic mother
@@MeganMontella-yt6oe your friend is awesome and I am so proud of you. that strange girl wasn't raised right -- gotta put her in her place and your friend did just that. bravo
Who walks up a couple of strangers in public and asks them how they have sex?
I think "he should accept me even when I cheat" is becoming common enough it deserves its own spot, similar to "think of me when ur with ur boring future wife"
reminds me that over 10 years ago there were all these meme-pictures shared (alongside with "real woman have curves") that said in essence that when she cheats on a dude there were good reasons for that and if she cheated the guy was at fault. i was still young and today have no contact to a single person who shared such stuff or almost anyone from those days...back then i considered almost everyone i knew personally as a "friend"
I'm seriously confused by the women who demand hundreds of dollars for a date. Like, how much do they think the average hooker costs?
I honestly think _all_ relations between men and women would be improved if sex work was decriminalized and normalized. Imagine how much easier it would be for men to not hit on everone if they can just buy sex when they need it. Animals don't hunt if they're fed. Imagine these over-expectant women knowing that it's perfectly safe and legal for a guy to get laid rather than shell out to have a drink with her narcissistic attitude.
I think it would make things better for everyone.
@@drtaverner
The only problem with that is that a lot of sex work is often made up of actual sex trafficking.
@@drtavernerI don’t… technically… disagree, but the problem with as it stands now is that even if it were made legal you still have pimps (even on places like OF, always wild when some dude bro crawls out of the woodwork and doesn’t call himself a “manager” but actually calls himself a “pimp”) and that’s where it gets _really_ iffy. Making it legal doesn’t magically make it safe.
Sadly this isn’t those handful of “houses of ill repute” that existed in the 1800s where they were usually run by a former worker and made sure people didn’t have diseases-in a time where antibiotics just didn’t exist so if a girl got something she lost everything and life got much much worse. It’s not just about the percentage of men who want to hook up, it’s also about protecting those who are hooked up with and those who do the hooking up. I’m not saying “all guys are gonna beat a hooker” but if everyone had some safety guidelines in place it wouldn’t hurt anyone. No idea how you’d regulate that though, and my (limited) understanding of high end escorts is that “safety” runs the gamut.
@@terittthat’s a problem that arises BECAUSE sex work is criminalized. It’s easier to manipulate people into not going to the cops when you’ve forced them to commit a crime
@@Gloomdrake
It’s. Really not. The places in the world where sex work is in fact normalized have the highest rates of sex trafficking. It’s called sex tourism.
"Looks like you're not putting much effort into this conversation."
Said the girl responding to literal paragraphs of text with " 👍"
ikr!!
I hate people who text that way!! It’s like trying to talk to a brick wall. Like why would I put my energy into a conversation when all I’m gonna get back is 👍
I'm glad I wasn't the only one who felt that.
Had an ex sit in the car with me literally stewing about what he 'thought' we should be doing. When I finally got it out of him it was so far out we'd need a time machine to take us back to when that conversation was appropriate: two whole DAYS prior.
Speak up. It's immature to complain retrospectively.
If you don't speak up and your [mum] ends up organising everything in your life, be grateful you even have a [mum] who would do that, not spiteful because [she] [puts bread in the freezer because the weather is hot].
I don't make the rules, time is a fact of life.
@@vapx0075 You should rethink that attitude. Leaving things to "sink in" and "simmer" before actually bringing it up in most cases is a good thing. Time to figure out if it's actually important to you or it was just something in the heat of moment or something like that.
That you not only don't see the value of that, but even hold it against people I find really disconcerting. Would you prefer people burst out complaints and get into arguments only to shortly thereafter notice they were overreacting?
Yes. Time is a fact of life. That would be exactly my point here, as well. Thing is, t's not always the enemy. It can be on your side, so to speak. Time is usually time the people involved can churn over the stuff in their heads so when the actual argument happens, they have softened up already and also can articulate better what they want and need.
Of course all this is very dependent on the situation (as in, sometimes there are things where it is important you bring it up right away), but you stated in general terms, so I could only speak against that in general terms as well.
Imagine
Man: "We've been dating for a while and its finally time do you want to get married?"
Her: 👍
I feel like all those "desserts are for girls" "real men don't wear glasses" Etc ones fit under toxic manliness expectations.
I have an idea: when a man calls himself "alpha" tell him that's a beta move it would impact his day and make him re-think a few life decisions
And when a woman calls a man "Lvm" (Low value man) say that's a Lvw move she will rethink her approach to dating
I really like ur user name😂
Yup. Even assuming alpha/beta applied to humans, a real alpha would never need to claim to be one (much like 'nice guys')
I get the point but... Click pretending he's not most people's type is just kind of adorable.
Haha, I thought the same originally 😄 Then I realised that there's also lots of straight men, lesbian women, women with very specific preferences he doesn't fit into, people way too young or old to be into him etc. So now I think that was actually a very realistic statement.
@@durabelle sure if you think just about physicality. But I was considering things like being bi-lingual, having advanced degrees, being successful in his chosen field, being fully accepting and supportive of friends of all kinds, being funny, charismatic, and truly kind. That's what I want in a partner. Granted he's conventionally attractive being tall and in-shape, I'm not blind, but it's not his looks that keep me subscribed. I actually have a strange phobia of jewelry and it really bothers me on men. I'm also pretty scared of snakes. I'm subscribed to Roly and half a dozen reptile channels because I've discovered that I'm slowly becoming desensitized by the constant exposure. That's one of my weird quirks and I'm sure others have theirs too so I try to focus on the things I can enjoy fully, like how he fights ablelism with his with his willingness to joke about his dyslexia and color blindness and highlighting his lack of religion, something that's important to me as an out atheist in the US.
@@angel665b Totally! I get all those qualities you mentioned, and personally value them more than physical things too. But of course physical attributes like people's sexuality and him being a man will already mean he can't really be most people's type. So I didn't deem it as pretending, or fake modesty either, after I gave it some thought.
(And of course there's also people who specifically don't want a highly educated partner, or an accepting one, but rather look for a fellow bigot to share their lives with.. But let's hope they're in minority!)
@@durabelle lol well his posting of thirst traps alone tells me there's a little bit of false modesty. Not enough to be considered faking or anything but enough for a bit of a giggle. He knows his value, I just think some of the other things I mentioned get lost sometimes. Those things transcend age, gender, and sexuality, unless of course you find those bigots you mentioned, and I hope we don't! Certainly not in this community I would think. Much love!
@@angel665bomg hello fellow kosmemophobic!!! It's so rare to see people talk about it here.
As someone who has grown up with a crippling fear of being labeled a burden or a failure it absolutely baffles me when people have a checklist of requirements that their DATE has to follow while they offer NOTHING in return. Like, bro, it's hard enough for me to ask to split the check 50/50 instead of paying it all myself, let alone ask for $300+ worth of spending on a FIRST. DATE.
Right. Why would i want to spend all of this money on someone i know barely anything about and could turn out to be a huge ah? I would at least want to meet someone first before offering to pay anything. I have no issues with the part where she tells people to not expect sex, because some men can be very demanding about it and she probably had to deal with a lot of men just complaining and treating her like shit for it. But the price tag she wants people to pay is just too much
@@arielruby13 Exactly, sex isn't obligatory on a first date. In fact, unless it's a mutually agreed hookup, I'd argue that it shouldn't even be on the table. The first date is for exploration imo, learning about each other and finding the shared interests between you two, trying to see if you'd make a good pair.
@@thesaltdragon yesss
I find being invited somewhere and being expected to pay for anything without first discussing if whether or not that person can afford it or not to be rude and disrespectful, not to mention really insulting. People should really sit down and do write down what they expect from others and see if that person matches up, and if not just don't waste each others' time. I find it annoying when both genders have unrealistic expectations for the opposite genders that they themselves could never live up to.
Hey man, you've got worth. You're a human being. Don't let people with actual mental illnesses (narcissism) define how you feel about your dating habits.
My first date with my girlfriend was literally a zoom call where we folded origami. It was basically free and we had so much fun. To this day we haven't spent over $100 on a singular date because that's just not who either of us are. We just walk in nature and watch movies and shit. Maybe go out to a restauraunt together on valentines. We're both poor college students who really appreciate the thought behind what we do
And trust me, if you get the confidence to have your dating standards and keep them up, the right woman who is interested in you will respect that. You've got this.
I had a friend once that cut me off once she did my "chart" in astrology. I cheerfully told her the info, people have done it a fair bit with me before.
We were having good times, my friends liked her, and we shared common interests, except, of course, for astrology. I tend to humor people about it, sometimes they'll realize how absurd it is mid-explanation.
So she DMs me a couple of days later and says, basically, "we can't be friends, because of x house and y rising and associated hootenanny. Goodbye."
She started telling mutuals I was bad for them, too, and I needed to be with my own people. If that stuff actually worked, then I wouldn't have been friends with these people in the first place. Some of them are still my friends, so to Hell with astrologers and their made-up meanspirited mumbo-jumbo.
It's astounding how many people believe in that crap.
"I set her straight." sounds like something Andrew Tate would unironically say.
New category for you:
"Fellas, is it gay to ...?"
Commom answers include:
- see
- be short
- eat desserts
- *nebulously female thing*
Saw one where the mirror was taken out of a men’s bathroom and it said “You don’t need a mirror, you’re a man.” One of the replies was “Fellas, is it gay to look in a mirror?” And the best reply (to me) was “What are you gonna look at? A MAN???” 😂
Gotta add eating yogurt and/or salad
Having sex with a woman
-exist
It's true, I'm proof, I exist, I am gay. That must mean every existing thing is gay
@@the0neBoioThats how you create true equality
Hey Click! If you see this im the comic book person! I finished the cover page yesterday, then colored page 1 this morning, and the presentation went great! Thanks for believing in me!❤❤ you’re amazing!!❤❤❤
HECC YEAH!
The one from stream yesterday? That is amazing!
Yo I have no idea what this is about but that's awesome dude!!
@@hopelessgeek3776 yes!
@@TheClick YESSS! (Thanks sm for responding btw!)
I read the actual reddit thread of the one starting at 10:07 and she was UNHINGED. It was actually hilarious to see her comments to replies. No one agreed with her and she was really mad about it
I can't find that one
Didn't she tell someone to "set themselves on fire" also ?
Reditors being strangely sensible for once. Amazing
My ex was a "no means try harder" girl. She told me she didn't see me enough, she refused to come to me or meet me halfway. Insisting on me driving 30 min. To her (not too long of a drive) and staying until near midnight. I was a full time student and a full time worker. I had trouble staying awake while driving (regularly literally nodding off) and actually went off the road once. I told her about this repeatedly. My phone was at the end of its life (Im rough with my phones and it gets expensive) and it would regularly fail to notify me about calls, texts, and chats. A month after she broke up with me she texted me asking why I didn't show up at her work, expecialy after she broke us up. I had to explain that I don't have her schedule, she works over thirty minutes away, I was even more perpetually tired than before. And I am overly careful to avoid crazy ex stereotype... She blocked me. (And later told me I should have gotten around that block.)
You dodged a bullet there.
Had a woman like that some years ago. Actually loved her.
It just doesn't work that way if you're taking yourself seriously.
Working on yourself and your future is way more important. Keep at it.
@@gauloiseguy oh, update. She now has a new boyfriend. She had to fly over two states to get to him... I'm confused as well.
@@brandenlumley4056perhaps she has grown as a person. Probably not, but we can hope...
I was friends with a ✨pick me girl✨ and good God I have never seen someone use the victim card so much. Knowing that she was picked on, I defended her; she got into near fights, I taught her how to fight; she had no come backs, I taught her some and she never used anything that I taught her. She even got “body guards” and she used them as a threat towards anyone that comes off rude OR looks “intimidating”. As the year went on, she picked on anyone and it even went as far as telling a Mexican with broken English to go back to his country. I was behind her so I came up and I spoke a little bit of French (what I knew) and made my British accent clear just to indicate this is unacceptable while kindly telling her it is disrespectful. She laughed and walked off…I no longer spoke to her.
EDIT: WOW THIS BLEW UP! Happy that you guys moved on from your toxic friend
This pick me girl went pick me supervillain sheesh
TL;DR: Had a friend who was a bitch and very much was a main character when I was 10. Good riddens to her. 🫡
When I was younger, I had a similar friend. Admist the years of e-learning and Covid (god it was hell to go through while being a kid.) I started online sleepovers with my friends via Zoom every Friday (basically talking and playing games, until 10 PM). My friend (I'll call her Paige) was very rude. She never got to the point of being racist, homophobic, etc. She was agist though to my friend who was only one year younger. Paige got into a new fight with us every week and it always ended with her leaving the group chat then asking me back in the next day. Do keep in mind, we were like 10 so we used petty insults and that stuff.
I'll give an example. A new movie came out, and we all wanted to watch it. Paige couldn't be on that day. While watching the movie, we got a text from Paige after she saw us watching the movie. "Why are you watching a movie without ME? You know I've been wanting to watch a movie for WEEKS! And you choose the day I'm gone to watch a movie? I'm gonna leave and never come back!" We tried to DM her to reason with her but she blocked everyone besides my friend Sasha (not real name) who Paige would ask to be let back in.
Finally Paige left after saying that my friend Willow (again not real name), who was one year younger, was too young to be on social media platforms (CZcams, Snapchat, etc.), keep in mind, Paige was 11 at the time and was on both of those, and too young to disagree with her mother. Paige said that complaining about something your mother told you to do, Paige complained multiple times that her mother did not let her watch certain shows that we were allowed to watch, was disrespecting her. Group chat was very peaceful after that.
Sorry for the long rant, I really needed to get that off my chest. She especially targeted me and my friend, Willow. Made me feel like shit and also lowered my self confidence. Very toxic, but she was one of my I do admit, might have been a bit rude back but that was mostly accidental since I was around 10 at the time. Definitely main character vibes from her. Switched schools and rarely talked to her. Last time I talked to her was when Willow dared me to send "e" to my most recent DMs. And that got me into a fight. Anyhow, this was long yet oddly therapeutic.
@@Hannah-ut1di Wow! Thank God you left that toxic child, and I’m happy everything is more peaceful without her
Sorry but I'm confused - why were you speaking French to a Mexican?
@@ranimeRAT I understood it as he was speaking French to HER, in order to show off his cosmopolitan attitude and emphasize the incompatibility to her xenophobic one.
Preferences are fine, but it always stuns me how strictly some people refuse to date outside of them. I find tall men attractive. I married a man who's 5'9" (just two inches taller than myself). And honestly, the height similarity is amazing. The cuddles and snuggles etc are so comforting.
Interesting take on heights considering 5'9" is taller than the world average for men and is spot on for men in the us, and not many non-americans use that weird system.
As a 5'11 woman who stopped growing at 13, when I was a teen I did want a 'tall' bf so I could be 'normal'. However, I've met the love of my life and he's like 5'9 or 5'10. I really don't understan physical prefences at all.
@@cassiejohnson9410I generally prefer guys that are taller than me which honestly isn't hard because I'm 5'3 but the love of my life is also 5'3 but I won't look short in the wedding photos lol
@@cassiejohnson9410 Wow, same! To height, age and reason for wanting a tall boyfriend when I was young. I'm 40 now, and I've never even had a crush on someone taller than me!
@@JWildberry I've had a few but I've never dated anyone taller🤣 I was really insecure because I felt ugly and I was always getting comments and questions about it. When id mention 'oh I'm only 11' 'what omg ur so tall! Do you play basket ball?? ' 'um no I litterly had therapy because of little balance I have' but as I got older and Especially because of things like lady Demitesc and shera (I'm only 21) and hearing people tall about how cool and hot these REALLY tall women were I started to see myself the same way.
I run into the desert once a month and black out. I wake up at sunrise surrounded by the remains of coyotes and rattlesnakes. I walk home shivering cold and covered in coyote blood.
I am EXACTLY like other girls.
what
Name adds up here.
Girl TELL me about it, those coyote blood mornings LOOLL
the thing that gets me mad about 'not like other girls' is that?? no girl is like other girls?? everyone is unique and you don't have to have a 'quirky' personality to be a valuable individual
Not to mention that now *every* gal is quirky one way or the other, be it spontaneous or forced, so it doesn't even set them apart anymore.
I really think it came from movies and TV in the 90s and early 2000s. Every protagonist was "not like other girls" AKA, not like the awful one-dimensional antagonist or side-character. So OF COURSE every girl believed they were not like "other girls" because the "other girls" were unrelatable caricatures of snobs, bores and idiots. Having well developed, realistic, and diverse women portrayed in mass media is quite modern. Hopefully, having exposure to how diverse we are will help the "not like other girls" go extinct.
I once gave my at-the-time girlfriend one of my shirts. After we broke up, she took a video of herself burning it and sent it to a mutual friend. That was wild.
Wow, "Petty revenge" should be a square
Or just "pettiness". I'm sure the red bingo dots will be so thick they'll go opaque quickly and we won't be able to see the word for long.@@sourisvoleur4854
smh wat a waste of clothing material
I'm sure that really made you totally regret breaking up and not at all glad you dodged a bullet lol 😂
"says the buck teeth man that looks like a rabbit"
Idk man being a rabbit seemed to work pretty well for a certain new character on the internet lmao
who?
@minminteaparty Jax from The Amazing Digital Circus. People are SOOOO thirsty over him 😭😭😭
Purple rabbit men get maidens, it’s just how the internet works
@@milanbeerepoot4260plural? There have been multiple?
@milanbeerepoot4260 and whatever the masc version of maiden is too, bc Jax IS kinda 😫🤚💦, know what I mean?
As a man who has glasses, eats breakfast and watches movies alone, I am extremely gay to a crippling level
You should grab OT and Jamie. One of you hosts and the others get different bingo cards. See who wins.
I really like this idea
THIS OML THIS
The guy who was blunt about how he felt about the girl who then went nuts, may have been trying to give her more subtle hints for a while. The no-holds-barred text could have been in exasperation with someone who won't take a hint. I get the impression that she doesn't take reality well.
she even mentioned him criticizing her for how she treats people in the past
If he did drop hints she might have played it off as "he's playing hard to get"
🤦♀️ It does make sense.
Yeah...That completely tracks.
"Personality is important to me and yours is...horrible." 😂😂 Burn Karen, Burn and seeth 😂
That wouldve been the perfect time for some introspective, but she missed the opportunity, decided he needed to bear her tantrum and break some shit.. some girls, man.
How have you been? I havent ‘seen’ you for some time, our viewing schedules have been out of whack 😂 Kissies to doggo, happy tickless season!
man i love seeing him get better at actually making the bingo cards, like the layout and whatnot is clearly improving
character development lol
Yeah also he remembers what he has on the card! He forgot to check the boxes way more often in the beginning
Also i gotta say I didn't think actually having all the boxes checked would be so satisfying to watch 😂
For context I’m bi and there’s a “girl boss” in my geometry class who always asks me why I can’t just pick to be str8 instead and it makes me laugh so hard because she sounds so idiotic
LMAO 💀💀💀
why cant she pick to shut up 😭
That's so odd to think this girl thinks breakfast is a feminine trait, when in UK a Full English Breakfast definitely has masculine energy, very popular with builders and other trademans
Not exclusively and not to the point where girls will be shamed for choosing it. It's more wholesome than that!
It's the same in Canada. A full breakfast is associated with lumberjacks and tradespeople due to the meats, potatoes and maple syrup. And most guys will just be impressed to see a woman inhale it all.
I love a Full English. It saves me having to get lunch 😋
If you don't know what Having A Full English is, it sounds quite dirty.
Oh I love a good full english, it’s so filling and delicious.
@@meaj4556 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I was once waiting for a train, listening to people chat and go around their every day lives while I pass the time. I overheard two women talking, all I heard was "I would NEVER trust a man who wouldn't cheat on me...."
You what, now? That's utterly bizarre!
Irony. Methinks they don't know what "trust" means. Or "healthy relationship".
15:16 great job on the person who censored Emily and Thomas
One girl broke up with me a month ago, and I wasn't comfortable with the relationship so I said OK. Judging by her reaction, I think she wanted me to fight for the relationship... And it's not the first time I encounter something like that. Many girls like to feel desired and play that kind of games to get it.
I wouldn't say "many" like, there are girls like that, but statistically the majority of women aren't like that, or like anything on this video
But yeah sometimes it feels like there's more of them than there are because of seeing the worst examples online or coming across a few irl
(Especially since some people sort of "attract" shitty people, so they'll feel like all women/men are like that, but it's just because those shitty people are drawn to them)
@@beththegreen I said many, not all or most...
Nah Click, she's not calling him gay.
She's calling him a BOTTOM.
It's so much funnier!
Ancient romans be like
lol
🤔
Whats that?
@@BrandonTheOne2 A bottom is the one (sexually) receiving in a relationship, usually submissive
I'd love to see more r/LGBT, r/AccidentalAlly, and all the other ones associated with that!
AccidentalAlly is top tier. We need it.
Maybe Click could do a positivity bingo with categories like "Supportive parent" "healthy boundaries" and "self care"
I feel like Accidental Ally gets fast quick because almost all of them are the same transphobic comments with the gender wrong. It reminds me more of how much bigots want to get things wrong more than it entertains at this point.
I LOVE accidentallally, it's so funny
Saphoandherfriend, achilllesandhispal
*says slur*
"Sorry im an aspargus"
Made me burst out laughing
57:05 I physically recoiled at that, holy shit. Please tell that friend to leave their current partner, they’re clearly in an abusive relationship and it needs to end.
I hate when people use psychology and healing terms to justify toxicity.
"Standing in my power" means never apologizing.
"Holding space" means protection from consequences.
"Virtue signaling" is anything that protects the still healing from further trauma.
It just goes on, and then people like me, those who have *eacaped* this exact type of person, gets called a Karen for investing in self care.
Well said, that is enlightning, thank you!
Yeah. I have thankfully never met anyone like this in person, but I’ve come across enough on the internet to have picked up a similar impression myself. It really is all about not taking accountability for hurting other people.
These people conveniently gloss over the fact you’re supposed to work through all these behaviours… and jut cos there’s a word for it doesn’t give you permission to do it 🤦🏻♀️
I've met a dude who used me as a back up plan. I set up the whole date and everything and he backed out because he was "practicing" with me. Talk about gender reversal
Woo, equality🥳
I feel so sorry for you. 😿
That is so gross. I've never had it go that far, but I have had multiple people ask me out as a practical joke, said no but it still hurts. People that play games like that suck
One of my favorite parts of your videos is watching you as a non-native English speaker have an impeccable grasp on grammar and even idiomatic expressions and correct/point out the mistakes I see very often done by native English speakers lmaooo I’m working on being a lot better about giving unsolicited corrections but one I will never get past is the incorrect use of their/there/they’re
The fact click can consistantly fill 24 tiles with different things, and still fill out 90% of it in one video, shows how many people, of certain groups, fail at the same thing. Over and over.
The girl who got upset about getting rejected proved herself to be exactly as awful as he told her she was. He’s got good taste, and she wouldn’t be so upset if she didn’t know he was right that she didn’t measure up.
I wonder why she got rejected haha
and the fact he felt the need to give a fake number is already a massive red flag already!!! I've only had to do that when a guy doesn't take multiple polite "no"s and polite but increasingly firm rejections for no
I only do this if he's literally cornering me and not letting me leave without my number
(Happens far too many times to count, like actually physically cornering me, following me, one guy even followed me to the women's toilets after I went there to try get away from him, waited outside the cubicle until another girl got a guy to kick him out)
@@beththegreen Oh yeah. Not taking "No" for an answer is the biggest of all red flags.
Turning up to a The Click video in the first hour feels like an award - wonderful content
I know, right? He always exceeds my expectations every time!
I'm late to videos just to be more fabulous.
@@LGBTQLegend I'm late because timezones lmao
15:28 People can still read that that reads Thomas and Emily 😅 Also I hate how “read that that reads” is grammatically correct.
I feel like the "having a boyfriend is like having a stupid son" is badly phrased but probably about men not doing anything around the house, needing someone to cook for them, basically weaponised incompetence, and it is sadly accurate for many women... the women they date end up filling in for what their mothers did for them, because they never learned to be actual adults.
Same goes the opposite, it is astounding how many woman are unable to get the concept that cars need maintainance, like you need to refill and change oil, tires wearout and need air or when the fan is always running you might should check the coolant level.
Weaponized incompetence has been a strong theme in my dating life. I, until recently when I started standing up for myself and setting boundaries, always ended up feeling like a parent. This post resonated with me.
Honestly watching these make me feel better about my own not like other girls phase, and grateful I got out at 10-12 and these women are still in that phase up to their thirties
I also went through that phase! I'm trans though lol. At least I can enjoy pink now
If you're that young I don't think it's a not like other girls thing as much as just a childhood experience cause it's unlikely you knew fully what you were doing.
I didn’t get through it until my early 20’s. 😂 But I made it out!
Same, I had a not like other girls phase at around the same time before I realized that no one is the same and that you just find people you like to hang out with and treat everyone with respect.
I really _wasn't_ like the other girls...but I wasn't like any of the boys, either. Eventually, when I got older, I found some people who _were_ like me, and made great friends. Turns out most of us were neurodivergent, lol.
Today, we learned that having breakfast, needing glasses, and eating dessert all make you gay
56:06 The fact that they put Brazil, France, Jamaica, Liberia and San Marino in as Spanish speaking countries hurt my heart 💔
That dude who tore the bad personality apart made my day.
i honestly felt bad for the tinder girl who feels like she'll never get a boyfriend, because i relate, but then she went and had that reaction to genuine kindness. sheesh.
Self pity is fine as long as you don't let it take control of your actions and life all together.
The most important part is that you're self aware enough to lash out like that girl.
In my humble advice i wanna say that to me, self pity didn't really help much. Plus it felt weird since i tend to be quite positively minded. Accepting your singleness and vibing with life really helps to get yourself together and put yourself first. That also helped me to work a bit on myself, to become as close to the me i want to be. And i am still single. And that doesn't bother me at all. Life as it is now is amazing. And if there would be a sense of justice in this universe, then you'll run into someone one day. May take a while. My best friend, who's 28 had his first relationship at 22 and was single again after 2 years to then be single for 4 years again. Gave me a lot of hope, especially since im by far not 28 (19)
So dont give up hope yet! Your time to shine with a fellow bright star will still come. Not all candles light at the first try 💜
At 18/19 I think we all had that feeling (except the very few who already were in a long term relationship at that age) Look at other people around you, when they met their partners. Most find them in their mid twenties to early thirties. In order to find someone, you need to get out of your school-bubble. unless you are Highschool sweethearts which I know exist but it's not the majority of people.
@@n.n.7668i wish i knew people who still felt this way at 22, it might make me feel a bit better
@@mikelwrites There’s a lot to be said for having fun and being single in your 20s - and I know a lot of people, both male and female, who didn’t start dating until their mid-20s… or later! I had a friend in grad school who hadn’t had a single date, and she was 32. The last I heard, at 34 she met a really genuinely nice guy, and they were making wedding plans at 36. Sometimes you don’t need to date a lot of people, you just need to be the best person you are.. and vibe with that right person when they come along. (And don’t let anyone sell you on the one person in 8 billion being “the one.” We have lots of ones! The neat trick is finding A ONE that you can grow with - and honestly, unless you have strong religious beliefs forcing you along very narrow paths, you’re not really a formed enough version of yourself to find that ONE you can grow with until you’ve kind of set who you’re growing as. We’re all kind of like boxed cake mix until we hit our mid to late 20s - we have a lot of potential to go down a lot of different paths, but we haven’t decided if we’re a sheet cake or tiered cake or cupcakes or even cake pops yet! And sometimes two people who are still in cake mix form get together and make it work, even though he ends up being sheet cake to her tiered cake… but it’s generally easier if a cake pop end up in a thing with another cake pop. There are still a bunch of different ways you can BE cake pops, and you can change and grow… but under the caramel and sprinkles or chocolate bacon ganache, you’re both still cake pops in the end. …ok, that was a weird analogy, even for me. Hope it makes sense! …this is coming from a cake pop who did marry, and divorce, a sheet cake in her 20s. I didn’t even bother dating again for a few years, dated one guy, and decided I’d be a crazy cat lady. Several years later, this persistent Australian just kept insisting on being there and being my person until I had no choice, I had to marry him. But I was 38 when we got married! So I spent a long time alone, so I hope the perspective helps!)
@@mikelwrites but there are many people out there. Trust me. I know at least five but those are the only ones I know of that age. The pandemic didn't really help your age-group. Usually you would have been out to parties and meet people. Now you are not used to going out at all. But then again dating early doesn't have too many positive sides to it. when I met my husband he was 23 and never had a girlfriend, didn't know how to party, and didn't feel comfortable in his own skin, and he was still living at home studying. And that wasn't and still isn't too uncommon either. I was 29 when we married and was the first one in our friends group. Only one of my friends came to our wedding with her significant other. The others were single well into their thirties (by now they are all happily married with kids except one who isn't much of a people's person.)
The “not like other girls” phase of life was a trip, now as a young adult I can say that I actually like pink (not a huge fan of neon pink though) and I love glitter not lose glitter, I like it in my makeup, I like it on my eyelids on my face on my lips, I like how it shines. I never thought i would own heels, I just recently got a pair, and I love them. I just wished that 13 year old me would have learned that it was okay to like girly things and a that I wasn’t “basic” for liking it
33:33 - “I appreciate that you have respect for the waitstaff, unfortunately you clearly don’t respect _me._ Have a nice evening, and good luck. You’ll need it.”
Giving her the benefit of the doubt and assuming she means that the desirable tipping action is to tip well.
Hi Click, long time fantasy nerd and GM here, golblins are as you said usually depicted as smaller and shorter than dwarves. Also, trolls are almost universally larger than humans (imagine the tale of the troll collecting tolls form the brother goats), though some depiction give the a hight-reduxing posture which make them seem shorter that humans.
Not necessarily in Swedish folklore though. Trolls are often small and mischievous. Like the Gund troll dolls.
Click, you're the mix of wholesome and bitterly sarcastic that I need in my life now! I've been obsessively watching this channel for weeks. Now when I see memes, I read them in your accent, and my day is just that much better. Told my husband "I'm watching a swedish guy with a radio voice read memes off the internet and it's great" and he's just like "WTF whatever makes you happy." So I'm not going to let him hug my glow in the dark emotional support demon.
Also I have the same headphones and I can go Ha! Good taste! It's petty AF but some days, folx, you take what you can get.
folx? genuine question what does it mean? is that just a misspelling of folks? slang? sorry if this seems dumb, i’m just out of the loop.
wholesome ❤
@@xXMindSoulXx it's often used to refer to a group with an emphasis towards LGBTQ+ peeps.
As someone who really really genuinely hates earbuds, I would love to know the headphone info.
Also your comment about the conversation with your husband was hilarious and I don't think there are enough people out there with the experience and knowledge to understand how fabulous and genuinely great being able to have moments like that with a partner can be.
What a beautiful contrast to the content Click subjected himself to for us.
Wish you you the best.
@@JennifertheGeek interesting, is it to take the piss out of the whole latinx thing?
Love how the one person was complaining about how the conversation wasn't going anywhere while the other person was carrying the whole conversation while she was draining the life out of it. You can't expect a conversation to go anywhere if you don't put any effort in.
"I'm too amazing" and "I'm better" being on the same bingo card is probably the most girlboss thing in existence.
According to minnesota state law
A sandwich must consist of: 1) one slice of bread with filling placed upon it; or 2) two or more separate slices of bread with filling between the two pieces; additionally, 3) single or multiple pieces of bread cannot be rolled together, like a burrito, wrap, or taco; and 4) the filling cannot be placed inside the pocket of bread, like a pita.
law? are you going to get fined for an incorrect sandwich??
@@jaadn6197 idk lol
This is a real law though
@@jaadn6197It’s probably a law on what can be marketed as a sandwich. For example, you couldn’t sell an ice cream sandwich as a real sandwich. Similar things have been done with milk and meat substitutes in some states.
Minnesota, your loss, the ice cream sandwich is amazing!
@@GogiRegion well the law is labeled as "constructing the sandwich" so
Also I agree, ice cream sandwiches are good
I wonder if these "pay x for me on our first date" girl bosses realize that they are basically just worse escorts...
Not that there's anything wrong with honest sex work...but something tells me those particular women _don't_ respect sex work or sex workers.
@@ShinyAvalonOr workers in general.
@@ShinyAvalonexactly. They want to be sugar babies without the social stigma that accompanies it.
Not that sugar babies necessarily count as sex workers, but it's a similar stigma imo.
@@pennyforyourthots - I think it qualifies as sex work, it's just a more privileged variety. And, unfortunately, the women who do it often look down on other women...and, as Ya-Kids-Topic above said, they usually look down on workers in general.
Mmmmm... sex worker here. I don't see it as similar. There are a lot of dudes out there who are chronically unemployed, mooches, etc. It seems like more of a filter to me.
A little story of my own.
A friend of mine and I both liked the same guy. She asked him out and got rejected. A few days later she told me about it and we joked about me shooting my shot instead. I asked him out just before the holidays. He agreed, but before this little date she somehow did get with him and only let me know about a month later when her and him had been seen each other a couple times. Him and I had gone on the (I guess) friend-date in the middle of this and neither of them had bothered to mention anything to me. He even said he was sick on that day, covering the fact that he'd had stayed at her place the night before.
Anyways, when my female friend eventually told me about them, she assured me that she wouldn't tell him about my crush on him (I didn't ask her to, but it was nice of her, I thought). I only found out about a year later that she actually had told him after all. That made things a little complicated when I tried assuring him that I, in fact, had no feelings for him, when he started flirting with me after breaking up with her and probably feeling lonely.
So yeah, that was a wild ride to say the least
Wow what a pair of disrespectful asshole, I am surprised they broke up they sounds like two peas in a pod
8:25 Omg, that is painfully reliable! I am a bisex woman and my god, how difficult is to have conversation with certain other women who are just used to be courted, and put no effort at all to carry on the conversation! (Men do this too, but less often. Clearly, a cultural issue here).
Staying single seems like a really good idea nowadays 😂
Just don't forget this is cherry picked of some of the worst reactions. Your totally valid to stay out of dating if you're not interested, but don't let things like this be your only perspective if you do want to try.
@@Sinovian I'm 67 been married to my love for 50 years. However if I was young and single now, I'd stay single. I see how both men and women act now and I don't believe anyone could last 50 years.
@@waterwitch8902 Oh, it's never that easy. Don't forget you still gotta live somewhere. Unless you're rich or lucky(present) staying single and being poor go hand in hand. Being single means depending on one income, and that's...not ideal even without crisis events. Too many things are being priced to families of graduate level or above. Hell, my country isn't even supposed to be expensive and the last news-quote I heard(month or two ago) on how much money a single person needed to live "normally" turned out to be above what most professional job ads listed. So being single isn't really a solution to life. Pick your preferred problems I guess.
@@neoneanderthal2658 You shouldn't depend on a relationship for your financial needs. That seems cruel to the other person.
@@waterwitch8902 You took my comment wrong. I didn't say anyone should. Or that I was. I did remember a news snippet though, about some politician(Dutch maybe?) telling a recently graduated woman asking how she could afford a home to get a rich boyfriend. I was making an observation that an increasing number of things are being priced towards family or family sized groups(high end ones too). It's getting harder and harder to be single. And I'm not talking relationship or mental health wise. So many doors are closed if all you're bringing to the table is all YOU are bringing to the table. Roommate, girlfriend, boyfriend, husband, wife? Doesn't matter if you're not reasonably able to be enough. It's like people get forced in a weird form of collectivism for...reasons, I guess?
4:55 I agree that "i'm brutally honest" means "I'm an Garbage person" like 98% of the time but rember the 2% of "Actually i'm autistic so I genuinly strugle to tell wether what i'm saying is offensive"
Counterpoint- the people who SAY "I'm brutally honest" are assholes, and also different from the people who are sometimes painfully honest because they miss social cues.
@@sarahr8311 I mean they could say soomething like "i'm tend to be brutaly honest by accident" but i'll admit that's not the same as the "LOL so quirky" version. But as an autistic person myself I've already said stuff like that but I admit that this particular sentence is the toxic version (also my stuff doesn't translate perfectly since i'm French)
And then some percentage of actually brutally honest people are just kids (I know they don't say they are brutally honest, but gosh do their words hurt)
It. Fricken. Sucks. To. Be. Blonde. I need like 20 emotional support demons for all the nonsense i get into for being blonde. idk if this comes out as like, a pick me girl? idk, im asexual so i dont have much to say in the dating realm but friendship wise.... i don't have friends :)
EMOTIONAL SUPPORT DEMONS AND CATSSS!
edit: THE MEN DESERVE ABUSE?!?!?! HELLLL NAW!
Man my ex actually fills up the entire bingo grid except two, no homophobia and she wasn't especially expecting toxic masculinity traits from men but the rest is frighteningly spot on
I’m glad that she’s being referred to as an ex then 😭
Who did you date? An eldrithch ancient god?
@@kawaibakaneko oh you know my ex? lol
Whelp. Never thought we'd reach the point of asking the question "is it gay to eat something before starting your day?", but here we are.
I feel vindicated in my bisexuality and it's all thanks to my Weetabix!
"fellas, is it gay to not want to pass out on your commute bc you got low blood sugar?"
First world problems... 😅
My partner eats breakfast, wears glasses, watches movies on his own, and sometimes orders a dessert too. According to these posts he should totally be gay 🤣 Yet I'm quite convinced he's not, unless he's just pretended to be into me for years, or if I turn out to be a man.. Then again we've learned from the previous posts that it can totally be gay for men to have the naughties with women, so... 🤷♀️
@@tangerinemarmalade3326 oh, I thought they were saying it's gay to skip breakfast because of diet culture for women
Many years ago, me and some friends were at a local pub. One of the guys said he was going to the nearby shop to grab some cigarettes and asked his girlfriend if she wanted anything. She asked for 20 SilkCut Blue. The nearby shop was not renowned for being well stocked, so he said, "if they don't have those what do want instead?" She said, just get me anything.
He came back 10 minutes later and gave her a bag of sprouts.
🤣
I genuinely hope it made her laugh as hard as I just did. That’s something my husband would do. 😂
@@shosho089 😂 I think I'd like your husband. I'm still laughing about that years later😆
(she didn't find it funny btw
🤷♀)
11:09 I know too many people, people I no longer associate with, who need to hear this. You can be a whole supermodel, but if you're a bad person, it *really* doesn't matter at all if you're looking for a worthwhile relationship
I've found so many people who weren't "my type" physically *immensely* attractive after getting to know them. There's always something to appreciate about someone physically if your personalities mesh well. Personality shines through, always, and the older you get, the better you get at seeing that
Actually, in German you say you're 'being on the same frequency with someone' when you want to express that you're connecting and vibing with that person, so i still have that faint glimmer of hope left in my heart that maybe these kinds of posts just come off like that due to language barrier
It‘s „auf derselben Wellenlänge sein“, so technically it‘s not frequency, but wavelenght. But since one can be converted into the other with a constant, it‘s close enough.
@@lijuanzhou6971oh shit you're right O_O gotta go polish my English skills oops
38:14 This makes me laugh because in the culture I grew up in, that outfit wouldnt be considered modest at all. You can see half her back, shoulders, and her whole arm. Not to mention semi-tight pants. We were told if people can tell what kind of underwear you're wearing then it isn't modest lol.
exactly. Even just the tops of your shoulders were a big no-no, but this is the full on shoulder BLADES. How scandalous!
As an AroAce i feel really bad for everyone trying to date, it seems stressful and im so glad im not going to be dating anytime ever 😀
you can put your energy into invading Denmark!!! also garlic bread and cake :D
Same!!
Don't worry, bad people attract bad people. These kinds of women generally end up with Andrew Tate guys and spare the regular people.
That just means you can focus on the most important thing in life
Which is to simply just vibe and living your best life
No... its adopting all the puppers or kitters you can and being a crazy cat/dog mom/dad etc. Lol. @@nhotmyrhealname3351
I absolutely adore Clicci's bingos! Mark himself sometimes forgets some options he created and sometimes completely forgets to tick the card, other times he creates options that mean basically the same thing with different words, hardly an entry gives only one point and what's best of all, nobody wins and nobody loses!
11:40 a reality check doesn't work if it is phrased to nice. I think it was perfectly reasonable from that person to not beat around the bush about the issue.
I had an ex I broke up with because she kept comparing me to her ex's and behind my back tried to meet up with one of them and I felt like a back up plan
Despite multiple times I've told her why she actually would say in all seriousness "I don't understand why you broke up with me" smh
15:23 I love how the names are crossed out, but you can still clearly read them
Honestly it's for the best , everyone who knows them personally can walk away from the toxicity
If your response to finding out someone doesn’t want to date you is to go over to their place, get into a shouting match, and break their stuff, you really need to see a psychiatrist because holy shit is that some inappropriate immature shit right there.
At 10:09 the girl on the r/AITAH thread that said that the guy refused to date her because she was an AH to her friend group and she ended up breaking the guy's stuff as well should have gotten an "Everyone else is an AH" card as well bbecause that's what she was doing. Calling everyone an AH but herself
I dont understand what you're trying to say???
@@Damianskull I think he explain that the bingo box with everyone is an AH is referring to when the person does something and when people call them out for it, they believe that everyone is an AH but them
23:23
(This is using DND 5e standards)
Average Dwarf Height: Between 4-5 feet
Average Goblin Height: Around 3-3 1/2 Feet
So yeah, Goblins are shorter then Dwarves
(Also Trolls are usually 9 feet)
I think having someone over for one of the bingo videos would be even more fun - discussing which squares fit the best, arguing over the bingos, hearing them ask "why are you so confidently put this in here?" and knowing full well that There Were Reasons, So Many Reasons... XD
Yes, this would be a great format for a collab!
Or a good idea for a date, getting to know someone while laughing with click.
I know this kind of stuff is, as Click says, "the diarrhoea that floats to the surface"... but hearing about all this stuff makes me really glad that I hit it off so well with my first girlfriend and never needed to deal with any of this bs.
Same! I'm married to my first GF :D
45:39 Man, "Dating Expectations" took more hits than the battlefield at Verdun.
6:21 I live in a place with the “u” spellings for “colour” and “favourite”
Same
Fr
The really funny thing is: the person trying to correct someone from 'favorite' (American) to 'favourite' (British) then went on to use the word 'persnickety.' Now, that is also one that's different in the countries - 'persnickety' being used in America and 'pernickety' being the British. This implies the person is American, which would then tell me that she is actually spelling 'favourite' wrong as the one with the 'u' is British and without is American.
Or they could be an American living in the UK and is overly proud of the adaptations they made and as such has become a grammar bore to those who haven't done the same thing. In regards to persnickety/pernickety I honestly haven't heard either said in decades.
@@nathanthom8176 Nah you have to at least be consistent with which version of English you're speaking if you're going to correct other people on it.
@@unapologeticallylizzy I wasn't defending her, even with my unlikely suggestion, it wouldn't excuse the fact that it is fine to use either spelling irrelevant of context assuming they know there is a difference in region. You are right her comment is weird, I could understand an American correcting it to "favorite" through ignorance as British media isn't as widely consumed there and most publishers americanise books released. It is strange as also pretty much every Brit I know is aware of the American English spelling (American media is far more widespread and phones software, and Microsoft products are always reminding us)) and wouldn't correct it, unless they were a knob that is.
@@nathanthom8176 Yeah I think most people know that there's a difference based on region. I don't think they're interchangeable regardless of reason though. One is correct in some places, one is correct in other places. For British people, 'favourite' is correct and for Americans, 'favorite' is correct. I wouldn't presume to correct somebody else on how they spelt it though, if they're a random stranger on the internet of unknown origin. However, I would pick up my friends on it who I know are British and who I know are cool with being corrected (I'd always expect one of my friends to correct me if I made a spelling or grammar error.)
Or she's Canadian. 😊
I'm ace and demiromantic (and poly), I also have social anxiety.
I gave up the idea of dating because it feels like too much drama, tensions, ... and this kind of video doesn't help my feelings towards dating XD
I'll stick to fictional love stories I create in my head.
Honestly a totally vaild stance, I'm glad I've found the one for me. I've said multiple times if we don't work out I'm done with dating. I know the sides are vastly blown out of porpotion, but its hard to know who actually belives what.
I'm both ace-spec and aro-spec and I practice enm. Don't pressure yourself about dating if you don't want to do it, but please don't forget either that this video is meant to only show bad examples in the first place!
A friend of mine identifies primarily as gay and poly, and he actually has a girlfriend as well. They're long-distance right now. She's ace and that works out perfect for both of them. They are both happier not having the one particular aspect as part of their relationship, and they have a really awesome bond and spend a lot of time together through the internet.
It's not a conventional relationship, but I mean, both being poly and being a-spec each often lead to unconventional routes to happiness anyway. ^_^
@@clocksideyou're what?
Polyamorous or polyromantic?
@@awryarbi9902 polyamorous.
29:13 “oh you actually explored your sexuality and now found out what you truly want and what you like and now you told me you actually did that?…f@gg0t”
Caught off guard, funny as heck ngl
About "sloppy seconds" : I can appreciate that dating someone who has a kid might make things more complicated simply bc of time constraints and that there are other humans involved. But being with someone who has already been in a long term relationship has my absolute preference. With a "virgin" meaning someone who has never been in a long term relationship before, nothing against them I'm sure they will be lovely partners but you're going to have to work through some things together that this person has zero prior experience in. Again, not a hard no for me but I prefer someone with more life experience to settle down with. If you get together with someone who is younger and has never dated long term, they might not really know yet what they want and what they value the most.