@brian' I do but in today's time, too many people think CZcams videos and Google searches can replace formal education. I see so many on social media try to speak about evolution, anthropology, philosophy, linguistics, and other sciences simply because they read a CNN article written by a mainstream atheist scientist.
Eve In this context, the term made sense. I agree with your argument, about people carelessly writing about subjects they don’t really understand, but here I don’t see that.
He spend 10 minutes saying nothing because he seemed afraid to really tell the truth. So the comment section remains confused. Men = fuck/marry anything hot or beautiful, they don't give a fuck as long as it's either of those and sometimes ugly does the job, but they don't marry ugly, has to be hot or beautiful. They marry ugly if they have no other choice. And women marry anything into money and success. They don't marry beauty or hotness.
This explains a lot. I've had crush over someone just for their looks and I've very gradually developed a crush over someone who I didn't even register as hot at first. They feel a lot different.
Yes this is what distinguishes my current gf to all other girls I've had crushes on. I had a crush on her ever since I was a kid, pre-puberty, and I could always feel it was much different than the others.
Beauty does too imo, but in a different way. I always tell my fiancee she gives me the coziest of boners because if we do get it on I'm totally invested in her pleasure as a result of her being a good person. The same could not be said about random hot women I encounter in my life.
A couple years ago my wife and I were at a family function(we are in our mid 30s with 3 little girls of our own). 2 of her distant cousins arrived who are both in their early 20s. 10lbs of makeup, fake lashes, fake nails, fake boobs, fake everything; but definitely a commanding presence in the restaurant. I can see it on my wife that she was flooded with insecurity in an instant. I reassured her that being a hot girl pales in comparison to being a beautiful woman. I think the perspective given in this video proved to be true in this instance because that statement visibly lifted her countenance.
My girlfriend has the same issue, she's not conventionally, stereotypically "hot", but she's incredibly cute and beautiful at the same time. Im always trying to tell her so, but she always feels insecure when she sees a woman that you'd consider hot I guess.
You still called her cousins 'hot' though which would have done nothing for her insecurity. Would have been better if you called them trashy or said they looked like transvestites.
@@Myview246 No, since it's disrespectful to bully people for their appearance to make yourself feel better. Insecurities shouldn't be solved by bringing other people down.
@@IsaacAsimov1992 Strength. This could be inner or outer strength. I feel like strong men have a higher capacity to love and be able to take care of others and that’s beautiful to me. Inner strength in particular is a fire that never goes out once you possess it.
@@bm5_5_5 Thanks, and that's a good answer. Like a lot of things strength isn't so easy to define. I know I'm strong in some ways but in other ways I consider myself weak.
Well Marilyn Manson must hate peaches. He put Evan Rachel Wood ahead of her. What a fucking idiot! On Dita's worst day and on Evan's best day, she still couldn't hold a candle to that woman.
I seen an older women, 60+ that was truly beautiful. Perfect symmetry and bone structure. She had wrinkles and skin looked aged. Yet she was truly beautiful.
I think hotness is superficial, while beauty goes deeper. I've seen women as well as men who were hot, but not terribly interesting or bright. They might be good to look at, but would you want to try to have a deep and meaningful conversation about the mysteries of the universe with them if they could never get past their looks or what others thought of them? Beauty, on the other hand, involves more than just the physical appearance. It's how they carry themselves, how they can conduct a conversation, whether they had a dark sense of humor, and their personal code of helping others. True beauty, when cultivated effectively, I think gets better with age. It's something I wish more young women could realize, because then they could stop shooting for the unattainable goals of perfection and instead focus on doing the best they can with what they were born with.
Fantastic post. Such excellent points. I was thinking the conversation on the video was too black and white..not enough depth or nuance. Humans are way more complex. Men tend to compartmentalize too much. We are far more multifaceted. Putting women into just 2 categories is ridiculous and shallow.
I have to disagree. If you exrecise and keep a healthy lifestyle, your raisin genes start to pop around 80 years old. Many 60 year olds that look younger than your average 30 year old.
I think the whole set of experiences you've had with a person can overshadow their physical beauty/hotness quite quickly. If we set aside extreme outliers on both ends, average or somewhat close to average people can turn into either extremely attractive or repelling partners based on just their behaviors.
@n cw While that might be true I think most people that cheat cheat because they are cheaters. Hence the phrase "how you got em is how you lose em". They will likely cheat on the hot girl too and cheat at a lot of things in life not just relationships, it's just a general character flaw they posses. If your partner cheats in games/school/business etc. Watch. Your. Back. Another reason is because their chosen "life-partner" (the hot and beautiful one they married) is a prude. Which is why you'll come across stories of guys with beautiful smoking hot wives and not very attractive mistresses. The mistress actually puts out which was the whole point of having a hot wife in the first place.
@n cw they will gonna cheat anyway, look at those Hollywood hotties.. thier males cheated on them too..lol.. Actually guys don't know what they want..like women.
@@WillBlindYouWithLight because like they said it’s not about the other person and how much they can give, the cheater is just a cheater no matter how good the person is.
My two cents: Hot = body, fitness, hair, makeup, cosmetic surgery, work done, tight clothes, projected confidence, risk taking excitement etc Beautiful = inside and out, a caring empathetic personality, kindness, fitness/health as in looking after oneself, genetics that cannot be changed with any procedure, sense of style, good self esteem, self-respect, giving back to the world in one way or another Cute = all about intellect, endearing qualities, uniqueness, personal interests etc and has nothing to do whatsoever with outside appearance And all 3 makes you a triple threat guy (girl) 😂
As a women who have suffered a lot with relationships. I want to thankyou for having this video in your channel. I'm trying to not focus on hotness anymore.
Risav Sahu of course my friend that’s why I made the distinction 😂😂😂. But come on there are multiple famous jokers you do usually have to specify cut me some slack
When someone say its beautiful - it tickles their visual senses like when u r looking at a painting. When they say its hot - it tickles their sexual senses
As a young 20 year old woman, I’m so glad I saw this video and read some lovely comments. I’m very shy and I’m very to myself a lot of people tell me I’m pretty but I never believe it because I have fiends who attract guys like magnets because they have phenomenal bodies and are an open book but I have never had a boy find me attractive or let it be known to me and sometimes it makes me very insecure but I know I’m a great girl and will find the the right one one day ☺️
If you want to understand real gender dynamics, check out Edward Dutton or else Stefan Molyneux at Freedomain on Odysee. They are trying to address r/K theory in this video, but failing badly and sending mixed messages because of the nonsense opener of choosing between hotness and beauty. Another good one CZcams is Jennifer Moleski.
I felt the same way when I was your age. I felt very insecure about myself. The thing that changed my life was going to University. I studied dentistry and it automatically boosted my self-esteem like crazyyyy. I felt so confident and proud in myself. I made good money and money also helps boosting your confidence. I also started going regularly to gym and my life really changed. As you get more confident in yourself, you exude that energy of demanding respect and being praised (may sound egotistic). Try doing something in life that will add to your value outside of the physical. attractiveness is mental as well. For me education made the trick. Try figuring out your life path and that will automatically boost your self esteem :)
You can hear this guy filtering every single sentence he utters holding to dear life in this outrage culture we live in... It is kind of sad to be honest
Clout Lord I was about to ask if you have been to college lately and remembered who was in this video after all.. And even if it was only an internet bizarre phenomenon this wouldn’t mean less since now social media madness and pressure can - and do - twist people’s image forever irl and even fire them. Society’s integration with the internet is not something apart like it used to be, it’s now an extension of people’s lives with rules and laws that apply outside of it too, and an affront to speech here is not something you can just escape by disconnecting your modem anymore unfortunately.
That's not true, he's a scientist and all scientists do this. They all filter, it's what makes them come across very well and perceived to be intelligent (which they are)
It's true. But he's broadly from the same ideology as the thought police. It's great to see these intellects coming over to the sensible side but they were part of the reason we ended up here.
It’s pretty funny when I was watching this I realized my definition of hotness and beauty is reversed from how they describe it. I believe this is probably because how young people now describe actions and other such things as hot, whereas beauty is mainly a physical attributes for at least myself. It was pretty crazy to see just how perfectly my definitions of these 2 words were mirrored.
This is so funny because I JUST said above to a younger guy I am sure-I think you’re mixing up “hot” as they mean it with “beauty.” Beauty in my generation (I’m 44) is what guys married, hit us what they just eff.
For me, "pretty" has more to do with physical attractiveness from the neck, up. "Hot" has more to do with physical attractiveness from the neck, down -- especially in regard to physical fitness. "Beauty," on the other hand, at least for me, has to do with attractiveness outside the realm of physical attraction, with some crossover into the physical forms.
The only thing you can do to honor that is to treat the next one right. Everyone’s makes mistakes, it’s what we do after the mistake that forms our character. Also.... that’s a big step, to admit where you have gone wrong. 💪🏽🖤 good for you man.
Right. Hotness is glaringly-appealing, head-turning physicality. And this can be subject to one's taste but it is almost always about the objectified person's proportions, vocal timbre, age. All things primally desired in a "mate." Beauty, however, though one might often ruminate on a person's physicality, it is with much more nuance and consideration. With someone beautiful, your first impulse isn't to seed or be seeded (though this may be your second or inevitable impulse) but to luxuriate in their features, lean into them, catch the way the nearest light source illuminates their eyes, their lips, both matching preternaturally perfect in hue with their un-painted skin. Hot is a young, 1995 Yasmine Bleeth. Beautiful is the singular visage of Isabelle Huppert. (add. Our celebrities, namely, actors and models, are hard to equivocate between hot and beautiful by virtue of their being. They are celebrities because they typically exemplify either both labels or begin hot and transition to being beautiful. We should all be so lucky.)
"....not searching for them in the same individual." This last small statement right there holds so much truth. The concept of what men want for their wife (aka the Beauty), and then if they can find the woman they can do all those things to, that they would never do with the mother of their children, this is the Mistress (aka Hotness). However, I do believe women get these persona's confused when trying to attract a man. Attraction is so subjective. Not everyone is going to find the same characteristics Beautiful or Hot. This was an interesting discussion.
....I’ve noticed my hubby says I’m “beautiful” when I have no makeup , hair in a bun and sweats on but says I’m “hot” whenever I wear makeup, my hair down and form fitting clothes....I’ve always noticed this, even when we were dating ,but never given it much thought until now
I personally think women look amazing when they have no makeup, hair all messy, and wearing pajama pants. To me for some reason, it's hot and beautiful.
This is why The Joe Rogan Show is as popular as it is. The quality of this discussion is sooo far beyond what you can get on any TV show, it is laughable.
@@Azer1125 TV is good for shit like The Sopranos, The Wire, Breaking Bad. Thing is, this is like less than 1% of the total content that is on TV - so much of it is mindless drivel.
He loves his own voice, that former Evergreen professor. I loved that school and his misrepresentation of what happened there and bringing Fox news in and bringing national protests there for his 15 minutes of fame was disgusting. He likes to talk a whole lot more than listening and two-sided conversations. When he isn't talking, he's just waiting to speak again. He needs to control the discussion. He loves passive listening from others.
P.s. I like your positivity. I might feel the same if I didn't know his previous actions. Keep finding beauty in others. It's a fave hobby of mine, too. :)
Same thing applies to men. A man can be classically handsome and physically fit, but if he doesn't carry himself with that 'certain something' and a little swagger he's just good looking and NOT sexy or as you say "hot".
So true!! The hotness is really to do with who he actually is. I find a guy irresistible if he’s physically attractive AND he’s confident, kind, self assured. To me his looks don’t have to be 100% (though he can’t be “ugly” in my eyes) but the personality needs to be right for me to have any interest at all.
The amount of guys that don’t understand this is nuts. I got a lot of friends who I’d say are in physically better shape and are genetically better looking (I’m not bad looking but hardly a supermodel) but have no swagger, wit, confidence in themselves beyond just their physical appearance. The result is that I’ve struggled way less in basically all my interactions platonic or not with women. And funniest of all they’ve never had any sort of curiosity as to why that’s the case outside of remarking angrily that I don’t go to the gym so that doesn’t make sense lmao.
Depends what you mean. A woman with a great face can have a sterile physical persona, be almost invisible walking by while a woman who is average face but has some beautiful movement in her hips and a sensuous physical demeanour can stop conversations. It's still an outward manifestation of inner qualities, but it's not purely internal. The prettier woman with no sexual physicality might need to be more active or do yoga or explore Latin dance or do something external like that. It's inside AND outside regardless how you look. Character and feminine connectedness are sexy and desired traits that can be visually evident.
Bret weinstein tales things you can explain to yourself in your head that you cannot explain and explains them very eloquently and in a very down to earth way, which is a part of his brilliance
Historically a woman who is hot is seen as such because she loves her body and is uninhibited sexually. There is something intangible about true beauty that encompasses kindness and compassion. The combination of both is the pinnacle of femininity. Stop thinking its an either or. Be both.
As a single hetero male with some experience (57) I have always related hotness to individuality, compassion, intelligence, self sufficiency and determination. I always find the woman who doesn't need to be with me, but chooses to, to be the hottest. She also must have strength of character. Being readily available sexually is a bit of a turn off, however counter-intuitive that sounds. When I used to go to singles bars back in the day, I would always watch for the woman that would rebuff guys all night. She would be the one I would approach, and usually be able to flirt with successfully. I have met, and dated some very smart and discerning women that way. The women most men don't get to be with. THAT is hot! Usually a lot less drama as well, as they tend to be well grounded in themselves.
"males really have 3 reproductive strategies but the last one is so aweful that I dont even want to enter it into the discussion" (not even 0.2 seconds later) Joe Rogan: "You're talking about rape" God damn it joe.
Agreed. It begins exactly that moment when you stop trying to validate yourself by the amount of sexual attention you get from guys. Because we all know how long it lasts for. I wish we teach our daughters this. :)
Hmm. This puts being told I was "the hottest girl in highschool" in a new light. An abusive childhood (aka "Daddy issues"), a giant chest and eating disorders, and I was considered bangable. These days, the pain of so many heart and body breaking events and the strength to overcome them and fight through.. I've been told I am beautiful and unattainable more times than I can remember. I think a large part of the difference between "hotness" and beauty is the factor of accessibility or attainability. I carry myself differently now. I look people in the eyes steadily, seriously and defiantly instead of briefly and coyly. Things can change over time. People change. Labels are transitory. Main thing to remember or build is respect of self.
so the HOT female is jacked...hard to not get past the hotness to see the beauty and the hot female knows she has tremendous power. broadcasting hotness is the fashion design females use and most have NO CLUE the power of their body!
I am not what society would refer to as “hot”. I am however, wickedly smart, witty AF, and legitimately care about people. I much prefer being interesting over hot. Hotness fades, personality is forever.
For me hotness is more attitude and charisma with a big helping of attractive on top. And beauty is not only skin deep but within and throughout to meet a truly beautiful person is very rare.
For me "hot" is someone with an amazing body and "beauty" is someone with an amazing face. The body generally doesn't age well, but the face can age quite gracefully.
Arutemisu What I got from the discussion is that someone can have a beautiful face and still not beautiful. In this instance beauty means someone with a nice attitude some caring ...basically beauty is within.. if you find someone that is hot and beautiful (in the context of the discussion) you have hit the jackpot
This makes a lot of sense. All the guys I’ve dated tell me I’m beautiful and would want to be in a committed relationship with me but aren’t ready. I respect the honesty because no one gave the goods. Mutual respect and go our different ways🤝
My ex husband once told me “The night I met you at that party you were the hottest woman there by far.... but a week later when I came to pick you up for our first date I realized that you were beautiful”......I told him it made no sense and he explained it to me by saying “Hot is from the neck down, and Beauty is from the neck up”....take it for what you will but it sort of made sense to me at the time.
I always told my girlfriend, there’s a difference between hot, beautiful, pretty, a woman that’s hot is someone that I just wanna have sex with or just wanna see naked like seeing a exotic car, beautiful is a woman that’s someone your attracted to and just wanna look and stare at and you wanna bring them home to meet your mom, like a beautiful painting 🖼 that you can admire, and pretty is someone that you like to look at but after a hour or 2 you forget what they look like,
The term 'triggered' has been hijacked by certain groups and now is seen as a political word, as opposed to its dictionary definition, so he feels he can't just use it freely any more
My advice to young men. Find a woman who has at least one HOT trait you like, and the rest is beauty (poise, personality, connection). Physical attraction will change, and does not last forever. Although their needs to be some attraction. Coin goes both ways for woman as well.
When I was 19 I went out with a guy. He did not call after that but after a couple of months I heard that he described me as „the kind of girl you marry“. I was young, stupid and quite self-conscious, so I did not understand that it was actually a big compliment. I guess I wanted to be hot and not beautiful to men at 19. Now at 35 I see clearly that being beautiful is the better way to go long-term. Human babies are indeed extremely needy 😊
Honest question, how would you react to being told you would be a great mom? I sometimes thought that about a girlfriend, but I think it might sound silly or wrong. (I'm not into kids at all, even when I was with her). Would you take it as a compliment? something weird? creepy?
@@canobenitez actually, my friends used to tell me this all the time and it used to really bother me. but honestly when people tell me that now, i view it as a complement. it feels more genuine.
@6:29 I love the simplification he makes. “Because babies are expensive”. Not because men avoid responsibility (some not all) or because my mother couldn’t own a house let alone have a bank account with my dad signing off. Or the fact that I can’t get a hysterectomy without my husbands approval. No, you’re right. It’s because “babies are expensive” not because historically society has not supported the independence of women. This is the first time in the history of the world that women can have children on their own and provide for a household without being reliant on a male counterpart. And with this new era, I know PLENTY of women who would gladly re-produce without the commitment of a man. Now let’s talk about how THATS an evolutionary lottery. 🤷🏻♀️
@@marcv2648 not a fact. You should do your research. But let’s say - for arguments sake - that you’re right. That is a reflection that only proves my point; that we live in a society that has historically oppressed the independence of women. 🤷🏻♀️
V good point. If marriage was true in the majority a good strategy for women at any point in history, why are married women's life expectancies on average shorter statistically?. Far more women consistently were abused in a myriad of ways under a veil of ownership but there were a tiny minority of women who won the personality lottery with a male mate who truly cared for them. That's less than 1%. Raising families does require steadfast support and women have always networked to achieve this in communities and villages. What were they doing alone when men hunted, fought wars, spent hours and days away with being repeatedly pregnant and no say in the matter? Very very few men have the personalities and mindset required for the heavy lifting in partnership or marriage(eg being utterly reciprocal) as their entire being is founded on innate male superiority. Which is why marriage only works with the majority of men where a woman is lesser than (eg not confronting or assertive, consistently self sacrificing and has absolutely no desires of her own.....pretty much an indentured servant) Once robots achieve the strength and labour of traditional male industries, (including guard robots to protect women from male aggression) those traditional men will loose all their footholds on women and marriage needs to go. Marriage never meant happiness for all but extremely rare women and most women without means of financial support had very few options
5 years into a realtionship and he decided he wanted hotness instead of me. Not even my "beauty", my other qualities or our amazing connection deterred him from jeopardizing all we had. I found out he had been trying to score with a younger, taller, thinner, blonde blue-eyed russian girl... My self-esteem was the lowest it had ever been and the lowest it could possibly be. I entered into a deep depression... Absolutely nothing about me stopped him from throwing it all away. I was not enough and would never be. I had to do acid to restore my depression to baseline levels lmfao. Actually, it helped a lot - to see the how much beauty there is in the world, maybe a little in the mirror...
"One of them is so awful that I don't even wanna bring it into the discussion" "You're talking about rape" Way to go Joe. He just said he didn't wanna mention it
for this clips they use the sounds directly from the soundboard, mAybe the audio output for the podcast is different hence why he tells people to get closer to the mic. you. can make a mic sound closer with a mixer but its easier to just tell the person to get closer
The audio levels are being balanced on the fly by Jamie, so if someones audio levels suddenly drops he obviously signals to Joe to tell the guest to return to the previous position. Otherwise if the guest suddenly returns to the previous position without Jamie returning the levels to where they were, the audio would peak and sound horrible.
ponder on this: would you still love your significant other if they got in a car accident and physical appearance completely changed? i’ve really started to notice that beauty comes from within. the way you care for things, the way you speak, your mannerisms, your intentions, your wisdom… I pray that one day, i meet my husband and he views me as beautiful. i’m so over this superficial love
Women often become more beautiful after their 20s. They should know that and hopefully feel better. Also quirky women with some interesting features are way more beautiful than a robotic appearance.
@@paulj9821 well I said after 20s. You said to 30. But 30s easily better than 20s except for fake Barbie doll look tricking some guys with little taste.
Honestly it makes full sense and brings me to understand why I as a man think almost completely differently in wanting to have a relationship with someone and just wanting to fool around.
Somehow, beauty is ignored from age 18 to 50. The amount of fake beauty masquerading itself as true beauty is scary. Really, is it needed to wear so much make up on your face thinking you can bed any guy you want??
I think he's saying something we pretty much all know (a guy is less likely to take you seriously if you have a lot of sex appeal; if you are beautiful and modest you're more likely to attract a committed boyfriend) ... he's just explaining it on a deeper level. Very interesting.
Joanna Lumley is the definition of Beauty I think ❤️ she’s been beautiful throughout the decades. Same with Naomi Campbell and Nigella Lawson, Thandiwe Newton, Halle Berry, Catherine Zeta Jones - the list is endless
Yeah! I found that excruciating. It took the floor out from under her especially since I’d had no rouble hearing her at all. I wanted to punch Joe for the power play
Her body language continually reflected his looming over her - as she turned slightly away all the while, he took his leadership lack of tact and directed it at her.
When I picture hotness I just see a curvy, fertile, nubile body. When I picture beauty I see an aesthetically pleasing face. I don’t really think hotness necessarily equates sluttiness in my mind.
Def agree, but a few things. First off your first sentence was perfect. But in hotness I still do need something alluring from the face. Even something like the smile, or eyes, complexion etc...You also have to put hotness in the same category as sexy then basically. That is what the initial, hormone freak self is feeling, at least that's how I feel.
Lunar Dee I still think it’s bullshit that some random person would say something like that and not have to suffer any consequences. I bet he wouldn’t have the balls to say it to someone’s face like that. And I’m confused why he said it in the first place. Your profile pic isn’t even an inch yet your skin is still glowing through the screen. I wish I looked half as good as you lol
TipTheScales27 I’m sure if he saw me he would call me beautiful to my face and try and get my number if my presence didn’t intimidate him already. Thank for you standing up for me xxx 😘
I could be wrong, but I always saw hotness as superficial/sexual attraction. Beauty is something that radiates from the person and is timeless. You can see it in their eyes and in their smile.
2 years later, but I agree with you. Hot women are women I appreciate for how they make me feel down there, but beautiful women I appreciate for how they make me feel up there. I hope that makes sense. lol
this makes sense but what about men? a hot man vs a handsome man, it’s also interesting that the word beautiful is uncommon to describe men, but it’s universal to describe anything, a place can be beautiful, but handsome is specifically catered to men
Her: _"Talk dirty to me."_
Me: *_"You're an evolutionary bargain."_*
Ok so go ahead and explain this because I love when people repeat what they don't understand.
@Eve
It was a joke.
@@unicornswag888 Ok
@brian' I do but in today's time, too many people think CZcams videos and Google searches can replace formal education. I see so many on social media try to speak about evolution, anthropology, philosophy, linguistics, and other sciences simply because they read a CNN article written by a mainstream atheist scientist.
Eve In this context, the term made sense. I agree with your argument, about people carelessly writing about subjects they don’t really understand, but here I don’t see that.
This guy sounds like Heath Ledger’s Joker as a college professor.
Can't NOT hear it now lol
lol
I CAN'T "UN-HEAR" IT
Omg
Shit, you need more likes brotha.
Dude spent 10 minutes just to say: hot means sex
Beautiful means marriage
He spend 10 minutes saying nothing because he seemed afraid to really tell the truth. So the comment section remains confused.
Men = fuck/marry anything hot or beautiful, they don't give a fuck as long as it's either of those and sometimes ugly does the job, but they don't marry ugly, has to be hot or beautiful. They marry ugly if they have no other choice.
And women marry anything into money and success. They don't marry beauty or hotness.
99% of men don't have the luxury to choose between the two. They have to choose someone with a half-attractive butt and a non-ugly face at best.
@@mcmarkmarkson7115 Yeah that was trying my patience too...
Bingo
found the nimrod under 30 section of the comments
This explains a lot. I've had crush over someone just for their looks and I've very gradually developed a crush over someone who I didn't even register as hot at first. They feel a lot different.
The second one hits different
Yes they are!!
@@Charger319 they sure do!
Yes this is what distinguishes my current gf to all other girls I've had crushes on. I had a crush on her ever since I was a kid, pre-puberty, and I could always feel it was much different than the others.
Same here , I had a crush on a guy with nice eyes and good facial features but wow … a brick had more personality than him
This is just a very formal discussion with the boys on a saturday night
and the lady friend that is also a bro lol
I thought this was gonna be more fun. 😂
No cap
In the bathroom stall type shit
Dead
Hotness causes erection and beauty causes love and affection.
dropping bars
Thats some poetry of life you got there
@Luna Na.. next
Luna women dont separate the 2 . Men do
Beauty does too imo, but in a different way. I always tell my fiancee she gives me the coziest of boners because if we do get it on I'm totally invested in her pleasure as a result of her being a good person. The same could not be said about random hot women I encounter in my life.
A couple years ago my wife and I were at a family function(we are in our mid 30s with 3 little girls of our own). 2 of her distant cousins arrived who are both in their early 20s. 10lbs of makeup, fake lashes, fake nails, fake boobs, fake everything; but definitely a commanding presence in the restaurant. I can see it on my wife that she was flooded with insecurity in an instant. I reassured her that being a hot girl pales in comparison to being a beautiful woman. I think the perspective given in this video proved to be true in this instance because that statement visibly lifted her countenance.
My girlfriend has the same issue, she's not conventionally, stereotypically "hot", but she's incredibly cute and beautiful at the same time. Im always trying to tell her so, but she always feels insecure when she sees a woman that you'd consider hot I guess.
@@slothymango comparison is the thief of joy
It’s sad that their self esteem is dependent on bringing other beautiful women down.
You still called her cousins 'hot' though which would have done nothing for her insecurity.
Would have been better if you called them trashy or said they looked like transvestites.
@@Myview246 No, since it's disrespectful to bully people for their appearance to make yourself feel better. Insecurities shouldn't be solved by bringing other people down.
“Elegance is the only beauty that never fades.”
Amen 🙏
YES
@@bm5_5_5
Yes.
What's the male equivalent of elegance?
@@IsaacAsimov1992 Strength. This could be inner or outer strength. I feel like strong men have a higher capacity to love and be able to take care of others and that’s beautiful to me. Inner strength in particular is a fire that never goes out once you possess it.
@@bm5_5_5 Thanks, and that's a good answer.
Like a lot of things strength isn't so easy to define.
I know I'm strong in some ways but in other ways I consider myself weak.
Watching this and I turn to my BF and I was like babe, am I hot or beautiful? And he said it depends on the angle LMAO
Jason Young lmao
😂😂😂
Smart dude
Lol
Very true!!
“You can be the ripest, juiciest peach in the world, and there's still going to be somebody who hates peaches.” - Dita Von Teese
Only if he or she is a gay peach, dumb or asexual.
Im the one that doesn’t like peaches.
That's copied off a Chris Rock joke
Well Marilyn Manson must hate peaches. He put Evan Rachel Wood ahead of her. What a fucking idiot! On Dita's worst day and on Evan's best day, she still couldn't hold a candle to that woman.
Facts
I seen an older women, 60+ that was truly beautiful. Perfect symmetry and bone structure. She had wrinkles and skin looked aged. Yet she was truly beautiful.
I think hotness is superficial, while beauty goes deeper. I've seen women as well as men who were hot, but not terribly interesting or bright. They might be good to look at, but would you want to try to have a deep and meaningful conversation about the mysteries of the universe with them if they could never get past their looks or what others thought of them? Beauty, on the other hand, involves more than just the physical appearance. It's how they carry themselves, how they can conduct a conversation, whether they had a dark sense of humor, and their personal code of helping others. True beauty, when cultivated effectively, I think gets better with age. It's something I wish more young women could realize, because then they could stop shooting for the unattainable goals of perfection and instead focus on doing the best they can with what they were born with.
True😊😊
Well said
Fantastic post. Such excellent points. I was thinking the conversation on the video was too black and white..not enough depth or nuance. Humans are way more complex. Men tend to compartmentalize too much. We are far more multifaceted. Putting women into just 2 categories is ridiculous and shallow.
You're mistaken In thinking that you can't be hot AF while also incredibly, interesting, intelligent and capable of profound levels of depth.
Bruh we all turn into ugly raisins eventually anyway stay humble
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phoneflipp lmao
I have to disagree. If you exrecise and keep a healthy lifestyle, your raisin genes start to pop around 80 years old. Many 60 year olds that look younger than your average 30 year old.
@@kazziodex9561 it doesn't matter at the end. Your looks is not the end all be all.
Not all sadly...
I wish joe would stop him and randomly say “did you see that video of that Moose getting hit by a car?”
have you ever done DMT while riding a moose?
What are your thoughts on MMA vs Jiu Jitsu as an evolutionary biologist?
why is that so funny, lmfao.
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Jamie pull that up...
It really means alot when you find a girl who is truly beautiful but can also be “hot” for you and only you. Something you’ll never want to let go
I think the whole set of experiences you've had with a person can overshadow their physical beauty/hotness quite quickly. If we set aside extreme outliers on both ends, average or somewhat close to average people can turn into either extremely attractive or repelling partners based on just their behaviors.
Wow you just wrote what I think since I am around 17 yo.
Perfectly said imo. It 100% correlates on how I see people 👌🏼
Hotness makes you hard, beauty makes you weak
Okay, that was a perfect set of definitions.
Ooooh nice
Fucking true
Thats some wise words
Damnnn nice one! Agreed.
Hot = hook-up
Beauty = life partner
@n cw While that might be true I think most people that cheat cheat because they are cheaters. Hence the phrase "how you got em is how you lose em". They will likely cheat on the hot girl too and cheat at a lot of things in life not just relationships, it's just a general character flaw they posses. If your partner cheats in games/school/business etc. Watch. Your. Back.
Another reason is because their chosen "life-partner" (the hot and beautiful one they married) is a prude. Which is why you'll come across stories of guys with beautiful smoking hot wives and not very attractive mistresses. The mistress actually puts out which was the whole point of having a hot wife in the first place.
@n cw they will gonna cheat anyway, look at those Hollywood hotties.. thier males cheated on them too..lol.. Actually guys don't know what they want..like women.
@@alicedoors4826 so what if they have the hot wife that's inside and out gorgeous? AND she's kinky? Why tf would he cheat then?
@@alicedoors4826 that explains my boy Arnold. He was fucking the ugly maid like he wasn't the Terminator
@@WillBlindYouWithLight because like they said it’s not about the other person and how much they can give, the cheater is just a cheater no matter how good the person is.
My two cents:
Hot = body, fitness, hair, makeup, cosmetic surgery, work done, tight clothes, projected confidence, risk taking excitement etc
Beautiful = inside and out, a caring empathetic personality, kindness, fitness/health as in looking after oneself, genetics that cannot be changed with any procedure, sense of style, good self esteem, self-respect, giving back to the world in one way or another
Cute = all about intellect, endearing qualities, uniqueness, personal interests etc and has nothing to do whatsoever with outside appearance
And all 3 makes you a triple threat guy (girl) 😂
Apart from the cute, it just seems the classic whore/madonna-dichotomy (look it up)
As a women who have suffered a lot with relationships. I want to thankyou for having this video in your channel. I'm trying to not focus on hotness anymore.
So to sum up...don't let the little head think for the big one
Lmao
Wise words.
OxyElite red pilled a bit?
OxyElite easy to say and difficult to do 🤕
Did you come up with that one? lol
He has a very soothing voice. I want him to read Fight Club to me as a bedtime story.
Diana Woods sounds like Morgan Freeman and Keith ledger’s jokers love child lol
he sounds like a sociopath. look at con men interviews. no emotion in his voice.
@@ciarangrimes7912 Not to be confused with the famous painter Heath Ledger
Risav Sahu of course my friend that’s why I made the distinction 😂😂😂. But come on there are multiple famous jokers you do usually have to specify cut me some slack
Really? I find it grating on my nerves. The way he speaks irritates me
When someone say its beautiful - it tickles their visual senses like when u r looking at a painting.
When they say its hot - it tickles their sexual senses
As a young 20 year old woman, I’m so glad I saw this video and read some lovely comments. I’m very shy and I’m very to myself a lot of people tell me I’m pretty but I never believe it because I have fiends who attract guys like magnets because they have phenomenal bodies and are an open book but I have never had a boy find me attractive or let it be known to me and sometimes it makes me very insecure but I know I’m a great girl and will find the the right one one day ☺️
I'm sure you will good luck :)
I think I may be the male version of you. I feel the same way about my situation
If you want to understand real gender dynamics, check out Edward Dutton or else Stefan Molyneux at Freedomain on Odysee. They are trying to address r/K theory in this video, but failing badly and sending mixed messages because of the nonsense opener of choosing between hotness and beauty. Another good one CZcams is Jennifer Moleski.
I felt the same way when I was your age. I felt very insecure about myself. The thing that changed my life was going to University. I studied dentistry and it automatically boosted my self-esteem like crazyyyy. I felt so confident and proud in myself. I made good money and money also helps boosting your confidence. I also started going regularly to gym and my life really changed. As you get more confident in yourself, you exude that energy of demanding respect and being praised (may sound egotistic). Try doing something in life that will add to your value outside of the physical. attractiveness is mental as well. For me education made the trick. Try figuring out your life path and that will automatically boost your self esteem :)
@@Yasi_nzi thank you for the very good advice! I will definitely try working on myself Tysm ❤️
Joe “just move that sucker around, thank you” rogan
Lol I read this when he said it
Bob Ross same
Joe "Bitch speak up" Rogan
Haha...the way she grabbed that mic though...
same haha no u dumby
You can hear this guy filtering every single sentence he utters holding to dear life in this outrage culture we live in... It is kind of sad to be honest
Jimm pathetic world we live in nowadays, people are disconnected from reality and dwell in a social media world
Clout Lord I was about to ask if you have been to college lately and remembered who was in this video after all..
And even if it was only an internet bizarre phenomenon this wouldn’t mean less since now social media madness and pressure can - and do - twist people’s image forever irl and even fire them.
Society’s integration with the internet is not something apart like it used to be, it’s now an extension of people’s lives with rules and laws that apply outside of it too, and an affront to speech here is not something you can just escape by disconnecting your modem anymore unfortunately.
That's not true, he's a scientist and all scientists do this. They all filter, it's what makes them come across very well and perceived to be intelligent (which they are)
Or...he's just thinking about what he's saying to make sense??
It's true. But he's broadly from the same ideology as the thought police. It's great to see these intellects coming over to the sensible side but they were part of the reason we ended up here.
It’s pretty funny when I was watching this I realized my definition of hotness and beauty is reversed from how they describe it. I believe this is probably because how young people now describe actions and other such things as hot, whereas beauty is mainly a physical attributes for at least myself. It was pretty crazy to see just how perfectly my definitions of these 2 words were mirrored.
This is so funny because I JUST said above to a younger guy I am sure-I think you’re mixing up “hot” as they mean it with “beauty.” Beauty in my generation (I’m 44) is what guys married, hit us what they just eff.
Hotness can be temporarily bought. Makeup, outfit, age, fitness.
Beauty is innate.
But, I think that they could be together too..!
For me, "pretty" has more to do with physical attractiveness from the neck, up. "Hot" has more to do with physical attractiveness from the neck, down -- especially in regard to physical fitness. "Beauty," on the other hand, at least for me, has to do with attractiveness outside the realm of physical attraction, with some crossover into the physical forms.
Spot on.
ok fax
Nailed it
Best description. Beauty is the inner!
Faxx
I chose the hot one, Now I miss the beautiful one.
It was a mistake.
someone tag his girlfriend lmao
You didn’t deserve her at the time. Wish her the best, better yourself and go find another beautiful lady. Just treat her right next time
@@CL-jw4ei Yeah, thanks!
The only thing you can do to honor that is to treat the next one right. Everyone’s makes mistakes, it’s what we do after the mistake that forms our character. Also.... that’s a big step, to admit where you have gone wrong. 💪🏽🖤 good for you man.
Mix dna
Right. Hotness is glaringly-appealing, head-turning physicality. And this can be subject to one's taste but it is almost always about the objectified person's proportions, vocal timbre, age. All things primally desired in a "mate." Beauty, however, though one might often ruminate on a person's physicality, it is with much more nuance and consideration. With someone beautiful, your first impulse isn't to seed or be seeded (though this may be your second or inevitable impulse) but to luxuriate in their features, lean into them, catch the way the nearest light source illuminates their eyes, their lips, both matching preternaturally perfect in hue with their un-painted skin. Hot is a young, 1995 Yasmine Bleeth. Beautiful is the singular visage of Isabelle Huppert. (add. Our celebrities, namely, actors and models, are hard to equivocate between hot and beautiful by virtue of their being. They are celebrities because they typically exemplify either both labels or begin hot and transition to being beautiful. We should all be so lucky.)
"....not searching for them in the same individual." This last small statement right there holds so much truth. The concept of what men want for their wife (aka the Beauty), and then if they can find the woman they can do all those things to, that they would never do with the mother of their children, this is the Mistress (aka Hotness). However, I do believe women get these persona's confused when trying to attract a man.
Attraction is so subjective. Not everyone is going to find the same characteristics Beautiful or Hot. This was an interesting discussion.
....I’ve noticed my hubby says I’m “beautiful” when I have no makeup , hair in a bun and sweats on but says I’m “hot” whenever I wear makeup, my hair down and form fitting clothes....I’ve always noticed this, even when we were dating ,but never given it much thought until now
Anarchy Is Unstoppable holy fuck bro
Wow thi is o true!youve opened my m8nd to this. U taught a complete stranger something. Thanks
I personally think women look amazing when they have no makeup, hair all messy, and wearing pajama pants. To me for some reason, it's hot and beautiful.
@Anarchy Is Unstoppable what the fuck kinda women are you around that have sweat pants that smell like fish?
@@chefboiardeeznutz9881 All women smell like fishy fish.
This is why The Joe Rogan Show is as popular as it is. The quality of this discussion is sooo far beyond what you can get on any TV show, it is laughable.
Your comment is such a striking truth. It articulates what I've been feeling about the internet vs TV for years perfectly
You think laughable is the proper term there?
@@Azer1125 TV is good for shit like The Sopranos, The Wire, Breaking Bad. Thing is, this is like less than 1% of the total content that is on TV - so much of it is mindless drivel.
? I know TV doesn't usually bring the best exactly but this is not That high quality...
Most of this shit is pretentious stoner talk bullshit
When this guest talks I think to myself "This guy is beautiful."
He loves his own voice, that former Evergreen professor. I loved that school and his misrepresentation of what happened there and bringing Fox news in and bringing national protests there for his 15 minutes of fame was disgusting. He likes to talk a whole lot more than listening and two-sided conversations. When he isn't talking, he's just waiting to speak again. He needs to control the discussion. He loves passive listening from others.
P.s. I like your positivity. I might feel the same if I didn't know his previous actions. Keep finding beauty in others. It's a fave hobby of mine, too. :)
This guy speaks the truth. Being beautiful is not the same with being hot.
Same thing applies to men. A man can be classically handsome and physically fit, but if he doesn't carry himself with that 'certain something' and a little swagger he's just good looking and NOT sexy or as you say "hot".
spring kelly so TRUE
spring kelly absolutely
So true!! The hotness is really to do with who he actually is. I find a guy irresistible if he’s physically attractive AND he’s confident, kind, self assured. To me his looks don’t have to be 100% (though he can’t be “ugly” in my eyes) but the personality needs to be right for me to have any interest at all.
spring kelly !!!!!! Very
The amount of guys that don’t understand this is nuts. I got a lot of friends who I’d say are in physically better shape and are genetically better looking (I’m not bad looking but hardly a supermodel) but have no swagger, wit, confidence in themselves beyond just their physical appearance. The result is that I’ve struggled way less in basically all my interactions platonic or not with women. And funniest of all they’ve never had any sort of curiosity as to why that’s the case outside of remarking angrily that I don’t go to the gym so that doesn’t make sense lmao.
he just took the long division version of saying "beauty is on the inside".
But no one believes that saying...this video really explaines the proverb with real life connotations.
i stil couldnt fuk his co-worker.. she is neither hot or beautiful. im trying to find something attractive about her with his laws .
Depends what you mean. A woman with a great face can have a sterile physical persona, be almost invisible walking by while a woman who is average face but has some beautiful movement in her hips and a sensuous physical demeanour can stop conversations.
It's still an outward manifestation of inner qualities, but it's not purely internal. The prettier woman with no sexual physicality might need to be more active or do yoga or explore Latin dance or do something external like that. It's inside AND outside regardless how you look.
Character and feminine connectedness are sexy and desired traits that can be visually evident.
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Actually he didn't. He said women who advertise hotness are sending a message that they are available for sex without the need for pregnancy.
Biggest lie joe Rogen has ever told “I hate to interrupt you” 🤣🤣
Bret weinstein tales things you can explain to yourself in your head that you cannot explain and explains them very eloquently and in a very down to earth way, which is a part of his brilliance
Girls Locker room: omg Vanessa you’re soooo cute in those shorts
Boys Locker room:
This joke has gotten old now stop!
Kevin it was too perfect an opportunity
I thought it was 'grab em by the pussy'
The boys are cool. Most girls talk about other girls and guys they like with code names. But then again, my sample size is relatively small.
Why's there a girl in the locker room?
Historically a woman who is hot is seen as such because she loves her body and is uninhibited sexually. There is something intangible about true beauty that encompasses kindness and compassion. The combination of both is the pinnacle of femininity. Stop thinking its an either or. Be both.
Awesome comment Angela, and so true. Why shouldn't a woman be both!
I do it everyday. So i'd like to believe.
@@grannybemx6729 If you believe, therefore you are!
Manifestation 101 lol
As a single hetero male with some experience (57) I have always related hotness to individuality, compassion, intelligence, self sufficiency and determination. I always find the woman who doesn't need to be with me, but chooses to, to be the hottest. She also must have strength of character. Being readily available sexually is a bit of a turn off, however counter-intuitive that sounds. When I used to go to singles bars back in the day, I would always watch for the woman that would rebuff guys all night. She would be the one I would approach, and usually be able to flirt with successfully. I have met, and dated some very smart and discerning women that way. The women most men don't get to be with. THAT is hot! Usually a lot less drama as well, as they tend to be well grounded in themselves.
I felt like joe Rogan low key freaked out when he said “I’d like to experiment with you.... as a red blooded male”
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And I still can't believe CZcams deleted the complete show of Joe Rogan with these two awsome human beings.
"males really have 3 reproductive strategies but the last one is so aweful that I dont even want to enter it into the discussion" (not even 0.2 seconds later) Joe Rogan: "You're talking about rape"
God damn it joe.
Joe was never one for subtlety. lmao
🤦♀️ 😆
I love Joe lol.
He didn’t say aweful
he had to say it because some people wouldn't pick it up
Hot: Instant gratification
Beauty: Long-term happiness
This guy just wants you to understand the weight of his words. It’s fun to listen to a smart guy explain a stupid idea.
there is a certain point where pretty becomes almost unnatural looking, so someone that might be a 6/10 to someone else is 10/10 in my book
For me 8/10 -> 10/10 when I realize I truly love her.
Natalie Portman: Beautiful
Juliette Lewis: Hot
Monica Belluci: Both
youre d umb
@@unnaturalatrophy8073 47 likes an 0 dislikes. Is it your brain that has ATROPHIED?
@@tigre9271 your dumb indeed
@@aninussdingdong1897 Ok, DING DONG...lol!
Juliette Lewis? She has a giant forehead and looks funny. I’d say Megan fox as the hot one.
Hotness is transient, Beauty is permanent
idk I've been watching the same porn for 60 years and I'm the only one getting ugly and liver failure
Says who? Not.
How is beauty perm also you can control hotness but not beauty , you can change your body but not your face
accurate
I like to think of Beauty as eternal or infinite
Do all evolutionary scientists talk in this calm voice?
Yes
I would assume so. They seem confident in their intelligence and dont seem to have the need to prove it.
I think it’s also great so when they share a their knowledge it also allows other to slowly rap their mind around the idea
@@lxrocha good point
@Coding in Flow Yo! Good to see you here. I watch your android tutorials.
As a woman gets older being told she is "hot" becomes an insult. It's an immediate turn off.
Agreed. It begins exactly that moment when you stop trying to validate yourself by the amount of sexual attention you get from guys. Because we all know how long it lasts for. I wish we teach our daughters this. :)
The bible first wrote this that beauty is fleeting but a godly woman is what is to be sought.
Hmm. This puts being told I was "the hottest girl in highschool" in a new light. An abusive childhood (aka "Daddy issues"), a giant chest and eating disorders, and I was considered bangable. These days, the pain of so many heart and body breaking events and the strength to overcome them and fight through.. I've been told I am beautiful and unattainable more times than I can remember. I think a large part of the difference between "hotness" and beauty is the factor of accessibility or attainability. I carry myself differently now. I look people in the eyes steadily, seriously and defiantly instead of briefly and coyly. Things can change over time. People change. Labels are transitory. Main thing to remember or build is respect of self.
I'm glad you evolved into someone strong and self-reliant. I think the world needs more women like you.
Well said.
Eating disorders are torture, you're very strong to get through that 🙏🏼
strranger nah you’re just a simp
@strranger Drop your nice guy act. Women don't owe you affection or attention just because you chose them. Stop girlfriendzoning women.
I always thought my grandma was beautiful but certainly not hot. She was beautiful in an elegant way sort of like a queen.
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I’d hope you wouldn’t find your grandmother hot 😂💀
Ewwww, you fancy your grandma!? Ewwwwwwwwww.
jk.
Ew.
My dads mom was a gorgeous human being, and hell yes she passed on some of her looks. I loved her beautiful eyes and expression, so French.
Or be neither
When I think of a beautiful woman my mind automatically goes to Jane Seymour. Classic, timeless beauty.
She is sexy too.. the commercials in the 80’s oil of Olay or some perfume she was really sexy in a bodice ..
Liz Taylor, Sophia Loren
Mans voice is so relaxing
Hotness= eye candy
Beauty= attractiveness+child raising traits (kind, gentle)
And you got both ;)
“Child raising traits” um chief those are just human traits
sad cat I think we can agree that not all humans are able to take care of a child properly.
blk also everybody’s ideas of qualities and traits that are conducive to child raising is subjective.
Echo that’s fine. But if they were human traits.. every human would have them. Can’t generalize like that.
Hotness causes arousal and beauty causes commitment.
Beauty causes both.
Always get to know the person before having sex.. That way both know what you're looking for.
Interesting
can be angry arousal aswell
so the HOT female is jacked...hard to not get past the hotness to see the beauty and the hot female knows she has tremendous power. broadcasting hotness is the fashion design females use and most have NO CLUE the power of their body!
I am not what society would refer to as “hot”. I am however, wickedly smart, witty AF, and legitimately care about people. I much prefer being interesting over hot. Hotness fades, personality is forever.
But what is personality exactly?
For me hotness is more attitude and charisma with a big helping of attractive on top. And beauty is not only skin deep but within and throughout to meet a truly beautiful person is very rare.
I know a lot of married 7’s and single 10’s
Sometimes its just a personality thing
Introduce meh to the single 10's?
I've met a few 10's who open their mouths and become 3's
10s on the outside or on the inside?
@@dmac26official that's typically how it'll go
For me "hot" is someone with an amazing body and "beauty" is someone with an amazing face. The body generally doesn't age well, but the face can age quite gracefully.
Jana Vasić yes, this!
Arutemisu What I got from the discussion is that someone can have a beautiful face and still not beautiful. In this instance beauty means someone with a nice attitude some caring ...basically beauty is within.. if you find someone that is hot and beautiful (in the context of the discussion) you have hit the jackpot
How old are you? Genuinely asking, not being shady.
Love your pfp btw
Agreed but when it comes to beauty i think personality and grace have some thing to do with beauty
This makes a lot of sense. All the guys I’ve dated tell me I’m beautiful and would want to be in a committed relationship with me but aren’t ready. I respect the honesty because no one gave the goods. Mutual respect and go our different ways🤝
Male hotness to me is a man who is clean and no over hanging gut
My ex husband once told me
“The night I met you at that party you were the hottest woman there by far.... but a week later when I came to pick you up for our first date I realized that you were beautiful”......I told him it made no sense and he explained it to me by saying “Hot is from the neck down, and Beauty is from the neck up”....take it for what you will but it sort of made sense to me at the time.
Why is he EX
Yeah why ex?
Because our marriage fell apart after our son passed away. Stop assuming every divorce is “because someone did something wrong”....
@@nadiadelphi6850 oh that's sad.. I'm sorry..
Nadia Delphi I’m very sorry that happened. I didn’t assume that someone did something wrong. Hope you’re doing well. ❤️
my husband says I'm cute. I'll take what I can get.
Lmao what an Incel. Dude has no idea what he's talking about
Lmaooo
@@corncobjohnsonreal what, id take the compliment 'beautiful' over 'cute' any day
dude...same
Adreana Falkner you’re the sort of cancer fracturing modern relationships. Breaking up with someone over the word cute. How mature
I always told my girlfriend, there’s a difference between hot, beautiful, pretty, a woman that’s hot is someone that I just wanna have sex with or just wanna see naked like seeing a exotic car, beautiful is a woman that’s someone your attracted to and just wanna look and stare at and you wanna bring them home to meet your mom, like a beautiful painting 🖼 that you can admire, and pretty is someone that you like to look at but after a hour or 2 you forget what they look like,
I think I’m at hotter at 40 than I was in my 20s or 30s…because I own my sexuality more and care less about external validation
What makes someone beautiful: their face, their personality, their deeds.
What makes someone hot: the sun.
😂😂😂✨😜
Lol
deep thoughts
Well done.
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*hesitates* “...I’ve been robbed of every useful term... They’ve been triggered...” 😂😂😂
So true it's funny
I don’t really get it, was he trying to use euphemism ?
The term 'triggered' has been hijacked by certain groups and now is seen as a political word, as opposed to its dictionary definition, so he feels he can't just use it freely any more
DOLLY ZOOM It’s also a word used by conspiracy theorists recently. It has to do with mind control triggers.
This guy makes me feel like I’m in class all over again
My advice to young men. Find a woman who has at least one HOT trait you like, and the rest is beauty (poise, personality, connection). Physical attraction will change, and does not last forever. Although their needs to be some attraction. Coin goes both ways for woman as well.
im not joking, this is the exact explanation my bf gave me when he cheated on me lol
Bruh
Mal Iy I’m worried by the fact you called him your bf and not your ex-bf lol
Dump him
Jesus, what an explanation.
PS: Fuck that guy. Hope he's your ex.
Lmao
When I was 19 I went out with a guy. He did not call after that but after a couple of months I heard that he described me as „the kind of girl you marry“. I was young, stupid and quite self-conscious, so I did not understand that it was actually a big compliment. I guess I wanted to be hot and not beautiful to men at 19. Now at 35 I see clearly that being beautiful is the better way to go long-term. Human babies are indeed extremely needy 😊
@Shoaib Sheikh did she ever hit you up?
@Shoaib Sheikh bro wtf . This is CZcams not tinder
Honest question, how would you react to being told you would be a great mom? I sometimes thought that about a girlfriend, but I think it might sound silly or wrong. (I'm not into kids at all, even when I was with her). Would you take it as a compliment? something weird? creepy?
@@canobenitez actually, my friends used to tell me this all the time and it used to really bother me. but honestly when people tell me that now, i view it as a complement. it feels more genuine.
@@canobenitez I dnt kmow about other girls, but I see it as a big compliment
I don’t take hot as a compliment if you say I’m hot your looking at my body but if you say I’m beautiful your looking as my face and listening to me
@6:29 I love the simplification he makes. “Because babies are expensive”. Not because men avoid responsibility (some not all) or because my mother couldn’t own a house let alone have a bank account with my dad signing off. Or the fact that I can’t get a hysterectomy without my husbands approval. No, you’re right. It’s because “babies are expensive” not because historically society has not supported the independence of women.
This is the first time in the history of the world that women can have children on their own and provide for a household without being reliant on a male counterpart. And with this new era, I know PLENTY of women who would gladly re-produce without the commitment of a man. Now let’s talk about how THATS an evolutionary lottery. 🤷🏻♀️
Most single mothers are dependent upon state aid or transfer payments from the father. Just a fact.
@@marcv2648 not a fact. You should do your research.
But let’s say - for arguments sake - that you’re right. That is a reflection that only proves my point; that we live in a society that has historically oppressed the independence of women. 🤷🏻♀️
@@tarynmarie9066 You are literally arguing that marriage is oppression, and raising children with a father oppresses the independence of women.
V good point. If marriage was true in the majority a good strategy for women at any point in history, why are married women's life expectancies on average shorter statistically?. Far more women consistently were abused in a myriad of ways under a veil of ownership but there were a tiny minority of women who won the personality lottery with a male mate who truly cared for them. That's less than 1%. Raising families does require steadfast support and women have always networked to achieve this in communities and villages. What were they doing alone when men hunted, fought wars, spent hours and days away with being repeatedly pregnant and no say in the matter?
Very very few men have the personalities and mindset required for the heavy lifting in partnership or marriage(eg being utterly reciprocal) as their entire being is founded on innate male superiority. Which is why marriage only works with the majority of men where a woman is lesser than (eg not confronting or assertive, consistently self sacrificing and has absolutely no desires of her own.....pretty much an indentured servant)
Once robots achieve the strength and labour of traditional male industries, (including guard robots to protect women from male aggression) those traditional men will loose all their footholds on women and marriage needs to go.
Marriage never meant happiness for all but extremely rare women and most women without means of financial support had very few options
"we've been robbed of every useful term" HAHAHA yes
Lmao I was listening to this part and then turned to look at my screen and this commment was the first thing I saw, crazy coincidence
Actively hunted for this comment!
I've been saying that for years and I'm a liberal academic type.
Woman talks like shes trying not to wake up someone sleeping under joes desk
Hahahahahahha
Lmfao
But I love it though, I wonder if that's her natural tone, something about it I find really appealing
I didn't like her interrupting. She added nothing.
Lol
5 years into a realtionship and he decided he wanted hotness instead of me. Not even my "beauty", my other qualities or our amazing connection deterred him from jeopardizing all we had. I found out he had been trying to score with a younger, taller, thinner, blonde blue-eyed russian girl... My self-esteem was the lowest it had ever been and the lowest it could possibly be. I entered into a deep depression... Absolutely nothing about me stopped him from throwing it all away. I was not enough and would never be. I had to do acid to restore my depression to baseline levels lmfao. Actually, it helped a lot - to see the how much beauty there is in the world, maybe a little in the mirror...
Taller isn't a trait men select for, unless you're dwarvishly short. You have a lot to learn about r/K theory. Good luck.
"One of them is so awful that I don't even wanna bring it into the discussion"
"You're talking about rape"
Way to go Joe. He just said he didn't wanna mention it
He was explaining for people that didn’t understand what he meant
And also confirming what he thought he meant
kinda getting some asmr vibes from the way they're talking LMAO
samantha cho to me it sounds like everyone has testicles and they’re being threateningly squeezed as they talk
Marlenet777 well that’s a different more anxiety inducing perspective lmfao
Idk if its just me but every time Joe tells someone to pull the microphone closer I could hear the person just fine already.
for this clips they use the sounds directly from the soundboard, mAybe the audio output for the podcast is different hence why he tells people to get closer to the mic.
you. can make a mic sound closer with a mixer but its easier to just tell the person to get closer
that's possible
The audio levels are being balanced on the fly by Jamie, so if someones audio levels suddenly drops he obviously signals to Joe to tell the guest to return to the previous position.
Otherwise if the guest suddenly returns to the previous position without Jamie returning the levels to where they were, the audio would peak and sound horrible.
i dont why they didn't do anything with the audio for john danaher podcast, i could hardly hear that guy.
Same
It is really sad that he actually apologized before stating a fact... what a dumpster fire we live in now.
ponder on this:
would you still love your significant other if they got in a car accident and physical appearance completely changed?
i’ve really started to notice that beauty comes from within. the way you care for things, the way you speak, your mannerisms, your intentions, your wisdom… I pray that one day, i meet my husband and he views me as beautiful. i’m so over this superficial love
Women often become more beautiful after their 20s. They should know that and hopefully feel better. Also quirky women with some interesting features are way more beautiful than a robotic appearance.
Huh? A women's prime is from 18-30 tops.
@@paulj9821 well I said after 20s. You said to 30. But 30s easily better than 20s except for fake Barbie doll look tricking some guys with little taste.
@@samuelmay4823 I mean technically it's 14+ till 28. I just rounded it to 30 cause some people might take it the wrong way.
@@paulj9821 14???????
@@samuelmay4823 see
Joe "Even if it dosen't work it'll work" Rogan
These Joe “dah dah dah whatever” Rogan things are really obnoxious. Stop doing it. It’s innapro pro
Joe "these joe "dah dah dah whatever" rogan things are realy obnoxious. Stop doing it. It's innapro pro" Rogan
I said stop it.
Joey J No
Silly Optimism haha
There are older women in their 60s who are physically beautiful too.
Honestly it makes full sense and brings me to understand why I as a man think almost completely differently in wanting to have a relationship with someone and just wanting to fool around.
I think “hotness” is measured through physical aesthetics while beauty is skin deep, it’s about the soul. Hot is for lust while beauty is for love.
I love this, so true
That's not what skin deep means
👏💯👏
This is the absolute worst attempt at someone using a phrase (elementary one at that!) and having NO CLUE what it even means LMFAO. 🤦🏽♂️
Somehow, beauty is ignored from age 18 to 50. The amount of fake beauty masquerading itself as true beauty is scary. Really, is it needed to wear so much make up on your face thinking you can bed any guy you want??
I love it when intelligent people talk about something for 10 minutes that can instead be essentially described in a one sentence rap lyric.
Manny S 🙌
It was damn precise to me.
ha! awesome comment
Can't turn a hoe into a house wife
I’m attracted to fat hunks of crap. That’s my thing.
I think he's saying something we pretty much all know (a guy is less likely to take you seriously if you have a lot of sex appeal; if you are beautiful and modest you're more likely to attract a committed boyfriend) ... he's just explaining it on a deeper level. Very interesting.
Joanna Lumley is the definition of Beauty I think ❤️ she’s been beautiful throughout the decades. Same with Naomi Campbell and Nigella Lawson, Thandiwe Newton, Halle Berry, Catherine Zeta Jones - the list is endless
I was so captivated in what these two were saying until Joe broke the flow of the conversation with the microphone. We hear her just fine.
Yeah! I found that excruciating. It took the floor out from under her especially since I’d had no rouble hearing her at all. I wanted to punch Joe for the power play
That was such a fucking dick move on Rogan’s part.
He was bored of her... So obvious
Her body language continually reflected his looming over her - as she turned slightly away all the while, he took his leadership lack of tact and directed it at her.
Yeah that was dumb
When I picture hotness I just see a curvy, fertile, nubile body. When I picture beauty I see an aesthetically pleasing face. I don’t really think hotness necessarily equates sluttiness in my mind.
Def agree, but a few things. First off your first sentence was perfect. But in hotness I still do need something alluring from the face. Even something like the smile, or eyes, complexion etc...You also have to put hotness in the same category as sexy then basically. That is what the initial, hormone freak self is feeling, at least that's how I feel.
M0ebius bro what's nubile lol
Natural all natural White pistachio nut Young and attractive.
Someone you would want to marry
Natural all natural White pistachio nut nubile is perky and young-looking
Hot is in the looks but beautiful is in their aura and heart
Gotta love how a woman always interrupts an intelligent conversation.
Yep, and each time with nothing to contribute and required the dude to correct.
This is why I get uncomfortable when someone calls me sexy.
I made sure to report him. You’re beautiful 🖤
That_one _guy thanks I suddenly felt better.
TipTheScales27 thank you it’s okay. It’s the internet. I may not be everyone’s cup of tea but I’m someone’s morning coffee. :-)
Lunar Dee I still think it’s bullshit that some random person would say something like that and not have to suffer any consequences. I bet he wouldn’t have the balls to say it to someone’s face like that. And I’m confused why he said it in the first place. Your profile pic isn’t even an inch yet your skin is still glowing through the screen. I wish I looked half as good as you lol
TipTheScales27 I’m sure if he saw me he would call me beautiful to my face and try and get my number if my presence didn’t intimidate him already.
Thank for you standing up for me xxx 😘
I could be wrong, but I always saw hotness as superficial/sexual attraction. Beauty is something that radiates from the person and is timeless. You can see it in their eyes and in their smile.
2 years later, but I agree with you. Hot women are women I appreciate for how they make me feel down there, but beautiful women I appreciate for how they make me feel up there. I hope that makes sense. lol
this makes sense
but what about men? a hot man vs a handsome man, it’s also interesting that the word beautiful is uncommon to describe men, but it’s universal to describe anything, a place can be beautiful, but handsome is specifically catered to men
Hotness is temporary, beauty is eternal.