Entitled Friend is UNGRATEFUL because I can't AFFORD to go to her OVERSEAS WEDDING - Reddit Podcast

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    0:00 My friend is calling me ungrateful and selfish, all because I can’t afford to attend her destination wedding outside of the country. (u/Such_Ad7558)
    3:55 My Karen of a mother makes a scene at a restaurant, causing problems just for the sake of causing them
and I am honestly so angry with her, that I now don’t know what to do. (u/ReasonableAd30)
    8:07 My partner of seven years confessed to cheating right before our wedding, and now I feel really betrayed, and I don’t know what to do. (u/Thatonegurrrrl888)
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  • @AmItheJerk
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    • @TherealDIOoverheaven
      @TherealDIOoverheaven Pƙed 24 dny +1

      How did you post this two weeks ago? It's been less than a minute

    • @Internetuser435
      @Internetuser435 Pƙed 24 dny

      ​@@TherealDIOoverheaven maybe the video was unlisted when they commented

    • @TherealDIOoverheaven
      @TherealDIOoverheaven Pƙed 23 dny +1

      @@Internetuser435 I guess that makes sense

  • @brandonnewby178
    @brandonnewby178 Pƙed 23 dny +7

    Story #2:
    You're a therapist who talked with somebody else about your client's history? Hope none of your boss is read this...

    • @meowatbabiesthecat
      @meowatbabiesthecat Pƙed 23 dny

      That was my thought, too. The OP is worse than their mom for that, alone.

  • @firefly4f4
    @firefly4f4 Pƙed 24 dny +15

    Friend: "You prioritize material things over our friendship!"
    The projection is strong with that one. A destination wedding is the DEFINITION of a material thing.

  • @annemariebell6970
    @annemariebell6970 Pƙed 24 dny +39

    Story 1. If you can't afford to go to your "friend's " destination wedding and she can't accept that FACT, then she's not much of a friend.
    Story 2. LADY, WTF! If you're dissatisfied with the service and get upset because YOU change your order, then YOU'RE the one with the problem! OP, I SERIOUSLY hope you live on your own.

    • @KaneLivesInDeath
      @KaneLivesInDeath Pƙed 24 dny +2

      There is a difference between prioritizing materialistic goods over your friends and making you homeless because your friend expects something unreasonable...

    • @jasoncarpp7742
      @jasoncarpp7742 Pƙed 24 dny +2

      *Story 1:* Right? I don't get why anyone would get pissed that her friend said that she couldn't afford to make it to her friend's wedding. It's not as though she didn't want to go, it's just that she couldn't afford to go. If she can't accept that without accusing you of being *"selfish"* then she's the one being selfish, by putting her stupid wedding over your needs and priorities.

    • @leighreganarblaster9852
      @leighreganarblaster9852 Pƙed 23 dny

      No to work you need work. If want save money for a Deposit for house if your money.

  • @cliffordmaynard6559
    @cliffordmaynard6559 Pƙed 23 dny +6

    On the first story, before I let it start, op you are NOT the jerk, when you CANNOT afford to go, then you CANNOT AFFORD IT. Your friend is in the WRONG.

  • @Connor-ki8zv
    @Connor-ki8zv Pƙed 24 dny +9

    Story 1: The OP is definitely not being a jerk. Sarah should have put more thought into her wedding plans and how expensive it is.

  • @BaxterAndLunala
    @BaxterAndLunala Pƙed 24 dny +15

    For anyone wondering what the game in the background is, it's called Perfect Dark. It's a game developed by Rare, and it was a spiritual successor to GoldenEye 64. The level seen early on is Chicago: Stealth.

  • @764notmyname
    @764notmyname Pƙed 23 dny +4

    Story 1: That friend needs to understand that going out of a country is expansive and some people either can't afford it, or they can't spend money or else it would set them back. OP has been saving and now you want him to spend his money to see your wedding that's happening in another Country!
    Story 2: OP's mom need to shut up and chill. You change your side dish. Maybe you got something more expensive as your side dish. Or maybe it takes more time to make it. You really shouldn't make a big deal out of it.
    Story 3: Your boyfriend should have never gone to the place with his father. Let alone go along with it. At least you found out before your wedding, because that would have been worse. Either way, you shouldn't give him another chance because cheating on your partner is just wrong.
    Story 4: Dude, if someone says that they are going to pay for everything, then they need to doing that. Not just say it and then say last minute for someone to pay for themselves. You wanted to go and said you were going to pay everything, you need to take care of that and do it. Don't use OP's promotion as an excuse because again, you said you'd pay for everything.
    Story 5: Dude leave the desk lady's alone. They are doing their job, telling people when they can see the doctors or how long they'll need to wait. Also, people like her need to shut up. "I'm important!" Like who the F-CK asked?
    Story 6: I don't relate to this but still. people need to mind their own business and worry about their own job. They like to say things about how OP is doing his job, but they aren't even doing their job. They really need to shut up and get to work.

  • @Ahem-nc2nt
    @Ahem-nc2nt Pƙed 23 dny +3

    16:22
    Just be patient
    Me : he is already patient he is here to see the doctor afterall 😂😂😂

  • @user-rl3tn1uh3p
    @user-rl3tn1uh3p Pƙed 24 dny +3

    I knew someone who was acting like this. She thinks that money is like water. Endless. I cut them off. She is now telling everyone that I am a narcissistic person. Which is funny since everyone knows I was the one who finicaly supported her for months.

  • @v.crowley
    @v.crowley Pƙed 23 dny +1

    Story 1: the “friend” can pay for your trip over her being materialistic about her wedding 😂😂

  • @danielhorton9826
    @danielhorton9826 Pƙed 23 dny +2

    Story 3, the only way that relationship is salvageable is if the cheating was only massage parlors and the fiancé was genuinely messed up due to his father normalising using such services. Otherwise, yeah cheaters going to cheat and she's better off leaving rather than insisting on counselling, couple and individual, and at postponement of at least 1 year of the wedding to figure out the mess.

  • @Emmejemma
    @Emmejemma Pƙed 24 dny +4

    What ? she is so selfish who would go all the way overseas for a wedding?

  • @phantomghost997
    @phantomghost997 Pƙed 24 dny +1

    In the last story I can relate myself, in December 2018 I was hired by a restaurant named Smitty's on St. James in Winnipeg Manitoba Canada as a host/bus and it was terrible. Besides sitting and cleaning tables, there was a list of other things to do like clean and check washroom every half hour, clean the glass doors, amount other things. But one thing they didn't like about me was I took too long to clean tables, because they wanted done in a certain time frame but apparently I couldn't; and we actually had a woman complain that she wanted a booth and one wasn't clean, so I tryed to clean it as fast as I could but it wasn't good enough. Eventually they bumped me to Dishwasher about a few weeks after I started there and I left in April of 2019 because I wasn't treated respectfully. Because besides dishes, I was also made to takeout the trash plus sometime roll bacon; now do you really want to eat at a restaurant where the guy who washed your dishes whether he washed his hands or not, who also handled garbage was touching and handling raw bacon! Not to mention washing dishes with no gloves!

  • @brandonnewby178
    @brandonnewby178 Pƙed 23 dny +1

    Story #1: material possessions? It's not like she's looking to go to the super bowl instead of your wedding or something stupid like that

  • @robotinik0
    @robotinik0 Pƙed 24 dny +1

    *_OM NOM NOM_*
    Father.. I require more videos.

  • @statusdisarray9598
    @statusdisarray9598 Pƙed 24 dny +1

    You ask your best friends and family Prior to choosing a destination wedding >story 1

  • @ruairi9109
    @ruairi9109 Pƙed 24 dny +3

    I'm a little conflicted by the cheating story, the op said that her partner was taken to a place and I'm not 100% sure he knew it would happen and was most likely influenced by his family. I'm not offending cheating but it kind of seemed like he was pressured into the situation and not his intention.

    • @QuickManEXE
      @QuickManEXE Pƙed 24 dny +1

      I disagree here, the OP said that he has cheated multiple times...this isn't a one-time thing. Also, if that place was sketchy, the fiance could've very easily gotten out of that situation by leaving or saying hes uncomfortable in some kind of way.... and if he really was pressured to go to this place, then i would've thrown that part of the family under the bus and tell the OP what they did. So many things shouldve been handled differently.

  • @margarethunt9471
    @margarethunt9471 Pƙed 23 dny

    Way back when I was a server it was our job to inform the customer of a up charge for any and all changes or substitutes.

  • @shiahortiz3494
    @shiahortiz3494 Pƙed 24 dny +1

    Love this

  • @Kadaue
    @Kadaue Pƙed 23 dny

    If you want to make sure everyone you want at your wedding, don't have a destination wedding. Not everyone can afford that

  • @happydoots382
    @happydoots382 Pƙed 23 dny

    Story 2: had someone recently complain about the very specific liquor tax my business charges on all drinks. She couldn’t believe we would charge so much on a mixed drink. I politely explained we have no baring on that tax. We’re just required BY LAW to have it. That’s federal law. Complain to them, not the grunts at the literal bottom of the ladder. 😑😑

  • @btwmanic9625
    @btwmanic9625 Pƙed 23 dny

    I can relate to much to the 2nd story

  • @AkselJade
    @AkselJade Pƙed 23 dny

    I want to know that therapists name so I can avoid them forever. You don't break your clients trust by telling your family what's wrong with them.

  • @princessmarlena1359
    @princessmarlena1359 Pƙed 24 dny +1

    Story 1: NTA. I’ve been through this myself. People such as that were NEVER truly your friends.

    • @leftlegleg
      @leftlegleg Pƙed 24 dny +1

      I had a friend who was entitled. He wouldn’t let me play games with my other friends and basically followed me everywhere. I stopped being friends with him because i wanted some privacy.

    • @vdx3523
      @vdx3523 Pƙed 23 dny +1

      ​@leftlegleg I have felt that but as the friend who followed my friend is because of him having no friends and that a good thing as that guy was a massive a-HOLE

    • @WHATISAHANDLEANDWHYDOESITNEED
      @WHATISAHANDLEANDWHYDOESITNEED Pƙed 23 dny

      Erm, this is actually Am I the jerk, not am i the ah*** this is yt not reddit.đŸ€“đŸ‘†

    • @princessmarlena1359
      @princessmarlena1359 Pƙed 23 dny

      irrelevant to the topic of this thread, dolt.

    • @WHATISAHANDLEANDWHYDOESITNEED
      @WHATISAHANDLEANDWHYDOESITNEED Pƙed 23 dny

      @@princessmarlena1359 k

  • @christigmc
    @christigmc Pƙed 23 dny

    Something tells me either Sarah comes from money, is marrying into money, or doesn’t know the value of money. Or some combination of the 3. If #3 is involved, Alex I would rethink marrying her. She’ll probably bankrupt you. Run and be thankful you dodged a bullet.

  • @jeanglendinning1860
    @jeanglendinning1860 Pƙed 23 dny

    1st story, with friends like like that who needs enemies?

  • @gapgamer0954
    @gapgamer0954 Pƙed 23 dny

    We need more updates in the stories

  • @anonymouspatriotnetwork2740

    It sounds like Sarah comes from a life of privilege and expects all her friends to be the same.

  • @TheZamaron
    @TheZamaron Pƙed 24 dny

    Story 1: Seriously Sarah should have offered to pay for OP to go, if OP is that important of a person to have at the wedding then Either Sarah should pay for OP's trip, or replan the wedding to somewhere more affordable, most of these kinds of weddings are done by rich people, or done by a very small group of guests.

  • @danielwasgameing
    @danielwasgameing Pƙed 24 dny

    in story two i could understand that the waiter should say hay there is a 2 $ up charge but she shoudnt have to got mad at the waiter

  • @anonymouspatriotnetwork2740

    What's your mom take her own trip and pay for your trip by yourself

  • @samkoverny1875
    @samkoverny1875 Pƙed 24 dny

    Why is the sceen black when i watch it on my phone?

  • @KaKa-bo5dv
    @KaKa-bo5dv Pƙed 24 dny

    Lmao

  • @cezarblack13
    @cezarblack13 Pƙed 23 dny +2

    ❀❀❀

  • @blearghu
    @blearghu Pƙed 24 dny

    Michael Choice

  • @lttillman716
    @lttillman716 Pƙed 19 dny

    What game

  • @notyme243
    @notyme243 Pƙed 23 dny

    story 5 it sucks waiting for hours basically forgotten and then if you say anything you're the bad guy.(i've been left for 4 hrs till i complained). and sorry but i think both the receptionist and op were kinda jerks because it sounds like she jump the line, being honest is kinda mean girl/karen behavior.

  • @daunas124
    @daunas124 Pƙed 24 dny +1

    Stupid ai writing the scripts "my choice" as "Michael choice"

  • @shroomwell
    @shroomwell Pƙed 24 dny

    30 second gang ✹

  • @afraalfalasi8693
    @afraalfalasi8693 Pƙed 24 dny +1

    Sorry 16 sec :(

  • @user-secretive
    @user-secretive Pƙed 23 dny

    You just could't go. Sarrah was a douche.😔

  • @cezarblack13
    @cezarblack13 Pƙed 23 dny +1

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  • @Codm22712
    @Codm22712 Pƙed 24 dny +2

    First 2 seconds

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      @PajamaCatWithRamen Pƙed 24 dny

      Do you get some sort of pride achievement or joy out of leaving irrelevant comments that nobody could care less about?

    • @Codm22712
      @Codm22712 Pƙed 24 dny

      @@PajamaCatWithRamen do you get enjoyment out of being a useless fuck with only 6 subs

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    @JaydenLeverett-xs8gr Pƙed 24 dny +2

    Hi first

  • @Shelby_arts
    @Shelby_arts Pƙed 24 dny +1

    I’m early 😎

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    @esteproyt1475 Pƙed 24 dny +1

    First minute