My Twin IMPREGNATED my Girlfriend so I WON'T give him my KIDNEY - Reddit Podcast
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First Story: I can COMPLETELY understand why the OP didn't give his kidney. You do realize that if it was the other way around and OP was dying of kidney failure, all his twin brother and parents would have done was laugh at his face and tell him it's what he gets for being a F-slur. Not a chance in hell his twin would have given him his kidney.
I'd be surprised if I actually heard someone say that the op was in the wrong. I'd like to see them live the op's life and try to make that choice to give their kidney to the toxic twin.
@@nicksuazo4377 there are some people that say OP is in the wrong. I don't feel that way. Lord forgive me but what his brother did was just cruel
He probably would have ruined that kidney as well even if he did give it
Exactly
The only thing the op did wrong was give up his name in his marriage instead of hyphenated it in half having both names. Other than that, if I was him I'd probably spit in his hospital pudding, close as he'd get to my kidney but that's it. What I love however is that the sister understands why the op left him to die, after all that strangers would understand but family would be emotional but she knew too and probably hated him.
What I like to believe is that as soon as OP said NO to him he immediately realized In shock that his gaslighting and good boy attitude won’t save him
There wasn't any goodboy attitude. The brother denied it all.
The twin brother's just like: oh I fucked up...
Not even god can save you now >=D
"Gaslighting." Damn, why did I forget to use that word when describing his attitude? That is completely legit.
@@Barry-rc5nf Oh, the irony: the god they used as another excuse to attack and condemn OP, has probably condemned the twin brother to hell already 😅
If the kidney failure was from his own behavior, it’s ridiculous to expect ANYONE to save him, let alone a twin who mistreated him for their entire lives. I had a friend who died from liver failure due to a Tylenol OD and she wasn’t allowed to be put on a donor list. Sebastian did that to himself and it’s absolutely disgusting that anyone would try to lay the blame on OP.
Exactly! He did it to himself through HIS own actions. All OP ever wanted to do was have a loving twin brother, and have a family to fall back on (discluding the sister ofc)
And it’s absolutely despicable that they think they’re entitled for OP to save him, after everything he’s done to screw over his entire life, getting him disowned for being bi. Or getting his girlfriend pregnant than abandoning HIS child forcing her to abort it or suffer.
What happened to the evil twin was true karma. All his life he’s ruined OP’s life and made it a living hell, and having his narcissistic parents to favor him. All he’s ever done is destroy and ruin peoples lives. Now his life was on the line, and he expected the person he bullied the most and hated the most for no reason, and the person who he destroyed their life, and got him disowned by the indoor family (other than the sister). Only him was standing between evil twin and death. But now all those years of torment and narcissism is coming back to bite him in the ass and send him to hell.
Amen to not giving up the kidney! Good for you. The world needs less bullies in it. You did the right thing. For your peace and everyone else's in the worlds peace.
Did the right thing, if someone's "family" and they're a jerk to ya, FUCK THEM, THEY DONT GET EXEMPT WITH THEIR GODDAMN GUILT TRIPS, every time I listen to this story, at the end I smile with zero regret knowing that it made my day
@@fhralr7552 know this might be a controversial comment but whatever. I think that in the 1st twin story no matter what the twin did to you your messing with someone's life here. your supposed to love your enimies as yourself. he may be a total jerk to you, but so what? it's someones life. you only get one
@@warphaven7142 womp womp if this happened to me i wouldnt have had a second thought about declining
I can't believe people would call and blame the death of Sebastian on the op. You're not obligated to give up your kidney to anyone. He should have taken care of his own kidneys,
just cause he isn't obligated doesn't mean he's not the jerk here. let your brother die is a bit worse than knocked up my girl. I wouldn't do it cuz I felt I owed anything to him, I feel I would owe it to myself not to love with that on my conscious for the rest of my days XD
@@lucasnebz4735 but what you are saying is he is morally obligated or at least you would feel morally obligated. You can feel that way if you want but no one is morally obligated to give up body parts
@@lucasnebz4735 if you were bi and had family treat you like a subhuman, you'd see this all differently.
@@lucasnebz4735 your virtue signaling just comes off as a doormat signal.
@@jackchop1576 don't waste time that neckbeard doormat bruv...
Why do all these scumbags think that after YEARS of abuse they can "Nice" their way into vital organs, money, etc?
Right? It sounds like the guy wouldn't have even appreciated the act of kindness anyways since he was a junkie and likely had no intentions of changing.
its worth a shot. and while i completely understand not wanting to give up the kidney, some people would. id give my brother an organ anyday doesnt matter what hes done to me. he could stab me in the head and ask for my heart while im still in the hospital and id give it to him. we arent close but id never forgive myself if he died and there was something i could do to stop it
@@bigploppa154 You are..... a MUCH more forgiving person than I am. Then again I have people I'm related to where I'd laugh at their funerals, so my well might be pretty poisoned
@@bigploppa154 🙂👍🏻👍🏻
I get mad when person or character forgive the person/people this because they started be a little “nice” it’s why I hate stories like naruto or Harry Potter
I cannot believe how devastating the first story was. In my eyes, the OP isn't the jerk, and I feel bad for him more than anyone else. His family just coming back into his life clearly shows something is off, especially because they were HAPPY to see him. It's nice to know that the OP has found a family who loves and cares about him, and hopefully the past won't rise up and overtake him and his emotions.
Imagine giving the kidney then after surviving he goes back to being mean and an evil twin. So i understand OP💚
I would've done the same reason. There's no way i'm giving you my kidney and letting you throw my kindness in my face.
Rip the kidney out and put it Back. Easy
First story is a somewhat old one. There was an update to it last time i checked it over a year ago and it was nasty. He and his husband managed to adopt not one but two baby children. somehow, his parents learned of this from the grapevine and contacted him demanding one of the kids to be handed over to them as compensation for him killing their beloved child (the brother he refused a transplant). He was looking into getting a restraining order against then and asking what else he could do to protect his new family since he was afraid his parents might try to kidnap one of the kids.
Poor couple :/
I hope that OP or his husband bought a gun for protection.
I feel So sorry for OP and his Husband
@h0M1Efps that's vague as fuck you know that? Plus if someone doesn't like the way you are that's their right.
@h0M1Efps In this story the problem isn't homophobia. The ,,family" tormented OP long before he came out.
In this case the problem is favouritism because OPs family hated him just for being born.
The first story exemplified why you should always choose kindness. You never know who's help you'll need in the future, I dub OP NTJ. He said it himself that if his brother was kind to him that he would have gotten tested.
Also, the OP may need the kidney later in life. The other twin blew through his kidneys with drinking a lot early in life, but time may wear down OPs kidney quicker than other elder folk when he reaches those years. So, the OP should also be concerned with making sure he isnt in the same position of not having an extra kidney to spare later in life. In other words, genetic disposition of kidney stability should also be a factor.
He doesn’t drink
@@The-realRussianVR no he did drink
True
@@swarshakamra6826 not so severe that he needed somebody else their kidney :p
First Story: Brother really made OP's life a horror. i am glad that OP rebuilt his life and about his decision he probably did choose the right thing.
I feel so bad for the first guy. I’m hoping he’s able to live the rest of his life the happiest he can be. You go, bro!
OP in the first story is not a jerk. The brother was incredibly cruel and narcissistic, and the parents were no better. Blatantly playing favorites, and letting him get away with his behavior while OP took the abuse from both of them. Getting outed and kicked out ( while awful and deplorable) was probably the best thing to happen to him, since he found people that actually cared about him no matter who he was. The fact they had the audacity to ask him to give his kidney after years of no contact because of his sexuality then proceeded to be mad about him for denying the brothers request just shows the OP's " family" ( obviously not including the sister ) don't actually care about him. Toxic people like that don't change no matter what you do to please/help them. Even if he gave the brother his kidney, they would have abandoned him again without a second thought. To them OP was just a last resort.
Agreed
I agree
Thats cool and all but short of murder, I don't see how anything can be bad enough to sentence someone to death. Even if after giving the kidney he never talked to them again, now he can't ever talk to his brother again
@@lucasnebz4735 there is a difference from sentence someone to death and not saving someone, You don’t have to save anyone especially if it comes at self cost. It might be very little cost to donate a kidney but it is also very little cost to be nice to someone like his brother failed to do and worse actively hurt him in many ways.
@@lucasnebz4735 Its his own fault but why did he wants the op give him her or his ( i forgor ) kidney
Story 1: The evil twin deserved it. Once a user, always a user. Their parents were just as bad. Favoring one twin over the other is not the thing to do. The good twin has moved on to live a happy life. Good for him.
good for him? I'm not sure what the bro could have done short murder that would justify, you know, MURDER!
p.s if they didn't change and still showed no remorse couldn't he still just move on and live a happy life and just never speak to them? instead he has to move on and literally CANT ever speak to him again. how is that better?
@@lucasnebz4735 how the hell is that murder i mean you dont expect anyone to just give away their kidney like its theirs and they can do whatever the fuck they want with it
@@lucasnebz4735 well my friend there is a thing called trauma and pain. The op felt pain from physical, emtional, and mental due to the op's twin, and even from his/hers family. He/ she had severe trauma from this. He/she use this trauma to get away from the painful and bad things that happend to find peace and happiness . That bitch of a twin deserve to die and his/her family cant do jack shit of the op choice of avoiding pain and trauma again. When the family members said that the op is going to hell he/she shouldve said "I'll say hello to my twin and should I reserve and warm up the seat for you guys"
@@lucasnebz4735 why do you think it's murder? And no, it wouldn't be better because not only are they bad family members, but they're abusive, so if he did give the kidney, he'd be abused again.
@@lucasnebz4735 murder is when you kill someone directly. What killed the man was his addiction to alcohol. What the OP did was not save him. In Kitty Genovese case would you call the people who heard the commotion a murderer? No. They are a witness. They had chose not to check what the commotion about.
At most you could call it neglection. Did you donate your blood every month? Is your kidney donated? (If you're able to donate both) If no , are you a murderer? Your kidney and blood could've saved someone. They needed it.
As for your second part, donating a kidney would mean he would have to spend several hours on surgery and not to mention AFTER the surgery. And the leaves off his work days? He could've spent his time on people which is already not toxic. They have 7 years (excluding the time which his brother found out he has kidney problem) to apologise. His parents had clearly still been neglecting their sons behaviours throughout the years as they would've told him to stop drinking so much, but they didn't until he got the kidney problem. Why would I risk it for him of all people? I would rather donate it to a random stranger I didn't know.
Story#1- Not a Jerk. I have an Identical twin sister and I would never give her my kidney because she too has made my life miserable along with treating others terrible! And I wouldn't bat an eye lash if she passed away!!
What many people don't realize is that donating a kidney is actually a very big deal, and I don't mean that you just lose a part of a kidney - you have to be in bed without work for possibly months, and quite possibly have health issues that could last till the rest of your life. Even if it were a brother that I grew up fine with I wouldn't donate my kidney.
If you donate a kidney, you WILL have health problems from time to time from that, you will always have to be careful with your diet to not overwork your kidney, you will have to be careful to not overexercise since the proteins from that damage that muscles suffer after heavy exercise damage renal function, and you will lose AT LEAST five years of your lifespan. When we get old our organs lose efficiency, and your single kidney won't be able to get you too far. So you shouldn't donate a kidney unless is to someone you genuinely love enough to literally sacrifice a part of your life for. If you do it because "Is the right thing" you will resent and regret it forever, you should genuinely want to.
Things that you can donate with no problem include livers (livers have an amazing regeneration ability so you can donate a third of your liver and regrow it. You can't do this more than once because the new tissue is not quite the same as the original, but you don't really need to worry about health problems, the third you donated also will become a full liver, though a somewhat misshapen one), and bone marrow (The procedure is pretty damn painful, but recovery is fast and there are no long term consequences).
The twin deserved it all. He deliberately ruined 18 years of his brother's life, and even upon meeting his brother near death, he doesn't admit the wrongs he did, claiming they both hurt each other. This man had no remorse for his actions when he talked to his brother, and so why should he be let off the hook?
EDIT: If any tradition forces you to do something that will negatively affect you, let go of the tradition. It holds no emotional or spiritual benefit. It's an excuse to not use logic.
He also sounds like he had a drug problem which is probably what put him there in the first place. This was just pure karma.
I dont think letting a family member die just because they were mean to you feels very justified. even if ge gave the kidney then the parents and brother acted like entitled pieces of shit, the op could still just never talk to his family again instead he can literally never talk to his family again... BOOM mic drop XD Plus who knows maybe the family can change at least even a little if they truly take in the fact that they basically abused this dude his whole life and he stiill would give a kidney. maybe he could have the relationship with his family he never had the chance to
@@lucasnebz4735 I guess ruining 18 years of one's life shouldn't mean the rest of your own life is gone, but let's be honest he was never going to stop.
None of what he does is a crime and so he would never have gotten any better form of karma than natural death. Clearly, while he's DYING, he expects an immediate forgiveness from his brother and definitely doesn't act like he's living his last few days. He had no remorse. He had no intention of stopping.
Idk if you've ever seen Poirot, a British TV show, but in the finale of the last episode [SPOILERS], the lovable kind detective we spent dozens of episodes with is forced to personally put a bullet in someone's head, in cold blood. This person didn't break the law but deliberately caused bad, fatal things to happen because he enjoyed it, and he didn't plan to stop. You can't send him to jail. You can't come back at him or else you'll be hated by everyone. You can only hope he disappears from "natural" causes. In sum, maybe he didn't deserve death, but there was simply no other way.
Cant even like this comment its 69
@@declanhugors lucas is an entitled homophobe. He's defending the garbage twin all over the comment section.
The first OP would be putting his life in danger by donating a kidney. Not a decision to be taken lightly.
The fact they didn't reach out to OP until the last possible moment says how much OP meant to them. He was a last resort.
@Wildcard It's very small but the possibility of being that 0.007% is still there. Why do it for an @sshole.
@Wildcard any major surgery is a big risk to your life.
@Wildcard Which is a huge risk to his life. Not having a spare can be really dangerous down the road.
Can you explain what a OP is. I have no clue. Is it Original Poster?
@@Hi-ei6jz yes
First story: I am glad he didn't give his kidney to his twin brother, because when I heard that his brother got his kidney failing because he kept getting wasted and drinking and stuff, I only thought: "honestly if I was him, I wouldn't want to donate my kidney either to someone who would only mistreat it and it get it wasted aswell just like the previous kidney. Thats not worth it at all, like damn, *hell nah, my poor kidney."*
"I'm dying"
"I miss the part where that's my problem"
Can we appreciate Issac's mom and STEP-dad for raising Issac well AND his best friend
it's usually the mistreated ones that turn to be the good apple in stories like these
I noticed that too. You don't hear about step-parents taking in another kid, one that's fully grown, with open arms. Both of Isaac’s parents are heroes in this story.
Awesome parents! Found family, fuck yeah!
Isaac and his parents are amazing
@@awesomedavince175Rebecca Rogers fan
Story 1: not a jerk, The twin brought it on himself, not just with how he treated the OP but also the drugs and alcohol
Story 2: Not a jerk, Seriously someone need to take the guy down a few notches. he kept throwing the OP's past in her face.
Story 3: Not a jerk, He is or is going to become 18 and has a right to choose.
Story 4: Not a Jerk, I would have set a date and if they don't make a offer by this date then I'm going to sell the house to someone else.
number 2, I reckon the brothers annoyed he "missed out" in college, see it a lot where guys get mad at "sluts who won't sleep with me specifically". Madmen.
I think what makes number 4 difficult for me is the fact the OP was separated from her husband, so I don't believe she should have had the house to begin with.
That being said I don't know if I would call it unreasonable behavior.
Luke 6:27-32 “But I say to you who are listening, love your enemies. Do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who are cruel to you. If anyone slaps you on one cheek, offer him the other cheek, too. If someone takes your coat, do not stop him from taking your shirt.
@@jackmagnium6115 again right awnser is no you've been rover wrong twice befor the awnser is no
3 is a girl lol
Are you kidding me? That guy had the nerve to ask someone he spent a, thankfully short, lifetime abusing to save him? Oh, hell no. That's pissing on your grave worthy right there.
$10 says that everyone who called to yell at him for not donating his kidney didn't even get tested to see if they were a match.
The first story I would have said "WELP SUCKS TO BE YOU IDIOT SHOULD HAVE BEEN NICE"
bet you don't even have the courage.
Lol
Sucks to suck
To whom?
@@thelvadam8811 id guess to the brother after He said "Im dying of Kidney Failure"
OP in the first story is definitely not a jerk. Seriously, his twin brother should be happy that OP didn't press a pillow on his face in the hospital. The audacity to even consider him as a kidney donor after all this shit he put OP through is outrageous. Definitely not a jerk and if OP goes to hell for not donating that kidney he'll definitely see his brother down there
"Seriously, his twin brother should be happy that OP didn't press a pillow on his face in the hospital." I know, right?!
If I was there, I would of down it. No question. No regrets. Put him out of his misery, as well as my own. Good riddance 😌
Brother: hell
Twin brother: extra extra extra hell
@@SCP--bm6td With a side of torture 🔥 🔥 🔥
@@SCP--bm6td the brother: gets to hell
Satan: omg omg omg omg wtf is that, I’m scared I’m scared get it out if here get it out of here *cowers in corner*
Great job! I wouldn't piss on him if he was burning on the floor. You reap what you sow.
Story #1: First off, not the jerk. Second off, I would screenshot all of the messages from the “family” and threaten to, or sue them for assault. I also would say that they weren’t family because the OP was disowned
The "blood is thicker than water" saying is accurate as being a former U.S. Navy combat veteran, the blood spilled on the battlefield will create a stronger bond than that created in the womb. To this day, those men I went into combat with are more family to me than my own blood related family. My own family has screwed me over, betrayed, abandoned me in my time of need. But those men I served with would never do that to me and they know I would never do that to them.
I hope you get a good life you deserved, that family doesn't deserve you
Thats … not how the saying goes..
@@annoswet1576 Can you elaborate?
@@clshep it actually means the opposite of what you think it means.
“Blood is thicker than water” means that your family bonds (bio. parents, sisters etc.) will always be stronger than the friends you make on the road. Hence “blood is thicker”.
The blood you spilled on the battlefield isnt related to this. 😅
@@annoswet1576 The actual complete quote is this:
“The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb.”
The saying means that bloodshed on the battlefield creates stronger ties than the bonds with family or “water of the womb.” More directly, it means that relationships you make yourself are far more important than the ones that you don’t choose.
Although I'm a big fan of families working things out, the whole thing about owing people who are your blood is a joke, and not a very good one. If someone uses the "we are blood" talk, it's only because they want from you something they know they don't deserve.
everyone deserves life tho, no?
@@lucasnebz4735 Yes, but the brother isn't taking away his life. It's not his fault that the twin damaged his body and got sick. Nobody HAS to give away their body parts.
@@lucasnebz4735 no not everyone deserves life. The brother was harmful to himself, he put himself in that situation. Nobody owed him anything.
@@lucasnebz4735 Debatable.
I feel like saying "We're blood" is such a bullshit way of saying "You have to help me. Even if you hate me, even if I ruined your life, you have to help me." It's petty and condescending when they try to guilttrip you into doing something for them. Do it because you want to, not because you have to.
Even if you are the only person in the entire world who can save another person by giving up a piece of yourself, you have zero obligation to do so. That is why bodily autonomy is so important. OP was not the jerk.
The parents doesn't deserve the OP as their child, he was always suffering by his brother and they still disappoint him from the grave. The brother deserved what he got.
He didn’t make the wrong decision. He made the right one
I agree, he made the call that eased his own conscience. Fact that he showed up at all, after everything his family put him through, should be a vital testament of his heart. He didn't have to show up at all, could have told his sister "thanks for letting me know, I don't think I'll come anyways" and been done with it. Good on you brother, you did the right thing, which is a far cry from what I've done.
@2000s kid 'parents' who do that are nothing but monsters. Few things are worse than a disowning parent for a bad reason. They shouldn't even call themselves parents.
let god be the judge of that
Luke 6:27-32 “But I say to you who are listening, love your enemies. Do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who are cruel to you. If anyone slaps you on one cheek, offer him the other cheek, too. If someone takes your coat, do not stop him from taking your shirt.
@@mikeworkizer8528 nope. cause that makes him be sent to hell(its so much worse when the law is a factor, this is basically second degree voluntary manslaughter, and with how justice is today. he should be lucky he didnt spend 20 years in prison)
also a bible verse
Luke 6:27-32 “But I say to you who are listening, love your enemies. Do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who are cruel to you. If anyone slaps you on one cheek, offer him the other cheek, too. If someone takes your coat, do not stop him from taking your shirt.
@2000s kid wrong and right. wrong in the fact he went against a very common sin. people would call him a hero but in reality especially with how the world is today. he would have gone to prison for second degree murder. instead when he dies. he will end up in hell. as thats not his job to decide his brothers fate. because of his act. he will suffer the results of his own actions. if not. then death will be the judge
Luke 6:27-32 “But I say to you who are listening, love your enemies. Do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who are cruel to you. If anyone slaps you on one cheek, offer him the other cheek, too. If someone takes your coat, do not stop him from taking your shirt.
care to question that?
1st story: Sebastian obviously never cared about OP before he was dying. And I'm pretty sure he only cared about him as an organ donor when he was dying. OP does not owe his parents or Sebastian anything. They are not his family. They are his enemies and they always have been.
2nd story: Jacob got the answer he deserved.
3rd story: If OP doesn't want to join the military then OP doesn't join the military. Others don't get to make the choice for them.
4th story: There's a limit to how long you can delay a purchase. A year sounds extreme. So selling to someone else is fair at that point.
There is a point a line, where family just isnt considered family anymore.
He had nine years to regret what he did to you and he chooses now.
Dont feel bad about it. You dont have any obligation to help the guy who made your life hell for years
None are jerks if they are telling the truth and not withholding anything important.
For that next story, I am glad the family didn't take the brother in laws side.
@Jack Russelle Lewis She obviously is, since she is uncomfortable with the subject dumb dumb. Young people do a lot of foolish things, especially in school/college
@Jack Russelle Lewis Is this satire? Hope it is
Story #1, no op is not a jerk. After a lifetime of pain and misery OP’s twin and parents expects op to obediently hand over part of his body so that golden twin lives, they can quote blood is thicker than water all they want family are those who love you and take care of you. And the family that still attacks op are the ones who are ACTUALLY going to hell.
yeh let them go to hell sure sure, but would feel awful sore letting go earlier than necessary XD
@Wildcard You are committed and honestly I respect that
@Wildcard fr bruv, that 12yr old kid thinks he cool with that virtue bs.
Satan will have a field day with those scumbags.
@@animezia it's not fucking virtue signaling Jesus Christ!I'm sorry I actually look at things from both sides. So because I thought twice about a decision that has someone's life at stake that means I'm fucking virtue signaling?? How dare I not take for granted the value of a life. Yeh I'm the 12 year old in this situation, OK. Fuckin hell
This story reminds me of one of my favorite lines in a TV show "God killed you I just made sure it took"
I am surprised that Ryan didn’t call his parents out and said Sebastian is also in hell for the shit he did every time his parents say that Ryan is going to hell after Sebastian died and also point out all of Ryan’s sins
I thought the same. Sebastian is the one getting sent to hell for what he did. Even if OP married a guy what Sebastian did is far FAR more worse that it made what OP did barely anything.
@@Frightmarelordofthenightmares this is late but after rewatching this but if I remember correctly isn't it a sin to force a woman to go trough an abortion?
The brother wasn't comfortable being in the same house but then wants a piece of his bi brother...inside him?! 🤯
Hey, he was stupid to hurt family and thanks to his kidneys, he's gets the consequences of hating on someone.
Stupid was fixing itself!
With toxic people, I try to always remember that even if I don't lift a single finger, they will one day die. In doing so, they will make the world a better place.
Knowing this allows me to smile right in their faces!
The fucked up part is that people like that never truly die. Hell, even in death, the brother was still effecting the op's life because of his parents who raised him to be the way he is. That's what got him killed, when you think about it. In retrospect, it was the parents who killed the brother, and the family still blames the op
Ikr smae here brother
Amen!
Hallalluh well said God is the devine judge let Him judge pplns actions
i wouldnt do that if i were you. thats basically murder in gods eyes.
Luke 6:27-32 “But I say to you who are listening, love your enemies. Do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who are cruel to you. If anyone slaps you on one cheek, offer him the other cheek, too. If someone takes your coat, do not stop him from taking your shirt.
and yes im christian. i always take the pain cause if i do fight back. i make it way worse than i started
Sorry if my blood relative treated me like this and impregnated my gf on top of that, I wouldn’t give them the time of day. I wouldn’t even be in the same town as them again. It’s clear they’ve never cared about you the same way you do them. Otherwise you wouldn’t be worried about disappointinng them when they obviously don’t worry about your well being ever, AT ALL, clearly!
I have a retort I picked up from somewhere for the "you're going to hell" types. Any time that gets screamed at me, I say: "That's fine, I hear the weather is nice there this time of year", you can literally make shmores off their rising blood pressure lol
First Story: OP is TOTALY NOT A JERK if his brother did all of that to him just to nine years later ask for his kidney then he could have thought about it before
Story 1: Once again, we see that how you treat others matters. You cannot treat someone like garbage for years and then reasonably expect them to bail you out of a bad situation, because no one has an obligation to help those who have mistreated them.
Karma's a bitch, and the op's twin found that out the hard way. I feel no sympathy for him and neither should the op
sadly thats what sends most people to hell now days. because they are selfish(in the way OP acted. he would be sent to hell if he dont repent)
Luke 6:27-32 “But I say to you who are listening, love your enemies. Do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who are cruel to you. If anyone slaps you on one cheek, offer him the other cheek, too. If someone takes your coat, do not stop him from taking your shirt.
care to question that bible verse? question the ultimate judge of life and death? i dare you to try
@@nicksuazo4377 i do because the fact im with god on this one. OP did the wrong thing
Luke 6:27-32 “But I say to you who are listening, love your enemies. Do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who are cruel to you. If anyone slaps you on one cheek, offer him the other cheek, too. If someone takes your coat, do not stop him from taking your shirt.
the bible verse says so. you do NOT ever disown anyone and not even your own siblings. regardless of how bad they treated you. you dont ever direct it back. that will send you to hell if you dont repent(i already done the same thing many times. thats basically revenge. thats the lords job. not ours)
@@jackmagnium6115 I respectfully agree/disagree with you.
Yes, I agree with you that you shouldn't act out for revenge or cruelty, not even for the sake of getting even - at the end of the day, it's not worth it in the long run. But no, I wouldn't forgive my enemies, regardless of circumstances or reasons. It's healthy to move on from abusive/toxic relationships, but you shouldn't have to be "the bigger person", aka Doormat, for the sake of being better. Just cut off the toxicity, skip the drama, and move on with your life. Whatever happens to those who wronged you is not your problem, nor is it your business anymore. Don't get roped back in cause now, after realizing they're on death's door and get their just rewards, they want forgiveness and favors. Fuck. That. What OP wasn't cruel or vindictive, hell, it wasn't even about getting their hopes up. OP went to the hospital (he didn't have to), was willing to give up his kidney (once again, didn't have to), and the twin nor the family, after all those years, STILL wanted to play the victim and dodge any/all responsibility for his past and current actions. In the end, he got what he gave. No more. No less.
And whatever "God" has planned for OP or wherever hell he's going to is NOTHING compared to what's in stored for his toxic twin. And that goes for his toxic parents as well.
@@jackmagnium6115 I do dare, cause GOD isn't the one in OP'S shoes. Nor is he in anyone else's. But hey, since we're all only human, we'll all have a place in hell, one way or another.
Oh this'll be spicy. Looking like a heavy NTA *edit* Good on those parents for losing their "one true son". If they were at least decent they could have convinced him but reap what you sow. Meh
The fact he’s reviewing the blame after all this time is disgusting. The parents failed at being good parents, and the brother failed and being a kind guy. While I feel bad that he passed away, he had it coming for how toxic he was to his brother.
Sir that's was never your twin. That was a Parasite. Thank you for killing it.
once upon a time a doctor got a parasite out of ryan's body and then it got labeled as his twin named sebastian and then it bullied him at school and then at 16, ryan's girlfriend cheated with the parasite and then the parasite told a bunch of living farts to kick ryan out and they did and then the parasite revealed that it has been dying and then ryan refused
They gave the a hole everything and then expected the brother to do the same despite everything that happened a perfect example of karma.
Op in the first story was definitely not the jerk. Also it's a good thing his gf left so now he doesn't have to deal with her trying to make him support his brother's kid after she cheated
How on earth did your brother expect for you to give a kidney to him after how he treated you????
Because "family".
"There is no bond greater than family, and when that bond is broken there is no greater pain."
Allister Hammerlock, Borderlands 3
Don't know if every word is exact but it's how I remember
I've seen a lot of comments saying he murdered his twin. Donating an organ is vastly different to wilfully taking someone's life. OP may have been a match but he still had the right to deny donating his own kidney. I mean, who knows if he did that his brother would have went back to drugs etc and demand the other? Is his life worth more than OPs? No, but that's what the brother believes. This brother caused OP to be disowned and lose everything before OP found his new family. Its Karma.
The outcome of the 1st story is a perfect example of how the universe gives back, how the gods punish those who cause harm. It comes back to an old and amazing phrase; karma's a b*tch.
First story: To quote a wise squirrel "blood may be thicker than water but that just makes it easier to drown"
first op is 100% NOT a jerk. after all that his brother has done, it's perfectly reasonable that he didn't give away his kidney. I'd have done the same thing. heck, not to sound like a soulless jerk or anything but, i'd be HAPPY to hear the news that he's dead.
They wanted OPs Kidney.. People will ALWAYS act sweet and loving when they need/want something from you, even if they have been absolutely horrendous to you previously. Speaking from personal experience.
Edit: To answer Ops question, No, my friend, you most definitely are not :) 💜
ill answer it and say yes. because what he did is going to send him to hell
Luke 6:27-32 “But I say to you who are listening, love your enemies. Do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who are cruel to you. If anyone slaps you on one cheek, offer him the other cheek, too. If someone takes your coat, do not stop him from taking your shirt.
@@jackmagnium6115 shut up
@@jackmagnium6115 BRO you've been proven wrong by 2 other people so shut up the awnser is no and yes is litterly wrong I didn't know there could be a right and wrong awnser for questions like these but for this one there is and the right one is no
@@jackmagnium6115 if we’re going by Bible cases, then I guess the wife and the evil twin are both going to hell for infidelity, mixing fabrics and multiple other sins drinking drug use most likely sleeping with different people I mean hey he just gave him an express ticket. Not his fault. He’s in idiotic, spoiled little Cunt. OP just nailed the coffin by not giving him his kidney.
The 1st story is my favourite ever. This dude is going to a place infinitely better than heaven.
The saying actually means that bonds that you’ve made by choice are more important than the people that you are bound to by the water of the womb. The saying reflects the fact that the bonds you choose for yourself can mean much more than the ones you don’t have much say in. = quite accurate.
Ryan can finally have a happy life and Sebastian, well, he died of karma.
Story 1: Not a jerk. It's OPs kidney, so OP decides who can or can't have it. I completely understand OP not giving his kidney to his brother after everything he put him through. He got what he deserved.
Story 2: Not a jerk. If Jacob insists on making funny comments, it's only fair he gets them back.
Story 3: Not a jerk. It's your life so you decide how to live it, not some stupid tradition.
Story 4: Not a jerk. OP gave the parents plenty of opportunities, plenty of warnings. If she pays for the house, she can decide what happens with it.
I would've sue my parents for neglecting me and my brothers abusive situation going on after taking pictures. I would donate my kidney to someone else who's compatible just out of spite (if I didn't have any health issues myself) and let them see. I would visit my brother every week (if I have the time) to tell the nurses everything he had done when we were young. And I would laugh at him asking him whether he ever actually regretted it before he realise he had a health problem. I would bring him alcohol and place it next to him. I might even drink some in front of him. Ask him what he wanted to do if he didn't had this condition. I would talk to my parents more about what he did, every time they called me a slur I would jot it down and screen shot and sue them for cyberbullying. I would tell what he did and sue my aunt's and uncle too. I would dig up every little dirt I got to get them ridiculed. I would make them miserable. I would show tell my parents about the hopes and dreams of my twin after his death. I would've went to the funeral and give a speech on how sorry and sad I am for the death on my brother and if anyone speaks up I would ask them whether they know what the brother did and whether they had even felt sorry for me for once?
Me too
The OPs bro said “all the things we did to each other” is when the OP decided “Nope”
Family Tradition - You are absolutely NOT the jerk. Enlisting in the military or not enlisting, is 100% your choice. Not everyone can or even wants to do it.
Evil Twin Story: Hey, suddenly sucks to be the evil twin! OP can mourn the brother he never had, but there's nothing unhealthy about not mourning the brother who tortured him. The rest of the family can duck off.
OP didnt owe his brother a kidney or anything for that matter. Brother would have taken the kidney fucked it up then demanded the second one with a "Who cares you dont need it." Attitude.
As a Sebastian... We don't claim him
I like how Sebastin realized his manipulation won't save him
I've heard this story many times, but the justice at the end makes me want to re-listen to it over and over again
I agree with everything the op said in the first story, you shouldn't be rude to someone their whole life and then ask them to kill themselves for you.
Do you die when you give you kidney? Then the "no" is even better
Don’t wanna argue with you but gonna point out you can live with only one kidney. But I understand your point.
@@vikrammultanisinha6675 Details details
@@vikrammultanisinha6675 yeah but you life would be much worse
@@vikrammultanisinha6675 Living with one kidney is not particularly safe or normal
It's hard , stupid hard
You need to go to dialysis and constant checkups as you are on your last straw
First story was actually on be amazed! Congratulations O.P! 🎉
was that the revenge stories
First story when they call him telling him he was going to he'll I would of say "Yeah, I'll say hello to Sebastian for you when i get there..."
By the way congrats to the OP on getting a husband, congrats!
In the stories where the op gets revenge i wanted them to celebrate openly to piss off the antagonist of the story and the family that did something bad
Yeah i want the same!
Bro legit asked if he was the bad guy in the first story 💀💀💀
I have seen the first story on another channel but it was pretty quick and didnt get into details so thanks for making this vid with more detail :)
Story #1
My opinion:
No, your practically a stranger to these people, if they can ask you they can ask another person. It's not your fault that he died. It's his for being a terrible person and brother and living such a "hardcore" life
There was a likely chance the evil twin could have just kept using substances and drink even after the surgery. I don't blame the op at all.
It was just manipulation to help him from a desperate circumstance he created. It serves the brother and parents right honestly.
@@booleah6357 agreed.
you dont realize how great of a family you have and how lucky you are until you watch this
Honestly, I thought I would have given the kidney, even to a stranger, but then he mentioned what caused the kidney failure. And that would be a hard pass.
Story 2, The BiL probably was always annoyed that this "floozy" would sleep with "anyone" except him, when really... She chose all of her partners, and she can choose as many or as few as she wants.
It's his life. He doesn't have to give them anything 🙂 screw em all
sure he doesn't have to but u know, id personally want to for my own conscious
@@lucasnebz4735 sure,just risk my life for my consciousness
You have been saying similar things in other comments my guy. Are you saying in story#1 the op is the jerk?
@@Terexerate yeah this keyboard warrior really thinks OP in story 1 is the a-hole
I wouldn't have given him my kidney either! Not all blood is family, and not all family is blood.
Story #1: this story’s OP is absolutely my hero. He taught his brother not only do you not get what you want sometimes, but that karma exists. And in this case, his brothers mistreatment of him, as well as his greediness, selfishness, and entitlement cost him his life. And if anything, the OP could probably donate his kidney to someone who would actually appreciate it and learn a lesson but that’s up to him.
Look, if you had a sibling, much less a twin, that has been shit to you from childhood to the end of HS, then tries to say bygones by saying we both did shit to each other.
I’d say listen, cross examine the events, then walk out.
The good twin doesn’t owe anything to his parents or their Golden child and I agree that this is karma catching up years later.
Congratulations 🎉 on the 200 k 🥳🤯
U come a long way since the start 😁
Keep up the good work. Hope u have a great day 👍
Story 1 - You reap what you sow. Sebastian had a Chance to be a Good Brother to Op, but instead he chose to be the A-Hole, and now he's paid the price. No, OP did NOT make the wrong choice. Cause as he said, if HE was in Sebastian's place, he would be good as dead. The Family are only doing this because the GOLDEN CHILD is now gone. I mean, what did they THINK Op was going to do? Be like "Oh sure, water under the bridge, I'll happily give you my kidney bro". This isn't Black and White, it's Grey. If you wrong someone for no reason, YOU'RE going to get wronged in the worst possible way. As for the whole "Blood is thick than Water". Realistically speaking, Yes it is. But as a quote, I call BS on that. If someone betrayed me like this, they're dead to me.
As for the Last Story. I'm going to be bluntly honest as possible. I would give the Parents one last chance with one month, and they do NOT buy the House by the end, I'll be selling the House and get back all the Money i put into something that I know for a fact that they are NEVR going to buy. Eff the Guilt tripping, and eff the Gaslighting. Either pay up, or shut the eff up.
honestly dude was not a jerk, the fact he put up with that much for so many years makes him the better brother.
the people still picking on him for finally putting his foot down, are either people who'd rather believe lies than the truth or people who just want to work out their issues on another.
something like that happens often, people working their issue out on others for no good reason.
it's just pathetic, adults acting so childish, some I pity, others should just rot.
The twin got himself killed due to his own life choices.
Far as I'm concerned it's KARMA.
I understand that OP did not give his Kidney. His brother ruined everything good he had and his life and now he is begging for his own life? I would give a Kidney to my twin brother, Luke ANY DAY! But that's because I love him, and we look out for eachother
The evil twin doesn't deserve to be called Sebastian.
First story: NOT A JERK IT'S OBVIOUS
First story: all that the evil twin brother saw in his last moments of life was not his brother, but a bag of free replacement organs
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@@samariumproductions5287 what
It's your kidney, your body made and needs it. Your brother should have treated you with dignity if he wanted a show of love and devotion that shortens your lifespan. ;)
First story. I wouldn’t have done it just for being homophobic. Let alone ALL the REST he put you through. I support you my dear.
Story No. 1: Perfect example of toxic people who perceive the Law of Cause and Effect not applying to them when the circumstances place any kind of burden of them.
Ah yes, this happened to my buddy jim actually
OMG CONNOR
First reply to a famous youtuber lmao
"Connor Pugs" 9 months ago
Ah yes, this happened to my buddy jim actually
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I love the first story. It’s tragic, but with a happy ending (if they were my family I wouldn’t even come to the hospital, i hate bigotry, fanatical zealots and people who disown their own children for anything less than being actual monsters, like in one story where 17yo tried to murder his baby brother and assaulted his parents until his bodybuilder mother smashed his face to pulp)
Nope. Absolutely not the jerk. You did right.
Pretty sure if OP's ex didn't terminate her pregnancy and Sebastian knew about it, he'd be demanding that kid's kidney, despite the fact he never cared about him/her nor paid child support. Plus, at the time of Sebastian's death, the kid would have been about 10 years old, which is probably too young to be an organ donor.