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  • @factoryofdivisiveopinions
    @factoryofdivisiveopinions Pƙed 2 lety +1747

    The first story proves that there's a thing called Being too nice. I would've been in a shouting match to kick them out from the very beginning.

    • @Salazar1993a
      @Salazar1993a Pƙed 2 lety +78

      I disagree, that's not being too nice, that's being too stupid, if the OP already knows how her aunt is, why agree? You can always say 'NO', who cares if you hurts someone's feelings, it's OPs own fault for having such a horrible experience with her aunt.

    • @kagemaru397
      @kagemaru397 Pƙed 2 lety +29

      @@Salazar1993a Somehow OP and her husband don't get this at this point in their life. And that could be for multiple reasons.

    • @Wh1t3Bl4d3
      @Wh1t3Bl4d3 Pƙed 2 lety +5

      This comment works the first 2 stories lmao

    • @Leoluvesadmira
      @Leoluvesadmira Pƙed 2 lety +11

      No this is called being a door mat

    • @MysticWolfPup
      @MysticWolfPup Pƙed 2 lety +1

      It's not only the shouting, it's the lawsuit that will find itself on them soon

  • @Molten_funnies
    @Molten_funnies Pƙed 2 lety +653

    I was cut off of my whole family because brother lied about me being gay

  • @stevesuchodolski1680
    @stevesuchodolski1680 Pƙed 2 lety +900

    Story 1, She is the definition of entitled aunts because she wanted to be the main attraction of the trip that she was not invited to.

    • @Bacon2000.
      @Bacon2000. Pƙed 2 lety +3

      The problem is both are in the wrong the age difference is so huge that I would be worried to and the aunt's entitled

    • @stevesuchodolski1680
      @stevesuchodolski1680 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      I am going with your idea and that is fine with me

    • @daltongarrett7117
      @daltongarrett7117 Pƙed 2 lety +7

      @@Bacon2000. their age difference is 7 years and they've been together 20 years from what I gathered in the story, 39 and 46 isn't that bad. Met at 19 and 26 this all happened like 20 years later I gather by the husband saying he was right 20 years ago presumably how he said they were bad people when they met.

    • @nbrikha
      @nbrikha Pƙed rokem +2

      Except they did invite her...after she forced her way in. She wasn't initially invited

    • @DIOGaming705
      @DIOGaming705 Pƙed rokem +3

      Are we just gonna ignore the fact that she was 19 and he was 26?

  • @norp12
    @norp12 Pƙed 2 lety +426

    I am literally jealous about how much patience most of the Op’s have, I would have already kicked the Aunt out in the first few days, and file a restraining order while I’m at it.
    Edit: don’t know how this has likes but k

    • @tommyvercetti891
      @tommyvercetti891 Pƙed 2 lety +11

      I wouldn't call it patience... I would call it stupidity

    • @YesJellyfish
      @YesJellyfish Pƙed 2 lety +7

      @@tommyvercetti891 that's a bit harsh. I'd call it fear. Still nothing to be jealous of.

    • @norp12
      @norp12 Pƙed rokem

      @@YesJellyfish the patience to deal with the aunts bs, I mean, I dont even have enough patience waiting for my doordash.

    • @YesJellyfish
      @YesJellyfish Pƙed rokem

      @@norp12 yea you were clear no worries. I just think that OP wasn't necessarily patient, but just afraid to stand up for themselves and to confront the aunt. And in my opinion it's not really commendable to be a doormat. So I think you're good lol.
      It would probably be good if you were patient enough to wait for your doordash, but if they arrive and throw the food in your face, 3 times in a row, it's not necessarily patient to thank them and keep ordering there :D

    • @norp12
      @norp12 Pƙed rokem

      @@YesJellyfish half of the time my order is somewhat messed up soo.. yea.

  • @mercifulmoff
    @mercifulmoff Pƙed 2 lety +350

    I mean if the aunt and mom were just going to pester if you didn’t allow them on the trip, just silence any phone calls you get from them or any family members and focus on the trip.
    Never cave in to your family’s demands people, you only fuel their ego.

    • @vixey6339
      @vixey6339 Pƙed 2 lety +9

      Exactly. I've myself cut full contact with my biological father. And I've pretty much cut contact with my brother.
      My brother for reasons I will not say, but my father cause he had no spine, and let the woman he was with and her son dictate how things ran in the house, take my hard-earned money, and make threats towards me. I've gotten physical with her a few times and those were the only times he stepped in and grew a spine to stop her son from getting involved

    • @my_pan_self8045
      @my_pan_self8045 Pƙed 2 lety +3

      @@vixey6339 That sounds like your dad was going through alot of manipulation and abuse from his wife
      Im so, so sorry you went through that, and i hope your in a better area now

    • @calvotama6460
      @calvotama6460 Pƙed rokem +3

      God damn this is making me grateful my family on both sides ain't needy lol

  • @manxkin
    @manxkin Pƙed 2 lety +324

    Story 1. Lesson learned. You should not have caved. You’ve known about their behavior for years. Story 2. MIL needs to to go. Your partner needs to grow up and have a stern talk with his mommy. Story 3. Ex boyfriend is a psycho. Story 4. All of this drama over a single piercing? Mom needs therapy.

    • @Astari777
      @Astari777 Pƙed rokem +1

      No Comments? Ima Fix It

    • @EvilFallenAngelfy
      @EvilFallenAngelfy Pƙed rokem +1

      She should have grown a backbone instead of trying to please her mom n aunt though to begin with

    • @Lucky-Nick123
      @Lucky-Nick123 Pƙed rokem +1

      Story 2 , mil needs to get her brains together or else she will lose all communication with her family. Op's husband now is big mama's boy, he doesn't do anything to support op and seriously how old is he, does he even help around the house? I don't know if op had update about this but in my opinion op needs to get an divorce and say to him that I don't want to live a life with a mother that doesn't respect me and a husband who doesn't support me

    • @SapphireVirgo
      @SapphireVirgo Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

      ​@@EvilFallenAngelfy I know right if you know how bad you're mother and aunt are why are you surprised that they acted entitled as all hell . Like my god girly grow a spine and put you're foot down you're a grown woman act like it .

    • @claytoncash4477
      @claytoncash4477 Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci

      Story #3 - if there is a restraining order involved, and OPs ex is using their pictures, the court is liable to bitchslap the ex over it. Depends on the jurisdiction, but I'd straight up let them know and tell them its harrassment because its causing people they know to contact them and bother them.

  • @KC-nx8ol
    @KC-nx8ol Pƙed 2 lety +152

    Second Story: a child should NEVER have to be beholden to a parent just because they birthed them. MIL needs to understand her son is an adult now with his own family that he needs to prioritize over her. Had similar issues with my own mother when i started living with my wife, she was used to my siblings and I dropping everything we were doing to do what she asked of us. The one time I said no to her request and pushed back when she pushed the issue it turned into a huge fight and we didn't talk for almost 6 months. after that she understood, she's no longer on the top of my priority list and can understand that my wife and children come before anyone else. OP's husband needs to man up and deal with his mother, it never should have gotten to that point because HE should have shut it down after the first time his wife made it clear to him this was making her uncomfortable.

    • @my_pan_self8045
      @my_pan_self8045 Pƙed 2 lety +16

      Tbh, i think OP's husband must have gotten some sort of manipulation from his mom to make him put off talking to her about this for THIS LONG
      Not teaching him how to iron? Not teaching him how to wash his clothes?
      MIL definately made sure he grew up to be as dependant on her as possible, and now thats affecting his adult life.
      Both he and his wife need to step away from MIL, and MIL needs to back tf away from them

    • @KC-nx8ol
      @KC-nx8ol Pƙed 2 lety +6

      @@my_pan_self8045 yea that's definitely what it sounds like. She's made sure that he would always need her in his life. Which is sad, the fact that she would have to manipulate her child growing up to ensure that he can't function without her as an adult to the point that even married she has a strangle hold on his life SMH 🙄.

    • @goofygamer12345
      @goofygamer12345 Pƙed rokem +3

      honestly she just sounds like shes trying to be helpful and doesnt know how to let her kids go

    • @KC-nx8ol
      @KC-nx8ol Pƙed rokem +7

      @@goofygamer12345 There's being helpful and there's being intrusive. this is the ladder, the OP made it clear to both the Mother in law and the Husband that OP is not comfortable with the Mother in law just doing or moving whatever Mother in law wants in OP's house. Mother in law just chooses to ignore OP, at that point Mother in law stopped being helpful and started being a burden.

    • @KC-nx8ol
      @KC-nx8ol Pƙed rokem +2

      @@goofygamer12345 but you are right, she could think she's being helpful and not understand that she's doing the opposite. the only reason i don't think this is the case is that OP talked to MIL about this issue and MIL just brushed off her concerns.

  • @ThatOneLadyOverHere
    @ThatOneLadyOverHere Pƙed 2 lety +91

    Story 2: get some keys on all the rooms you don't want her in. I wouldn't trust a conversation about boundaries to be taken seriously because she clearly doesn't respect them as adults and they can't cut contact with her. Maybe also therapy so that maybe they don't have to resort to locking her out of rooms, since they shouldn't have to do that.

  • @Tammy2Tone
    @Tammy2Tone Pƙed 2 lety +223

    Story #1-
    I guess next time you won't let ppl just INVITE THEMSELVES on YOUR immediate family's vacation! The OP was the ding-bat for allowing that! The aunt &even the quieter Mother sound like a couple of entitled, spoiled, Karens. What she (Auntie) did about the cars, &ruining your vacation... Maaaaaan! The OP kind of allowed it to go down like that, tho.đŸ€ŠđŸŸâ€â™€ïžđŸ€·đŸŸâ€â™€ïžđŸ™„

    • @juliebeems8671
      @juliebeems8671 Pƙed 2 lety +5

      True that

    • @uzumakid.goku6yrago20
      @uzumakid.goku6yrago20 Pƙed 2 lety +12

      OP 19
      Husband 26
      "If age is just a number"
      "Prison is just a building"

    • @starboi141
      @starboi141 Pƙed 2 lety

      Atleast it's better than your life being hell

    • @immortalbun4342
      @immortalbun4342 Pƙed 2 lety

      @@uzumakid.goku6yrago20 19 is over the age of consent in most places

    • @morris_6987
      @morris_6987 Pƙed 2 lety +3

      nah 💀 the aunt was right lmfao

  • @fireking2679
    @fireking2679 Pƙed 2 lety +20

    After getting the wand they were 'wand'ering around

  • @updownstate
    @updownstate Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +2

    There's a thing called cutting someone off at the knees. You know how every work group has an annoying hanger on? I sponsored a birthday party for one of the group and made sure to fill the table with all haste. When the pest said she couldn't wait to go I told her that the table was full and I couldn't accommodate any more guests. She said she would sit at the next table with some of the people from the full table. I explained this was banquet seating and every chair had to be filled. It finally sunk in that she wasn't invited and couldn't crash. The look on her face was priceless. She had the grace not to turn up and she was down at the mouth for a few weeks. I felt the glare of death quite a few times but after that she avoided me and my social arrangements. How sweet it is.

  • @Via_edit788
    @Via_edit788 Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci +5

    Story 1: the mother and husband are absolute SAINTS for dealing with the aunt and mother the whole trip, if it were me, after a day of them acting like that, I would have left them at home the next day

  • @TheLastHylianTitan
    @TheLastHylianTitan Pƙed 2 lety +39

    Christ that first story is giving me hives from my own memories with my mom. Mobility issues, entitled attitude, the need to be the center of attention - there’s a very good reason I refuse to travel with her anymore. I’m her daughter, not a therapist, servant, caretaker, maid, hired muscle or the person responsible for her own happiness and comfort. I wish I had realized this back when I was younger. I would have saved myself so much pain.

    • @Lucky-Nick123
      @Lucky-Nick123 Pƙed rokem +2

      And now, how are your relationship with your mother, have you cut ties with her?

  • @w1zpir779
    @w1zpir779 Pƙed 2 lety +35

    Story 2: That boy needs some serious psychological help to break his obsession with his mommy. You will always be second to his mom, ALWAYS. 'She doesn't have anyone else,' is on her - if she wasn't always overstepping boundaries, she'd have more people around.

  • @kagemaru397
    @kagemaru397 Pƙed 2 lety +24

    1: The mom and aunt are unreasonable along with any family that sides with them. For their own sakes, OP and immediate family just need to bite the bullet and let them go.
    2: The MIL is toxic and OP needs to talk to her husband about distancing. And just doing more for himself. If not, OP needs to leave him and decide childcare from there.
    4: The mom has issues and is controlling AT LEAST to OP. Possibly the husband too and depending on how that went, even the former husband. I took years to begin to learn this myself: you're not responsible for your family's (bad) behavior. Kids and spouses aren't puppets.

  • @nattanstriker
    @nattanstriker Pƙed 2 lety +83

    First story: First off respect for the couple for staying so calm and trying to fix it every time they cause trouble but dammit if you know these familly members trash you constantly cut them off! Sure it would feel shitty with giving your familly the cold shoulder but letting them just butt in is gonna ruin whatever your organising.

    • @actual_doge3221
      @actual_doge3221 Pƙed rokem +1

      My family did that as well it was terrible and traumatizing for both my brother and I.

  • @ECHO-87
    @ECHO-87 Pƙed 2 lety +7

    I love how in the first story the background the tank flew in the air

  • @xSmuggen
    @xSmuggen Pƙed rokem +20

    I couldn't hug strangers in mascot suits, so my meal was absolutely ruined.
    What a crock of shit.
    My mom and I found that whole deal to be pretty creepy when I went at age 9.

  • @Nareimooncatt
    @Nareimooncatt Pƙed 2 lety +43

    For story 2, boundaries need to be set with the MIL, but not by the OP. The OP needs to get her husband on the same page with her, and it is the HUSBAND that needs to set his mom straight. If the OP confronts her MIL, she either won't listen or will forever see the OP as a horrible lady that stole her son, even if the husband is on his wife's side. It sounds like the husband has issues letting go too, so going it alone like that could damage the marriage if he thinks his wife is being overbearing.

    • @superdave8248
      @superdave8248 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      I'd probably gone a slight different passive aggressive route. Put door locks on all the interior doors. Lock the spare bedrooms she doesn't need access to. And when she comes up with some excuse as to why she needs in there, then you say you could have just called and I could have told you where that thing was. She would probably take it one step further and talk about needing female products that would be in the master bathroom, to which you respond you are out and then you make it a point to come home with more of that product.
      it is a bit annoying locking your rooms, but at the end of the day it does give a peace of mind.

    • @mjareacts2731
      @mjareacts2731 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      The OP doesn't even refer to her husband as her husband, she constantly refers to him as her partner!!! I honestly thought this was some sort of lesbian relationship, that's until she finally said he was a male.

    • @zethcrownett2946
      @zethcrownett2946 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      @@mjareacts2731 that honestly doesn't matter. There are plenty of straight relationships that refer to each other as partner, and it doesn't make it any less loving for them. It's just the name they choose to use.

  • @Zach-gq9cw
    @Zach-gq9cw Pƙed 2 lety +5

    "We get our wands and start wandering around" subtle pun by OP

  • @Dimensionalalteration
    @Dimensionalalteration Pƙed 2 lety +9

    That's why you don't wait until a big Disney trip to start setting boundaries and saying no.I would have just said no before, let them Karen out and go on the trip without them , let them go crazy at home .They were going to be aholes regardless of whether they get to ruin the Disney trip too anyway.

  • @Only1199
    @Only1199 Pƙed 2 lety +26

    What's the point in going on a trip if all you're going to do is complain, should have at the beginning said no, you're not coming on this trip cos you treat me and my family like shit.

  • @gaeldiaz5362
    @gaeldiaz5362 Pƙed rokem +2

    The first one they said,”they grab the wand and start wandering aroundđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł

  • @alfredbyrd249
    @alfredbyrd249 Pƙed 2 lety +6

    first op's first mistake is caving

  • @victorjones7071
    @victorjones7071 Pƙed 2 lety +4

    I have a cousin like that, when I have invited my aunt, not her mother, to dinner at a nice Italian restaurant, she tries to wedge herself into our dinner. I had to tell her that I would not pay for her meal, and she backed off.😂

  • @skytterd9491
    @skytterd9491 Pƙed 2 lety +17

    Holy shit the first story makes me so fucking mad, wtf was going through OP's mind to let that shit happen?? Like obviously the mom and aunt were assholes but lets be honest, it's her fault for letting them join in when LITERALLY NO ONE WANTED THEM THERE

  • @Katrn30
    @Katrn30 Pƙed rokem +5

    The first story was so similar to an experience I had on a family trip with my mother. I vowed never to travel with my mother again, which I never have. Some people are just toxic and no matter how nice you are you will end up in a bad space
no contact is best for toxic narcissists.

  • @BoredBuddi
    @BoredBuddi Pƙed 2 lety +15

    Story 1:
    Okay, now this is the definition of annoying. If I was her, I would have said no from the start.

    • @kagemaru397
      @kagemaru397 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      Same. And kept my distance. If I hadn't by then.

  • @SenpaiInteresting
    @SenpaiInteresting Pƙed 2 lety +6

    Story 2: “Personally it was 6 years and 9 months too long”
    Lmao

  • @lindavega3528
    @lindavega3528 Pƙed 2 lety +8

    For story number one, I actually have something similar about that. I was on a trip to sea world and it would be my grandma, sister, and cousin. But we didn't know my older more entitled cousin was coming. We crammed her into the hotel, and didn't even get to have fun or go to sea world because she was always too tired even though we did nothing.

  • @jadentattoos
    @jadentattoos Pƙed rokem +3

    The first story gave me strait up anxiety 😅 that poor family dealing with those people. Oooof

  • @thecrunkcrew3776
    @thecrunkcrew3776 Pƙed rokem +2

    Dude first story was amazing i cant believe how good those parents are. They're like super heroes to their kids, forgetting about their own happiness for their kids. I hope to be as good as them one day.

  • @Kaiaalcania
    @Kaiaalcania Pƙed 2 lety +4

    #2 Get special door knobs for every room you don’t want her to get into, you and your partner have the key. Have everything you need for your daughter in the living room when see comes over so she won’t have a reason to go in.

  • @magepalace1521
    @magepalace1521 Pƙed 2 lety +6

    "oh no I'm a 55 year old or odler and couldnt hug mickey and pluto" It would make more sense that the kids would be comlainjgng about that

  • @blazera7328
    @blazera7328 Pƙed 2 lety +6

    Second story, I would go into the mothers house and do exactly what she was doing to OP and see how she reacts. I'll bet she won't like it.

  • @uke7084
    @uke7084 Pƙed rokem +3

    People need to go no contact with the toxic meat bags in their lives. So much stress and heartache could have been avoided.

  • @SteelandSouls
    @SteelandSouls Pƙed 2 lety +46

    I get that the aunt is supposed to be the jerk, but I will say OP and her husband are jerks too for taking the short term easy way out by avoiding the fight in favor of the long term resentment and drama that would spoil their children's vacation.

    • @banzynoobplayz3859
      @banzynoobplayz3859 Pƙed 2 lety +6

      They are all jerks in my opinion(To a certain extent). Your case as the OP and Husband being jerks are acceptable cases but like what the line said, it is their 1st Vacation since their boys are born. It is an important moment for them and they(Aunt and Mother) are ruining their special moment. Yes, the approach of the OP is not the best thing that you can do in that situation, but you can't blame them. It is not acceptable to treat your family like crap, especially on a vacation when you are suppose to have a good time

    • @SteelandSouls
      @SteelandSouls Pƙed 2 lety +3

      @@banzynoobplayz3859 I wouldn't go so far as to actively blame them, but by no means do I consider them blameless.

    • @dylangerber5163
      @dylangerber5163 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      Right, and not to sound stuck up, but who takes their 18 year old sons to Disney... They’d prolly rather just have the money for college related expenses.

    • @amsigi5125
      @amsigi5125 Pƙed 2 lety +4

      @@dylangerber5163 she said it was their first time so they probably wanted to be there since their elementary/ highschool friends might boast about their disney trips in state school

  • @armadillotoe
    @armadillotoe Pƙed 2 lety +3

    This was OP's fault for being a doormat as much as it was the Mother and Aunt's. She knew what type of people they were.

    • @catherinep2034
      @catherinep2034 Pƙed rokem

      Why when talk about the trip around them? That was asking for trouble

  • @stacktus9158
    @stacktus9158 Pƙed rokem

    Ok clearly the OP needed to hear this and I’m sure there are many more that need it too: YOU HAVE NO OBLIGATION TO KEEP TOXIC PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE EVEN IF THEY’RE FAMILY. No good comes from dealing with toxic miserable people.

  • @Blank-401
    @Blank-401 Pƙed 2 lety +10

    Story 2: she could just lock a few rooms (good locks) that the MIL isnt supposed to go in

    • @arthurvasey
      @arthurvasey Pƙed rokem

      She’d kick the door in, believing it to be stiff!

  • @user-en1mj8uc5f
    @user-en1mj8uc5f Pƙed 2 lety +12

    1:45 don't shy away from what is correct. If you think that you don't want it, just say it. Even if they throw a fit, you would have done the right thing.

  • @kaeru3228
    @kaeru3228 Pƙed 2 lety +3

    Holy cow, I'm glad my mother in law is an absolute angel. Human beings are absolutely terrifying 😳

  • @jamesverner9132
    @jamesverner9132 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    the first story couple needs to grow a backbone, sometimes family is poison. remove the toxic ones from your life.

  • @IshyFrl
    @IshyFrl Pƙed rokem +1

    Lol I just had a Disney trip with my family and my aunts family it was great my aunt has been a mother for 2 years but she’s still that cool aunt or uncle that everyone has

  • @NotTheReaping
    @NotTheReaping Pƙed 2 lety +4

    Yea no, if my aunt tried to interject into my family's vacation, she would have been told off and not allowed to go.

  • @chaseginise8968
    @chaseginise8968 Pƙed 2 lety +3

    Your aunt doesn’t have the right to invite herself to your Disney trip, just because she feels she has the right to.

  • @bookwormd8627
    @bookwormd8627 Pƙed 2 lety +2

    Kind of ironic that this video popped up in my feed since I was just told that this girl is apparently coming with me and another group of friends to watch Doctor Strange in the Multiverse of Madness. No one invited her, she invited herself after finding out she’ll be missing a whole outing with friends. She doesn’t even like Marvel but I guess she just can’t miss being part of everything. I hate people who invite themselves to trips just because they’re so nosy and insecure without gossip.

  • @queteimportaa.2535
    @queteimportaa.2535 Pƙed 2 lety

    Yes sounds like my grandma which my mother sticks to me in all the family vacations and then gets upset when I'm upset or annoyed at my grandma's behavior.

  • @EqualOpportunityDestoroya
    @EqualOpportunityDestoroya Pƙed 2 lety +4

    My aunt is like those two, and whenever I take a picture of an empty store shelf and captioning with Let's Go Brandon. She would throw the biggest fit on facebook, ignoring the other memes that are not political.

  • @harshdewangan8999
    @harshdewangan8999 Pƙed 2 lety +12

    2nd Story : You Just need to feed in her mind that you have your own privacy and I also understand the husband why he won't kick her out because i mean, she gave him birth and raised him and I understand the bond between them. I know privacy matters but instead of kicking her out, you can try to find way to not do that thing. If she didn't listen to OP, just change the locks.

    • @kagemaru397
      @kagemaru397 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      She (possibly) chose to birth and raise him. That should NEVER be a path to entitlement. It's so easily abused.

    • @vschmerz
      @vschmerz Pƙed 2 lety

      @@kagemaru397 was she ever entitled in the story?

    • @kagemaru397
      @kagemaru397 Pƙed 2 lety

      @@vschmerz Yes. She thinks that just because she brought him up, that means she gets access to any part of his and any spouse of his's life she wants to.

    • @vschmerz
      @vschmerz Pƙed 2 lety

      @@kagemaru397 The husband in the story doesn’t seem to mind. This is more of an issue between the OP and the MIL

    • @kagemaru397
      @kagemaru397 Pƙed 2 lety

      @@vschmerz That still doesn't make it okay. If it were him alone, while I'd still question it, that's a choice he makes for himself with no one else involved. In this case, it's NOT just his choice. Even if she's HIS mom. They're married and share the same room. He's disrespecting HER and her discomfort with MIL and her nosy ways in their bedroom. He's involved because it's HIS (joint) bedroom with his wife and this affects their marriage. And this brings into question the health of the boundaries between he and his mom, them and his mom, and her and his mom.

  • @proudamerican4345
    @proudamerican4345 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Bro my family is like this, so I tell everyone last minute that I'm going somewhere with my family "like the day before" and just do things before telling them. That's how I got around my ass family.

  • @marykarenporterfield2817
    @marykarenporterfield2817 Pƙed rokem +1

    Tell family AFTER you get back! NEVER take a large group anywhere.....and especially if that group is family!

  • @maybe_methembe
    @maybe_methembe Pƙed 2 lety +5

    Wow, I always thought 2 entitled people would never get along.

  • @notatmylvl1573
    @notatmylvl1573 Pƙed 2 lety +3

    For the second story, you should get a lock and put it on your bedroom door/ things you don’t want being went through.

  • @amream10
    @amream10 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    If you ever decide to go on vacation, never tell anyone about it until you get back home. That way you don't have stragglers come along. If they say you are mean not to have them come along just tell them they can still go and you can hear about their trip when they get home. Lol

  • @bostonrebovich3933
    @bostonrebovich3933 Pƙed rokem

    I’ve been to universal a couple times, and let me just say, it is easy to get lost. It’s amazing she even found Diagonal Alley.

  • @ThatOneLadyOverHere
    @ThatOneLadyOverHere Pƙed 2 lety +5

    Story 4: Idon't think the mom was too out of line, I do think she shouldn't have freaked out in front of her child though. I also, don't think she should have freaked out on her husband as it has been years. But I do think it is something kind of resonable to be mad about and talk and work through. He knew she had these rules for their kids and that they were important to her, yet he didn't tell her. He also knew that she expected them to have an honest relationship, so I could see being hurt about his dishonesty. I don't think it should completely ruin there relationship or anything, but I can totally understand her being hurt by it.

  • @Unbanned_rackie
    @Unbanned_rackie Pƙed 2 lety +3

    Yo

  • @HELLRZR-nm3vv
    @HELLRZR-nm3vv Pƙed rokem +1

    First story deserves everything they get. If you're too weak to defend your own self and your children, suck it up buttercup it's going to be a hard life.

  • @kcnoel5270
    @kcnoel5270 Pƙed 2 lety +2

    I have entitled family like in the first story. We’ve never had to go on vacation with them or anything, but they’re basically some of the most rude people I know.
    They love to gossip and complain about literally anything they can. Even if it’s something nice. For example, we once took just grandma to this nice tea house. She was complaining about different things but eventually stopped when she realized we weren’t going to agree with her/ complain with her.
    But what really gets me is how my aunt and cousins acted at my oldest sisters baby shower.
    First: when they arrived my older sister (not the pregnant one) greeted them. They didn’t even acknowledge that she was there. They just walked past. No eye contact.
    Second: when everyone was getting pictures with my sister and it was their turn, they had my pregnant sister (who is 4’11 aka the shortest person in the room aside from children) stand behind a bench (you can only see her head) and they have all the children (our cousins children) sit on the bench.
    And three: to put the cherry on top, when they posted photos on Facebook later they say nothing about my sister, the baby shower, no congratulations. Instead they compliment each other “omg you look so good in that dress”
    These people make me stressed. I’m not inviting them to any of my events. Let them be offended. They feel the need to be miserable no matter where they go.
    Well, I’ll invite grandma. Just not my aunt and cousins.

  • @idunnoalaska5071
    @idunnoalaska5071 Pƙed 2 lety +3

    I call BS on the first story. Your going to drive to Florida then just jump over to Arizona! $4000 for 4 plane tickets at the height of Covid? You don’t have to fly first class. And how can you afford hotels for this circumnavigation of the United States if you can’t afford the plane tickets?
    And what hotel in Orlando is an hour away from the Orlando airport?
    It’s not anymore expensive for 1 person to take an Uber than for 4.
    I didn’t know Colorado bordered the state of “Omaha”.

    • @lucasmachado8691
      @lucasmachado8691 Pƙed 2 lety

      5 people mate, the woman, her husband and her 3 sons. So unless you are planning on making the uber driver leave their vehicle and let you drive it while they hang on the top of the car like in tryhard 2, they would need to take two ubers.

    • @idunnoalaska5071
      @idunnoalaska5071 Pƙed 2 lety

      @@lucasmachado8691 three sons? Ok then. I though it was 2.

    • @chaos8271
      @chaos8271 Pƙed 2 lety

      @@lucasmachado8691 u didnt listen to the story. its 6 people her, her husband 2 sons, mom and aunt

    • @kagemaru397
      @kagemaru397 Pƙed 2 lety

      I'm in Florida. They probably got on I-75 after leaving Orlando with I-4, then picked up I-10 from 75 and it took them straight to Arizona.

    • @idunnoalaska5071
      @idunnoalaska5071 Pƙed 2 lety

      @@kagemaru397 that’s still like a 4 day drive.

  • @ronniebautista1887
    @ronniebautista1887 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Love your stories man

  • @jamiepatterson1214
    @jamiepatterson1214 Pƙed rokem +1

    Anyone who invites themselves on a family vacation should be told in no uncertain terms, period. It's a family vacation only for her family, not extended family. And if the extended family members get upset because they've been told no, that's their problem, not he's or her husband's.

  • @dirpguygaming9198
    @dirpguygaming9198 Pƙed rokem

    And this makes me and my brother’s rollercoaster of a relationship seem NORMAL

  • @Bonesintheland
    @Bonesintheland Pƙed rokem

    In the entitled aunt story: I love the sci-fi dinner. Also, if you bring out your phone then something that I think is really funny will happen. 😂

  • @InsigVIDS
    @InsigVIDS Pƙed rokem +1

    For the first story:
    Old me would have done the same thing, being a people pleaser with no backbone
    Today I would have told them no right out of the gate.
    You don’t hijack a vacation that you weren’t invited to and complain about it!

  • @kittycupcake6168
    @kittycupcake6168 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci +1

    We get our wands and start WANDering around 😂 (don’t hate but it seems like a pun that wasn’t planned but it definitely was very funny)

  • @hazennifty
    @hazennifty Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci +1

    My parents told me not to randomly invite myself over to events. The aunt clearly didn’t get discipline growing up.

  • @_me4953
    @_me4953 Pƙed 2 lety

    The aunt and mother act like children 😂😂😂

  • @fundgerflip5126
    @fundgerflip5126 Pƙed rokem

    “So we get the wands and start wandering around”
    Lol that was a good one

  • @izukuafton7472
    @izukuafton7472 Pƙed 2 lety +2

    For the first story if I was the OP I would’ve just cut them off in the beginning and if they asked to be on a family vacation then I would’ve just talked to my partner and we would probably say no

  • @undeadreaper8819
    @undeadreaper8819 Pƙed rokem +2

    “I’m 19 and he’s 26” bro 💀💀💀

  • @AcerNitroFive
    @AcerNitroFive Pƙed rokem +2

    Jesus Christ! That's not a Vacation! It was more like Hellcation!

  • @eemi-sika896
    @eemi-sika896 Pƙed rokem

    If I'm being being honest, some of these stories only happen because the OPs are spineless at times. But they seem to find the courage they need at the end of their ordeal, so i guess there is some reward. Good for them and at least the stories are very entertaining.

  • @gabe9481
    @gabe9481 Pƙed 2 lety

    wow the stories are so intresting

  • @Born2kilII
    @Born2kilII Pƙed 7 měsĂ­ci

    His voice sounds so calm

  • @user-mo5jn2zh2r
    @user-mo5jn2zh2r Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci

    The thumbnail got me there 😂😂😂😂

  • @iketurnher4745
    @iketurnher4745 Pƙed 2 lety +2

    Guard your time/money, your peace/focus and your all other boundaries. Do not tell people your plans or anything private it's not their business.

  • @kellyvalentite9366
    @kellyvalentite9366 Pƙed 2 lety

    My parents are like that too. I am currently 16 and my mother nor grandmother have not taught me responsibilities and treat me like a child. I despise them.

  • @steevehoyoufat9155
    @steevehoyoufat9155 Pƙed rokem +1

    I'll never understand how people can just let other people, REGARDLESS OF RELATIONSHIP, bring down the quality of their life and force themselves onto them. Once you're married, your allegiance and first priority is YOUR family. Not your parents, not your siblings, not your friends. YOUR family. And anyone who doesn't respect that is NOT your friend/family.
    And then those bums didn't even leave a tip?!? Smh.

  • @andrenotley7612
    @andrenotley7612 Pƙed rokem

    “We got the wands and started wandering about” lol

  • @chloesibilla8199
    @chloesibilla8199 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Our family has a serious case of the "we'll let ourselves in" step parents as well. Not fun.

  • @marylandwehr1666
    @marylandwehr1666 Pƙed rokem

    My parents both hated tattoos, so naturally my brother (who had 4 individual ones plus a full sleeve) bought my first one as a graduation gift to me. I kept the fact I had tattoos a secret for over 3 years and didn’t actually disclose my brothers involvement for almost 10. Thankfully my mom had mellowed out some and all that news got was an eye roll and an “of course he did” lol.

  • @BelgianWaffleMaker
    @BelgianWaffleMaker Pƙed 2 lety +1

    I love these videos

  • @imkiii
    @imkiii Pƙed rokem +1

    Op in the first story is such a doormat it’s so frustrating

  • @Lemon-ou9el
    @Lemon-ou9el Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

    Damn, the OP in that first story is way nicer than I would’ve been; my grandmother force and invite herself into our vacations before and it has ended up killing the fun of the trip multiple times, so I would not be as flexible as the OP was 😅

  • @susanspymarten6479
    @susanspymarten6479 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    I remember going to Disney world by renting a car and it took a month to get there since little did we know there was a snowstorm and it was in the middle of COVID but it was all good!!! And turned out really well!!!
    Well this story just reminded me of the trip and just wanted to tell you guys a little about it.
    Also the Sci-fi diner that they mentioned in the story is actually very cool!!!!!

  • @Puffafish1
    @Puffafish1 Pƙed rokem

    NEVER set yourself on fire to keep other people warm.

  • @PunkMartyr
    @PunkMartyr Pƙed rokem

    I live close to Disney and Universal but havent been in a while. Its funny how you need to stop and smell the roses once in a while

  • @brianrogers7360
    @brianrogers7360 Pƙed 6 měsĂ­ci +2

    Story 1. I have no sympathy for the OP. You knuckled under to your family. And you knew you shouldn't have. No sympathy from me

  • @Max_Destruction
    @Max_Destruction Pƙed rokem

    one time me and my family went to universal in Florida and got my own wand, around an hour later we went on a ride and after we got off we noticed that my wand was missing. we were looking for it for a while and then we saw someone with my exact wand, we asked her if it was ours and she said it was hers, it probably wasn't. we went back to the wand store and we told the cashier what happened and out of pure kindness she gave us a free replica wand. this story is the definition of the duality of people.

  • @shaudemarie8844
    @shaudemarie8844 Pƙed rokem +1

    An easy way to avoid this is just don’t tel people your every move. The only person tell I’m going on vacation are my coworkers (the ones that need to know) and my dad just incase something happens and he doesn’t hear from me.

  • @viongaming4796
    @viongaming4796 Pƙed rokem

    Ok the story’s are interesting but look at how good he is at the game in the background!

  • @s.v.2796
    @s.v.2796 Pƙed rokem +1

    Story 1: Ya know what? It's okay to say no.

  • @pepe_the_frog713
    @pepe_the_frog713 Pƙed rokem +1

    first story: Why did you even pick ur aunt from the airport in the first place. if they still come to disney, its a very small chance they will find u in that COLOSSAL location. if they keep calling or texting, there is a thing called silent mode. USE IT!

  • @Cyric151
    @Cyric151 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +1

    Last story actually can make a lot of sense since we didn't receive details of what her ex-husband lied to her about. If it was something very serious she could have long term trauma from that, and of course will react very negatively to such.

    • @noobslayer6915
      @noobslayer6915 Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci

      Yeah, exactly. Her ex husband could've lied to her for years about cheating on her.

  • @YoMommazNUTZ
    @YoMommazNUTZ Pƙed rokem +1

    The 1st story is aggravating, why was this aunt and mother allowed to bull doze their way into this when the OP is well aware that these women are obnoxious! Stand up for yourself instead of playing the martyr! Also Op and her husband chose to allow their vacation to be ruined she is 100% responsible for allowing this, sounds like maybe she just enjoys drama?

  • @bombdotcom2168
    @bombdotcom2168 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci

    Dude story one reminds me SO MUCH of my aunt-

  • @darkstarmoonshadow8892
    @darkstarmoonshadow8892 Pƙed rokem

    People like that need to hv boundaries set, no one and I mean NO ONE should ever hv to put up with that BS especially a family with collage bound kids on a nice vacation. 😒

  • @dwmutheone
    @dwmutheone Pƙed rokem

    Bruh how can people be this patient without punching the other person in the face