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If you want to be able to afford the luxuries of having a trip to Australia then don't have 4 kids. If you want to be able to have the "joys of raising children" they don't expect a luxury trip to Australia.
THANK YOU!! Why do people who choose to have children love blaming those who don't for being freer, it was their choice no one forced them.
@@parthkachhia4117 because christo-fascism
@@pierrevalette9721 Isn't the opening post by a Indian guy?
@@Martin_Daniel well, it works for every religion
Exactly I live in Australia if you want a luxury vacation here having 4 kids here is not a good idea
I grew up pretty close to one set of cousins. We always had Christmas Eve together and shared a summer house. Even at that, I don't see any of us expecting each other to take each other's kids on vacations.
Same
I technically lived very close to one of my cousin most of my life and childhood. Sheâs been and still is like a sister I never had, and neither me or her tried to force each other on looking out for something that the other is responsible of. So this is why I donât understand how can that cousin insist so much in getting her children in a vacation away from her and her husband, by forcing it to her cousin and partner to babysit them for their vacation.
I personally donât do that, however my family often goes to family gatherings when they can though, even if it means going to New Zealand.
"It's not my fault that your spouse is making another family with kids that he ACTUALLY loves." That is exactly what I would've told my sister and her child if they teased my kid for not having a mother.
Maybe a bit of a low blow there... but then again, so is what the sister said to the OP.
Not the Ahole. Why is it your responsibility to take someone elseâs kids on your vacation? Tell them no. Itâs not that difficult. So what if they arenât happy, theyâll get over it. If not, thatâs their problem.
And I LOVE the boyfriend's family just either completely ignore them or just DESTROY the Karens XD
Story 2: Sister needs therapy. Sheâs projecting her hurt, pain and insecurities on Brother (and probably a lot of others) and her son is absorbing her behaviors. Sheâs the jerk.
the dad of the nephew seems very reasonable... its probably why they divorced.
She's a freaking narcissist is what she is. Probably the covert type. The kind that played the victim / charity case or switch to major bitch when they don't get their way. You lay down boundaries with them, tell them no, hold them accountable and show that there are reprisals as well as consequences for their actions, you are the jerk. They will demonize you, trash talk you, try to ruin your reputation and even get violent because how dare you not let them have their way. I used to have a friend like this. There's no help for them until they realize that they need help and make a solid effort to change. That's about as likely as Miley Cyrus singing on key without autotune
â@@xarakiel7724 agreed. Sister's unstable behavior is just the start of how she will keep blaming others for not treating her like she's the only victim and that is causing her son to also lash out.
Yes she does
As for second story, OP is NOT a Jerk. I can see why the Ex-Husband divorced OP's sister. She's a heartless jerk.
She ainât a jerk she a bi-
With story 3, your not a jerk. Itâs your wedding, not theirs.
I remember my dad and grandma making me feel ugly as a teen because I had black hair and barely wore makeup and was into alt clothes. Itâs nice that the OP was thinking of the niece
I really like the last story because I loved how the OP didnât care if her finances niece didnât want to wear a dress, as teenage girl who dresses like a tomboy a lot and can feel embarrassed about my identity as a female, I can relate to the niece
the way you say, "OP didn't care if her fiance's niece didnât want to wear a dress," seems like a typo but know you dont mean it cuz of context
There's no reason to be embarrassed about being a woman. I'm a tomboy too and its led me to a very fulfilling and successful career. Embrace being a tomboy, there is a wonderful life waiting out there for your individual flair.
@@ieatfeet1737 your right I meant to say âdidnât mindâ my bad đ
@@elizabethp1772 its ok
Last story. I commend the grandparents for continuing to have a relationship with their son's ex-wife. It demonstrates to the kids a wholesome loving family , and the kids will benefit from.
My sister's husband's family never has an ex. Once you're in the family, you're a part of it. They have family reunions where exes even bring their new families to.
Tell the son he can leave his dirty hobag at home from now on if she's so uncomfortable! I'd tell him i don't want her there cause she will probably go after someone else's hubby.
I know thatâs right when my late cousin and her ex husband divorced when I was like 12 they had brought their new partners to my family reunion and I didnât see anyone have a problem with it for what I can tell
I would have told them NO at even the first mention of cousins' kids joining on holiday... you are not responsible for other people's happiness!!
I showed the last story to my mom and she said if her son had been the one in the story and he had asked her to stop inviting his ex wife, she would have invited the ex and kids and told her son hes not allowed until he grows up and learns to be civil for HIS children
Story #2, as someone who has lost his mother to Ovarian cancer, I would say he's not an a-hole for throwing her out. That is an extremely heartless and cruel thing for her to say and the way she acted was absolutely atrocious. I would have done the same thing with a few choice words mixed in.
So so so sorry for your loss, friend. You'd have a waaaay nicer reaction than I would. There would be blood shed if I overhear some assface insulting a dead relative.
I feel like super sorry for your loss man.
Imagine somebody making fun of your dead relative
I'd do everything to ruin their reputation.
She would have gotten the pimp smack from me right in front of her son.
I like memes
If I was in the OPâs shoes, the moment she said âOh itâs so hard being us, we donât have money to go on vacations.â I would say âOh, sucks to be you I guessâ
Right? She should have kept her legs shut. I know it takes two to tango, but if you don't want to have to raise multiple children or even a single child, get on contraception. Men, get your vasectomies. Women, get your tubes tied or a hysterectomy. Not everyone is cut out to be parents and the cousin in that story is a prime example.
@@iononcantomascrivoLOL đ
TOTALLY UNDERRATED COMMENT LOLLLLLLL
"No one asked you to be cream đ„§ed 4 times"
Bane Of Panties II
I loved that he made a Marge impression for the entitled cousin in the first story.
That sent me
Bro why does the cousin sound like Marge Simpson bruh. Her voice got me dieing of laughter man đ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
These videos make me realise how lucky I am to have competent parents.
[Story 2] The sister had no right to yell at the OP for disciplining her son. You shouldn't allow your son to bully other kids because it is your job to teach and discipline your son not blame everyone that is actually taking disciplining your child, You shouldn't bring up your brothers lost spouse You live in his house not yours you can't tell him to not discipline your son for bullying his kids. So no OP is not the jerk.
Ok,bro your Karen voice over is at God level
My family evidently was the exception to the divorce "rules" and I am happy about it. I was taught by word and example that divorce is between marital partners, not families. My father even took my half-brother out with us when we went to the movies, etc... and i had only seen my dad once between the divorce when i was 2 and 13 when he visited once. Both he and my stepfather weren't best friends but they were cordial for the sake of the families. I have never "lost" a family member due to divorce regardless of who was at fault. I am so grateful!
2nd story: props to the sisters ex husband for taking the kids in. I mean yes the kid did say something really bad, but probably influenced by the mom.
Yea I bet the reason they got divorced is the wife is a cruel jerk.
I love how he put it too, he doesnât want the sister âruiningâ their kid đ
@@-namekuji-1973exactly I have a feeling that the father will straighten his kid up and put him on the right track also if I was a father to that kid I would make him apologize to his uncle and cousins and everyone else that was at that party
I love these videos even that video of a Karen stealing OPâs stepson bc she thought he wasnât his father
That was the first video on this channel I saw.
@@PokekaiPJArchives same
@@yourface7179 same
Who else just found this channel in their recommendations and is obsessed now??đ
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@@clyded_thysillyWell that sucks. The Channels going down to false copyright claims.đą
Same here
In the final story the op is not a jerk.The op still wants to see his grandkids and also the op has been family to the ex for decades and it was the sons choice to leave her, the wife didnât leave him.If the op listened to the son and didnât invite her that would cause a break in the relationship with the ex and the ex was closer to the opâs family than his own son.
There a law where you canât drop your kids off with someone if they didnât give you permission it mostly count as abandonment
Lmao in the last story if I was the dad I would tell my son I disown him in favor of his wife because he's just a cheating bastard and no son of mine. I hate cheaters with such a passion I've told my boys if they ever cheat on their partners then never show their faces to me because they will be dead to me. I told them if you are unhappy in a relationship then leave the person don't cheat just leave.
Yea she's a cheating hobag screw her if she's uncomfortable!! Maybe she should close her legs and stop sleeping with married men. We all know she's only after his wallet at least until it's empty!
Same like if I was that guys very close niece I would cut ties with him and be disgusted when I see him
2nd story: SHE IS A JERK. that also hurt me because I lost my mother aswell. I feel bad for the OP because you can't just make a that remark about a dead relative/spouse. I would have thrown her out on the spot because of the very hurtful comment
Ok, I cannot help but chuckle at the cousin's voice from story 1. Give the voice actor a raise!
Story 2: I can't and don't want to imagine what it's like to lose a parents but I know what it's like to come close to losing both. Watching that, my blood boiled across the screen and if I was in that situation... I'm ripping into her and her son, blood ties be damned
The Marge voice always kills međ€Łđ€Ł
The whole trip story is so sus. 1) do the children already have valid passports? You sure can't get one in a matter of hours, but if they do then 2) How does the cousin think that she could drop the kids off the day of the trip, and you'd actually be able to get plane tickets for them to go to Australia? Those flights are usually booked full weeks ahead of time, especially if you're leaving from India. X
@@idkyouthinkofaname323 because it usually takes weeks to get them. And not everyone gets passports for their kids unless they absolutely plan on traveling since they need to be renewed so often.
@@idkyouthinkofaname323 that is adults. You would not use a passport for a 2 year old when they are 7 even.
They might have already had passports (although if the parents haven't been anywhere since their honeymoon they probably didn't) but you need a visa to travel to Australia, which I'm sure they didn't have. If you are a citizen of certain countries then you can apply online and get a visa almost immediately (although waiting until the morning of the flight to do that would be unwise!) but India is not on that list. They would need to apply a few weeks in advance to be sure of getting it in time.
I'm guessing the cousin feels the immigration authorities of foreign countries owe her just as much as her family does...
In the UK Small children travel on the parents passports. Older and Adults can get Passports the same day if you are in Glasgow for scottish people e.t.c
@cosmicdebris42 You are nearly 25 years behind the times - they abolished putting children on a parent's passport in 1998. That only worked if the child was travelling with the parent, anyway.
I always loved how he change his voice when it comes to the karen part
When Karen asked to take her kids along on vacation, we're it me I'd have said yup for ten grand a kid
Q: Stop inviting my ex wife to family affairs A: No problem we will cease "family functions" and although you are invited to come to our new "open invitation functions" your new wife the home wrecker is not ever invited until you retract your request.
So dead on with that statement. I would be uncomfortable with her there cause who's hubby is she gonna go after next!?! Whoever has the biggest...wallet!
The mother and grandmother in the 3rd story sound awful. They're just like "You dare deny us to force gender norms on our child!" I feel bad for that kid.
That arrival would have been met with me catching an Uber and asking the Karen, what vacation travel and housing plans did you reserve for your kids? An Uber is not big enough for two adults and 4 kids. Call an Ubur, bring your kids to the airport, and get yourselves and your kids plane tickets, hotel reservations, etc. The place we are going is booked solid already. Have fun.
Thank you for all the stories on your channel! When I started watching them I realized how much family can be involved/not involved and how rude and selfish some people can be.
Cousin can kick rocks! Sister would have gotten popped in the mouth!!! By the way I almost choked on my corn chips when you did the Karen voice!!!đ€Ł
And for third story, OP is not a jerk. It's her wedding day.
For all 4 stories: The OP is NOT a jerk
why?
story 2 defo not a jerk I would of punched my sister square in the jaw if she ever dared say something like that about my dead wife and my kid's dead mother.
Ikr I would have never let anyone just stand there saying stuff like that
"One more word about my son's mother, yours will lose theirs"
After that comment she would be gumming her food!!
And she calls cops you lose kids and a lot of money your now hated and your kids have no dad to
crazy that you got the VC of Marge Simpson for this!
NO ONE causes their spouse to cheat. Even if that spouse is horrible. The person who cheats makes a decision to do so. If a spouse is so horrible, then get a divorce so you can give a future person all of you instead of just part because you are married. Yes other people can influence us, that doesnât take the responsibility of cheating out of the hands of the cheater. Breaking someoneâs trust like that is so devastating. It is not even good to the cheater since the stress of hiding and any guilt or shame causes a lot of pain. Just be faithful and if you really feel that you donât want to be with your spouse anymore, do everyone a favor, including yourself and just get a divorce.
Fiancee in the last story: Oh no you can't come he might fall back in love and cheat on me
The Ex: He has a history
âThe mama bear to end all mama bearsâ đ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
Wedding story: I wouldâve made a deal with the girl to wear the dress to the wedding, I would bring the clothes she wants to wear tho, take her away like as soon as she got there so she didnât have to wear the dress for long and have her change right before the ceremony. I know that would cause problems maybe, but let her be herself. If she doesnât then daughter will either lose her self confidence or her mom will lose her when she gets older. And this is crappy for the mom to think sheâs going to use this ladyâs wedding as an opportunity to be able to force her daughter to âdress up like a girl for once.â She wouldnât be satisfied with once. She would probably use this to try to be like âsee you look so pretty donât you wanna do this more often?â and try to pressure her to do it more until she caves (what she thinks she can do).
I would've tell that cousin to mind her own business and make her pay for the vacation of her own money plus, stop being such drama queen all the time because someone will get back at her and the parents should've cut ties with the cousin and husband because, they're too greedy.
Mama Bear is MVP!
âWe need some alone time so take our kids on your trip for you guys to be aloneâ
LMAO HIS VOICE IMPRESSION XD IN THE FIRST ONE
Greetings from Canada! đ„łđšđŠ
Greetings from India manâšïžâ€ïž
Greetings from America
Greetings from pakistan
Ayy
Honestly if you're making plans to go on a expensive trip with someone then you should never tell anyone in your family cause then theres always that one person who either wants to go also or has something to say.
Don't tell anyone in general, too.
@@Korean_Kitty but family are the worst
Story 1- As the mother of 4 children, I do not understand people who try to push their kids off on everyone else! I have 4 kids, everyone else around me doesn't have 4 kids. It is ridiculous to think the people around you are built in babysitters because YOU had children! Tf is wrong with people?
BRO THE FIRST STORY " beach with 4 bratty ahh kids" how relatable
you have very good stories that i listen to when im bored
The wedding thing makes me wanna do reverse wedding on the day, guys wear dresses and women wear suits. Just because it sounds fun.
What gives her de audacity to talk to her brother about his dead wife like that on his sons birthday
And the cousin is even worse for mocking the ops son for not having a mum .
As well as the mother of the cousin even bringing it up in the first place
When they said mount abu i went feral like
YOUR GOING TO MOUNT ABU TAKE IT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Someone needs to get rid of these karens
i love this channel so much and i think that he should keep up the good content
17:09 no, I donât blame OP at all! Heâs being a good father in law, and the fact that she was closer to the family than their own flesh and blood, that screams to me that the son is just mad that his family isnât on his side.
The second story reminded me of a memory from 5th grade specifically when the cousin compared divorce or separation to a loved one dying.
Love you're videos keep it up and do more Karen videos please đđ
Yes, I agree
@@DrGreen2015 yes I agreed
Best vid. I strongly suggest this to anyone who likes good stories. đ
How did she expect the children to go to Australia with no tickets? It's would've been close to impossible to get 4 tickets in 8 hours. The only thing I would do is call the police and explain that my sister has abandoned her 4 children and expected me to take them to Australia without tickets.
the first story I read on Oola of Facebook a while ago but it gives life to hear a voice behind this story
also losing a mother at a young age is really depressing like I was crying at the time
Greetings from Poland!
Then welcome to my country
All stories NOT the jerk. The last story I appreciate how you broke it down to a single individual that was the jerk; the insecure fiancé.
Tbh, mt abu is a really beautiful place.
Its got the Dilwara temple with beautiful ancient jain architectures. REALLY beautiful place.
For the Third Story I'd honestly say your probably not a Jerk, its your day and if your like its cool they can wear what they want as long as its wedding, they shouldn't complain much less try to force there kid to try to wear something that makes them uncomfortable
My cousins had a similar situation to the last story. I have a set of cousins, all older than me (the oldest got married when I was 5, for example, while the youngest is only 6 years older than me). Anyway there were 5 men and 1 woman amongst the siblings. One of the brothers has Downs Syndrome, but the rest all married their high school or college girlfriend/boyfriend. Since my one cousin was the only girl, she became very close with all her sisters in-law and they'd all get together at holidays and do stuff like taking my aunt out for lunch for a "girl's day". Spent some vacation time in the summer together, etc.Each had anywhere between 2 and 4 kids and the cousins were all reasonably close based on how close in age they were.
Of my four married male cousins, there was one who was always a little "off". Nothing terrible, but he'd say weird things he thought were witty, but really made no sense. If one was ever going to cheat, it would be him, and he did. Their two kids were in their early 20's by that point and things were relatively amicable. His family would continue to invite his ex to family gatherings because if you include their time dating, she'd been in the family nearly 30 years. She was as much their sister as he was their brother. To be honest as cousins, my family liked her more than him most of the time. You could tell his girlfriend (the one he'd cheated with) was uncomfortable, but I think it was more that this was a tight knit family who'd been together for decades and she was just an outsider. Anyway, that relationship didn't last anyway.
It's hard to cut someone out of your family when they've been part of it for decades, especially when it's your sibling who's in the wrong, not the ex in-law.
The voice acting is impeccable 10/10
I hate people who say âyou donât have the responsibility to raise children so you have to look after them while I can relax, think of it as a learning processâ
No, your kids your responsibility. If you donât want the responsibility raising children then donât be a parent to begin with if youâre not willing to look after your own children.
When Marge Simpson becomes a Karen
Yes
Ya know the second one the dude should've bullied the girl about not having a home and say SEE THE KIDS NEED A HOME. Personally i would take pleasure in seing her anger and regret in her eyes
Hi. My sisters and I lost our beautiful mother on November 25, 2017 due to Type 2 Diabetes and she also had an Acute Respitory Infection which also resulted that her lungs, kidneys and her liver was failing except her heart. Which was 2 days after Thanksgiving and my sister's birthday was on Thanksgiving Day on November 23rd. Your sister was really a true jerk to act like that. She shouldnt have let her son say that to you and on your son's birthday. You OP lost your beautiful wife to Ovarian Cancer. My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Nobody deserves that. I'm glad that you kicked her out! Serves her right! She was a mean spirited woman. I pray for healing for you and your family.
As an Australian I can say the most you see in Melbourne is two bogeys fighting each other because they both donât know who goes first at an intersection
Greetings from austria
Greetings from serbia
Youâre đ„
I can somehow relate to the wedding dresses one,I am a trans guy and at my mom's wedding,my mom was trying to force me into a purple dress even tho I have already stated that it makes me uncomfortable,especially since I was in the closet at that time but of course I didnt say that,I showed her some suits I like and I want the opposite color of what my brothers suit is so we match as siblings,my mom went ball and started insulting me in 19494960 ways about how I am supposed to dress like a lady,as if I am one from the start,the whole arguement had a 180° turn when I told her I get to have a choice over what I wear if it means taht it makes me comfortable enough to attend her wedding and I am going to end up going to my friend's place if I couldn't wear a suit,she started calling me selfish and how I only think about myself and my own convince and how I am not considering her feelings at all,and it was her wedding so I had to obey her orders especially since she was the one paying for the clothes,i was really fed up and asked her if she would rather see me cry out of discomfort if it means that she can keep her fragile reputation or will she just go and respect me as a person and respect my decisions since I am the one wearing the thing,not her
and of course she ignored me and preordered the dress,and basically without any hope I was kind of forced to come out so i can atleast wear a suit even though that chance was thin as hell,a lot of things happened in the middle of it but i ended up wearing the suit
I must say if I was offered a trip for my children, husband and myself you wouldn't hear anything but gratitude and love from me.. That goes for a free trip to local museum or zoo. I'd even call and thank them the day of before we got there and bring them something back.. Good people that do nice things for others get burned when they help family members, a little lesson I've learned.
3:35 lol just say your leaving the next few days then leave when they leave
I'm just trying to find out how many different families this guy has if Iâm gonna be honest
When the Karen in story one said âwhy canât you take me to Australiaâ I thought because they didnât want to have you go missing since there are spiders snakes and pests that arenât thankful for the trip they offered
Story #3: My wedding, my WAY!
I almost choked on my drink hearing your entitled voice đ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
She doesn't have to require the bridesmaids to wear dresses. However, if the child's mother wants her to wear one and the bride didn't object to a dress, she can dress her daughter as she sees fit. It may not be nice, but that's really all there is. Really, the bride can just absolve herself of the situation, entirely and tell her future sister in-law that she's not going to get between her and her daughter and it's between them what she wears so long as the color is correct.
The channel's videos are great and all but I can't be the only one who cringes when this dude narrates his impression of a Karen. Like I understand its for the emphasis, but there has to be a limit to where it's exaggerated to a cringe level
That whatâs itâs supposed to do. Make you cringe
A Karen should be cringe and infuriating as well. The fact it get under your skin and annoying its suppose to be that effect.
@@starsoul7771 It's supposed to make me cringe at what transpired, not at how overly forced their voice acting was. . . .
@@SenseiRaisen Which would be understandable, if it werent for the heavily forced and almost non-believable way they were narrating it
@@cosmicsandwich7307 i kind of agree with that sentiment too. Since the other 2 already does it in a snarky but not forced way. Even if, there is videos of Karens shouting like the narrator in this one.
Why does the Karen and aunts always sound like marge simpsonđ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
"You're been so selfish" said the one that actually selfish
(again anther person lost the idea what selfish "IS"
She turned into the mama bear to end all mama bears. Lol that was the best line Iâve ever heard
i actually really like these vids, great job! :D
The Karen sounds like drunk Marge Simpson
Good job for standing up for your self
Not a jerk because insulting someone's dead mother is unforgivable
this dude sound like marge simpson everytime he does the karen voice
just 3 or 4 days ago my half-sister's husband's dad died from a heart attack and at least it lets us see my Nece and nephew again because we had not seen each other for over 2 years
Story 1: Mount Abu is a good place to enjoy your Holidays specially in summer, i went there on a school trip 2 months age it was fun.
5:45 reminds me of my mom she acts nice on the outside but when somebody talks bad about her children she screams, she goes on a rampage
1:07 the voice đđđ»
Its crazy how fast this channel is growing!
I like how the karen who wants to go on the vacation sounds like Margaret from simpsons