Karen thinks MY POOL is a PUBLIC POOL... then TRESPASSES on My Property - Reddit Podcast
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0:00 An Entitled Karen DEMANDS that I allow her child to swim in my pool, but when I tell her no, she freaks out on me. (u/QuentinTonks)
5:28 Everyone I talk to about my engagement says terrible things about it, and at this point, I donât know what to do. (u/Legal-Zone5613)
8:47 My Boyfriend hung up on me after I broke up with him, but I didnât get the closure that I needed from our relationship. (u/UpkeyCDSBlast)
12:44 My parents blatantly favor my brother in nearly every aspect of our lives, and I am not sure what to do. (u/threelongtasks)
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Story 1: If you want your kid to go to someone's pool you ask the owner and if they say no, well they're not getting in. You have to respect someone else's property and boundaries. No trasspasing and no exceptions.
Yea đ
i agree
Hippety Hoppety - GTF off my property!
Bro how they get in tho
What you think you "own" your property? Then you might not have realized the US is becoming a socialist country. You never own land. You buy the buildings on it then rent the land through the government via taxes. Yeah, you can kick somebody off of your rented land.
My husband and I had a similar situation at one of our vacation homes. The morning after we arrived, we heard yelling, laughing, etc in our back yard. For reference, the house is on 6 acres so we canât see or hear our neighbors, so we knew it was coming from our yard. In addition, when we come to town, we usually stay for about two months, so our house sitter leaves about two weeks before we arrive to ensure the house is clean and all her belongings are gone.
Anyway, we went out back and found a family of 5 swimming in the pool. They had brought food, drinks, pool toys, and the father was using the grill to make their lunch.
We asked them what the hell they were doing here, and they said the owners allow them to use the pool whenever they want. We explained we were the owners and after some back and fourth, they admitted they had been coming over for the last two weeks without permission.
Turns out they were friends with our house sitter and had been to the house on several occasions for dinner, so they knew the situation with the house sitter and the small window when the house would be vacant. They had also broken the lock to the pool house/guest house and were keeping food, some changes of clothes, and toiletries, in there.
Needless to say, we were beyond pissed.
We told them to immediately get out, and the father said we needed to âchill out, and they would be gone after lunch.â They refused to leave! I couldnât believe it!
We called the police and when they arrived the parents tried again to say they had permission from the owner, and were allowed to be there.
The police obviously told them to leave, and asked us if we wanted them trespassed, which of course we did. Then the father tried to say they lived in the guest house. That is when the youngest kid said âwe donât live there, we live at X.â When the father tried to double down saying he had keys, the awesome kid chimed in with âwe donât have keys, you had to use the big scissors to break the door lock.â The big scissors were gardening shears from the shed.
This earned dad a pair of shiny new silver bracelets. So dad was arrested and they were trespassed.
Thanks, kid!
The best part was about a month later we got a call from the mother (no idea how she got my number) and she had the audacity to ask if her kid could have his birthday party at our house. She promised her husband wouldnât be there. I had to laugh at that one. Of course I said no. I still canât believe she had the nerve to ask us that. Unbelievable.
Just curious, with the house sitter, did you call them out on letting the people on the property without your permission to begin with? Get security cameras and replace the locks just in case?
@@violetcwest We actually fired her. In the contract it states explicitly that guests are not permitted unless previously approved in writing. I know this sounds very harsh, but there are reasons, mainly to protect our property. Vacation homes are prime targets for theft and break-ins. Statistically, vacations homes that are only utilized intermittently are burglarized by someone who is affiliated with the owners.
@@lauram3115 Thatâs not harsh, itâs absolutely appropriate. Iâm gonna need to remember this fact, I hope to have a vacation home someday.
@@violetcwest We have a property management company that maintains our other home. They are wonderful. They maintain the grounds, do daily checks on the home inside and out. When a hurricane blew a bunch of debris in our yard and some minor damage to the roof, we were only charged for the roof repairs. They cleared all the debris and addressed the landscaping. When we arrived a couple months later, we couldnât tell there had been any damage. Wonderful company. If you get a vacation home, I definitely recommend using a property management company.
@@lauram3115 Oh, thank you!
Story 1: to keep that from happening ever again, I would also suggest installing a gate around the pool to keep random strangers from swimming in the pool.
That's actually the law in most states. Some one or their kids could wonder into your back yard and get hurt or killed playing around a pool.
I was wondering if they do have a fence or something
Make it electric
Make the water electric with a switch.
@@itsthesecond1434 why??????
As a pool owner , I cannot stress enough , how extremely careful you must be , with regards to pool safety and security !
What people do not realize , is that pool owners are held financially liable if anything should happen to those who swim in your pool.
A minimum of six feet high fencing , locked gates , security cameras , and pool alarms are a must !
Noted, thank u
Trespassing should negate that though. If you can call the cops just for being there, using the facilities should also be illegal unless you're given permission
@@magne7771 It doesn't . It should , but it doesn't . The cold reality is that if you are a homeowner and you have a pool , you are legally liable for every occurrence that happens on your property .
That is why , you call the police immediately , if people sneak onto your property. DOCUMENTATION!
@@freyasslain2203 got it. If I get a pool, I'll get some dogs too.
@@magne7771 Look , I know I sound paranoid. But I live in the United States , in Ohio. Americans will sue you at the drop of a hat.
I have both an indoor and outdoor pools , and you bet your sweet ass , I am cautious !
If people see you have deep pockets , they will come at you ,with lawyers!
On the first story: Many years ago, I lived next to someone who had a nice pool. Some entitled Karen tried this same thing, except we were in Texas. Long story short, he asked her to leave, she refused, and two minutes later found herself staring down the barrel of a .44 Magnum. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes...
God bless america
I heard on the radio In the UK some entitled guy tried sneaking into someoneâs backyard swimming pool but was met with a very angry German shepherd. Long story short the entitled guy had to go to hospital for a few months.
hail britannia britannia rules the waves.
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LOL
all respect for texas is earned and shall be received god bless America đșđž
KAREN: Do you want my kid to have hypothermia?
ME: If your child gets in my pool again, I'll make sure his chances are high. *reaches for the temperature gauge*
I like thisâ€
Lol
@@legoblood11same â€â€â€
âYes,thatâs one less hellspawn.
Story #2: this same thing happened to me when I got engaged. None of my family or friends said a kind word to me. They said, "good luck with that." When my husband told his friends and family they also said, "good luck with that." We thought it was crazy that both friend groups said the exact same thing. We have been married for 18 years. Enjoy your engagement and don't let anybody get you down
Sod the lot of em any couple who gets this reaction elope go on your honeymoon and listen to them bitch about not getting a invitation and a free meal when you get back
So true. Everyone is different. My husband and I got engaged after 6 months of dating then married a year after that. We have a really good marriage now for 7 years.
Sometimes time is a factor, sometimes itâs not. Itâs the relationship that matters
Just because it works for you doesn't mean it works for everyone else you never know maybe your husband's cheating behind your back horrible thing for me to say but you have to question everything to protect yourself
@@animegamer501stthelastyeet8 you're an awful person
@@animegamer501stthelastyeet8 that was randomly out of left field and doesn't exactly seem applicable here?
Regarding the case of the engaged couple that everyone was talking down: Sometime people just are like that... We went through the same sh*t when we announced our wedding plans. At that time we were a couple for more than 12 years! Everyone just seemed to mock us about it: colleagues at work, my mom, so called friends... In the end we had our marriage in a very small circle, without our families, just the two of us, best woman/man and their partners.
Later that year we had a big wedding, with church and all, where we invited our families and other friends etc. - each invitation had a kind of 'read me first'-manual attached. This basically told everyone invited, that this was OUR wedding, if they want to be happy for us and join the festivities we gladly invite them.
However, if they take this as an opportunity to bring their entitled mindsets, unwanted opinions, family struggles and quarrels, and overblown egos to this event, they can stay the hell away!
It worked: everyone complaining about this note and starting to debate was removed from the guestlist and we had a great 'official' marriage!
Love & Peace
I hope your wedding was amazing đ
Iâm truly happy for you
You did the right move
I just can't understand people mocking you or trying to stop you in your project. I had a trully bad experience with engagement, yet I don't use it to belittle other's relationship
What??? a wedding without at least two distant related uncles ending up in hospital?????!!!!!
How heretic!!!đ
I told my wife that we'd be married a few weeks after we got together. My family gave me crap after telling them that I proposed after a year and and even "tried" to make us go through compatibility/marriage testing before we got married. We've been married 18 years and I'm on my one and only marriage after most of my family has been married 2 or more times. Hell, my uncle who has been married twice (after even being attracted to my own mother) told us we would divorce each other. To HELL with what people say about your relationship because you two are the only ones who decide what you want in life. Congratulations on the engagement and I hope you both have a wonderful life together because it can and will happen as long as you both strive for it together.
congrates! hope you guys make 50 years to really rub it in their faces
My parents knew each other for two weeks before they got married. It wasn't a shotgun wedding or anything, they just fell for each other hard. They were married for 65 years before my dad passed. Sometimes it doesn't take a long time to find the right one.
Thatâs a good story and moral.
There are times when it literally takes a day. That is what we call "love at first sight" but many people still deny the existence when it does exist
@@ILovePanta123 yea but it always works out for them in the end
@@flarie7853 That was the point of my statement :)
In my city, you legally have to have a fence with locks around your property to keep people out of your pool. No fence= No pool. I used to think it was a ridiculous law, but now I'm a bit happier about it.
Edit: I totally forgot to mention I do have a pool. That's why I said I used to dislike the law. I have to keep up with fence maintenance every year, but seems worth it.
Lmao if you have to come back and include a visual edit stating you have a pool, you definitely don't have a pool đ€Ąđ€Ąđ€Ą
@@whoasked9938 or maybe he has a pool
@@alexandroskulira4565 or not
@@whoasked9938 read your name, that's what everybody is saying to you in their minds
@@Historicat đđ the lack of originality is embarrassing, do better kiddo đ
Story 1: SO TECHNICALLY- YOU ARE LEGALLY ALLOWED TO SHOOT A TRESPASSER
I mean you *are* right *but* there is a small chance that someone *is* around
But that wouldn't happen
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"Freebird intenifys"
Story 1: should've called the cops.
I just love the voice he puts on for the Karenâs
The Karen in the first story: đ
Last story :
Had to live through the same things without the sibling favoritism part, and like the narrator said OP clearly need to think of what he wants to do in the future, far from his family. He needs to put up with it for now until he can move to the next phase of the plan. It's hard before and after but it always pays off.
And do not forget to do obscene signs when you're leaving
nah, leave like someone with actual class considering the type of people you're leaving behind. Who wants to stoop down into the cesspool with them?
@@wolfsongrising Well as much as I would have loved to break the legs of my so called father and spread my poop on the walls, I'm not going to jail for someone as pathetic as him, and now the house belong to someone else, they're not involved, and don't deserve it. I just confronted him, ignored his not so legal ultimatum and leaved when I was ready to move some weeks later.
I had a friend in the same exact situation, he changed his last name so they wouldnât know he was and got a job
@@alexandroskulira4565 oh you can do that ! I'm happy for your friend if he got out of this terrible situation đ
Maybe just put an out of order sign there
Story 2: donât pay any attention to people telling you youâre living your life wrong and getting married too early. You are allowed to make your choices and live your own life the way that makes you happy. Something Iâve been learning over the years.. is so many folks will never hesitate to minimize your life by comparing your experiences to theirs. Because people have limited experiences but large egos THEY know whatâs best for YOU because clearly theyâve made it and you have to follow the exact same life plan as them to succeed. Itâs not worth even listening to. If theyâre mad youâre happy, itâs their problem. Donât let them make it your problem too.
"Oh you are too young to marry"
Women before 1900 be like :
@@ahha6304 Even after 1900s people married in their early 20s so itâs crazy to just argue that their too young
Story 3: Sorry, you don't get to break-up with someone and then be upset that YOU didn't get closure. Typical
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Your cringe
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Women âïž
Yâall saying women as if all women are like this. Howâd you feel if women thought men were always the same? Menâïž
4:30 OP is lucky. Everywhere I've lived in my life, a homeowner is responsible for erecting a 6 foot fence around a backyard with a pool, to avoid such an occurrence. Had the kid (or parent) been injured (or, God forbid, drowned), OP could have been held responsible, as his pool is considered an _"attractive nuisance."_ OP needs a fence with a locked gate, ASAP.
Damn. What a stupid law. Maybe we should hold people accountable instead.
Last poster needs to get a paternity&maternity test. His folks are full of bs and they actually treat him as a second class child
In the state of Georgia the law states that you must having fencing around any pool/lake and a secured entry/exit. This is to protect small children from entering. And Karens.
I don't even think that'll keep out wild dangerous Karen's
â@@MajinMuu What about a moat with piranhas? That'll stop Karens.
because the law realizes that karens are a national security threat
It's not refusing to share if it was never offered or asked for and granted permission. What she did was flat out taking.
Also, when it comes to pools there can be huge liability issues, so having someone you don't know just barge in and use it, can end up costing you.
I'm the middle sibling and was the one always left out or forgotten. As, a teen I worked after school and it made me work harder and was very fortunate to have bosses as my mentors learning not just experience but ethics and determination. It wasn't easy. However, at the end of every day I can always remind myself that all the hard work and determination was earned and not given. Life is much more rewarding when you've earned it.
That insult was SOOOOO SMOOTH!!!!!
"Well if I was raised Wrong, then apparently you weren't raised at all"
Someone get the ointment, cause that Karen just got burnt. And that surprised expression she had just showed how right OP was.
STORY 1: If it was me in the situation. I would say yes to the hyperthymia question
Story #2: I met my husband my freshman year in college and married my sophomore year. We had a professor that told us that she gives our marriage 2 years. Well, needless to say, we have been married for over 23 years and counting.
Last story, I wonder how old the parents were when the older brother was born. I've seen situations where the parents became parents before they really wanted to be. So, first child, "ruined their fun" being free to do whatever as a couple, and they resent the child for that. By the time the second child shows up, they're ready to have a kid and end up favoring second child over first because of their unresolved resentment towards the first child.
Story #4: I'd just straight up leave the country! Or at least try to leave the country, and move to Canada, or America, or something! Especially since just like a small town, I'm guessing a small country doesn't have that many job opportunities. And it really sounds like their family's just purposefully holding them back!
I had a friend in the same exact situation, he literally changed his last name so no one can recognize him
Story 1: I think, putting the cameras was a good option, but you also should put a big metal fence around your property. That would actually keep people off your property.
I love how he is just reading stories that have people dealing with untitled people in Reddit while the background is some Lego superhero's with a sword slashing zombies.
facts
When the Karen tried using the "my kid could get hypothermia if you make him get out of the pool", by her own logic, he shouldn't have been in ANY pool, let alone OP's pool (even though, according to OP, the weather was warm lol).
Story 3: My parents married in 2000. My mom, was in American for her job, while my dad was still in India. In 2003, my dad came to the United States. They managed a long distance relationship for 3 years, just as much as the OP. And, they both have very busy jobs. But still, their relationship lasted over 20 years. So OP, explain how and why you broke up?
It's cool that your parents relationship worked out and all but you gotta realize that everyones needs are different when it comes to relationships. She felt lonely in that relationship which means that her needs were not fulfilled. Let's assume they tried to make it work, but she still kept feeling lonely, then she has every reason to want to break up. The moment that she started to think about breaking up could mean she probably just didn't love him as much as she thought she did. It's okay if it didn't work out, it's okay to leave if you think the relationship is tiring, she did pretty good by straight up telling her ex she wanted to break up imo because nowadays people tend to look for the parts that are missing in someone else.
Her reaction to the ex's reaction was not the best, but she had every reason to break up. I mean, if you truly love someone you would make it work no matter what without even thinking of breaking up.
If I was that girl I would say âIâm to young to get married, your to old to be alive.â
Yeah I once have a discuss with a chauffeur about the other taxi driver is looking at me with angry eyes (which I sued to carried a heavy bag of groceries, and taxi here also got camp, and it's quite like a mafia to say the least) that
"last time I carried my bag near them they didn't mind find me a car, seriously their manner is as much as the day they have left on earth"
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Last story leave and cut contact your family is horrible
The engagement story. Hell I wouldn't even say "thanks for your comment." Thats still being too nice. Me personally I would say "Sorry but if I want to hear a negative comment. I would ask for it."
Story 1: I would have told a white lie and told that karen right away that my security company is sending the police after I caught her on video crossing my fence that says PRIVATE PROPERTY/surveillance cameras in use
Unless actually having signs up that plan would fall flat on itâs arse
The reason they try to make you feel bad is because their lives are so miserable
The only way they feel good (?)
Is by trying to make others feel bad
4:58 Karen: Hippity hoppity this is now my property
Story 1: I donât think the kidâs entitled, he just has an awful mom
Oh my god the first one has me extremely fuckin steamed. The Karen had no right to go into the property and honestly, if that would happen to me, I would threaten them with a gun. Trespass on my property, I'll threaten with a gun. That's defending my property. (I know my morals seem off, but if you think about it, you would probably be doing the same)
Question, if the kid DOES get hurt somehow in a trespassing property, won't the Karen be wasting her time suing?
That was exactly my thought
@@stygiandragon3865 you can still charge her and the kid with tresspassing, but if they get hurt, you can still get sued and be liable and whatnot..... even if you have signs that say "no tresspassing" or anything similar. I went to a private heavy machinery school a few years ago, with said signs, and the class before ours were working on a big excavation project on-site and had big signs warning about the excavation, and some stupid kids decided to go bmx dirtbiking and jumping in there and one of them crashed and broke his leg and the family sued the training course, and the family won, even though they had numerous signs warning about the excavation and no tresspassing etc,
@@QuickManEXE but it was the kids fault and also shouldnt be there cameras in the private machinery school?
If there was cameras, then the people must be very dumb there.
Story 2 is confusing. There's no reference of time or age. The narrator speaks like he knows something but we the audience have no information other than "people are telling me I'm getting married too soon/young".... In korea getting married at 30 can be seen as too young. In America some would make fun of you if you are 30 and single. We are missing context.
we can assume they are on their 20s and below the 30s.
The person in the last story needs to get away from his toxic family. It will always be like this no matter what you do. Live your life the way you want, you don't need anyone who isn't going to support you.
1 other suggestion for story #1- Put up NO TRESPASSING signs in the front and back yard (especially around the pool)
Pov 2094
Karen: my son wants to use your jet
Soldier:mam who let you in here
Karen:i want to speak to your manager
Soldier: no
Karen: i saw normal people coming here so i can come here because this is public
Space
Soldier: they were the families of the marines that came back
Karen: i dont care let my son try a jet or il give you 1 star review
Ong
@@blitzjgr3180 what does it mean
and then the soldier just puts the karen and the kid in jail. :)
@@rudepixel8713 death penalty
â@@tsarbomba463 i think it means on god or he mispelled OMG
I remember when someone hit their shopping cart to my car and laughed âwhoopsâ, and went into her car next to me. Keep in mind Iâm in the handicapped spot(blue placard if thatâs important) I see she has a red one which is temporary, meaning she was probably mad because someone with a permanent disability got her spot. Iâm so glad I have heavy rings cuz I pretended to fall and break her windowđ€Łwhen I said whoops she just didnât say anything and left. I hate people but man I love when they get karma
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Story two: When the old lady says âYouâre too young to be engaged!â You can say back âWell, youâre too old to be alive.â
The Karen's voice had me dead in the floor đđđđđ
Story 2: HAPPENED TO ME TOO!!!! I GOT engaged to my partner in our early 20s. Everyone said we where to young and I was to immature to get married. Granted before I met my partner I was a bit of a hoe. But everyone from work, family, and some friends said don't do it we won't last. To a point that there was a pool on how long the marriage will last with the longest being 8 months. Well over 10 years later we are still together and happy and planning another trip out of the country (think we are at 20 something trips now). Depending who said it I had different response. Family: "You can't get married your oldest siblings isn't even engaged yet." Response: "Not my fault they can't decide on who to stop cheating on." Friends: "Well me and my SO have been dating longer and we haven't even discussed marriage yet." Response: "Well when your dating someone 20 years younger than you maybe they just want to have fun and not be tied down to an old person later in life. (They got married he knocked up someone else and got divorced 3 years in)" Co-worker: "You're to young it'll last 6 months." Response: "Man, I should listen to someone on there 4th marriage." I have more than this.
That was savage, but honestly in your shoes, even if I'm 34, single yet happy ..... i would honestly do the same because I'm not of keep my mouth shut when I'm pissed off.
It's like that saying, "people who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones." Those people criticizing your relationship should have focused on their own relationships instead of yours.
i had an instructor, when i was in school...that had been married for ages by that point. the first time he got with his wife...they sat down and didnt say a damned thing to each other for like an hour or so...then he said she was the one he wanted to spend his life with...and they got married a few weeks later...just off the first visit...so yeah...most people dont know what the shit they are talking about with the length people "should be" together before getting married
what I don't understand about the first part how did the karen even get to the pool shouldn't atleast have a fence
I think the Dad cut the lock.
I don't know exactly but the fact this man can do so many voices constantly is very VERY impressive
Story 2: Don't bother listening to the insults. Those people are just miserable people who get no love from anyone.
Why Karen? Why are you tresspassing again?
When she asked if PERSON wants her kid to get hyperthermia Iâd just say âYES KAREN I DO WANT HIM TO GET HYPERTHERMIA NOW GET OF MY PROPERTYâ
Hyperthermia is when you get sick from being too hot
Carry a shotgun under the pool
@@TheBakingKid which the Karen should receive that, maybe her kid too
Don't you mean hypothermia?
Dont blame the kid he just doing what most kids do
Trespassing is crime.
Karen:I'll raise you better then him
-while literary trespassing on someone's property-
Cameras wonât help with the fact that the homeowner has an attractive nuisance that is apparently readily accessible by children. I would say that if the homeowner doesnât take other steps to prevent this from happening again, the next interaction may not go as well.
Story One: If I was dealing with her and she was screaming at me I would have broken her jaw. I can lose it in seconds if someone explodes on me.
omg wings of fire best books
@@kholearneson70yeaa
@@kholearneson70 wdym by that? where you trying to say that these books are the best for punching people or smth?
Uhhh no sorry I just love the wings of fire books...ur channal name is Wings of fire geek...I'm a geek of them roo
It's sad some ppl think there so entiteled
Story 1: I would have warned them to get lost once then called the cops if they refused to comply.
She gets up in your face you have perfectly good reason to defend yourself.
Id still have called the cops and have her arrested for trespassing and destruction of property. Kid doesnt need a mother like that.
For the second story, I wonder how old the OP is. They donât mention it, and it is still no excuse to be an ass, but if theyâre 18-20 that might explain why everyone reacts that way.
Like seriously. If they donât tell us the age of themselves, their partner or the length of the relationship how are we to support the OP if thatâs what theyâre looking for?
Story 3: I can 100% get where she's coming from, wanting closure so it doesn't end on a bad note and stuff and I think the "playing moves" thing is kinda stupid-
Bro used a Karenâs secret weapon against them manđđđđđ
Story one: i would have screamed something like âthe pool was just shocked and he could get really sick⊠quick get him out!
You definitely need a fence around your pool for just these situations! Keep it locked!
What is the game playing in the background
I might check
Story 2: Considering the failure rate of marriages these days a lot of people don't expect much of them any more. God knows I don't. I've seen nearly as many divorces as I have marriages. Frankly "best of luck" is about the most positive thing I can think to say. Especially if I know the people involved are under 25 or only been together a year or two. You're flying on passion at that point as far as I'm concerned and that feeling fades.
oooh can't wait for it to go on spotify
You canât dislike his Karen voice đ
Story 2: Honestly you should at this point smell the jealousy and bitterness from the people who mock and laugh at it, because they literally had failed marriage, unsatisfactory life from their stupid demands or basically had failed relationships due their behaviour and entitlement too. They mock you out of their own insecurities... and that goes for family , relatives and other people in general too. You just had to look at their life for a second to see why they are trying to sabotage you as well.
Story 2: donât invite people like that. OP doesnât need toxic people at the wedding.
Have the Karen arrested for trespassing.
For story 1 I was thinking that they should have cameras
1. You only have to ask an uninvited guest to leave once, then you call the cops. There are trespassing laws.
Ngl these are starting to get addicting. Itâs just feels so GOOD to listen to jerks getting what they deserve!
Swimming in your pool? Build a fence, cameras aren't enough.
I'm impressed by the AI's ability to speak like a Karen đ€Ł
Story 1: If I Was In OPâs Shoes, Iâd Just Pull The Kid Out Of The Pool, Point To The Door, And Say âGet Out. Now.â
Story 1: To deter people from going into your pool, make it electrified so when they go in the water, they don't have a good time
4:10 or around that, what an amazing comeback
If I was in story 1, I'd call the police, get the arrested for tresspassing and send their child to a good parent.
Sadly trasspassing does not always mean jail.
To the OP getting married & everyone saying you're too young....
You're always too young to be getting married or too old to still be single....
People always have an opinion about something that doesn't concern them in the slightest.
I got married just after I turned 18. I heard "it won't last 6 months " and "you're too young to know what you'll want in 10 years." " don't tie yourself down before you've had a chance to live"
Ugh.
My husband and I are celebrating 20 years of happiness.
We have two beautiful children & one amazing grandchild.
Don't let outsiders destroy your happiness.
Congratulations on your engagement!
Story 3: you may have done whats best for you, he may have done what best for him. You shouldn't be surprised by how it happened.
YOU SHOULD HAVE LET HIM SWIM IN THE POOL AND JUST SHUT DOWN THE HEATERS LOL
If you donât have a fence around the pool, get one installed and have a lock on the gate that only you can unlock. First of all, in most places it is the law to have a fence around the pool, secondly, it will help to prevent incidents like the above from happening. Without the fence your insurance is under no obligation to pay for any damages and you might even find yourself in criminal court for negligence causing injury or death.
Story 2: My husband proposed 6 weeks after we met and we knew each other a little less than 11 months when we got married (& no, we werenât pregnant!). October 2023 weâll be celebrating our 40th anniversary. It doesnât always work out like this but for us it did.
Congrats on 40 years of marriage! My parents are going to be celebrating 35 years in August!
4:20 dude really did the anya smirk
For the first story, I personally would have gone back inside and called the police immediately.
Same thing happened to me after moving into a house with a pool. The neighbors teenager daughters from a previous marriage knocked on my door and said we are here to swim in THE pool as though it was a public pool.! I was never asked and didn't know they existed.
Did you let them swim?
1st Story: This is why the sound of a racking a round into a pump action shotgun does wonders to deter trespassers. Just make sure to call the cops and tell them that you've found an intruders and you've got your gun trained on said intruders.
Bro this guys impressions are on piontđđ
Similar to story 2, my fiancĂ©e and I got engaged very quickly after dating because it became abundantly apparent that we were good for each other. Sheâs the Morticia to my Gomez if you catch my drift.
Anyways, all of my family and friends were super vocal about their opinions and reservations about our engagement and I had to relentlessly defend my decision and our relationship.
Several of these contacts went cold for months before finally realizing that I was serious about this and was not going to back down. Eventually most of them came around and have acquainted themselves more with us as a couple and now offer support. My best advice for OP is just to stand your ground and do what you think is right for you. Live the life you want to live, not the life other people want you to live. When the people who actually matter and deserve a spot in your life realize how happy yâall are together, theyâll come around.
For all these people who have property intrusions by Karenâs like this, get a gun. Just get a gun, and call the cops.
I canât believe there are people like that. Iâd like to see a video. Also, i would have never even talked to her. Iâd have just called the police.
I don`t know the situation in America, but over here in the UK, it is called trespass and under the rule of Tort, you are entitled to ring the Police or use non-violent force to eject the trespasser.
There's no such thing as closure, you either let it go, move on and heal or keep clinging to the past đ€·
"I'm" getting married to "my" fiance - no cause we all thought it would be someone else's fiance!
Lol something similar happened to me once, but I had a friend with me that day and sheâs the type of friend. It doesnât take crap from people easily. Plus she was a good lawyer too. But in of the day that entitled Karen lost everything I mean everything
Yeah parents trying to stop the op from having a life but giving the brother everything thatâs messed up
I can relate a lot to nr3. I feel you bro. At least he is not gaslighting you like my mother does...
what a comeback for story 1's op