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As an ex landscaper I was more interested in how inept the guy cutting the grass was. 🤣
Most underated comment here! 😂👍
You can clearly tell he's suffering a fit of depression and PTSD when he got stuck turning under the entrance arch around 10 mins in. 🤯
It just kept getting wilder
Same 😂
Me too
😂 Missed a bit
This man is a sick genius, seriously, he needs a Netflix special about this. Though Netflix would probably f*ck it up horribly
they would make the wife the hero struggling to redeem herself from "one little slip"
@@vrfj1997 My god they would
@@termogaming thanks, I watched it, it’s a very dramatic retelling of this story!
@@crazy922blade no problem mate
nnnooooooo bad words
This dude is an absolute BAD ASS Genius! I wish I had seen this story 5 years ago. Kudos to this dude.
Not a jerk. More like a chess master! Much respect.
The sad part of the divorce story is if he wouldn't have caught her in the act and had a premeditated plan, she would have got the kids, the house, the child support and he would have worked his butt off in order for her to have all of these things while he didn't do anything to deserve that treatment.
Yep. Yet women still attacking him on here. Shows you. Never get married without a prenup guys.
Facts.
But, that isn't a part of this story.
100% I was raised by a single Dad who wasn't perfect but hey, he was my Dad. So when custody and stuff like that is so one-sided it burns me up inside.
@@deant3980 prenuptial agreements don't hold up in court no more judges have been throwing them out in favor of the women
She robbed him of the opportunity to know genuine love in his lifetime. Money doesn't fix this. She deserved everything she got.
Being smart instead of foolish is never wrong and you being the one to see your kids every day and them to see you priceless
That man is my hero. One of the greatest stories I've ever heard. 🤣
No matter how many times I hear the first story, it continues to warm my cold dead heart. Dude was justified in everything.
Knowing how fucked most guys get after their wives cheat it’s almost like he had to do what he did, or get just as screwed himself.
Not really everything, weaponizing kids is not ethical to say mildly, playing carrot game only leads to prolonged self-torment and who knows what bad may come of it.
@@sanjyuu2298 I'm not talking subjectives like morals or ethics. I'm talking tactics. He needs the kids to side with him or it wouldn't have worked at all. He'd be living in a cardboard box.
@@smithsmith1956 Yeah, i know where you 'recoming from, but still it's like "end justify the means" and it's not mentally healthy on a long run, he did even admit he's toying with her, in the end he become a parasite fighting to stay within the host. This is a subject of discussion if he would en up in a cardboard box, he was armed to teeth with proofs of her infidelity, he could make a legal deal out of it, so she would pay him support and let live with kids, but he deliberately disclosed her in spite, that's why i think he may never become sated, dedicating yourself to drag revenge eternally is a waste of life, he needs some help or he may waste himself. Reveges are supposed to become even with someone for what he did, but a lot of times one monster awakes from slumber even more ferrocious one.
@@sanjyuu2298 Yeah the best thing is to let the courts give the cheating sow the children and force him to pay her for being a lying deceitful hose bag.
More power to him. Him letting the kids know was good with me. When it’s the men getting bent over in the courts, they go full scorched on them. So at this point, that guy is a legend
I applaud the guy. He was cold and brutal
She started with the lying so why would she deserve honesty. He did well lol
I think this man handled everything perfectly! Good for you man.
I pulled a similar situation with the ex wife. TLDR: She wanted to be "poly" after her brother moved in (because he was very risky in his lifestyle choices). So she started hanging out with some poly friends. Next thing I knew, she wanted to go spend a "weekend with friends", the same ones. I go to the store while she's gone, see her getting out of the backseat of their car, with another dude sitting back there (a dude she had to the house previously at 3am and I caught). She came home to find divorce papers and me with a trailer ready to move halfway across the state. She cried, begged, pleaded "Please I'm your wife you HAVE to take me". Knowing full well she wouldn't make it in a 28 ft trailer with me and the kids, I said fine....get in the car. I had property lined up across the state to put the trailer on, and the plans to eventually build so no big deal. Because she went with, I didn't want her to know that, so we moved the trailer to a trailer park. She made it less than 2 weeks and she KIDNAPPED my son and held him up at the neighbor's trailer. The neighbor wouldn't let me anywhere near, waving a 9mm around. One call to the sheriff and the custody papers in hand, I got my kid. Put her in the car, drove her back to the home town. Finished filing the papers through the mail, lived like a king over there. Not even 3 weeks after she had moved back home, she ended up moving in with 5 guys in total, got pregnant, had no clue who the father was and tried blaming me for it. NOPE.jpg. She now lives in her mother's basement, with 2 kids, no clue who either of the fathers are. I'm in the process of finalizing my first home purchase. My own kid, just knows "mom wasn't ready to be a mom yet, I'm sorry". Best part was, when she kidnapped my son....I called HER MOTHER and let her know that her daughter was about to be arrested for kidnapping. Moral of the story.....men, you have EVERY RIGHT to stand up for yourself. First time I've ever stated my story, and I hope it inspires somebody in a bad way. :)
Wtf is poly ? You mean wanted to cheat
@@liamfeely well yeah. Hence why after I caught her stupidity out in public, and I knew he was there with her all weekend, she came home to divorce papers and me already having an exit plan. ;)
Sounds like she went crazy, who the fuck does all this?
Like, seriously, what's her deal?
@@liamfeely the practice of engaging in multiple romantic (and typically sexual) relationships, with the consent of all the people involved. Copied from google
@@laxminarayantiwari8449
Just EWWWWWWW... UGHHH...! Just sharing massive loads of cooties.
About as delicious as earwax cereal using piss for milk... Disgusting.
Sadly, it cuts both ways; faithful gentlemen and ladies at home having to deal w/ outdoor-horny fuck-ups.
If they can't be faithful, fuck it, I'll stay single.
I'm a Mom of 2 grown/Nanna of 3, and I don't have the me-time for another infidelity-flavored divorce or any "shit happens"-type situationships.
The husband did exactly what women do all the time in divorces and it's a nice change of pace to hear a win for the men and at the end of the day you have got to protect your own assets
Yesss
W comment
Women after all want equality and independence. Be careful what you wish for
It depends on how everything affects the kids.
True but,the lets by honest the only problem here is the kids,like I understand the manipulation to the ex wife but to the kids,naaa men,that is to far,you dont do that to the kids
If he didn’t get the kids on his side she would’ve absolutely weaponized it to suit her & screw him over. Also theyre older & have a right to know why their family is breaking up. If this had happened with my parents i would want to know. By cheating she not only betrayed her spouse but her entire family. She showed through her actions that she cared more about her sex drive and selfish wants than her family. Also she specifically didn’t want the kids to ever find out at all
Fax
she deserves it. I'm glad he wasn't the kill everyone in the house type
on god
Yes, it wasn't only him she betrayed by her selfishness, it was the whole family.
He was tactical. Tactical nen make sure the offender is dead in the dirt, or living in a hell they made.
He made himself look weak, had the kids think their mother was a devil, and has her pay for CS and alimony. This was great
Both scenarios are epically done! That's the perfect revenge. Neither was out of line. I agree 100% on how they went about it.
this guy does what most women are told to do to men in divorce and is usually done for them by the court. Good Job man.
Yup. In your face, Amber Heard!
😂
The rule is clear,if it was cheating there is no such thing as too much for revenge
No there are some limits, but they are far out there. I mean if you were to destroy someones life, frame them for a crime, and get them constantly beaten up in prison, all over a 1 night stand(and literally nothing else) then ya, it's too far. The _ONLY_ part I feel was too far was the "Leaving the search bar with it filled out", though personally I think a "I broke down crying because I hated lying to them that everything was alright" would have been more fair.
@@SkyEcho751 Nah she deserves the kids hating her to
@@crucifieddemon7136 Reread my comment, I never said "He shouldn't have told them", I said "He shouldn't have set up an intentional leak to make it look like an accident that they found out".
The only justification I can accept for that action of leaving the search tab up is under direction of a lawyer, to prevent claims of parental alienation.
@@crucifieddemon7136 That is something a kids should decide, not something you orchestrated, kids are not your weapons, the line was crossed. The thing with revenges is that it's easy to lose connection with reality and keep adding oil to the flame, walking into a trap for eternal, unsated, unquenchable desire to deal damage. Do what you have to do and move on, nobody will give you back your time and health back.
you are so right.... no limits. People doing this in a marriage are horrible and belong to hell and deserve anything
I think that was the best family story,hes a great DAD for protecting his kids.. perfect revenge!!
It is incredible how much solid evidence a man needs to escape a divorce with the way society favors women.
When you use psychological tactics to destroy your cheating wife
When you use truth to let wife destroy herself.
@@SetzerII
agreed
the truth is all that is needed
Thinking like a woman
I would be beyond devastated if my husband cheated on me. I love him more than anything. I couldn’t imagine betraying my husband like that. Marriage can be hard, but you work it out. You don’t have an affair.
He is the husband the wife cheated .
@@t.w1665 She is comparing her relationship to the one in the video, not talking about the video itself
@@tpcito52 Is it wrong to ask how did he or she not get that???????😅
@@t.w1665 dude really
Hope your husband doesn't cheat
That man is an evil genius he basically pulling everyone strings and no one else knows
When I ended up In divorce court I just ended up to be a walking wallet. My ex got most of my money and all I got was hungry every day. I barely left enough money to eat. And of course I got all the bills and debt. So I don’t feel a damn bit sorry for the lady who cheated. She deserved what her husband did to her.
She did it to herself. 👍
I hope things are better now for you.
Please do not call her a lady!
Amen to that!
I remember this story from a while back. Something i never understood about the cheating wife is she clearly didnt like or respect OP, mocking him to JBC, so why was she so upset when he told her he didn’t want to be with her anymore? If JBC is so much better why not use this as an opportunity? And if he’s not, why bother with JBC in the first place?
It was in that one horror animation
Maybe cause OP made more money then JBC?
Jbc already has a wife so no matter how much she wants him full time she may always be a mistress
For one she selfish & likely bored with life, maybe the sex wasn't as exciting/satisfying to her anymore. Probably cuz been together so long & with long hrs & stress, they may or she had grown apart. So instead of opening up to her husband letting him know she wanted to spice things up & get more attention from him she instead looked for it somewhere else aka in & old familiar hometown ex. Relationships are work you have to put in effort to keep the love flower blooming. I tell my husband I love him (&he me) several times a day & also how very grateful I am to have him. We listen to & ask each other about our days, help out & care for one another more than we do ourselves & make sure to always make time for intimacy. Which has only gotten spicier!
hypergamy women brains works in mysterious ways.
I've heard this story several times.. wow. This dude is legendary.
Just what I needed, a feel good story to start my day.😂
Man the first story happened to me in 2019 man it feels good to see someone else do it right and not just end up in a hole
bless you brother
hope you got custody
I cannot be the only one who is completely immersed in the satisfying lawnmower simulator 😅😅
I waited 14 years and when my daughter was 18 on her birthday I walked out to live with another woman, she couldn’t live in the house so I bought her out and moved back in and my daughters came back too 🥴 she had therapy for a year and cried every time she saw me with another woman, I’ve now married a beautiful woman 14 years younger than me and she’s divorced again living on her own a quarter mile from me 😂😂😂
One of the best stories ever. Put this man in the Hall of Fame
As a child of a broken home, I commend what the father did and how he handled it. I and my brother were weaponized against my father and his new wife.
You should commend him. He was the stable parent, it was the wife who was breaking all the implied oaths of a marriage. It is 100% her fault and what he did was best for the children.
@@chandie5298 its so perfect that i have a hard time believing it to be true, no fighting like cats and dogs to give the kids more obstacles to become their best selves ,but as clean a cut as possible ,5 stars rating, no ,,,,6 stars
So you now think weaponizing kids is ok as long as the man is the culprit???
Sure glad I'm not your wife.
@@GK-cb3vc Who said that they thought weaponizing kids is ok as long as the man is the culprit?
I was also used as a weapon against my father for about 7 years until I turned 13 an moved out my moms into my dads I’m 29 now havnt stayed one night with her since. Knowing she used me to make him hurt especially when he didn’t cheat an she did. Leaves me still feeling a type of way. Because I saw how it effected him. I will never ever be married by the state ever.
Petty revenge but not a jerk.
The wife was willing to leave her family for something unstable. The children ended up staying with the better of the two parents.
I feel like if the roles were reversed she would be just as petty
there is nothing petty here, its 100% 5 star perfect, how he dealt with the kids is 4 stars,,,,maybe for the kids sake he should have found a way so they don't loath their mom, but maybe it was too delicate to do any other way!
it was all purposeful,he played it to perfection,there was no pettiness ,its horrifying that in most cases she would have come out the winner ,its sad actually!! i wonder if you look at the definition of petty if it would sway you that there was no pettiness here, he acted like A MAN ,A man with a goal oriented plan,,in fact i have a hard time believing it because of how perfect he did it, how he dealt with his feelings, how he avoided arguing and wasted as little emotions as possible
With the laws and courts, this was probably the only "safe route". He was in the right to get the children in his custody etc.
His heart may have been tarnished by it, but nevertheless it was right for everybody in the circumstances. She started it all and thanks to him she got the chance to do her penance and he in turn got to become a stronger man and perhaps in time purify his heart from the hate and bitterness which was understandable.
But I too question, was the story _really_ true?
Yeah. Most I'm perfectly fine with. The occasional night stands with the ex as a manipulation is a bit far imo.
Man, cheating is always disgusting, especially in a marriage. I understand what you're saying about how he treated it with the kids and I even agree with you on some level, but in the case of infidelity, I'd be a heartless mofo too.
So happy that a man finally wins without getting his life ruined.
The first story was savage. Brilliant. 400 IQ plays.
As a victim of this myself, I still think it's terribly sad how we have progressed in life. It still hurts to have lost my marriage, I wish she would henge stayed loyal and now that the golden years are knocking on my door I still think of how it was supposed to have been.
BUT life is what it is. I fought for and got custody, the house and a little child support. The baby was 4 months old and I became her sole parent. Daddy and daughter began our new bizzare but special life together. My daughter was to little to understand and I just told her mommy was sick and had to go away. When she was about 6 she figured it out, Mom didn't want to be with her and that's her choice. Little did I know, a year later this little girl would figure out how to Email and get her mother's address. Oh boy did she let mama have it! I get an email from the ex telling me I'm an ahole and to quite playing games. It had been over 6 years, I had not communicated with her in that time. I told her, but she didn't believe me. I asked my daughter about the email, she denied it. But I knew my daughter and knew she was lying. I almost had to laugh. I told her, you can say anything you want to your mother. It's your relationship and I'm not protecting her from you. But I dont want to get blammed for it. Lol. She confessed and then we had a talk about feelings and how maybe she could learn to forgive her mother when she was ready. I told her Its all her choice and she could say what she wanted, so long as we dont get a restraining order. Lol. Today my daughter is grown, she has a so so relationship with mama. But we are as close as every and if I don't get home enough, she gets angry with me.
This guy did nothing wrong. He to was the victim of todays society. Im sure he wished this never happened. But it did and if he didn't protect himself he would be crucified! The messages the daughter saw? If the system was fair, I would say it was inappropriate, but the way it is, Dads need proof to rebutt the anti male system we have. So no, he wasn't wrong.
Yours is a great story also. Thanks.
He needs to be applauded and his story told to every man.
Well played my man.
You make us proud.
By the way, that game mowing the lawn seems soothing.
Revenge? Oh this is going to be good.
I love how he's in a mowing simulator when talking about the HOA story
The husband did a fantastic job. Wow! Well done. If only I knew in advance that my wife had plans behind my back, I could have protected the kids and myself much better.
It's great to hear at least one story of a man coming out of a divorce the winner
This man is a living legend
He is a man of focus commitment and sheer fucking will
Man of the year award should go to this guy for many years
Good on him for getting a good lawyer and doing it strategically.
the part I don't get is that the "friskiness"
I wouldn't be able to do anything with someone who cheated on me. no matter what.
I know right? I would of left her and him in four trash bags.
Ya something so sacred turned into a public toilet. Idk how people go back knowing how nasty her heart is and how filthy her body with unknown men and stds.
The Jim Bob cooter thing made me laugh because he was the Detroit lions defensive coordinator a few years back lol
You a HERO, sir. Good to know we guys win sometimes.
So satisfying… Watching the lawn being cut 😆 and the amazing soliloquy of precise revenge; psychologically emotionally and financially 🤣👏🏽
Even if his daughter finds out he left the shit out on purpose she’ll be more angry with the mom still
No way bro the devil 💀
You get everything plus the naughtyness you got before y’all had kids. You win bro, cheers!!🍀
GREAT story! Your a legend mate.
This is genius. I had a serious revenge plan when I discovered my wife's multiple affairs, but I didn't follow through. This was an inspiring story for me, thanks. My ex does deserve some notoriety though. Among some of the aggravating circumstances was finding out she was banging a guy when she was pregnant with our son. What a C u next Tuesday.
prenop
It deserves death to be honest....but no sweat you can get someone better than her easy ....you can get a stunner from south America easy
@@silence-humility-calmnessunfortunately in some countries you can’t get that privilege known as “prenup” ( example: india )
I love this podcasts. Keep going
Loved it! He was a true Genius and held his shit together!
The first story, I'm kind of torn on the issue with the kids, but I really don't care for the way it sounds like he gets his ex to have sex with him by feeding her hopes of getting back with him. So, I would put it as "NTA for the specific situation" ( I mean, duh, she cheated on him) but, he is *an* A-hole for other things.
Agreed, though I feel like he deserves to enjoy the same benefits of being an asshole, that the man she cheated on him with did.
Sometimes people can be assholes, but we don't blame them for being assholes.
Just as long as his experience doesn't make him a true asshole, and have him become a cheater in any future relationships like she was or try n do to another man what was done to him. As long as he's only an asshole to his deserving ex, it's understandable.
@@Trojianmaru based and factual
no, he aint no asshole for that, he is a moron for sleeping with his ex, letting his penis think for him, for the kids sake and for his ,he shouldn't do it, he got plenty of other tail, he got even with that woman to perfection, he should not be taking advantage of her on top of it,, not for her sake but for his own
"Cream of the stream" sounds so pornographic to me, that I giggle like a 3rd grader every episode. Keep up the good work! Love it!
LOVE IT!!! way to go brother!!
Hahaha this is awesome. You’re my hero.
That's just beast mode . Love it .
He is a savage. The man had to do all of this just to get custody or she would have got everything he got.
You sir, are a savage. handled this like Mortal kombat. Brutality, finish her! Justified in every single aspect. My hats off to you sir
Men are finally wising up to the way women are and learning to protect their assets and their children. I compliment the gentleman on his planning and not being emotional about the whole thing. He will remember this all his life and smile.
Story #1 was epic! I love how he got his revenge on his ex wife. Funny how she wanted him back once he was no longer interested in her. Typical female...
This op sounds like a super villain in the back round planing the downfall of someone else but it’s just some one getting even with their cheating ex.
Are the hoa members crazy
Last story is an absolutely brilliant example of nuclear revenge mad respect for this guy
This is beautiful. I want to glaze this story onto a plate.
Story 1: I have been personally subject to having parents that manipulated their children to turn on their parents. Funnily enough, the men never played that game, it was the women attached to them. I got to watch it unfold while I sat on the couch with my dad, step-father, and one my mom's exes going, "This is dumb." All of us stayed out of the fights, the arguments and general garbage but my poor siblings got caught in the mess, turning on one parent or another and sometimes the other siblings. I appreciate my fathers, I'm even friends with the ex and my now widowed step-father. While the cheating wife got her rear whooped and rightfully so, CHILDREN ARE OFF LIMITS! I actually despise the OP for this, it's not fair for the children to be manipulated in this way.
So you think the court will give the children to OP if hadnt done anything to keep them?
@@persephonegreen199x6, there are things he could have done that didn't involve intentionally leaking deforming information to his children. Rather than leaking the information, all he had to do was serve her with custody papers, show the evidence that the mother was the one who damaged the household, and he more than likely would have been granted sole custody. Now, depending on the age of the children involved, their voices do matter to an extent as to which parent they want to live with, but in this case because the father is actively providing care for the family while the wife was having a fling, the children's opinion would matter very little. (Been through a couple myself as a child if you haven't guessed)
I love am I the jerk
Love that you used lawn simulator for the background of this video lol
Handled the kids finding out perfectly. Truth sets you free
I don't think it was right, BUT it was a way to not get double shitted on. He needed the kids to stay because it would not be hard for her to find a way to come out on top.
you should save up to get your own radio podcast i love your videos and this would be better if heard from the car radio
This was GENIUS!
Bro this guy needs a whole podcast, a Netflix show, AND A FILM
I feel like if this was turned into a film, you'd only find it on pornhub, or late night cable. "man's loving wife is secretly another man's slut, so he destroys her entire life, dumps her, and makes her his slut. All while coming out looking like a paragon of virtue, even to her."
The last story I'll sue as soon as I got the papers
That last story is soooo satisfying.
This story was so satisfying.
Holy fuck I was feeling all that man's emotions through the first story, I got angry, and sad, and ended up satisfied and just hoping it will be revealed he planned all of that on her death bed 🤣
The first story I swear I’m not lying I’ve already heard this story from a CZcamsr called Steven d I promise go on his channel and he’s already told this story 2 years ago I knew every thing that was gonna happen the moment I heard the first paragraph of this story
OMG, this was brilliant!
Hell yes!!! I love this so much
I agree with you that he went too far when it came to the kids. If they had genuinely found out by accident, that would be one thing, but he did it deliberately and just made everyone believe it was an accident. That's still him lying, and it involved innocent bystanders, his own children. They deserve to have a good relationship with their mother, even if the mother does not deserve to have a good relationship with them, if that makes sense. He was in the wrong with that part, the rest, the stuff just between him and his ex, i can't fault him for.
The wife was lying first when she cheated on him. And she told her kids they just needed some time off. She never mentioned herself to her kids that she was cheating on their dad and that she was mocking and by doing that disrespecting him. That is lying, and it came from the wove first. The husband just revealed the truth, and the kids deserve to know. He didn't go too far. If it was me, i would've showed the kids the messages and told them the truth that she was an unloyal bitch right away. They deserve to know why he is filing for divorce. Also he just did what most women do these days. The wive deserves her fate. I don't get why people are trying to defend her or her honor
look you never how know how someone will react. not everyone has the same core values as yourself and with that been said some people go nuclear.
it wasnt good for the kids to stay wih a mother like that tho
I agree. This guy is garbage. Manipulative, ghaslight abusive mysoginistic garbage. I don't justify the wife AT ALL infidelity . She doesn't deserrve forgiveness. But she also doesn't deserve her entire life destroyed purposely for a human mistake
He is also being sexually abusive by using the illusion of coming back to get sex out of her, this guys is sick to the core
Who the F cuts their grass like that?
Absolute saint the first guy is. Bravo sir
You won my G. City boys and Suburban boys up. Rural boys always been up. Mad respect to all the boys out there winning righteously.
i get how husband would be mad for the cheating, but his revenge also went deeper then it should i think with children.
I agree, it was fair until it went to manipulating the kids and using them as a weapon against the wife. Do whatever you want to her but always keep the kiddos out :/
@@anonshi it was for custody not just to keep her away
@@anonshi and she shouldn't be viewed as a good person deserves her children hating her
@@anonshi nope he is in the right
Women use the children and the courts to destroy men every day. She cheated and destroyed the family by her own choice. If he didn’t get the kids on his side the ex could have manipulated him financially and emotionally. Fun fact if you don’t cheat you don’t lose everything.
Is anyone else getting annoyed watching the lawnmower not knowing what he/she is doing?
@efohp ioggsdfg I think my OCD came out 😂
What game is it?
ToT pure joy i am feeling now my morning is starting off good
They key here is to control your emotions, think rationally. Keep you head cool and plan everything accordingly. Most of us can’t do that so the results are different
You ARE NOT a jerk. You are THE MAN.
The HOA thing was brilliant. Depending on how long ago this was $750.00 wasn't enough. I would have wanted jail time as well. In fact, I hope they faced even more damages for the fraud.
The tree part would have had me absolutely irate!
The divorce story is rather sad. I have a problem with three parts.
1) The way he manipulated the kids. They had every right to know but that is going to damage them and their understanding of love and marriage. I don't know of a good way to tell something like this to kids but I don't like the way he did it.
2) That he cut down to half time in order to make the ex pay more in support. I can see him needing to cut back to half time for a period of up to a year but no more than that and not for the purpose of making her pay more but so that he could move on and help the kids adjust. Dwelling on hurt feelings only leads to magnifying them.
3) That he continued to lead her on even having her over for frisky adventures in bed. He should move on and allow her to do the same.
True, but I am already glad he single-handedly put them to stop and made them lose all their possessions. The way they acted, like they were "owed" that, really reminded me of the classic Indian call scams where they try to all your money, and get angry if they don't, since they view it as "their honest job"
He was okay until the end when he went on to say that he is still getting with her holding a carrot about them getting back together. I know she hurt you man, and you are right in everything else, but soon you are going to push the line and it will all come tumbling down.
Yeah, I'm surprised that part wasn't pointed out. He's still angry-banging her to mess with her head? I'm sorry, but that's really abusive. I think it's more of a ESH sitch.
I mean, he already knows she's a slut. She chose sex over her loving husband and family. She literally got off on the idea of cucking her loving husband with another man.
So if she wants to be a slut, if sex is so much more important than her own family, then why shouldn't he enjoy her the same way the other man did?
It's literally her own fault, she has nobody to blame but herself, and it's entirely up to him to decide when she's been punished enough.
@@KatRo13834 yeah. She is trying hard and deserves most of what she got but the part of him saying he gets hook up and still leads her on is uncalled for and will make things a living he'll for him once spouse actually finds out as it is now common knowledge. She will pass him through the grill, guilt or not for his actions and how premeditated he is making it all.
@@Saeiyu I think he is in the right there is never too much revenge
@@KatRo13834 Not abusive his wife dug her own grave
This guy pure GENIUS 🧠 very calm, and precise strategic Approach, SERIOUSLY 😳
I respect this man he handled it so perfectly didn’t go off on her and got all the benefits he didn’t go to far she was making fun of him then cheated
I'm just gonna say if I was cheated on like that I would end up in prison, props to this OP for being a bigger man
This happened to me but a friend was sleeping with my ex who I was trying for a baby with and when she got pregnant she said it wasn’t the right time and went cold on me and had an abortion,couple of months later we split up and her girlfriend told me that it wasn’t mine that’s why she got rid.