Steve Harvey Believes Women Don't Need To DO ANYTHING FOR BLACK MEN| Ep.82
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- Steve Harvey spit LIES during an impassioned conversation about the low-grade mindset held by some of the dating pool’s younger generation of men.
The multi-talented comedian, author and TV personality voiced his gripes with today’s young men while speaking with Shannon Sharp on the former NFL player’s podcast, Club Shay Shay.
As he pounded his hand on the table and sharply expressed his point of view, Harvey said, “These young boys today” needed to stop asking what women brought to the table and question themselves.
“That’s what’s wrong with this generation today. You got a woman that could come to the table [and] make another you. What else she need to slide up to the table with? What about your job? What happened to men who were supposed to be responsible? Do you know that it’s our job to take care of a woman and some children to have a family? That’s our damn job.”
The game show host emphasized that today’s men have forgotten the value of women because the latter sex has had to embrace independence due to a lack of quality partners in the dating pool.
To all the independent women out there who say they don’t need a man, Harvey asked why they wouldn’t want a partner to help them ease the burdens of life.
“But the system of marriage is still good. The system of a man taking care of a woman that’s really how it’s supposed to be. All the rest of it is bullshit, man. And y’all need to quit tricking y’all self with this new way of thinking. Cause this new way of thinking ain’t getting you no damn where I’m sorry.” - Zábava
Guys. Do you like the change we made with the off camera voices with Khuhani and Rachel? Let me know what you think in the comments!
Yeah it was cool for Rachel and Khuhani to chyme in off camera.
@@blockavelli THANKS SO MUCH BRO!
The set is definitely a good look. Appreciate the presentation, fr. The vocal spectators distinguish the discussion, and benefits the show; but, I'd definitely add some diversity to the VS area (like call-ins), to bring more entice & reality to the screen discussions.
*Because, at this point, you have 3 - 4 feminists in the building and 1 Elder(yourself) speaking on behalf of Us as a People; and, in all honesty, if we're going to reclaim Our narrative then, it's not a proper display. Just saying.
I appreciate this show for the raw unadulterated truth that it presents!
Thank You for that.
But, if this Show desires to be a solution...then; one must deal with the enemies #Invited!
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Great job, Monsieur Jackson!
Encore! 👍🏾
#TrueDealings
It's a good addition, it add more voices to the conversation
@@Kenganda I wanted to leave my comment as a Super Thanks contribution but it looks like that option isn't enabled on this channel for some reason. Am I missing something?
The table is an accountability meter.
She said : “Are you a leader?” Isn’t that just the woman’s version of “what do you bring to the table ?” And she attests that SHE is the table , so basically she’s asking “what can you bring to me ? “ .. but a man just has to look at you and know he’s getting a good woman ? … oh no no no no no beloved lol .
That is not what I said 😂
She looks like she ate everything on that table 😂
@@jamalj8660 wowwwww 💀💀💀
"We are the table" - Tina, a baby mama of 2!!
Sounds like a shaking scribbled up school desk to me😂😂😂
Bet the father is black si no surprise there.
Tina is very smart, well spoken, well traveled, from a good family, is good looking and having two kids (which is news), is a plus as that’s experience.
@@LetsTravellChannel u just a down bad simp😂😂
Overweight, hard headed
@@jamalj8660 she’s proportional you i…I have met small people who are overweight. She’s assertive not hard headed two different things
Oshay was on point 🎯🎯🎯🎯
Oshay is 100% right on this topic. A man should never be ashamed of stating his value. Especially a hard working man that went thru his trials. When is a man honored? The word investment should not bring insecurity to a relationship. A man should be the leader in a relationship and should not be discourage of speaking clearly and straight forward. You do this when you want to feminize a man. Which is wicked bc its backwards and why society is out of balance. Great job Oshay on sharing wisdom and intelligence on this💯
This is so sad that some "males" have been programmed to think this way. "Manhood is something that should already be there before having relationships with women.
Then a male does not have to
compete with, dominate, need her submissiveness to define him as a man or require women who look like him to compete with those who don't. Like vibration attracts like. There are plenty of high vibration (black) women.. If you are attracting low vibration women into your reality and experience then work on yourself, raise your vibration. We attract who we are.
Honorable men honor others and are honored automatically.
True leaders have no problem getting women to follow them...its what women want!
Just because a person is born with male body parts does not make him a leader.
A true leader is a leader in his own right.
When he speaks....people listen. He has respect because he IS respect.
This whole problem with the "table" question literally stems from women not wanting to be put in a position where they actually have to explain the benefits they bring to a relationship. So, they deflect and pretend they are above the conversation entirely. If a woman is reluctant to talk, I advise you to stay away from her.
Preach
Exactly! And the kicker is they started their whole conversation by telling men that they're "equal" to them which puts a male burden of performance on them. What a bunch of idiots!
Notice how only men who don’t bring much to the table who ask the question? When was the last time you saw a high value/rich man ask that?
@@themonsterwithin4000 You're talking monetary value to the table when it comes to men which is a given but when asked the same question to women they have absolutely nothing to bring to the table that a man wants because they have never had to bring anything but their used up selfish selves.
@@themonsterwithin4000 always
The table represents the relationship. Asking us to throw away the table means we all become pookie and ray ray. The question is asked to see how you think and if you're worth investing in!
Oshay went off! 👏🏾
Heated debate but mostly composed. Except for Oshay😅. Dj Maintain "Who hurt you"😂😂😂😂. What man says that?😊New respect for Tina, delusional doesn't usual come with such a calm demeanor.
lmaooo
Ooooh but, it does!
#serenedelusion
Dj maintain is a woman damn..no logical points whatsoever
Oshay I agree with you!!!!! The old folks use to say I can do bad by myself. I don’t need help doing that. I think it’s a legitimate question to ask what she brings to the table.
Oshay killed it. He really held the line for the men against the feminist and the simp.
Thank you Oshea. The only one on this episode that made any common sense.
Here for ODJ
The one married person (DJ Maintain) said his relationship works because they talked about everything up front and compromised. Then he said after he started making more, they sat down and developed a new compromise.
Simple. There is your answer. Men and women can be educated and make money or NOT, but they need compromise.
You have a bunch of single people trying to give advice on relationships…..hilarious
I heard him say his WIFE said we’re going half. So his wife made the decision for both of them and he complied. That leads me to believe the subsequent conversation went the same way.
She said she was a good Mother … oh , so you bring kids to the table ?? 📝
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Dude 😂😂😂 wtf. You very petty✌🏻. I laugh so hard I chocked 😂😂😂😂😂. Pls teach me how to be petty with these 304s
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Tina is big Shirley. Angry and wounded
Oshay was on point.👈 He kept it real!!👈👋👋👋
The guy in blue living his best "blue pill" Pander-bear life saying women are always right and don't dare challenge a woman's worth🤦🏿♂️
(1) Oshay was in rare form!! Bravo!!
(2) Tina's gaslighting isn't even a manipulation tactic anymore. At this point it's just full blown mental illness and god bless her in dealing with that.
(3)Maintain is a timid soul with the mindset of a male cheerleader but is clearly a good dude and means well.
(4) Joanita is gorgeous, extremely high IQ and extremely low integrity. She will become an even more skilled and harder to detect chameleon as she ages.
Amen!!! 🙏🏽
Enjoy the show. Why diagnose the whole crew?
Word on everything you said!
Perfect analysis ✊🏾
Fantastically Brilliant analysis 👏 👌 👍
Love this conversation.... Lived & Learnt !!!
We attract what we are...not what we want. So if the women you are attracting are these type of women....look at yourself. Its all vibration. You can not generalize. One LOVE
When did Steve Harvey become the voice piece for men? Some people are just clueless and shouldn't have a platform to speak!
I love this podcast man. Y’all should put this in audio format too.
Watching from KC,MO
interesting topic.
I'm listening to the Conversation, you speaking in fantasy world instead of what's been happening in real time
Oshay was cookin with all the pots and pans on this one. Rare form.
Brilliant podcast....Oshay is such a genius
Man that was a great show ‼️🤯
Oshay 💯💯💯💯💯 ... I am female btw .... give them a few more years they may get it
My Jamaican 🇯🇲 dad provided exceptionally. Exceptionally. My mom worked, but he stepped up. Its one of the best marriages ive ever seen. I need to start a podcast
Ah so you lucky .. |o|
My Black/African American father did the same. 😊
The BBW on this panel is delusional.
Greaaat show!
Words can be empty. So directly asking that question isn't logical. Engage and interact to see if the person exhibits traits you find beneficial.
Exactly, I think they are taking the question too literally. Nobody ever asked me that exact question
One thing I can say about Tina. She think she is smart but not smart enough to stick to her talking points and effectively elaborate with examples. She talk 3 different subject and is doesn't even make sense. She is chaotic. This is exactly why women need humble from forcing themself to lead men and learn their role. However, she is the first to say everything intelligent Oshay says dont make sense. Shame on DJ maintain for supporting these feminist that ignorantly doing the devil's work. A no thank you for helping destroy our society with the foolish feminist simp behavior. Thank God for Oshay experience and wisdom 💯
BRO O'SHEA IS RIGHT ON THIS ONE
👍👍👍The straight unadulterated approach by O'shea (genarally) has made me his fan and will remain so for along time.
Everyone had some valid point, however I have to agree with Oshay on this one. 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
It’s really sad that adults can’t articulate a simple point. It just show how disingenuous the folks on the panel are. O she is the only one who has made a coherent statement.
I’m on replay, and off top: shout out to DJ Maintain. It’s looking to me like he got it this one around holding a controversial but respectable line 💪🏽
Agree
Celestial wisdom.....they always go to the stars when they can't prove a point.
😂😂😂
Erm Sir celestial has nothing to do with the starts but go off
@Tina W it quite literally does ctfu. Google the word genius
MAINTAIN is essential
20:18
One of the reasons why oh man approaches a woman is because he may like what he sees. Unless he is a stalker, he is not going to know too much about the woman. So I believe it is smart to ask the woman questions to see if she will make a good girlfriend or wife. How many things are you going to know about a person if you don't ask them questions?
It may be a bit rude to begin a conversation with, what do you bring to the table? Other than asking a question like that straight out, you may want to ask questions to find out what she brings to the table. If a woman is interested in you, more than likely she will ask you about your money situation. Which is, what you are bringing to the table. By far, the woman is not the table. There should be contributions on both sides.
I like Tina I like maintain & Joanita, y'all all sound right, y'all makin sense makin good points, I miss Kim, wish Kim was still around, I like outa tuu he cool, I like this podcast, good show,
I don't mind the off camera mic wit Kuhani & Racheal but, I wldn't mind just a quick camera shot of them showin their face sayin hi tuu
Oshay brought it this episode ✊🏿🔥🍾
Haven't even watched yet seeing Oshay has some heat 🔥 Honestly for most guys in America in the Women/ Baby Mom topic as most our women had kids and most men are left single building wealth. We need something to make having someone to take care of attractive again. Faith and Love a lone use to but America really changed what Love and Marriage meant when Men still see it as eternally holy, not the possibility of changing out the soul meant for eternity.... Many men are trying to figure out why our women decide to leave so easily or be a track star. We try to make everything about us when really this is about our responsibility to the next generation. I personally believe more couples should try working out their issues, everyone should not have this type of feeling towards the person they had kids with if multiple ones are not involved. Divorce Laws have to change, and we probably need to make IUD more accessible in youth (20 - 24) so some grow into the right person
These men OSHAY is talking about have no problem sleeping with the women, even impregnating them and leaving them. These type of self centered men do not see your value. They want you to compete with women of other races etc. This clearly devalues black women. The men Oshay is talking about...(not all men are this way.).... are making it all about them. Competing for them, Auditioning and interviewing to be good enough for them. Sounds a bit narcissistic. I hope men out there are not being influenced by this.
This very thing is causing black women to go outside of their race to be treated with the value they should be. Or even to the same sex. It is not the woman who is the problem....IT IS THE MEN not knowing how to be men. So sad . Black men should be standing up for their women like all other races do instead of using them and trashing them.
Seems some of the programming from slavery and colonial times has stuck.
Oshay Duke Jackson annihilated that panel of feminists and Mr. blue pill. 😁
ODJ you keep saying thats a villiant point. The word is valid.
I was so eager that day I forgot my words thanks lol
Kudos and much respect to Maintain
Respect to mai rain for simping?😂 and for using female shaking language like " who hurt you" ? 😂. Maintain is a simp that was going 50/50 with his wife for years
@@TheSockbottom more life experience and a raise in consciousness will show that husband and wife are on the same team and there is no 50/ 50 only 100 /100. Loving and respecting your wife and feeling secure in your manhood that you don't have to dominate or compete with women but love and protect ❤ and cherish them instead does not make one a simp but makes him a real man
@@naturalmystic1075 life experience? Dude I got kids in high school fyi. Can we stop discussing men n women as equal. A women must first respect her husband before he can love her. Never the other way round. I guess only the Arabs get this concept 100%.
@@TheSockbottom I've been married 32 years. I have kids who graduated university 10 years ago. You have a LOT to learn. It's all good. You may or may not learn it in this lifetime. Love is unconditional. Maybe you have not experienced this type of love before. When you do it is beautiful. Love just is. You either love someone or you don't.
It's not about what the other person does for you ...IF this THEN that...
Conditions. That's not REAL love 🙂
You wouldn't understand.
It's all good.
How long have you been married again???
Make that 33 years of marriage. Just had an anniversary
😆 Aye, BossMan made the Crew stop Laughing!!!! 😆🙌🏾
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Modern day bringing life is a liability for a man. In the past it was an investment in the families future, labor, protection, leadership. An average woman use to put in work for the family, but now the average women are listening to a multimillion who can retire his wife on site. This is sad.
This lady in the yellow act like if she is a 10 or something Lord have mercy sister know you don't get all that you don't deserve all that you got some things to work on before you can deserve a high-value man
People love to qoute bible versus but will only pick and choose the verse they want to follow the bible also say no sex before marriage and to serve your husband.
Oshay is right.
Oshay is Right on point by "Keeping It Real"...!! 👌
The qualities of a virtuous woman according to the Bible are as follows:
She is trustworthy. ...
She is wise. ...
She is a hard worker. ...
She is a good manager. ...
She is a positive influence. ...
She cares about health. ...
She is faithful to God. ...
She is a loving mother
True Dealings 💯🙌🏾
plus a last thing : to be submissive !
@@Gamer-sv2mz cooperative*
#yourewelcome👍🏾
@@pandawolfpresents submissive is writen in the bible , sorry for you .
@@Gamer-sv2mz Written*!
#yourewelcome👍🏾
The lady in the yellow feels entitled….clearly.
Instead of asking “what do you bring to the table” just leave her. You don’t see the value in her already stop asking her to prove herself she’s already failed your expectation
I Must say oshay came through, He was straight to the point and didn't spare their feelings. He kept it real about providing and protecting a woman that deserve it. You can tell all the panelist on the couch and on the stream was silent because he called them and steve harvey on the bullshit. Steve Harvel got an inspiration life story, but relationship stories is shitty. Clearly steve harvey has no room to talk about marriage. He been married three times and disown his first wife and kids and settle for a queen pin. I Know because I'm from the same city cleveland which is where steve harvey is from. These women want simps with money, power and looks. He was right a broke guy that is average will do anything to be in a woman presence but a high value male no matter if he is average looking is going to require and want a woman to compete for his time, energy, attention, and money. Just how women want to go to these ivy league schools and buy the nice house and cars they have to qualify too for those things and being the applicant for the schools. Women don't like to be call on the bullshit because they didn’t a commonsense rebuttal to the question. Women want something for nothing and man are waking up and getting their confidence back and saying hell no to the games and bull-shit. These women were giving eboni k williams vibes. These women dont have the looks, money, credentials as her and wanting the same thing as eboni. Women are delusional. Fellas protect yourself at all times.
Damn 😮
a s8 lie
Notice how the ethnicities with the provider men don't do this bs.
if you bring life to the table which is ok btw, but what happens when you are barren? what happens then?
The more Oshay talk i see that he's been really hurt by woman taking his money,you need a therapist.
Lol okay
@Kenganda true Oshay, u might have unresolved issues that you need to deal with but I still support u brother 👍🏿🙏🏾
When the question is asked, "what do you bring to the table", it is really asking, "what do you bring to my life other than what I see". If you don't get asked the question, then the guy doesn't only cares about what he sees, and doesn't see you as a wife prospect.
It's good men have started wising up. I'm not in the dating market as I've been married for a long time. I don't see any benefit in commitment for my boys.
Taking relationship advice from someone divorced 2 or 3 times is foolish
I know y'all are on the Continent, but in America majority of black people are working class to working glass poor and now blue collar black are included. Y'all are not going to like this but everybody has to work in the household that's just facts.
True Dealings 💯🙌🏾
#Tellm
Nothing wrong with women working in Africa too. Just go to a typical African market and you'll see even the most traditional woman working but that doesn't mean they will be combative against their husbands. They will still stick to their role.
That's a lie. Blacks in america many of you are rich and famous.Steve Harvey is a great example
@@carlin_agyei you sound extremely (and I do mean the word)
Stupid!
#TrueDealings 💯
@@carlin_agyei Black entertainers don't make up the majority of black American!
I think Oshay and Tina would make the most interesting couple, they would always have action that there would never be a dull moment. In actuality people that are too passive and quiet become boring, but people who stand their ground are respected and admired. I think that they might first bumps heads, but eventually it would come to a better understanding and respect for each another. I just came to this conclusion after watching multiple of these series and seeing their interaction with each other and even seeing visually that they are compatible.
He is married though
And who said i approached you??? Nit all relationships starts with a man approaching the woman.. so throw that bs out the window
Women have given up their value by having sex with these men before marriage so now men like Oshay see marriage as a business transaction.
I would never COMPETE for a man!
Probably why you'll NEVER have the Man YOU want
No what you want them to be but what you NEED them to be
Women got no problem on the first date asking where a guy works and how much they make I think guy need to ask those tough questions on the first date as well. Why water time finding the right one for you. As a suggestion instead of asking a woman what they bring to the table, ask what's their vision of a good wife and mother. Ask what they think should be expected of them.
Oshay hit the nail on the head with his last couple comments.
This is such a feminine response. Real men don’t check a woman’s pockets. That’s the overall message Steve is trying to portray.
@Palmera Reynolds real men don't listen to women u til absolutely necessary. Yall make terrible choices and lie about everything. And ruin the community
Call me crazy but i thought the idea of "investing" in something meant it has explained AND shown its value and future ROI. And USUALLY "GOOD" investers have meetings to ask piercing questions of the board of said company they look to invest in BEFORE making ANY investment.
I personally think women base a lot of value on their appearance. A woman can live on just her beauty alone.
Maneuled and killed each other over women who were absolutely gorgeous, virgins, and had a better mindset on marriage. Those women did not divorce because they were unhappy.
Oshay is the 🐐 😂😂😂😂
Crazy thing is he ain’t lying
Oshay, thank you for checking DJ's SIMPING! Good hearted guy, but he knows what he's doing by constantly giving cover to the sisterhood....... and that's getting browning point with his wife. Grow a pair, bro. Coming from another happily married man.
Hey Everyone love the show! As an Artist a woman’s value is never in question. Africa does not need the red pill BS please 😂
It's not red pill it's just being truthful. Africa also doesn't need delusion
Dammmmmm when I saw the 1 hour feature film time. I knew you guys were gonna be cooking in this EP. Oshey had great points. Tina had great points. Jonita had great points. Dj M held it down this time. But what do I know? I’m just enjoying the conversation. It’s a deep convo that has many layers. Personally, I’ve never asked that question. “What do you bring to the table ?” Sometimes you can see what someone brings to the table before you guys go out. In 2023 everyone does a CRB & FBI check before they get with someone…👁️
You need to ask because what if the man gets sick,he may need she help until he gets back on his feet.
The value of womanhood is undervalued in this space and channel - the men in the space prefer a 75-25 ratio with 75% of life responsibilities lying on the woman and 25% live on the man. They will not take into account the full on responsibility of raising a human being, and running a household they will go to work and come home the same as you also going to work and coming home, but not cook not clean and only minimally and them selves with the children are not a legacy or love and female companionship is not a part of their value so we speak it amongst men who do value that. I’m actually not saying there’s anything wrong with that. There are plenty of women who are willing to sacrifice their lives, and their health to be a man’s maid without any monetary benefit..
Oshay continues to show us the difference between himself and a super simp on the podcast. Stay focused.
Oshay you didn’t kill them like you should have
punk remark
Put another way; what do you bring to a relationship? If there is a problem answering that it is a huge red flag.
Please remove the word “table” and insert the word “relationship”. Can you then say I am the relationship?
There is no marriage material on this show apart from Khuhani. The rest qualify for single mothers because of their beliefs. The fact that they over arguing with the guys trying to defend what guys think doesn't work for them, means they can't handle a traditional man. A man who can manage marriage is traditional to some extent. Otherwise, you can't be two men in the house.
I heard a lot of BFF (Black Female F...ery) from the ladies and some simping coming from the man who's a dj. Oshay kept it real on this episode! Women just feel they don't have to compete for men, and they don't think they should have to. The guy also needs to do a lot more research about Passport Bros. He went straight to the typical bs talking points about Passport Bros. He even said, "they didn't exhaust all of their options before leaving." Who cares if they did or didn't. If they've put in the work and have the option to leave, then that's their right. We're boots on the ground in the West and deal with the environment and culture daily, and have seen what it has become. I don't need to jump into a fire to understand I'll get burned. I can use critical thinking and common sense to understand the outcome that I seek is more likely to happen if I go to a different environment/culture that's more conducive for what I want.
O'shey saying that women ask men in their first couple of interactions about where they work, live and what car they drive. I don't think that men do not ask the same questions otherwise if the conversation is so one-sided then if that is the case then as a man I would not be pursuing that woman. I agree with Tina on some things but if I am married or have a live in arrangement then half and half would be my obvious solution unless one is earning more than the other. If it is dating then I am not going half and half.
I'd say it's all about how each man thinks of women. Steve is referring to natural love. When a man truly falls in love with a woman he doesn't compare her to anyone. He just wants to be with her and will do almost anything for her. Same goes for a woman. She also wants to make sure her man is taken care of as well but in a different way. If she's a good cook she'll love cooking for him etc. But don't get me wrong there are some women who are all about themself and just want to be taken care of without putting anything in.
And black men don't need to do shit for black women...it's that simple.
Y'all can't provide nothing for bw, because y'all have nothing. We don't need y'all in any way or form.
It's a date, first, second, or third. Super Simp, Steve Harvey. He wants to attack an easy target - Black men.
Thank you that roommate relationship is nothing but Adult girlscout boyscout situations 😅
How can you give your finances don't seem to provide love femininity and respect.
People misinterpret what the table is. The table is neither the man or the woman, that's why it's a table, something separate from you.
The table represents the relationship/ the marriage, what do you bring to this relationship/ marriage?
In order for the marriage to prosper, you both has to bring something positive and productive in order for it to prosper for both interests. One person shouldn't be the only person bringing something to the relationship/ marriage, otherwise what's the point in a marriage?
Tina speaks of the bible but she is picking out of the bible that suits her.
Ephesians 5:22 and 28
Both scriptures describes how BOTH the husband and wife should love each other, not 50/50 BS, 100/100.
1 Corinthians 13:4-7
It describes that love is the foundation of EVERYTHING, not money, not cars, not clothes, not houses, not how big his P is, not how big her A is, it is the TOTAL OF ALL.
Love includes everything, if it doesn't then it isn't love.
Women need to quit with this independent woman crap, everyone needs somebody, it is totally impossible to be in a relationship/ marriage and be independent.
Men doesn't use such terms in relationships, BW do.
Brothas don't fall for this what the women are saying, most women all over the world mission is to get the MAXIMUM for the MINIMUM to them not doing nothing at all.
This is what they are trying to change in the relationships, not how the Supreme Creator created it to be, they are trying to override The Creator.
All of the good relationships of love and order stopped, starting in the 60's then BW starting changing after that and TOTALLY REFUSE to admit THEIR HALF and TOTALLY REFUSE to fixed their part of the problem in the destruction of the African familyhood.
Fellas, FEMINISM is moving rampant throughout Africa and the world. A European concept that will eventually destroy African Familyhood.
Vet your potential spouse and family properly. Respect your body. Prepare financially before marrying. Have a proper plan in life and share that information with your potential spouse. Again, PROTECT/RESPECT YOUR BODY/HEALTH.
100 percent facts. Nobody wants to hear that though because it's actual work. We live in a shortcut/microwave society especially in Western culture. If you fail to plan then you plan to fail.
Honestly OShay doesn't seem to understand that he's actually looking for a mother and not a partner.
He complains that there will "be less/no sex" because of kids. He bellyaches about how the natural process of childrearing is an "inconvenience" to him- and it seemed if I understood correctly there, that he wants a woman with his childlren to grow 8 more arms to baby him through the process of perceived loss "while having children". He doesn't realize that his value is actually sex and just someone to support him for the most part- based on what he said He can't truly w ant kids.BC according to his own words and questions: he feels his wife should "nurture" him. What grown man needs to be nurtured. No children are to be "nurtured" Men are to be loved and supported - not NURTURED. That's a deficiency from your own childhood that now needs to be filled by you and your therapist.
Men Always ask me where do I work because I always have on Scrubs
Every woman wants a top 1-5% man but she is not supposed to do anything. What entitles them to get the top 1% man?