African American Single Moms Are Moving To Africa At a High Rate| Ep. 48
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- Our podcast explores the experiences of single African American mothers who have moved to Africa. We delve into the challenges they will face, and the cultural differences they will encounter. Join us as we discuss their courage and resilience in making this life-changing decision.
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African American moms choosing to move to Africa is a wise move on their part. The world is changing fast and raising kids well in the US is honestly getting harder in so many ways. Plus they still have an opportunity to impart their great cultural values into the children without having state interference.
Please help our long lost sisters...dress them in African Queenly Attire. Show them how pray to the Almighty to guide them in the correct path.
@@PartySearch247 Africa needs to help themselves. Their people are fleeing to the states in droves
Remember in Africa essas Mães solteiras não tem ajuda do governo. Cuidado com essa decisão.
@@ave383 Those are ppl that want new opportunities and it’s ok we shouldn’t shame ppl for wanting something new. Europeans move to America all the time that doesn’t mean Europe is a bad place. People just wanna try something new we live in a global society
Mothers single or married are some of the most resourceful and resilient people on earth! We are capable of anything… don’t underestimate us.
Agreed---I mean honestly- how. do you think our great grandmothers made it through the depression with racism, and 5-8 kids, in segregation on to modern times. Never any talk of black US men needing to step it up, as a whole too.
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Oh…here we go with this rhetoric. I moved with two children to Rwanda on my own. I have moved abroad before to the UAE. I’m educated, work hard, take care of my kids, and am proud of my accomplishments. O’Shay, brother, you can’t generalize. Not all single moms wear the same size shoe. Those who may be evicted in the states may have issues that others of us don’t. Why single moms are always a hot topic remains a mystery to me. For every single mom there’s a man who made her one whether it was through death, divorce, or etc. WE ARE HERE regardless of your feelings. There are plenty of us women who are business owners, employed, and doing our thing. I am one of them, and I’m for anyone with the right mentality moving to the continent.
Always looking for an exception to rules to justify bad behavior. Yes, he can and should generalize. For most single mothers there is a woman who chose it. Very few are from divorce or death. Most are the result of a woman exercising her unilateral right to have a bastard child. You being educated and in the UAE, taking of your children and being proud of your accomplishments does not change the fact that you deprived your children of the most basic birthright which is two biological parents full time in their lives. Being busines owners, employed, and doing your thing does not change the fact that you robbed your own children.
Thank you my beautiful queen, while men not only black in the west iam sure not all of them don't want women with kids I never cared. In Uganda I saw so many men remarry after broken, relationshps.
@@u.s.lawyer8542 You guys are the same men who shame black women for aborting children if they’re going to be born out of wedlock. So miss me with this nonsense. It takes two people to have a child. Just because your child is born out of wedlock does NOT mean that it needs to grow up without a father. The reason that happens is because the men are not in their child’s life. They are the ones choosing that decision. It’s disturbing to me how you guys constantly blame the one parent who actually stuck around. It’s like as if they gave birth on their own by magic. I love how you are saying all these cruel things to someone who would by all accounts is successful. It’s amazing that she was able to do all of that on her own. Sorry to break it to you but even if married, a lot of women these days are just married single mothers.
@@u.s.lawyer8542 no fool..the man does that..check the stats
Oshay shouldnt be there, he's spreading toxic hate, He's as disgusting as Kevin Samuels, Africa deserves better than his toxic little boy crap.
Please don't denegrate Black single mothers only, they didn't make these babies alone.
I am a Black British Ugandan and there are so many irresponsible Black men in the UK that have more than one baby mother and are not in their childrens lives. That needs to be discussed as well the single women raising children alone because a lot of our Black men are dead beat dads not facing up to their responsibilities.
Kill me
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So sad, why are they like this in the west? 💔😭
@@TheCeciD unfotunately, it's getting more and more so. Black women are constantly being criticised
From what I've seen the black American tradition is to blame everything on the woman. Hence why the men feel no shame in creating multiple single mothers. They know the community with blame the woman and make excuses for the man.
This is true! Even the mothers, because we just want peace and the wholesomeness that you can't get anywhere else except in Africa
Please don't come to Africa we are begging you. Stay in America, go to Europe, South America or Asia
@@UnitedPacci Why?
What about the peace of humanity though???
@@BreadAndWaterSurvivor Go somewhere else with that.
I am an African and I welcome AA moms with open arms. All the haters better shut up.
Where is the Black dad?
Maybe those Women wouldn't be Homeless If the dad was helping to take care of them.
Maybe those Black Women Could be More Feminine if they didn't have to do Everything OnTheir Own, since the dad abandoned their Child/Children.
Exactly 💯 but we know the black western men don't want to take accountability or responsibility for their actions
Lol . brother..you obviously haven't seen Africa..
It's not just about single women who can't make it in Africa, there are couple's with children who couldn't make it in Africa as well and don't forget the women who come to Africa with children and get married to African men. There are people on a wide spectrum who could not make it Africa, not just AA women.
It's mostly women that can't. Women in the US are used to getting the system to bail them out, whereas men find a way. Even if it means us taking on multiple jobs. Over 90% of single mothers survive off child support and government aid. Would the countries in Africa provide that same aid?
Always looking for an exception to rules to justify bad behavior.
The system doesn't pay the bills. We hustle hard to make ends meet. Good single parents, male or female, know how to get things done.
@@u.s.lawyer8542 EXACTLY!!!!!!
Exactly
The Oshay man is a perfect example of the many disrespectful black American men, who are trained by the enemy to speak in a condescending, negative way about their own women. Willy Lynch Syndrome is real and our peoples' spirits are out of order. We must wake up to who we are, the real Hebrew Israelites, the Most High's chosen seed, in order to transform our spirits to function the way the Most High intended. Start with the bible, which tells us how we are to conduct ourselves and the Most High's Ruach will do the rest. He will also lead any single mother on the continent and protect them, as this is His will being done. All praises to the Most High Yah!
You’re so right, l got that vibe.
What BS… the idea of BM calling out certain BW behavior …offends you. In Africa, other African women and men will call out ill behavior … because reflects on them . The bible had a answer …alright. Get marry before you carry. Treat your body like a Temple of God. Simple
@@esagas4954 What offends me is the way BM treat BW. Who do you think impregnated these BW single mothers?? The pot is calling the kettle black. BM and BW are the same people and must support, help and lift one another up. If you are not AA you have no clue of the battle against us; the Most High's true chosen. All nations, Hamites in Africa included, have conspired against us. But our Messiah will make things right soon .
@@esagas4954 What does poor evicted single mothers have to do with wealthy black women who happen to be single mothers moving to Africa? He’s literally bringing up negative things that aren’t even related just to embarrass black women. He doesn’t actually want to do anything meaningful. He never holds black men accountable. Do you know that in the US, 72% of black men have a child out of wedlock? Where is all the shame for them? Instead you’re shaming the women who stuck around and had to raise that child?
Keep your bible aside and use your brain to think.
Why do you make single women to be anything but normal people too. For every single woman out there , there is usually a man who absconded his responsibilites. As black men, we are the worst in terms of embracing family values. In the West the divorce rates among people of Arican descent are among the worst. In Africa, we have a lot of men who like to have side relationships and the only reason most sisters endure this is because they are financially dependend on the man for their livelihood.
The average man is going to marry any woman they feel compatible with regardless whether they have a kid/s or not. Granted if there a baby daddy who is problematic in the background then a man may think twice. We need more empathy than these holier than thou attitudes. We all have sisters or women we know who have been treated less than well by their significant others. Stop with the judgement.
Because he hates AA women and ignores the fact that we are the most educated group in America.
@@laurawilliams4087 I am glad us African men do not project this toxicity. The idea that if one or two black women hurt you then you project that to the entire population . The same applies to women too. We generalize too much. The internet is full of black men and women saying how the other is not good for them, meanwhile the other races watch from the sidelines and laugh at us.
These other races except Muslims have the same exact relationship problems maybe to different levels The only difference is they do not broadcast nonsense online denigrating their own women, daughters and mothers calling women Bs, hoes etc like a bagdge of honor. Too much self hatred that some black people need to unlearn.
@@muchit3629 yeh its sad
Well said. What is more, some of these so called men were raised by single-mothers themselves, yet have the audacity to trash single-mothers.
MUCHI T.WHO IS FILING FOR ALL OF THOSE DIVORCES? CRICKETS.
The African-American brother is wrong, he should be ashamed of the things he's saying about African-American women.
He wants the whole world to hate blk women. Look at him. BLK American men are treasonous
Like who wants him? Oshay, do the women in the US want you if you moved to Africa? @kenganda
Speaking as a Uk /Jamaican who left the UK 2010 moved to Jamaica only coming back to the Uk for 3 month periods just to earn and take money out , now travelling back and forth to Kenya for the last 5 years and want to settle there the American brother was most on Point for me , i only think you cannot stigmatize single women if they have the means and a good plan to elevate Uganda let them come.
Thank you for saying that, the stigmatisation was on another level.
@@amandathomas7825 no problems the truth should always be told plus many single mothers have made great contributions in this world , they are a part of it just as much as anyone else and deserve their portion of it where ever it may be😆👍
Elevate how lmao
@@kidjustice7945 if you don't know i can't tell you
That's right moms, save your children.
There should be a fallback plan for everything in life, and even when there seems to be non, life always has a way to provide "rock bottom" a fresh starting point in life(not to say they are all at rock bottom). For any black American who is looking for a fresh start, You have a base, and you have a culture that you can relate to here in Africa. it's your home no matter what people may say. And again, "fitting in" doesn't mean it will be smooth, it just means there is a way, so aim at it.
Agree!! I am glad I discovered the truth!! Our home!! Just feels so RIGHT IN MY SPIRIT! Ase gratitude!! ❤
@@Keys2SOAR I'm telling you, this is your home, challenges will be there, but you will fit in better than any other part of the world.
Gratitude @nelsonwelser you telling the truth. I meet smiling faces all the time and they are just kind to us really for no reason and when there is nothing to gain. Sometimes they just strike up conversation out of curiosity or to share information. Uganda is beautiful! My only regret as a brother said was not getting her sooner!!
Stop selling home to American black women. 90% are single due to her stubbornness working with a man and she got big daddy government she can use to ruin those black men in America. If you try that bullshyt in Africa, you will learn the hard way. The average African guy does not give 2 shiits about your American ways. Also only a broke poor African will marry a black woman with kids from the west. Virginity has value here if you can afford it.
Culture? What’s African and many different culture has to do with American culture ? You confusing have almost the same ton of skin with culture and you are dmb🤓🤡🙄
At the end of the day there's a God for all who seek him 🙏 and it all works out
The generalization of single mothers is crazy. Generalization of women period.
Shaq gives more credit for his Success to the dad who helped his single mom raise him then the biological father who made him.
Because unlike most black men he actually has sense. I can understand the foolish men who grow up hate their mothers and worship the men who abandoned them. Just sick in the head.
Before she's a single mother, she's a single woman. She too is deserving of love, honor and respect. If she uproots her family, exits America to move to Africa, she wants something better for herself and children. She deserves it. Stop the hateful narratives against single mothers. Big shout out to the African men who are not hateful toward single mothers.
What do you really mean by African men that are hateful to single mothers? What exactly are those African men doing or saying that suggest they are hateful towards single mothers?
@@skzanagate2980 Can you read properly?
Its not “hate” its just facts
Queen of Nubia ? Okay . As a Nubian from Aswan, African men are not hateful to single mother …for we only care if affects our culture. We respect our culture ; tradition; concept of marriage . We do not want single motherhood in our culture. Since you are not part of our culture…most will ignore..In cultures, African , Arabic, and Asian… single motherhood is not badge of honor and respect . If you think otherwise .. you are sadly mistaken.
@@esagas4954 Let's not forget the weak african men who sell their bodies to old nasty women. Damn, are their any self respecting African men on the continent. Anything goes in Africa 😆
I don't think DJ Maintain realizes that no matter what resources Black American women may have, they STILL want a man to have more, and if he doesn't he will most likely be for recreational use only. Men are naturally accustomed to people "eating off their plate" providing is what men naturally do. Most women will quickly become frustrated with providing for a grown man.
No. Men provide because that's the only option. If guys see free money, who is a fool.? This is Africa, so no child support, no govt help so they will submit AND pay bills when they could've just submitted in the west
Never satisfied is never satisfied
@@mikolowiskamikolowiska4993 spot on
@@mikolowiskamikolowiska4993I'm from America, I already know there is no "free money". If you move into HER house, eat HER food, you'll be nothing but the house dog that sleeps in the bed.
That’s what happens when you have kids out of wedlock
This man bash women on EVERY video...like he has met them alllllllll. Straight up showing his bitterness and pain. If it's not cool to generalize men...stop against woman. His whole stance is to rip the AA down. Like he literally monopolizes each conversation talking about his disdain for AA women. It's all negativity. How's a single mom looking for 6 figure guy when the cost-of-living is much more reasonable than the west. There isn't not ONE woman I know that would make that move WITH CHILDREN and not have things in order down to the school. The visceral hatred for AA woman is palatable, weird and disgusting. It's giving off bully vibes. No women are not perfect by no means, but the dragging is a epidemic. I only see African men hustling for their families whereas SOME AA men like to choose women that can take care of them as an extra child or a pimp (whichever he prefers to be considered), yet as she's providing he's cheating. SOME of these men get mad when she realizes he is NEVER gonna treat her right nor appreciate her. Some of these guys hate modern women, but refuse to be traditional men. Something gotta give on both sides. Oh and AA women haven't led in the stats with govt. assistance since the early 2000's. They don't qualify anymore because they actually have good jobs and the ones who don't work multiple jobs. This dude sound hella hurt and bitter. Can the rest of the host have a few moments to speak and finish a whole thought...damn.
actually you sound hurt and bitter writing a 1000 word essay in the comment section of someone you do not even know.
@@Kenganda Thanks for your opinion... you're definitely entitled to it. I was just speaking mine. I still stand on it regardless. Have a blessed day brother. I'll pray for you peace of mind, heart, spirit, physical wellness and as well for your lineage. Signing off from an AA woman to an AA man.
@@Kenganda Oh and thanks brother for taking the time to read my 1000 word essay. You are appreciated
@@ellea6461 a lot of you people want to remain in your dysfunction which is nobody in the black world takes our people serious. Nobody has time to be giving pity parties to people who just can't make the cut. No other community has the single mom issue like we do and that is why they rule over us. I do not care about you cry babies in these comment sections I am going to keep the heat on the community for abiding in the f-uckery that has held us back the last 60 years.
@@Kenganda Once again thanks for you opinion brother. We're both entitled to have them. Have a blessed weekend.
I feel pity for single mothers who are looked down upon or those being called old(everyone will get old nd should be mindful how they mock others) women Ladys its OK living Yr life without a man but with dignity nd spend Yr hard owned money on yourself nd Yr kids. Single omen club together nd hav fun raise r children well be happy.
Nobody feels pity for men single or not. Is it not okay with robbing children of the most basic birthright which is two biological parents full time in their lives.
Do you see how black American men are disrespectful to the women who birth and raise them? Then when a woman suggests that since they hate them so much maybe women should consider stop birthing them they lose their minds.
WHAT IS THE PROMOTION HERE?
CAN WE USE THIS MEDIA MEDIUM TO PROMOTE OUR PEOPLE? OR IS THIS THE BEST WE CAN DO?
Right.
O’Shay is showing his true colors. He’s not a uniter.
@@Tiger-zp8eq he’s just like Anton daniels and it shows
@@Tiger-zp8eq Yup, still on his same old grind, nothing new.
There are several African Americans living in African. Some have brought family members, some of these are single mothers and they have support from their family members and other retired African Americans in the African American community in Africa.
Human beings are complex. You guys are generalizing too much. Today's African society is complex and sophisticated.
Noted in the African American community in Africa
@@esagas4954 Why are you as a North African person running around saying all these things. I thought people in North Africa didn’t even think of themselves as black?
Get your money up, that's all i can say, Africa will expose your real net worth.
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You gotta know how yo generate income coming from USD while in Africa goes far to help fund your business and lifestyle
Good to see you @djmaintain 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
This is actually a shame for black men who keeps creating broken homes and blame everyone else but themselves at this point any black women who choose to risk it at have children with any black man your on your own my sister please choose security pick men in other communities
These ladies are picking these guys also so let's blame Black men for everything while most women have more than one child by more than one man in the black community. You need to get serious
@@Kenganda So what if they have a child by multiple men? I mean the divorce rate in the US is high for all races. It’s still a fatherless home because he chose it. Why are you guys infantilizing grown men? Even if she picked terribly, he’s the one choosing not to be in his own child’s life. The child is a separate conversation point. Even bums get their life together once they realize they have a child. Somehow those standards don’t apply to able bodied black men? Yikes! Every culture knows that you have to get your act together once you have a child. There is no excuses especially for men. You will be extremely shamed for it in our east African culture. It is shocking to see this rhetoric coming out of the mouth of black men. It shouldn’t be on women to shame men for creating fatherless homes. There should be 10,000 videos made by black men trying to counsel black men to be better fathers. Instead I see the opposite. Just shocking.
@@thezu9250 1000% Thank you,
@@khem127 It makes me laugh when they say to pick better when 72 percent of black men have children out of wedlock. Who exactly are they supposed to be picking? Once again, it’s on the man to be a father. You can pick the most amazing man and he could still change to be a deadbeat.
@@thezu9250 WHERE DID YOU GET THAT 72 PERCENT # FROM. PLEASE PROVIDE A REFERENCE FOR THA T STAT.
So true, Oshay! As a black American woman with no kids who is watching this show. I am looking to start a business on the continent of Africa! Their got to be an alternative to the United States!🙄🤷🏾♀️😎
How many cities/states have you lived in in the United States? Because there is no doubt that it will be 1000x easier starting a business (and maintaining it) in America as a woman as opposed to Africa.
America is a massive country with an unparalleled economic advantage. Don’t be so quick to give that up until you’ve explored other options.
I’m loving this podcast! Dr. Oshay, you’re speaking nothing but truth!!
Everybody, not just single mothers, who move to Africa need money! A steady income stream to sustain themselves. It’s not about gender.
I’m softening my stance on baby momma’s she just gotta be a millionaire that’s willing to invest!
Yes if you have kids pay up
Now that's funny
Absolutely
@@qjtvaddict dont be like this, not all single moms that way by choice
Oshay is the king of making false equivalencies. There is absolutely zero correlation between the eviction rates of black women and those black women choosing to repatriate
I thought his correlation was just idiocy. What an ignorant thing to say. Does he hate African American women?
@@maywest4uland826 I don’t know if he fully hates all black women but his sort and type clearly have issues with some black women. It’s the only logical conclusion to make after such an audacious reference.
This is the era of bashing and stereotyping black women. You notice Oshay didn’t say anything bad about Madonna. Deadbeat guys came up with that lie about black women not wanting a man because they have walked away from their kids! The majority of single mothers chose to keep their children instead of abandoning them like the biological fathers.
@@maywest4uland826 You should check out his CZcams channel. It’s full of that kind of negative generalization about black women. That’s how all these black men make money on the Internet these days. I’m actually disappointed he’s on this panel/this channel because they actually have genuinely good conversation topics but I can’t trust anything that comes out of his mouth. It just seems like another hustle.
@@maywest4uland826 I don't know, but I do know that he does'nt care how much damage he does to African American women.
Oshay my man! KEEP doing shows like this explaining the cultural differences in Africa because they are VERY important to your viewers in the Diaspora .Respect! 😎 👍🏾
They should. Black boys need to get humbled by harsher upbringing.
@@suezcontours6653 Huh?
@@suezcontours6653 They need education and a mother that knows how to choose a good father for them more than anything else.
Oshay, A.A. WOMEN are trying to find a SAFE SPACE. IT'S called MOTHERLY INSTINCTS. Iboga Ceremonies for reprogramming and automatic citizenship for all DIASPORA that completes Cultural Reboot.
African men are not simps ... but are very considerate
Preach brother
Excellent commentary...... very insightful .... 👍
American single mothers are usually the most resourceful. Many times it was her independent mindset that led to divorce or separation from the father of her child ..women leave men for the their lack of drive and laziness... If Kenyans and Ugandan are true hustlers than a single mother will have no problem. We love a man on his grind. No matter how much money he makes. She Just needs consistency.
Thanks for the lessons, all the ❤❤from Uganda 🇺🇬
Very wise move 👋👋👋
Lets keep mixing and multiplying
We have to marry each other and grow our race it doesn't matter what county let's keep up our black love 💕🥰🌹
I'm Ghanian and I approve this ❤️❤️🇬🇭🙏
Great show 🎉👍🏾!!!
The Single Moms with children from US is the promise to Abram being fulfilled. Please treat these divinely inspired women with respect and show them how to be real Nubian Queens.
Don’t disrespect real Nubians by comparing washed up leftover women to them
Please stop the psychotic BS. Niggas will anything to justify being losers.
Divine lol queens of the damned
I smell a Nigerian prince here...haha, if you are a broke boy just say so.
Can we stop using nubian queen, I am ethically nubian from egypt and it so werid to see this term used in such way by black Americans, nubian are ethical group that do exist they not fictional people. Just like moors they exist in west Africa
Personally, as a Ugandan man, I wd never dare date a single mom moreover from USA. They come with way too much baggage and no one has the patience to put up with that.
What Joan is saying is not in any way representative of our sentiments as men in Uganda - and Africa in general.
😂😂We are African American men who are more than willing to send them to Africa and send them to what ever country you wish. She doesn't have a clue the bs men in Africa would go through dealing with African American women, especially the ones coming with kids. She thinks men in the US are leaving to find wives in other countries because our women are so great. I will just say good luck and wish you men all the best.
African American women are the most educated group in America even more than black American men so they get jealous and talk down on us to other groups. Meanwhile they leave women of all races and cultures they date single mothers. They going to start leaving African women single mothers too.
@Laura Williams 😂😂 African American women are the most in debt and homelessness. An education means nothing when the men without an education are still making more money than you. I find it funny when that's every woman's go-to argument. Most women get what we call bs degrees and understand that men don't care about your degree. I see women crying to the government about loan forgiveness, but I don't see it from men.
@@cryptopharaohg7005 lol black American are the most jailed men in America. Y'all need to stop being thugs and get an education and a job. When I lived in predominantly black areas I saw black men selling drugs and killing each other all time. Black men literally put other black men in the GRAVE. A single mother is the least of y'all worries.
@Laura Williams and they are or were raised by black women. There's plenty of black women in jail and selling drugs. You also have the simp males who do shit for women, which either gets them killed or jail time. BTW most of you black women love those same guys and marry them. Apparently, it's seems like the women need the help.
I watch just to see Joanita Maaya and to hear her sweet voice. 💖
Another great show on a controversial topic! We are stronger as a people when we are married.
Definitely. We need more fully Black families.
African Men is not that we like single mothers this is a wrong word to use, we prefer childless women but don’t mind single mothers as long they appreciate the man.
A "single mother" is a failure. Great job Oshay
White and Latina and Asian single moms are on the rise with black biracials
Well say that to your country women 😢
@@ayokz8344 Nope. The women in my country are fine. They're doing what they're supposed to. We don't have that Feminism bullshit, their only job is to raise kids
deadbeat fathers are failures too
Oshay is full of it because the last thing those evicted women would do is emigrate to Africa. They don't have the money to do it. So him showing that video is only to make black American women look bad. He's doing what white people do when they tell Africans to stay away from the black Americans. Besides, the women that are moving to Africa have sold their homes and belongings to make a fresh start. I personally met one sister that retired from the military and was divorced with two kids and lives there on her military pension.
I honestly think he was rejected throughout his life by African American women. Hence his bitter tirades fully of false narratives. Black men married to beautiful Black women in the US don't act like this. Nor do Black men that get attention from Black women in the US. He likely truly needs therapy to get over his rejection trauma.
It would be best if you guys had Tina in this episode; I like when Oshay gets some pushback.
Yeah. I like Tina. Don't agree with a lot of what she says as a lot of it sounds like White feminism but I like that she's providing a different view.
@@kurokaizen1889 part 2 will be up soon with Tina
TINA is the ONLY one but we have to support her in the comments so the haters in the comments are checked. Otherwise Oshay tramples over the whole show with his personal rants on black american women while everyone looks on - as if he know all 22 million of black american women.
My black brothers I'm shame of the words I hear today. You have no convinced in your American Black women. We're always at the bottom. You men forget we don't get any support hardly anymore. Public Aid and government programs are almost nonexistent. I personally know many women who do great jobs as single moms. We have and make friends who help one another. It's sad there's no love with us as a whole. Know this young man, black sister have been making it for a long time because we are strong, smart, resilient, Focus, intelligent and very capable with the strength of God and his wisdom. Much of what I hear it's not a lot of love for the American sisters. Stop breaking our hearts.💔😭 Please brother give us some affirmation. ❤️🙏🏾
Oshay has double standards she his choice of woman fake hair, long nails, giraffe eyelashes, cake make up what does this say about him and the choose he’s making! Look more like the American woman he’s talking about. Gold diggers are everywhere
czcams.com/video/L86ObaYDDuc/video.html
Have you not seen his individual channel? All he doesn’t say terrible things about black American women. That’s why he’s talking about these poor single mothers that are being evicted. Anything to humiliate black women.
America always interjecting American values into conversations.our people need to come home so you should not be so negative . Our people on both sides need a lot of help. Africa can be healing for our people
Being a single mother is quite old especially in the old country, i.e. Nandi the mother of King Shaka Zulu...
The exception. Queen Nandi suffered a lot, the father of her child (King Shanka), did not want her and as a result she suffered. She only got respect only when her son was a king. As a Zulu man myself it will take the whole day for me to educate you how King Shaka became a king, it took a lot of killing other people, that little I can tell you. I said all of that to say single motherhood must never be celebrated because you will suffer from it.
@@gedenironald8635 yes I appreciate your comment. I am well aware of the process of how King Shaka ascended to the Zulu throne and there are worse stories of single mothers especially in the american Diaspora, oh boy!
this sounds exactly what single mothers in America go through except for the becoming kings part@@gedenironald8635
Oshay u get on my nerves…single mothers been holding their entire families down, in America, by themselves…we’re not that dumb!
You talked about state assistant! there exactly cutting back on on everything. Certain things you can't buy, you miss that article.
PS " It takes a village to raise a child" Where did that saying come from?
That concept is no longer acceptable. I came up in the '70s in NY, and that's how it was done. Any parent on that block could correct you and even make you go inside until your parents came home. Nowadays, if you do that, you'll have some angry black mother yelling, "If you have a problem with my child, you talk to me, not them." These kids also have the freedom to mouth off at elders, whereas when I was a kid, you would get your butt whipped.
4 arguments sake what's the difference Sngle women and young beautiful single ladys who hav played with so many men, married men, old men old granfathers etc etc.
Yes. America does not deserve our children. What's the problem? Africa is amazing. Black women and children without a father aren't diseased! They are families. They will go there and find a good man.
What's this all about?
You need to be serious. They can't even find a good man in the USA.
@@OshayDukeJackson They? I am one. I have been married for well over a decade to a good Black man. He is my rock. My friends and family are married to good Black men as well. We are not a separate entity from our men. I hope you are not pushing this false narrative. I know too many wonderful Black couples from so many places in America and abroad who are healthy and thriving. With or without having blended families. Maybe that's what I attract because I am that as well. Hmm. Anyway, I just don't see where all this negativity for Children and Black women is coming from. Children, when raised well with love and discipline are your greatest investments. You should be caring for Black children in general as a man, a protector. Our children are worthy of love no matter their circumstance. It doesn't even take much. BP loving on each other from where ever they are or how ever many children they have outside or within marriage should not be an issue of negativity. You Brotha's with these platforms may not be ready to give your all to anyone anyway because your lack basic normal tenderness, and should focus on repairing and maintaining Black communities while healing your heart. Build with your Brotha, grow with your woman, prosper as a community. This is more important than this news here. You Brotha's need to start loving and respecting each other so you can have value for each other again. Women will fall in line. It's only natural. Let Black mothers with children go where they are welcomed and treated with respect. What better place than Africa?
Every Blue moon, even I agree with nearly every word the Duke says. It aint often. but it happens :)
How can an African American man(Oshay) argue about African men with an African woman???? Ijs
The single parent rhetoric and trend to bash is barbage(bs and garbage ) half the damn world single parents (widow , divorced, abandoned etc ) however people gonna miss their blessings with judging. Not gonna have family nor a mate just alone. Too good to leap out on Faith . The reason people are f’d up because they look backwards but forward.
I actually learned a lot on this episode Good job
I don't believe this at all,why put this rhetoric out ..
Why is the lady so quiet??? The guy in the hat is getting things confused. 'Single Mom' does not mean the woman is unable to cope with life and change and challenges. also, getting married may hold her back more than help her.
Do you know all African Americans. To know most can't do it.
You got something against single black mothers.
and Another one ☝🏿 Great show peoples 👊🏿
Money makes any relocating easier. Having contacts is a added blessing . Having neither simply means please just stay home . Trying to ice skate uphill is just crazy . Leaving a countey with safety nets to go to a country with none is a big risk . The will to win is not as important as the will to plan to win . Get a good plan before ypu leave to relocate .
You're absolutely right.
I think anyone who doesn't think like this is nuts.
I think The Dark Continent is best for my people in general. The peace of mind can not be monetized. Also some parts of Kemet and Kush should be perfect destinations.
Your only talking about a very small portion of single black women with kids, and with what skills. The majority of black women are working class, to working class poor.
Exactly! Oshay hates black American women so he lies to put us down. I hope Africans catch on to the truth.
Alot of African single mothers in Africa and here
A Caribbean Connection, The Sister say it, It's Free Freeling, If one can Assimilate anything can happen..
The black man gets his passport now the black woman is getting a passport. If both groups are happy more power to them. Look at the numbers before we kill the idea.
Oshay is making sense. Africa is harder to Africans living in Africa. Imagine those who are new to Africa.
Marriage is key yes,family is a key.
If this is true it will be interesting to see how it works out
He said "I don't believe in single motherhood" What? What exactly does that mean?
Why does Oshay think he can speak for black American women? He is not the authority on black western women. He’s fooling himself and his listeners.
In African society, single moms are often shunned..or rather you would not be taken seriously. In many cultures in Africa, they have a special name for single moms...it's not nice. However, in light of current economic times, a single mom from America can make it far in East Africa, because of the value of the currency - in this case, she is bringing something to the table; better currency and possibly of being an American citizen.
However, the American single mom must remember that African men are often more masculine and will demand certain traditional behaviours expected of a good wife. Should she not behave accordingly, the situation would end up downhill.
So why are there so many single moms in African countries?
No, thanks. I would never what to be with anyone who feels I am less of a human because I am alone with my child. Let me put my stiff wig on
And if/when the single mom's kids get sick? How good are the facilities compared to the US, UK, other countries?
They don't. This is a topic that was completely made up. Single moms from the US are not moving to any African country in mass numbers. There is no incentive or reason for them to do so. Most are in the US, working, educating themselves and their children, and living life.
Majority of the time in Africa Single Mothers are frowned upon.
Single fathers nd single men join forces nd change the narrative, let's make room for everyone without always being so JUDGMENTAL HV AN OPEN MIND GUYZ. LETS MAKE THE WORLD A HAPPIER PLACE
Correction. "Single fathers nd single women".
Love Brits guy his unjudgmental nd open minded but than again Brits mingle with eachother regardless of colour so guess this is why they are more open minded
Yes it is frown upon but you still habe lots of african marrying single mothers or women with children. Divorce or widowed women
Africains men don't mind marrying single mothers. If she's okay, that's good enough. It is a plus if that woman can make "his" children on top.
Some of these women have the worst attitude's on the planet
Only from thir countries not outsiders
African men don't mind single mothers as long as they decent and good wife
@@citizenm9590 but single mothers from their own countries not from USA or elsewhere
@@kennykross3306 not really they don't mind women from America because she brings a lot to the table for his future offspring they can go to America and men is about his legacy if she can have children's is even better
YES
Peace Single Black American dads are moving to Africa as well in the quest for true love and family!!!
Imagine single mom who end up seeing her baby dady in africa 😂
@@sakurakou2009 that would be cool!!!
I think it's a good deal for both sides
I believe you missed the point of raising their children with different values.
African values are still very outstanding as regards to human to human relations.
Oshay let's get Wode Maya on the podcast 👏🏿
Send him an invite. He will come. Do you know his email?
He appeared on our pan African dating show he’s coming back he’s up country
During the pandemic many were affected. They had rental assistance programs to assist. I would like to see those numbers prior to the pandemic because many people who owned homes and businesses went through foreclosure and Businesses were shut down. So I don’t think these stats during the pandemic is actually accurate.
Oneafrica onepeople onelove Oneunity ✌
One utopia
lol @ 35:23 mark at Joanita's reply to Oshay. Joanita I understand why you said that. Based on your experience Joanita you should marry a Black American (ADOS/FBA) man or a Black British Caribbean man. You should tell DJ Maintain or Oshay to hook you up with one of their friends that they know would be compatible with you.
I admire the moms them moving there kids
out of a society thats in a big decline, ie
terrible schools, few good jobs, racist police
terror, crime and lots of gun crime!!!!!! Can u
blame them???? I salute these brave mothers
who really want the best for their children.
Eugene Charrington you speak the truth!
@@GodsChild1159 Thanks for the compliment! Yes, the USA has had
her day now, the decline is on, the
cleaning lady in my building son
was murdered, ive found bullets
In my neighborhood. There was
also a killing in the mini mall
across the street. Great country??????
i agree
really? I heard cost of school education in Africa is astronomical..🤔
She’s living in South Africa now sis
Joanita Maaya❤What a beautiful woman. ❤
Tombstone: Curly Bill said, "well bye".
Becoming a step dad is cosigning on a loan for what does not belong to you in the first place
You know you can actually grow to love children that are not biologically ours? People adopt children all the time.
Oshay is the only person who speaks reality. Maintain needs replaced.
What income affords the nanny, driver and cook?
And what are they bringing to the table?????
Whay does an African need to develop if he has a college education on his own land? He becomes a resource and has experience same as America. If a foreigner came to America and hired a college educated American how would they american need to develop if he has american college education 🤔
Brother Oshay holding up the mirror again!!!! Keep it going
Holding the mirror up to himself???? I don't think so. That would be helpful.
That's a good move they can raise their children to be accountable....Their children especially the daughters can be taught not to choose pookie dookies like they did...
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How? What role model?
@@ronniewamala5768 The boys will get humbled by the African upbringing and stop blaming women for their shortcomings. One thing I respect about African men is they don't do that.
@@suezcontours6653 And one thing I respect is a woman be accountable for the decisions they make... Over 50% of hlk men in America are single childless and are middle class or higher income.....We are held accountable if we make children out of wedlock through the court system....The beauty of Africa is there is no safety net, you choose a loser bum and lay up with him you won't get a government bailout....
@@suezcontours6653 Because their culture won't allow that lol. They will have no choice but to listen to their uncles, cousins or someone in the village will discipline them. It's not the same.
Single Mothers strt up your own Day centres
Sure and their own support system
Whats the Ugandan income equivalent to US six figures?
If you earn $100K USD/yr that's approximately 367,812, 000 UGX (Ugandan Shillings)
Bring Wode Maya on the podcast
She must NEVER EVER speak on our behalf as African Men. Perhaps in her country, the men are simps, not the rest of us.
There are a lot of African simps all across the continent.
Look bottom line it is not the money you go with , its the money you generate while you are living there, let alone being able to get the residency to stay, people will not help because when they see you come to there country they expect you to help them , once you can't you will not recieve help of any form under most circumtances, so have a good plan of action in terms of all your ducks in a row.