CONVINCING MY FAMILY TO MOVE TO GHANA
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- čas přidán 5. 09. 2024
- My family is in Ghana right now so I had to do the obvious thing and put them on the spot as to why they haven't moved to Ghana yet.
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Paving the way is not for everyone. And most of us who end up doing it didn't really set out to do it. This is exactly the thought process my husband and I had to go through before we moved to Senegal. We had to evaluate the lifestyle changes, financial, conveniences, etc. In the end we knew there would be an uncomfortable phase but the vision we had to create the things we wanted here, and the ease with which we were able to do it outweighed all the other stuffs.
There's a solution to lights out...solar. There's a solution to not finding employment...create multiple businesses. Yes, the way things are done is different, but there's always a workaround or someone you know that can hook you up with a connect at the bank or phone company so you can cut the 4 hr line. But at the end of the day, it's a matter of doing what you want to do.
If excuses and reasons stop you from making a move, then it's not what you want to do. And that's okay. If and when they really want to move, they will, and nothing will stop them. They just gotta get over the mental hump that is fear of the unknown.
Very well said, especially the part about workarounds (establishing a network of friends to get things done)...for me, that's an absolute must even before making the move.
Yes yes yes ,you very correct
Where there is a problem there is an opportunity....WAKE UP, BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE.
Great video...Ghana is not for everyone, we are conditioned to the luxuries found abroad in the UK, US, etc. and that is fine. However, I seriously think we should consider investing in the motherland. Why not invest in our own? Why continue to spend your hard earned money in countries that you know don't like you? So, why not consider building rental apartments, buying land, open a business, etc. I. believe if you plan it right, you can keep your businesses running abroad and live a much more relaxed life in Ghana, using your UK pounds or US dollars...the only issues would be the trade off in terms of good roads, good customer service, etc. Who knows, maybe in a few years the brothers may revisit their decisions after Ghana has evolved a bit more. We also need to remember that in the 50's and 60's in England they didn't have showers, most people took one bath a week and before then, they had bath houses...yet people lived with it until things improved. I will make the move to Ghana and help them improve by contributing my knowledge to the country until things get better. Let's invest in our own. -- Thanks for another great video Dela...I hope wifey and I run into you in the mall. 😂
You never know! 😉
I really see how Blk women are leaders. Blk women will venture into the unknown and take risk to pioneer making business, build an infrastructure for themselves, their children despite the issues they may face in holding up a family, building a house, and even in separation being in another country from what they know. Dela, You Rock!
But Dela was there with her husband the entire time, her husband was in the building process as well. The divorce is recent.
@@Yvanylda There are sacrifices Dela made that from someone that understands the work women do behind the scenes is foundation to how things look in front of a camera or to what is shown. Also I was around when Dela used her platform to gain access to funds for schooling for her child. She had that resource. Im not saying men are not helpful and aren't there but it is time for so many of you to stop disregarding Blk women and the work and sacrifices we make. Who and what keeps things going in hard times is a Blk woman and her strength, diligence, and subsistence. Give Dela her flowers.
Black men have moved too stop the cap it’s not a gender thing
@@efreeholdings1575 I was just stating a fact. And why, saying that she went with her husband am I disregarding black women? I am 💯 for black women and 💯 for black love.
Traveling to Africa with kids + your black husband is completely different than traveling without him. Please, even though he is no longer a part of her life, let's not ignore all of his contribution.
💐 to Dela, 🫅🏿👸🏾 💪🏾 for black love.
Stop this Woman Vs Man thing, this is not a competition.
@@Yvanylda This is where you show your psychosis and your subconscious disregard for Blk women. Noone said anything derogatory about her husband. I said despite all, a Blk woman is usually holding down the foundation. Either you do not have proper deductive reasoning or you fail to read it properly. Giving a Blk woman flowers and showing us love is not Blk women against Blk men. In fact, Blk males are to be saying the same things but they spew the upmost hate in many cases. So really you are showing you have a problem with Blk women even when you maybe one.
We know many are programmed to disregard Blk women and weaponize Blk women speaking good upon other Blk women . Please move on from this point because I do not think in masculine terms like you seem to do.
The mindset is everything. Don't go looking for a job, every challenge creates an opportunity. Look at solutions.
I spent 6 weeks in GH last year and it’s not cheap to live there. First your accommodation and transportation must be sorted out. Then a way to make money. It’s possible to make the transition if these 3 factors are sorted out.
As a nurse your cousin can do travel nursing in the US and have flexibility to spend more time in GH to build and scope out what business opportunities are on the ground.
Wow very insightful. I think it’s very important to be realistic.
You have a nice looking family, I think the challenge for Ghanaians trying to move to Ghana is the opportunities are limited, we need people in agriculture and production, and even then,you have to arrange your capital supply. And have multiple income streams.
People with professions in the service
Sector and creative sector who expect to be employed cannot Currently be assured of that.
For now it's better to come on holidays and travel around lthe country and look for opportunities, stuff that you see a gap in the economy, but the other challenge is culture and language, and understanding you will be looked as a walking ATM,but we Ghanaian cannot expect others to make our country a paradise, only we should do it, otherwise the Ghanaian diaspora will be "neither here or there"
Natural Ghana Girl is a trooper in the family, and your brothers are not that strong to live in Ghana. I honestly think the UK has spoiled your brothers. But life is not always straightforward; all you can do is plan and go for it. Forget the excuses.
Thank you 😊. I wouldn’t say they are not that strong, I think they just have some concerns about how they could continue to run the businesses they already have without having to start over. They both really love Ghana though.
To each their own. If you don't really have anything lucrative doing in ghana, u can't just pack up and move to gh , so u can't crucify these guys. Ghana is not for everyone. Dela is a woman to be admired. Proud of you and how well you are doing. Well done. 👏👏
Thank you 🙏🏾
There is a celebrated artist, Ibrahim Mahama, who is making impact in Tamale. Making back may not be for everyone, but most who do are enjoying it. Best wishes ao all.
This was so lovely ❤️
Your brother's weren't quite convinced about moving... but your cousin just needs a little push... 1 out of 3 is not bad. Come on Dela - get pushing.
Hahaha pushing right now lol
@@moretodela you never know ,they may get there before her, you really never know
@@moretodela nowadays delivering and administering vitamins to rich folk has become a trend. She could open her own business of selling vitamins and be an on call for the wealthy who need a drip of vit c etc. Maybe you can tell her about this idea
Moving to africa is a mindset . Its a journey not everyone can make. Its for the strong minded and not the weak. When u have been colonized in the mind for soo long and u can,t free urself its sad, Living in the west is living in a box. The west enslaves u . U live like a robot . Its takes a a certain kind of person to free urself and ur mind . Not manycan make that journey. Africa is free and raw .
Please ask your brothers what they think about Ghanaians who have never left the Country, but are very successful in Ghana. I live in the UK, and I believe the reason we do not want to go back, is that we are weak and not strong enough to make it in Africa.
There's no way to go Africa excepting the west, adjustment would have to be made to avoid constant comparisons and complaining so mindset does matter. It obvious the siblings are more cultural western so that will make it more difficult to relocate..
Great segment and perspective. But it's quite obvious they are conditioned in their mindset and they are not ready to leave their comfort zone.
This conversation is very touchy. I am planning on moving back home but understand the need to have certain personal infrastructure that is not so heavily reliant on the Ghanaian government. I think Dean and your cousin are more amenable than your brother in yellow as he has to factor in his wife and children. Dela is a trailblazer and I don’t think it has been easy separating from family but ultimately I believe moving back to Ghana and building it up to the standard that people would want to migrate is the goal ❤
Della ..what a lovely come together with your family from the diaspora ..listen the best thing you can do for them now ( as their not ready now to locate ) is to help them buy a land or a house ( property ) for themself now ..they will thank you in the future when they are ready to come back home to the motherland !! Ghana .seriously 🙏
Ghana is for extended vacations. If you have money and stable income you can live there. If you don’t have steady money, well..
Lovely to meet some of your family members. They have valid reasons for not moving to Ghana but on the flip side you are proof the move can happen. I feel at least one of them will be joining you soon!
Gosh I really hope so!
Remote job with Pound/dollar salary + Starlink internet in Ghana will making living comfortable.
This was so good. Thank you Dela!
Glad they were honest while still being respectful. They make some good points.
It's so interesting to see how life genuinely makes sense differently for different people.
I definitely agree with your brothers when it comes to some people moving to the West is genuinely a better fit for them as long as they know what they want to do. Every place has its unique issues.
Glad Ghana called you back home though Dela! Your journey has been such a blessing to witness.
Thank you 🙏🏾
Totally enjoyed this & especially Dela who has proven you can more than survive & thrive in the motherland & be happier closer to home 🇬🇭 ✌🏾
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My family is the same, when speaking about Repatriation, there are problems for every solution.
The fire that Black men are supposed to have in their bellies for establishing our own nations and systems, WE HAVE LOST! We have allowed Europeans to extinguish (through employment and education) any hope our forefathers has for us to contribute to the building of our own economies and systems that could rival the West.
I wouldn’t dare raise my children in America one day longer than is necessary!
We have become slaves to their convenience.
Much respect to all of the sisters, returning to the continent and contributing to the future of Africa and its people!
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Dela my dear daughter, you have a beautiful family. I hope your family change their minds in good time. Lovely conversation. From a fellow Erveh living in the UK. Akpé♥️✨️
Your family is gorgeous!
Your cousin who is a nurse could learn nutrition and become a Physian's Assistant. Doctors who incorporate nutrition in there practice get paid a lot in the USA so I am sure she could get a good practice going there in Ghana.
Your brother could sell his art on*line.
Before they can take that bold steps to move to Ghana they have to build a system that help them in the motherland
This is a great conversation with your family members. The unseen peaceful rays of light radiating out of you all was amazing. This is a great family.
Thank you
Right? You could feel the harmony between them
Great interview, Dela and you do have some fine people in your family. Re. the subject matter, all I heard from your brothers were "excuses, excuses, excuses" (Kobe would have watched and said "Soft"). Anyways, relocation is not for everyone and people in different stages of life would have varying levels of confidence to make the leap. They have to do their thing and not rush. One truth you said is those who want perfect conditions would never do anything radical.
Internet… light off..??? So how do the thousands of other companies manage?
They have contingencies in place such as generators or back up portable internet.
Each to their own but the U.K. is NOT an easy place either, especially now. Everything is expensive in the UK and nurses are not being given pay rises.
Your brother in the yellow seems set on not wanting to go, so I think any reason would be a reason.
Anywho Dela, your younger brother resembles some of your children, strong genes.
And your cousin's question on nursing - there are lots private clinics, such as Nyaho, Lucca Health.
I was actually talking to my brother today and he really would like to move here eventually. Even his wife too. Hopefully I’ve at least planted a seed.
I feel they are all doing great abroad. All they need to do is to save some of their earnings and invest them in Ghana. Buy some assets, build rental apartments, get into partnership with cash crop farmers etc and they wouldn't even have to work much in Ghana.
That is if they want to experience Ghana they you are.
Very nice family Dela💜How many people need property management in GH from the US/UK? How much art flies around GH constantly drawing people in? Let's not talk about clinics that are needed in up and coming communities? There are opportunities and challenges to say the least
@akuastruth 💯
Back to Africa is an awakening or a sense of an individual meaning of life. Moving back to Africa is beyond the physical aspect of it. Dela, you are doing your part to expose them to the new Africa but I see you are kicking against the goads. However they are honest, awesome talk!
She sure is!! We sure need to subscribe to a unifying principle that no matter what we will stick it together to make it better for the future generations. That easy talk though cause I am not sure who is willing to put in all that work.
I’m in the states too,your cousin Emefa is an eye candy 😍.
Such a Beautiful Family. Home will always be important, but you don't know what the future holds💞💞...
Good panel discussion! I believe that diasporas are well set to stay in the diaspora. There is no need for everyone to repatriate. If you are fine and happy in the U.S. or Britain, there is no reason to have a discussion on whether you should return to the land of our ancestors.
Y’all are such a beautiful family. Great interview. ❤️🖤💚
Thank you
I can understand the concerns of your family members. They have to arrive at the mindset that 'they are leaving no matter what!' Then face whatever comes your way.
I left the UK but am still in Babylon (Australia). It's my intention to leave here when I am able to.
What I know is that when you grow older and come from a migrant background and value it. You don't want to spend the rest of your life in another man's land.
Moving back (I don't hail from Ghana) will be a big change and for me will probably be a step down, but I'm okay with that. At least I will be where I want to be, not some place else.
I remember your brother (the software engineer from a previous episode).
In Nigeria, they have radio and television channels that broadcast in a variety of local languages. I would imagine you have the same "setup" in Ghana. No need to feel deprived of hearing Ewe.
Dela you have a nice family. Your cousin looks so much like you minus her American accent which I love. About people feeling much safer in Ghana than in America where they will be shot, sometimes I am a bit uncertain when some of your guests say that. You see I leave in Ghana now but America is home and where I live in America, I am not afraid to go for a walk, go to the Mall, go to the park because there isn’t that kind of violence in the city where I live. I don’t have security system around my house or in the windows and I get a good night sleep.
Here in Ghana I have all kinds of security systems in and around my house. However, I still love Ghana and enjoy living here especially the cost of living is so low for me and my income goes very far. America will continue to be home and I feel blessed that I am able to go back and forth between the two countries where I have family in both countries.
I really enjoyed this family time.
This conversation is so educative and a great eye opener for those in the diaspora. I have really enjoyed it. Thanks so much Natural Ghana Girl💕👍🏾
Awesome video, thanks for sharing, you are all AMAZING! BEAUTIFUL FAMILY!
Thank you
Thank you for the interview, what a different perspective. Obviously those two Black men donot have the fear and concerns of men in America, one brother mentioned gallery, visiting other Europeans countries wouldnot be 20 on most Americans list. Your cousin will have to be self sufficient i doubt any medical facility could ever pay her so she will have to start a business.
I also never gave going back home any consideration when I was in my twenties. I am obviously generalizing here, but men for the most part, don’t always think big picture. It was my wife who forced the conversion on me and I am so grateful that she did. The timing was also right because I was older and the conversion revolved around where we wanted to retire. Obviously a conversation like that wouldn’t make sense when you are in your twenties. Bike ride facilities make more sense then. My wife grew up in England and I moved to the states as a teenager. We live in the States and agreed that the west is not where we wanted to retire.
I am not a western world basher but the culture will lure you into focusing on superficial things that your literally have to work around the clock to maintain.
I think if you live in the west and have roots in Africa, you should definitely have repatriation conversations.
Or maybe acquire land, at the least. That is how people build generational wealth even in western countries.
There's no place on planet Earth where there isn't any problems, please I know for a fact that it is in UK that if you should be going through life challenges you can get a little help from the government which even is a peanut compared to the numerous taxes that they take from you in almost everything, but here in Ghana , this is where anybody at all can lend you a helping hand to pick yourself up if you know how to get by , but not in the UK, each man for himself is what I learnt from that place, you definitely learn to be very stingy and to fake your life, will always choose home over that place anytime a place where you can never feel belonged even though you feel like you are part of them in a way .. Dela you did the right thing , in Ghana we move !
Awww 🥰 my ewe siblings 🤗. Mia woe dzor looo👏🏾. Greetings from the USA. I come from Keta/Anyarko ❤
My mum's home town is Anyarko
Very nice conversation. I also missed my 8 siblings so much and can't wait to move back home.
Its lovely seeing beautiful family members and i enjoyed this convo. Im shook by how your eldest daughter is a copy of your younger brother in green tshirt. I was surprised when you mention in the other video that your kids and brother's kids are playing at your dad's house. I did not realize your dad is in Ghana. How come your dad is not helping to fill Kwame's place in the building process? As you said men respect and fear other men. So if i had male family members around, i wouldnt hesitate to task them with bossing around the workers.
Very good conversation. It was interesting hearing everyone’s
Views. I found it very odd that your brothers did not talk about what is going on in the UK .the cost of living crisis Nurses are going on strike. Teachers, Royal Mail, Hrmc, TFL. The job market is bad. New homes are not being built. No opportunities for the youth the list goes on. Lots of British people are leaving the Uk. The UK will always see black people as second-class citizens. I love that you have moved back to the motherland. You made a wise decision. The UK is getting worse. I pray that the next generation moves back to the motherland there is nothing for them in the UK. As a Ghanaian who was brought up unfortunately in London all my life. I do not relate to what your brothers were saying. I will eventually leave the UK. There is no future in the UK. Why have people moved to Dubai Ghana Australia America Spain the list goes on.
I hear what you’re saying, and yes it is hard here. But like what the brothers were saying you have to weigh up the pros and cons and decide if you want to trade one set of problems for another set just to live in Gana. if you don’t have a reasonable income or can have multiple streams of dollars or pounds you will not be able to live the same kind of lifestyle. You enjoy in the west it’s a fact. And we all know of plenty of Ghanaians who would leave Gana in a heartbeat to get to UK, European countries or the USA.
@@doreenayi3751 so what are your views of NHS staff teaching social workers having to go to food banks in the UK? And thirty years plus still having to live at home because they can’t afford to get a mortgage? No affordable homes are being built. Qualified staff have to go on strike because they can’t afford to put their heating on. Gun crime the list goes on. A lot of black people in the UK end up in low-income jobs poor housing or universal credit. Even ITV news did a report a couple of years back that it’s a known fact that ethnic minorities in the UK live in poor housing .where are the jobs for the next generation? why are British people living in their county to moving to Spain .why are the majority of black people in the UK cleaners or security guards?
@@storytimewithanne my thoughts are even with all the struggles there are still thousands of Ghanaians, who are looking to leave Gana and emigrate to the west. and yes, the UK has all those issues that you mentioned and more, but there is more to do with the current Conservative government year upon year depleting funding to all the main services in this country to create a smaller state. and just as many indigenous English or other races, leaving the UK there are thousands trying to arrive every day. Just look at the situation in Calais. You can’t tell me that everyone of those migrants who arrive in those boats are refugees when a good majority are from African countries which are supposed to be the promised land. Ghana Gambia South Africa, Egypt, to name but a few.
@@doreenayi3751 The country has exploded. It is so obvious there is an elephant in the room immigrants being in the UK has not worked out. This is been done for years upon years. Those have eyes and ears to hear and see can see.
@Doreen Ayi Those immigrants you are talking about.... interview them in a few years time and see how their lives have panned out. I 90% thought it would be better
Great interview with your family. Maybe eventually they all will wake up and see the beauty and freedom you have in Ghana and then may follow at some point but then again not everyone will go to Africa and we have to be okay with that too.
FEARO MEN!!!, FEAR, FEAR, FEAR. They want everything to be fixED and perfect before they move.
Totally enjoyed this video. I thought your cousin was your sister, she's just as gorgeous as you are.
Aww thank you 🙏🏾
Dear Natural Girl
You have inspired us soo much.
Brilliant idea that you moved .
Well Done.
We love you but JESUS loves you more.
Keepup the good work.
Well Done
Thank you 😊😊😊💛
I like the good perspectives shared. Bravo 👏🏾
Aww loved this. To be honest, until you have logistics in place and way of making sustainable income dont rush into relocation.
Its difficult to relocate when your children pass a certain age. Anything between 9-10+ can be a challenge
It's best to take them to another country at that age before reality of society becomes obvious, yes between 9- 10 years old they will miss their friends, basic things of a western country, but you as the adult should have the foresight as to what life will be like by their teen years.
@@mavisburke495 Better to prep them early on so even if it happens during teens or early teens they would have known it was coming for a while
@L. E. Sparkles FKA Ellie Sparkles that's what my friend did with her kids and her oldests were 12 and 10 the time and 2 yrs later they still love it.
@@AfroMillennialMomma Thats awesome!! Really and truly they (kids) won't realize the benefits until later when they have all these connections continent and states side! And african friends usually become friends for life almost to the point of regarding each other as family
Eventually, they will figure it out and it will hit them like a ton of bricks.
Oh wow Sena is your brother!! Know him from time when he started out with his first business. Small world
Hahah yeah that’s him
Africa it's going to be a difficult rise. Exploited by the West, now they have the minds of your people captured. One taste of the wine of Babylon and the expected taste.......have your people in doubt. The ones who come and stay along with the ones who don't leave, you're a blessing. We'll make it one day.! Tuko Pamoja!
Ghana is such an easy country to fix but, the leaders literally suck and that’s just the fact, we need more of these raw honest convos. Literally the assemblies do soooo much wrong it’s criminal
If they earned the same amount of money in Ghana as they are making in the country they are living in and Ghana have all the infrastructure and no struggle they would move .
It's hard to do struggle life when we know easy street.
That's anyone who is in the diaspora from their parents country.
Hi Dela i enjoy you and your family.
Thank you
Dela, I think there's one gallery called Studio 55 or Studio? (I think that's what's called) in Accra let your brother know. I saw it on Utube when they had event there. Seemed interesting place
Your brothers don't seem open minded. They need more convincing. But I get where they are coming from. They know the system in the UK and is willing to put up with what they know than to come to the unknown.
Love your family. Their feelings are real! I have 15 family members and they really don’t want to come!!!!! They think I am going through a life crisis of some kind! 😂🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
😂😂😂
Beautiful family ✨
Thank you
You're bless
All of you have beautiful teeth ❤
Beautiful family
Thank you
Natural Ghana girl good job for this vlog please is it Keta or Quatar where they speak Ewe it must be Keta right ?Nutifafa
Keta
Great video Della!!!!
I have a bad feeling that the war in Ukraine is going to change Europe so much, many Africans are going to come home thank you Dela for prompting the conversations around #Africans in the diaspora coming home
You are a good listener, clearly you would love your family members to move back to Ghana, but you listened to their differing opinions
You have blazed the trail, if they do decide to move, it will be easier for them;
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Good conversation.
We could be related, when we visited as children we stayed in Labadi and my mum's family are from Keta/ Anyarko. Don't understand a Ewe though. My family spoke Ga
Oh really, wow interesting
Awesome video!!!
I think you are better off moving to Zimbabwe its underdeveloped hence cheaper lifestyle and rent and many opportunities
great convo
Loved this video, thankyou Dela. Think your cousin already has one foot out of the US..😂
Thanks for sharing
I love this
I loved this video, Della One of your best yet. But I must say I agree with your brothers. When you have been coming back and forth to Gana, most of your childhood, you don’t have the same rose tinted spectacles as someone who comes for a holiday, then decides that they’re moving their whole family back. call me controversial, but I seem to find this a lot with Americans who are coming to find their roots or just because they think Gana is some kind of utopia, promised, land et cetera et cetera. Most British Ghanaians have been coming back and forth since they were children or teens, so they know the pros and cons about moving back. and I know you are happy there, but you have had it hard over the last year also and it seems to me like what your brother said you’re trading one set of problems for another. And in my opinion I don’t think Gana is worth it. Although I love coming for holidays to see family, but I also love coming back home to the UK.
The term black British does not make any sense . When filling out a form why do they ask what is your ethnicity. Surly if we’re are so called Black British shouldn’t that be enough when filling out a form .Food for thought 💭
Dela please tell your family that they can do it only if they're willing to and focus...UK Matrix and fear for moving to Africa is the obstacle... Am 27yrs old Canadian born, I.T by profession I own three houses here in Ghana two rented out living my best life. I actually contacted a young guy you interviewed moved from USA New York and he's also doing well with his spectacle house he built.. They can do it they shouldn't allow matrix fiction draw them back, say hi to your cousin
I recently booked my first trip to GHS 🇬🇭 💞💞 🇧🇧🇨🇦 from Canada to Ghana my ticket cost me almost 2 thousand dollars
That’s a lot of cash. So expensive
You can get the ticket cheaper with 2 layovers but I prefer 1 layover instead which is with KLM
I paid $1,300 (Delta) with 1 layover
Ok
ENJOY!!! And welcome!!! Super excited for you!
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"Good, job. "Dela.😀.
I wish I would have brought my kids when they were early. Now...smh. They said I am not going to move to no Africa. I said don't turn your back Chale!😆
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Hi Dela, your brother in the yellow T shirt is not interested he gave the price to travel to Ghana for all the family while he gave the individual flight to Turkey, your family are not open England and America is not easy , especially America so unfriendly. It is so sad listening to them speak.
🤣🤣is a whole different set of stress
Your cousin looks a lot like Nicole Beharie.
Did you guys plan the outfits?
Lol no
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Her family has every excuse for not returning to their motherland. It’s kind of sad to hear them promote colonial countries over Ghana. I would hope they would have something positive to say but they offered only negativity.
Dela you are not going to get them moving to Ghana girlfriend.
Lit content ❤️
Thank you
Does your bro make suits it’s like I recognize him
Yes he used to
@@moretodela wow that’s your bro nice, very professional man you must be proud
I feel that your brothers have been brainwashed by the UK and are suffering from Stockholm syndrome. How can you possibly argue against returning to your ancestral homeland? The UK will always see you as foreign and NEVER part of the majority and you will always be a second class citizen. I know your older brother said that he can give his children the best life in the UK, maybe materially but it goes much deeper than that, children need a senses of belonging which your cousins admitted they felt whilst In Ghana. I remember when I first went on holiday to Barbados as a child and remember how EMPOWERING it was to be part of the majority, seeing black people in all spheres of society, that feeling never left me. I have never felt at home in the UK and somehow feel like my wings have been clipped. I’m looking forward to live on the continent and finally FLY, as they say there is no place like home(despite the challenges). There is no glass ceiling in Africa and I believe that with the right dedication you can make a wonderful life for yourself.
I think we should respect people's decisions for their lives and not look at it as brainwashing but choice.
@@ticktom What i see here is fear. Am 27yrs old Canadian born now I own three houses here in Ghana rent two houses out living my best life. Have you see another brother from USA also 27yrs old moved to Ghana and he's doing awesome well he was actually interviewed by Dela
I heard him say "what would I do here," if he were to move. Fair question. I think it's a critical question a lot of people fail to address before they make the move. Then after living on their savings for a year or two, then the frustrations and backlash start. So, if he doesn't feel he can make it here, I pull no punches.
Let me say though that his sister looks much better now than when she first returned. Lol. To borrow the cousin's words: she's "transformed and blossomed."
I feel the same way about her brothers that's same
@@brofutv1853 I always applaud Dela she's fighter, awesome and really focus lady however if you grew up in the Matrix and you're not strong mentally, not talented and not business acumen forget about Africa because there's no institutions to help you with food stamps handouts and social welfare.... There are young diasporas here whose has no tie to Ghana whatsoever but they're here making it big Just look at Aleta Israel she's another awesome lady doing very well in central region Cape coast
Dela, your cousin she's fine oooo
Yes she is
I finally learned what "notty fafa" means lol
Hahaha!
That was an impossible task for you, Dela; nice try though.
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@@moretodela Don't be discouraged; they'll eventually see the light and come around. I just hope it wouldn't be too late then.
What are they talking about systems? Who put the systems in place in the UK? Why can’t you come to Africa and build homes and develop? Your brothers are short- sighted.
Don't mind this kind of black guys , they are not ready to sacrifice to build the motherland, but they are expecting someone to come and build it for them to enjoy it right, we don't need such human beings atol
Love you Adela. But your brothers hmmm. To hear them with their views just makes me sad as a black man. So negatively brought up, and so brainwashed as well. Definitely praying my kids are not brainwashed like they have been in the UK.
They are open to idea so there is hope