Human Trafficking Survivor-Kat
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- čas přidán 17. 12. 2022
- Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Kat, a sex trafficking survivor now living in Long Beach, California.
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Thank you for watching & for your supportive comments. Emotional Support Co. is my 🛍️ and emotional support bae is my 👀 G
I hope you’re a lot more healed today than you were yesterday. You deserve nothing less in life than love.
You have a valuable life experience. Dedicate yourself to helping others who have been trafficked. Our suffering is not meaningless if we use it for good.
If u hear or get anything out of this please hear this: it was not your fault!! I do not care if you walked down the street naked..no one has a right to assault or touch you. Plus you were a child...you had no life experience at that age so there's no way to know this would happen. Stays strong sweets!
Girl I relate to your story so so much. Stay strong and keep your head up 💕
Hey gurl haaaay! I just wanted to send you all the love n all the light. I could feel ur hurt thru the screen n I could totally relate to having daddie issues n filling that void. I'm a 35+ yo single Mama n still learning how to trust my intuition n live in authenticity. Im in recovery and my counselor would always say "if you change the way you look at things, the things u look at change" You are a Goddess among Queens n thank you sooo muchie for sharing your story. May all the little things make you smile and may you and yours be infinitely blessed 💝🖖🏽🫶🏽👏🏽🙌🏽❤️🩹
Death Penalty for pedophiles and child trafficking.
100%
I AGREE WITH YOU 100%
On God!
There is a former police officer in England trying to get help for a sexually abused baby under 2 years old from all 'authorities' who claim they are there to protect. He is stonewalled everywhere - put this search in youtube Prt 4 - Concern for Child - Call to NSPCC 15/04/24 - International G'nmt Fraud & Child Trafficking
lol like the guy Kat is now dating 😂😂 she’s so not bright
My mom and I met Ghislaine Maxwell at a mall where she was looking for “young models” to be trained as “socialites and actors.” The deal was that I would fly to New York and stay in a mansion while I was “training.” Top that off, the cost of this “once in a lifetime opportunity” was $2,500. It was a plan that was all set up and I was supposed to meet her at the airport that weekend and my mom would pay for it and I would fly off. I was 14. It was 1997.
About 10 minutes before we were to leave for the airport, my mom got “a bad feeling about this whole thing” and refused to let me go.
At 14 I was pissed at my mom and how unreasonable she was being. Looking back, if she hadn’t gotten that bad feeling, I’d have wondered why she was too blind to see how absurd the whole offer was.
jesus, you dodged one of the biggest bullets in history.
Thank God your Mom had the balls to say NO to you!!!
mother's intuition. it's a beautiful thing ❤
It's a miracle that this stuff was uncovered and there is help out here.
.... smells a little fishy, iyam
It’s heartbreaking to see that she blames herself for the wrongdoings of the adults around her. Not a single thing that happened to her was her fault. I wish her infinite healing and prosperity.
@@timsimmons9995 Were you personally rejected by Kat at some point so you are getting revenge by coming here and casting aspersions? INCEL
So she doesn't hold any responsibility or accountability for putting herself in those situations?
@@Oliver-Closeoff no because she was a child and the responsibility of safety was ALWAYS on the adult, she lacked critical thinking skills, and all sorts of skills that an adult would have in these situations
@@Oliver-Closeoff so nice of you to blame the victim. And a child at that.
@@Oliver-Closeoffa child? You’re blaming a child?
I’m a trafficking survivor, too, and I grew up around the same area. I was trafficked in Pontiac, MI, when I was 21. So proud of her for sharing her story ❤ Shedding light on things like this (because it doesn’t always happen the way movies or TV portray it) is hard but so important. Sending her so much love.
I also send you gentle hugs and spiritual healing. ❤❤❤
Had no idea Han…hope you’re doing well. It’s been too long. 💜
All the best love
This channel shows so much of what America is really all about. Destroyed families, kids abandoned to themselves, drugs etc. It's a true pandemic very few talk about.
Don’t forget the exploiting workers. Did ya know 30+% of America’s service industry workers are homeless and/or living in their cars while being fully employed and working? We’re also 1 of the only 3 countries in the world without Mandated Payed Maternity Leave…..
1. Suriname 🇸🇷
2. Papua New Guinea 🇵🇬
and 3. the United States of America 🇺🇸
This is NOT what America is really about.
@@trippin6118 true, but considering the economic super power that claims to be the data are devastating
If we want to fix 🇺🇸 we need to invest in kids ages 0-5. That’s the only way to fix a generation.
@@myeyeswentdeaf6213 Please give credible sources for your "facts". Also could you explain what FMLA is.
all of the adults in her life failed her severely. my heart breaks for her she deserved absolutely none of that no matter what anyone says. I pray she can find healing and peace.
I completely agree. For when she said "I don't know why I ran away, I felt so guilty for doing (x, y, & z). When in reality, she was a kid. A CHILD. Her mother did not provide that unconditional love a parent should give so she felt the yearn to seek the validation somewhere else. Us as little girls, as women, we are not wanting to be r-ped or sexualized. That was the only way she felt wanted, even though her gut told her this wasn't right. Now that she's a full adult, she realized she was groomed and taken advantaged of.
As her how she feels it's her fault, no. For instance, If I had appeared to be weak, am I asking to be murdered?
Because of the way I look (as an easy target for a killer, enticing for a power thrill), should any of the blame be on me? Sure, I can then act tougher, look like I have a place to be, but I should not take the blame of being slaughtered. Same as a r-pe crime, they're both crimes with a perpetrator. For existing in whatever shape or form, that does not give a man the entitlement to kill, or r-pe.
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Heard with a blade as she begs him to stop, a recording played at trial that I transcribed and loudened
Amen, I am praying for her too 💝
Sound like she was just tryn to be fast and is making excuses for it. Why was she dressing like a slut at 13 and running away for no reason and sleeping with 40 year old men before 15?
I was lying on the sofa listening to some relaxing music to try and calm my mind. And, my head started racing and I thought, I need to watch/listen to something inspirational and knew I had to watch an episode of SWU. I hope what I’m about to say is encouraging in some way. I’m 75. I am an ASCA-Adult Survivor of Child Abuse. I did about everything imaginable to heal myself. Life is a never ending process. One of my biggest downfalls was that of being in "fix me” mode all the time and I was always in a hurry to get there. I hope you can be patient with yourself and love yourself along the way. I am in no way implying that this is a simple task. Your strength, bravery and emotionality tells me you’re off to a wonderful start in the healing process. ❤️ ❤️ ❤️☮️☮️☮️
thank you for sharing your story!!! all the best for you and your life ❤️❤️🤗
"I had a boom box, I had a TV, like we had cute dogs. I don't know why"... sweetheart those aren't things that make a safe, healthy, loving, childhood. You needed and deserved so much more! Everyone in this life needs love, to feel safe and wanted and needed and important and valued... you needed that just like all of us. THAT'S why you ran away. I pray you find that someday because youre absolutely amazing and inspiring. I wish you all the best!
She had 3 sets of parents, and lots of teachers, who tried. What more can a kid deserve??? She said she needed to run away, and this is what she got. REPEATEDLY after adults rescued her.
it's in their nature, you can warn them repeatedly about the big bad wolf but the more you do the more they desire to venture into the forest@@timsimmons9995
@@timsimmons9995Yeah that 13 year old girl really deserved to be pimped out for months cause she voluntarily ran away, do you hear yourself talk? You’re a disgusting bastard Tim, you clearly didn’t listen to her story whatsoever. Non of her parental figures kept her away from these situations with older men they literally promoted it. I pray you don’t have children, especially after reading that stupid fucking comment you made.
@@timsimmons9995 adults did not really rescue her. They failed her time and again. No one bothered to try and dig a little deeper.
@@timsimmons9995uh no. Lmao
The biggest takeaway from all of these videos is that shitty parenting ruins lives, and there's a ton of shitty parenting going on.
For real. Praying does nothing. Actions do. Go figure🤷♀️
yup. Her father left her. Mother didn't care, so she ran away to fill the void. The problem is that feminism is pushing for it - destroying healthy families, encouraging mothers to become single. With a strong father figure the chances of this happening would've been much lower.
@@SuperRaikouz amen to that
It's getting worse by the day, and it's by design. It's part of how Globalists are ruining America and the freedoms we have.
Agree!!
She ran away to find love. It’s so sad that people don’t realize how important being kind and loving towards your kids is so they feel protected and safe.
Her mother was evil. But the girl is smart. Just by saying 'my mum told me I could come' to the police - she broke free. It's just sad she feels guilty for 'ruining' her moms life. Something that her mother brought to herself anyway. She think of her mother not being able to forgive her, but what about herself... it breaks my heart.
What a devastating story. It's insane how horrible the world can be if you fall through the wrong cracks.
We have choices from the day we were born there are voices telling us right from wrong. We can't blame others for everything.
So she's not accepting responsibility for anything?
I had a mother who worked and slept,and a father who abandoned the family when I was ten.
Molested at 7 by a neighbor. I learned to not allow myself to be alone with men real fast, and not put myself in such situations.
She wasn't part of an Epstein trafficking. Those guys were small time TRAFFICKERS and not as evil as the well organized child eating, child pedophilia. She is too needy, and demanding of attention, which got her where she is.
@@sweetycamy Her mom was paying Bill's and crafting. Yeah, she was real evil.
Do you think this girl isnt responsible for any of her behaviors? How many times do you put yourself in a situation before you learn to stay home alone.
@@robinluich6626 Frankly it sounds like you're a bit in denial of what happened to you, and desperate to pretend that kids have control over how adults treat them. This woman was fucking ENSLAVED as a minor. Give her a fucking break-- and maybe give yourself a break.
Hey Kat, I’m cailey and I am too a survivor of sex trafficking, just wanted to comment here and say i resonate with this so much, and say how strong and resilient you are✨❤️❤️❤️ you deserve so much love and peace❤️✨ praying for you
Kat, thanks my internet sister. At the end of your interview when you said whenever your child has a meltdown or tantrum you , "just bring them in", it touched me so deep! You are so brave and so very innocent of any crimes that were perpetrated upon you, please learn this fact and understand it. Sending love,
Kelly
There are some sick men in this world... i strive to be the man who pulled up at the laundromat and took her home safely... what an angel
yes this!!!!Maika we love you!!!
@MAIKA Thank you! Thank you! It is very depressing knowing there are so many men that are so uncaring and dangerous. It is refreshing to know there are some men with a good heart!😀
sick women too...
You're a simp who wants to get paid and this is your "method"
@@marya3823 unlike the "hero" of women, some simp posting on yt
She was a child who needed protection, and she was failed. I pray she can find the healing she needs. ❤️
so basically, stand to the side doing nothing? This is going to take action, not wishful thinking. I hope this country is ready to do something once it manages to rid itself from the running corruption
@@fritzhaselnuss7852OP said nothing wrong at all. Stop finding reasons to be upset. You jumped to all sorts of conclusions because you were triggered by the word “prayer.”
her mom was living in a surviving mode - paying rent, buying food, medicine and health, school and many more. in this city/country, all people like Kat and her family need protection and they will not get it, never. in the capitalist world, you need to pay for everything everywhere, you always will be surviving.
There is no healing. What’s done like this to someone cannot ever be healed.
She had protection but kept running away
This world is hell. There is no other. I’ll never complain about my own horrible experiences again.. This woman deserves everything good imaginable….I hope she will get it. ❤️
I hope she knows how incredible she is for being as together as she is given what she has been through. She's very intelligent, introspective, and sincere. Biggest wish I have for her is that she gives herself grace - she's a beautiful human being who has had to endure not receiving a lot of fundamental needs we all have as humans, not to mention all the horrific things others have done to her. Hard to rewire the impact of those experiences though. Prayers and healing energy her way.
As a teen that didn't have a lot of supervision, it terrifies me how easily this could have been me. I've been in a lot of the situations she's describing and somehow escaped unscathed. I was such an idiot and thank God every day for somehow always giving me a way out. So many are not so fortunate. My heart aches for this girl. I could have been her.
She lived in a pretty rough city. I think where you live, makes a difference too. It takes a village to raise a child..
yep me too!!
@@JC111WPB yeah i lived in the worst neighborhoods on long island and queens. i really did...but luckily i think my autism saved me. i was so bookish, and it made me so terrified of people- ALL people- that i never looked at or talked to anyone dangerous. having a (tolerable) dad around helped save me as well.
@@JC111WPB it's almost like her mom expected her to KNOW what was out there down the block rather than TELLING HER and PROTECTING her. so bizarre!!! a lot of women want to kill their kids since they dont want to be mothers.
Me too. I felt lonely like her. Could have been me . Glad that angel helped her and drove her home . Feeling grateful .
This is a very, VERY strong woman. Praying for her healing... What a sick, scary, disgusting world.
She been killing it. I've been following her on Instagram for a year or so now. I had noooo idea this was her story though. She's so tough
Everyone in her life has let her down. The fact she has a need for friendships and feels she has to look pretty to get them is relatable though.
Disagree it's another blame everyone else.. ugh Americans are all mostly DEMONS UGH
@@shermymchurty1166what’s her ig?
No, not the whole world is sick, scary and disgusting. Just places like Detroit, Chicago, LA and the like are.
It breaks my heart so much that Kat went through this, and yet it puts my heart at ease that she got out alive ❤️ so many women don't. She's so strong to share her story openly! Her spiritual strength is unlike anything I've ever seen ❤️
The relationship with her mother resonated with me. The feeling of her mother not wanting to really spend time with her. It’s scary to think that if I had made just one wrong move I could’ve had her life because I was needing to feel wanted like her. The fear of my mother’s rejection for doing something wrong must’ve trumped any decision to seek out the validation from others.
Mark,
Please make more of these sex traffic videos. The entire country needs to hear this. So many broken homes from sick married men who do this. I used to live in Toledo and I heard of telegraph road had a lot of prostitution. I was too young to understand it, but this is truly a sick thing that went on. And it still is happening till this day. Please don’t stop making this category of interviews. We need to see the true hero’s that survive this sick shit.
Amen.
how about sick women, sick mothers? My own mother is an absolute psychopath, and from my perspective it's more often than not the women who create broken homes by emotionally abusing and manipulating their husbands and partners and children beyond their breaking point.
@@duderinoification That's like the chicken before the egg argument. But yes, it does go both ways and the cycle needs to be broken, regardless.
@@1w598 It's not the chicken before the egg argument, I was molested by females growing up in Chicago as a child. It is just as prolific as men molesting females it is just not frowned upon as much but it is just as emotionally damaging as any of it.
i agree with you. these videos have opened my eyes. it is a common thing that happens. it is not 1 in a million chance. these people are everywhere.
All of these years later and she still blames herself. When I hear her talk about "why" this happened and her mother's voice comes through her. "If I hadn't dressed provocatively they wouldn't have thought about me in that way." I say this with every ounce of respect and zero blame or judgment... they would have seen you anyway. You have absolutely NO fault in any of this. Put yourself in your daughter's shoes. Would you blame your 11, 12, 13 year old self and say that they should know better? I hope you find your self-forgiveness and realize you were only a child.
She should blame herself.. she admits in the first 20 mintues she walked voluntarily into each room she was kept in. Sounds like you don't pay attention to much. It's 100% her fault. It wasn't even human traffcking it was a typical drug - deal - pimp - whore deal. Move along with your emotions.. best to keep them for someone you actually know.
I hope she sees that now ❤️
@SPINNING MY WHEELS She was a CHILD! I suppose you blame all pedo victims for being alone with their violators? If they never wore that swimsuit to the pool the creep would never noticed them? There is a reason we call sexual assault survivors "victims" and lock up the disgusting p.o.s. criminals that violate them. I hope there is never a child unfortunate enough to rely on someone like you to keep them safe. You should take your own advice and keep your criticism for someone you actually know.
I once heard it said, the first task after childhood is to forgive yourself for what you may have done. (I would add forgive yourself for what someone tricked you into). Best wishes for you dear....Lord knows there are plenty of Avenues for you to help other young gals escape & recover from the horrors you have been thru.....I applaud you for speaking out on this disease of exploitation. You are a lovely young Woman who deserves nothing but, goodness and peace. Tee
So true. This has been going on forever. Women in the 1800’s were covered neck to ankle and STILL objectified.
NOT YOUR FAULT. No one choses to be sex trafficked. No one choses to be raped, and YES unwanted/forced oral sex IS A RAPE.
Thank you for your testimony. Wish you a lot of courage and strength.
Are you gonna tell her about her responsibility in her story as well?
Which of the two sexes is more likely to have rape fantasies and Hybristophilia? It sure isn't Men and the fucked part is it gives normal guys the ick and makes them too scarred to even bother with Women and makes Men inclined to act on those things the idea it's okay to do them.
Thank you so much for sharing Kat we had many similar events you will be in my thoughts sending strength love & light to you & your children 💐
The most heartbreaking thing to hear is that she is still blaming herself after all this time. It sounds like she broke the cycle and cares and loves her children endlessly. You are so full of love and grace Kat ♥️✨
Right I really wish she wouldn't blame herself so much.
She should blame herself. Her mother loved her,I'm sure she wasn't perfect but she chose to run away. My sister didn't have love from a father but she never ran away lookingvfor black guys.
@@gcqueno2317 No. You don't know what you're talking about. This is a completely different situation. She was young and didn't have the care she needed. She should never be blaming herself. She was so young
@@gcqueno2317judgmental much? You will be judged with the same judgement you use. She was just a baby. Have some compassion.
Taking what responsibility you can for the consequences you have suffered is the MOST empowering thing she can do. You can’t derive an ought from an is. Teenage girls are sexualized and maybe that’s unfair but it is reality. So be conservative and classy when you dress. Dress and act as though you respect yourself. Unfortunately when you are missing love from a very early age, you don’t respect yourself and things will happen and you know no better. You don’t have the capacity to delay gratification because you’ve already been waiting over a decade for it and it hasn’t come. This is a very sad story and so common.
Such massive respect to this woman for sharing her extremely difficult story. What an amazing person.
Sorry that you endured extremely unacceptable terror from horrible people. It's refreshing to hear that you realize everyone doesn't have an agenda and will want to just be your friend ❤️, and not expect anything in return. My hope for you is to continue growing and learning. Your an amazing Mom. Remember this isn't your fault, you were a child who needed love and guidance. Much love and respect to you and your family ❤️.
The best advice would be to stay away from black areas because there full of pedophile rapists
"Appreciate you listening." I just burst into tears when she said that. What a brave and beautiful woman. Well done, Lisa. Your clients are lucky to have you in their corner ❤️ thank you for sharing your story
When she said that she's debating if she wanted to contact Travis after what he did it broke my heart. She's so strong
It’s so sickening to know that multiple married men probably with families & had daughters were doing this to 13 yr old girls..Kat u are definitely the epitome of strength. I’m so sorry u had to go thru so much starting at a young age. Your life story is helping other young girls & women to be open, brave & honest. You deserve to have peace & happiness. Much love ❤️ 🌹
There is so many married men going this. Also that are the brother-in-laws do this to you. You grow up n really don't know who you can talk to n it is a nightmare to live in. Going n getting the right help does do a lot of good. I know how she feels n how this mess you up.
😊😊😊😊
Yet you avoid mentioning the predator pimp
There's something up with men. And it's not OK. And it's not talked about enough in our society.
men are such selfish treacherous pieces of crap sometimes
It’s astonishing and SICKENING to hear about How Many people are out there - that are CHILD PREDATORS - and people/families - THE LAW - that turn a blind eye! This has me in tears, it breaks my Heart but I’m so glad to hear that Kat is doing HER BEST and WORKING HARD- keeping her children safe, and making a better life for her family.
And it’s not drag queens. Imagine that.
@@justanotherrichkid1053 🧐
I’m dead inside, I’m not a good person, but my heart shatters with young girls stories like this. Men like this deserve the final moment of their life immediately. No trial, nothing. Go away
HAHAHA
@@nikaluss5946praying for you 🙏🏾
What a story! I see myself in parts of your story. You are VALUABLE. You are not your past actions. There are a lot of groups of people to talk to with simular situations. You are smart and beautiful inside and out. Sending blessings and healing energy your way.
Thank u. All these stories help me process the shit that happened to me. It's enraging and comforting at the same time
I'm 27 and I have never been trafficked but I was hit on, asked out on dates, messaged on social media between the ages of 13-16 by more men my age now then I have ever been as a consenting adult. This brings major awareness. Sending hugs to this beautiful woman.
me too, even when I was 6, and 8 years old, I have clear memories of old men trying to follow me around, always starring, etc.I was hit on more than ever before between 14-16 as well. Im 30 now, and when I see kids that age I'm sickly disgusted that a man, or pedophile should I say, would find that attractive.
Same, totally agreed! Literally men are like buzzing bees around young pre teen to teen women
@@samuraikyokkan are you suggesting that it’s a little kid’s fault that pedophiles come after them? Because that’s straight up suss af.
"asked out, hit on, messaged on social media"...my god you have truly suffered
Are you an idiot or what? She didnt say that she suffered a lot, just pointing out that a lot of men are pedophiles, esencially...
I have never in my life wanted to give someone a hug so badly. This woman deserves the WORLD. To have been so utterly failed by so many people, and to be so strong to tell her truth. What an incredible person.
And call upon me in the day of trouble: I will deliver thee, and thou shalt glorify me. Psalm 50:15 ✝🌅
He keepeth back his soul from the pit, and his life from perishing by the sword. He is chastened also with pain upon his bed, and the multitude of his bones with strong pain: So that his life abhorreth bread, and his soul dainty meat. Job 33:18-20 ✝🌅
I am so proud of you girl, I have followed you on insta for the better part of a decade now, and your emotionally aware mothering is inspiring. You are breaking the cycle 🙏🏻
Kat is full of truth.
Thank you for sharing.
Loving families are the best prevention
Kat, I too am from Downriver. I think I was one of your teachers at the alternative high school, and I seem to remember parts of your story. I taught creative writing and English classes. I think I knew your grandma. But even if I'm thinking of another Kat, I can say wow, you are such a strong, beautiful, and open person sharing your story to help so many people...and you have your own clothing line, congratulations! But most of all you seem to be a really good mom who is breaking the cycle...God bless you for that! I am praying for your healing...keep educating yourself because the resources are out there, even on youtube, and find a support group of other trauma survivors cuz we can't do it alone. You are an amazing woman and there is an important plan for your life, which no doubt involves you sharing your truth. You tell a compelling story with honesty and a kind of heartbreaking innocence despite your wisdom. You need to write; it will heal you. If this is the Kat I knew I am so proud of you! Hang in there and keep going. You are doing great. Be proud of who you are.
This is so amazing!!
You taught creative writing English class but you are using such words as “cuz”
Cooooool story not
Well, this was unnecessarily rude. First off, this is a comment section, not an essay. Second, consider how people probably talk in Downriver. Lastly, creative writing at an alternative school probably allows for authors to write how they speak.
@@11kmurder11 Get over yourself, loser! I was not writing to you in regards to your grammar and illiteracy. Don’t @ me.
To those who responded to my long comment...I most certainly never meant to be rude in any way, but perhaps I should've thought more carefully before commenting. I only wanted to tell her how much I respect her for the strong, smart person she is and to try to be supportive; hopefully that is how she took it. As for my "creative" spelling, I wasn't on the job while writing a comment on youtube, just being another regular person who was impacted by the video. Thanks.
It's so sad and disheartening that she blames herself for "dressing provocatively" as a young teen. We all try to dress older when we're young, that's no excuse to take advantage of a child. She's such a strong, beautiful, and caring person and I truly hope her life is better now 😢💔
YES YES YES. I hope Kat saw this comment
It is literally her fault . No body forced her to do anything she could’ve told someone or done something about it but didn’t say anything instead she lied to her parents and went out on her own. Know that things aren’t going her way she wants to blame everyone else I don’t feel sorry for her at her age I was already starting to work
@@carolenegabrail320 thank you. I hope so as well because she deserves better
@@jaimechavez5249 well aren't you special. Yup, blame a kid who so clearly didn't have a good home life. Disgusting
@@jaimechavez5249 you’re a low-watt gurgler and you deserve nothing good in your life. And you clearly have no idea how the world works.
Unbelievably horrific interview! Story’s gonna be in my dreams. Thx for sharing it Kat & Mark 🫣🙏❤️
You have a sensitive soul and are very perceptive.♥️ Your gift to humanity is much bigger than you know in a world where few value emotions. Everything that was done to you (it was never your fault, you were a child) has hurt you but something beautiful has blossomed and that's a testament to how beautiful you are. I also have experienced people 'giving up on me' even in friendships cos it feels when I'm not what satisfies they leave me, when I'm too emotional, or too this or that. But as you heal the right people will see how many layers you have as something beautiful and something that can add to their lives. You are beautiful and don't you forget that. Process your emotions but forget the one who left, for real♥️
I'm the father of 2 teen girls and I'm so grateful for your story. Thank you
Keep them away from black men. Unless u know them really well.
Terrifying ... all these men looking completely normal, or at least to a child. The mover, the visitors, the doctor. Obliterates any trust in anything and anyone. She shares these horrors nonchalantly :( I haven't experienced sexual assault but I can't imagine a trespass more extreme and reducing. For that to be your baseline from such a young age... so so wrong.
This is what happens when someone puts me first her mom was thinking it is all about me
I don't think she's being nonchalant. She's just telling the truth and there is no nice way to explain that abuse.
You watch too many movies if you think predators and or scumbags dress like scrumbags smh. Do the research, businessmen are the biggest shit eaters.
It's not just from a child's perspective. I have seen first hand the same completely normal looking men, doctors, engineer's, tech, executives, police, ect who lead these double lives and they're usually married with children. This was as an adult. These guys are everywhere and the least suspecting. It's so widespread I wish this type of trafficking was talked about more.
Maybe it's suppressed bc it is so wide spread and it is your average looking successful man perpetrating and its in their best interest to keep it hush.
Epsteins Island. Funny how quiet the “media” is on this. That VIP client list that grease politicians and include politicians also. It’s vile that no one on the list has been arrested.
Thank you Kat!!! Your story really was eye opening! Praying for your healing! You’re doing a great job, keep going!
I don't know if I've ever just wanted to hug someone and just be someone's friend as much as I do her. It's absolutely ridiculous that almost EVERYONE in her life as failed her in such a major way. I hope she realizes how much worth she has.
This is absolutely awful. She’s still so vulnerable. I hope she finds some peace and happiness.
she's very stupid.
also, like some of the like stories like might not be like true.
Why would you be like that? People tend to speak from an emotional maturity level. Have some compassion! If you don’t believe her, just move on and go about your day. If this is true, it’s devastating and our society is F$$&&& up!
This shit happens every day. This girl isn’t lying.
This happens more than you know, to call someone a lier about something horrific needs a kick up the arse and a wake call!! How your life must be so great that you haven't had something bad happen to you !! Have some compassion for god's sake!!
Kat your story is yet another reason why I'm trying to raise my son to be a good man with a good moral compass. My Dad was also sex trafficked as a young boy. He found his healing through therapy and helping others. He was an amazing Dad, just like you sound like an amazing mom. I could see you helping so many young women and girls.
You deserve all the unconditional love you were seeming to long for. Thank you for being willing to open up to us.
Self love should be learned. I had a biblical connection from a young age. It has helped me deal with the crap I went thru....knowing God is always on my side
made up for much of the damage done to me.
Wow!.....That's a crazy story.
You don't hear many stories of men being sex trafficked.
@@kennethwilliams8240 Those that "know" know there are many survivors in the Male community. Not all were trafficked,but, 1 in 7 boys. 1 in 4 girls. These are rather steady figures for decades of child abuse in US. UK has even more depravity....
@@kennethwilliams8240 Hello Boy Scouts, Hello Alter Boys....very common for males but people don't want to talk about it.
Good luck.
Rock on girl!! Thank you for sharing your story, I can imagine it was really hard. Thank you. You’re amazing keep up the good healing work. Love ya!!!
When she says at the end, how dad leaving their children causes so many pain in their life, something really important to think about it. An absent parent or a violent parent, the beginning of a life of pain..
I'm a survivor of human trafficking and I know all to well what she goes through on a daily basis... Your a strong women honey and don't you ever let anyone tell you different... And don't let anyone put blame on you or ask you why you never ran... Because they will never understand
Keep your chin up! Don’t let your crown tilt queen!
Yup!! I was kidnapped when I was 18 and almost ended up in Mexico
*you’re
Im so sorry to you all 😢 may Jesus Christ heal and comfort you ❤
I am a fellow human trafficking survivor and the constant struggle of just trying to be you after all of it . The guilt, the shame the burden the scars sometimes I look in the mirror and get so sad . But then I remember these people chose to abuse and pimp me out when I just wanted to go home. I just wanted to talk to my mom .instead I'm being forced to do that for days can't even get a glass of water . I look back now and I'm proud of myself I still struggle with the shame . But now i respect myself and my emotions and i let them flow 💯 I wish I could sir down and talk to her 😔
When she said "I did it to myself" broke me. IT👏IS👏NOT👏YOUR👏FAULT!!!! You were a child!! I can't believe her mother said that. The victim blaming is awful and unfortunately happens way too much. I want to be her friend.
dude, she likes BBC, what do you expect to happen?
She did though, she paid the toll
@@jayrose4748 hey guess what! fuck you❤️
@@jayrose4748 did what?
@@jayrose4748 so dressing a certain way (as a child...but even people who aren't children) gives men a pass to rape and abuse? No that's not how assault worx. That's literal victim blaming.
You are brave, strong and resilient. Thank you for having the courage to share your story and wanting to help others. You are a good person and a good mother. I hope you find a way through what you’ve been through ❤
Thanks for being so brave and telling your story Kat
It’s sickening to hear how her mother blamed a young girl for dressing provocative and going into that part of the city……like she was asking to be sex trafficked. This poor woman sounds like she still feels guilty for everything when NONE OF IT WAS HER FAULT. I pray she finds healing.
There's nothing wrong with suggesting someone should stay away from dangerous areas
Burn thr coal, and pay the toll. Shes a victim of her mothers neglect only.
My heart goes out to her as well, but "NONE OF IT?" You can focus on the "blame," she should've listened to the warning part of the "sickening" message and stayed the hell away from that part of the city...It was the sickos that wanted to traffic her for sex. Her job was to trust and obey her mother.
the mom is evil for this, like why didn't you raise your daughter and look out for her so she doesn't get involved in this lifestyle? Then goes on to victim blame her child instead of herself. Disgusting.
@@dianatorbati2200 yada yada yada, her mother never wanted her to leave or go to those areas, She didn't blame her, but she wasn't a good mother either...
This is truly the most down-to-earth, genuine woman you’ve had on here. She feels like an older sister for me. A mom. I’m so grateful for her sharing her story 🤍💕
Get interview
I agree... I wish her the best 💕
For her to have been through all the things she went through growing up in Detroit and to be around to talk about how she changed her life is amazing. Detroit is a rough place. I know she's seen a lot.
This made me feel so emotional and I just think to myself how none of this is your fault and I hate to hear how you carry that with you and into new relationships how you blame yourself. I really hope you find a good therapist , if I could give you a hug I would. I can tell you would be a great mother … I am so proud
This woman is so beautiful. Her soul shines so brightly despite how used she has been 😔 I wish we were friends so I could tell her everyday that she is loved & special ❤️
I feel the same way for her.
Me too
She carries all this guilt, its terrible. This untrue guilt. As if all of it is her fault and even worrying about her moms reputation or feeling guilty for “putting her mom through” all of what SHE went through. She wasn’t paid attention nor boosted mentally to encourage confidence or self love. I wish I could help women like this every day. You’re amazing, Kat. The fact that you’re still pushing forward is admirable.
It is empowering to take responsibility for your own actions. It’s the best thing you can do to avoid further disasters. I’m glad she acknowledges her mistakes and doesn’t just feel entirely like a victim.
It breaks my heart that she thinks it’s her fault for dressing like that. It’s never your fault. It was never your fault.
Her mom was a piece of work, sounds like
Amen!
Yes it is her fault. She ran away and went into a black neighborhood. Hope you young girls understand you can't do that!
Noooo lol she made the choices early on to run away to a random family and do drugs and fuck black dudes 😆😆 THAT started her downward spiral, after that you're really worthless or atleast you see yourself that way
May not be her fault but it definitely sends the wrong message and is asking for that kind of attention.
Thank you Kat for having the courage to tell your story. You are awesome. I have enough faith in you to find yourself and genuine peace and serenity. You are so beautiful and cool.
Hi Kat.. just dropping in to say a year later that you are lovable, you are interesting, you are valuable, you are valued, you are worthy, and you are without a doubt deserving of love, belonging, and healthy relationships. You are remarkable. From one woman to another, I thank you for sharing your story, and I wish you so much peace and healing.
All I can say is wow………Im lost for words. My goal in life, as a 49 year old dad to a 9 year old daughter, is to love my baby girl deeply, ingrain good morals and values and always be there for her no matter what. Hopefully I can get her raised right in this crazy world and make sure nothing like this ever happens to her before I die.
Yesterday, I heard someone reference a line that Dr Drew would say regularly to people who called into his 90’s radio show, Love Line, and were in a situation similar to yours, seeking some advice. It was something about, if you’re having concerns of how to protect one of your kids, family members, friends, loved ones from risky behavior, alcohol & drug abuse, being mislead by their friends, succumbing to peer pressure, teenage pregnancy, etc, then your heart is in the right place. They are normal thoughts, and that person is lucky to have you in their life. Keep doing what you’re doing with your 9yr old daughter, ingraining the good morals & values that build character in a young person, in hopes of them making good decisions as they get older, especially when you’re not around. Hopefully, they’ll do the same with the people in their lives. Sadly, like this brave young woman, she didn’t have anyone in her life looking out for her, and the type of world she grew up in has left her trying to pick up the broken pieces of her soul to try to live a somewhat normal life. Her story is heartbreaking, and like others have commented, more attention needs to be given to this type of story. Some call Mark’s work exploitative, and shame him for profiting from their horrible stories. They don’t get what he’s doing. This interview is a perfect example of why he does his work. He gives a platform for people to share their stories, and raise awareness to help others come forward. We can’t fix the problems, if we don’t know what they are. I wish you well.
Yes you can love and protect your daughter and hopefully she won’t encounter any of these disgusting men. It seems so commonplace, these guys are married, ordinary looking, even doctors, business men, princes?I sometimes I think is this a secret side to all men that they just keep well hidden ? It’s beyond comprehension
Just be careful not to smother her. That can cause a worse outcome. Happened to me. I was never allowed to experience anything so when access came to things I went ape shit
@@jb-uw2vt I did, too. It caused estrangement from my father, and I became very rebellious. I ran right towards self-destruction. Fathers need emotional intelligence to be able to establish trust with their daughters, instead of creating an atmosphere of harsh antagonism and punishment that just drives them away and right into the next abusive relationship.
I just want to say thank you for being a dad that values your daughter. I believe many of these girls like this lady in video are so vulnerable because of lack of a father's love and guidance and being cherished by your dad. My exes steep dad I considered my father but he came into my life at 18. I was already fucked up. Damage done. However he is my standard for having a man in my life and I'm learning it's just not possible. My whole life since 4 yrs old all men have wanted from me is sex. I'm sorry I have over shared here but really just thankyou for giving your daughter a fighting chance in this crazy, dark, scarey world. God bless you
After watching this interview, my perception of chikd trafficking really changed. I really thought child trafficking was about kids being shipoed to other countries but I didn't consider a house down the street could be the traffickers as well! No wonder my mom was so careful with me; not to go to parties, or on streets at night or eye contact with dudes.
it can be both. Human trafficing can take many forms
I feel so bad for her, she's clearly hurting very much and will carry this for the rest of her life. She deserved so much better when she was a kid.
Kat needs major therapy for so many reasons, but especially to learn to not blame herself for her dysfunctional childhood, and to learn to have boundaries even in her adult life. It’s just so frustrating to see her blaming herself when it’s obvious where the blame falls.
Some form of therapy or therapeutic method that works for her… she mentioned that the therapies she’s tried doesn’t seem to help, at least not at the moment… even the search process can be exhausting… really hoping she now has uplifting support and positive influences in her life because she so very much deserves it.
False. She's blaming other people for her own failures. She needs therapy to take responsibility for her behavior, cope with it, and be a warning to all other dumb girls to stop behaving this way looking for adventure.
@@timsimmons9995 INCEL spotted everyone. You're just mad because even the girls who were putting out weren't putting out to YOU. YOU need therapy to learn how to resist the urge to come on CZcams and victim blame because of your own issues. I bet you are feeling very smart and smug with your snide commentary. You are probably showing this to your fellow INCELS and possibly Karens at work, and you are all snickering together as you continue your sad lives.
@@timsimmons9995 she was a child. She's not responsible for her mother not beeing intrested with her.
@@timsimmons9995are you insane? Who were the adult? Who was there for her in the time of need ?
You think it's just the part where she was held for a few months and sex trafficked... but then she mentions the mover guy and his friend, and being held hostage in the car, but then also the slumber parties, and then her aunt's ex husband, and then the guy in the hotel room. It keeps going on and on. It was not one incident, all throughout her life she was taken advantage of and abused.
Very sad. As a teen I spent most time at home which I didn’t like. When I hear stories like this I’m just glad I was a home person…
Also once it happens a couple times it's like you have a target on your back forever. Predators can smell the fear and they know once they try something you'll just freeze up and let them do what they want.
dont forget the part where she called the 30 year old man cute and inititiated that relationship at 16,then 5 mins later says ''i was like probably,i think 13'' she shouldnt be trying to jaz up a interview like this. I can tell Mark was on the fence about weithe she should be there or not. there are girls out there tht have been through this shit that were FORCED to .. they didnt run away from home to a guys house they think is cute and accept gifts.
@@tiedjai9774 A rather Bold and insensitive statement~ you need to look into trauma!!! Educate yourself and grow a heart ❤
there was the Lincoln guy though, god bless that dude.
She is one of the strongest persons I ever heard talk... I am without words because this is too much and she stills pour so much light after all this.
Great job talking about what you have been thru, I hope u find that "feeling" that makes you feel complete
It is so sad that she blames herself (the reaction from her mother when she told her about this didn't help, when she was blaming her little girl.) It doesn't matter how she was dressing, what happened to her was not her fault.
I just feel so bad for her and I just wanna hug her. She looks like such a kind soul.
It is also really understandable that she was always running away.
So true 💔
I agree totally
The mother HAD to blame Kat. Otherwise she would have been forced to accept blame on herself for not being there for her daughter. And Lord knows she wouldn’t do that.
@@febutterfly8021 - Exactly! My stepdaughter started "dating" a 16 year old boy when she was 12. They started having sex as soon as she turned 13. Her mother let him come around, knowing they were doing stuff like that. She also gave her daughter her first joint, her first alcohol and cigarettes to smoke, all at 12 years old. My stepdaughter was living with her father and me at the time. We didn't know anything about the other stuff because when she was with us she was a straight A student and we never really had much trouble with her, just normal teenaged stuff from time to time. She's 20 years old now. About 2 years ago she asked her mother why she let her date that boy and do stuff with him and why'd she let her smoke, etc. Her mom told her that she knew she was interested in it and would have done it anyway. Her mother actually said "You would have done it anyway and then what would I have done?" and got upset when her daughter said, "Stopped me, like a normal parent!"
The real reason her mother let her do all that stuff and did it with her, was her mom has always wanted to be the favorite parent and "the cool mom". Her mother had lost custody of her several months before letting her daughter drink, smoke, etc because of various abuses and still to this day, refuses to admit that she's done anything wrong, in any of those circumstances. Trying to be the favorite parent has actually had the opposite effect because they have a very strained relationship now and don't really speak.
The audacity of her mother .. She should’ve been begging her daughter for forgiveness for never guiding her, loving her, & for not being present .. This would’ve been avoided if she would’ve been at home more often . 😮
We need more stories like this. It’s a huge deal that goes unnoticed!
A lot of the sex work she did was consensual. “Human trafficking” is a stretch.
@@JohnSmith-jz4pk She was a minor she can't consent are you kidding me?
@@JohnSmith-jz4pk are you insane? literally every story she told after her ex was rape. fu** off
W consents to s3x, it's all the M's fault. Riiiiiigggghhhhhhht.
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She’s so strong and beautiful. I pray she continues to work on herself, self love and healing. I pray she finds the love she deserves.
My youngest sister is 13 and like, im in TEARS visually soneone that young going through that 😢 Thank you for sharing your story. More people need to be aware these predatory people are the ones who look like the most normal people. Its sick
My heart feels for her. I want to give her a hug and tell her how strong and beautiful she is. She survived and pray she gets a wonderful life surrounded by loving people and a family of her own. ❤
I am so sorry you are one strong capable woman God is with you always you have survived for a reason God has a plan
If she were black, you would be up in arms about racism
Same, she’s so brave 💕
Choices!
@@jonspengler5891 I fully agree… So weird there’s not one comment
You deserve healing. I hope that you find the perfect therapist if you’re ever interested in doing trauma healing. You hold absolutely ZERO responsibility for what happened to you, even down to the running away part. Every one of your choices makes perfect sense. You made choices to survive and you should be proud of how strong you were - not just now as a woman, but also as teenage and child Kat. You are also a wonderful mom and your children are blessed by you.
She tells the story as if she’s proud of it. She wanted the black treatment and she got it. Happens to millions of white woman it’s hilarious! Don’t feel sorry for her for one minute she chose to be pumped. White woman are pretty much groomed for this. She is giggling about being sprayed by piss. If a white man did that to a black girl it would be national news.
Stop excusing this slut behavior. She IS responsibile for her choices and even if she was a victim, she has ONLYFANS now which means nothing changed. Still the same but showing her azz on the internet. Thats it. Stop treating them like they are innocents, they know exactly what they are doing. She deserves all of it.
Just to add some clarity to my comment. The reason why Kat had zero responsibility for what happened to her is that she was a CHILD. She was not a woman. Her brain was not developed enough to be able to make fully informed decisions about having sex with adult men. She was completely victimized by those men. Also the choices that she made were out of survival. When you are traumatized your pre-frontal cortex in your brain goes off-line and you make survival choices, not logical choices. The running away was her brain seeking safety from her home that was full of neglect. As for her choices now as an adult, I find it remarkable that she has chosen to redeem her ability to make choices about how she uses her body. She uses creativity and has control, something she had no choice when she was a young girl.
This is so kind and wholesome. I pray she is happy, healthy, and thriving.
her mom seriously failed.
Wow, this really hit home! I grew up on the outskirts of Detroit and I can imagine myself in her shoes so much. Just one choice can change the projection of your entire life. Thank you so much for sharing your story. NONE OF THIS WAS YOUR FAULT
This woman is such a beautiful soul ❤ she is so strong. I know one day she will make that eye contact and it will be with her soul mate she deserves to be loved unconditionally
I've never been blessed with children bc of sexual abuse that started at age 3,
I wish I could take this woman as my daughter & show her how strong she is.
I'm so sorry every adult in her life failed her ,may God keep her
It makes me so sad to hear herself blame herself and they call it sex work, but it is not. It is child trafficking. Those pigs r*ped u and let others do so. It was not your fault, and I wish u had someone in your life to help u heal. Reach out to a trauma therapist. u should have an open space where u speak. They're different than average bs ones. Ive heard all good things about them. It breaks my heart to hear how your mom went looking after her family snapped at her, and the aunt to blame u that her daughter got pregnant. Are u freaking kidding me?
Rain I am so sorry that you went through that. I’m praying that you are able to be a mother to a child in need.
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Exactly! This was NOT sex work. This is child trafficking. How can so many adults let that happen to a little child :( @@nyxs_jelly9787
@@nyxs_jelly9787 I agree that it's not right to call it sex work when it's with minors who were literally kidnapped.
Bless her. She still whispers when she says she had sex. My heart is broken for her. Nothing you wore prompted your abuse. This is not your fault. NONE OF IT
she..was raped...by an adult man..this sounds a form of torture, no less, to me
i would never ever blame a child for their rapist doing that, and i would never solely blame an adult for their rapist taking advantage of them. however, an adult woman should be smart enough to not wear certain clothes in the hood. it’s not because they’re “asking” for it, it’s simply because this is a cruel world and everyone knows it. you just gotta be smarter than that. i’m not saying it’s the woman’s fault ever, this isn’t victim blaming at all. i’m just saying that in a lot of causes, preventative measures should’ve been taken from the women’s side. i feel like telling women they can wear whatever wherever isn’t healthy because the reality is, you have sick twisted men who take advantage of those same women based off their clothing and if they’re in a bad area where nobody will help.
I hope one day she finds the love she deserves because everybody needs to be loved unconditionally without judgement. She is a such a strong woman !
Finally I get to see the full version of this
It’s so tragic how child abuse victims end up reliving/recreating/falling into the same in adulthood. My heart goes out to this woman who has been so maltreated
💯 At the end of the day, it's one of those many rough stories that begin with early sexualization, continue with abuse, and eventually prostitution. Whether it's explicitly physical or not as a hooker somehow doesn't matter in the end.. I wonder how she explains her lifestyle to her children after she's told about her parents.
Mistreated*
Until/unless you have the resources to work through the trauma, you seek situations that are familiar.
@@lisarodriguez6966 It requires willingness or awareness and the courage to tackle the uncomfortable.
Dear Asher Woolf; I agree with what you write here, but I do have hope because of people like #OprahWinfrey, who was sexually abused and abandoned, ect…And overcame it all apparently…Thoughts? ❤
Her dad is my Moms brother. The last time I remember seeing Kat was when she was maybe four. I’ve hated that guy since I can remember. But after watching this, I can’t stop thinking about seeing him no longer breathing. This was the hardest thing I’ve ever had to watch.
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@@Conniebunny because he knows her >-
Cousin
Maybe you should reach out to her if she's your cousin?
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I hope you find a therapist that helps you figure out your attachment style and help you to love and accept yourself for exactly who you are. You have a beautiful soul. You’re a good mom ❤
First off [at] Kat : its incredibly brave what you did in this interview and its an immense service to society, raising awareness about this issue - hats off to you !! And also - thinking about whether I could openly talk about how I’ve been wronged and also how I have wronged other people -, is completely unimmaginable to me. So again, its not at all trivial what you have done !!
I read in another comment, that this reveals what America is truly about; even though I’m incredibly critical of American culture as a whole .. I think all of these issues are prevalent anywhere, where money . power . control mechanisms . ego play a major role in society. I’m from Eastern Europe, but live in Germany and we have exactly the same phenomena in society, just more neatly hidden, nicely tucked away under the carpet.
Ultimately what I took away from this interview (more so than any other so far) is that humans get hurt and they hurt others, but there is a way for the psyché and the soul to overcome pain and that is by being honest and truthful if not in front of others than in with oneself!
This is how our humanity can be rebuilt again
“teenage girls are either overlooked or over sexualized” WOW. that gave me chills.
You have a lot to say, and thank you for saying it! i'm wishing you peace, self-forgiveness, and nothing but prosperity for your family. It was never your fault, say it again and again until it sticks ❤️
I have watched SO MANY of these and this girl is breaking my heart into a million pieces. Her saying she just wanted someone to be happy to just hang out with her is killing me. If you see this comment, I'm sending all the good vibes and a big virtual hug to you. None of this is your fault. You are important. I had a lot of stepdads and my mother was emotionally not there, so I get it. Break the cycle with your kids.
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Absolutely true! So horrifying!
So sorry you suffered this #Kat
and all other #survivorsofabuse #innocentchildren #youareloved #youarevaluable ♥️🙏😭
Here are #RESOURCES to help #breakthecycle... They are free and powerful well designed 12-step programs based on the 12 steps of AA that have existed for decades and they can really help people #recover and transform their lives from #addictionandabuse.
One is called #ACA or #ACOA.
It stands for adult children of alcoholics but has been extended to include adult children of any dysfunctional family because in the dysfunction any reason you lack the critical love and guidance that all children need. The symptoms checklist helps people self identify whether this would be helpful and it is absolutely worth getting into because the symptoms are basically the same symptoms that are used to diagnose people with a lot of mental health problems but if you go that way they end up dragging you and doing talk therapy and I found it to be much more expensive and not as helpful and risky to to your body for side effects from drugs as well as self-esteem and stigma especially if you don't really get well.
With this group and the community of the resources that are extensive and proven over decades, with in-person and online meetings all over the world, one can heal quite a lot.
There are other twelve-step programs that address sexual abuse and bad sexual behaviors, and their inevitable outcome with histories of bad relationships and they include:
#SLAA, #SA, #SCA, #SAA and there were others called #ISA (infidelity), #SIA (incest survivors) and #TA (search "trauma anonymous")
For ALL groups, search initials above, and include the word "anonymous" (or sex + program or recovery or addicts).
Hoping whoever sees this summary of free powerful resources will use it or share it to heal from #abuse #neglect #sexualabuse #incest #trafficking #sextrafficking #addiction #healingfromabuse #healingfromtrafficking
#mentalhealth #emotionalabuse #physicalabuse #spiritualabuse
#healing #recovery #support
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The best advice would be to stay away from black areas because there full of pedophile rapists
I think horrible mothers are the biggest social problem we face, they screw up generations with their selfish weakness :’(
@@stephaay8437 I think men are as much if not more to blame for this shit show.
@@stephaay8437 horrible fathers too
One of the best interviews I've seen on this channel. Very real.
God bless you Kat, I wish you a million times well. I wish you love and success. Thank you for sharing your life, much respect to you for being so brave. You're an awesome mother.
Edit to add - as another commenter pointed out, in cases of sexual crimes, IT IS NEVER THE CHILD’S FAULT!! They are CHILDREN!
I just want to say for you and anyone else who needs to hear it - none of this was your fault. You were underage and taken advantage of by people who were over 18 and those people knew better. It breaks my heart to hear people say it was their fault for dressing a certain way or running away from home, or a thousand other things. The adults you encountered are to blame and they should have done better. Sending much love ❤
Yes, men are disgusting.
Exactly! If you have been through anything like this as a child; YOU WERE A CHILD! It’s never the child’s fault. Please stop blaming yourself!
Yes but we must also all take responsibility for our action as somthing we could have done could have prevented it . Either that be educating and asking for help .
Some times our egos are to blame.
initially it's not her fault. once she knows what the deal is and she continues to go back and run away that is 100 on her. even young ppl should know better. 100 years ago 12 year olds were running farms and helping deliver babies and raising livestock. we have coddled children for so many generations we have reduced them to entities that have no self responsibility and it is leading to terrible life choices like the ones she made after the first time she ran away. yes the ppl who took advantage are terrible but once you know that what is the excuse? she cannot for memories or use common sense?
@@misharamage5529 she kept going back because these guys give her stuff. she just started a onlyfans. she went in the bathtub for him to pee on her,then her mom bought her chicken fries. dont accept things from older creepy pieces of trash.i dont hear pain for about 90% of this video. she sends videos of custom content on onlyfans nd will do whatever ... nobody is making her. she says onlyfans boosted her confidence. she makes noooo sense
"I just wanted someone to WANT to be around me".... girl, that hit home for me so bad. I have never thought about it like that but as a 32 yr old woman, I think you just summed up exactly what I have been looking for my entire life. Thank you for this interview. I could relate to you a lot and I think your video and words will be very impactful to others who watch this. Thank you :)
Hit me right in the heart too… ❤️🩹
This is so true for me…I remember at 13, sitting at a lake we were visiting with the wife of my father’s co-worker…she asked me questions about how I thought and felt about school and friends and just basically took a genuine interest in me. She suggested I paint the inside of the narrow silver cuff I had on with clear nail polish so my arm wouldn’t turn green. No one at home ever gave me this kind of time or consideration. I felt so special and I wondered if there were other people like her and felt I had been given an amazing gift. That was nearly 50 years ago.
Yes, exactly what you said. I was hanging on her every word really, but those words hit home hard. 💕
Jesus wants to be around you 🙏
I related so hard.
Ugh I just want to give this girl a hug so bad ♥️ she’s the epitome of a SURVIVOR
I feel so sorry for Kat. It always starts in the home. Her mother truly f**ked up by never giving her love or attention, so she had to go seek that attention elsewhere. I’m glad to see she is moved on and I hope she continues to heal and build loving trusting relationships in her life.
Jesus that is one of two stories on here that has actually blown my mind. What an incredible woman to have gone through all of this and to still be able to get up in the morning and smile.
What an incredible women to go through all of this "sexualization" and she sexualizes herself on Only Fans haha this is what is wrong with western society. So sad.
This woman is so incredibly self aware. She’s also intelligent, beautiful and so many other great qualities. It’s a damn shame that so many adults failed her as a child as it could have changed her trajectory in big ways. Being as smart and savvy and introspective as she is she could have soared in whatever interested her.
Lastly, please please don’t blame yourself for anything that happened to you as a child. It’s not your fault, it’s not because you dressed provocatively- it’s because you didn’t have proper adults in your life to make sure you didn’t dress that way. It’s a parents job to see around corners and stay keyed in to your child’s activities. Your parents should have pulled you in at this point and changed your path. It’s our job as parents. And good god its not even your fault for running away. Your parents should have grabbed you and figured out what was driving you to run and gotten you the help you needed. This isn’t on you. You don’t have the tools as a 15 year old to navigate why you do what you do. It fucking pisses me off that people have kids only to ruin them by giving up. As a mom of three I would have never have allowed them to run and live anywhere but my home. The first time would be their last. I loved my kids through it and they are now thriving adults all living healthy, stable lives. It would have been my fault if they were anything but. I was born and raised in Long Beach, albeit, an upper class suburb, but no matter where you are in Long Beach you’re only blocks away from from trouble.
When I first saw her face before I saw the tattoos (not that I'm against tattoos) on her legs and hands I thought she looks like maybe a schoolteacher. Horrifying the way bad adults actually shape (in a bad way) the life of someone starting at a young age into adulthood, pretty much putting that person on a trajectory of pain and suffering most likely for life.
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Peace of SHIT to piss on you. I’m so angry
God bless you and your mom
It’s a evil world we live in.
she the total opposite of self aware
Kat, I get you … every single word and feeling you have.. the shame, the self consciousness, the men, the feeling of hiding and returning to a child. I am 52 and working constantly on all of this. You are not alone!!!
Hugs to you Kat for such brave sharing of your dreadful experiences 🤗. You are so brave!
Her feelings resonated with me 😢 abused, molested repeatedly, dating older men.... just wanting to be loved for you. This has to end. Human trafficking is widespread amongst men in power positions. Ill tell you one thing!! She is going to raise her daughters well knowing what to look out for. I DO NOT PLAY ABOUT MINE! 💯💯💯💯 You are beautiful, worthy and strong my sister ❤️
Absolutely agree! I've been mol3sted at 13 by a man I considered an uncle, I've been r@ped many times, in DV relationships where I was knocked out & my teeth kicked out of my face 4 not having s3x wit & serving his friends beer nude! I then got in a 8yr relationship with another abusive man who was more emotionally & financially abusive but got physical at times I was told often that I have 2 much baggage for anyone to really love me or stay with me & I have 4 kids 2 are adults I had at 16 & 18 then 2 are 7& 8 so it's hard 2 even begin finding a relationship nevermind a genuine one! I now have my own YT channel (not this one but a Voice 4 the voiceless S.W.O.S) I'm working on it for survivors of mol3station, S/A trauma & addiction recovery healing a place for survivors to share their stories & I've had a few on there men & women but I also help catch p3dophiles who prey on our kids online & so I just wanna break the cycle raise awareness 2 this rarely spoken on yet never ending issue! I'm praying for all survivors that you get the healing you deserve & find the voices we have had taken from us when they took our innocence- we gotta fight back & take a stand 2 protect our children!
Your blaming M for the guys YOU CHOSE to be with. Accountability mam, learn some for yourself. The majority of M aren't treating W like this, it's the M YOU are attracted to and chase that treat you like that.
The daughters will end up doing the opposite of whatever she tells them, just like she did the exact opposite of what her dad told her
A lot of men are flippin nasty dirty effers
@@user-ek5nl1jc4b well those MEN need to take accountability for being manipulative, low life, pieces of sh*t. Maybe then we wouldnt have anything to worry about, now would we?
it’s so exhausting to hear when a woman goes through this and people still blame her, not the men doing this to her???? My heart breaks hearing what her mom said when she finally told her what happened to her as a child. Such a beautiful woman inside and out, I wish the world for her and hope she finds peace over the rest of her life ❤
How about the men who befriend these women and get charged for sex trafficking because the women are no longer charged with prostitution? They have to arrest someone apparently and the women are all considered victims now. Even self employed ones.
Cause it’s easier to blame the woman than it is to change the system & get her justice. It’s sad.
@@kadebebesis4204 how is changing the system going to stop this? I agree women shouldn't be blamed fully but that last part jus stupid.... who u think giving power for shit like this to even go on? lmaoooo this is why they blame yall instead of being educated on shit yall go out in the world blind n trust whoever.... not this lady n this situation...
I don’t see any blaming the women. Actually all I see is blaming men and a lot of generalizing about men.
@@lollipopsfordays3610 i said in my comment what is as referring too. her mother blamed her for running away or dressing a certain way. & yes some men are being blamed because guess what… those men are the ones doing it??
I don't what to say because my blood boils in rage and my heart cries for this beautiful soul but all I can say that I wish her all the love, peace and healing, you are not alone, you are loved and you deserve all the good things in life
bless her, i really hope her and the other victims find some peace and happiness. i really hope they are ok . this breaks my heart