Sex Trafficking Survivor interview-Victoria
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- čas přidán 3. 02. 2023
- Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Victoria, a woman who was sex trafficked as a child by her mother.
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Imagine having the life she's had, and still managing to hold on to your empathy. This woman is so incredibly strong.
@@blackbriarwolf5766not exactly something you have control of as a child getting literally raped. It is not until you hit your teens to late teens that you can consciously start choosing which way you want your brain to grow.
When you are 25, your frontal lobe is done. Your neurons solidify. And it is extremely hard to change your brain patterns after that. You can no longer want to be super man one day and the NBA star the next.
So saying it’s not hard is condescending af and quite literally lacks empathy in your sentence Lmfao which is ironic. Someone with real genuine empathy would understand “it’s not hard” is a garbage explanation.
Sad...
The fact that she could do anything after was a miracle in itself
A great and beautiful soul
@@blackbriarwolf5766 The lack of empathy in this statement is ironic.
I’ve never wanted somebody to succeed as much as I want this woman to.
Amen!
Amen!!!
Great comment!
Well said . V sad story. 😔 she has good looks, and she talks well . She seems smart her mother fucked her life up taking her to get raped wtf her mam should be locked up with all the other men and wemen who abused her. 🙏
Many Pakistani men will treat you like a princess until you want to move on. Then they can become violent or stalk you and control you. Please be careful Victoria. God bless you in Jesus Name 🙏🏽
As a dad of a little girl, it breaks my heart to think of a little girl growing up without love, especially a loving father to protect them. If Victoria is reading this, understand that although you didn't have a loving and protecting mother and father growing up, you deserved one. Wasn't your fault.
Beautiful. You're a loving soul and good father.
As a child of a single mom, I can attest that some men are not fit to be fathers. In a perfect world, we’d all have two parents. But if you can’t have that, having at least one good one goes a long way.
Sending much love to you 💝
I totally agree. I have 3 daughters that I love with all of heart and would protect them with my own life ❤️
I echo what your saying to only add if I was to hear or find this happening to my child or any child, that person would do magic tricks and disappear
This is why CONSENT and child abuse education in school is vital. These predators feed off shame. The irony that they feel no shame about the evil they commit, yet their innocent victims feel nothing but guilt, pain, shame. That mother has no excuse. None. This beautiful woman has been abused and never wants another soul to suffer a tenth of what she went through.
I don't like the label "vital in school", making it sound like highschools need a 5 year course on consent and abuse. It can be easily covered in a single sex Ed class.
@@debaterofeverythingpresent2775 there is a need to be teaching kids things about consent and their bodies at every age - for example research has shown that teaching young children the medical/formal terms for different private parts reduces the risk that they will be preyed upon because they don't have any issues reporting troubling behavior from adults in their lives. Then for those in middle school, obviously it's not appropriate to give a full sex education course but they should be introduced to important ideas about bodily autonomy, people needing consent to touch them, etc. unfortunately any age and any situation (even a doctor or teacher) might be the moment a child needs some skills to understand how to respond to abuse. I think this is more of what the original comment meant
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Absolutely not little kid, you don't know what you're talking about like telling someone something in a short period of time is enough for it to stick for a lifetime
@@joestarm1971 you're coming off as a predator here. you don't think little children should have the words to express if they're being abused?
Teaching kids about consent is a in for perverts to teach sexuality to young kids . You can teach kids no means no and to respect boundaries without brining explicit sexual themes where they do not belong . I don’t understand how you look at sexual issues and think brining more sex into it is a good idea
dude the fact that her mom was a sociologist and a daycare teacher is insane. oh god.
It’s sadly common for pillars in communities to take advantage of their status & charisma/persuasiveness in order to do insidious things. More examples: School coaches, Boy Scout leaders, etc. A lot of daycares also have abuse unfortunately, you’d think having one means they love children but no. A lot of people (not saying you) think sex trafficking minors is some stranger that snatches a kid up, and while that can happen, the vast majority is the child’s own family and community. 😖
She should be doing LIFE in prison!!
My now 20 yr daughter has been held kept from me for ten years and I did not even get to say goodby. She was snatched from my flat after my parents helped meet her one last time in like a coup setting. Her mother were helped all along by grandmother, that used to work in a kindergarden. These two women are the meanest sickest fuckers in Sweden where I live.
One never knows.
@@thegbgfamilywhy would they plan and carry out such a secretive thing to get her away from you?
Can’t say it enough
Every child deserves a parent
Not every parent deserves a child
Thank you for sharing your story
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This really hit me hard ❤
first HAVE A RULE no relationships before marriage.....get married and then explore her. have RULES..have conservative ways...
@@rameesaliyousuf6219 that's an absolute crock of shit and has absolutely nothing to do with this woman being raped as a child.
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As a single dad of a 9 year old girl, I couldn't make it to the 8 minute mark without tearing up. I cannot understand how anyone could even remotely do something like this to a child. If someone even touched my daughter inappropriately, it would take everything in my power to not to end up in prison for how I would react, only because I want to be around for her.
❤🥺
That fine line between protecting your daughter and being kept from protecting her in the future can be hard
She said "I really want to be a good person" . She's a great person.
The way she was choking up, because she felt guilt for being mean to a high school boyfriend shows her kindness,and her big heart as a person although she's been through so much. I hope nothing but happiness to her.
Why would that effect how kind she is? That's what I don't understand. I'm the same way, been through a lot but never lost my kind heart. I can see how ppl can become hardened by their circumstances.
But many people become even more empathetic, patient, kind and strong.
I have a tough life, but I see the beauty in people my heart wants to burst with happiness
sometimes to a fault but nowadays I feel good about holding onto that good part.
Still got a lot of trauma to work through but better days ahead, better days ahead ☺️
@@NorthernGreenEyes Often, trauma survivors do react to kindness they feel they do not deserve with disdain. It is the first challenge to believing that they are unworthy. And it's a knee-jerk reaction to shoot that down. I think that most survivors, once they get to a place of safety where they are safe to feel their true feelings and leave behind some of the coping mechanisms that kept them alive, develop great empathy and understanding for others as, hopefully, they do for themselves. It's easier to be kind to others. Not as easy to forgive ourselves for the past where we "did what we had to do" to survive and realize that behavior or coping does not define who we are in our souls.
@@NorthernGreenEyesEverybody processes trauma differently. It's clear that her high school boyfriend's kindness and love was such a foreign concept to her that she didn't know and was not equipped to process it.
The people who gave her birth were both terrible to her. All she knew at the point was pain and abuse so love, patience and kindness must have felt so strange she couldn't process or handle it. It actually makes perfect sense. Plus she's been manipulated and trained to survive at such a young age that trusting someone nice when all she knew were horrible adults must have made her feel uncomfortable like she was in a foreign territory she didn't know how to navigate. She was more comfortable with what she knew that's why being with someone older and perverted at the age of 16 felt like safety.
@@NorthernGreenEyesPlus if you listen carefully she's actually very empathetic towards her mother. Despite the abuse she is ent through she started by explaining What may have led her mother to that point. The very fact that she tried to understand and not just blame shows a high level of empathy. I wish her healing and joy.
Excuses for being a shitty person
This woman has survived SO MANY LAYERS of PTSD. From her mom, her husbands, Afghanistan…
I’m in awe at how resilient she is. This woman is the true definition of a survivor. I just want to give her the biggest hug and let her know how loved and worthy she is.
Typical mancs 😊
Not everyone that goes in the military or gets deployed somewhere gets PTSD.
Infantry people are typically who get PTSD.
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You want to bang her.
The military she signed up for, so no sympathy there.
@@dangerous8333 She described the PTSD she experienced when the kid got killed... are you trying to say that didn't affect her?
Most people would crumble into some sort of addiction with a life like that. This lady is so special, such a warrior ❤️
Yes 😮 Amazing 🤩 Lil Lady 🤩 She is👏🏻 ⭐👏🏻, n to work on herself n Heal Verses use a scapegoat n continue spiraling is Giving so much hope to others just being here ❤😞.. Her son is very fortunate to have a momma to do the Next Best thing for them is such a Great Selfless thing a Mom can do 😢❤🥰❣️
The fact that you were so strong to see a therapist, you are amazing. Just listening to your whole story screams perseverance. You work so hard.
The way she has explained herself was very clear. Even Down to the smells bringing back to a certain time… exploited as a child and knowing it’s happening but not being able to stop it 😢horrible.
She’s so strong. Her voice shakes during the entire interview is heartbreaking.
She was in the midst of breaking down at any second, I felt so bad for her I just wanted to give her a hug 😔
You're right she is strong. I feel there are a lot of people that are not as strong and would go the other way. She pulled herself out and hope life for her will only be full of light!
So much grief, shame, rejection and heart ache!!!!
Desensitization is so common with trauma. It's such a foreign feeling, being so vulnerable. IMO it feels like "fight or flight mode" most of the time. Sometimes small things eat people up because they haven't fully healed from strong emotions and traumatic memories.
I know I want to see a therapist. Probably (definitely) virtually though🙃
Is her Mom in jail? If she isn't dead, she should be.....in jail.
The fact that her mom had a daycare and was a pilar in the community…OMG! I am speechless by her story.
In what kind of sick society can a single mother be a pillar in the community? Behind every criminal and stripper, there is a single mother.
Y? Her mother is a scumbag defo! ....but abuse within families is devastating to family's! A person no matter a YOUNG person with a person of truth is NO WORD available! I don't know & I don't act as if I do! TERRIFYING.
Those arpund her other did not have a sensitivity to the Holy SPirit. HOW could they not sense this. Lord let it not be us being like that in the Mighty Name of Jesus .
@@christellen3077 priests do this kind of stuff all the time. Even John Paul II was protecting pedophiles before he became pope.
share her story to wake up awareness
You're not alone sweet girl. I was also trafficked . Everything you said made complete sense to me. For years I thought I was broken. I was never able to achieve what I could have if I had parents that cared for me and protected me. My life was stolen from me. The thing that helped me was IFS therapy. I feel safe for the 1st time at 50. You are courageous. Thank you for sharing your story. Also, my mom is seen as some saint by her church and friends.your mom sounds like a narcissist just like my mom. She shamed me and gaslight me to control me.The PTSD is suffer made it hard for me to feel and to parent as well. I persisted. We're both safe now.
Thank you for sharing this and I am sorry for your pain. I got trained in IFS last year and it was a big financial sacrifice but feel it has shifted so much for me and the clients I am privileged to work with.
"Character development is not linear." wow what a simple, yet powerful statement.
The fact that her mom threatened her at the cemetery is so disturbing and haunting. She survived her mother. I hope Victoria is now safe and truly loved.
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This story is why the statute of limitations on child physical and sexual abuse must be eliminated. Thank you for your courage in telling your story.
I agree its unbelievable that ancient law the people living with abuse I follow one guy on instagram who confronted his abuser years later and the abuser called the police and he now has a criminal record, more than outrageous
@@siobhanadvice9257 Disgusting.
@siobhanadvice9257 holy shit that's insane. They arrested the victim?? Did he physically attack the abuser?
Totally agree, we should punch for that, they deserve jail without parole.
There are 14 states that have eliminated the statute of limitations on child molestation and rape. Iowa is one of those states starting in 2021. Now that the movie the Sound of Freedom has brought more attention and made people alert to the sex trafficking in this country.
I love her honesty. She is vulnerable and anxious; you can hear it in her voice. But her intelligence and truth-telling about the difficulties in her life are great attributes of a good person. This was fascinating. I hope Victoria is doing well. She's such a caring person, she deserves the best.
This woman has me an awe. Going through everything, yearning for normality in your upbringing and recognising how wrong the situation was but in spite of it all being a pretty remarkable person. That’s everything. You are you despite it all. It’s awful knowing that your life could be different if you weren’t subjected to things, that you might have had other options or made different decisions - it disempowers you then and tries to limit your present, your choices don’t seem like your own. I’m not done watching yet but already feel compelled to offer support in my words across the world and give thanks for the courage it takes to share and the professionalism of those creating.
“it’s getting uncomfortable just to be alive” is such a strong statement. Wishing her well - heavy stuff to carry around..
Well it's the other things that made me sad. I personally have found so difficult to just be alive for the most part of my life, but she had to go through shit that I only see in nightmares...
She's a testament to how resilient human beings can be. What an amazing person. Thank you for sharing your story.
Really puts things into perspective.
Yes! Keep moving forward. Bless her and her story.
Facts ❤
Her story is also a testament to Washington law enforcement. Everybody knows everybody in a small town, but the woman is able to sell her children to local pedos for years??? Wtf, right? I'm thinkin the cops had to be in on it, what else?? Her mom is a pillar, she runs a daycare, and the teen support center, while she is pimping children, it's like holy frick, what is going on in that town, flippin creepy.....
I completely agree! This gorgeous woman deserves more than she has been dealt, just imagine if she wasn't an attractive woman growing up, I'd imagine her upbringing would be wildly different. IF she would still be here :(
Ever since I first heard her story it's been haunting me, I come back here to check in case she's commented anything. I really hope that she's surrounded by all the love and care she deserves, she's so incredibly strong.
The amount of pain, grief and guilt is palpable. I'm so glad she's doing better, and in therapy.
I’m blown away by her eloquence and how incredibly well spoken this woman is. She is so self aware and so resilient. What a beautiful soul with such strength. My heart breaks for what she endured, but her story is beyond powerful of what can be overcome. So much love to you beautiful girl.
Totally. She is a high dimension soul in a mission.
Omg....her own Mother' one sick individual 😮. Amazing women here to tell her story...
Amen.
Her life was worse than mine growing up and she survived beautifully. She is just beautiful through and through. Makes me stop complaining about the weird crap that happened in my childhood. I just had one person that I had to deal with that made me feel subhuman due to molestation. What is wrong with these sick demonic people that prey on children and screw up our lives!!!??? How did they get that way??? Genetic evil???
Wow such a beautiful soul there’s so much danger out there for girls at a young age. Not all people are bad I hope someday she will see that.
The way she speaks about this even though she's hurting so much by doing it is a really good sign that her therapy will be successful. A very tough lady! Prayers for you sweet girl.
Really - are you a therapist ?
@@chrisBaxter-ly8or Yes. And I didn't say she would definitely do well but that her being willing to do something difficult was a good sign. Thanks for asking.
Very Strong Lady, she has been through so much, hopefully her life will be much better now.
I love the positivity ❤ she is so amazing and strong with such a unique story and how she is still going in life is so beautiful! Prayers to her🙏🏼
@@chrisBaxter-ly8orI am and second the OP. She’s doing an amazing job. I can hear raw pain but also willingness and openness in her voice. All it takes to make it in therapy- are those two things.
As a parent iv listened to this, and feel like I wanna give you the biggest hug and tell you your gonna be alright, your so smart, brave, and stronger than you will ever know, give your son all the love you never got and more this will help you aswell. All the love from ireland🇮🇪♥️
Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your story. Very captivating and inspirational. I've never wanted someone to succeed so badly. I know you will. My situation is not relatable to yours, but as a recovering addict ( 7 years clean) who is going through a lot of strenuous life shit at the moment. Talking and sharing has helped me.
Jesus dude. I don't think I've ever wanted things to work out for someone this much, and I don't even know this woman. Stay strong Victoria!
Sweet beautiful lady..be blessed❤❤
Is there any update? Is she still happy in Virginia with the guy?
@@gitareinitz9657 We all know the answer to that.....of course not. She needs to learn to love herself before she will have a successful relationship or find an appropriate person to be in a relationship with.
How can a mother do this to a child?! My heart breaks for her so much. She has been fighting since birth.
I know, evil.
Can't call her a mother
God bless her , I'm so sorry the female that tried raising you treated you so bad.
SICKS FUCKS CAN BE MOTHERS TOO UNFORTUNATELY
Insane, and then she says her mother actually had a master degree and no drug problem? I don't understand, horrific
This is one of the most horrifying yet beautiful interviews I’ve ever seen. The way she concluded things made me feel so hopeful. What an incredible light this girl has for the world.
Her mother is continued proof that not all smiling, popular, pillars of community are genuinely nice people.
As a father of 3 girls this breaks my heart. Protecting them emotionally and physically is my reason for existence. I would not hesitate to end someone if they tried even a fraction of what she's endured. How sad, I wish I could give her a big hug, tell her it's alright and take back what has been done. Unfortunately, life doesn't work that way and actions have lasting consequences.
i know right!!! thanks, we need more men like you!!!! i will help you fight the pedophiles!!! so sick of them, there are too many of them!!!
Wow this hit pretty hard. Father of 2 with the same last name as you lol. This shit makes my blood boil. Who treats anything or anyone like this???
Thank you, dads. I watched an interview with a pedophile and that’s the one thing that stood out about that animal. He said he’d always target children with preoccupied or absent fathers. We need more fathers in the world like you ❤
Well said. I feel the same about loving on and taking all the bad away. Also have your back in battle if ending someone if needed🙂🤗
@@J_M3444 same initials ain’t it
Her cemetery story, how her mom told her she'll end up there soon because she's not sexually pleasing anymore... that was heartbreaking. Some people are monsters.
That is a horror…how can tou do that it is beyond understanding…her mom is monster…
I would love a follow up on Victoria. I really hope she is doing ok.
Seems like her mother was a sociopath
Her Mom is lucky she didn't get stabbed to death by her daughter when she got older.
Thats one of the most evil things i have ever heard
She has been through THE ringer. Her story, the one she was born into and the one she has been writing, is incredible and honorable. You are an inspiration.
Wow, she is extremely well spoken. She explained her feelings and the tough stuff so well. Praying for her.
The story about her hating her high school boyfriend because he brought up the subject of them losing their virginities together.. breaks my heart. I can feel her pain.
Your virginity was that important to you?
Did this happen to you too?
@@Adam-K4 why can’t you show 1 ounce of respect in the thread . Tramps like you are just fckin predators ! Here to fuel your desire 🤮
@@Adam-K4 is your curiosity bigger than others feelings? How can you ask such a private question to random people?! Don’t do that again kindly.
@@Dragonnn333 Now I am curious how you receive this whole video of Victoria?
The interviewee was sat in front of the camera to entertain you by going through her PRIVATE life and the pains she endured including the story of losing her virginity, etc.???
You should direct your question to the interviewer!!!
AND there is nothing glamorous in losing virginity to a “friend”, regardless of the subject!
And my question was not out of curiosity. Find the irony, plzzz.
She doesn’t even realize that she “IS” a good person already! I’m glad she’s finally found what she deserves!
No one is good. She needs a savior just like the rest of us do.
But Jesus can and will heal her if she will repent and put her trust in Him. I really hope her current boyfriend isn’t sex trafficking her now. He may be. If she’s still doing Only Fans while living with him & he has access to & any control over her money then sadly, she is.
Pedophiles have infiltrated the schools for access. No surprise her evil mother ran a daycare, had a masters degree & was seen as good in the community. If you fit into this wicked society, you’re at least complicit. The system is corrupt and evil af. We let pedos, pumps and addicts take over the government and society. It will all go down soon. God will punish the world for allowing such evil to exist. These evil bastards will all suffer into the eternities. 🔥🔥
She is undoubtedly the strongest and most persevering person I have ever seen in my life, I hope she is healing and finding joy in life again. What an inspiring story and even more inspiring human, sending her all the love and safety in existence.
Victoria is amazing. So strong, so self aware, so well spoken, all while talking about such painful memories. She’s such an incredible inspiration ❤
This is absolutely heartbreaking. Your mother deserves the death penalty and so does anyone who abuses children! God Bless you for your courage to tell this story
wonderful, death-penalty for the mentally and phisically ill woman. I'd like to know what do you think her dad deserves? but of course we don't think men should be punsihed, just kill the mothers
Agreed. I hope her evil b1tch mother will rot in hell for what she did!
Her mother was probably abused as well and that’s all she knew
@@dorisday4765 alot of people have been abused and treat their children just fine, its no excuse , in fzct it should normally be a motive to do better
@@carmenf7994 true. I was just being devils advocate, but no one should be sentenced to death. Not even these despicable people
Her clenched fists in the still shot, trembling voice, and constant hand movement said it all to me....she's still that scared little girl who was left to the wolves over and over again. I pray that she can forgive herself because none of it was her fault. There's so much I'd want to say to her mother, but I rest easy knowing she'll get her just reward for what she did to her own blood. Her brothers beating up the married man really made me glad for her, but then we learned she wanted to stay with him. Victoria was trapped in just about every direction she turned in her haunted life. It was so brave of her to share all that in front of a stranger and to the world. Perhaps it is the first big step towards recovery. Brightest blessings over you Victoria. There are a ton of people rooting for you!
Very well said, Gregors!
You're kinda degrading her by saying she's still that little defensless girl tbh...
She's strong and she is NOT that little girl anymore, she grew up and took control. Of course theres insecurities and fears or whatever, but no one will ever take adventage of her like that ever again.
We love you victoria, you got this ❤
Riveting, Intense, Heartbreaking, Inspirational, Real. Just... Wow. When she has to stop and is taking those breaths or talking about not wanting to exist it triggered such a strong empathetic feeling. Lord knows I have been there. Thank you for sharing.
as a 30 year old father of two, this broke me. this lady is so strong. thank you for sharing your story.
You survived a “childhood” no one should ever have to endure. You are incredibly strong. And now you have a lifetime to build the life you desire, you deserve, filled with love, purpose, family, beauty.
People don't come back from this.
I disagree. If she can give her life to Jesus, He can change everything.
@bulrich610 she's improving.. but she relies a lot on men, like they are her rescuers. not blaming her. I get it.
@@californiaconservative949 Jesus doesn't like poor people, and he has an American's First policy.
@@californiaconservative949 So wild you can literally listen to a story about a young child being r-ped repeatedly and abused and you can still believe in an all-knowing, all-loving sky daddy.
The way her voice shakes half crying but still explaining everything so clearly, just rips my heart out. She seems like she managed to keep such a beautiful soul living in total hell on earth.
I want to hug her so bad! This video really inspires me to be a foster mom. I want to provide a safe, loving and protecting environment for kids who might be going through similar situations. I hope she finds healing and happiness!
My heart breaks for this woman. What she was subjected to was gut-wrenching. I admire her strength. Her mindset. I hope she finds peace and forgiveness toward herself and lives a happy, healthy, and wealth-filled life, surrounded by people who love her unconditionally. I wish I could help her realize that she's amazing, it's ok and the future is unscripted, to help her change her stars to whatever brings her happiness. The way we treat our children resonates for the rest of their lives. We need to do better.
This felt like a releasing session for her. I pray she continues to receive all the love she’s getting. She deserves the world!
Yeah, i thinking made her feel good to be able tocget this all off her chest. My guess is she sees a therapist to talk to about this, which is good. Stay strong Victoria, you're beautiful and it's so wrong what your mom did to you, I'm praying for you. Sending lots of love and prayers 🙏
I like how she gives the humdrum synopsis of her past in the beginning that we always hear from ppl. And her real story ends up sounding like an epic blockbuster drama…. We just never know what ppl have been through, but can assume it’s nothing like what they’re telling us at the moment
I feel like she’s the kind of person to just heal from talking about it. She’s very well put together mentally, so I’m sure she’s resolved most issues by herself in her own mind, but benefits from sharing it tremendously, at least I hope that’s the case ❤
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Rarely do people get through life unscathed, but man, how much can one person take? It’s mind boggling how strong she is inside. 1% of her story could make the average person fold, for good. I don’t know if she realizes it or not, but her internal survival skills and instincts are at a jaw dropping high level. She’s beautiful on the outside and I just hope that she is able to see her incredible beauty on the inside as well.
Her name is Victoria hence she managed
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True! ❤
Absolutely!
@@Tina-ng9up drawing inferences from a collection of syllables is asinine
I am so sorry for what you went through, and I respect you so much for your courage and ability to overcome these things. On a different note- thank you for your service.
her mother called herself a christian, had a masters degree is sociology, and worked with children. such a sick and horrible individual. so sorry for the pain and severe abuse she inflicted on you Victoria😔
And that pissed me off even more because she was educated and not a dope fiend. 😡🤬
sounds pretty par for the course if you're aware of the church's history, unfortunately. That's what you get when you make all sexual topics taboo. Putting normal, healthy sexual behaviors in the same category as objectively terrible, harmful sexual behaviors gives them a forest to hide in.
I find most Christians to be the same. They're horrible people, but fear god. Good grief.
I always cringe when I hear someone is going into sociology, psychology, etc. Nine times out of ten, they're messed up people who come from fucked up childhoods.
@@champsvizion7801 I know lots of addicts who take very good care of their kids, especially compared to her mother.
@@baublesanddolls me too.
The fact that this girl keeps going should be an inspiration to the rest of us. What she’s been through is WAY too much, but she keeps trying. Will be praying for her.
Or she is making it all up seeing how there is so many mentally ill people in this country anymore. It's just really hard to trust anything anymore
@@MORGAN2FARMSwow you are a douchebag for saying she made this all up. but maybe probably because you fear that this is taking place throughout the world. Quite commonly, in fact. So you’re a douchebag AND a coward! :)
@@MORGAN2FARMSI see your profile picture is a pig. Quite fitting! Oh the delicious irony.
@@MORGAN2FARMSbe quiet please
@@MORGAN2FARMS As a mental health professional, I would be EXTREMELY surprised if she were making it all up - she’d have to be a pretty accomplished liar/sociopath to fool me this well. Not bragging about my skill or anything, but this ain’t my first rodeo… what DOES surprise me is that she hasn’t just given up - a lot of people would have by now and just let depression/drugs/alcohol/poverty/despair, etc. take her down with them. She’s one tough 🍪!!
Thank you for being so brave to share and I just support you for this
Wow. My heart goes out to you. You are such an incredibly strong person!! This has been eye opening as to how some people can be terrible and fly under the radar…I don’t understand how none of the other adults in her life (teachers, church members) never noticed something off with her. Very heart breaking. Pay attention to children, folks. They need protecting and guidance.
I just wanna give this woman a hug and pray for her. I'm 7 min into her story and my heart is cracking.
I’m at 7 mins now and it’s really hard to listen to.
Wow, I'm at 7:09 minutes in and I stopped. I don't have many words for this but I have prayers and hopes for this unfortunate soul.
You are such a strong woman and you are incredible after all you went through and still as strong as you are. ❤
I'm 10mins in and I've stopped it 3 times. This one is hard. 😢
The shakiness of her voice, but the strength shared in telling her story is amazing. Victoria... I hope sharing sets you free and allows you to heal and feel that complete strangers love and support you.
Exactly what I wanted to say! Best interview to date!
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So well spoken, She had had so much to deal with, I really hope her life just continues to get better. She seems very smart, First time on this channel and impressed with the vulnerability she is showing. So much pain as a child and then growing up so fast. Hopefully this interview was cathartic.
So very very heartbreaking!!!! Thank you for sharing your story !! I can hear your voice how shaky you are I’m so sorry this happened to you breaks my heart for you, but you are an incredibly strong and beautiful person. Don’t forget and hopefully someone will heal a little bit from hearing this I’m certain of it.
You can really tell she sat there and took her time to say that everything she went through and how she felt. She explained herself so well and I’m so proud of her. Wishing her, her boys, and her loved ones the absolute best! ❤️❤️❤️
What’s ur snap
This woman is highly intelligent and a deep thinker. I hope she finds peace and happiness.
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Exactly what struck me.. How bright and articulate.. Selfless individual who just aspires to be a virtuous person.
@@hoptoit8687 shut the fuck up, she is very articulate and intelligent, if you can't see it you are just a dumb idiot
@@hoptoit8687 if she wasn’t molested and raped as a child. Most of the comments would be how retarded she was
@Hop to It! your comment added ZERO value. It's fine you disagree but you offered no alternate point of view to be considered. Nothing
Your a survivor. You are blessed for having the heart n mindset you have for your circumstances. I feel Like I was my own psychiatrist for so long and sometimes still am.. You are so strong and so understanding of what is going on with yourself. I relate to understanding that. My childhood wasn't anything like yours but I had a. Horrible time with a person forced into my life. I later learned my mom knew about this person and this took me to a dark place. Hoping for better days... Trying to cope and understand. Just sharing because you made me feel comfortable doing this. You are extremely brave and I hope you receive the love and happiness respect you deserve 🙏
this was the single most interesting video of yours and i think you put out so much excellent content, but this tough lady just has so many facets and all of them and her takes of them are just so deep
ps: i usually watch these videos with my fly open, there, i said it. well, much less so on this episode bc of how the story went, but it wouldnt change the fact eitherway that i always learn sth new and that these videos do very much change my views of the world and politics, so i'm extremely thankful for every guest on the programme. you've found a great niche here.
She said “I gave up” when she struggled with community college. You have never given up despite your difficulties. Give yourself some credit. You are awesome.
You’re amazing ❤
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Victoria’s desire to overcome every single situation, the most darkest I’ve ever heard, is exceptional. What a warrior. This will help so many people. Brave isn’t enough in describing you.
She needs to stop relying on men to save her. She doesn’t realize it now, but finding a man through only fans is a huge red flag. That’s weird. I hope she finds the help she needs and is able to build a life of her own independently.
Her Mom wasn’t stable…..she sold her off…this is not about men, she was a predator
@@flamcityWho were the people who touched and molested and abused her? Men. It’s not only about her mother, it’s also about the men who abused and used her.
20 min in and I can’t finish it. Shit has me emotional for her. I applaud your strength and courage to work through this. You’re amazing.
God damn. Her explaining why she hasn't reached out to her first son was heartbreaking, insightful, and incredibly mature. That is a REAL mother right there. She is putting what is best for her son before any needs or desires she might have personally. She is also taking his stage of development and how he would be able to interpret things into account.
Absolutely; prioritising critical period for neural development / betterment of her child.
STOP CURSING GOD.HE HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH THIS.WE HAVE FREE WILL,TO DO AS WE PLEASE.WORSHIP GOD,NOT CURSE HIM.DANGEROUS OCCUPATION.
@markpaul-ym5wg calm down pal. Not everyone believes in your imaginary, invisible man in the sky 🙄
@markpaul-ym5wg wow. You've officially converted me. Your unhinged rant to a total stranger on the internet was just the thing I needed. Thank you so much for showing me the lord’s holy light....
@MickeyGreenEyes213 Sir,my comment was the truth,and not unhinged.People have always ran from the truth.Obey GOD,and you will never need for anything,because he will make it obvious where it came from.
The way she explains why she chooses to stay away from her first son is so profound. When you truly love someone you want to protect them no matter how much it hurts. She loves her son but she wants him to be happy and mentally healthy. I pray they reunite one day.
That's not "protecting", that's abandoning your child because its too hard. She said at 35.55 "I hope he'll do what I did as a kid... he'll wanna be rescued. And he'll find me, reach out to me." Like she knows he's going to have a rubbish life? Poor kid. Her own Mom abused her because of past abuse... you'd think she wouldn't use that excuse to have nothing to do with her own son
@@kidstuff44555 no. First off, She was repeatedly raped by the kids dad and is probably not even healed from that to even co-parent with him. Dude was in his 30’s sleeping with a teenager.
@@tablynn2686 So he sounds like a terrible person to abandon your child to. Her mother also was abused, is that any excuse for how her mother then treated her? No. Stop excusing bad parenting. People need to care for their children, not give up on them
@@kidstuff44555 you have more compassion on the rapist than the woman who was taken advantage of but ok.
@@tablynn2686 Actually I have no compassion for the rapist, nowhere have I expressed that. My compassion is all for the child. Adults need to stop excusing poor parenting, no matter the reason for it
Victoria, Thank you for sharing your story. You’re so courageous and brave to share your experience so that others may have hope! It is unimaginable what you have had to go through. My prayer for you is that you continue to heal and have the love you deserve, for you and your son.
I grew up the town over from Gainesville, and around the same time she did. It’s shocking how close to home this can happen, always keep your eyes open for signs. I feel bad for this beautiful woman. I’m glad to see she’s strong enough to speak up!
Her story and the way she told it were incredible. Her self-awareness and her resilience and optimism were also so inspiring. Victoria you could and should write a book!
Is that your... "advice" ? ?! Or admiration ? Or whatever horribly banal "well-intended" -- some people...
You probably also have some ideas ready for the cover picture of "her book" ?
And I catch a glimpse of other comments: incredible how people who have never been in such a situation dare to offer advice or future plans, yes even pseudo-psychological consultations. Your response is one of the least worrisome.
@@Kyle_Warweavecut the person a break! Their comment was very compassionate!! Writing a book may very well be her ultimate therapy! You don’t know! I admire this young lady for her courage to sit on that stool and pour her heart out for the world to see and hear! Putting it on pages is even better!! It could help bring peace, closure and forgiveness!!
Absolutely!!! I was thinking the exact same thing
@@Kyle_Warweavereally??? Wow, you are incredibly paranoid to assume that from a simple compassionate comment. I was thinking the same thing about the book. And if I told you about everything I've been through, you'd have no grounds for a comment like that about me. But you don't know me, and you don't know this person. So chill out
@@coryd2668 Give who a break? Take a look at the comment section ! Almost everybody has a say and advice for the victim (you too). Even a doctor should be cautious with advice. But people who have learned their morals from talk shows without any experience in this field shut really back off !
You could listen and say you feel sorry but that's really about it. Unless you have been in a similar situation and then you probably would seek contact discretely and not by posting one of these TikTok comments.
She has obviously done A LOT of healing! I can tell in how articulate she is, the way she tells her story, her EI is incredibly high! A true story of resilience and strength, while also a reminder of how ugly the world can be. I'm so sorry this happened to you. Praying for you to be continually uplifted.
Is it healing or did she toughen up? Unfortunately that’s not the same
Ditto!!!
I'm sorry, but the only thing obvious is that you cannot make those types of judgement calls after watching one short video - you don't know her EI, or how much healing she has done. To point out the obvious, you have to actually know a person to know that information. You have to know a person well
There's so much pain in her voice. I hope she heals and lives the rest of her life showered in warmth from genuine love and people who genuinely care for her. God bless you Victoria. You are truly a strong human being.
Great story telling. The progression from childhood trauma to teenage years to adult good to current situation is really good. I wish her the best
Every time Victoria took a breath, it tore me up. It is so painful to hear her story . She is so strong. I am happy she is in a better place.
Yes she is,but it was only way to survive,maybe for her son
I am speechless. Victoria’s life experience was designed to annihilate her soul and spirit yet she kept pushing, put up the middle finger and showed up for herself and her son. I’ve never felt the way I do right now watching a SWU vid. She deserves the world. I hope it’s still in her hands today.
Demons at work! Sad
Absolutely awful! Her mother should have been arrested.
yes, you are right the devil causes pain and torment because the more he does that the more the persons soul will die
I'm speechless too... these adults were predators...evil. maybe Germany cared, but he knew she was a kid, and had no where to go.
What if her oldest son actually needs to be resqued? Why wait till he is emotionally or physically damaged before “rescuing”? If you are leaving him, at least make sure your brothers are making him aware he has this lifeline. If he ever needs help. Because assuming “it’s so easy to find me”. For some it might feel it would be easy for a kid to ask for help, but it’s not. You have no idea if he is ok there. And as his mother you have an obligation to make sure he is actually ok. Don’t repeat the cycle. You are a very strong and brave person. I wish you all the best in your life.
what an amazing story. thank you for sharing this. Victoria, you deserve life’s finest. telling your story and being honest about where you are i’m sure has helped so many people. there is so much bravery in vulnerability. i’m grateful for your story, your resilience, and your light in such a troubled world. may you continue to heal and grow and i wish you and your family the best.
She's by far the most articulate and real person I've ever seen Mark interview. I hope she continues to heal, to grow, to discover her true worth. May God be with her and hold her close.
It is not true to say that she is the most real person that have been interviewed for this project. I mean she is sooo impressive, one's can't take that away from her. So, it's just that some others had difficulty to express themselves due to drugs, or difficulty to speak openly and fluent about it, or other insecurities. And I think that's why the still portrait photo is attached to the video, to show their humanity and vulnerability. It's very real.
What qualifies one for being a ‘real person’? Other than existing really
@@MsMak03I think they are referring to her not being a drug addict. All of the comments of her being well spoken or eloquent are just thinly veiled judgments of the people on here that are addicts or mentally unstable. It’s upsetting because those individuals are “real” as well. It’s sad.
@@MsMak03 If I were using that type of phrasing, I would use "real" to describe someone who isn't bending the narrative in any way. With most people (including normies), you can tell that they are saying what they think you want to hear rather than describing it in their own words.
Like fir sure but did you like it because it was liked and liked it but like I don't know did you like
Her mom should have been behind bars and have intervention therapy. What a beautiful girl, her testimony is moving and what a life she had.
Agree!
What kind of therapy is going to "fix" anyone who is emotionally capable of sex trafficking their own child. They are a lost cause at that point. Totally unfit for society, and should be disposed of immediately.
It would surprise you how many adults allow their children be used and hurt
No she should be sentenced to death.
I am absolutely blown away by this girl's story, wow. The fact that she can even talk about any of this and articulate so clearly the feelings and emotions she experienced has me in awe. I can totally relate to her and am so inspired by her truthfulness and willingness to share her life. Whenever I think I'm having a f**ked up day, I'm going to think about her and realize I can get through whatever is happening. Thank you SO MUCH for this video and I'm praying she continues to share her story, in hope she can help other young girls being sex trafficked/abused. God bless this young lady, I pray she finds inner peace some day. ❤️🙏🧿
My heart goes out to all the abused and unloved children who then grow up with so much pain! Thank you for surviving!
This is so heartbreaking. Sending you lots of hugs.
I grew up in an abusive and chaotic home. Both parents were abusive. Left home at 14 years old and never looked back.
Mother hated my independence and at a young age i knew i can take care of myself no matter what.
Absolutely sickening, and a lot of people don’t realize children are sex trafficked by their own family 90% of the time. Boy if there was a place in hell for these people who would do this to a beautiful child, I wish with everything in my spirit that they would rot in the worst place in hell.
The fact that this woman is alive today and you can still see she has love in her heart, is just incredible.
they are?
Exactly, so many people think it’s a stranger that snatches a kid up, but no the vast, vast majority is the child’s own family. 😖
Thats so sick. The betrayal. Pretty sure they get the millstone around the neck on Judgement day
@@yourworshiptv Yes they are. You should watch the movie called “The Sound Of Freedom.” This is based on a true story of a detective who goes undercover to rescue s-trafficked children. When I watched an interview with the actual detective, he was talking about an operation to save a group of children they were undercover and trying negotiate a price and amongst the negotiators was the mother of one of the children. It’s just sickening to know that these abused children are being handed over WILLINGLY BY THE ONE PERSON THAT IS SUPPOSED TO PROTECT THEM!!! I hope this helps🙏🏼
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Sending you so much love and light frm Md. I hope you can feel the impact your story has on us! I admire your strength to keep going! You told your story so beautifully and I just know this will help so many other survivors. You are so brave. You deserve all the good things in life. ❤ Be well.
I can't imagine the pain in your life. In 6 decades of life, I haven't had a 10th of your pain or grief. I'm glad you have got your life sorted & I hope it continues this way. You are a strong soul who has endured way more than any one person should. I pray you stay on this path and just look one day at a time. Your moving forward, with purpose, will be rewarded. 🙏
She's incredible. The fact that she left the military - the first place that elevated her self worth and was clearly good for her, because something she saw there no longer aligned with her principles is commendable. She's so articulate and such a brilliant story teller. But what comes across most of all is her humanity. She's the sort of person that restores your faith in our kind. Someone who's seen the entire spectrum of humanity, the bad end more than the good, and yet she chooses to keep moving forward. To stay hopeful, and open, and kind.
I'm a British African woman from Kent and I would like to say this on behalf of all humany:
Thank you Victoria. You are loved. Every version of you matters, and is worthy. I'm sorry you were let down by so many people, but the way you dug yourself up from the shit over and over again, and continue to do, is the most heroic thing ever. I'm so incredibly proud of you. I'm glad you took a chance on your current boyfriend. I hope you find peace, comfort and long lasting love together. Thank you for sharing your story. Thank you for fighting for yourself and inspiring us all to do the same. Keep moving forward. All the best xx
Beautifully said, praying for this Beautiful young lady and her son's 🙏🏼🕊️💕
Such a thoughtful comment and very well put.
Thank God for the DayLight5 post. Well said. Numbing to hear how kids are being treated by faith based parents and "role models."
Her smile will light up a room when she feels capable to let it all out. I hope and pray for this new relationship in Virginia. She will be in my prayers more often than she'll ever know. Please God be a blessing to this young lady in and through her everyday walk.
Wow. ❤
So beautifully said, thank you for expressing what I was feeling. How big of a heart she has after all she’s been thru is actually unbelievable..
She has so much potential. With therapy and really processing what she’s been through shd could be anything and been successful. She is so smart and a great speaker. She needs to understand she wasn’t a “participant” she was a victim, and a child. She had no choice. She was exposed to adult situations as a small child. My heart breaks for what happened to her.
So true. I know you meant well, however, I would like to say that they were not "adult situations", but rather evil situations, with evil people, who had power over her and abused it and her in horrible ways.
Early introduction of sexuality and sexual situations is called covert child sexual abuse.
It happens ALL the time and is horrifyingly being championed all across the US and most of the western world under the guise of "trans kids." A 4 or 6 or 8 year old doesn't even understand the concept, yet it is being forced on them and they are openly exposed to adult sexuality and sexual situations, without their consent.
I'm not political and that's not where I'm coming from at all on this, but it is the same thing, being normalized and made acceptable.
These children are going to grow up and realize that they have been the victims of sexual abuse and they are going to have to deal with that, except by that tike, this will viewed as acceptable childhood experiences and the help they need won't be there. It will be like child sexual abuse was treated in the 50s or 60s, as a family issue and not something for health services to deal with.
All that advocating and fighting and struggling, and it was all for nothing.
I hope that stories like hers and mine and others will open people's eyes to the reality that stealing children's innocence comes in many forms, but leaves the same trail of devastated children.
She is truly a beautiful soul. Hearing her speak about any topic is just so amazing, I can tell that her heart is so pure. regardless of anything she’s been through, her eyes are so so kind. when she speaks about her first son i can’t help but have this overwhelming feeling of respect for this woman.
This has to be the most powerful video I've ever seen. I don't know how this woman survived everything she shared, but damn if this isn't the true definition of strength and perseverance, I don't know what is.. WOW. I'm stunned.. it really took a moment to gather myself and process this interview. It's amazing how this beautiful woman can still find love in the simplicity of life. WOW.. Thank you for sharing your life with us. You are a GREAT person ❤️.
That is probably the most amazing story of overcoming adversity I've ever heard. You deserve an award for turning your life into an honorable one & not letting life events define you. You should be proud of yourself.
She deserves an award for turning her life into an honorable one? Did you actually watch the video all the way through? The last thing she told us is that she does online pornography, and is now shaking up with one of her OnlyFans patrons. Where is the honor, virtue, and integrity in that?
Yes!
Dude I couldn't have said it better myself maybe 5 percent become productive citizens the rest are dead or junkies
Being 16 is not being a young woman. Being 16 is being a CHILD. even still at 17 you are a child! Adults need to be held accountable for the damage this does to the children of all genders.
Look up the woman who escaped North Korea, she has interviews with Jordan peterson and Joe rogan that are great watches about overcoming diversity.
This is the first one that I’ve watched completely through and I’m absolutely blown away at how thorough and authentic she is in her life’s storytelling. I hope that things continue to work out for her and she starts feeling more and more spiritually healed in the future! Everyone is rooting for you, Victoria! And thank you for your service.
legit same same! i listened to every single word too. She should do public speaking
Yes, let's hope the next boyfriend can again 'help' with the healing because it didn't last with her OF Pakistani bf.
So very moving. So beautiful, so intelligent. I am so hopeful for her future. Thank you for wanting to help others Victoria.
Praying for this young woman/ mother and wish the best for her and the man in her life. God bless you and your new relationship and acceptance to be loved.. that’s what you needed.. is to be loved! ❤TY for your service young woman! Stay strong! 🙏🏻🇺🇸
Wow....your Mom was an absolute monster, a piece of trash. I hope God gives her the eternal punishment she deserves. I pray for your healing, and I'm very sorry life was so cruel to you.
What a legend you are!!! Strong, courageous, beautiful inside and out, loving after all the shit that’s happened to that should NEVER had happened to you, you are an inspiration to many in this situation , thank you so much for sharing, love to you and your fam, keep up the great life you have now xxx
This one brought me to tears. So glad she seems to find some peace now. This was heartbreaking. Her hard work is paying off.
You just never know what people are going through or have gone through, this is why I try to be kind to everyone I meet. What a strong woman she is. I pray she heals completely.
True, but we never know what % of what people tell is Truth. Or Not.
The public is ASTOUNDINGLY gullible, and often believes things just because they're presented to them.
@@poom641 ur comment on this video is STUPID. This person is a clear victim!
@@poom641 It's obvious she's telling the truth. Why would you even inject that comment here? This is why so many people stay silent. One of their fears is that they won't be believed. Not only is there no benefit to her for speaking her truth, but she runs the risk of reading comments like yours or even worse, mean and nasty comments. Another words, be supportive or shut up.
@@poom641 This is real life,it isn't all peaches and cream...we share a world full of sick individuals.Just because you haven't witnessed or been through horrible things doesn't mean other's haven't.
“Its so uncomfortable just to exist” such a hard hitting statement that I’m sorry you had to feel.
What a monster for a mother. Sending this beautiful woman ( inside and out), smart, strong woman so much love. I'm so sorry this happened to you.
You are an amazing person Victoria. You are a walking miracle. My father sexually abused me and I survived. I have a PhD in psychology and have had a very successful career. Keep telling your story. My story has inspired many people. Survivors need to share their stories because it will help inspire people to overcome their own dark past.
Keep the faith!!!
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Praise God for your success Dr. Thompson. I have horrible memories of sexual experiences as a young child also. It was bold of you to make a comment like this, so thank you. Keep the faith 🤟
I was also sexually abused by my bio father. Its something that stays with you and no one understands unless you've lived it
And you’re a man? Wow a lot of men need to speak up more bc I think this happens more than we know, Jesus Christ I’m speechless
@@altheah.1251 Jesus Christ
I can hear her pain and it hurts. The comments are filled with “Im sorry’s” but I want to say congratulations. You’ve survived. You’ve overcome. You’ll always be healing, but your moving forward. Keep pushing. ❤
“I’m sorry” is a trauma response. I feel your pain Victoria. Hold, love and take care of that child within. You are the true definition of a survivor. ❤
She just wants people to feel sorry for her until she wanted to she had so much time to say something
@@jaimechavez5249F off
@@jaimechavez5249 man how can you say something that is so truly heartless? You are not in her shoes. You will never be in her shoes.
@@jaimechavez5249 You are a terrible person.
Victoria, what an amazing testimony of survival and healing you shared; thank you.