"He Was Too Perfect For Me" - Why women divorce "perfect" men
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- čas přidán 27. 04. 2024
- #datingadviceformen #selfimprovement #relationships #divorce #kaka
The "give up all hope" crowd had a field day with this but their conclusion is far from the only one.
1:50 - the one downside to this argument is that, if you marry and have children, structure and predictability is, without compromise, absolutely necessary for the raising of those children. You cannot be a bad boy and a father. Otherwise, yes I agree with your premise.
There's a minimum effective level of structure and predictability that is needed for fatherhood yes. And that is quite high to be an effective father.
However, there is still space for the spontaneity and excitement. In fact, the structure needs to allow space for it for the structure to continue.
Focusing only on structure leads to divorce and a failure of that structure.
In the same way, women who focus only on their children and neglect their husband, end up hurting their children by the animosity or separation that follows from such an over focus.
No-fault divorce needs to be abolished.
That doesn't change anything. England had no fault divorce laws. You needed an excuse, and they have a lot of divorces. The problem is women don't need men.
@@LOUDMOUTHTYRONE here’s what I see as acceptable for divorce (FAULT divorce): abuse, neglect, dereliction of duties, adultery, withholding sex, fiscal malfeasance. All other reasons are bs.
@@BGFitnessNYnot wrong
Kmt.....and here I am praying daily for a genuine lover....life unfair
Afghanistan has the right idea
You're focusing on what you think Kaka was like in the relationship but it's all assumption. Even if we take your theory on board -that Kaka had shown more 'alpha' traits, she'd most likely have left him too.
People who are broken (most modern women) don't like themselves deep down so they have no true love to offer their husbands. That woman won't be happy with the next man she chooses either, at least not in the long term.
She found a emotionally triggering Tyrone or Chad, simple as.
Kaka wife up some street belonging 404. Now, she will try to get his wealth & their kids to get his money