#datingadvice #relationships #selfimprovement #attachmentstyles #rocd #relationshipanxiety Content clip is from Teal Swann but I couldn't find the original
Is saw those short, yes it triggered me and made me think. Yes im single because theres a reason. For me its because i dont go out, self isolated myself to the point where i only talk to my family, i have no friends or social circle, due to that i dont met new people => social skills no that good/not many situations for better calibration of said skills, i fill my freetime outside of work with tasks alone at home or Yt, for human connection i use normal relationship videos for sexual i use corn
@@busybecomingmyself In an ideal world i would want to have or lead a other life. So yes. My job and habbits keep me in a mostly overwhelmed state. So that i end up doing nothing different. That dream of something better in comparison to my actual day to day life kind of keep me in a depressed state (base line). I dont know how to get past this obstacle.
@@giveitatry951 by accepting the parts you can't control and changing the parts you can control, even when you don't feel like it. That also involves accepting that you won't usually feel like doing the things you know you need to do to bring about change.
Is saw those short, yes it triggered me and made me think. Yes im single because theres a reason. For me its because i dont go out, self isolated myself to the point where i only talk to my family, i have no friends or social circle, due to that i dont met new people => social skills no that good/not many situations for better calibration of said skills, i fill my freetime outside of work with tasks alone at home or Yt, for human connection i use normal relationship videos for sexual i use corn
Good self awareness. I was in a similar place earlier in life. The question is, do you want to change it?
Do not assume that being in a relationship is always the right choice. When people enter toxis relationships there is a f**** reason for that as well.
Indeed. You don't want just ANY relationship.
@@busybecomingmyself In an ideal world i would want to have or lead a other life. So yes. My job and habbits keep me in a mostly overwhelmed state. So that i end up doing nothing different. That dream of something better in comparison to my actual day to day life kind of keep me in a depressed state (base line).
I dont know how to get past this obstacle.
@@giveitatry951 by accepting the parts you can't control and changing the parts you can control, even when you don't feel like it. That also involves accepting that you won't usually feel like doing the things you know you need to do to bring about change.