10 things you SHOULDN'T do in the PHILIPPINES! | Filipino culture

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  • In this video, I will be your local tour guide to help you get familiarized with some of the things you shouldn't be doing in the Philippines to not get yourself in trouble! Save this video if you're planning to come to the Philippines. 😊 #filipinoculture #rubeauti #philippinesvlog
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Komentáře • 916

  • @edwardcrandell-wpmabe8819
    @edwardcrandell-wpmabe8819 Před rokem +232

    1. Do not ever let your Filipina get Hungry! 2. Only get into a cab with a working Meter. 3. Never argue with a Pinoy (especially in Public) 4. Don't sing "My Way" by Frank Sinatra at Karaoke. Don't down-talk or belittle "Manny Pacquiao." 5. Be patient, Be patient, Be patient, Be patient; things move slowly in the Philippines; just keep reminding yourself you are on vacation.

    • @tumdeedaidee7835
      @tumdeedaidee7835 Před rokem +8

      No.4 🤦, what about "Fly me to the moon"?

    • @913KCED
      @913KCED Před rokem +12

      Good advice on all counts (and, yes, it's true about "My Way"...people have been shot for singing it in karaoke bars). I might add a few more Be Patients too...I've lived here three years and have no desire to move back to America but it's a fact that patience is absolutely necessary. I've repurposed an old travel ad slogan: "It's More Time in The Philippines."

    • @xaphan8581
      @xaphan8581 Před rokem +4

      Lol down talking manny pacquiao should be a nation wide thing.

    • @billgb2934
      @billgb2934 Před rokem +2

      You can sing My Way as long as you sing it well, if you're out of tune beware. Lol

    • @eddier9455
      @eddier9455 Před rokem +9

      "things move slowly in the Philippines" except on the roads 🤣

  • @johnlovesdiana7096
    @johnlovesdiana7096 Před rokem +112

    I've lived in the Philippines for almost 20 years and I learned early on that no one ever comes on time. So whenever I have a party and I want it to start at 7 PM I tell everyone it starts at 6 PM. This way everyone shows up on time.

    • @innerpeace5223
      @innerpeace5223 Před rokem +3

      Filipino time

    • @ben-ji-errick
      @ben-ji-errick Před rokem +7

      filipino time is god's culture . we are far more superior to time, time can't slave us. time can't control us. time should be inferior to humans. life first before time. not time before life. time should follow us, not us to follow time.. time restrict humans, but not filipinos

    • @innerpeace5223
      @innerpeace5223 Před rokem +3

      @@ben-ji-errick that’s actually a false statement, I’ve been to the Philippines many times, everything is so damn slow, you have to wait hours or days for simple things that I wouldn’t wait longer then an hour for in a western country, other Filipinos living on Filipino time effect your life by making things take longer then they should and you actually waste more time then anyone

    • @ben-ji-errick
      @ben-ji-errick Před rokem +7

      @@innerpeace5223 it will take longer if you think about time. but filipinos don't think about time. we chill and doesnt care about time. time is just a time. we love to take time and chill. it looks like slow because time consume you. but we filipinos are the opposite. we don't allow the time to take over our life and be slaves. we enjoy and chill.. we filipinos consume time. time can't control us. that is our mindset. and by the way you can't waste time because time is eternal. so the best thing to do about time is to go with it and enjoy life. 😁

    • @ben-ji-errick
      @ben-ji-errick Před rokem +3

      @@innerpeace5223 don't allow time to consume your life. we people die. time don't die. we die, time will continue. so dont make time consume you.

  • @donwilliams6712
    @donwilliams6712 Před rokem +59

    My Filipina wife has never been late for work, but never been on time for anything else, even though she has been out of the Philippines for over 30 years. Filipino time is a thing.

    • @myspewedcomment156
      @myspewedcomment156 Před rokem +6

      But in all seriousness, that's 99% of all women around the world.

    • @mikeske9777
      @mikeske9777 Před rokem +3

      My Filipina wife is never late for appointments but the same applies to the rest of her life. I tell her something about that we need to be there at this time it is like ok and she will be late. Been doing that for the past 40 + years

    • @-haclong2366
      @-haclong2366 Před rokem +2

      Same thing in Latin America, in fact it's way worse with us. At least Filipino time means that it happens that day, Latin American time means that you could wait months for something.

    • @jimmyfields3654
      @jimmyfields3654 Před 4 měsíci

      Wrong my wife phillippineo she's late for almost every job or interviews 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @oilairnalo
      @oilairnalo Před 2 dny

      @@-haclong2366 No Show is, for Cebuano-speaking Philippine provinces: "Indian".
      Well, North and South American Indians' habit?

  • @bigassslabs-chainsawmillin8461

    I definitely chuckled at the comment about litter and trash. During my first visit to my filipina in October it seemed that people were constantly cleaning and tidying their personal space. But the moment they walked outside of their own personal space it was fair game to just drop trash anywhere!

    • @joshuarizalforeman816
      @joshuarizalforeman816 Před rokem +17

      Precisely my observation. My wife and her family are obsessive about keeping the house clean but once outside, even a few yards from the house, they just dump their shit anywhere.

    • @johnl9977
      @johnl9977 Před 4 měsíci +1

      I enjoyed Almeria Biliran much more than Manila. Besides my wife's family there, it is a really nice place, people are great, and it is very green, rural.

    • @davidbwa
      @davidbwa Před 4 měsíci +1

      I have observed that as well.

    • @DrTofutybeast
      @DrTofutybeast Před 3 měsíci

      Totally true 😮

  • @grandpapeteswordsofwisdom7114

    Your statement that the Philippines is 50/50 is the truest statement you could make. I find the Filipinas with the most realistic view of their country regarding all the weather calamities etc. are the ones who have lived and worked in foreign countries outside of Asia.

  • @dennislbrown
    @dennislbrown Před rokem +127

    Even from state-side, I"m learning what you mean about laughter. I mispronounce Bisayan and Tagalog words all the time, and my filipina laughs, but I've learned that it is not making fun of me, but it is from the joy that I am at least trying to learn the words and talking about her culture. Westerners do not usually laugh like this, so yes... do not take it personally, they are laughing with you, not at you, even if it doesn't seem that way.

    • @jerrymylove1754
      @jerrymylove1754 Před rokem +12

      They are definitely laughing at you. Stop lying about them.

    • @Ed19601
      @Ed19601 Před rokem +7

      Ditto. Whenever i speak bisaya, people laugh. I don't mind. Just happy to be a source of joy

    • @feg466
      @feg466 Před rokem

      @@jerrymylove1754 😄😁😆

    • @davidbowyer6642
      @davidbowyer6642 Před rokem +2

      They are not laughing at you. When I mispronounced word is Bisaya or tagalog my pinay laughs and then helps me correct what I mispronounced so I know next time. She is very happy that I took the time to try and learn the language

    • @telcobilly
      @telcobilly Před rokem +5

      I am a constant source of amusement to my wife and her family here in Cavite as I destroy Tagalog pronunciations. Doesn't bother me at all. And if they are laughing AT me, it's in a good natured teasing way, not some kind of bitter mockery when someone hurts themselves..

  • @leightaylor806
    @leightaylor806 Před rokem +18

    Filipinos are in general such a warm freindly and very lovely people. Every day is a blessing here. Nice video. Thanks for posting this

  • @davidheyes4771
    @davidheyes4771 Před rokem +12

    Thanks for sharing the good advice, I've been visiting the Caribbean for the last 20 years (mainly Cuba, Mexico and Dominican Republic), and after seeing different vlogs from the Philippines, Thailand and Cambodia, I think it's time I should give South east Asia a visit (it's been on my mind for the last year or so), kind regards from England 🍺🍹👍

  • @idahoexpatlifeinthephilipp1092

    I have been coming here to the Philippines for about 16 years and live here in Silang Cavite and I love to watch your videos on Philippines culture and customs, they have helped me out more than a few times and I don't get in any trouble with the advice you give ... Thank you for the info

    • @TheKatstreet
      @TheKatstreet Před rokem

      Hi kumusta?
      First, salamat Ate, for your time to prepare these videos.... 👍
      Second, I am English, what is worse, I am a Yorkshire man from the hillsides and mountains lol😆....
      I am the husband of a wonderful Filipina and step dad to two great kids..... We were married before the lockdowns, then I had to leave the country.
      It has been aa tough three years almost, however we are still strong and I am hoping to return for good around the middle to the end of April.
      I appreciate your help and the work you do in making these vlogs.
      God bless you and stay safe.... I hope that I can not only continue to adapt and learn the Filipino culture, but also bring some of my "native" culture from my birthplace of Yorkshire..... I live in North Yorkshire, the largest county or region in the UK most of which consists of farmland, quiet, very old villages and coastal towns...... Thanks again.... Paul x

    • @kevinhope561
      @kevinhope561 Před rokem +1

      Oh nice. I'm just up the road from you in Dasmarinas. Cheers

    • @roroc653
      @roroc653 Před rokem

      @@TheKatstreet I’m 😊

  • @bobmoore5242
    @bobmoore5242 Před rokem +1

    Brightens my day when I hear a Rubeauti from the Beauty.

  • @JPag9989
    @JPag9989 Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you so much!!! This is gold for "prospective newcomers" like me 😊

  • @CondeNastCruiser
    @CondeNastCruiser Před rokem +13

    I love speaking other languages. I often butcher their words. When it happens just laugh with them and allow the lesson to sink in ;)

    • @bob456fk6
      @bob456fk6 Před rokem +1

      Sometimes it's amusing, sometimes embarrassing.
      My favorite example is the difference between "eraser" (as a pencil eraser) in American English and British English.
      That can be embarrassing.

  • @fkoff7649
    @fkoff7649 Před rokem +16

    I'm a Filipino and everything you said is on point..

  • @913KCED
    @913KCED Před rokem +1

    Some great advice on all counts. I've lived here 3 years and you nailed these one after the other. Glad that the two pretty office women who couldn't stop giggling yesterday (probably) weren't laughing at me.
    One thing I'd add is titles. Filipinos will use them on everyone (from "Sir Bruce" to "Kuya Bruce" in my case) and the reverse is appreciated, even among friends. I don't think NOT using titles is considered rude, just culturally preferred as a show of respect

  • @jacob-nanette
    @jacob-nanette Před rokem

    @Rubeauti this is one of heck amazing video with 100% wise and great information it can help so many other people who never been in the philippines and want to vissit.
    no matter what country you will vissit one thing is for sure you need to accept and respect the livingstyle from the country you vissit when you show ur respect to the people they feel proud and are more open to help you for what you looking for or when you need some information and its also a fact each country has good and bad people be respectfull accept the way of living enjoy ur vissit meet new people.
    all my vissits i had to the philippines where all amazing and wonderfull since 2010 i had never problems whit any one there stay safe and healthy always God Bless Mabuhay sa pinas

  • @scottsdialyadventure1338
    @scottsdialyadventure1338 Před rokem +11

    Differences and especially note the term Blacklist. Perhaps many have not been familiar with this term or its use. This can get you removed from the country and even band. Believe it or not just from another person's allegation they might be local on a power trip or they might be another Foreigner that just has it in for you on my second trip to the Philippines I had the displeasure of associating with the wrong people. This was a retired attorney for the government, who definitely enjoyed the power of threatening people. I was warned about her before I ever met her. For a week I stayed in her rental, and all was good until my camera disappeared. It was obvious someone had the key to my room and I was not staying there any longer period. The attorney lady then sent me a message threatening that I owed her several hundred dollars, for my ride from the airport and not completing a three-week stay in her rental. I never committed to any. Of time and I thought we are friends so she would perhaps give me a ride from the airport. The messenger inform me that in the past some people ended up dead and I better believe that. So despite losing my new camera I paid up and avoided that lady except for the fact I ended up marrying her niece, whom she demanded I never see again.
    On topic while I was living in Cambodia a businessman friend had been there almost 15 years. He was upstanding and always complied with the visiting officials, books in good order. One of his crazy customers had him do some work and was not happy and despite trying to compromise that guy ended up destroying his 15 years in Cambodia and ended up being blacklisted and throwing out of the country. Yes believe it or not this stuff happens you got to watch who you piss off. The only thing worse I would say would be ex-husband's I will not date a woman with an ex-husband you don't know what is going to happen and they can get away with murder. Just remember you are a visitor not an owner
    🙏😎🙏

  • @JoshuaPark505
    @JoshuaPark505 Před rokem +17

    I've known of taking shoes off, many households even do that in the US, but I didn't know about taking socks off too!

    • @dave-d-grunt
      @dave-d-grunt Před rokem +5

      @@Rubeautiyou should see my entryway! I’ll bet there’s 60 or more pairs of shoes!

  • @Leo-xm9bz
    @Leo-xm9bz Před rokem +3

    great job giving us this great information. keep up the great work your doing. love to hear the differences between different part of the cities and island.s since there are so many islands to visit and enjoy the culture there .

  • @megapangolin1093
    @megapangolin1093 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Lovely evaluation of a great culture and people. I enjoy being laughed at in the Phils, I know it is not meant, however much I deserve it, the people are so nice and kind. Fantastic country.

  • @haroldfinberg8003
    @haroldfinberg8003 Před rokem

    Although I had visited the Philippines many times during the 80's and 90's; I truly appreciate the current update.

  • @raymahannah4336
    @raymahannah4336 Před rokem +6

    Thank you Rubeauti! 🙂 Great advice! There are realistic expectations, and imaginative ones... Keep the former in mind, and you will have a great time "most" of the time in many places... 😉 I will be back for the 3rd time in a year next month... I've watched your vlogs, and other reputable ones too, so I was well educated before I arrived, and I've never been let down or had a bad experience. 🙂♥️

  • @tedburnard841
    @tedburnard841 Před rokem +25

    As an Australian retired here in Imus, Cavite for a year now, with my Filipina wife (after numerous holidays here in the previous 10+ years) I totally agree with all points raised here. I do drive here but only when I have to and just locally anyway as we have our own car here. We do hire a local guy to drive for us if we are going further afield. I hate driving here too, so nerve wracking. Mispronunciation is a source of humour and I am guilty of it. On a Jeepney once, my wife said to pass our fare down and say bayad. Must have been my accent but I got a few looks from fellow passengers as it sounded like bayag, which is not a nice word!

    • @silent389
      @silent389 Před rokem +1

      🤣🤣🤣bayag

    • @SHOW_ME
      @SHOW_ME Před 7 měsíci +2

      Fyi: Bayag means balls, testicle, nutsack

  • @UncleFexxer
    @UncleFexxer Před 8 měsíci +5

    The weather changing several times a day is NBD... I live in St. Louis. I'm used to it.

    • @jameslivingston7159
      @jameslivingston7159 Před 4 měsíci

      Same here in Cleveland. None of the weather is snow in the Philippines though

  • @user-sd4fp4cu7u
    @user-sd4fp4cu7u Před 5 měsíci +1

    Awesome video and great advise. Very helpful, thank you.

  • @Griani2024
    @Griani2024 Před rokem +3

    Those are the kind of videos made me follow your Chanel, I’m happy you are back and hopefully you won’t get into the toxic atmospheres out there for too long to die in there.

  • @ronsilk6212
    @ronsilk6212 Před rokem +4

    I have been to Phils 2 times and im planning to go back in September or October.
    I love you people there.
    I feel like im important there not like here in Canada where i am put down here.
    Love you and see you soon Philippines

  • @PhilipJSmithNov1990
    @PhilipJSmithNov1990 Před rokem

    Good video, got back on 24 January after going out there and leaving home on 5 January to get there by 7 in Cebu and 8 in Mindanao where my family live. I feel that visitors to a country should respect a country's traditions, laws, legislations and other ways of doing things. I don't agree with everything the Philippines does but my mum, brother and I enjoyed our stay despite not going there that often.

  • @marcusgraham9478
    @marcusgraham9478 Před rokem +1

    I have never worried about any of these things Rubeauti, just part of being in the Philippines, but, very informative video, thankyou, soon 50K subscribers 👍🥰

  • @GMANN83
    @GMANN83 Před rokem +3

    Great video for me Rubeauti , Tumi Filipinos and some blks have a lot in common, especially when it comes to Filipino time and CP time 😁

  • @kenrice
    @kenrice Před rokem +8

    I enjoyed your video. I have lived in the Philippines on and off for more than 42 years, starting with my first assignment as an active-duty US Air Force member at Clark Air Base in Angeles City in 1980. I spent more than half of my adult life in the Philippines, where I lived, worked, traveled, and eventually moved. My wife and I are now snowbirds and divide our time between homes in Eastern Samar, Manila, and Oregon, USA. I am impressed with your video content. Thank you

    • @johnpaulmakowski7464
      @johnpaulmakowski7464 Před rokem +1

      Ken, I served TDY at Clark during that time. WE prob saw each other many times!

    • @solarguy1702
      @solarguy1702 Před 3 měsíci

      Air Force guy here from Oregon. Had orders and all the shots to go in 1973. Cancelled at the last minute cuz they wanted me to renovate barracks for an upcoming world inspection.

    • @kenrice
      @kenrice Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@solarguy1702 Clark Air Base was my most favorite assignment. I loved the Philippines so much that I re-enlisted in the Air Force and made it a career.

    • @solarguy1702
      @solarguy1702 Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@kenrice the thought of the women scared me but was excited to get jungle fatigues. Maybe not? Not a combat zone. Now I live in the Philippines, married for 15 years with 2 kids. Life is strange

  • @MrBiggles53
    @MrBiggles53 Před rokem +1

    Excellent point about not tracking indoors whatever you walked through in the street. And as I recall, it’s plenty hot enough in the Philippines that the floors won’t be uncomfortably cold.

    • @GenerationTech11
      @GenerationTech11 Před rokem

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  • @Galloway737
    @Galloway737 Před rokem +1

    Best advice..... Keep expectations low... listen to your filipina and expect the weather to change daily!

  • @DavidECoy
    @DavidECoy Před rokem +10

    Been married to a Filipina and we have a house in Antipolo. For anyone reading the comments, she is absolutely correct. Also don’t get mad if they shout out Joe to you. It’s also like a joke thing too. Filipinos are some of the most kindhearted people I have ever met and I have never had a bad encounter with anyone and I have been spending time there off and on for 20 years. Good luck on your channel.

    • @methemonkeyking
      @methemonkeyking Před rokem +2

      @David: Thank God the saying “hey Joe” is not really yelled-out much anymore. There are plenty of dumb Filipinos that would yell “hey Joe” to me, and I'm Filipino. They think I'm a foreigner because I'm not dark, 4 feet tall and have a flat nose the size of a baseball.

    • @DavidECoy
      @DavidECoy Před rokem +2

      @@methemonkeyking that’s funny they think your a foreigner lol. I can remember I never noticed it then a British guy told me about it. Then I noticed it everyday I went out. At first it made me mad cos I thought they were making fun of me, but then I realized it was in good fun not bad. I would hear it then stop and chase them with a smile on my face especially when it was kids.

    • @methemonkeyking
      @methemonkeyking Před rokem +1

      @@DavidECoy : I thought you might think it was funny. If your name was ‘Joe,’ you would be amused that they knew your name, as if you were a celebrity. But, I just curse at them in Filipino.

    • @methemonkeyking
      @methemonkeyking Před rokem +2

      @@DavidECoy : BTW, my nickname is Jojo.

    • @DavidECoy
      @DavidECoy Před rokem +3

      @@methemonkeyking my best friend married a Filipina in the Philippines and his family come over for the wedding and vacation. One of his young nephews was named Joe and we teased him uncontrollably lol. We were like damn you said this is your first time in the Philippines so why dose everyone know your name? How do u know those guys? He would say I don’t and we be like well he knows you. Also he heard it right away cos like u said it’s his name so he was always turning his head around looking to see who was calling him. At the guys night out the night before the wedding after many drinks and much more teasing we finally told him what was going on. He was like damn I really thought I was crazy lol

  • @MadDogAdventures
    @MadDogAdventures Před rokem +6

    I get laughed at by Filipinos every day and it makes me so happy. There is no meanness in the laughter it is just happiness

  • @jimbolic0809
    @jimbolic0809 Před rokem +1

    Useful information. Thank you!

  • @fishingwithrick3991
    @fishingwithrick3991 Před rokem +1

    Thanks, useful information. Going to Batangas this year.

  • @pehu436
    @pehu436 Před rokem +5

    Slow day for me. Here's my comments on the subjects.
    1. I usually greet people that stare at me. I actually got a date that way.
    I find it interesting that they laugh at my pronunciations but fear the ridicule so quickly heaped on them if they mispronounce English words.
    2. I bring my own "House slippers" wherever I go. I have sensitive feet and wear socks that get very dirty if I don't.
    3. I don't go to Manila, except to the US Embassy. I get a loop shuttle bus from the air port to a hotel nearby and walk everywhere. Most of the taxi drivers I encountered there are scammers. It would be nice if there was an online presence that helped you find how to get around but the Philippines is still in the cyber prehistoric ages.
    4. Tech and other imports are normally on par with the US. Medicine can be 5 times a much as the US, especially for common generics and over the counter.
    6. If you're going someplace with a Filipino, she will make sure you arrive according to their time. But every meetup with an online potential girl friend has started early because every one of them has been there waiting for me. Don't sweat it if you're late. You are either on vacation or retired after all.
    7. I can be a shark and non-confrontational people tend to be shark bait. But I'm really working hard to "curb my appetite". 😷
    8. I'm terrible at learning language. I struggled with English in school. But I manage okay with just English. The Americans actually bought the Philippines and the power brokers wanted a return on their investment before getting rid of the islands. I think one company is still the largest employer. But they never intended to have the Philippines occupy 12% to 15% (as much as 25% now) of the House of Representatives.
    9. The weather is the number one reason for retirees to find where they like living before finding a girl friend. The weather is ddefinitelynot the same everywhere and not all women are willing to relocate, even within the country.
    10. The Philippines is the business of the Filipinos. Not me. Well not in a way that includes demonstrations.

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  • @thomaswilhelm3384
    @thomaswilhelm3384 Před rokem

    It is best to show up a little early for processing paperwork for your visa application.

  • @migovasquez0303
    @migovasquez0303 Před rokem

    English is not my first language but it’s always good to learn them for some tourist who only speak it. I guess majority of Filipinos speak more than 3 languages average. I speak 5 languages. Namely, Hiligaynon as my lengua franca, Spanish is my second and third is English, just because I work here in USA as nurse but my Portugese is my penultimate and as extensive. Tagalog would be my last as I only learn it when I studied in Manila for my university. The rest of what she disclosed are very true excepting that in my house in Seattle I would tell people to remove their shoes. Lol. Great videos. Muchas gracias de verdad!

  • @JohnSmith-bz9be
    @JohnSmith-bz9be Před rokem +3

    Well done again with your advice and tips. And I am still impressed about how you dealt with the issue of western women reacting to passport bros, Andrew Tate and views on Asian women. Stay safe and happy vlogging!!!

    • @GenerationTech11
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  • @viajesseguros
    @viajesseguros Před rokem +15

    One thing I can say is when I was in Manila going through immigration people in the airport was staring at me and yes I wasn’t use to it
    I went to cebu and I was at the mall with my GF and people in the mall was turning there head I definitely felt like a celebrity for the month I was there no doubt

    • @viajesseguros
      @viajesseguros Před rokem +3

      @lordhonestyscomedychannel8683 not at all and when i was at the mall downtown cebu a few people asked me if i play basketball . me and my GF even went to oslob and it was pretty much the same they would stare and smile

    • @viajesseguros
      @viajesseguros Před rokem

      @@satbobsmith7261 yeah from my understanding they like basketball a lot in Philippines. I will be back in Oslob at the end of march I can’t wait

    • @jmaca112
      @jmaca112 Před rokem

      how do you know they're staring at you??

    • @bob456fk6
      @bob456fk6 Před rokem +1

      Westerners are fairly rare in public areas.
      I find myself looking at them and trying to guess where they might be from 🙂

  • @ramslucas5140
    @ramslucas5140 Před 4 měsíci

    I’m Filipino American and my wife is from the Cagayan province I love the Philippines it is a jem of the Pacific….what the Philippines does best is hospitality they are a resilient people and have a real human experience as far as life is concerned even though there are parts that are less fortunate… just as the world has… I have witnessed the most genuine smiles I have ever seen in my life… this alone is enough to appreciate the Philippines and there people… after all my parents are migrants from PI and all their stories they have blessed me with are true… even though I was born with a golden spoon in my mouth here in the states… I never felt so much alive and connected to human kind as I do in PI so much that I married my wife from the same province as my Mom… and no it was not arranged…I met her accidentally and now 14yrs married … the best decision of my life…

  • @Randy_Gayler
    @Randy_Gayler Před rokem +1

    Couldn't think of a better tour guide if I tried 😋

  • @chuck26241
    @chuck26241 Před rokem +8

    Many people on this earth don't realize how precious time is. If they did they would waste very little of it. TC Rubeauti God bless y'all 🙏✝️

    • @jamesrecknor6752
      @jamesrecknor6752 Před rokem +1

      TRUE

    • @ben-ji-errick
      @ben-ji-errick Před rokem

      time is not precious. life is precious. time is eternal, your human flesh is not. so don't allow time to consume your life. that is filipino time.

    • @chuck26241
      @chuck26241 Před rokem +1

      @@ben-ji-errick try living your life without time and let me know how that works for you 😂🤣

  • @Snowwie88
    @Snowwie88 Před rokem +5

    I walked several times (as a Western European) in Manila, in crowded area's etc, but never got the impression people really were watching or laughing. To be frankly honest, I felt comfortable, just as 'safe' as I would be in Amsterdam. Just act normal and everybody does their own business. It's not like Filipino's never seen Western people before. 🙂. Also driving in Manila was a little challenge, but fun at the same time. I have some video's on my channel were you see me driving (out of) Manila towards Tagatay.

    • @humungushumungus213
      @humungushumungus213 Před 5 měsíci

      Video channels are like assholes, everyone has one

    • @user-bf5fi4ss2q
      @user-bf5fi4ss2q Před 4 měsíci

      Driving a motorbike on that Edsa in Manila used to scare the hell out of me.

  • @-haclong2366
    @-haclong2366 Před rokem

    06:55 In the Netherlands we have a term for this, we call it "Oost-Indisch doof" (South-East Asian deaf, literally East India deafness) because historically it was considered rude in Javanese culture (Java being an island in Dutch India) to say "no" directly so many people would jump through hoops or pretend to not have heard the request.

  • @robertmadea9229
    @robertmadea9229 Před rokem

    Thanks. Good to know. For me personaly point number 1 and 9. Usually people try to advert best trip destinations, but You are giving good tips.

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  • @NeoValient2020
    @NeoValient2020 Před rokem +7

    Thank you, Rubeauti! Great informative video. I just visited the Philippines for the first time and really enjoyed the sights, sounds, people, and culture. I am in the US and my Filipina partner of 6 years is suggesting we retire there. I am seriously considering this and looking to do this in about 10 years (God willing)

    • @kevinriddell2105
      @kevinriddell2105 Před rokem +2

      That's also my plan. With my gf of 6 years also.
      I have been to Cebu 9 times since 2006. Love it there.

  • @keithaar62
    @keithaar62 Před rokem +7

    last time i was in philippines in manila.. people didn’t seem as friendly as usually.. even in department stores normally they run to get your attention but this time we’re very stand-off.. just wondering if anyone else noticed this 🤷‍♂️.. maraming salamat video 🇵🇭❤️🙏

    • @jamesrecknor6752
      @jamesrecknor6752 Před rokem +5

      Noticed the same thing in a small city in Mindanao

    • @porkyvonchop6458
      @porkyvonchop6458 Před rokem +5

      something to do with the pandemic

    • @ben-ji-errick
      @ben-ji-errick Před rokem +7

      its more on safety. the facemask is the key. pinoy right now is very cautious to spread the thing. we protect each other so we are dead serious about distancing. we know some foreigners don't wear mask, that is why we always make sure we keep distance just to make sure you guys not to have covid coming from us.. we feel ashamed if foreigners got sick because of us. but if we see you wearing mask. we know you are protected then the filipino ways still comes out.

    • @chrisjohns9631
      @chrisjohns9631 Před rokem +1

      @@ben-ji-errick thanks for this! I will be visiting Phils soon and would definitely be wondering why everyone is avoiding me!

    • @eddier9455
      @eddier9455 Před rokem +3

      That’s a plus for me, can’t stand being followed about when I am browsing, had my wife tell them to go away before now. If there is something I want or need help with I will find someone and ask.

  • @bobbywilliams6961
    @bobbywilliams6961 Před rokem +2

    Thank You my Tour Guide 😊

  • @andybest1495
    @andybest1495 Před rokem

    Hello from Germany(Europe). I was been 15 times in the Pilippines for vacation. Beautiful country and nice people.

  • @George-ux6zz
    @George-ux6zz Před rokem +5

    Here in the US when people commit misdemeanor offenses they're frequently given community service. That can consist of cleaning up trash beside the road and highways. It could be implemented in the Philippines 🇵🇭 as well. Do you think that could help? Your opinion would be appreciated. Salamat Rubeauti

    • @Johnny-ql2vd
      @Johnny-ql2vd Před rokem

      Totally agree . That’s a big pet peeve I have as well. The folks just throw their garbage anywhere.

  • @George-ux6zz
    @George-ux6zz Před rokem +5

    Good evening Rubeauti. The Philippines 🇵🇭 has about the same weather as Florida in the US. Rainy season is from June 1st until December 1st. Although, it frequently starts mid May. You can almost set your watch by the rain. It's hot,humid,and rains almost every afternoon. Of the wind reverses it will rain in the morning and that's bad. Why? Bcuz morning rain means you're going to have extra high humidity. Florida is also the lightening capital of North America. The daily storms seem to pop up out of nowhere, Blue skies one minute and black clouds and white out conditions 15 minutes later. Then December to may we get very little rain. The rainy season coincides with hurricane/typhoon season as well. Yes,what you call a typhoon, we call a hurricane, it's the exact same thing. We have very similar tropical plants. However, Florida isn't exactly a tropical state,it's actually a subtropical state. That means we do get cold weather in the winter,even freezing temperatures at times. The last time it snowed in Florida is January 19 1977. It was a dusting but the whole state shut down Bcuz they don't have a way to remove it. The water during warm months can reach between 84°F to as much as 91°F. It's like bath water. Florida beaches are usually ranked among the best beaches in the world. Only difference, there's central aircon almost everywhere. We call aircon, A/C. You would probably love Florida, it would remind you of the Philippines weather wise.

    • @dustbusterz
      @dustbusterz Před rokem +1

      Hmmm. You Didn't Listen to Her Entire Weather Speach Did You?
      Florida Weather Resembles The Weather in only a Small Portion of The Philippines. They Have Areas That Rain A Lot( daily in Fact) then Areas that Get Occasional Rain.
      They Have Areas where Temps Can Be Extreme, other Areas where Temps are Very Moderate.
      As for Florida, Much of What You Posted here is in Fact True, While Some is conditional.
      Last Summer , Not Nearly Wet As Summers Past because we Were In a 3 Year Cycle of LA Nina( less Rain A Little Milder Temps).
      This Year 2023 is Expected to Shift To A El Nino, Which is Expected to Increase Temps Dramatically. We May Even Experience Lots of Record Hot Days.
      This Could Fire off More Intense Rain Storms and Hurricanes 🌀. Will it Result in More Hurricanes? TIME Will Tell.
      Florida isn't As Hot as Some Areas of The Philippines, But It's Hotter than other Areas. I know This Because Going to the Philippines, Many Were Surprised that I wasn't Sweating. I told them that's Because Florida is Hotter than Their City was, and my Body was Used to The Extreme Heat. That Argument Wouldn't Hold up in All Areas of The Philippines though.

    • @DingusCirc
      @DingusCirc Před rokem

      Florida is the Summer is much cooler than the Philippines in the Summer

    • @dustbusterz
      @dustbusterz Před rokem

      @DingusCirc again With The Generalized Statements.
      Sure it's Cooler than Some Areas. But Not All Areas.
      Florida is Much Hotter Than Some Areas in the Philippines.
      I know. I have Visited Several Areas in The Philippines, and Live in Florida. Easy to Compare when you Live in 1 and Visit many others.

  • @ricoroger
    @ricoroger Před rokem +1

    Thought through and informative video!, thanks a bunch Rubeauti!.

  • @randalsaladbar
    @randalsaladbar Před rokem +1

    Buen overview! Positive thoughts for your continued blessings

  • @stevethornbrugh1742
    @stevethornbrugh1742 Před rokem +18

    My Filipina and the kids love teaching me Tagalog just so they can laugh at me 🤣

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  • @CanaryValens
    @CanaryValens Před rokem +3

    "Dont arrive on time" & "Filipino time" I feel appropriated 😅

  • @jasonthirlaway7412
    @jasonthirlaway7412 Před rokem +1

    I have a no shoe policy myself, accept there does seem to be more cleaning the floors as your oily feet deposit to the floor and your own dander and dust and dead skin lands on this oily residue and creates a more dirty floor than if you were to just leave your socks on. So general rule is shoes off no bare feet. I have laminate flooring and I can wash them and get them squeaky clean but if anyone with no socks on you can immediately see the oily residue. So Shoe on less oil and maybe something from your travels walks in with you or take them off and have to mop daily.

  • @XENON3120
    @XENON3120 Před 3 měsíci

    I've been living in Phillipines part of Negros oriental, area Bais for past 7 months with my girl thats a beautiful filipina, 30 years of age with our baby boy on the way. People are so kind and heartwarming, no complain. I'm Slovenian European, I'm 35, and I only have good thing to say about this country and difference from my country, traffic is the biggest one, the biggest shock so to say. Great video, keep it up Rubeauti, maybe one day we can all go into a call and talk our different experiences.

  • @GMANN83
    @GMANN83 Před rokem +5

    Ooooweee! 🤣
    #3 don't drive in Manila unless absolutely necessary is so true for me 🤣 I don't know what I was thinking I rented a car and oh boy!
    I thought driving in LA or San Francisco was tough not compared to Manila, if you can drive in Manila you can drive anywhere

    • @ollelindskog4531
      @ollelindskog4531 Před rokem +1

      I actually think Manila was voted the worst city in the world to drive in a few years back. I could probably drive there, but I would never do it. It's not worth it 🤣🤪😂

    • @Xilikon
      @Xilikon Před rokem

      I drove a few times in Manila and I would rather avoid driving whenever possible not due to risks but to annoying traffic and motorbikes.

    • @ollelindskog4531
      @ollelindskog4531 Před rokem

      @@Xilikon Of course. If you're in a car it's quite safe, but still annoying. Traffic hardly move and you rarely reach dangerous speeds 🤪🙂

  • @piellamp
    @piellamp Před rokem +6

    The only thing frustrating is number 6... I come from a country where we are pretty direct and we don't avoid confrontation. The filipino way is frustrating behavior to deal with since I will never know what they mean or want on the other hand I am not able to express myself without being confrontational since that's how I have been brought up.

    • @2000ViperGTSsubscribe
      @2000ViperGTSsubscribe Před rokem +4

      Well said brother and it is one thing that is preventing PH from advancing as the PH people accept all the problems easily.

    • @griggsz9649
      @griggsz9649 Před rokem +1

      So somehow avoiding confrontation is more frustrating your saying? Sounds like you’ll just be miserable no matter what bud

    • @piellamp
      @piellamp Před rokem +3

      @@griggsz9649 perhaps the wording is a bit wrong on my part but i mean in being more direct (hence not avoiding confrontation) google dutch directness
      sometimes it's good sometimes it's not good to be that way. it doesn't neccesarly come from frustration or being miserable. on the other hand you yourself seem to not avoid confrontation by calling me miserable ain't that right ...BUD?

    • @griggsz9649
      @griggsz9649 Před rokem

      @@piellamp your triggered I can tell but ain’t no such thing as perfect so either get use to the slight inconvenience or deal with whatever reason led you to watching this video pal

    • @piellamp
      @piellamp Před rokem +2

      @Griggs Z i was just pointing something out but you are just being salty about it also I ain't your bud or pal!

  • @Livingwildlife
    @Livingwildlife Před rokem +2

    Philippines 🇵🇭 is wonderful country & people, are mazing .😊🙏

  • @glstka5710
    @glstka5710 Před rokem

    5:44 Just went to a concert, Morissette Amon at Waterfront Hotel in Cebu. The time on the ticket 7 PM I think it was a little bit after 9 when the warm-up acts started. It still was a great time. Mori is FANTASTIC!!!

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  • @TheK-PopInPublicAuthority
    @TheK-PopInPublicAuthority Před 11 měsíci +4

    It's HIGHLY disrespectful to arrive late. It shows you don't really care about the person you're meeting. So yes, if I, as a man, ask to meet you and you agree- you'd better arrive on time at least. If you arrive early, it shows respect.

    • @joeriley2643
      @joeriley2643 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Adapt, you are not at home. It’s actually rude for you to inflict your culture upon them in their land.

    • @am8115
      @am8115 Před měsícem

      That's your culture, there's lots of cultures in the world

  • @hughmarloweverest1684
    @hughmarloweverest1684 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you for your advice.

  • @williambreeze2659
    @williambreeze2659 Před rokem

    Thanks for the pointers!

  • @WindmillChef
    @WindmillChef Před rokem

    Rubi,
    So should I ever find myself lucky and fortunate enough to have scheduled to meet you and you show up 30 minutes late, does that mean that our meeting is not an important one to you? My, my, my, that crushes me. Myself, I would consider such a meeting as possibly the most important meeting in my lifetime!
    I have watched enough of your videos to know that your pride for your country is filled with desire and passionate idealism of a young person for The Philippines to do better and that your video efforts are partially motivated towards that goal and that you are sincere about this issue. One of the ways that you can make your videos help the plight of your country more is if you bring back the neon "hello" light when you make videos from your couch. The twinkly Christmas lights and the colored light that fogs from behind the couch (another video) are surely nice, but it is the "hello" light that I really like which is why I am, for the 6th time, asking you for it in comments. 🙂
    Be good Rubi,
    Chef Paul

  • @FishguardandGoodwick
    @FishguardandGoodwick Před 4 měsíci

    I enjoyed that, you have a lovely conversational style. I am thinking of going to the Philippines, so, this was very useful.

  • @MrBiggles53
    @MrBiggles53 Před rokem +1

    I had the best spanish/filipino style dinner and sangria in my life at a restaurant in Manila!
    Amazing heat lightning displays at night that you can almost read by. Super cloudy at night with moonbows, then cloudless come day.

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  • @foreignermakingmoney-phili1458

    Great vid, spot on info. Thanks

  • @sirblack1619
    @sirblack1619 Před rokem +2

    Thanks for posting this. I have only been to the Philippines once thus far to visit my fiancé. I love the culture and want to know as much as I can about the culture. The do's and don'ts. I was surprised at how much laptops were in the Philippines. And it funny about the time thing because in the black community here in the states. We call it CP time (colored people time) lol. I came with a open heart and mind and will come there again. Plus my Filipino fiancé and I will move back there once I can retire.

  • @jojowhite9296
    @jojowhite9296 Před rokem +1

    Very SOLID advice!

  • @geoffdean3532
    @geoffdean3532 Před 4 měsíci

    Great and usefull advice. Thank you.

  • @ohwell2790
    @ohwell2790 Před 4 měsíci

    Not going to the Philippines, but find these videos interesting and mainly watch them about Asia. Thank you for posting

  • @DD-uf2uo
    @DD-uf2uo Před rokem

    Truly a Great video and Very informative. I live in the Southeast USA. I don't plan to travel there but I enjoyed the information you gave.
    Wishing you and yours well.
    .

  • @mattdavis6005
    @mattdavis6005 Před rokem

    Love all of your content and look forward to your commentary and videos. I can’t wait to return to The Philippines soon

  • @omara9205
    @omara9205 Před rokem +2

    I'm 6'6", and climbed into a Jeepney. Paid the driver for two fares, because I took up the spot for two Filipinos. Everyone laughed at my joke though. The hospitality was a little unnerving because I always keep my guard up in the States, because I began to relax. Will be better prepared my return trip.

    • @913KCED
      @913KCED Před rokem

      Your two-fares joke was pitch perfect. I'd say you were already prepared. And the hospitality was genuine...if you give Filipinos a smile AND respect, they couldn't be kinder. Huge reason I have no desire to move back to the USA.
      I'm still having a hard time picturing a 6'6" guy squeezing into a jeepney, though. Like doing the limbo in reverse...how low can you go?

    • @omara9205
      @omara9205 Před rokem +1

      @@913KCED I needed to get my yoga on in the morning before I left the condo.

  • @dotcom2528
    @dotcom2528 Před rokem

    Good true advice. More can be added when living there.

  • @LanternOneStudios
    @LanternOneStudios Před rokem

    Great tips and advice. Love your channel. Thanks!

  • @mylescornelious7096
    @mylescornelious7096 Před rokem

    I enjoyed this important information about the Philippines thank you for sharing.

  • @ahvicremulla544
    @ahvicremulla544 Před rokem

    Yah your right good that you share this to avoid culture shock by foreign countries at least they will have the idea

  • @easylistening3924
    @easylistening3924 Před rokem

    #2 is widely observed in South East Asian countries, as well as East Asian countries like Japan, Korea.

  • @danielpiche6759
    @danielpiche6759 Před rokem

    The Philippines is a good place, warm people. Transportation is funny but a great experience. Try it all with someone that know their way around. A course is not a tech country or very modern. Expect something in the middle. This way, you will be able to see, and u derstand more of their country. This applies to anywhere in the world. Open yourself to know experience with the eyes of children's and be amazed!

  • @DaveBooth-qs7sw
    @DaveBooth-qs7sw Před 4 měsíci

    I loved going to the Philippines & I loved the majority of the people that I met there! I made a mistake by pronouncing Bacolod the way as most westerners would, but as soon as I was corrected I quickly changed! My first Filippina wife was always late for an appointment & I found out that she wouldn’t leave home until the exact time of the meeting which I found very strange! Once I found this out, I always mentioned to her two hours before the arranged time, so that we always often arrived on time!

  • @enochbrown8178
    @enochbrown8178 Před rokem

    Well said. Thank you very much!!!

  • @brianbaxter3913
    @brianbaxter3913 Před rokem

    Hi Rubeauti. Some good info for those that need to know. As for driving here that is not at the top of my list. I have found at times it is faster to walk then drive or take public transportation. Yes buses and jeepneys can be annoying and if they had the same job in the west they would have to change their driving habits which would be hard for most haha. I don't do Filipino time. I am always on time unless caught in a traffic jam lol. I am use to the weather changing. In Canada they say if you don't like the weather wait 5 minutes. I have been frustrated here a few times but have mostly managed to keep my cool and have not shouted at anyone. My biggest frustration is that things are not consistent between offices for example I use Western Union to send myself money and one office I just give my name and the required info and get my money and out in 5 mins. Other branches they have long forms to fill out with questions that make no sense then they are on the computer for so long and it can take up to 30 minutes to get a transaction done. I understand it is the same way in a lot of government offices. Overall things are great here and I am enjoying my retirement. Keep smiling and stay safe

    • @brianbaxter3913
      @brianbaxter3913 Před rokem

      @@satbobsmith7261 Yes it is the cheapest way I have found as well. I have had both good and bad experiences with getting money the first time from a Wester Union store. More good than bad. Several I have gone to have been no problem and have used some more than one time as they are quick and friendly. I will be settling in Dumaguete and I did find one there that was very good so will be using that store

  • @George-ux6zz
    @George-ux6zz Před rokem +1

    Have a beautiful day and God bless you Rubeauti. 🙏

  • @DK-ok1yp
    @DK-ok1yp Před rokem +1

    Nice information it may b helpful for me ,I m planing to visit phillipine in the month of April

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  • @BeSm-qq6rs
    @BeSm-qq6rs Před rokem +2

    Filipinos are the happiest people on earth, no matter how bad things get, they still manage a smile.

    • @jeffmalm9708
      @jeffmalm9708 Před rokem +1

      Lol. Like you could see a smile through the masks, which they will wear forever.

    • @gimmyherbert8217
      @gimmyherbert8217 Před 8 měsíci

      I saw same thing ...how can someone living in poverty be happy and teach me about being positive

  • @robertjanak1026
    @robertjanak1026 Před rokem

    Great topic subjects Ruby!

  • @ross9581
    @ross9581 Před rokem

    That's a good one...dont arrive on time
    you are so right, I was always the only one to show up on time and when a meeting was set no one arrive on time. after a while I adjusted on this and sometimes it can also be convenient...
    Nice work ;)

  • @mobreal5527
    @mobreal5527 Před rokem +1

    Very informative, thank you for sharing!✌🙏

  • @garyr4327
    @garyr4327 Před rokem

    Open mind and a warm heart, thank you so very much. Love your presentation.

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  • @The_Chad_007
    @The_Chad_007 Před rokem +6

    Love it that you're putting videos out so often. Love seeing you daily hehe

    • @southbound1969
      @southbound1969 Před rokem

      @@Rubeauti I have noticed that you really increased the frequency of your videos lately. Great job!

  • @jamesmarchetti3286
    @jamesmarchetti3286 Před rokem

    Great Cultural Adjustment Cultural class which I am able to learn and adjust to quickly better than some I did learn adjust right away in Japan about no shoes in a home upon arrival during our Cultural Debriefing Clas upon arrival !! The also told us Don't be Suprised at their non-stop extreme Politeness !! They don't know or do any other way !!

  • @SpiritRobert-gq3pl
    @SpiritRobert-gq3pl Před 3 měsíci

    Great video with good information for travel to the Philippines

  • @magnusb6311
    @magnusb6311 Před rokem +1

    In many countries, demonstation rights are for citizens. Also here in Sweden.

  • @ThenewmanX1
    @ThenewmanX1 Před rokem

    Thank you. Important information.

  • @GregRutherford-fu5kh
    @GregRutherford-fu5kh Před rokem +1

    You are doing a fantastic job! Keep up the good work

  • @joec68500
    @joec68500 Před rokem

    Hello! Just checking in to see how you're doing. Good to see your channel growing. Take care!