SIGNS to STOP PURSUING your Filipino Woman | Filipino-Foreigner Dating

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  • čas pƙidĂĄn 18. 02. 2023
  • In this vlog, we discuss the signs that a man should look out for when pursuing a Filipino woman, in order to know when to stop pursuing and avoid misunderstandings or heartbreak. 😄
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Komentáƙe • 784

  • @igorthegreat2700
    @igorthegreat2700 Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci +18

    first mistake, you said "woman" ... it should be women

    • @Rubeauti
      @Rubeauti  Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci +7

      and second mistake?

    • @BP7BlackPearl
      @BP7BlackPearl Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci +6

      @@Rubeauti Listening to this person at all. First of all, he is wrong, second, he calls himself, "the great", third, the name Igor says it all. lol.
      Reason to ignore a man: When they have to bolster their ego by dating multiple women at once, I personally only date one girl at a time. If the girl could be "the one', I will want to focus on only her, if she doesn't have the potential to be "the one", then I wont waste my time or hers.
      I LOVE ur response though. 😀 And hey, I love leftovers, just not when its a woman.

    • @mixnmichael1
      @mixnmichael1 Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci +9

      English isn't her 1st language. Cut her some slack.

    • @BP7BlackPearl
      @BP7BlackPearl Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci +3

      @@mixnmichael1 Amen bro. I would like him to say woman, or women in tagalog

    • @mixnmichael1
      @mixnmichael1 Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci +2

      @@BP7BlackPearl I've tried to learn other languages and it's very difficult. I had to cheat to pass english. Just don't tell my teachers other wise it'll be on my permanent record.

  • @vernondavis561
    @vernondavis561 Pƙed rokem +302

    32 years ago, when was a young U.S. Marine stationed at Subic Bay. I spotted an attractive Filipina in Olongopo and struck up a conversation. I had dinner with her later that night and got the vibe that she really wasn’t really interested. As a result, I made no effort in pursuing her. Several weeks went by and I accidentally bumped into her again and she asked me why I made no effort to contact her again. At this juncture I realized that she was just shy. We have been happily married for over 30 years now.

    • @rolandmueller7218
      @rolandmueller7218 Pƙed rokem +26

      Many filipinas pretend not to be interested at first and expect a man to be persistent. I’m glad you both connected a second time.

    • @i-am-your-conscience
      @i-am-your-conscience Pƙed rokem +16

      Yes that shy thing, I really had to learn that its really just being shy, and not the stupid games that western women like to play

    • @squidusn71
      @squidusn71 Pƙed rokem +4

      They believe in courtship, not dating.

    • @hedge313
      @hedge313 Pƙed rokem +8

      Sounds like you are lucky you both ran into one another again. Glad you found her - twice.

    • @balsafarmers10
      @balsafarmers10 Pƙed rokem +3

      AwwwwđŸ„°

  • @williamsaltiel-gracianmph613
    @williamsaltiel-gracianmph613 Pƙed rokem +185

    One of the biggest red flags: she keeps you a secret from everyone else she knows.

    • @riegh36
      @riegh36 Pƙed rokem +4

      what if,if vice versa 😀

    • @williamsaltiel-gracianmph613
      @williamsaltiel-gracianmph613 Pƙed rokem +14

      @@riegh36 hypothetical query, however I do not believe in a double standard. Even before I met the lady to whom I am now engaged, I always allowed access to all my social media, to include friends/connections, and NEVER kept anyone a secret. Those who do keep you hidden - andor expect you to do the same - tend to be scammers with extremely well polished acts, and the ways in which they PRETEND to be open with you are still littered with giveaways. The last two who tried to pull that with me (one Visayan, the other American), I gave them plenty of rope to hang themselves and was all too happy to pull the metaphorical trapdoor lever on them at that point.

    • @c.medalla4862
      @c.medalla4862 Pƙed rokem +13

      I think it depends on the situation, I have been talking to a foreign man since August last year we have almost 22yrs. Age gap, I'm already in my 30s but he is the 1st foreigner I've ever talked to, and if ever God allows us to be together he's my first in almost everything. I told him about it and he is very respectful and patient with me. I never told anyone about us because we both agree that we need to take it slow and we need to meet first in person to know each other deeply. I know almost everything about him, his family, his past, and vice versa. His coming to the Philippines this coming May I just hope it turns out well. I like him and always pray that he is the one who I have always been praying for all this year. Maybe the reason also why I never told them about him is because I don't have a high expectations until we meet. I'm very private when it comes to my personal life. I want to enjoy what we have now, I came from a province but living almost half my life here near the metro Manila because of work 😀 P. S. Sorry about my English 😅

    • @matthewhull2596
      @matthewhull2596 Pƙed rokem +8

      Not sure about your knowledge and understanding of Filipinas as well asthe Philippines culture but there are challenges Filipinas face especially when involved with foreigners. Als,o the ideology of status, jealousy, and drama along with a Filipina has to be careful who she shares knowledge of her involvement with a foreigner besides her immediate family.

    • @c.medalla4862
      @c.medalla4862 Pƙed rokem +6

      , I agree with what you said though I'm not sure because it's my first time being with a foreign man. All I want now is just to enjoy what we have, my sisters know that I'm chatting with a foreign man. but I never told them the specific detail Maybe I want to enjoy what we have without answering many questions. You know some Pinoy has a lot of questions when they learned you have a foreign friend or talking to a foreign man. I want to have a peaceful Start if ever😀

  • @Galavantin
    @Galavantin Pƙed rokem +22

    If a guy needs this advice, he sure had no game in his home country. And will be a Simp in the Philippines also . It's good you addressed these situations for them.

    • @Not_A_Tourist
      @Not_A_Tourist Pƙed 7 měsĂ­ci

      Yep. I usually come to these videos to read the stories in the comment section.

    • @jhnyjoejoe69
      @jhnyjoejoe69 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

      Depends, i dont have good game, and can come off as inexperienced but ive bagged a few Filipinas. Sometimes it works in my favor cuz they leave me alone after a hook up and not get clingy.

    • @Electrichead64
      @Electrichead64 Pƙed 9 dny

      Filipinas are on a completely different level. When Homer wrote of Sirens, I'm 100% certain they were Filipinas working OFW.

  • @rolandmueller7218
    @rolandmueller7218 Pƙed rokem +86

    Before I met my Filipina girlfriend, I remember texting with another Filipina woman that was not really interested. It took me 3 weeks to realize it. But, I also remember meeting another Filipina that didn’t contact me for a couple days after we had been texting and video chatting for a a couple of weeks. I thought she was losing interest , so I decided not to text her unless she texted me. But, then something changed that she all of a sudden started texting regularly and she has never let me down in the past 1.5 years. We began an LDR after. We finally met in person last summer and she is now my girlfriend.

    • @Exalted_Example
      @Exalted_Example Pƙed rokem +53

      What changed is the guy she actually wanted wasn't interested, and you were the fallback option

    • @rolandmueller7218
      @rolandmueller7218 Pƙed rokem +18

      @@Exalted_Example that may be true. But, I am okay with that. She wants me now.

    • @hexicano4ever497
      @hexicano4ever497 Pƙed rokem +11

      Yeah ur not her first choice

    • @rolandmueller7218
      @rolandmueller7218 Pƙed rokem +1

      @@williamshevr i actually think it’s on the right track, even though there was a little bump in the beginning. The relationship took a moment to get on the right track. It’s been on the right track ever since.

    • @rolandmueller7218
      @rolandmueller7218 Pƙed rokem +1

      @@hexicano4ever497 I am her first choice now. It was only a small blip in time.

  • @NickConant10
    @NickConant10 Pƙed rokem +150

    This video just reminds me how difficult & annoying modern dating has become. 😔

    • @JohnnyVisions
      @JohnnyVisions Pƙed rokem +3

      swipe left

    • @nemelendez
      @nemelendez Pƙed rokem +4

      @@JohnnyVisions it’s all the same.

    • @President-Elect_Cory
      @President-Elect_Cory Pƙed rokem +1

      Go read coach Corey Wayne’s book, “The 3% Man”. It will give you the tools to make dating easy and effortless. You don’t even have to buy it, he has a website where you can download and read it for free
 look him up on CZcams.

    • @solascripturaPR1517
      @solascripturaPR1517 Pƙed rokem +19

      Still better than anything in the US.

    • @PlzStealMyFuckinName
      @PlzStealMyFuckinName Pƙed rokem +2

      Fo' Shizzle

  • @Dus306
    @Dus306 Pƙed rokem +89

    Be careful out there guys...
    I was in a relationship for almost a year with a filipina. I just found out she didn't just have one previous kid but three and was still legally married.
    Her conscience finally got to her and came clean.
    Wasted all that time and a deeply hurt heart.

    • @ShredzZ
      @ShredzZ Pƙed rokem +3

      Where did you meet her and also how old she is?

    • @johnnypastrana6727
      @johnnypastrana6727 Pƙed rokem +11

      @@ShredzZ I met her at a bar called 'Don't Tell Mama' in Angeles City. đŸ€Ł She is an older woman...19. Do you think she really loves me??? đŸ€Ł

    • @ShredzZ
      @ShredzZ Pƙed rokem +1

      @@johnnypastrana6727 ye definitely, bar girls are wife materials :D Yikes

    • @bigjohnson7415
      @bigjohnson7415 Pƙed rokem +6

      ​@@johnnypastrana6727 19?đŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł 3 kids? It happens!😜

    • @riegh36
      @riegh36 Pƙed rokem +8

      ​@@bigjohnson7415 maybe she got pregnant at 15 or 16

  • @dimplypaprika7693
    @dimplypaprika7693 Pƙed rokem +24

    Very good advice and probably good advice for guys dating any woman, not just Filipina. I was dealing with that recently with a Chinese girl i was dating that was quite a bit younger than me. She exhibited several of the signs you just spoke of. As hopeful as i was that it would work, i just had to let it go.

  • @mikeg6814
    @mikeg6814 Pƙed rokem +9

    I think all those points are valid, not only Filipino women, but for every women.

  • @VistaLatin
    @VistaLatin Pƙed rokem +14

    Another tell sign she isn't really interested is if her messages are brief, no creativity...if your Filipina is truly interested, she will write long messages, or many messages....not just I love you, kisses, chat tomorrow
    Finally, she will show creativity....she'll use technology to put together photos or messages....

    • @squidusn71
      @squidusn71 Pƙed rokem

      If you're communicating with a woman from a different country with a different language as yours, why would you expect an essay? If you're not from the Philippines and never learned the language, should they expect an essay from you also in their native language?

    • @VistaLatin
      @VistaLatin Pƙed rokem +1

      @Squid Usn perhaps my brief message wasn't clear....I'm speaking from experience....the girl I knew could write English well...during the initial communication she expressed herself well in writing ✍
      We met in person and she seemed ok though a bit reserved, never initiated much.....then after I had to travel for a short time her messages got short, good morning, I love you then disappear for a day or two before the next...I got cue that she lost interest, wasn't into me and said goodbye

    • @squidusn71
      @squidusn71 Pƙed rokem

      @Travel with Ernie it was clear. It was clearly generalizing. Not all of them can express themselves the way a foreigner expect them to with a foreign language, written or spoken. Some write better in English than speak it.

  • @whileimhere
    @whileimhere Pƙed rokem +4

    All very logical and valid points. “It’s hard to see the forest from the trees”. If you’re a low value partner, you will take what you can get - you’ll entertain the bad habits in exchange for the “arm candy”. It’s not worth it. Know your worth and know that you deserve more.
    You’re smart Rubeauti. Articulate and well presented topic. Bravo 👏! Thanks for posting.

  • @MrWaterbugdesign
    @MrWaterbugdesign Pƙed rokem +27

    This is a female's perspective. All true, but there's more... Many Filipinas are insecure and can just have a hard time understanding why you are talking to her. I often hear "Why are you talking to me?" "Why are you coming to PH?" Both in a puzzled voice. Insecure about their English. Once I give good answers to these she warms right up. I see often in dating profiles is Filipinas complaining about men asking for nude pics. They call them "scammers". So I get the feeling many are holding back to see if I'm going to be rude. Doesn't take very long for her to warm up.
    I also get asked pretty quick about other Filipinas I'm chatting with, how many I've chatted with in the past.
    Filipinas often say they want a humble guy. It took me a long time to figure out what they mean...it's different from in the US. They don't like a man who talks about their wealth because it just makes them more insecure. They already feel insecure and now you look harder to land. Being a foreigner they already are assuming you have money, she doesn't want to know it's a lot. American women want to know every penny a guy has...but not directly.
    Easy rules...
    One message only. If she doesn't reply then that's it. None of this simping "Where are you?" "I miss you" begging. That's silly.
    She has to being doing some pursuing too. As an American guy it stands out when a Filipina is trying to impress me because American women never do that. Older Filipinas quickly name drop contacts in PH government. That's equals power in PH. If they own land you're going to hear about it.

    • @imcaufieldholt
      @imcaufieldholt Pƙed rokem +5

      "One message only. If she doesn't reply then that's it. None of this simping "Where are you?" "I miss you" begging. That's silly.".... yeah I made this mistake 😞

    • @TheChoyceisyours
      @TheChoyceisyours Pƙed rokem +1

      Thanks 👍

    • @truthbetold6496
      @truthbetold6496 Pƙed rokem +1

      @@drahculia3579 whats wrong with a 5 year old giving dating advise?

    • @President-Elect_Cory
      @President-Elect_Cory Pƙed rokem +4

      @@imcaufieldholt yeah, that goes for any woman, not just Filipinas
 and even after you are talking more or dating
 think of it as a game of tennis, you hit the ball over the net and then you wait for them to hit it back before you can hit it again (messaging should always be done this way).

    • @GidarGaming
      @GidarGaming Pƙed rokem +2

      @@imcaufieldholt Nearly every man has made that mistake at least once. The key is learning from it and not repeating the same mistake.

  • @MaJieMao
    @MaJieMao Pƙed rokem +11

    I always find that dating advice never really seems to sink in with people. However people who watch dating shows are always able to tell if a couple will be compatible. Maybe we need to have a cameraman follow you on your dates, Rubeauti.

  • @Nordic_Sky
    @Nordic_Sky Pƙed rokem +18

    A word of advice from someone with decades of dating experience: don't try to put a round peg in a square hole. If she's uninterested, it's unlikely you can turn the situation around, even if you have very tight game. Cut your losses and try with someone else who right off the bat will be more interested. With any particular girl, you have no idea what her situation is, what she really wants, etc. You might be a wonderful guy, but just not for her. And that's OK. Any girl you have a realistic shot with will be friendly and approachable from the start. Invest your time in this girl.

    • @Jason.Graham
      @Jason.Graham Pƙed rokem +1

      Great advice! There's too many options to waste time with someone who isn't into you.

  • @jiasenghe008
    @jiasenghe008 Pƙed rokem +2

    Thank you sis. This info applies to women everywhere. But mostly younger women who don't yet know their own minds yet. Older women know what they're doing when they string you along. You've got something that they want but it ain't you.

  • @E_Stew
    @E_Stew Pƙed rokem +23

    If she abruptly ends a video call and doesn't call or text back more than a few times...That's a definite sign. đŸ˜łđŸ€šđŸ„Ž

    • @BarnabyBarry
      @BarnabyBarry Pƙed rokem +10

      If she does not hold your hand-never initiates sex-always wants an 🍎 phone-says her uncle is dying-she will scream at you if she doesn’t eat rice-she refuses to get you Italian spaghetti sauce-spends her entire day on her đŸ“±-locks her đŸ“±and the worst she grabs your phone and says you are a cheat and you tell her that photo is my daughter

    • @President-Elect_Cory
      @President-Elect_Cory Pƙed rokem +5

      @@BarnabyBarry this is an oddly specific list.

    • @BarnabyBarry
      @BarnabyBarry Pƙed rokem +1

      2 ex Flipinas-some of it -the rice/spaghetti sauce-uncle applies to men who have dated Flipinas-some tongue in cheek my daughters raised in the đŸ‡ș🇾 are different though due to economics being different here than the đŸ‡”đŸ‡­

    • @squidusn71
      @squidusn71 Pƙed rokem +2

      Many parts of the country still has bad internet receptions and some people doesn't have the luxury to load their cellphones.

  • @GeecheeLion
    @GeecheeLion Pƙed rokem +3

    @Rubeauti I don't know when you will see this comment. But I want to say that it couldn't have been more timely. I have now reached the point where I am finally ready to completely give up any pursuit of any involvement with a certain Filipina, whether personal or Business. I had pretty much given up on the personal, as she told me long ago she was taken, and I experienced similar things to what you described in your video. Realistically, there can be not even a long distance conversation, and certainly not a so-called LDR when one person is clearly ghosting the other. I have and am giving up the Ghost on any chance at love or any close to that in that case. It is fitting that it would be you delivering this message again. I think this is the second time for me seeing it. But this time it hits differently. Thank you for being like a drink of cool water to this man suffering in the desert wind and heat. I recently found your regular Twitch connections that now start my days, and you give me life. ❀

  • @timwhittemore157
    @timwhittemore157 Pƙed rokem

    Excellent point all, ma'am. Some we learn as young men. Pupil dilation, turning body / feet towards the person their interested in, open body postures, casual touch reciprocation. Micro-expressions are harder to learn and take study, but can be very useful, especially at crux moments. Thanks for your great pointers and tips ma'am!

  • @EdwinCV-dh8qc
    @EdwinCV-dh8qc Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci +1

    All your points are well thought out your spot on very informative video, thank you.

  • @brianbaxter3913
    @brianbaxter3913 Pƙed rokem +1

    Hi Rebeauti. Many good points here. I will point out the part of thinking you are in a relationship goes both ways. I have chatted with some that think I am their bf just cause I chat with them. Talking to each other and spending time together is the best way to know if there is a connection. I have had some say they want to be with me but then I see some of the signs you have mentioned so then it is a big no. The biggest no no is being on the phone at inappropriate times. I hope those who watch this video learn something but some will not learn as they are wearing rose colored glasses and think all is good when really it is not so good. Keep smiling and stay safe

  • @sdleasia
    @sdleasia Pƙed rokem +31

    I'm in an LDR with a filipina. You have given me confidence that we are on the right track. She doesn't display any of these. When we are in person, then I can see how she is with me and around other people. Video chat and messaging is one thing, but in person can be quite another. Time will tell.

    • @bobbruce4135
      @bobbruce4135 Pƙed rokem +7

      Follow the money. My 2 cents. I only found narcissism and desire for financial support for extended family.

    • @rolandmueller7218
      @rolandmueller7218 Pƙed rokem +1

      Scotty,
      That’s right. How things go in person can be quite different than online. I have heard a couple of stories of LDRs that lasted for two years before people met, and then only to break up after spending 3 days in person. I think honesty in the LDR is important so there are no big surprises in person. Best wishes!

    • @globalismoblackman
      @globalismoblackman Pƙed rokem +5

      LDR is high risk trust me. I learnt the hard way in PH in 2014. Lol đŸ€ŁđŸ˜‚. I wish Scotty good luck.

    • @shanwu2739
      @shanwu2739 Pƙed rokem +3

      ATM hahaha..... But wish you lucky.

    • @globalismoblackman
      @globalismoblackman Pƙed rokem +4

      @@shanwu2739 lol ATM đŸ€ŁđŸ˜†đŸ˜†. Yes. I saw a lot of crazy things happen to LDR Gringos in The Philippines. I was unexpectedly an Actor in another Gringo movie the poor guy didn't know his Filipina can't be trusted. Also another guy was playing Actor in my movie poor me too I was aware of the risk but still took the risk 😜 đŸ€ŁđŸ˜‚. Some Filipinas are cold and ruthless Lol đŸ€ŁđŸ˜†. It was 9 years ago Bro 👍🙌

  • @rogerwill3775
    @rogerwill3775 Pƙed rokem

    You have good insight Rubeauti. Thank you for sharing reality. Great video and well done.

  • @rayleo529
    @rayleo529 Pƙed rokem +1

    Sounds like relationships in general. Thanks for the insights though. Always informative content.

  • @timwest277
    @timwest277 Pƙed rokem

    Great video, this kind of wisdom is efficient enough to make you aware of what women will do. No matter what part of the world they are from.

  • @nelsonpujols
    @nelsonpujols Pƙed rokem

    wao thats an eye opener , I ll be sure to watch this video a couple times, thanks Rubeauti

  • @gordias1046
    @gordias1046 Pƙed rokem +16

    It has been my experience that women pursue commitment from men, and men pursue intimacy from women. I think the physical motivation for relationships is primarily biological imperative to create an environment for successful offspring, and ensure the survival of the species. Qualities in a relationship like loyalty are important for different reasons for men and women. We provide different needs for each other, and when we do that well we find the spiritual motivation for relationships in love and happiness.

    • @nemelendez
      @nemelendez Pƙed rokem

      Hate to say it but know plenty of guys pursue commitment. It’s just how can you have commitment and no intimacy? My 2 cents is women are now adopting men’s way of life
ooo that meat looks yummy!

    • @addictcar69
      @addictcar69 Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci

      Women pursue ATM and men pursue love and commitment 😅😅😅😅

  • @lazylarrylee2421
    @lazylarrylee2421 Pƙed rokem

    Hello Rubeauti, many of these signs are true in most cultures. Thank you for the video.

  • @yeshuaeltrust844
    @yeshuaeltrust844 Pƙed rokem

    Great podcast reaubeauti u kept it real and honest. That why your channel continues to grow.watch u will be at 100,000 B4 u know it.

  • @JasonSavorn
    @JasonSavorn Pƙed rokem +1

    Excellent video and much needed.

  • @DHarri9977
    @DHarri9977 Pƙed rokem +1

    There needs to be a sense of mutuality when interacting with the person, most guys are aware or can read specific cues, listen, see, or take notice of their level of engagement. As a guy, be interested but not overly interested do precisely what some of them do in taking a measured approach, be specific about certain requests to see their reaction to shorten the time you may be wasting talking to a particular lady e.g. "I'm going to be in this area on a particular day if you're around we can hang out if not, it's cool" walk away.

  • @godfreyvonnordeck2056
    @godfreyvonnordeck2056 Pƙed rokem

    A very good video. I can’t imagine you ever getting excited or angry. Every video I’ve ever seen of you has you being very calm and smoothly telling us the information. For a beautiful woman you always seem sooo composed and even tempered. That’s good and bad. Good because you can probably talk about things without getting upset, bab because it would be hard to judge if you were angry or upset by anything. But the video of your sister it was easier to see what she was feeling through her body language and facial expressions. I sincerely hope that you are enjoying your life more than what you show us on your videos again as I said you are extremely beautiful I just hope that you are happy as well đŸŒčđŸŒčđŸŒč

  • @chrisrohman3894
    @chrisrohman3894 Pƙed rokem +7

    Unfortunately, I had to learn this the hard way. Everything she has described is what I found to be true. I hate that people can be so cruel.

    • @bobbruce4135
      @bobbruce4135 Pƙed rokem

      Truth. And, I found a lot of narcissistic entitlement too. And, I was just out of college. Back then, they usually wanted to meet in groups as they were only after the money or green card. I think that hasn't changed. All just wanted money for extended family as they were conditionally loved by their parents.

  • @littlebigbrother7279
    @littlebigbrother7279 Pƙed rokem

    Rub
 I think you put together good videos. Most of the information is useful. Keep it up âœŒđŸœ

  • @phareke
    @phareke Pƙed rokem

    Thank you for this honest post. I love your delivery of information.

  • @jamesmarchetti3286
    @jamesmarchetti3286 Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci

    Great video addressing addressing and replay of recent experiences with western women !!!! This a video I could of used 8 months in the USA showing me that I may be a little dense ???

  • @mac-y.n.v.-me7043
    @mac-y.n.v.-me7043 Pƙed rokem +7

    I’m happy you put this vlog out. I’ve been pursuing a Philippino but she has not shown me much if any attention. This is my official statement. Rubeauti, it’s over. I can’t go on seeing you any longer. We can still be Vlog friends but that’s it. No more special attention looking forward to dinners that never happen or calls that never get answered. I wish you the best. Cordially MAC.

    • @machinized
      @machinized Pƙed rokem

      Dude, you're such a simp. And because of this you've been ignored so massively. Get a life bro.

    • @ejtaylor73
      @ejtaylor73 Pƙed rokem

      My advice, cut her off COMPLETELY, do you REALLY need another friend trying to sabotage your future relationship, and there's really no benefit for a man to have female friends.

    • @President-Elect_Cory
      @President-Elect_Cory Pƙed rokem +1

      đŸ˜‚đŸ€Ł

    • @nemelendez
      @nemelendez Pƙed rokem +2

      I love the guys say my Phillipino and not my Phillipina. Guys in filipine ending in o is for male, ending in a is for females.đŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł

  • @vp3970
    @vp3970 Pƙed rokem

    You are so articulate and fine command of the English language.
    Some men are not secure in their skin, these are the ones that can be taken for a ride.

  • @peternielsen5998
    @peternielsen5998 Pƙed rokem

    Thank you Rubeauti. Great advice.

  • @urbanws1234
    @urbanws1234 Pƙed rokem +2

    Rubeauti, you make good videos. Good luck to you in your life and future.

  • @danielleeson3100
    @danielleeson3100 Pƙed rokem

    Love the bloopers at the end.
    You are such an elegant creature xx

  • @StevenThomas-mz8lb
    @StevenThomas-mz8lb Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +1

    Yup it’s a time task to deep dive into her personality to find the right woman that’s compatible with you.

  • @petermorgan4720
    @petermorgan4720 Pƙed rokem +2

    Very good stuff. Good to hear some straightforward common sense - and the comment about not replying to messages when she always has her phone with her is insightful. Messages I get from my (very attractive) gf are very brief and do not show any interest in my life - i.e. are statements ('Hope you're having a good day') rather than questions ('Hey, how is your day going?'). Time to move on (& don't worry: I've been thinking about this for a while). Thanks.

    • @imcaufieldholt
      @imcaufieldholt Pƙed rokem

      Yeah move on.... these are standard questions she may be sending to half a dozen guys

    • @squidusn71
      @squidusn71 Pƙed rokem

      You have no idea what you're saying.

  • @billharris3090
    @billharris3090 Pƙed rokem

    Well that really helps out . Thankyou for sharing.

  • @Pouncer_Fox
    @Pouncer_Fox Pƙed rokem

    This is a very insightful video. Thank you for sharing.

  • @loumnar54
    @loumnar54 Pƙed rokem

    Very practical and true. Thank you!

  • @melrichard2745
    @melrichard2745 Pƙed rokem +1

    Hi Rubeauti thanks you for that very informative video about things to pay attention to when you are dating someone and that can be anyone any where, I appreciate your videos peace ✌ and love

  • @bretoster6091
    @bretoster6091 Pƙed rokem

    The highlights on your cheeks worked well with that lighting

  • @Thunder9036
    @Thunder9036 Pƙed rokem

    Rubeauti. Thanks for that tip. And also, my own only problem is that I need to work on social cues. Although I never traveled outside of U.S and I have never been to the Philippines.

  • @ThenewmanX1
    @ThenewmanX1 Pƙed rokem

    Very interesting and also obvious information, but not all know it. Nice...

  • @WindmillChef
    @WindmillChef Pƙed rokem

    Great stuff Rubi,
    all excellent points and very helpful for many men.
    In a way though should men be "I'm out of here", gone, move on, much before any of these signs show? I hope that I would, that I would not be so googly eyed over her that I loose my senses.
    What made me think about this is a phrase that you repeated about 4 times; "if she blah blah blah than she is a WASTE OF YOUR TIME!" It made me think of the saying "Love at first sight", this may sound very cliché and often not even accurate but there is something to it, when a girl first meets a guy and there are things about him that she likes (and visa versa), that is exciting, right? And that raises the general excitement and whole energy. Natural behavior is that that excitement and energy shows, it reveals itself. Such a girl (and again the other way around) will, with joy, try to find out more about the guy, she will want his attention, she won't even want to look at her phone because he is talking to her. When he calls and she sees that it is him calling on her phone she won't even let her phone ring a full first ring tone because she'll be jumping with joy that he called and she's dying to talk with him again, and on. Maybe I am taking this a little far but if there's not at least a little of that, maybe that should be the exit point, like before there's even an entrance point.
    That would never happen though if I met you in person Rubi 🙂

  • @timwiebe1453
    @timwiebe1453 Pƙed rokem

    This is a very helpful video. I like straightforward communication and appreciate honesty without being rude. I agree that I could miss the girl that likes me if I concentrate on too many specific features. After all beauty of the heart/personality trumps all.

    • @Rubeauti
      @Rubeauti  Pƙed rokem

      Thanks for your kind words! 🙏 I'm glad you appreciate my straightforward communication and honesty. I agree that beauty of the heart/personality is the most important thing to look for in someone. 💗

  • @chuck26241
    @chuck26241 Pƙed rokem

    Very important information there that many should use. Thanks for sharing and TC God bless you.

  • @philippinesdreamorreality
    @philippinesdreamorreality Pƙed rokem +1

    Thank you for the heads up.

  • @garyreimer6791
    @garyreimer6791 Pƙed 22 dny

    Good advice for most women. Your English is very good. . Thanks for sharingđŸŒčđŸŒč

  • @bruceb7747
    @bruceb7747 Pƙed rokem +8

    You're right, it's important to watch for the signs she's not interested. When a woman takes out a restraining order against me, I take the hint. 😀

    • @President-Elect_Cory
      @President-Elect_Cory Pƙed rokem +4

      No one likes a quitter.

    • @nemelendez
      @nemelendez Pƙed rokem +3

      I am sure if you persevere you wil triumph
in going to jailđŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł

    • @bruceb7747
      @bruceb7747 Pƙed rokem +1

      @@President-Elect_Cory đŸ˜‚đŸ€ŁđŸ˜‚

    • @bruceb7747
      @bruceb7747 Pƙed rokem +1

      @@nemelendez đŸ˜‚đŸ€ŁđŸ˜‚

    • @squidusn71
      @squidusn71 Pƙed rokem +1

      When a woman takes out a restraining order, you're a stalker that couldn't take the few hints she was giving lol.

  • @superelitespaceforce5609
    @superelitespaceforce5609 Pƙed 6 měsĂ­ci

    Excellent advice, Thank you!

  • @pelican9802
    @pelican9802 Pƙed rokem

    I needed this! I met a Filipino girl on line. She disappears middle of a texting conversation and leaves me hanging until I text the next day!
    Thanks. 👍

  • @johngatliff7648
    @johngatliff7648 Pƙed rokem

    Thank you to your input. Good video.

  • @serenityssolace
    @serenityssolace Pƙed rokem +4

    Wise words Rubeauti!

    • @serenityssolace
      @serenityssolace Pƙed rokem

      @@Rubeauti HmmmđŸ€š Interested in dating me?😏
      Just kidding, but the interest is intriguing. My name is Lucas.

  • @dacritter8397
    @dacritter8397 Pƙed 25 dny

    Excellent points.

  • @josephalmond3759
    @josephalmond3759 Pƙed rokem

    Solid gold. You grow, girl!

  • @joeknight3269
    @joeknight3269 Pƙed rokem

    thank you thats good advice.hope to meet someone as sweet as you

  • @johnlong3543
    @johnlong3543 Pƙed rokem

    Thank you. I have experienced this already. đŸ˜„đŸ˜”

  • @timtravasos2742
    @timtravasos2742 Pƙed rokem +1

    Good info. Painful, but good info.

  • @stormchaser419
    @stormchaser419 Pƙed rokem +1

    This is really decent advice for dating women in general. Men stop "working" for their attention. If they are TRULY interested in you, they will move mountains to see you and ask questions about you. It's not rocket science.

  • @guyandre4946
    @guyandre4946 Pƙed rokem +1

    Excellent research, practical and convincing description, as per usual.
    Thank you Ms R.
    All your videos complete each others and form a mini Encyclopaedia Phillipinae on human behaviour.
    Counselling and Therapy for all.
    Perhaps you could frame your diploma in Psychotherapy behind you, where your neon Hello used to be?
    (And charge accordingly 
 😂) đŸ€ŁđŸ˜ƒ

  • @nobodys-fool
    @nobodys-fool Pƙed rokem

    Great video Rubeauti. Thanks for sharing. May I add one more to your list? The "I know my worth" attitude. She will judge you by the cost of the date and if you don't spend enough on her she will push you aside.

    • @ejtaylor73
      @ejtaylor73 Pƙed rokem +2

      "I know my worth," is a narcissistic saying (Definition - An extremely self-centered person who has an exaggerated sense of self-importance.), and you dodged a bullet. A woman can FEEL she knows her worth that doesn't make it reality. The MAN determines her worth or "VALUE" to HIM, and he does that based off her personality, traits, character, who she is as a person on the INSIDE, and what she will ADD TO HIS LIFE to make it easier and better (You know, "What she brings to the table.")

    • @President-Elect_Cory
      @President-Elect_Cory Pƙed rokem

      @@ejtaylor73 exactly

  • @gabeghiby6935
    @gabeghiby6935 Pƙed rokem +2

    very useful advice indeed... my rule of thumb for the women in the west, is if by the third date, she's not showing her goods, then bye-bye and good luck... exactly because I for one, I have no time, nor patience, nor energy to pursue, or even worse, to chase... what's the point of "chasing" if she's running away..??.. makes no sense to me at least... if she wants me, she'll make time to spend with me... best advice my own mother told me...
    oddly enough, after 2-6 weeks I get a sign from her telling me "oh, dear, you didn't call me anymore, you disappeared... why..??.." by that time, I'm already checking someone's else goods...

  • @JMoroccoMisterBoy
    @JMoroccoMisterBoy Pƙed rokem

    Rubeauti, so true:
    Tks. much.

  • @brettwatkins2584
    @brettwatkins2584 Pƙed rokem

    Great video great information definitely keep it in mind🙏💋💗

  • @franklinindustrialservices4972
    @franklinindustrialservices4972 Pƙed 4 měsĂ­ci

    great info, I'm sure it will be very helpful

  • @surfboy344
    @surfboy344 Pƙed rokem

    Straight up good advice.

  • @RichardCrutchfield-fc1ub
    @RichardCrutchfield-fc1ub Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci +1

    Take it one day at a time. It will work itself out and you will eventually find the one you are looking for and meant to be with.

  • @timothyjohnmoriarty3206
    @timothyjohnmoriarty3206 Pƙed rokem

    Rube auto you have wisdom beyond your years , I like to watch you

  • @francoaletto192
    @francoaletto192 Pƙed rokem

    I complement you. You are a very smart, young woman. I will mention that you are a beautiful woman but I’m sure you don’t need to be reminded. Great information. And you are very well spoken person.

  • @rodneyfernandez5304
    @rodneyfernandez5304 Pƙed 27 dny

    Thank you for putting out honesty

  • @carlpantall3620
    @carlpantall3620 Pƙed rokem +1

    Dating seems to be the same in many cultures.....sometimes male controlled cultures can be quite extreme...that is the way I feel...

  • @secretagent86
    @secretagent86 Pƙed rokem +2

    Just partway through this excellent video. Men if the girl is on the phone during the meal
 just get up walk out
 note you should probably still pay the bill though

  • @davidjackson7715
    @davidjackson7715 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci

    Good advice 😊

  • @bigdaddyboomakamr.knowital8079
    @bigdaddyboomakamr.knowital8079 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci

    Wonderful Advice 😃

  • @rayrunn9441
    @rayrunn9441 Pƙed rokem

    Good video and good advice.

  • @dustbusterz
    @dustbusterz Pƙed rokem

    Very Great And Valid Points Rubeauti. You Know, I Think Most Men Already Know These Red Flags. The Dufference Might Be, They Know it Exists in Their Own Country, But May Think Being They Are In A New Country ,Somehow Those Same Red Flags đŸ€” Might Not Be Valid !

  • @FactFinderer
    @FactFinderer Pƙed 6 měsĂ­ci +2

    Wow!!! Thankyou, thanyou, thakyou for this wisdom... I wish that I heard this 30-yrs ago. I am contemplating moving to the Philippines in the next 2-3yrs, and hope that I learn as much as I can to make a happier retirement... Currently earning almost $4,000 USD (after taxes) every month.

  • @BronxBombers_726
    @BronxBombers_726 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

    Good advice..Traveling 20+ hrs from the East Coast of the US to the Phillippines is a long ride. Dont have time to play these mind games. I think the song by Dionne Warwick says it best. "Walk On By."

  • @glenclarkchidley3637
    @glenclarkchidley3637 Pƙed rokem

    Well thought out video.

  • @GuamPhotographer
    @GuamPhotographer Pƙed rokem

    These are actually good points for dating anyone, period.

    • @Rubeauti
      @Rubeauti  Pƙed rokem

      Thanks for the great advice! đŸ€— I appreciate your kind words and it's something I'll definitely keep in mind.

  • @robertfries9302
    @robertfries9302 Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci

    Thankyou for your frankt and honest advice. I have found the issues you raise to be largely universal.

  • @RonMeadows-ri1ec
    @RonMeadows-ri1ec Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci

    Good video....thoe things apply across the board to women everywhere. People in general would be better off if they were simply "Honest" with each other...Male & Female alike

  • @jeremiethomas8005
    @jeremiethomas8005 Pƙed rokem +2

    Always good to have these reminders in the forefront of our northward head. Yes, we often get our rose colored glasses on, and forget the saying, “there’s no fool like an old fool.” ;)

    • @nemelendez
      @nemelendez Pƙed rokem

      Remember the old saying the devil knows more because he is old rather than because he’s the devil😁

    • @nemelendez
      @nemelendez Pƙed rokem

      Don’t ask for something, you just might get it😁

    • @nemelendez
      @nemelendez Pƙed rokem

      It’s not the same to call the devil as to see him coming😳

  • @Robg19
    @Robg19 Pƙed rokem +8

    The advice she gave applies to all women from every background.

  • @bryanlonger8646
    @bryanlonger8646 Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci

    Excellent work.

  • @jeffswift3173
    @jeffswift3173 Pƙed rokem

    I just started watching ypur you tube find it refreshing that you cover a wide range of possibilities and different locations not just the regular spots . ON mAY 5TH i board a flight to the Philippines it has been since 1969 since I've been there , my son was born in Olongapo , now I have a inlaw family for he married a Philion lady and I have two granddaughters that were bornin the PI and now a grandson on the way they are in the states now,, maybe we can met up and I can tell the whole story

  • @fruitloops3718
    @fruitloops3718 Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci +2

    Here's a clue. If she shows real interest, you will know. Of she doesn't show real interest, move on. If she's interested, she'll move mountains to meet you. If not move on.

  • @President-Elect_Cory
    @President-Elect_Cory Pƙed rokem +6

    If you use the principles found in coach Corey Wayne’s book “The 3% Man”, you will quickly weed out those that don’t actually want you and you’ll be able to grow the attraction with those that do.
    What she says here is true but you can know a lot faster than getting to some of these scenarios.

    • @solascripturaPR1517
      @solascripturaPR1517 Pƙed rokem +1

      Another goodie, would be: "The book of numbers",
      by Adam Cleary.

    • @President-Elect_Cory
      @President-Elect_Cory Pƙed rokem +1

      @@solascripturaPR1517 yeah.. Aaron Clarey... I agree that is a good one too but I don't know of anyway to get that one for free... and Corey Wayne allows free pdf downloads from his website.

    • @truthbetold6496
      @truthbetold6496 Pƙed rokem +1

      read that book, pretty good

  • @andrewwatkins1561
    @andrewwatkins1561 Pƙed rokem +1

    This is the BEST advice I’ve ever heard. Too late for me though 😱

  • @tallkooljp
    @tallkooljp Pƙed rokem

    Wow you nailed that 100%

  • @markamick9949
    @markamick9949 Pƙed rokem +1

    Very good advice

  • @tech5298
    @tech5298 Pƙed rokem +5

    When she only shows her face, and after you send her a 3/4 photo she finally admits she is chubby.
    When she rebuffs you saying you should not pursue young women, when ur 60.
    Both are good reasons to stop.

  • @tclapson
    @tclapson Pƙed 4 měsĂ­ci +2

    "too nice" to say what she really thinks? I hear this comment said a lot... as if the girl thinks shes so sweet and kind, and that no bad words would ever leave her mouth. When in reality, something far worse is happening... she's in fact gaslighting. And gaslighting isnt nice. Its dishonest, and happens a lot.

  • @ryeshock4
    @ryeshock4 Pƙed rokem +2

    True of any woman no matter what nationality