Growing Up with Dark Skin in the Philippines And My Experience of Colorism & Internalized Racism

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  • čas pƙidĂĄn 20. 08. 2020
  • This video talks about my struggles with colorism and internalized racism as a result of growing up having a dark skin tone. It aims to enlighten the viewers the subconcious mindset and biases against people with dark skin tone. The topic dwells a little on history and the legacy of Spanish colonization of the Philippines. It also deals with internalized biases against one's (especially Austronesian) phenotype and the consequences of passing as a different ethnic group.
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Komentáƙe • 56

  • @ricecristi
    @ricecristi Pƙed 3 lety +38

    Sorry not sorry but brown skin looks more beautiful. It looks healthy and alive. Whiteness seems lifeless to me. Rock your golden and brown tones ❀

    • @CharmfulCarlie
      @CharmfulCarlie  Pƙed 3 lety +2

      I'm rocking it. 😉 thanks

    • @ninipaloma3171
      @ninipaloma3171 Pƙed 3 lety +13

      All skin types are beautiful. Love yourselves.

    • @ricecristi
      @ricecristi Pƙed 3 lety +7

      @@ninipaloma3171 i think we’re all aware of that. Black and brown skin is so beautiful and nobody talks about it.
      Please go take your All Skin Matters somewhere else please.

    • @user-kt3qm8jy8y
      @user-kt3qm8jy8y Pƙed 2 lety

      @@ricecristi idk why you think we can’t spread the message to everyone to all tones. I would find that reply annoying if you weren’t talking down to people with fair tones but you were👀. I mean it’s totally not like it can be offensive to poc who have albinism.🙊

    • @Echo-lm8ry
      @Echo-lm8ry Pƙed 2 lety +3

      @@ricecristi im brown but pls all skin colour is beautiful. Stop reverse racism. Because reverse racism is racism too.

  • @misersmakeup-nguoihatien2316

    Thank you so so much for this video, this is such an important conversation to have esp, for all of us South East Asians who were formerly colonized by white people or East Asians and got told our natural features are ugly & undesirable, and are still hung up on these messed up & unattainable beauty standards. Much love from Vietnam 💕💕💕

    • @CharmfulCarlie
      @CharmfulCarlie  Pƙed 3 lety +1

      Your welcome. I'm glad tha you find this video helpful. Yes, there isn't much conversation on how such beauty standards are affecting us.

    • @Jprager
      @Jprager Pƙed 2 lety

      This ideology isn’t just from colonialism though. Look at Thailand, Japan, etc Asian countries that weren’t colonized. And whiter skin is also seen as a desirable trait.

  • @princesscalang6786
    @princesscalang6786 Pƙed 3 lety +11

    That's the spirit! Love the message of this video ❀

  • @solrackarbon5089
    @solrackarbon5089 Pƙed 3 lety +12

    you think your Dark am So Dark they classify me as Black , but i love how i have been created , natural sun Protection, an it allows me to talk Directly to God, I have Mellalin by da bucket load, love yourself and walk proud, we have to deal with da same situation here in da UK, in fact its da UK and others who had spread this inferior thinking among dark skin people, Rise and Shine young man

  • @kriziaitao
    @kriziaitao Pƙed 3 lety +4

    You're a voice for those who've been bullied! Great content!!

  • @deoitao172
    @deoitao172 Pƙed 3 lety +2

    Great topic. More amazing content.

    • @CharmfulCarlie
      @CharmfulCarlie  Pƙed 3 lety +1

      Thanks for watching. And don't forget next week Friday for my new video.

  • @cabb1413
    @cabb1413 Pƙed 3 lety +4

    Your sunkissed skin is beautiful!

  • @lazarocedeno5270
    @lazarocedeno5270 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    Dear young man. All humans are beautiful. I know it is better to be a loving person. We are all, without exception, perfect. God or Goddess, created us.

  • @Mournes
    @Mournes Pƙed 2 lety +4

    I read the title as “Growing up dark, with skin”.. Interesting title placement haha.

    • @CharmfulCarlie
      @CharmfulCarlie  Pƙed 2 lety +1

      Haha i get it, thumbnail. I have quite bad editing skills so my thumbnails aren't really noteworthy haha

  • @cherylslane2001
    @cherylslane2001 Pƙed rokem +1

    And when you die it won’t even matter what your skin tone is. Embrace who, god, has made đŸ«” to be.

    • @CharmfulCarlie
      @CharmfulCarlie  Pƙed rokem

      True. At the end, no one will know what you look like. Hehe

  • @Phucket24
    @Phucket24 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

    Learn to love who you are. Black, Brown, white, we are all the same

    • @CharmfulCarlie
      @CharmfulCarlie  Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

      Let's love our differences. ❀

  • @seniorklass3436
    @seniorklass3436 Pƙed 3 lety +10

    You are what they call dark skin? Really

    • @CharmfulCarlie
      @CharmfulCarlie  Pƙed 3 lety

      They used to call me dark before but I haven't been called dark since 2015. I probably became lighter now. But I grew up being called dark. 🙂

  • @donniechoo1445
    @donniechoo1445 Pƙed 3 lety +1

    Im also an east asian looking kid with darker skin tone

  • @forediting464
    @forediting464 Pƙed 3 lety

    idol meet and greet naman bisita ako sa office mo

  • @kathrin2008
    @kathrin2008 Pƙed 3 lety

    Got curious with the lawschool classmate...hmmmm

    • @CharmfulCarlie
      @CharmfulCarlie  Pƙed 3 lety

      I will not reveal. Time to move forward. Hehe

    • @kathrin2008
      @kathrin2008 Pƙed 3 lety

      Carlo Choo i respect that. keep safe 😁

  • @cherylslane2001
    @cherylslane2001 Pƙed rokem

    Brown skin I thought always looked better. Better than trying to fake a tan out in the sun.

    • @CharmfulCarlie
      @CharmfulCarlie  Pƙed rokem

      I am a naturalist and we should start rocking out our own features and skin tone regardless of race and ethnicity.

  • @rubycrawford5942
    @rubycrawford5942 Pƙed 3 lety +2

    You do not have to prove anything to anyone. They have a problem not you.

    • @CharmfulCarlie
      @CharmfulCarlie  Pƙed 3 lety +1

      You're right but I think it's also best for the society to stop the stigma against people with dark skin. It's damaging for young children to think that they're not enough because of their skin tone.

  • @stevencorrea7982
    @stevencorrea7982 Pƙed 3 lety +2

    If you are dark skin? I know I look like a tire.

    • @CharmfulCarlie
      @CharmfulCarlie  Pƙed 3 lety +3

      A tire doesn't necessarily mean it's ugly or bad. 😉 Slay that skin tone 😄😄😄

    • @stevencorrea7982
      @stevencorrea7982 Pƙed 3 lety +2

      @@CharmfulCarlie No my complexion is the color of a untarnished copper penny. Just doing some contrasting. Everyone should love themselves whoever they are.

  • @ravensissalium5937
    @ravensissalium5937 Pƙed 2 lety

    OK but where is the dark skin it because you ain’t dark skinned the hell

    • @CharmfulCarlie
      @CharmfulCarlie  Pƙed 2 lety

      I used to be darker but I wasn't able to show a picture of it in the video.

  • @KC-lf4ly
    @KC-lf4ly Pƙed rokem

    Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react. Grow up and get over your victimhood.

    • @CharmfulCarlie
      @CharmfulCarlie  Pƙed rokem +1

      I'm not sure if you watched the whole video because obviously I got over it. I think you should be more empathetic considering the unnecessary hate and standards impose upon us people.

  • @iStorm-my5fp
    @iStorm-my5fp Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Your not even dark bro. Omg the standards are through the roof

    • @CharmfulCarlie
      @CharmfulCarlie  Pƙed 2 lety +1

      I understand but in Southeast Asia, darkness is also set on different standard. 🙂