This streamer banned all women in his chat... for being women.

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  • @ItsDannyio
    @ItsDannyio Před 2 lety +27289

    Mans really said “I’m not a misogynist” and “Stop being a girl” in the same 10 seconds.

    • @novectus9933
      @novectus9933 Před 2 lety +326

      @we did it holy shit they did it and its finally here!

    • @Styxz__
      @Styxz__ Před 2 lety +215

      @@novectus9933 after all this time it’s finally here

    • @apolloisnotashirt
      @apolloisnotashirt Před 2 lety +410

      @we did it oh wow whatever it is its finally here, im not clicking the link and so should you!

    • @chobbis3
      @chobbis3 Před 2 lety +49

      @we did it oh woah it's here, finally
      they did it

    • @noahsmith7267
      @noahsmith7267 Před 2 lety +2

      Mans is just supporting his trans viewers /j

  • @helixarim371
    @helixarim371 Před 2 lety +10624

    Man really said "I'm sorry for banning every woman and being sexist but you have to understand it was because I also cheated on my wife"

    • @corrinebudris7822
      @corrinebudris7822 Před 2 lety +580

      literally, like holy shit

    • @fendviyo
      @fendviyo Před 2 lety +1166

      "sorry I'm an asshole on the Internet, but if it makes you feel better I'm an asshole irl too" 😂😂😂

    • @zoombtw1
      @zoombtw1 Před 2 lety +11

      What time he say that at

    • @isabel-ru6qr
      @isabel-ru6qr Před 2 lety +11

      @@zoombtw1 commenting because i wanna know too 😭

    • @corrinebudris7822
      @corrinebudris7822 Před 2 lety +261

      @@zoombtw1 He didn't actually say those words, the phrase "man really said" is more figurative and used to show the absurdity in someone's actions :)

  • @theunderstatement6842
    @theunderstatement6842 Před 2 měsíci +540

    "i'm not sexist, because being sexist is wrong, and being wrong is for women" energy

  • @moooky52
    @moooky52 Před 2 lety +12263

    "i'm not a misogynist, trainwrecks can vouch so stop being a girl" might be the worst defense i have ever seen in my life

    • @fart63
      @fart63 Před 2 lety +223

      Isn’t that dude like insane who would ever use him as a source

    • @hebonky
      @hebonky Před rokem +122

      because Trainwrecks is well..... a ummmm...... well you know
      a train wreck

    • @chadcarlson2018
      @chadcarlson2018 Před rokem +8

      Nah bro that is an impenetrable defense

    • @bigman1163
      @bigman1163 Před rokem +131

      Reminds me of a line in a skit "I'm not sexist, being sexist is wrong, and being wrong is for women"

    • @k2.owo_
      @k2.owo_ Před rokem +2

      its like he's contradicting himself

  • @dinospumoni5611
    @dinospumoni5611 Před 2 lety +6839

    His excuse is basically implying that he doesn't have the self-control be around other women without cheating on his wife.

    • @Marlin123
      @Marlin123 Před 2 lety +177

      I mean, that's one way to avoid cheating

    • @SilverFlame819
      @SilverFlame819 Před 2 lety +2

      (And EW, how gross is it that he thinks women would actually want to fuck that?)

    • @DeezN00tz99
      @DeezN00tz99 Před 2 lety

      Very rape cultury

    • @deathrager2404
      @deathrager2404 Před rokem

      @@Marlin123 his woman forced him to do this shit. i can tell ya mfs are virgins and never have been around a woman. you d know that women are like this. and let's be honest, his woman is right. if he stays around other women he will cheat again. im just baffled that so many dudes are little virgins thinking that simping is the way to go. lol

    • @fart63
      @fart63 Před rokem +84

      @Fight Research what?

  • @blackgothicrose89
    @blackgothicrose89 Před 2 lety +896

    No he clearly cheated. There's zero trust in that relationship. The wife additionally puts the blame on the women. That relationship is a toxic dumpster fire,

    • @alexandrapetersen8582
      @alexandrapetersen8582 Před 2 lety +184

      As a women it really frustrates me and lets me down when the girlfriend only blames other women for her boyfriend cheating as opposes to blaming the actual boyfriend who is majority responsible.

    • @majavaxholm9314
      @majavaxholm9314 Před rokem +5

      ​@@alexandrapetersen8582 omg yes why has nobody said this

    • @peterkent6250
      @peterkent6250 Před 2 měsíci +7

      @@alexandrapetersen8582 You mean like when a dude starts a fight with me because i was talking to his "girl" even when i was completely oblivious to this piece of information xD it happens both ways. Blame the person cheating, never the person they cheating with. (Unless a friend or relative ofc)

    • @alexandrapetersen8582
      @alexandrapetersen8582 Před 2 měsíci +4

      @@peterkent6250 yeah exactly. Idk why ppl always blame the oblivious one and never the person who actually cheated. Its ridiculous.

    • @yoyohayli
      @yoyohayli Před 2 měsíci +2

      ​@peterkent6250 No, you can ABSOLUTELY blame the person they are cheating with (as well, not just only them) if that person is aware that the situation is explicitly cheating.
      But yes, a lot of those being the one they are cheating with don't know they're in a relationship. That happened with me and 4 other girls. NONE of us knew about the majority of the others at all, and the ones that did know maybe one other girl were led to believe that the other was just friends with this guy, or a roommate, etc.

  • @Tabth3778
    @Tabth3778 Před rokem +1240

    "Stop being a girl"
    Me, a girl: *fades out of existence*

    • @roxassora2706
      @roxassora2706 Před rokem +3

      His female family members: *start evaporating*

    • @judesliggoo
      @judesliggoo Před rokem

      Start being a girl

    • @edenem
      @edenem Před rokem +124

      suddenly my voice drops an octave and i like the color blue

    • @elvingearmasterirma7241
      @elvingearmasterirma7241 Před rokem +39

      My body disappears in a puff of smoke. The only thing left of me is my voice, saved only because I am agender.

    • @haha-qo9bd
      @haha-qo9bd Před 10 měsíci +9

      All of a sudden I disintegrate

  • @postmelons2282
    @postmelons2282 Před 2 lety +10431

    Out of every insult he could’ve chosen during the conversation to defend he’s not sexist, he used..girl. That cannot be anymore ironic or hilarious

    • @Keijo_
      @Keijo_ Před 2 lety +700

      Who even says "like a girl" anyway is he 10 years old???

    • @MrAcylus
      @MrAcylus Před 2 lety +303

      There were a few threads here and there that people think he was gonna say "bitch" or "pussy" but chose this instead, quite the pick.

    • @ExarchGaming
      @ExarchGaming Před 2 lety +174

      or the funniest one to me, was him calling out trainwrecks defending him like we don't all know that train isn't one of the biggest sexists on the platform. Like how perfectly can you line both of those things up in 30 seconds and wonder why people are like WTF?

    • @rickrolled3666
      @rickrolled3666 Před 2 lety

      czcams.com/video/kesrUO7mdVU/video.html..

    • @punkxxt
      @punkxxt Před 2 lety

      @@ExarchGaming Yeah, but then again, most of the people who are calling out JasonR are friends with Train and/or have no problems interacting with him. Maybe that's where he was trying to go? I mean Ludwig here has been active in calling out JasonR but he is friends with train who has said some harsher words towards women.

  • @Danny-M
    @Danny-M Před 2 lety +8081

    Friends aren’t supposed to back you up on everything you do, they’re supposed to call out things that are blatantly wrong or stupid so you don’t look stupid. They can have your back without agreeing with you.

    • @limerumpus3589
      @limerumpus3589 Před 2 lety +532

      Realistically if you friend commends you for doing something shitty they are a pretty awful friend. Sometimes we fuck up (usually not as bad as this guy) and it can be really valuable to have someone you trust who can call you out.

    • @fricky9713
      @fricky9713 Před 2 lety

      @@zeallust8542 you must have horrible friends who don't care about your wellbeing if they don't straighten you up when you do fucked up shit or just being in the wrong in general.

    • @elora512
      @elora512 Před 2 lety +81

      @@limerumpus3589 Based take

    • @coffeegirl18
      @coffeegirl18 Před 2 lety +199

      Having too many Yes type friends is so toxic. Like my friends call me on stuff and I fix it.

    • @pennyforyourthots
      @pennyforyourthots Před 2 lety +95

      Exactly. You can have somebody's back BY not agreeing with them, because it keeps your actions grounded in reality.
      For example, If somebody asks you for advice, maybe wanting to get into a relationship with somebody you know to be toxic and abusive, would your advice bead on how to get with that person (probably the thing they want to hear), or would you be straight with them and talk about how it's a terrible idea because you don't want them to get hurt?

  • @talia_neah
    @talia_neah Před 2 lety +1616

    If you can't allow women to exist in your community because you're that much of a cheater... maybe you should reevaluate your relationship. If you can't be in the same room with any woman without wanting to sleep with them, just don't be in a relationship. You are not ready.

    • @wtfisthisthingdude
      @wtfisthisthingdude Před rokem +76

      also consider joining a monastery or sthg lmfao

    • @ShinyShilla
      @ShinyShilla Před 2 měsíci +4

      Could be hypersexuality, should go be checked if he has outgrown the teen period

    • @gutleech
      @gutleech Před 2 měsíci +15

      @@ShinyShillabro, i'm hypersexual too but that doesn't mean i will cheat on my partner with every other woman i see online or irl 💀 wtf? common decency is so rare these days, i s2g.

    • @ShinyShilla
      @ShinyShilla Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@gutleech never said anything about cheating. I'm saying hypersexuality can be a problem and, regarding his situation, should be checked. I have known people who literally couldn't think of anything else but sex, that is not healthy. I s2g internet only wants to see things black & white, common sense is rare nowadays

    • @Ava-nf2qq
      @Ava-nf2qq Před 2 měsíci

      also the fact he can’t see women as anything but objects of sexual desire and not people 😂 gross

  • @RabbitWhispererYT
    @RabbitWhispererYT Před 2 měsíci +69

    Man I COMPLETELY forgot this madness happened until this reappeared on my front page today. This is wild! As one of Lud’s 15 female viewers, I’m glad Mr. Mail is taking a stand

  • @heath6825
    @heath6825 Před 2 lety +5217

    He uses the word “girl” like a derogatory remark and then tries to claim that he’s not misogynistic... it’s crazy how there’s people actually defending him lol

    • @thenightjackal8876
      @thenightjackal8876 Před 2 lety +10

      I mean they did the same thing with the word "cracker" and most people persisted that it doesn't give the word a negative intent.

    • @XingAoShen
      @XingAoShen Před 2 lety +290

      @@thenightjackal8876 that’s not true, the issue was that it’s not a SLUR not that it’s not meant to be derogatory or offensive. Those are very different things.

    • @lexihd5342
      @lexihd5342 Před 2 lety +272

      @@thenightjackal8876 you tried to make a connection and failed…

    • @rickrolled3666
      @rickrolled3666 Před 2 lety

      czcams.com/video/kesrUO7mdVU/video.html..

    • @adler5653
      @adler5653 Před 2 lety +18

      Even funnier was that he called trainwrecks a character witness lmao

  • @Ani
    @Ani Před 2 lety +4568

    i watched the whole segment between Tarik and Jason and Jesus Christ it felt like Jason didn't understand basic English at times. big up Tarik for having the patience to not absolutely lose his shit after dealing with that for like an HOUR

    • @maxzhang8863
      @maxzhang8863 Před 2 lety +67

      Zellsis was losing it tho his pov was hilarious

    • @alephbunchofnumbers
      @alephbunchofnumbers Před 2 lety +172

      "I had people like trainwrecks, subrosa backing me up, even moe. But you didnt!"
      "Ok sorry I didnt back you up bro"
      ".. tarik it's not about you not backing me up"
      Like what?? Lmfao

    • @rickrolled3666
      @rickrolled3666 Před 2 lety

      czcams.com/video/kesrUO7mdVU/video.html..

    • @stansmith9639
      @stansmith9639 Před 2 lety +62

      Tarik is the ultimate w person for not giving into his "friend" and following him into the shitstorm he's created for himself

    • @ATeamNinja124
      @ATeamNinja124 Před 2 lety +11

      Dude I was getting frustrated myself listening to JasonR. All of what he was saying was a mess.

  • @shroomshroom5945
    @shroomshroom5945 Před rokem +140

    I love how the wife calls herself a "chill girl" after harrassing a random woman. Suuuper chill

    • @Noa-g1ex
      @Noa-g1ex Před rokem +22

      They both need a reality check & intensive therapy

    • @shroomshroom5945
      @shroomshroom5945 Před rokem +1

      @@Noa-g1ex that's facts

    • @guitarfiend
      @guitarfiend Před 2 měsíci +2

      it kind of reminds me of that one cool girl monologue from the movie gone girl

  • @sabe-lu5ox
    @sabe-lu5ox Před rokem +134

    has anyone noticed that 90% of insults used in society are women related. I actually dont get it if, when ppl mad at a woman they always insult her with her body for being with other guys. Like is that the only thing ppl can think of when seeing a women? honestly humanity is doomed because of all these weirdo's

    • @Solaceon
      @Solaceon Před rokem

      That's why I treat mysoginistic men like men treat women. Apparently they don't like being called emotional and getting told to keep their testosterone in check. Or that I'll go back to the kitchen when they go back to dying in wars.

    • @elvingearmasterirma7241
      @elvingearmasterirma7241 Před rokem

      Yeeup
      Thats sexism for ya. Being sexist is literal brain rot

    • @dungeonsanddragonsanddrive2902
      @dungeonsanddragonsanddrive2902 Před 2 měsíci +20

      Because for decades and centuries women were second class. Every insult is from those times.

    • @Jack-px8lf
      @Jack-px8lf Před 2 měsíci

      did you know, though, that bimbo used to also be a term used to exclusively degrade brutish ignorant men before being applied to women?

    • @Jack-px8lf
      @Jack-px8lf Před 2 měsíci

      did you know the term bimbo used to exclusively be applied to ignorant brutish men before it ended up being applied to women? i like to disagree and like to believe more people are seeing how messed up this weird stuff is

  • @ADaniBear
    @ADaniBear Před 2 lety +5234

    It’s also weird because it’s like “Tell me you view women as objects without telling me.” Why is ONE interaction from a girl in chat or gaming gonna make you disrespect your wife… you buckle under the choice of infidelity THAT easily?!

    • @jess-tp8xk
      @jess-tp8xk Před 2 lety +161

      exactly👏🏿👏🏿

    • @T0NI_
      @T0NI_ Před 2 lety +126

      Honestly I think it's a case of the wife being so incredibly insecure from his past actions that she gets nervous just from the idea of anyone he might be sexually attracted to talking to him/with him

    • @coasterthekid8867
      @coasterthekid8867 Před 2 lety +26

      I don’t know if you’re doing it on purpose, but you’re completely misrepresenting his point. His problem isn’t with the girls themselves, it’s how chat tends to react to when male and female streamers play with each other. It’s shipping culture that he hates. And it’s honestly understandable, ninja did the same thing. I’d be pissed too if I devoted my life to one woman and there are people on the Internet making fanfics between me and another person because I played with them once in a game.

    • @frn05asedillorubeny.41
      @frn05asedillorubeny.41 Před 2 lety +345

      @@coasterthekid8867 Well the problem with Jason isn't his actions directly, but the kind of culture and image he portrays. When you ban all women in chat, you're bound to promote a culture of sexism and toxic masculinity when all you hear is other men. And it's obvious that when this guy is okay with saying "don't be a girl" that he really isn't the most liberal in his beliefs. And I think that him basically trashing on his "friend" is a sign that they shouldn't really be friends. Friends aren't supposed to be yes men. They should call you out whenever they think you're in the wrong. That's a sign of true friendship or at least a genuine person. And well, doing something to someone just because of their gender is literally the definition of sexism so.... Also Lud literally showed Jason liking other women's bikini photos which shows that he doesn't really care about "respecting" his wife. He only does it for show when he knows his wife is watching.

    • @coasterthekid8867
      @coasterthekid8867 Před 2 lety +11

      @@frn05asedillorubeny.41 See I think the problem isn’t your response but rather your mindset. When you say you’re bound to promote a culture of sexism and toxic masculinity when all you hear is other men, what you’re actually saying is that you believe that all men are naturally toxic and sexist and need the guidance of women to not be awful people. That kind of mindset builds a culture of superiority between the sexes which is the definition of sexism so…. Also I noticed how you only talk about men and women but completely neglect anybody who doesn’t identify with the “traditional” gender binary. Him banning women doesn’t mean that he bans people who identify as non-binary, gender fluid, androgynous, etc. so the statement that “all he is hearing is other men” is completely unfounded. I believe the real thing that we should be going after here is not him banning women, but that the reasoning he gives, implies that he only recognizes heterosexual relationships. Think about it, he doesn’t want people getting the wrong idea about him playing with women but doesn’t hold that same sentiment for playing with other men. He claims not to be sexist and I think he’s telling the truth, he’s actually homophobic. Sometimes things are more than meets the surface.

  • @betterbetty3542
    @betterbetty3542 Před 2 lety +1931

    Poor Tarik. You can tell that it hurt his feelings to be accused of being a bad friend. He seems like a genuinely nice guy.

    • @adler5653
      @adler5653 Před 2 lety +217

      @Women's rights was a Mistake Hey you got something in common with women's rights

    • @gamingmoyai3950
      @gamingmoyai3950 Před 2 lety +191

      @@adler5653 you actually killed him, his comment is gone… now go for the channel.

    • @mybek6197
      @mybek6197 Před rokem +1

      @@gamingmoyai3950 how’s orxy?

    • @yokoniyasuwa
      @yokoniyasuwa Před rokem +1

      @@gamingmoyai3950 wait. What happened?

    • @gamingmoyai3950
      @gamingmoyai3950 Před rokem +71

      @@yokoniyasuwa mans posted something vile, got demolished, deleted the comment, then his entire channel, pretty funny ngl

  • @undeadSchema
    @undeadSchema Před 2 lety +156

    QT really wakes up everyday and chooses violence for misogynists. Loving it

  • @idontuploadanym0re
    @idontuploadanym0re Před rokem +76

    as a kid, i remember my camp counselor had this classic line: “stop acting like a little girl” (all of the kids in my group were boys). lets just say, that attitude correlated with how he interacted with his female coworkers….

  • @m6nday
    @m6nday Před 2 lety +3979

    honestly the worst part is that jason was trying to get tarik to "clear his name" or be a "witness of his character" by saying he had been around girls before. Literally equivalent to saying im not racist ive been around black people before. I honestly got a little mald at how nice and chill tarik was trying to be, such a miserable hour of back and forth to sit through

    • @rickrolled3666
      @rickrolled3666 Před 2 lety

      czcams.com/video/kesrUO7mdVU/video.html..

    • @CynicalChicken661
      @CynicalChicken661 Před 2 lety +40

      Ik as a ludbud its in poor taste to spread toxicity anywhere, and i usually would never. But by god that back and forth had me so mad that i wish jason r would join my voice chat so i could just flame this mans for hours.

    • @JeremyTheGraten
      @JeremyTheGraten Před 2 lety +1

      Did you mean to say mald instead of mad?

    • @CynicalChicken661
      @CynicalChicken661 Před 2 lety +18

      @@JeremyTheGraten 😭😭 no tbh ty for pointing that out i must've mistyped

    • @ATeamNinja124
      @ATeamNinja124 Před 2 lety +32

      I hate how he said that it's not about his actions being sexist and that it's about providing a good "witness of his character," knowing damn well that if Tarik did, JasonR would take the "witness of character" to defend himself from sexist claims. Actually so Infuriating, like we know what you tryna do and it ain't slick, nor will it change anything.

  • @Patterrz
    @Patterrz Před 2 lety +3672

    R espect to Tarik for saying somehting and not just letting it slide, being a good friend means confronting them on the bad things they say/do

    • @Aahir.
      @Aahir. Před 2 lety +1

      Dawg u washed up

    • @brockmoore8402
      @brockmoore8402 Před 2 lety +184

      @@Aahir. still bigger than you though lol L+ratio

    • @tedxteddy
      @tedxteddy Před 2 lety +3

      Bro wtf is r espect

    • @Awesome-dg9cd
      @Awesome-dg9cd Před 2 lety +1

      @@Aahir. L + ratio + plundered + no wenches + ship sunken + you have scurvy

    • @theglobalwarming6081
      @theglobalwarming6081 Před 2 lety +54

      I wish people understood this too. The best type of friend one can have is someone who'll reprimand/stop you from doing something stupid/wrong.

  • @Alyrulz421
    @Alyrulz421 Před 2 lety +294

    Him: "I don't hate women"
    Also him: *uses "girl" as an insult*
    Sure, makes sense

    • @doroza2lol
      @doroza2lol Před rokem

      There are people (most of the time men) calling men "kid" or "boy" as an insult. DO you even know that women are using "girl" as an insult? Like am i a god with social skills or people are lacking experience in society to not know anything about negative encounters.

    • @FluLemish
      @FluLemish Před rokem +31

      @@doroza2lol "am I a god with sozial Skills?" Bruh 💀

    • @whalepussy4912
      @whalepussy4912 Před rokem +1

      ⁠@@doroza2lol difference is,
      calling someone “kid” degrades their mentality, calling someone “kid” means to say they have a mindset and act like a child
      Calling someone “boy” or “girl” degrades their sex, “girl” happens to be more of an insult as it has a deep root in misogyny, calling someone boy isn’t equal to as bad but it still degrades sex/gender

  • @DMack-us4ne
    @DMack-us4ne Před rokem +96

    their relationship has the same vibe as like... schools that have dress codes that make girls not wear shorts or spaghetti straps because it's "inappropriate" and "distracting" for students and teachers. yknow? like why are we blaming women for existing lmfao

    • @vivil2533
      @vivil2533 Před 2 měsíci +9

      You just Reminded me of one of my favorite stories.
      A school dress code specified that girls couldn't wear spaghetti straps and skirts, so a whole bunch of the boys rolled up in skirts, and stuff to protest.
      It didn't work, but maximum respect.

    • @Tremuoso
      @Tremuoso Před 2 měsíci

      Women can exist without whoring themselves.

  • @zvb7311
    @zvb7311 Před 2 lety +8472

    I like that Lud has a drama channel to keep us informed

    • @Materialist39
      @Materialist39 Před 2 lety +268

      The funniest part being this started as a write-in advice channel

    • @Sc4r4byte
      @Sc4r4byte Před 2 lety +98

      and it's still kinda an advice channel... but mostly just advice for the people involved in the drama he's talking about.

    • @Ryleeman54number2
      @Ryleeman54number2 Před 2 lety +13

      I dont its a bad path to go down. I really dont want lud to become keemstar. Its better when its not just about internet drama

    • @Ryleeman54number2
      @Ryleeman54number2 Před 2 lety

      I dont its a bad path to go down. I really dont want lud to become keemstar. Its better when its not just about internet drama

    • @SlyTreeRat
      @SlyTreeRat Před 2 lety +20

      @@Ryleeman54number2 He did want to be a journalist, how good he's at it ehhhh everything he tries to talk about he has a HUGE bias towards one side which makes videos like these kinda pointless.

  • @Ricecooka
    @Ricecooka Před 2 lety +2651

    Oh man since he told him he handled it like a girl I guess that means he isn't going to play with him anymore.

  • @Alexa-ky7lj
    @Alexa-ky7lj Před 2 lety +22

    The wife the biggest pick me, "I'm not like other girls" imagine being the Man's token woman in his life L wife

  • @lilbusy94
    @lilbusy94 Před 2 lety +34

    holy shit this happened with one of my friends like unironically
    he wasnt a streamer he was just super sexist and extremely harsh and judgemental on women's appearances all the time
    called me a girl (im not, guess thats an insult idek) while defending himself and everything
    some men are wild

    • @RollerBaller
      @RollerBaller Před rokem +10

      Dude you need better friends

    • @rose-yeah
      @rose-yeah Před rokem

      All

    • @CoffeeaddictWriting
      @CoffeeaddictWriting Před 2 měsíci +2

      Yeah I had a few friends like that too sadly. Got called a girl (and gay) for ...not liking sports and having a girlfriend that's taller than me. I hope u have better friends now

  • @junotter4181
    @junotter4181 Před 2 lety +1240

    I don't know how to phrase this but as a female viewer of Lud, videos like these seem so rare in this genre, it feels like unless I'm watching CZcamsrs who very specifically brand themselves as feminist or leftist, most men seem to just go "yeah yeah ig sexism is bad but instead of actually acknowledging it and coming to terms with it I'm going to make a joke and then complain that it keeps getting brought up". I've met tons and tons of guys who on the surface are like Lud but the moment women get added to the conversation we're instantly sub-human, it's so frustrating trying to be in gaming circles yet constantly disrespected by people I called friends. I don't think I can count the number of times I've gotten "this is why I don't play with girls" from people I genuinely considered friends because I said a comment they made was sexist.
    Anyway, thanks Lud for admitting his own flaws but also making this video and showing that sexism isn't just one gender's issue, which is kinda sad that this all had to be said cause you'd think it'd be common sense but the bar is on the floor I suppose...

    • @neb1.223
      @neb1.223 Před 2 lety +155

      yea i agree 100% . i vet people before i even befriend them. gotta know if you're racist/sexist etc because i'm not wasting my time.

    • @WhiteMyosotis
      @WhiteMyosotis Před 2 lety +147

      The amount of times ppl on the internet esp in games are openly and violently sexist, racist or homophobic is just insane I wish it was more easy to play and just have fun without running into a million fkn traumatic encounters per day

    • @_asha
      @_asha Před 2 lety +77

      I feel this comment so much, when I play games online and encounter these types of shitheads I just become timid because I *know* a majority of the server would just gang up on me when I speak up when someone makes an offensive remark. I really shouldnt, and it's just sad and disappointing how rampant sexism/homophobia/racism/transphobia still is in the gaming sphere especially.
      I just get the relief time to time when bigger people actually speak up about it and I realize that a lot of people do think the same things as me lol

    • @vvey4523
      @vvey4523 Před 2 lety

      If you're gonna insult someone everytime they try to talk about anything just because you feel compelled to do so as a "leftist" or "feminist", they're more than justified in not wanting to interact with you or your kind. Stop being a pain and people won't avoid you.

    • @joeyno137
      @joeyno137 Před 2 lety +1

      Geez what a buzzkill

  • @brendan7030ify
    @brendan7030ify Před 2 lety +675

    I don't think I've heard someone actually whip out the "cum dumpster" insult in an actual argument. I feel like even saying that to someone and trying to play the good person in the story is just an automatic L

    • @adler5653
      @adler5653 Před 2 lety +99

      Yeah I thought that word was only used in porn.

    • @James-Salty-Sunderland
      @James-Salty-Sunderland Před 2 lety +81

      Only Penguinz0 can wield that word succesfully

    • @hollieweller7051
      @hollieweller7051 Před rokem +67

      I've had someone say that trying flirt with me trying the "you aren't like other girls" method. 🤮

    • @Illamdalt
      @Illamdalt Před rokem +24

      @@hollieweller7051 I would perish at that moment if I were you

    • @kovici7226
      @kovici7226 Před rokem

      @@hollieweller7051 “You aren’t like those other cum dumpster girls… you’re different 😏.”
      GAG 😫🔫

  • @magali19
    @magali19 Před rokem +12

    I know red-pill CZcamsrs who won't even allow women to comment on their videos just because we're women, and when we do comment, they throw loads of misogynistic 💩 at us.

  • @RedPandaStan
    @RedPandaStan Před 2 lety +18

    Can i say how much little jokes like "id actually say like a strong woman" do for inclusion. Like sure its a meme but he acknowledged we exist and it is actually combating dialect rooted in toxic masculinity.Good job Ludwig.

  • @ohioella
    @ohioella Před 2 lety +4511

    watching qt drag him was incredible but i made the mistake of looking at the replies. i love twitch but sometimes it just reminds me how rampant misogyny still is (esp online). but i've never felt uncomfortable or ostracized for being a woman in your community, thank you for making it a safe n fun place for everyone.

    • @limerumpus3589
      @limerumpus3589 Před 2 lety +411

      Qt is really cool for calling people out like that

    • @elora512
      @elora512 Před 2 lety +329

      Yes, I feel like the top comments represent the majority. The majority may not be vocal, they usually just like the comment that they agree with.
      Then the goblins, who dwell at the bottom of the comments section, reply to those top comments, which is why I try not to scroll too far down. I still have faith in QT's and Lud's community.

    • @Daisy-ij7un
      @Daisy-ij7un Před 2 lety +125

      I 100% agree with you, as a woman I also feel safe in Luds community. I am proud to be a LudBud :)

    • @coffeegirl18
      @coffeegirl18 Před 2 lety +83

      Yeah I've always felt supported by Lud and QTs community. They're decent humans.

    • @Joyous395
      @Joyous395 Před 2 lety +6

      As you will with most streams lol

  • @opaldust1979
    @opaldust1979 Před 2 lety +785

    I honestly feel like refusing to play or have women in his chat and using not wanting to disrespect his wife as an excuse tell a lot. Like do you feel so tempted by other women for just existing that you have to shut them all out?

    • @megrocks3026
      @megrocks3026 Před rokem +5

      Um no it's clearly his wife enforcing this on him. Can't you see he's being abused?

    • @Ghostman223
      @Ghostman223 Před rokem +63

      @@megrocks3026 He's a f**king grown man, why tf would his wife enforce this? Stop defending this guy.

    • @megrocks3026
      @megrocks3026 Před rokem +5

      @@Ghostman223 Have you seen the johnny vs amber case? Age and gender have nothing to do with abuse

    • @Ghostman223
      @Ghostman223 Před rokem +41

      @@megrocks3026 gender sure, age.. yeah that has stuff to do with abuse, there's even a law. Have you heard of "child endangerment"?

    • @zeropolicy7456
      @zeropolicy7456 Před rokem +10

      @@Ghostman223 The point is, grown men CAN be abused. I have seen it. I have seen grown men, men who aren't physically weak, be abused by women. Manipulated in believing that everything is their fault. That may not be what's going on here, but don't say it can't happen.
      Also, why is everyone obsessed with playing with/chatting with this dude? He obviously wants nothing to do with women, and there are thousands of other streamers. Just go somewhere else. Lol.

  • @ChaplainSophie
    @ChaplainSophie Před rokem +5

    “He should have talked about it off the internet like a *strong woman* would”
    I fucking love Lud lmao

  • @freewind6368
    @freewind6368 Před rokem +6

    Man legit said the equivalent of “I’m sexist because being sexist is wrong and being wrong is for women” but seriously instead of ironically:

  • @cooperwilliams6824
    @cooperwilliams6824 Před 2 lety +783

    I love how QT just absolutely destroys every single person she can and Ludwig just gets to applaud her for it

    • @april4524
      @april4524 Před 2 lety +66

      she truly wears the pants god i love her

    • @elora512
      @elora512 Před 2 lety +27

      Their dynamic is gold

    • @yahzkoroche
      @yahzkoroche Před rokem +3

      LOVE HER SO MUCH HOLY SHIT

  • @fancyLD
    @fancyLD Před 2 lety +5577

    i cannot believe he said he “handled it like a girl” that is in fucking sane 😭 but glad that man got rolled he deserved it

    • @shiny_birb2678
      @shiny_birb2678 Před 2 lety +38

      sO iF i SaY "hAnDlEd It LiKe A bOy" ThEn I'm A mAn HaTeR? /s

    • @madjerodringo
      @madjerodringo Před 2 lety +11

      fucking insane*

    • @iamgoo
      @iamgoo Před 2 lety +213

      @@shiny_birb2678 I mean. Yeah
      Anything you say that has a negative outlook on a sex is sexist. If that's hard to grasp I don't know what to tell anyone

    • @shiny_birb2678
      @shiny_birb2678 Před 2 lety +18

      @@madjerodringo in(fucking)sane*

    • @z_zenith
      @z_zenith Před 2 lety +36

      @@madjerodringo no, it was on purpose 🤦
      Edit: Tom Scott has a video on Expletive Infixation. It's an a-fucking-mazing watch.

  • @samh2340
    @samh2340 Před 2 lety +4

    Y'know most people avoid cheating by not cheating with people, not by avoiding people altogether.
    If you have to avoid women all together to avoid cheating, you need rehab not mysogny.

  • @rensartpark
    @rensartpark Před rokem +3

    Both him and his wife are beyond wacky, glad they have each other lmao

  • @maskquerade3236
    @maskquerade3236 Před 2 lety +2389

    AY, I was waiting for why QT flamed someone lol. Always looking forward to the Ludwig Talks

    • @lukecuendet9078
      @lukecuendet9078 Před 2 lety +13

      lud should do a series called LUDTalks it has the same ring as TEDTalks and we all know ludwig, hes a superhero :)

    • @gamerzss
      @gamerzss Před 2 lety +11

      Qt doesn't need a reason to flame someone lol

    • @punkxxt
      @punkxxt Před 2 lety +3

      @@gamerzss Kind of weird she goes all hard against JasonR when she also says so much messed up shit about women, especially against small girl streamers, on stream. There's a reason Mizkif jokes about her degrading women all the time.

  • @tabtab03
    @tabtab03 Před 2 lety +331

    I am so sick of the sexism in the gaming industry. And I’m not even that involved in the scene. Huge respect to all women who have to put up with this bullshit all the time. Also respect to qt to speak out on this and standing her point even after getting so much backlash for quite some time now.

    • @flameepidemic4839
      @flameepidemic4839 Před rokem +23

      I know im late but as a gamer girl i think the worst part is the severe amount of sexual harrasment i dont even play any game with randoms anymore ESPECIALLY not on valentines day because its so bad heck even on among us it’s happened its only ever been on valentines day though thankfully but its so disgusting especially since im a SA survivor so it brings back bad memories i had to change my gamertag and my pfp to something you couldn’t tell what gender i was because id have people messaging me some awful things and spamming invites.
      There’s definitely sexism and ive ran into that but its sadly not even the worst of it

    • @jadecoolness101
      @jadecoolness101 Před rokem

      @@flameepidemic4839 what I hated was when men scoffed and went "tea bagging is just a joke! It's on a video game it ant be sexual harassment!"
      Because. You know. Men don't like taking accountability for their misogyny.
      When men routinely team kill women, "teabag" them, and say shit like "ungh~ take these nuts" "open wide baby" or other shit. Yes! THAT IS SEXUAL! Fuck's sake.

    • @Plsrateeight
      @Plsrateeight Před rokem +1

      SOY

  • @AboveW
    @AboveW Před 2 lety +16

    Summary: JasonR is insecure, sexist and probably cheated, wife is a pick me girl, Tarik has the patience of a saint and Nadeshot is as wise as ever. Thank you for coming to my Ted Talk.

    • @delfoca
      @delfoca Před 2 lety

      Their relationship is so fucking toxic dude, it’s insane, they need to just break up

    • @deathrager2404
      @deathrager2404 Před rokem

      tarik is a simp in denial. jason is a loser for letting his woman decide whom he can and cannot talk to.

  • @ariannawhatrudoinghere
    @ariannawhatrudoinghere Před rokem +4

    “I’m not homophobic, stop being a queer about it!”

  • @nathanspeiser
    @nathanspeiser Před 2 lety +156

    When he said "don't be a girl about it" the Curb Your Enthusiasm music immediately queued in my head lmao

  • @nickelfront
    @nickelfront Před 2 lety +1021

    i love how he cited trainwrecks as if hes a representative of people who are NOT sexist

    • @woodberry323
      @woodberry323 Před 2 lety +42

      SquadW OMEGALUL

    • @locus61
      @locus61 Před 2 lety +47

      and M0E LOL

    • @Smothiew
      @Smothiew Před 2 lety +43

      ...or a voice of reason

    • @Channel-23s
      @Channel-23s Před 2 lety

      Train wrecks is pretty okay he was originally the guy who called out titty streamers on twitch and got banned than came back with more viewers and a podcast on there

    • @lemonysucksatlife
      @lemonysucksatlife Před 2 lety

      yeah lmao

  • @dansnell5774
    @dansnell5774 Před 2 lety +3

    "I had people like Trainwrecks backing me up."

  • @toastedclubsandwich
    @toastedclubsandwich Před rokem +1

    He genuinely could not have chosen a worse metaphor for the situation

  • @jonnybravo6968
    @jonnybravo6968 Před 2 lety +268

    Honestly keeping women away from a guy like him is the best thing he’s ever done

  • @heavenbitz
    @heavenbitz Před 2 lety +396

    Note to self: When stuff goes wrong, look at rolexes

    • @SakshamJain0201
      @SakshamJain0201 Před 2 lety +9

      And I will just copy that.
      **Copying Intensifies**

    • @drcks
      @drcks Před 2 lety +4

      Acting rich does make my anxiety drastic go down

    • @Neysiriss
      @Neysiriss Před 2 lety

      But wasn't that a talk to hype tariks, because afaik he's getting a lot of positive attention from this? So when your friendship crashes and burns but your carrer is looking fine, you better look at rolexes not your exes.

    • @tedxteddy
      @tedxteddy Před 2 lety

      I mean titan is better 😎

    • @pastelsarecuteyes.2667
      @pastelsarecuteyes.2667 Před 2 lety

      @@drcks According to studies if you touch money you actually get happy and anxiety goes down touch even if its a dollar or quarters
      Did it. It works for me. 💃💅✨👌

  • @juliaweasley
    @juliaweasley Před rokem +7

    My real question is what woman even wants to be in his chat?

  • @AluraRosenbaumDizzEwok
    @AluraRosenbaumDizzEwok Před rokem +1

    I'm glad someone said it. You can be prejudice to others even if it's not over the top can't believe what I'm seeing/hearing. I make pretty bad comments about men from time to time, I.E seeing someone say men prefer 18 - 19 yrs over 25+ and I commented it makes me sick that MEN do that, even though women do it too so like iuno we all need to do better and keep checking ourselves like Lud does ya know.
    Complete side tangent don't have to read just venting.
    I am totally insecure ever since I found only fans on my partners phone even though we just started dating barely a month at the time. And to be clear they are the most honest, kind, compassionate and understanding person I've met so they didn't have those things out of hate, they honestly just used it for what it is advertised for. BUT seeing my mental break down from it they unsubscribed and deleted their account and then apologized which no apologies were needed so I still feel bad about that but they did so anyway and I can't appreciate them enough.
    To this day almost a year later still together, as I write this just like Steph I worry if they might be looking at others again and that's on me. I don't attack women due to my fear but I do like remove myself whenever I feel 'threatened' by a woman they are in contact with because in my sensitive head if they find someone better I hope they tell me and we go our separate ways.
    Also I get offended when I see their for you page on tiktok, don't use it personally but they do and about every 3 vids is one of a extremely attractive women be she fit or just well dressed doing a dance in underwear or bikini and they will tell me it's not because they like it or watch it it's just there. But when I used tiktok a few years ago mine were filled with art, sketch, game and goth vids like how to do makeup, didn't have girls or guys bouncing in front of a camera so I don't believe them. Am I wrong? If you read this far lemme know please if you would like what you think and if tiktok just does that now for a for you page. Sorry, rant over.

  • @mwuahugz1115
    @mwuahugz1115 Před 2 lety +127

    what's awful about this incident is that it encourages other misogynistic players to dodge women too in their lobby, with their vision "women r boosted". seen videos of guys dodging more frequently recently smh

    • @jadecoolness101
      @jadecoolness101 Před rokem

      Women are the exact opposite of boosted. The amount of time I've seen men whine and bitch and INTENTIONALLY throw a match by dropping a grenade at their feet, and/or teamkilling the woman.... bro.
      A woman could have a lower overall KD ratio and still play better than a man because at least 50% of her deaths were whiny men on her own team.

  • @ImAnaDrumProductions
    @ImAnaDrumProductions Před 2 lety +1454

    yo this is great, but also wanna give credit where credit's due. QT going live and talking about this in real time was fucking everything. it was amazing to see really and truly. calling it out knowing she would get hella hate from JasonR stans in her chat as he was still live was very pog, bummed she deleted the vod.
    would love to see more calling out of sexism in the industry ~even when it's not convenient and to the point where everyone already agrees that he's trash.

    • @lrba5524
      @lrba5524 Před 2 lety

      idk if it deserves that much credit, this Jason guy seems like a pushover's favorite pushover

    • @adrina4772
      @adrina4772 Před 2 lety +47

      qts stream was awesome

    • @sebi205
      @sebi205 Před 2 lety +63

      @what now i hate you for making me think that was a link to QT's VOD

    • @devthegoogleuser6198
      @devthegoogleuser6198 Před 2 lety +4

      @@Terp0 Yeah she has a VODs channel. Unsure if the VOD about JasonR is there tho.

    • @ImAnaDrumProductions
      @ImAnaDrumProductions Před 2 lety +17

      @@Terp0 she deleted the vod where she talked about it from her twitch and didn't upload to the vod channel, but here's the channel if you wanna subscribe anyways! czcams.com/channels/nVqum8VA-5TBYcsVhXtMwg.html

  • @coldlandmine
    @coldlandmine Před 2 měsíci +4

    he's the type of guy to cry about women not wanting him

  • @brieftragiclifesigh8130
    @brieftragiclifesigh8130 Před rokem +3

    It’s giving “I’m not from a woman….I just spawned in this world” 💀💀

  • @chaflou
    @chaflou Před 2 lety +251

    Man's really just punishing women for existing and then coming out and saying "I'm not misogynistic". That's not how that works man

    • @averageofficechair
      @averageofficechair Před 2 lety +23

      Ikr. It’s literally the most cut and dry example of misogyny, like you cannot talk your way out of that

    • @pennyforyourthots
      @pennyforyourthots Před 2 lety

      Right? And you could replace this with any other demographic and it probably sounds fucked-up the most well-adjusted people.
      "I just banned all black people because they tempt me towards becoming a drug addict" or some other nonsense.

    • @notme8652
      @notme8652 Před 2 lety

      He is trying to become a Beacon of Sexism

    • @basiclogicslaya1840
      @basiclogicslaya1840 Před rokem

      he didnt dodge bc shes a woman tho

  • @katharine1229
    @katharine1229 Před 2 lety +492

    I was watching qt over the weekend she was GOING IN it was amazing I don’t know why she deleted VOD because honestly no bad takes and she said things needing saying

    • @jeeshadow1
      @jeeshadow1 Před 2 lety +40

      I think it was because she ended up doing a singing stream at the end and she doesn't like leaving those up not entirely sure because I had to leave the stream early

    • @rickrolled3666
      @rickrolled3666 Před 2 lety +1

      czcams.com/video/kesrUO7mdVU/video.html..

    • @darkcloud12345678900
      @darkcloud12345678900 Před 2 lety +6

      @what now dont press that link

    • @BridgerM
      @BridgerM Před 2 lety +3

      It's because of Twitch. Unlike here, or in many other places, sexism is far more rampant there. People have held that VOD against her already, and if it were still there, they'd continue.

  • @yogurt2317
    @yogurt2317 Před 2 lety +9

    i’m really glad this has been brought to light and i hope the valorant community realizes how sexist people in this game are. when i wanna dodge a map i just say hiiii guys what’s uuuuup and some dude always goes “it’s a woman i’m dodging” i at least use it to my advantage but damn lmao

  • @jasoncarto
    @jasoncarto Před rokem

    His mother wasn’t angry, she was disappointed

  • @RayvenNeverland
    @RayvenNeverland Před 2 lety +685

    the mysogony leaking into his daily speaking is so gross, im so glad that this is coming up again

    • @mystomachhurts56
      @mystomachhurts56 Před 2 lety +31

      *misogyny; also I agree with you

    • @fart63
      @fart63 Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@mystomachhurts56that word is so terrible 😭😭 why does the English language do that

    • @ghoultooth
      @ghoultooth Před 2 měsíci

      @@fart63It’s derived from Greek like quite a few of English words are

  • @ElectraGames
    @ElectraGames Před 2 lety +57

    I randomly clicked his stream about 2 years ago and I was banned. Literally never heard of him before and was already banned 💀💀 so I can confirm

  • @GorbWasHere
    @GorbWasHere Před 2 měsíci +3

    Bro 100% still thinks cooties are real

  • @thatguyagain-rv9wn
    @thatguyagain-rv9wn Před rokem +4

    He watches Andrew tate

  • @colinisabot
    @colinisabot Před 2 lety +298

    In this case, I don't think there's a such thing as a "good" apology. Apologizing does nothing. Bro just needs to pick a career that isn't being an online personality, since he clearly has no idea how to interact with people online.

    • @nauseasnarwhal1230
      @nauseasnarwhal1230 Před 2 lety +39

      I mean a much better apology would be to actually state each thing he did, acknowledge that those things were sexist, and actually apologize instead of just saying that his actions were misconstrued.
      He literally started off with “taking accountability” and then proceeded to not take any accountability for his actions.
      edit: of to off

    • @tanay4972
      @tanay4972 Před 2 lety +11

      The worst part is that his apology when he got called out earlier said that "his PC crashed all the times he dodged women", and he doesn't even mention how he actually lied to all the fans countless fucking times.

    • @adler5653
      @adler5653 Před 2 lety +8

      @@nauseasnarwhal1230 No he is saying he is taking accountability towards his wife. He basically used it to apologize to his wife and complain about people calling him sexist.

    • @Punanieater
      @Punanieater Před 2 lety +1

      Or he can keep doing what he’s doing

    • @robhans5
      @robhans5 Před 2 lety

      You forget that most people a racist, homophobes sexists etc. And those people surprise, also use internet, probably more than normal people. Isin't most of top 100 CZcamsrs hated by left, since they are big piece of shits? Monsters as Shapiro and Rogan gain 10th of million views every video lol.

  • @stuff.6108
    @stuff.6108 Před 2 lety +439

    I didn’t know this was a thing but it seems like it should be against TOS to ban people because of their gender…

    • @ff-qf1th
      @ff-qf1th Před 2 lety +21

      literally

    • @fendviyo
      @fendviyo Před 2 lety +118

      Saying"x group of people are insta banned" should 100% get you kicked off the platform

    • @Yoyoyoitsdatboi
      @Yoyoyoitsdatboi Před 2 lety +69

      @@fendviyo except for "Schlatt's" dream-stan mega ban. That was hype

    • @fendviyo
      @fendviyo Před 2 lety +112

      @@Yoyoyoitsdatboi that's OK because they weren't born dream stans. He banned them because of thier shared interest and had nothing to do with the actual people behind the screen.

    • @Channel-23s
      @Channel-23s Před 2 lety

      @@fendviyo I don’t know let’s say there was a Korean only stream I wouldn’t be too worried it’d need some more details

  • @felixthefool6065
    @felixthefool6065 Před rokem +4

    “I’m not sexist omg stop being such a giiirl 😡” is this dude serious 😭

  • @Zeni682
    @Zeni682 Před 2 lety +2

    My guy looks like a minecraft torch

  • @Viewtiful_J
    @Viewtiful_J Před 2 lety +230

    "YOU HAD TO GO AND BE A F- N- A GURL ABOUT IT" He literally searched for slurs and landed on Girl LUL

    • @shiny_birb2678
      @shiny_birb2678 Před 2 lety +55

      he said it so uncertainly too like he knew he was about to say something stupid but he couldn't stop himself LOL

    • @him1019
      @him1019 Před 2 lety

      Or he was gonna say "fucking" and decided not to

    • @stevenarvizu3602
      @stevenarvizu3602 Před 3 měsíci

      @@him1019sounded like he was going to say fuckin bitch and realized that was kinda vulgar so toned it down to girl, not realizing the irony of the statement lol

  • @KingNin64
    @KingNin64 Před 2 lety +70

    QT goes HARD on Twitter bro lmfao

    • @missghost_12
      @missghost_12 Před 2 lety +13

      She’s hilarious

    • @ysabellelaurena4221
      @ysabellelaurena4221 Před 2 lety +9

      shes the one that complains to the waiter that their food isn't right for ludwig

  • @ericconnor3728
    @ericconnor3728 Před 2 lety

    I had no idea this channel existed, it's great!

  • @Stealthfang270
    @Stealthfang270 Před rokem +3

    Genuinely one of the worst, most tone-deaf apologies I've seen. And I've seen A LOT of apologies. Bro was like "I'm sorry for the vague thing I might have done, it was because of my wife bro believe me"

  • @lumiutopia
    @lumiutopia Před 2 lety +284

    it just makes me so sad to see that still in 2022 we can have an extremely misogynistic guy like this get a fuckton of viewers and have male friends who (previously at least) have brushed it under the rug and didnt care. i'm really glad this blew up. but i'm still sad, just knowing a man like this could still be so successful. and so many other men don't seem to care. we can complain as much as we want and stand up as much as we can, but with the culture of misogyny we still live in, it seems like male voices will be heard and will be listened to on a level i or any other woman are rarely listened to. especially in gaming. men are just taken so much more seriously, it feels hopeless sometimes. even if progress is constant. anyways, i'm glad you've made a video on this, please keep it up 💗 mogul mail are definitely some of my top fav content :)

    • @rose-yeah
      @rose-yeah Před rokem

      I’m a misandrist because of this. I will let men taste their own medecine.

    • @probablypositivity8918
      @probablypositivity8918 Před měsícem

      ​@@rose-yeah Medicine*. And is this lazy trolling?

  • @Coyev
    @Coyev Před 2 lety +192

    jasonr's logic is (or was) the same as "im not racist my friend is black"

    • @jdman2210
      @jdman2210 Před 2 lety +35

      No it’s more like I’m not racist I have a racist friend. Essentially with how he mentioned train lol

    • @cmd0113
      @cmd0113 Před 2 lety +19

      @@jdman2210 Nah it's more like "I'm not racist, but you handled the situation like a ne***"

    • @jdman2210
      @jdman2210 Před 2 lety +16

      @@cmd0113 that too but it’s just funny how he specifically mentions train when he isn’t exactly the pillar of “not being sexist”

    • @boundthegod
      @boundthegod Před 2 lety +4

      I thinks it’s more of a my wife doesn’t like black people so I’ll avoid them too

    • @l4dwitch
      @l4dwitch Před 2 lety +11

      specifically in his case “i’m not sexist my wife is a woman”

  • @francisxavier8374
    @francisxavier8374 Před rokem +1

    "you're not a good friend because when people called me sexist, instead of having my back, you acted like a girl about it" is just a perfect statement, no notes

  • @Silokkes
    @Silokkes Před rokem

    That outro has the same energy as spamming "save" before closing something

  • @jakelyell9
    @jakelyell9 Před 2 lety +128

    It's admirable how you admit to your own flaws when it comes to sexism in the coversation about denouncing sexism. Really shows your self-awareness and that you're not just drawing the line below you. Great video

  • @missghost_12
    @missghost_12 Před 2 lety +753

    You’re a good guy Lud. As a woman in gaming I appreciate the men like you

  • @cameron571
    @cameron571 Před 9 měsíci +2

    When he says his friend is "being a girl about it", in reference to his friend being unhappy that he bans women from his chat... That's when you know it's not his girlfriend making him do it. That's when you know he's just sexist. Even if he's had some bad experiences with women or something, there's no excuse for that kind of thing. Like it would be one thing if he had an ex who kept trying to join his streams and he was just banning anyone who seemed like they could be her, or if there was a really creepy female fan who was stalking him and he was trying to ensure she wasn't able to see what he's up to. But I feel like if that were the case, he'd explain it.
    And I only mention that possibility because I've had a couple crazy exes. And I know that I would sometimes do things that seemed irrational in an effort to avoid seeing them in public unexpectedly, and not everyone I knew understood the context or reason because it's really awkward as a guy to be like "Hey, I'm kind of worried my ex might show up. She's REALLY crazy and I feel like she might attack me if I encounter her unexpectedly and say the wrong thing". So if he was trying to avoid something like that, and he explained it the right way, I'd get that. But I can't stand sexist people. It's one thing to ban someone from chat for being annoying, or distracting, or rude, or even for having a username that you don't like. But just for being a woman? Crazy. I wrote this maybe 2min in though so I'm probably missing some context.
    You definitely pick your subjects carefully and I'm sure you're just getting warmed up with how bad this guy is. Just, couldn't not say what I was thinking because even today, it's not easy for guys to be open about the toxic relationships they've endured and the dangerous women they may be avoiding. I don't think any of my friends would judge me, but I edited this comment a few times trying to think of the right way to express what I was thinking without feeling like I may draw ridicule for being "weak" or "cowardly" in reference to my fear that my crazy ex could attack me in public. If I were a public figure, a streamer, I'd be 10x more afraid of what she could do or how should could impact my life and career... The way the internet connects us as people is powerful and useful, and has so many benefits. But it has sides to it that can be truly disturbing.
    One of my exes hates me so much for breaking up with her that if I were streamer, she'd probably try to SWAT me. She'd probably succeed too, she's fairly tech savvy. And I only broke up with her because she kept threatening to kill herself when she didn't get her way. So seeing how his mods were talking about his girlfriend being the reason, it's hard not to imagine this guy going through something similar to what I went through. Begrudgingly making exceptions to the moral principles I hold dearest in my heart, for fear that I could be the reason the woman I love(d) ends her own life. And now, with a clear head and the benefit of hindsight, I know that she probably never would have hurt herself just to spite me. She just knew that the mere threat was enough to send me into a frenzy of concern because several of my friends have lost their lives to depression.
    There was a period of time where every time I got a phone call from a strange number, I was actually afraid. And I'm not a small guy, I'm not someone with an anxiety disorder or something - my ex was just *that crazy*. I hope he's not making a horrible, unforgivable fool of himself for such a sad and upsetting reason.

  • @micklepickle4744
    @micklepickle4744 Před rokem

    Ending felt like the shortest midwestern goodbye ever

  • @RamzaBeoulves
    @RamzaBeoulves Před 2 lety +47

    Out of respect for his wife, he uses her as a shield when exposed for disrespecting women
    That checks out

  • @jfrandy4978
    @jfrandy4978 Před 2 lety +142

    how is this not the same as any form of Discrimination at this point? Applied to any other group of people they are already banned. Insane

    • @DeezN00tz99
      @DeezN00tz99 Před 2 lety +18

      because unchecked misogyny runs rampant online, its practically normalized.

    • @jadecoolness101
      @jadecoolness101 Před rokem +1

      Because misogyny is the status quo.

    • @fart63
      @fart63 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Bc it’s twitch and the only time they care about women is when they are showing their cleavage

  • @sardsvib
    @sardsvib Před 2 lety +1

    That apology had the same energy as Laura Lee and Mini Ladd

  • @jazzensemble
    @jazzensemble Před 2 lety +3

    Truly maidenless behavior

  • @4purs
    @4purs Před 2 lety +301

    The he cheated on her and now she doesn’t trust him talking to any type of female is only thing that would make sense lol

    • @Kevin-um1nq
      @Kevin-um1nq Před 2 lety +13

      @what now wdym finally? Noone ever gave a shit

    • @nightseeker226
      @nightseeker226 Před 2 lety +13

      My guess is dude is just straight up sexist and uses his girlfriend as an excuse

    • @adler5653
      @adler5653 Před 2 lety +11

      @@nightseeker226 Probably both

    • @fetaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
      @fetaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Před 2 lety +6

      Exactly. I think people are throwing this out of proportion. The dude should just be straight up because it's obvious this is what's happening.

    • @MysticLGD
      @MysticLGD Před 2 lety +1

      That's the first thing I thought

  • @bettyspaghetto-drue8901
    @bettyspaghetto-drue8901 Před 2 lety +53

    thank you for speaking up on things like this. it feels good to finally have men on womens sides for gaming and showing your audience it’s not cool to be a dick and it’s okay to speak up.

    • @bettyspaghetto-drue8901
      @bettyspaghetto-drue8901 Před 2 lety +6

      @@doobster3650 in my opinion this is false. only in the recent few years has it been better. to say that i’m being “dramatic” kind of pushes back on the whole thing. very misogynistic.

    • @bettyspaghetto-drue8901
      @bettyspaghetto-drue8901 Před 2 lety +1

      @@doobster3650 dramatic/extreme okay i misread but it still stands. and it’s barely gotten better if you stand with women then don’t say it’s extreme lol obviously you have no idea

    • @bettyspaghetto-drue8901
      @bettyspaghetto-drue8901 Před 2 lety +1

      @@doobster3650 🤦🏽‍♀️ you’re literally proving my point. but I wouldn’t say it’s an increasing number it’s still lower than it should be. but i’m done arguing about this lol i literally live it.

    • @deathrager2404
      @deathrager2404 Před rokem +1

      @@bettyspaghetto-drue8901 apron, kitchen, sandwiches. we will call you when we need food.

    • @bettyspaghetto-drue8901
      @bettyspaghetto-drue8901 Před rokem +3

      @@deathrager2404 i’m sure you have a hard time getting any girls number so good luck with that

  • @kashinimeyo
    @kashinimeyo Před rokem +2

    It's really cute for him to bring up how QT caught the guy-- idk it's like "look at how sassy and right my lady is" and it's just so cute and wholesome. That's how you support your lady right there. Take notes crusty ass Jason

  • @carolynmeszko7481
    @carolynmeszko7481 Před rokem +1

    I love how Ludwig always gives props to QT in these videos

  • @herovill9629
    @herovill9629 Před 2 lety +299

    He’s not sexist because his wife is overprotective and overly jealous and he respects that because he loves his wife
    He’s sexist because he clearly doesn’t respect women and uses his wife being overprotective and overly jealous as an excuse 💀

  • @x3dfritz0
    @x3dfritz0 Před 2 lety +33

    "out of respect to my wife":Shifting Blame, i didnt do it cause i wanted to, i did it cause i had to for someone else
    "not a good person to her": Reducing Culpability, not being nice could mean anything from forgetting to take the trash out to murdering her father
    "not wanting her to be put through drama" Lying, you're the reason there is drama right now
    "my intentions were misconstrued by my actions" Gaslighting, sorry officer my intention wasnt to speed. Sir, we clocked you at 115 mph.
    "there are so many lies about me out there" Whataboutism, Gaslighting, if they lied about me about something else this could all be a lie too
    "i wish nothing but peace and love for people" Lying, Gaslighting, he wants peace and love for non-vaginas
    "i am sorry" Gaslighting. you aren't sorry, if you were really sorry you'd apologize. not shift blame, reduce your culpability, gaslight, whataboutisms, and other stuff to try to make you look like a victim.

  • @hiroswild
    @hiroswild Před 2 lety +4

    my mom is dead

  • @gammelmaster70
    @gammelmaster70 Před 2 lety +5

    So?

  • @SakshamJain0201
    @SakshamJain0201 Před 2 lety +45

    The fact that no editting had to be done puts his degree to good use

  • @lim2454
    @lim2454 Před 2 lety +144

    as a woman, i really love and appreciate this video, it's a really vulnerable video that i love watching, thanks lud :)

  • @Phantomic11
    @Phantomic11 Před rokem +1

    Ludwig: "Valoraaaant"

  • @posthumous_me
    @posthumous_me Před rokem +2

    just found this channel during my self-improvement phase... i will have to say, i am thoroughly entertained and will be binge watching all this channels content 😈

  • @sylvieolsson3537
    @sylvieolsson3537 Před 2 lety +42

    I like how lud admits that he says some weird things every once and a while. 8:26

    • @catswiims5224
      @catswiims5224 Před 2 lety +2

      @@doobster3650 yeah i agree. it definitely isn’t amazing but in the grand scheme of thid its really not a big deal at all

  • @jennymarie4803
    @jennymarie4803 Před 2 lety +25

    I really liked this video. Thanks for pointing out that bigotry doesn't have to be to a cartoonish extent or obviously evil to be real, and thanks for also owning that you're not perfect about these things either. People need to hear these lessons from people they like and respect, and I'm glad you don't have a problem putting these messages out there.

  • @mattshelton7423
    @mattshelton7423 Před rokem

    A good quote for this situation: "If you have to say you are something, you are probably aren't," and vice versa.

  • @rachaelvaughan1017
    @rachaelvaughan1017 Před rokem +3

    Didn't Ninja say the same thing. It's usually the insecure wives and girlfriends behind all of it

  • @JigenLune
    @JigenLune Před 2 lety +20

    The interesting part here is when Tarik offered actual advice on how he could fix this, JasonR wouldn't listen at all and still insists that Tarik is an L friend. Personally I think what Tarik was doing was the characteristic of a good friend - not condoning your friend's bad actions and instead trying to give advice on how to fix it.
    Also, Roza gave a take similar to what JasonR insists Tarik should give, and then JasonR claims that he was "backed up" by Roza. But when he was pushing Tarik to do the same thing, he's insisting that he doesn't necessarily want Tarik to "back him up" but instead be a "witness of his character". So basically JasonR wants Tarik to back him up but is being really vague about it. And it's ironic how he's saying Tarik isn't backing him up because of Tarik's huge fanbase/viewership when to me, it looks like JasonR wants to use Tarik's huge viewership to "fix" his image.
    JasonR is literally the L friend- gaslighting Tarik, not listening to his advice, talking behind his back, literally lying about his intentions, trying to use his viewership, etc.