r/Niceguys vs r/Nicegirls Why Won't Females Let Me Stalk Them?!
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0:00 Intro
0:12 Upset stalker
1:53 Women had a meeting and you have to be lonely
3:03 Story stalker deserves you
4:15 Grading her body parts in a text with her
5:51 Happy new year in march
7:57 Guy doesn't get what he wants and is willing to dox and hes racist
9:32 Girl stalked a guy for four years
11:55 Girl doesn't get picked and tries to ruin her friendship
15:18 She wants to turn a gay guy
"Sneaky Snitch" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) License: CC By Attribution 3.0 - Komedie
The thing that amazes me about these ppl is they're not talking in real time. They're typing it out, having the opportunity to read it & think about how it sounds & still hit the send button.
Everything sounds a-okay when you're completely delusional and entitled.
Tbh if they are stupid enough to send it in the first place they could have 2 years to think about it they still would
I'd bet they never read what they wrote before sending
@@limiv5272 I'm sure they don't. But my point is they have the opportunity to
I occasionally write stuff out and hot send before I get my coffee. Then oofta!🤦♀️ I go back and fix it but geez I try not to be such a giant butthole well. Unless provoked. Then all bets off lol
It sounds far fetched, but I can confirm that, yes, every woman on the planet did meet up and agree that none of us would ever date that guy.
All 4 billion of us.
Past and future women too?
I hereby sign the Universal Women's Agreement to Never Date This Guy Specifically. Drop a like to add your signature lol
@@Lokear all 18+ women yes. It's a yearly event to include future women. 😂
@@daniella9787 Huh, interesting. I'd say you should release your time travel technology, but knowing men, one would steal it and take credit...
Ah shit, did I miss it? Guess I shouldn't have transitioned until later. Darn.
as a "female" i can confirm we hold annual meetings to talk about who to not date and who too avoid
its pretty fun
did you talk about me?
@@bigtitmaster we talked about how awesome ur username was
Did you enjoy the desserts? I thought they were meh.
@Dark Dreams I agree. The could of been better.
It seems like I wasn't invited last year - so when and where this time? 🤣🤣🤣
I always get the feeling that the nicegirls are entitled nut jobs but the niceguys are actually dangerous and don’t see the people they’re interested in as humans
I mean if you look at statistics men kill women for saying no more often than women kill men for rejection.
While i agree with that I don’t think you should downplay the dangers of nicegirls especially after listening to all the entitled parents stories because nice girls can be just as dangerous
Don't discount nice girls actually being dangerous.
I did a report on domestic violence against men that is under/not reported or filed. Even back in 2001 it was staggering. Don't trust an abuser. Regardless of gender.
@@watermelonspice513 I agree that nice girls can be just as dangerous. I'm not saying they can't. I'm just saying that as a women I grew up learning that when I reject a dude I have to be careful of his feelings because my safety could be at risk if I didn't. Women can be just as dangerous as men but you are more likely to run into a dangerous niceguy than nicegirl. Not that nice girls can't be dangerous. And I'm a firm believer that men and women can both be abused by their partners and can both suffer sexual harassment. So I apologize if it seemed I was saying men don't have anything to worry about because that isn't true. It's just sad that there are people out there who feel so entitled to someone else's body that being rejected causes them to be violent
@@justwinks1553 I agree that women can also be dangerous and that men are abused in the same fashion as women. I was merely stating that women are more likely to undergo abuse, not that it is impossible for men to be abused. Current statistics on abuse may also be skewed due to underreporting by men.
Anytime a guy brings up evolution, you know you’re dealing with at least a tier 2 incel.
Too bad this ain't the Pokéverse where you could possibly use an evolutionary stone and evolve an incel into a properly decent person.
The irony here is that, if you wanna bring evolution in, an incels behavior makes sure that women won't find them attractive, so they won't reproduce and their genetic material ends with them.
Or at the very least some creep with a breeding/ pregnancy kink since the evolution talk so often proceeds talk of wanting to impregnate the poor girl.
It's that they legit don't view women as people. They think humans (especially women) are robots driven by a mating directive, and therefore all the nuances of relationships can be boiled down to the selection of evolutionarily beneficial traits. It's easier for them to assume there's some deficit in their physical attractiveness than to face the fact that it's their personalities that are the problem
@@adamuffoletto7869 interestingly enough, personality can also take part in evolution. A species of Baboon, the Gelada, has been having the females pick the gentler males over the aggressive ones. In humans there's a lot of other factors, but yeah, personality is a big part of it.
Nice girl: “You’ll never find another girl like me!”
Gay Dude: “That’s exactly what I’m hoping for.”
Nice girl: “(Shocked Pikachu face)”
i was getting slightly angry at the whole " I can fix you" thing going on there.
Like your unwanted pussy is so magical he doesnt like Dick and Ass anymore ? And suddenly boobs ? That is so not how that works lol.
That story filled me with such unbridled fury. First she called him a slur and then she said she can 'fix him' through what is essentially corrective rape. A total yikes and a BIG fuck you...
Her replies enraged me, but when she said that I legit shouted out loud “THAT’S THE POINT, HE’S HOMOSEXUAL”
You’d think in 2022 folk would understand what homosexuality means, but apparently not!
@@Jackie_XIII as a female attracted to females, god, I’ve heard that one way too much. When I was younger I went through a few violent attacks by grown men telling me I needed “fixed” whilst screaming a bunch of slurs. Literally nothing wrong with me, but these homophobes somehow think a completely natural sexuality needs “fixed”. Legit wanna find this woman and slap her
When she said that mess, I legit said that out loud. "That's the point. He *doesn't* want a girl like you or any girl for that matter! Idiot!
"I'm willing to give up her full name, age, school she went to, and city she lives in"
My dude, that's called doxxing
Yeah... That dude didn't want to "shame" her... He was basically trying to invite someone to hurt her as punishment...
Very VERY illegal,I get being salty about rejection but doxxing is definitely going too far.
Dudes a creep and I hope that catches up to him before he can get some poor person killed.
"You'll never find another person like me" is the funniest shit ever because thats the whole reason you're getting dumped/rejected, they don't want to be with someone like you
Yeah whenever someone says that, the first thing that comes to mind is "Don't threaten me with a good time" lmao
I literally had an argument with my abusive ex the very last time I broke up with him when I was 19. He screamed "you will NEVER find anyone like me!" And I got in his face and yelled back "THATS THE POINT" turned on my heals and walked out. Fuck that negative crap. Absolutely no one deserves to be treated like they're so low that abusive, manipulative scum is the ONLY thing that's meant for you.
that's an opportunity to answer "I hope so"
"I don't want someone like you, that's the point of rejection"
You'll never find anyone like me.
That's the point lol
"Nice Guy": "If you're not comfortable texting, then why take my number in the first place?"
Well, she didn't want to attract attention to the public by declining you, she took it to be polite.
That reminds me of when i was in high school for some reason this girl who i didn't care about at all or even say anything to hands me a slip of paper with her pager number on it. This was before cellphones. A few days later she asked me if I called her because she got a page from a number she didn't know i said i had thrown it out.
To Nice Guys, politeness and basic human decency from women equals "showing interest"
Something also tells me that if she said something along the lines of "I'm working" she might end up with the Creep asking when her shift's done or worse yet, show up to meet her without warning when she leaves for the day.
The nicest of nice guys; cornering a woman at work, where she’s forced to be polite, in customer-service mode, can’t leave, will have to be there day after day, with no way to avoid you.
Or she didn’t want to be stalked or attacked by some delusional loser
Nice guy: do you want me to confess?
Lady: No
NG: Proceeds to violate her boundaries
Also NG: "i'M nIcEr tHaN yOuR eX"
Also, I don't think calling someone a moron is a good pickup strategy.
Unless you're Chell and you're listening to GLaDOS talk about Wheatley. That's the moment I fell in love with her character :)
Yeah, I think he was projecting the "moron" bit there.
Honestly this one didn't end up shocking me that bad because I got hung up on the "I raised him" bit and I swear to God I thought this was her ex's father trying to catch her on the rebound. After that fear was mercifully put to rest, the actual post just came across as relatively mundane and standard nice guy douchebaggery. I essentially came in expecting an 11 and we got like a 7 or an 8.
@@metanightmare4454 Yeah, who "raises" their best friends? I mean, if you grow up together, the argument could be made that you each raised each other, but that was definitely weird. I am so glad it wasn't her ex's father though, and it was _only_ unacceptably unpleasant rather than insanely inconvenient.
@@metanightmare4454 I thought the same thing so when it turned out to be her ex's best friend I was so relieved I guess I wrote it off as not as bad by comparison. But looking back still creepy AF.
You know... When I was younger I definitely had some niceguy tendencies. But, thankfully, I was nowhere near how bad these guys are. I mean, I was pretty bad. But these guys are something else. I never cried about how "All women have collectively decided to never date me :'c "
I think many people have such a phase in their teens, but grow out of it sooner or later. I kinda feel sorry for those people who don't.
@@augustaseptemberova5664 I am happy I had my phase before incels became a thing. Because if that term had been around I would absolutely have started calling myself that.
Well at least you changed I hope
At least you've matured enough to recognize and acknowledge your previous behavior. We love character growth
Yeah I think it's pretty normal to go through a phase like that when dating is super new and stuff but most people thankfully grow out of it xD
You know what's stupid? The mindset of "they are just playing hard to get" when they get rejected.
Let's assume that that's correct, let's assume that the person is wanting them to try harder or to continue asking or whatever. Is that someone you will want to be in a relationship with? Someone that just going to play mind games and force you to learn how to be a telepath?
I seriously do not understand that mindset because I would not want to date someone that's doing that crap. In my mind it's a win-win to accept the rejection at face value. Either you're not seen as a creep or you don't have to put up with that.
The thing is that they've convinced themselves that ALL women are like that so the "cat and mouse" game is unavoidable. A lot of these guys also get suckered into following pick up artists and alpha male bs and learn some really bad things. Like negging, what that mango boob guy was trying to do. Mixing compliments and backhanded compliments together to wreck a woman's self esteem while simultaneously trying to lift her up to confuse her into thinking she needs your approval. His version boiled down to "Most guys wouldn't find you attractive but I do so better date me. Also I have a breeding kink."
This reminds me of Pride and Prejudice. The heroine Elizabeth is courted by her "nice guy" cousin who is a real douche, and when she turns him down he tells her that he is aware that "fashionable" females will turn a man down several times so he was not deterred. She got exasperated with his delusions and told him that she doesn't know anyone who would turn down a welcome suiter and play with his feelings, and she wasn't one of them anyway. He persisted and she walked out on him while he still thought that she was just being coy. Her mother wanted her to marry him so the family bacon could be saved (he was the heir to their estate- it's complicated). When upset Mom took the matter to her husband, telling him he HAD to make Elizabeth marry him, he told his daughter that she had an unhappy dilemma. Her mother would disown her if she didn't marry the douche and HE would disown her if she did. Mom was not amused but Elizabeth was.
@@jgw5491 I never read the book, but I did see the movie (both the Keira Knightely version and another from the 80s), and I was SO glad the father said what he said.
@@jgw5491 I came here to say they all take lessons on the "elegant female" from Mr. Collins 😂
The issue is, speaking as someone who was in the place of some of these guys once, is that that's so often how media depicts getting into relationships. You fall in love with someone, and if they rebuke you, that means you're not trying hard enough. You gotta give her flowers, show up to her house with a boombox, etc.
Perhaps normal people would see these things and know "that would never work out" but with "nice guys" it's a mix of not having that social knowledge and wanting so hard to believe it'll work out.
I was lucky to have enough self-awareness to realize what I was doing wasn't working and to readjust my mindset to become a better person, but most don't have that self-awareness. The result is that they double down: _"These things are supposed to work. Modern women are just awful and selfish."_ And that's how a niceguy becomes an incel.
The AITA story: “she brings nothing to the table”. It sounds like she cooks and takes care of the home. That’s not nothing and if a couple is happy with one of them being a full time homemaker and they can afford it then why is it anyone else’s business?
I know. From what OP said, he's not hurting for money, so having her take care of household stuff is likely more valuable to him than her paying her own way.
How can someone job shame a refuge? “Like I know you escaped a war torn country, but why dont you have a 6 figure salary yet?”
The one thing I can't get over though is the moving in after basically a few months at most.
She's just a notlikeothergirls who frowns down on traditionally feminine activities (ie makeup, shopping, cooking, cleaning)
2nd to last story: TLDR dude finds perfect stay at home wife who loves cooking.
Also, the pink fairy lights just makes me think of an old Tumblr post about a guy learning to love yellow because it was his wife's favorite and yellow made him think of her.
yeah, the jealousy was leaking so much out of her that she was neck-deep in it.
Everything about op in that story screamed internalised misogyny.
i hate how so many people identify as "feminists" yet scream at women who CHOOSE to be stay-at-home mothers, like anything feminine or supposedly traditional like cooking, sewing, make up, pink items, etc. they really make us look bad
@@nallyaaaaaa - I grew up in the 60s and 70s, and one branch of feminism seemed determined to force women out of the prison of "wife and mother" only to lock them into the prison of "career woman" - any woman who chose to a wife and mother was a "traitor to the cause", letting all women down and so on and on and on ... to the extent that women felt that they had to apologise for being "only a housewife".
The idea of letting women - and indeed, people in general - make their own life-choices according to their personal circumstances seemed to have completely escaped them.
ps I loathe pink! but that's only because of an incident in my childhood where it was made clear to me that my choices didn't matter because I was only a girl.
On your second point, when I was a edgy teenager I talked about how much I hated pink. Now I'm 1 year away from 40 and it was a year ago I decided to finally admit that pink is my favorite color. Toxic masculinity is no joke and it hurts everyone.
"One girl rejected me so therefore I hate all the women now!"
"I've been crushing on SOMEONE. I've been watching THEM for ages. She said she has a boyfriend. What a liar!"
A 9.5 dude can turn himself into a -4 with whiney, entitled, unhinged or creepy behavior. Conversely a 4 can turn himself into a solid 8 if he's funny, smart, comfortable in who he is & is kind (not fake nice to trick people into sleeping with him until he shows how not nice he really is when he doesn't get his way but actually kind & is someone who cares about people.)
Exactly! For the most part, don't be a buttface and you'll bump into that mutual love eventually. I'm curious where I stand on that scale, but I suppose I'm in no rush
Oh for sure. I've met guys who physically were 9's or 10's but opened their mouths and turned themselves into "-2 Abort Mission"
I'm a 4 on both sides, so it looks like I am out of ammo to begin with.
But then again, I am not interested in forming a relationship, sooo... I guess that's a win...?
I'd like to thing humans are too complicated to rate out of 10. But I get the sentiment, you aren't wrong.
@@Walawalacookie rating people always feels wrong to me as well. It’s not only incredibly subjective but it also doesn’t account for the fact that what a person finds attractive changes all the time.
Let me explain a simple truth to the niceGuys/niceGirls out there...
Your failure in romance is due to poor timing. You watch from afar, fall for someone, and by the time you muster the courage to talk to them, you're already months into the relationship (in your head at least), while to them, you're still a stranger. You expect them to reciprocate as though they had spent months longing for you, which if you're just introducing yourself, is simply not the case.
The appropriate time to ask someone out is within a few days of meeting them, while you're BOTH just strangers to each other, neither having built any expectations. Just two people who find each other interesting and make an effort to learn more about one another. Nobody has yet become emotionally invested, you're both starting from zero and moving at the same pace. That's how it's done. The reason the girl responds to the "jerk" at the bar and not to you is simple. His expectations are a lot lower. He hasn't picked out the names of their future kids. He doesn't believe she's his "soulmate". To him, she's just the most interesting person in the room at the moment (which is more than enough validation for any person), and if she's ever to be more than that, it will be because they mutually decided to get there together in due time.
And, by not being so invested in the outcome, if she says "No", you haven't lost more than a moment of your time. You just move on. That's a lot harder to recover from if you've spent months planning your future together, lol. When people say "Be cool", that's what they mean. Remain Emotionally Detached, at least initially. If you want a partner, you need to start the relationship on equal footing. If you want unconditional love, get a puppy, not a person.
Omg, more people need to read this! You hit the problem (or at least one of the major ones) dead on.
I feel like the one exception is if you had both been friends for a while. That can also work out well.
This is a great way to describe it.
I’ve also noticed that the Nice Guys will always reference favors they’ve done for their female friends. To her, it’s a favor because that’s just what friends do for each other. For them, it’s a way to show their “love” for her and they expect reciprocation for it, in the form of a date or whatever else they expect. They need to realize that these women do not see these acts as romantic or transactional, just as simple favors between friends, because that’s what you are. You are not in a relationship just because you are attracted to her and have secretly planned out a future with her. Building a relationship up in your head isn’t good for anyone involved.
Personally, I'd prefer not to be asked out within a few days of meeting someone because I don't know them well enough. I know with long friendships a rejection can make things awkward, but at least if we've been friends for a while I know their personality and interests
@@LadyYamiofLight Absolutely, if you're both friends, then there's still parity in the relationship... you're both at the same stage, friendship. It's when the longing becomes asymmetrical that the issues arise.
I've witnessed friends fall into this trap. They have a "crush" who doesn't know they exist... they obsess for months before finally making a move. Then he treats her like his soulmate, while she rightly treats him like that guy from two offices over whose name she can't remember... John, James... something like that, lol.
Even if we could dismiss the "creepy" factor inherent to that, I would argue that it deprives one of the partners of a significant part of the experience. Instead of starting off a relationship from the beginning, they're expected to jump in to the middle part... for their affections to "catch up" to the other party, rather than to let them develop in due course, through all the nuanced, formative experiences they should be sharing as equals while getting to know each other.
As long as both people are starting from the same place, everything should be fine. But a disparity of affection at the start spells doom.
The girl in the last story saying "you'll never find a girl like me again" has the same energy as a customer that says "I'll never shop here again"
Nice Guys/girls is where entitlement and extreme horniness crash head first at highway speeds and we can just stare at the carnage with our mouths agape.
I'd say freeway speeds lol
I'd say more like 2 jet engines colliding. Or the Large Hadron Collider. Or 2 ships crashing in Hyperspace. Probably that one.
This might be the best description of these subreddits
_[Readies the high-speed camera]_ 👍🏻
leaving ones mouth open might be ill-advised in such an environment
The Creeper in Story Three needs to have a restraining order filed against him.
These “Nice Guys” aren’t just creepy and disgusting, they’re also heartless, vile, toxic, narcissistic, egotistical, sexist and misogynist.
Anybody that comes across these repulsive “specimens” needs to NOPE right out of there!
And for the Racist Nice Guy: tell me you’re a racist nice guy without saying you’re a racist nice guy. 🙄😣🤦
You're showing more red flags than a communist parade.
Why would he deserve a restraining order again??? I’d say full send nuke his house just to be sure
The nice girls where just as bad
@@Twinklethefox9022 No one said they weren’t
@@PietroMaximoff. is just that no one seams to mention them in the comments so I wanted to say that
Haven't had r/Niceguys vs r/Nicegirls in a while. Love your vids RSLASH!
Yea
I miss these videos of madness.
I know I shouldn't enjoy these so much but every time he makes a new one I'm parked in front of my screen eating popcorn and saying "Yes... feed me the garbage."
Men seem to constantly think women are lying when we say we have a partner.
Even if we WERE lying, consider this:
Something about you was so alarming and set off flags with them so deeply that they made up a relationship in order to avoid YOU and your advances.
Maybe look inward idk
It's also quite alarming that these niceguys respect potential competition more than the girl they're trying to get with
Or here's another take:
Even if the girl lies, a man that still pushes after that instead of immediately ending the conversation or changing the subject is NOT a good partner to choose. THAT is an indicator that he is a man that is willing to commit adultery. Not only does it mean that he's willing to convince others to cheat, but he's willing potentially cheat himself. So by throwing a fit at "I have a boyfriend," this nice guy automatically disqualified himself from any consideration.
@@metademetra
That is brilliant insight!
That's why the smartest thing is to never assume, on your own, that the person you're talking with is into you romantically. I have friends who are girls who hug me when they see me when we meet up and when we part after we hang out. Does that mean they love me and want to be in a relationship with me? *No!* They're very clearly my friends. They have never at any moment implied anything further, I at no moment have implied anything further. It's purely platonic. We have never at any point thought of the other as a romantic partner, and as such have never misinterpreted each other's actions. *Because that's a perfectly normal relationship between guys and girls.* Hugging your friends is a perfectly normal thing to do, regardless of gender. People hug their friends! It's not a weird thing, and it's not exclusive to people who want to become romantically involved or who *are* romantically involved.
The fundamental problem with Nice Guys is that they seem to take being nice, polite, and God forbid, *being friendly* as "showing interest". So they build things up in their heads and create this imaginary relationship with someone they barely even know. And when - shocker - the other person doesn't reciprocate those feelings, because guess what? They don't even know who you are, and you just came in barreling after them with all the subtlety of an exploding freight train, the Nice Guy has the audacity to get upset, because now this image of a perfect relationship that they built up on their own has been ruined. When it's no one else's fault other than their own. So they accuse and blame the other person, cause that's easier than addressing the fundamental core of the problem. Themselves.
Keep your expectations low, and you will never be disappointed. Have the courage to shoot your shot, but don't get majorly upset when it misses. It just causes more drama than is needed.
If all of your relationships have failed, and evryone you ask out declines, maybe the problem is you lmao
OBVIOUSLY it's half the population. ME?! At fault? Not likely.
Seriously. If you're the one common denominator, then maybe it's not that every girl in the world has formed a cult solely based around rejecting you, and more likely that you're just a bad person/partner?
I'd say that these people need a personality transplant, except that that would imply that they have a personality to begin with.
@@franl155 Oh, they have a personality, all right. It's just an awful one.
Maybe I'm the problem...?
No, no, it's all the women who are in the wrong.
Imagine telling gay people you could "fix them" YIIIIIKES😬😬😬
It's unfortunate how common men say that to lesbians
Big yikes.
@@Walawalacookie yikes size OOF
Oooooh, they're lying, blyehhhhhhh! There's just something wrong with them... Please don't take that out of context, I'm being sarcastic. Unless the meaning of "something wrong with them" is "having good standards."
@@HannaBenana
And vice-versa.
Nice girls/guys: You won’t find another man/woman like me
Gay people: well you’re not lying
OMG the second to last one. Jfc. Tell me you are racist without telling me. A refugee “Not on the same intelligence level”
Yep, they're both racist and loaded with internalized misogyny.
I swear they may have "not like other girls" tattooed on their forehead
Whenever I see posts (not just r/NiceGuys ones) that use the word "females" to describe women I immediately imagine that the poster is actually a Ferengi from the Star Trek franchise.
Lol FeMale HueMon lol. I love me some deep space 9
To be honest I rather deal with the Ferengi than anyone in this video.
TNG Ferengi than DS9 Ferengi.
Either that or Andrew Tate.
I always imagine them as a really shitty AI that doesn't understand humans at all but is trying really hard to seem human.
You know a guy is jealous when a girl tells them "I have a boyfriend" when they make paragraphs within paragraphs about how much they love them. Then complain how they are better than that girls' boyfriend 🤣🤣🤣
This is truly maidenless behavior. Though in an all seriousness, I'm just waiting for a nice guy to have the power of Christ used against them
Jesus wouldn't even wanna touch that hot shit mess.
Pretty much every guy in the bible acted like a modern incel though. Did you even read the damn thing?
@@Walawalacookie
God included. Afterall, God only pays attention IF and only IF you are on your knees. Lmao
"She started crying (she's a typical girl like that)" ohhhhh so you're a pick me got it
LOL, yup. That's exactly what I was thinking. I'm also getting some "not like other girls" vibes.
@@emtims1670 That AITA post also gave me slight internalized misogyny vibes too... OP of that story openly put down her friend and his girlfriend for being interested in traditionally feminine things like the color pink and fairy lights
@@ahstiasummers5583
And misandry.
The first story sounds like something my old supervisor did at a Starbucks, he gave a barista a gift card, who was at least 30 years younger than him, and when she got uncomfortable, he joked he wanted to kill her.
_Please_ tell me she quit on the spot after that.
WHAT
"Nice guy" skulls are so dense they could deflect 50cal. sniper rounds. Like holy crap dude take a hint. 😂😂😂
"why won't women date me? I do everything right like insulting their loved ones, telling them that they should change, following them around, and not listening to them. This is what every woman wants right?"
@@Flarflenugen "I even offered her uber eats after weirdly implying her neighborhood was unsafe. I wish girls could give a nice guy a chance!" For real the veiled threat via uber eats, I hope that lady showed that text to the cops holy shit.
We got two great contenders. One calling someone someone the n-word, another calling a gay dude a cigarette. I'm gonna have to give it to the guy though.
Saying *so no real loss* cinched the victory for the nice guys.
"No real loss" - which explains why he was so upset over it - especially as he was basically rejected by one of the "lower orders of humanity"
@@franl155 right? It's like those choosing beggars who ask for free art and when told no say "your art sucked anyway". Must have really sucked with how upset you got.
I'd like to think the "no real loss" comment was him projecting on himself. He knows he's not a loss for her. Like you can't be that big of a piece of shit and not be aware that you are a piece of shit.
@@Walawalacookie
You'd be surprised just how unaware/delusional creatures can be.
@@franl155
This sort of fractured inner logic is also known as: "Sour Grapes"
Popularized from Asop's Fables.
"You'll never find another girl like me."
Fucking promise?!
The gold digger one made soooooo much more sense when she said she was a girl… yeah she’s a pick me girl that is jealous of her crush’s girlfriend because she secretly wants to be with him
As much as the niceguys usually win this, the nicegirl saying she could "fix" the gay guy is preeeeeetty dang foul.
It’s called negging. It’s a person’s way to break down someone’s self esteem, to make them feel they have no other options. Except the creep who says it.
This
I genuinely enjoyed this. r/nicegirls is just... it's not really covered much and I like seeing the other side be exposed as creeps too, I guess.
Same, double the cringe that I'm so hopelessly addicted to.
In my opinion, nobody is a “Nice guy” or “Nice girl” because we’re all assholes in a way. So if somebody claims to be nice, then I say bullshit to that because everyone has a bad side.
"You'll never find another girl like me"
Good.
I thought we were in conesensus that niceguys are creepier, but nicegirls are defantly the crazier of the two
Yep cause the nicegirls could say anything and it probably be believed. Atleast with nice guys you can call the cops If they choose to do some wild shit.
@@Gulogulo7387 I duno, like I'm sure that happens where a nice girl accuses a normal guy of horrific shit they didn't do. But if the nice girl's here are a good litmus, they all probably have a social media backlog that reads like a manifesto. Authorities look at that kind of thing when accusations come out. They need to build a profile on not only the person accused but also the accuser.
"Even if you had a boyfriend, I would be an upgrade."
Ok but why would you wanna date a woman who dumped you in a heartbeat for someone she considered an "upgrade"
Oh yes, because calling a Girl a "dumbass" and stating that you have sexual urges for them REALLY gets them to fall for you. *shakes head* Flipping heck.
"You'll never find a girl like me" um, good. Pretty sure even if he was straight, he wouldnt want a girl like that
The final r/Niceguys post hit me like a freight train
All I can envision is all 4 billion women flying to an empty area to meet up to discuss one dude. Women from all over met up in this extremely large area. Or like one ginormous zoom meeting.
Y’all my face when she said “I can fix you”- I was like eee I gotta get tf outta here I literally had to walk away from my phone. With my AirPods in 🤣
1:14 ah yes, nothing says romance like stalking someone
There’s one rule I always keep in mind: If they have to tell you how nice they are, they’re not as nice as they think.
This is so sad -- I just want to give all of these people confidence to move on from these issues
15:18 For this one OP should've said "You know what I think you did fix me, I'm attracted to anyone but you."
That sounds familiar, but damn is it a good burn!
@@WillieManga I got that from TheMysteriousMrEnter when he made a video about his online stalker, it was too good not to use
"Oops, who said that?" really got me laughing
What amazes me is the whole lack of self-awareness from these guys. Either they really do seem to think they're god's gift to women, or are aggressively lacking in self-esteem. No middle ground.
Edit: and WOW the misoginy of the "bff" nicegirl... wow. Just, wow. So much jealousy and internalized misoginy. Wow. The girl is a refugee, ffs! Let the girl be!
@@danc5906 It is scary. I've seen cases where it ended in stalking and even murder in some exceptional ones. What worries is the whole mental narrative of the guy that stalked the girl like... he never even talked to her. But somehow he's infatuated??? She's not even human to him, just an object.
2:38 *"Nice" Guy:* I can't force a woman...
*Jamie Hyneman:* Well _there's_ your problem.
Hell yea, I love these nice guys vs nice girls. Keep making em dabney!
4:16 Let me shorten the message for you my guy. "Damn girl, you THICC."
I know, kind of basic, but more words does not equal smart/attractive bud.
At least they didn't say "I have the best words". If they said that, red flags wouldn't suffice; you'd need a red alert *SIREN.*
If a guy spelt it like that, I'd block him.
That last guy had us in the 1st half not gonna lie
0:40 She probably thought you’d shank her if she didn’t. I can smell the crazy on you through the SCREEN.
That last one..."Oh no...me a gay man will never find a girl like you. Oh me Oh my...what ever shall I do?"
My. Head. Hurts! from this. OMG I mean as guys who were never taught to really deal with emotions we all have had some 'niceguy' moments. But damn once you know better you gotta be better. These guys just did not ever grow, and it makes me want to say sorry to every woman out there. These are NEXT level lunacy
As a bi guy, if I ever dated a girl like this, I would definitely be permanently gay. 16:27
They were on the fence, fishing both ponds, when a rancid smell came from the women's side. They looked, and saw a narcissistic blobfish angrily splashing in the shallows for the anglers attention.
Slowly, methodically, the angler got off the fence, and resolved never to cross it again, out of concern that more blobfish lived in that sea.
There's such thing as temporarily gay?
Sorry, I'm not sure if that joke makes sense.
I'm 40, and yet, hearing that "level of chub" Nice Guy made me think, I'm scared, I need an adult. SO creepy.
I think the mango dude is trying one of those pick up artist "tricks" where you first degrade the woman and than tell her she's attractive to you and she should be lucky because you like her. Has this ever worked on anyone lol?
The difference between nice guys and nice girls is that nice guys are "stalky stalky" while nice girls are "stabby stabby"
Happy zombie Jesus day
It amazes me that these people think that their crushes and love interests owe them anything.
Sixth story: when you think there's finally a decent human being in this cold cruel world and when you think it's safe they reveal their real sinister side
I’ve definitely said it before and I’ll say it again: both are a special kind of creepy
I think it’s so funny that no matter how many stories/posts RSlash reads for us, there are still some that make him do a double take!
Love your videos! Keep up the amazing work!! 👍🏻👍🏻
Remember people (regardless of gender), you're not entitled to have a significant other. Especially if you act like THAT...
“You’ll never find another girl like me” here’s hoping! I hope he shared those texts with the mutuals. Also glad this sub is back 😁
wait if rslash has a daughter that means he has to show her nice guys in the future
Been waiting for one of these! I love these videos. However, if you don't do another r/Iamverybadass video, I will be FORCED to contact the police. My precious son wants another I am very badass video! You entitled millennials.
2:20 I remember that meeting...we all had t-shirts saying not to date that guy. It was great.
hey rslash, I haven't been here for a while for personal health reasons but getting to catch your most recent upload brings me a whole Lotta joy.
The most funniest parts of this videos is then the girls turn those guys down lol
I gotta disagree with ya Rslash. I think the nicegirls were actually creepier.
Like they're all creepy and awful but verbally assaulting a refugee?
Then again there was the racist nice guy... Maybe it's a tie.
Idk i think rslash was right. That racist story had me in the first half ngl. I thought we switched over from nice guts to nice girls🤣 when rslash was confused so was i 😂 but nevertheless both are bad
Racism is rude but not dangerous like stalking. I say the nice girls win.
It really feels the same but with a different coat of paint.
It would've been ok if she wasn't a refugee?
@@jackmanleblanc2518 Racism is equally as dangerous as stalking, what? Also quote on quote “Nice guys” have stalked, raped and murdered women. There was a post talking about how this girl was literally locked in a basement by a guy she turned down.
Rslash, to answer your question about the guy "grading" his friend's body, "Is he hitting on her?", The short answer is "Yes, but in a fucked up way.". It's called Negging. It's a mainstay of the PUA guide to how to abuse women and break them down, so that they will feel that cant do any better than the PUA, and thus will settle for the PUA and his worthlessness. Other examples of negging would be "I don't normally date stupid women, but I mean, if you have something else to offer, I guess I could overlook it". Or "Yeah, guys REALLY hate fat women, it's just an instinct thing. When women tend to get your size, most guys will still try to use you for sex, but they aren't looking to stick with someone they aren't attracted to. Personally, I could probably over look it, iffff.." etc. It's always a very pointed, back handed compliment, along with some other digs at their pain points. The goal is to figure out where their insecurities lie, and then abuse them. Literally. Abusing the woman you're trying to sleep with is the expressed goal. Like I said, their goal is to fixate on your insecurities, make you feel like shit and worthless and that you have no choice but to accept the PUA's abuse because as they repeat "No one else wants you".
THANK YOU! When I was younger, I came across a guy who used this EXACT technique. I’m ashamed to say that I fell for it. He was like “ehhh, you’re alright I guess but I’ve seen better, I’d hug you though” and I immediately wanted to know WHY he thought I was ‘only alright’, exactly what he wanted…. He would make me feel horrid and icky, yet he was always DESPERATE to meet up with me irl. I never let him thank god, but I don’t even want to think about what he may have done…
I always say this
Nice guys= creepy
Nice girls= unhinged
🤣🤣
Being this early on a video has already made my day.
That last girl missed out hard. Some of my best girlfriends are literally gay guys in my bfs friend group. They are the best hands down. And they never fail to help cheer me up and laugh when my bf isn't around to help me.
loving your 2nd channel, I haven't seen anything new for a few days! I always look forward to all that you put out for all of us ❤
I was just watching some older ones of these yesterday! Nice to see another one of these after a while!
When I eventually have kids. I'm gonna show them this subreddit as a cautionary tale of how NOT to act to someone your interested in.
Yes at last you posted this one. I love these type if videos and please continue making these videos much appreciate
Man, I just want to tell you how much I love your videos. I can listen to them over and over again. I go to work, pop in an earbud, and enjoy your content all day. It never gets old. I put it on shuffle, and just "do my job." If something I've heard plays, I still listen to it. I find that I learn new things from older stories that I may not have noticed before. My job isn't stressful, but you still get me through my day. Thank you for making this your job.
I still think we should stage a river fight pitting the two factions against each other, supplying nothing but burlap sacks and feathers.
Happy Easter!
Here's the thing I consistently notice that these people don't get: attraction is intuitive, not logical. In very large part, it's a biological process you can't control. There is no way to turn it "on" or "off." It may follow some _patterns_ (e.g. having a "type") but it doesn't strictly adhere to any set of rules. No amount of argument, cajoling, convincing, or coercion can make a person who _doesn't_ find you attractive suddenly flood their underoos when you walk in the room.
To me, this is so obvious that I have trouble finding words to explain it. But some of these people are genuinely under the impression that attraction is a checklist they have to fill, or dependent on a series of steps (give flowers, give complements, ask on date, boom! Attraction algorithm should be satisfied now right????) and if they Do Everything Right and s/he's still just not into you, then s/he must be being DELIBERATELY stubborn and malicious. This is just so fucking weird. It's like insane space alien logic.
That's a great description, I've heard the Nice Guy/Girl mindset described as "transactional" - "I did XYZ, so now you owe me ABC" - like it's a vending machine.
ITS BACK. i love both of these subs and r/ always delivers
'You'll never find another girl like me!'
'oh thank god-'
What a great Easter gift!!! :) thanks rslash!
Lol I love these stories! Ppl are so weird!
So a girl who cooks, decorates the house and does the shopping for house hold supplies is bringing nothing to the table? I'm willing to bet she's more pleasant to spend time with than op
Jesus. That last story. It completely won it for the r/nicegirls and I'm almost ashamed I share the same chromosome setup with her.
PLEASE MORE OF THESE
What's really amazing to me is how these "NiceGuys"/"NiceGirls" have been rejected so many times, but it never seems to occur to them that there might be something wrong with THEM, so they blame it on the opposite gender! This seems to be more of an issue with the NiceGuys, especially the one who, at 2:15, seems to think every woman in the world has "conspired" against him, and the relationships he did have (two of them) were only 2 months long each. Ya think there might be something odd about YOU, NiceGuy? Wow. And that's WITHOUT even getting into his belief that he'll be "reincarnated" - but suppose he "comes back" as a turd? Even sadder is that he really believes he'd be an UPGRADE from her current boyfriend, and yet he's never met said boyfriend! I'd say that girl KNOWS her current boyfriend is just fine, and no "upgrade" to some knuckleheaded mental case is needed. And apparently, NiceGuy is too stupid to realize that ranting about her and insulting her is NOT going to win her over, even if he buys her a TRUCKLOAD of flowers. What makes these morons think that just because they're nice to a girl, that girl is obligated to send them pictures, especially what they're demanding? I can only imagine what they'll do with such pictures, and it's pretty gross.
But really, why don't these girls block these weirdos?
Love both these subreddits, it would be cool to see more in the future. Always love the content rSlash!
Thanks for coming back to this, I liked and missed this series of yours
The Online Dating post took a HUGE left turn. I think the woman picked up some r_cist vibes from Nice Guy™ and ghosted him.
*AITA Crosspost:* I feel that OP (a) is Not Like Other Girls™, and (b) is jealous of her friend's girlfriend. Oh, and she's TA
*Last OP:* She called OP a bundle of sticks, and he was willing to be friends with her after that?! He's better than me.
It's so bizzare trying to date black girls while being horrifically rascist lmao
He was probably playing the "White Savior" role during the date. That mentality, at least in dating usually culminates to "Look at how not racist and wonderful I am for graciously dating a black person. Let my magnificent white a$$ serve as a beacon, that my white privilege may be granted to them and they grant me endless gratitude in return."