r/AmITheA**hole for Ruining a Karen's Wedding?
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 5. 08. 2024
- r/AmITheA**hole In today's episode, OP is forced into being the best man for his friend and an incredibly toxic bride. The bride tries to micromanage OP's life and control his girlfriend's body. The bride actually demands that OP's girlfriend wear a frumpy dress to hide her pregnancy, because the bride doesn't want the pregnancy stealing attention from her wedding. So, OP decides to ruin the wedding by trashing on the couple during his best man speech. Is he the butthole in this situation?
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âMy daughters arenât thieves!â
Well then, if they arenât thieves; why are they worried about a locked door to a room that isnât theirs?
Hmm...I wonder why no other family member want to take them? They're not already stealing from them, right? RIGHT?
@@benjiro8793 hey that's not fair.
Some of them say they "found" whatever it is they stole ^.^
Imagine getting offended when someone puts a lock on their door. That says something about your character
@Some Guy Remember sharing is caring!!!
Gee I wonder why Sammyâs wife left & why the girls arenât with their mother...
When the fiance says he will have to deal with her nonsense for the rest of their lives, probably best to rethink one's life choices.
Yeah, that really made me wonder, like. Dude, you are ALREADY aware of that. Why on earth are you still marrying this woman? End it with her and find someone who isn't insufferable.
Speaking of, Gohan, how's that arm of yours?
@@benjiro8793 So true... I knew a guy at work who had an emotionally abusive girlfriend for 4 years... She would ignore the fact they were dating then love bomb the heck out of him. He also told me of the time they did have a break and she brought a guy over and passionately hugged him loudly in the other room... She was a real piece of something... I asked why he didn't just leave and his only defence was the time he had already put in and not wanting to start over... sadly he was only like 20 when he said this to me and I'm like that is too young to lock it down... They started in high school so maybe some attachment there... He actually started seeing someone during their break but left them to go back and that girl sounded way better for him...
Most people don't knowingly make a bad decision, but this guy? He's shoving his dingleberries into a pot of boiling bleach.
Yeah, I think that if I were in that situation, I'd just tell him, "Do you hear yourself? Wake up!"
who accidentally "mixes" shades on an expensive palette at eighteen years old? like that's intentional and they even left it on OP's bed
I feel really bad for the daughter. 60 dollars cant be easy to piece together, and you would only do it for something you really, really desire.
Yeah I didn't realize they were 18 I thought the cousins were kids. but then Rslash said that they were 18 and I was like yeah then it's definitely intentional. tbh I would then make the condition that if they wanted to stay THEY needed to pay the 60 dollars to replace the palette or leave.
@@hermitthetoad4444 They owe Zoey the replacement and compensation for the emotional distress.
I mean not everyone knows how to treat make up, I know I sure as hell don't and I'm a 27 year old woman. But that's no defense for them, if they didn't know how to treat the make up, they shouldn't have touched it without someone around who knows what they're doing. That was deliberate.
My best friendâs sister took her makeup palette and completely destroyed it when it was still BRAND NEW. It was maybe used ONCE. It was a limited edition palette and it was something she bought and earned with her own money from working. Like I couldnât even fathom why people do those things. Iâm so glad I never had sisters, just my best friend and sheâs like me, very protective and respectful of ours and othersâ property.
"My daughter's arent thieves they just take things without permission." Disgusting.
Maybe start "borrowing" his things then. See how he likes it.
Ah, yes, the circle logical fallacy for "Sammy".
My daughter's aren't killers, they just take lives without permission
That's... exactly what theft is. Yikes. Those kids are in for a rough awakening later on.
Yeah, they're not stealing! They're just borrowing, without permission, and no intention of giving it back. Jeez!
He's self-aware to know that he'll be dealing with her for the rest of his life, but doesn't have the will to end the relationship?
Mmm hmm
That means hes spineless
I asked the same question. It's one thing to know your SO's flaws, and accept them. It's a whole different thing to continue to be with someone when you're fully aware of how toxic they really are.
I have a feeling that he's gonna be one of those idiots (or poor saps) who'll have to apologize for his wife's nasty behavior wherever they go. Losing support from friends and family members. "Why are you still with her? She's a controlling egotistical freak." "That's just the way she is. I tried talking to her about it, but she won't listen to me." A spineless, depressed, empty husk of a man, who knows how terrible of a person she is...but doesn't have the guts to pull the trigger to get a divorce from this control freak.
Or he may realize really quick after the wedding how she really is and skip town immediately.
"love" makes people stupid
âHey give me a brake buddy Iâll be dealing with her crap for the rest of my life.â
Me: âI mean... why the get married then?â
I was just coming to say this. If these words actually leave your mouth how does not click that "oh hell, this will be the rest of my life. What am I doing?!"
As I said above I'd use the wife's Pregnancy as a reason not to be there. Since it would overshadow the wedding
For the đ
My thoughts exactly
I think he did the right thing and waited for the last minute
Re: Stealing twins - "girls will be girls" is no more valid of an excuse for bad behavior than "boys will be boys."
on that at least all reasonable people can agree; thx
That saying ticks me off. "Boys will be boys" is meant to be if boys play rough and get a little roughed up. Not bullying, sexual harassment/assault, or theivery. It is meant to be if boys are playing and one scrapes their knee it's no big deal. Clean it, let it heal, done.
@@thegrapetree652
Or the fact that fun is rolling around in the mud and junk like that. It's for instances like my 3 year old son having the time of his life running through puddles and not freaking out about falling and getting completely, utterly soaked from head to toe.
@@thegrapetree652 What will "girls will be girls" mean, then? Many people use it to excuse exclusion, mean words, the classic kind of girl-type bullying, peer pressure and that kind of thing. What kind of thing SHOULD it be used for?
@@strawberrysoulforever8336 idk
How about instead of having some random person on the Internet give new definitions, maybe we should stop making phrases to normalize bullying. Just an idea :/
Gets indignant: "My daughters aren't thieves"... Yes... yes THEY ARE.
"It normal for girls to share."
It's only sharing if all parties give consent.
yeah ... I don't understand why they'd be mad about a lock on a room they're not stealing from đ€
Am I rong or are they twins so they never learned to respect belongings from other since they probably shared all
@@Nerobyrne Exactly. A lock is no big deal, unless it's there to keep YOU out. And the only reason a lock can be directed at a specific person is when tehy're already doing something wrong.
@@velvety2006 Brother-in-law is the wife's brother.
That 2nd story SCREAMED divorce. I wouldn't dare stay with someone who had no problems making their own daughter feel like garbage by defending their horrible family instead of her. Someone's gonna leave. Me if it's their house, them if it's my house.
I was thinking the same when I was listening to the story all I could think was time for a new wife
If a parent is not willing to protect and stand up for their own child against a horrible family member, then that person shouldn't even have the title of parent or even be called a parent at that point
I hope that op doesn't stick with his wife, it seems like he doesn't understand that his wife seems to be happy to throw their kid under the bus.(That's what it seems like to me)
@@reaperreaps2137 like what happens if Sloan starts taking the daughters clothes. ITâS HER STUFF! They wouldnât dare let the daughter take sloans things. Itâs bullshit.
I can imagine the teen moving out as soon as she can bc of lack of support and not feeling her stuff was safe
Have to disagree with the rating of the first story. OP was an asshole, but not a 3 out of 5. I would say 1 out of 5. You have a full time job with a pregnant wife. The friends knew OP was more than likely on autopilot and they still treated them like crap. Why the hell should he let that slide?
OP was 100% entitled to be petty and trashy. I agree. 1/5 buttholes.
I agree that OP should have only gotten 1/5 buttholes; 2/5 at most.
He shouldnât have let it slide, but he should definitely have nipped that shit in the bud *way* before he did, not waited for best manâs speech to do it. That was passive-aggressive and cowardly of him.
I call it a Justified Butthole. I mean the mother of the bride said he had already ruined her poor babies wedding so what did he have to lose? And maybe his words will stick in the friends head. At least OP said he'd still be friends with him and help pick up the pieces when he comes to his senses. Personally, if I were a guest at that wedding I would have laughed.
I think it was because, as Rslash said, he was letting it slide until the very end. We don't know what was going on with his wife, but I doubt she was happy with the requirements the Bridezilla was putting on them, but OP didn't tell his friend to f off until the speech. That probably added 2 more butthole points
Gotta say: stealing other peoples things, especially makeup, clothes, and phone things is not normal girl behavior
My female friends would kill each other if they took each otherâs makeup, clothes, and especially phone things without permission
It is far from normal... Unless there like freaking 2-3 years old and taking toys but even then most kids know what there doing is stealing đ€·đ»ââïžđ€Šđ»ââïž
As a 16 year old girl myself, I agree. This isn't normal.
It's also not good for the skin.
It's true. I was your typical bratty little sister. When my sister and I weren't fighting, we would ASK to borrow. When we were both being brats, oh yeah, we stole, and we got into HUGE trouble over it, not to mention the fighting. I was grounded for stealing her makeup and she was grounded for stealing my CD's. No one in my household thought this was NORMAL. We got punished. Again, we were just being bratty buttholes, we didn't do this all the time, only when we were mad at each other, LOL.
@@fan0x315 thatâs true. If any of the girls had skin conditions and they âsharedâ the makeup that could have passed around bad stuff
"it's normal for teenage girls to borrow stuff"
Not. Without. Permission.
I would've been fucking furious if one of my pals took stuff without me okaying it.
I don't think taking stuff without permission even counts as borrowing. So yeah, borrowing is normal, but what they were doing wasn't borrowing it was stealing
@@limiv5272 exactly.
This makes me concerned for Sammy and OP's wife's childhood. Did they have to "borrow" stuff themselves, or did their parents teach them that? Either way, it's apparent they don't understand the concept of consent/permission.
I would choke someone if they said that
Ummm- the usual appropriate response to a thief is violence.
Olivia and Sloane: *Steals Zoey's stuff*
OP: *Installs lock on Zoey's door*
Wife, Sammy, Olivia and Sloane: *Surprised Pikachu Face*
Right? Itâs so dumb
Olivia and Sloane: "It's not fair! We can't go borrow her stuff without asking anymore!"
@@bun04y "It's not fair! We can't go *STEAL* her stuff anymore!!"
FTFY
@@bun04y My answer would be "Buy it your damn self"
In prison, you "borrow" without asking and you're just begging to get stabbed in the showers.
Thieves usually gets pissed when they see a lock. Its a natural instinct.
*"This is the lock picking lawyer"*
@@gastaannoying1780 ahahaha! Locksmiths have that too! I also watch LpL
I once read a book where a child was given a latch chain that he could only just reach to make sure his little brother didn't mess up their stuff after he scribbled all over a school project. Apparently that didn't work because the brother later on found some way to get in and swallowed his brother's pet turtle.
âItâs not a big deal, itâs just hair.â Thatâs how control freaks get away with this crap. You give them an inch, theyâll take the whole road. You gotta nip that behavior in the bud, or else theyâll just keep pushing boundaries of what they can do.
My grandmother once gave my sisters haircuts and home perms without my parents permission. One of my sisters said that she looked like Bozo the Clown after. Last time my grandmother babysat 7 year olds. When she stayed with us when I was 6, my sisters actively kept me away from her. No chance that she was going near my hair.
They slowly push boundaries with "it's just hair" or "it's just one time" to downplay the severity of their disrespectful behavior. To people like that, boundaries are there to test the limits of what they can do and consequences are akin to cruelty
"I's not a big deal, it's just hair."
Say that to a Black Woman (i.e. ME). Them's fighting words.
"it's just hair" is SUCH a common phrase among abusive controlling people, and it's absolutely despicable that the family said "oh she's a control freak it's just how she is" as if that's an aspect of her personality to be cherished and not a serious, violating flaw
The worse is when they try to justify it by saying "I was trying to do something nice" like that makes it all better.
âMy daughters arenât thieves!â Yeah and I'm the Queen of Sheba.
Lmao
Your Majesty!
lol
This cracked me up
wanna bet if Zoey 'borrows' something from them without asking it's suddenly theft?
âCut me a break Iâll have to deal with her the rest of my lifeâ thatâs your boiâs own damn fault dude
Also yknow whatâs something else teenage girls do? Put locks on their doors.
The only correct answer there is: no you dont. No one is forcing you to get married and this statement suggests that you dont want to anyways.
I'd be like: "You know there is exactly one group that hates locks. Thieves."
I've had a lock on my door since I was 11, I think too many parents don't realize children are people and have a right to privacy. And they also have a right to protect their stuff against their cousin thieves :)
I would have walked away the moment the bride started to bitch
The difference bvetween Hair Dye and Bleach is like the difference between a tattoo sticker and a permanent tattoo.
One is an extremely aggressive procedure that can/will have prolonged effects, while the other one can be removed with enough soap and water~
is bleach the aggressive one (idk much about hair products)
@@skyeplays1772 yeah, it can actually burn off your hair if done wrong
@@skyeplays1772 yes bleach is aggressive. If used improperly or even properly and for too long, it can cause hair falling out and/or breaking off as well as chemical burns. It essentially breaks apart your hair protein to remove color, so when it's done your hair is left significantly lighter but a lot weaker as well. Hair dyes, especially those like arctic fox aren't taking anything away from hair and will wash out with regular shampoo over time. Arctic Fox even has an added conditioner so you can leave it on as long as you like without damaging it.
@@skyeplays1772 Yes. Bleach is a mixture of extremely potent hydrogen peroxide and other nasty chemicals to break down the bonds of your hair shaft and strip the color out. Most _permanent_ box hair dyes have similar chemicals like ammonia to help deposit the colour, even if the hair hasn't been bleached. Those types of chemicals, obviously, cause permanent damage. Everything past the root of your hair strand is already dead, so there's no fixing it once you've used ammonia or peroxide on it. Semi permanent dyes, like Arctic Fox, don't have any of those chemicals, they deposit colour only. That's why people will usually bleach their hair first, for a brighter colour, but it's not necessary. Semi-permanent dyes don't last as long as permanent for this same reason; you're just putting colour on top of the strand, rather than breaking down the outside to deposit it in the shaft. Bleach can also cause very serious damage to the scalp, depending on the person and how long it's left on, because peroxide is a skin irritant. OP's comparison is pretty spot on. Bleach would be the permanent tattoo, the Arctic Fox dye would be the stick on.
â@@skyeplays1772 Like the others already explained, bleach is very agressive and can cause a severe allergic reaction, which can lead to death (if it touches the skin, of course). Since the daugther is only 11, she really shouden't have done that, because the skin is still too sensitive at this age. I don't know about other countires, but where I live you can only dye & bleach starting at the age of 16, because the chance of an allergic reaction is just too great.
I hate how people say: 'it's not a big deal' over things that, for the person in question, are clearly a big deal
Oh you mean like my dumb little Sister who Was stealing my shit back in the day and my parent's said LeT HeR BoRrOw YoUr StUfF or
CaRiNg Is ShArInG or something like this for me it was clear i dont share nor care for them playing Favorites at least my Mom Got the Massage an eternity later it dosen't help me anymore but better late than never
I think the wife is an enabler. Something tells me that the wife never asked Sloan to apologize. OP needs to give his wife an ultimatum: either the wifeâs brother and his twins go or OP and Zoey go.
and it may even be that OP should not even give the ultimatum, seriously, his wife needs to go too
That would be hard for Zoey but it is that or lost anything that she work for and deserve,if was up to her she wouldn't put a lock to her room, but with those pieces of shit (icluiding her mother) there was no other choice, the other ne is leaving with her father but that isn't easy as you may think.
Hell to the naw. He's the husband so I'm ASSUMING he's paying the mortgage. You think I'm gone leave AND pay this house note!?!
@@kenyettaready Yes, because it's ALWAYS the husband who pays the mortage. đ
âCasual theft is normal for teenage girls!â
It is?!? Damn it I *wasted* my youth. đ
âDaughter! Go âborrowâ from your cousins!â
She probably doesnât because they donât have shit, Iâd expect if they moved in with them because they couldnât afford a place that they donât have much & that they daughters family is better off than the cousins family financially. That & she may just be a respectful young girl who knows thatâs not the way to act. Fighting fire with fire doesnât fire the problem.
@@MsNoPixel I know. I just wanted to make a joke.
@@MsNoPixel People really don't understand this quote...
You fight fire with fire to suffocate the fire!
Because if you burn away anything a fire can feast on the fire will die!
In a situation like in this story, that would mean to remove/destroy anything valuable, before the thief has a change to get it.
But to react on thievery with thievery is an "eye for an eye" situation, not a fight "fire with fire".
Eye for an eye => Doing the same to the person that mistreated you.
Fire with Fire => Removing the goal of the other person with any means.
To fight fire with fire, won't make you even, it won't remove the unfair events, it just robs the entitled assholes of their success, and hopefully their will to try shit like that again.
If you take money from a person that takes their mones from other people, you aren't hurting the thief, but his victims.
Letting the daughter steal from her cousins wouldn't be a lesson to the cousins,they'd just steal even more to make up for it.
"My daughters aren't theives"
Yeah, and I have the infinity gauntlet
If the daughter had the Infinity Gauntlet, she could snap her cousins out of existence along with their sucky parents.
âMy daughters arenât thieves!â
Dude, if they touch one more thing that ainât theirs, theyâre gonna be in someoneâs hospital or street. Your brats are thieves.
Brother in law - âmakeup isnât expensive at Walmart so fix your daughters âDefectâ! My girls can use the makeup though
Theyâre 18 (aka adults) they should fucking understand at that point
No, don't you see what uncle is doing? He thinks that only adult women should wear makeup. Otherwise, a young girl who expresses interest in makeup and loved makeup is nothing more than a slut.
Honestly, I can't deal with this man. It seems like he's got such a low opinion of girls and women if he's going to attack a fifteen or sixteen year old schoolgirl for buying and wearing make-up.
âąhis wife wasnât allowed to talk about her pregnancy at all, had to downplay her pregnancy
âąhe was shamed for not contributing more financially even tho the bride-to-be knew he wasnât able to
âąhis speech had to be all about her, her and her
âąthe bridal family was a fucking nightmare, because of course they were
âągave a fucking amazing mental speech, like yeah heâs right, but bruh thatâs trashy, câmon man
I do wanna know why he didnât defend his wife more, like seriously why wasnât he defending his wife?! but yeah, those people fucking SUCK
I don't understand why he still there TBH. That's sounds like a nightmare.
@@ReigoVassal right? Iâd have fucking WALKED, or being a normal human being, wouldnât have even attended. Iâd have written an email/message explaining exactly why I wasnât attending, because I sure as shit wouldnât allow my wife to be treated this way
When I heard that she had to downplay her pregnancy I was like "do you want her to wear a gurdel or something that will hide that bump and be a health issue to the baby? Or did she want her to wear a super puffy dress?
Honestly the no pregnancy talk rule Iâm okay with. Everything else not at all. My wife is 38 weeks pregnant and doesnât bring up pregnancy unless she has to do so but we have all met stupid couples who only ever talk about their pregnancy and make events about them.
I doubt every single detail was included in the post. Maybe he did defend her in every way possible besides not attending his best friend's wedding. We can't really judge on information that is not there
Poor girl in that last story đ„șđ„ș how long was that bleach on her head that it came out blotchy, dry, and damaged in one go?? I'm sorry, honey, that wasn't fair to you, you deserve to love your hair
"It's normal for young girls to borrow each others stuff !"
You know what it's called when you borrow something without asking or intent to turn back ?
STEALING.
+The Best Man story: Everyone Sucks. I would have told my buddy that I'm not comfortable with being ordered around and disrespected. Then I would step down from being Best Man and state the disrespect, harassment and bullying as the reason. If the harassment and bullying continue, I would go looking for better friends.
+The BIL and Nieces stealing the daughters stuff story: What if the cousins were male and they were stealing OP's daughter's underwear? Similar situation, different circumstances. Teenagers NEED structure and space to grow. With the constant "borrowing without asking" (which IS stealing) of the daughters stuff it will cause strife and give her trust issues later on. NOT THE ARSEHOLE.
+The bleaching a kids hair story: Read a news story about a parent who did this to a 4 year old. The girls hair was so damaged that they had to shave it off. The parent got jail time as the harsh chemicals gave the kid mild chemical burns on her scalp. Adult styling products are NOT formulated for children for a reason.
I know the mom WAS a hairdresser but it sounds like she came from an age where it was believed to be okay or she is just super delusional at this point in life... It is one of those stories were it could have been WAY worse than it was but everyone is okay with it because it didn't happen. That is no way to justify the action... Just because the worst didn't happen doesn't make what she did right. (Even tho it sounds like a worst case scenario with what it did to her hair...)
The Best Man, if I was in his shoes, petty revenge would be worth it. 0/5 bh to OP
imagine being a guest in someones home, being allowed to live there RENT FREE, your daughters start stealing stuff and you donât see an issue with it, then being upset when a lock is put on the door of the person you were stealing from.
Smh, that brother is a POS.
The story with the dad putting the lock on his daughter's door, wow.
First thing, OP should tell Sammy if he doesn't like it, he can carry his and his two daughters' thieving asses out the door. If the wife objects, tell her she can carry her ass on out the door with her entitled brother.
this. 100%. My dad used to do that to me. put his side first now hes like "why you no talk to me"
In some state's changing, coloring, cutting a child's hair who isn't yours is assault and battery.
I'm sorry but you don't get to have a special day off from being held accountable from your toxic abuser behaviour.
I don't agree with you giving the first OP 3/5. I'd give him maybe 0.1/5 - people in general, but especially bridezillas and Karens, deserve the same amount of kindness that they give out.
Yea, OP also spoke to his friend to see if he could reason with bridezilla, the answer he got was a no, technically he stood up for his wife and it's possible he didn't give every detail to save time in writing. I also completely agree that karens and bridezilla's deserve the kindness that they give out, in this case, OP did, I'd say between 0.1 and 0.5 tbh.
If my dad had opened his home to family then found out that family was stealing my things he would have given them one warning then kicked them out. They may be family but I am his child and his duty is to protect me. That dad did nothing wrong and Sammy needs to go and stay with other people.
For the last story I think the grandma is terrible. I regularly bleach my hair and put in semi-permanent dye like arctic fox (I prefer joico) and those two processes are completely different. Semi-permanent dyes are just conditioners with pigments mixed in so they stain the hair but don't go into the hair shaft. This means your hair stays healthy and look even shinier than before. Bleach opens up the hair shaft to remove pigment which can leave the hair massively damaged if done incorrectly and difficult for even professionals to fix. Not to mention bleach can cause serious scalp irritation! I can't believe that grandma. This is a big deal and anyone who doesn't think so should ask her to bleach their hair and see what they think of her good intentions then.
And in many states, this counts as assault of a minor. I would lose my shit too if my mother did that to my kid.
I have dark brown hair that I regularly dye a portion of. In order to get any color that isn't black to show up I have to bleach it. I counter balance this by never using hair dryers, curling irons, etc. And you could still run your fingers through my hair blind folded and pick out the dyed section. Because that's what bleach does.
there was a story on rslash's channel about an entitled grandmother who did something similar, only it ended up *killing* her granddaughter. the parents' rules + consent are there for a reason
Yo, as someone who gets their hair professionally bleached and dyed I have to say that OP is right to be upset over what Grandma did. She used to be a stylist so she should know the do's and don'ts of bleaching hair.
I'm grateful that she didn't bleach all the way down to the roots cause A) bleaching burns since it's chemicals stripping out pigments and the granddaughter probably won't expect the burn since she's never had bleached hair before, and B) she's obviously using a too high bleach solution or left in the bleach for too long, which I doubt since the blue isn't out of the hair, considering the granddaughters damaged hair.
OP it's better to ask your daughter if she would want to cut off the damaged hair and let the healthy roots grow new hair
Last story: " the road to hell is paved with the best intentions and the grandma is a controlling freak and should be avoided. Those controlling freaks will never take responsibility.
The sheer *audacity* of telling another person to âfix the *defect* â in their child because theyâre responsibly saving and buying things they want.
After seeing the list of bridezilla's demands, I would've jumped off that train right then and there.
Itâs absolutely insane how some people act when they become a bride. Absolutely nothing about that makes you special. Most people end up getting married. You arenât the new queen. You donât get to pick peopleâs hair colors and tell them to hide their pregnancy to ensure you get every ounce of attention. My god
Well if Sammy in the second story doesn't care about his daughters stealing stuff, OP should be able to go into Sammy's stuff and take his clothes phone accessories. Etc, i mean, it's only fare right?
Nobody else in the family wanted to take them in and they can't afford their own place...
Anything that Sammy and his daughters own is most likely stolen...
And if you take that shit aaway from Sammy, he'll just steal another one...
Sammy would agree that this is only fair~
@@Robin93k true lol
Rules for thee, not for me.
"I'll be dealing with her crap for the rest of my life."
Um, why are you marrying her then? Marriage isn't an obligation, last time I checked.
It hasn't been an obligation since a king executed several wives... yes.
Maybe it's a shotgun wedding...
"My daughters aren't theives!"
Your daughters are theives, so they'll be treated like theives.
That mother in the second story angers me even more than the uncle and his thieving spawn.
Theft is not typical teenage behavior.
I would kick that Sammy character out, if the wife is so concerned with her brother she can go with him
Lol EXACTLY. My dad would've definitely said b**** be gone. I pay the mortgage anyway. You and your brother can go live elsewhere.
Rslash is just like coffee listen to it and man I can do like 2 hours of school work in the duration of the vid
YES! I have binged so many maybe even all his vids while doing things like homework
He is my sleeping pill lol
I hope Zoey gets her money back, or a new kit, after this video. 60$ sounds like quite a lot for a 16 yo.
Second story: Call the cops, press charges for theft.
EXACTLY. Get all them mofo's out.
Thinking the same thing but not certain how much the cops would do see as it was makeup and from within the family I think a certain $ amount has to be stolen or destroyed before cops do more then file a police report but maybe that would be enough but I'm evil and would have liked to see the twins spend a couple of hours in jail to show them that you steal you get jail time
I think that r/amitheasshole is probably my favorite subreddit
I like it but sometimes it gets on my nerves cause some of the responses are just pretty dumb
@@ohgoodheavens759 yes and no some can be like uhhh how don't u see it but some u need to think about
@@redblade-jw3qx yeah but then thereâs some where like yeah heâs TA but someone will try to defend them even though letâs say he like ran a dog over for example those are the ones that make me like go over the edge
Same
Finally, rslash would you mind doing another âr/nuclear revengeâ video? I love your videos
I second this!
Same
@@posiipeachy me too
Try to ask it at his discord
@@posiipeachy I third this
First Story: Why didnât OP just tell his friend that they were no longer friends and not go to the wedding?
Last story: Can people please stop judging people who have tattoos or unnatural hair colors? Also Iâd never speak to my mom ever again if she did that.
Agreed that hag was lucky that she didn't melt the kids hair off, poor kid, though artic fox, manic panic, and punky color, all act as deep conditioners so redying the kid's hair will actually help improve the texture and leaving the color in longer will make the color darker.
The story about the makeup is like someone stealing your Lamborghini then deatroying it, then when you get a lock to prevent them from stealing they go "hey it's totally normal to let people borrow your car you can just buy a new car it's not that big a deal"
I love how you release these videos at the exact time I leave for work so I can listen in the car on the way there !!
The last story really got on my nerves. I have blue hair tips. And if anyone bleached the color it would be horrible. OPâs mom has no right bleaching her granddaughter hair. I feel bad for the little girl
I have a sister, we always ask each other if we can use/borrow things or eat something. If I used something without my sister's permission, she'd be mad at me. I would feel the same if she did the same thing. Regardless of gender or family, ALWAYS ASK TO USE THINGS. Jesus Christ it ain't that hard.
on the last story.
She had 'the best intentions'?
to quote Jurassic Park 3, "some of the worst things imaginable, were done with 'the best intentions'."
"The road to Hell is paved with the best intentions."
I would have told my friend to run. That is not a marriage that you don't want to be in. All the friend did was enable his Karen if a wife.
And if I were the man's pregnant wife, there is no telling how I would react when my hormones are activated.
"He'd be dealing with her nonsense for the rest of his life" Why do so many straight people marry someone they hate? Like y'all know you don't have to do it, right? Marriage is supposed to be a partnership and out of love.
Sheâs probably really, really hot, and amazing in the sack.
@@lmj2k So is a call girl and she'll be cheaper in the long run.
He's probably submissive and actually gets off on it.
@@YourXavier ,
Call girls aren't legal in most places...
A bit too harsh on OP in the bridezilla story. He was doing what he thought was right for his friend, 1/5 at most
"You're babying your daughter by letting her buy makeup that makes her look more grown up."
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3 out of 5 is harsh for being âpettyâ. Iâm going to guess that he did try to reason but his friend said to just deal with it, so that wasnât going to work. I would give him like 1 at max.
Pretty sure in the post it literally says he did that and that's where the "I have to deal with her nonsense for the rest of my life" comment came in
Exactly. It was a bunch of smaller things that werent that bad and could be dealt with. The big thing was "you ruined the wedding". He did no such thing. 1 at max
He even talked to them, at least once... which is why he was able to use his "friend's" words...
youtube gets 5/5 for never notifying me
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@@Rose_loving_axolotl hi
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I just stare at my phone until he uploads
While I think OP is NTA, he won't be for long if something's not done about Sammy, Sammy's daughters and OPs wife
Zoey's gotta come first, so either Sammy goes, or OP takes Zoey and ditch them.
Edit: Accidentally wrote Sammy's wife
It's not Sammy's wife. It's OP's wife, who is Sammy's sister
fuck, I miswrote that-
Why not just 'steal' Sammy's wife?
*Ba dum tsss~*
Come to think of it, where *is* Sammy's wife?
Tell Sammy that youâll take the lock off if he starts paying half the mortgage
She should dye her daughter's hair rainbow that would surely make grandma mad.
How tf does the enabler of story one get a lower rating than op? I'll admit op was petty at most he should 1.5 maybe 2 I think RSLASH is high again
Agreed. Like in college tuition story he completely glosses over the fact that what the kid did was actually disrespectful just cause the dad sucks. His ratings are always such a mixed bag
Here's an idea: Attend the wedding, but make sure the hair is VERY visible. If people are fine with seeing hair like that, don't associate with them.
Lol how is stealing not a âdefect of characterâ
"You embarrassed me!"
Hey dad, cry me a river about it.
Who else was waiting until he posts because he always posts at the same time?
Thieving daughters story: look my man rSlash, even if his wife is shown this thread she probably wont see the light and will likely double down and get after OP for posting his story to r/AITA
Pro tip: If you're about to get married and have the thoughts "I'm going to be dealing with her nonsense for the rest of my life" maybe don't get married.
Maybe hes an M ...
OP should get a new wife because his current one is clearly favouriting her family over OP & her daughterâs concerns.
This is the content I need but, take it easy rSlash, you have children that need tending to.
I love how much more angry/passionate R/slash is about anything involving kids now! He always was but he's got that dad protective-ness happening now hahha
"It's normal for teenage girls to borrow stuff from each other." BORROWING means you asked permission first. If you didn't, that's STEALING.
the bleached hair daughter: using the arctic fox types of hairdye on top won't damage the hair more but the hair being porous means the colour will stay on longer. I'd say the dad should take the time until the hair grows and is all cut to dye the daughter's hair with even brighter colours just to annoy the grandma. And that way the little girl might like her hair again.
He's taking her to a professional... so that's probably what's going to happen.
I feel like in this video, rslash seems to be a bit more passionate about the topics in hand.... to say the least đ
it's nice when you read a story on this subreddit, get pissed off about it and then rslash reads it, and gets angry too
That one story about the yelling dad brought flashbacks. My dad would scream at me if I got a low grade. He would give me a list of chores to do that would take all day and then yell at me "for not taking initiative and doing more". Although now we are good friends and I personally don't blame him, because I learned what he had to go through. His parents were much worse. They would yell at him for the same reasons, but unlike my dad that would stop after, they would take turns beating him sometimes until he started bleeding. He thought that was normal, however he told himself at the same time that he would never hit his kids. With the help of my mom he never did. He did everything he could to break the cycle of abuse, but sometimes it would slip out.
Include the bride in the best manâs speech even if you have to make something up? Okay đ
âI remember the first time Buddy introduced me to Karen: they had been horseback riding and she had just tripped on a road apple and landed in a manure pile!â
Omg I just laughed way too much at this! Thanks!
That first lady is such a bridezilla. Nobody really likes them that much... as much as they like Karen's anyway.
The second Story I have to say that the guy's brother-in-law is incorrect this is not normal teenage girl behavior because I never did that shit. I knew better I knew that I'd probably get my ass beat.
Through the third story I honestly think that Op is going to snap one day. She's going to get tired of her dad's crap and call him out on it.
The one at the end about that poor kid's hair....... I freaked lmao that was AWFUL
If I was OP on that 2nd story, I would have just started "borrowing" Sammy's stuff out of his room without his permission and when he starts complaining about it, I would say "I'm just doing to you what your daughter did to mine, so why is this rule different between the two of you? No, I've decided that while you're under my roof this rule shall apply to the both of you, and the way I see it is, you've got 1 of 3 solutions to this problem
1. You get your daughter to agree to stop taking stuff without permission and I will thus stop taking yours without permission
2. Lock your stuff up, or
3. Move out."
Yay! More content! This is why I actually get up in the morning you bring me laughs smiles and good days you have made the most horrible of days great so thank you for bringing us all this content keep up the great work mate!
Concerning the Best Man Speech. Something to think about. Is the OP a people pleaser or does he think that he "owes" his "friend" for something that wasn't written down. These may be reasons why he didn't speak up before giving the speech. He probably needs some therapy to help his self-esteem and to speak assertively and not aggressively. I have known too many people like that, including me.
Brother needs to teach his daughters the meaning of sharing! If the cousin (OPs daughter) doesn't want to, leave it be!
"My daughters aren't thieves"
Dude I teach first graders that act better than those teens.
I think the op in the 1st story isn't at 3/5 more like 2 maybe 2.5/5
Slight disagreement with the first one: I doubt OP was deliberately being petty, he just snapped. He'd tried to keep calm and bite his tongue for his friend's sake but enough is enough.
He still should've stood up for his wife, so butthole score is def justified. No hate on Rslash's judgement.
3/5 feels too high of a score for him. I'd agree that it's a minor AH score, but I'd say 2/5 at most.
I would give him 1.5/5 personally
@@ravenbloom6732 yeah the husband was badmouthing his wife before the wedding and being kind of a dick. The guy tried to keep things together, letâs not forget he was only berated and talked down to that whole day. They honestly had it coming imo.
Still yes ESH. But geez the guy was returning the blows after being pushed around too muchz
@@arcturus0379 same. OP would have said no but yeah I don't blame OP for snapping for this train wreck of a wedding.
@@ShockingPikachu Yeah. Totally justified assholery, though still a minor asshole. Definitely less so than the 'friend' and his Karen wife.
Rslash you're amazing my brother and I absolutely love your videos. We've been listening to your videos for the last 3 hours. You're the best! :)
Thanks Rslash for the content I crave! It's always eye opening, makes me wonder and enjoy others life experiences! Thumbs up!đ„°đ
As someone whose name is "Sami" I was cringing at the BIL story, he has failed our kind
Borrowing without permission is literally stealing are they dumb or something?
That as well, but more than than they're just entitled thieves.
Thieves don't admit to being thieves... that's like "Thievery 101"
âSheâs a control freak, thatâs just how she isâ does NOT give OPâs mom the right to act like that
I hate it when people steal something expensive and valuable, destroy it, and then respond with "you can just buy one at Walmart for $10, you shouldn't be buying expensive things anyway", like it's just trashy
"His now wife, then fiancee" considering the context of this story, that's a five word horror story right there
Edit: Listen I can understand someone not wanting others to talk about their pregnancy during a wedding, but this just sounds like jealous entitlement. I get wife is willing to eat whatever, but what if she couldn't eat something cause it would make her throw up? Would bride get pissy with her then too for having the nerve to get sick and "showcase" her pregnancy at the wedding? And assuming she's far enough along once the wedding day arrives, there's not many dresses that can hide a pregnancy.
I think the only person who didn't suck in the first story was op's pregnant wife.
OP didn't suck
OP sucked. He could've just not gone or left during the wedding instead of doing what he did.
It sucked but completely justified.
@@tidepodpadthai2633 Yes, he kinda did suck. I don't mean that any of it was his fault, it wasn't but he should have handled it differently. He should have just backed out of being in that wedding the moment bridezilla started making demeaning demands of his wife. Instead, he ruined the wedding which while possibly justified, was exactly what bridezilla was worried about in the first place. So his actions in her mind justified her demands.
@@wingracer1614 exactly. Just because its justified doesn't mean it's the right thing to do.
"My daughters aren't thieves"
The difference between borrowing and stealing, *is consent!*
You comment on the idiots with the dude saving for appartment and breaking makeup earned you a sub