r/AmITheA**hole For Firing My Cheating Dad?
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 3. 08. 2024
- r/AmITheA**hole OP works at his father's company. His mother has an affair with one of the employees at that company. Then, OP's father dies and leaves the entire company to OP. OP's mother then marries the guy she had an affair with, which means that OP's employee is also his step-father. His stepdad starts acting like he owns the place, breaking rules and bossing other people around. OP decides that enough is enough and fires his own stepdad. This pisses off both his mom and his stepfather, leaving him to wonder if he's the butthole here.
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After reading comments, I think I was off the mark about Tara.
I thought she was justified because people can invite/uninvite whoever they want to their wedding, but she was still a butthole for taking out her pettiness on a child.
Tara: 2/5 buttholes for being petty to a kid
rSlash: 5/5 buttholes for being wrong on the internet.
*me just focusing on the F-bomb*
Not to mention the husband is a simp. That's your _nephew_ for Pete's sake.
Also no r/slash don't be so harsh on yourself!!
Correction
rSlash: 0/5 buttholes
You don't get buttholes for being wrong or for stating your opinion here. Even though I did not agree with you on the Tara thing, who's to say who is right and who is wrong? You're not a butthole rSlash!!đ
@@asherbones2643 i just dropped an FđŁ hearing rSlash's fđŁ đ€Ł
The story of Tara not wanting the nephew at the wedding, if the nephew isn't allowed she'll most likely exclude him every chance she gets. That's a good way to let a kid start feeling neglected and causing depression.
Yeah, I disagree with rSlash on this one. Tara gets at least 2/5 buttholes, if not more. That's like blaming a baby for being born out of wedlock or something. So stupid.
Agreed.
I can't fathom why r said he doesn't see an asshole. Why would you make a kid (not an adult, a KID!) the "source of discomfort", like come on!!! I know you hate the mother but she's isn't even in the picture and you haven't even talk with the kid.
The bride is a fuckin bridezilla and the brother is a pos for excluding his nephew (or maybe I feel that way because I'm mexican and I love my nephews and nieces like my own kids).
Right?! I can see it now - he canât be at our first Christmas. He canât be there for any kids they have. He canât be there for future holidays because itâs her kids âfirstâ something or other
Agreed. Her caving to this woman will only open the door to further exclusions. "I won't go to Thanksgiving if that kid is there, nor will I go to Christmas Dinner, Birthdays, funerals, etc." VERY INCORRECT rating r/slash.
rSlash: **starts to mention why he doesn't give out 5/5 scores that often, brings his child into the equation, and stutters**
Me: "Oh Jesus Christ, stuff's about to freaking go down."
Rslash: *swears uncensored*
Me: *heart attack and applause*
Whenever Rslash stutters, you know somethingâs about to go down.
@@nashidragneel4980 HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!đ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
Ive already listened to this video twice and the moment still gives me chills. He sounds capable of murder..
Yeah he was definitely contemplating murder there
Gotta disagree about the bride excluding a child from her wedding. When you marry into a family, you don't get to pick and choose which members you want. Also, I firmly believe people who punish children for the actions of their parents are bad people.
I wholeheartedly agree with you. If this kind of situation happened to me then Iâll make sure that my child wonât have to deal with the person who hates them for quite literally being born. I would be ready to permanently damage my relationship with my siblings if they married a person like this. Seriously what the fuck is wrong with the bride and brother ?? (Also R/Slash saying he would go without his kidâŠ1/5 assholes.)
Yeah I don't agree with his judgement, like go to the wedding to maybe get in the good graces of someone who dislikes your child for some stuff he has nothing to do with? I prioritize my kid before some entitled brat.
I then they are about 3/5
I thought I was alone on that but yeah I donât think you should just "suck up your pride" itâs YOUR kid
I mean, I think you CAN kind of pick & choose which members you want in some scenario's. Let's say my fiance's cousin was actually the one who bullied & tormented me in high school and caused a lot of trauma, I think I would be justified in not wanting to have anything to do with them. However, this is an innocent child who has nothing to do with it all and who didn't even exist at the time it all happened.
Imagine being that child who got left out of a wedding. Wondering why all his cousins got to go but he was left out. Even kids get hurt by that.
Also, I hate this whole "it's HER special day" like no, the husband should also have a say because its his day too
This so much! ITs HeR SpEcIaL dAy... So you can be as rotten as you are on the inside for one day? Holy shit id cancel my wedding if my girl would do shit like that. Pack my bags and never look back at that horrible excuse of a person.
Can we normalize denormalizing the phrase "It's her special day?"
@@JurassicKM its like asking to Cancel the Cancel Culture.
We are still working on that, give us a break.
@@MalekitGJ there is no such thing as cancel culture. It's called taking responsibility for your actions
@@GiordanDiodato dude makes a joke.
SJW: _FuN iS nOt AlLoWeD!!!1_
How is Tara justified in not wanting a 5 year old at a wedding over a high school rivalry? A kid who will be her nephew whether she likes it or not. Thatâs beyond weird and petty and sheâs definitely in the wrong here.
Yes, rslash should stop doing this subreddit cuz he's been giving out weird ratings lately, like non of them are remotely fair anymore. He's starting to side with the weirdest of things.
How can an adult hold a child responsible for what someone else did. Tara is an immature little girl...
Seriously, how can some grown-ass people be that petty to a child? Even if that child did something to you, THEY'RE STILL A CHILD!
Giving in does set a worrying precedent. How will she treat her nephew in future?
Iâm sorry is r/slash okay, like op said if it was a child free wedding then fair enough but because itâs over something as petty as high school drama thatâs so disrespectful. The other kids can come, why canât the 5 year old?!
The wedding story is wrong. Setting up the start of OP having to leave his son out just to make one person happy. When his brother said he wants his family at the wedding that should automatically include his nephew.
That's what I thought. I hate the "it's my special day" bullcrap.
Seriously? Your sis in laws feelings over your sons? F you rSlash
@@rohesilmnelohe yeah , he's definitely wrong on this one
@@justincantrell1474 I agree it's a special day. But you still have to use logic when selecting guests
@@benwillems8584 So you agree the son should not have been excluded?
Mom: "How DARE you fire such a loyal employee
Me: "says the cheater"
To be honest, if he's going behind his old bosses' back to bang his wife, which on non-legal professions is how you get murdered by the way, then how do you know he's not banging the business. No trust, good bye,
Yeah, OP mentioned how he almost laughed at that bit and rSlash was on his side here. You can tell that even OP thinks this is ironic and hypocritical.
Even if you just look at his behavior as an employee he wasn't loyal! Showing up late or not at all is disloyal too! He's a liability, dragging the business down. Firing him is also a smart business decision. Even if he'd never cheated, he deserves to be fired.
Idk man. The fact that this woman wants to take out her hatred for another person on an innocent child says alot about her character and would be a massive red flag for. I understand disliking an adult for whatever reason but to have a negative emotion towards a child? Nah engagement off
I agree it shows that she might have vindictive nature underneath her demeanor.
A child you have never met at that.
Right and whatâs keeping her for treating the kid like crap in the future
That and like... Why does she still care about the child of her old crush and "sworn enemy"? It's literally all in the past, she's getting MARRIED, idk it's just sus to me
The thing is the child is not just the ex's child, he is OP's child too.
For the wedding this fine, but will she avoid her nephew or even limit OP's brother visiting his nephew her whole Life???
What would she do in family gatherings and other things?? It's better to kill that thought now rather than 10 years later
I was so shook when rSlash swore, but I am happy that he is defending the mother of the child.
When someone drops the censor, you know how serious it is.
I was used to censored but that f bomb caught me off guard
It threw me off Jesus. I was vibing then I hear "for the rest of my, Fucking, life" and Damn near choke on air. To be fair, I absolutely agree with him, and wouldn't even bother considering censoring what I am saying. But Jesus I forgot he swears occasionally
My face went numb and I ran to my laptop to play it back
@@livingnightmare969 same here mate. Canât blame him though, I would have done the same and probably more
12:50 honestly Tera gets 3/5 buttholes from me. 1) she is allowing past drama from an individual not even involved with the situation to dictate her actions. 2) she is disregarding the feelings of her husband wanting his whole family there, weddings are the grooms day too. 3) she is showing spite towards a child who did nothing wrong and is probably a great kid considering how decent his dad is. Sorry rSlash I think you're wrong here.
Yeah and what gets to me is it sets a standard, that Tera is more important to accommodate than OPâs son. Like, this could very easily become a slippery slope of the brother and Tera asking OP to not bring his son to family gatherings like âoh you didnât bring him to the wedding whatâs the big dealâ and suddenly OPâs son is cut off from his family for doing nothing other than having a mother
Last story: It's so easy for people to pull the forgiveness card when they're the ones who's a) aren't involved or b) isn't the victim. Let that woman rot on the hill she died on and lay buried under the weight of the damage her actions caused.
Rslash is right words are like pie that can't be unbaked
No one who shows up at a funeral to accuse the child's parent of being responsible deserves forgiveness.
There's only one scenario where the poster is a butthole and that's really rare. Nothing in the post It's just this but if Hopi had used a large amounts of drugs or alcohol which can cause birth defects and then was trying to treat that with something like essential oils or crystals then I could see them getting a butthole score. But nothing in this post even suggests that that's the case.
So when I was a child my parents wants to no kid wedding, but later on when I was 16 found out that it actually it wasnât a no kids wedding but it was a no me wedding, every one else brought their kids and that really hurt me
Bruh they what? I hope you go no contact with them.
Ya it can mess a kid up being excused from events.
Yeah Tara is an asshole. R/Slash got that one wrong.
@@zsandmann makes worry for rSlash's kid if he thinks that's the appropriate course of action.
Maybe you were just a horrible kid?
Tara is testing her future family in law. If op doesnât fight for his kid now and put his foot down she will continue to do similar things to that little boy.
Yeah I don't get why she didn't receive 2/5. Yes marriage is primarily about the joining of the couple, but it is also a sign of accepting eachother in their families, and accepting eachothers families. Banning a kid for pity reasons means you don't accept his family, which is inexcusably a pitty buthole move.
Definitely. She 100% gonna keep doing that BS
@@Olav_Hansen yeah Rslash changed his judgement in the comments after reading them. However I can see his previous POV. That being said, I also still think Tara is ridiculous over being bad at an innocent 5 year old
It's 100% a test. All I could think of was them talking in Jurassic Park about how the velociraptors would systematically test the paddock fences for weaknesses. What's to stop her from deciding that she doesn't want to be around OP either because he once dated her "sworn enemy"? Never mind the fact no one could have known back then that she would be marrying into the family - is she going to demand he be excluded from family events because he "reminds her of her past?" Where will it end?
You are so right! This is a test and if she get away with it once it will never stop! Every event from this point on will be "Is OP and nephew coming? Oh, well we are busy!" or "We're not coming if THEY are coming!"... Hating a child because of the "sins" of the mother is BS too...
As someone who has a congenital heart condition, whoâs parents nearly lost me several times due to complications and surgeries, I was so disgusted by that last story. The fact that her mother in law told her it was her fault that her baby died, is the most disgusting thing Iâve ever heard. It is NEVER the parentâs fault. Losing a child is a feeling that I canât even imagine.
RSlash: *Angry Dadbear moment and swearing*
My body: haha, Iâm in _danger._
Rslash: *drops a passionate uncensored curse*
Me: GO OFF, KING
I had the same reaction
@@Mini-qk1jx same
GO OFF, KING, GO OFF!!!!
FUCK. YES.
Genuinely made me sit up and rewind to see if I misheard him. You can tell he was serious as HELL.
When rSlash cussed, I got chills. That is a papa bear if I've ever heard one. You know this story just got right into his soul.
Yeah it's scary
I know right??? I had to rewind the video a few seconds to make sure I didnât mishear him! Definitely a papa-bear! đđ»
Same uooghihgh
Yep
He used to cuss in a lot of his earlier videos, but it seemed to cause demonization, so he started censoring words that might cause the CZcams Guestapo to throw him in the word gulag
Tara is thinking short term petty, as a petty person I am disappointed in her. She should treat that nephew like her favorite. She should build an amazing, wholesome, and deep relationship and be the best aunt the world has ever seen. The X may never know but she will always know that the nephew has a better relationship with her than the rival.
This. Im so all for this.
Pool story: honestly the neighbors need to move on. A new family is there and deserve to enjoy their new home. The past is the past and if it bothers the neighbors that's their issue to handle, the family has every right to use their pool as they please
Most people don't want to grow up and be adults though and deal with their issues or go somewhere they can be fine. That's 99% of society's problems.
Harsh. That is harsh. Someone died and it's understandable they'd be upset. I'm not saying OP shouldn't use the pool, but still.
Rather than complain about any swimming they should have taught their child to swim. Children who know how to swim have a far less chance of drowning then children who don't know how to swim and still use the pool. Sounds like a lot of guilt to me.
@@rchrdgrn not only that but it was a pool party. There should have been at LEAST one adult acting as a life guard. How many kids had to have been there for them to not notice a child not coming back up?
On the wedding story I couldn't disagree more. If my partner didn't want my niblings around, he'd be an ex in seconds.
my question is if the rest of the family would go where the 5 year old would go
Exactly, it's like they don't accept the kid as a part of the family which will lead to even more problems in the future
I hate how rslash said its her day. Like dude its also her husband' s day too. And depend how much money was put in the wedding. Like if she paid more or he that they get more right to say in jt
OP's brother claims he "wants his family there", but is excluding a BLOOD RELATIVE to pacify an immature adult. OP needs to cut them both off now and save himself some headache.
Tara is a Bridezilla and an entitled parent in the making. The brother bending over backwards to appease her is only making it worse.
As someone who is hated/looked down upon in my family because Iâm the son of my father, that wedding story genuinely pisses me the f*ck off.
Me too.
Same, myself and my siblings get that because my dad's sisters are mentally stuck in high school
Thankfully my dad is low contact with them
Unrelated, but red shirt era Shaggy really was the most fun Shaggy.
I had the same thing, my dad's parents hated my dad, they told him growing up that if the baby before him hasn't been stillborn, then he'd have never been born and even gave him the stillborn baby's name. They hated their granddaughter because they hated their own son
Same! I tried for years to have relationships with my cousins but it felt like they didn't want anything to do with me... I found out later that it is because I was my mothers daughter and she was the least successful of the three sisters. So I was seen as scum because of the actions of my mother... I mentioned how my cousins barley talk to me to my mother and she apologized saying it was her fault that we are "outsiders"... So I decided to not try anymore at events, but my grandmother caught wind of this exclusion and scolded them. Figures I finally decide to stop just as all my cousins get their heads pulled out of their ass by grandma! They make a point of talking to me at events now... Not that it makes up for the years of them not but I guess it is a start...
20:30 I was eating when he said âNever speak to the human being for the rest of my fucking lifeâ and I almost choked
The last story is a good reminder that a relationship is like a mirror even if you fixed it after you shattered it you will always see the cracks in damn reflection. The mother in-law shattered her relationship with OP and she could try all she like to fix it and even if OP forgives her she won't forget it when she thinks about the relationship with her mother in-law
To me evertything is about intentions. She was a huuuuuge cunt for everything she did, but if she's truly sorry I would try to salvage the relationship. The timing does says that's the new baby is the only reason she wants to apologize, so I would not go either.
Every time Rslash cusses and doesn't bleep it it gives me chills
I read the comment before I heard it and was like huh? Then heard the f-bomb and legit chills!!! đ
@Josh Reid yeah same, I thought that no way in hell he cussed in a video but he had every right to do it
I was listening to it in the background and I just froze, I had to rewind the video just because I must have been dreaming... nope.
Same here.
When RSlash curses, he's not messing around.
It's the fury of a patient man.
You could legit hear the anger in his voice.
Christ, imagine holding a grudge from high school! gonna go ahead and say thatâs when Tara peaked
She clearly never matured out of high school
Not only that, but if she can't stand this kid because he's the son of "her sworn enemy" (really who the fuck does that?), then is she going to demand he be left out of family pictures? not invited to family reunions/get togethers/vacations? When she has children, is she going to forbid them from playing with/having a relationship with their own cousin? What kind of narcissistic asshole carries out a grudge against a child who didn't even do anything wrong!!
So true
TBH, I still despise my elementary/high school bully and have cut out anyone who still talks to her. But I don't feel anything about her kid. He's turned into a delinquent, but that's not his fault.
@@purpleiguana208 Something not as similar but still in the same category happened for which reason I am not even able or possess any possibility to contact my uncles tiny part of the family ever again. It sucks, so I completely agree with you.
I am pregnant right now and I laughed because its the opposite for me. My husband and friends keep trying to edit things we do so I feel more included while I am going "What do you mean we aren't going to the brewery? Y'all have drinks, i'll drive, and laugh at the drunk idiots! Just get me a soft pretzel at the bar and i'll be a happy camper"
I relate to the second story so hard. When I was in Junior year, I had to leave my parents house cause my brother and father were offended by my choices. I left, and still managed to be able to graduate. My brother still lives in my parents house rent free. He is 26. I had to leave at 16 to make room for the baby. I resent all of them to this day.
You know it's serious when RSlash doesn't censor himself
Yes
It was almost shocking to earn him swear
I was thinking the same thing
Yeah he was pissed you can hear it in his voice
Edit: I think now that Rslash has a child these posts make him more pissed then he usually would get
Shit man
Terra is totally the Ahole. The kid isn't a object, he is literally family. The brother can't be like "I care about family" but then reject his FAMILY. I can honestly say I couldn't marry someone who treated a child that way.
Also, RSlash made a good point. His son is going to be Tara's nephew by law, so is she just going to refuse to ever come around her husbands brother because his son is there?
Terra also doesn't seem to care about her future husband's feelings. I hope he doesn't marry her.
Love makes people blind.
@@pollypockets508 It did not seem to be temporary love, though... But I really hope he has a change of heart. Edit: Or she.
Yeah thatâs a big red flag
I got chills when he swore- his anger is literally terrifying-
I knew it was coming because of all the comments, and it still gave me chills, too
It's amazing how rSlash will risk demonetization to prove his point. Truly a good man
That last story is heartbreaking. Calling your daughter-in-law a bad mother for no fault of her own while knowing what all she has been through and reducing your son to tears without hesitation all while during her baby's funeral is beyond cruel. There is a special place in hell for this AHole.
That mother-in-law sounds like the type of person who'd say to Satan, "That's my seat. Move!"
You can tell how angry @rslash was because he said fuck and would usually never say that. I donât have a kid but I can feel the toll it would have on the babies parents.
What if OP is 5G anti vaccine that gave the kid shitty treatment while MIL wanted different treatment?.... We need more info for that one.
The throne
@@haimmaik True, but that doesnât explain the part of saying it was the motherâs fault for giving birth to him? If it is indeed congenital in the sense of being inherited, then itâs no oneâs fault, because we donât live in a society that follows âeugenicsâ. Having kids without doing extensive gene testing, and lab fertilisation will obviously result in unknown outcomes. Sure, the MIL may have just added that bit out of superstition and didnât really mind it, but itâs still an unforgivable statement for her to make.
HOWEVER, if it was congenital in the sense of occurring during fetal development, then itâs possible the mother was irresponsible and was smoking, drinking, etc. during pregnancy. If thatâs the case, then yes, MIL is probably unto something.
I'm sorry R slash but this is where I firmly disagree with you. Wedding or not, excluding a CHILD! a CHILD from a wedding because she has beef with the mom that's isnt around. That is childish and I wouldn't want anything to do with her. She should realize that this was highschool shit and the kid is innocent.
Agreed, but sadly some people just never learned to grow up. Heck, had I been the one in OP's shoes in that story I would gleefully let everyone else who plans on attending that "wedding" just what that turd of a woman wanted and why. What happened in the past is not the kid's fault.
Honestly if the neighbors are THAT desperate for them getting rid of the pool, then they should pay for it, not the OP
imagine being such a bad person that you get a 5/5 as well as an uncensored swear from rslash.
seriously though, i would say a lot more than that even if i had to imagine myself in OPs shoes. I actually teared up at the thought of it
I hope Tara does not want to ban the child from other future events. "I will not go to Christmas at MIL's if your nephew is there."
Hope it was just the wedding or OP's going to have a problem.
I was wondering the same thing. Like what's she going to do for Christmas
I think thatâs going to happen the writing is on the wall
EXACTLY THIS!!!
If OP relents on this, the thing I can see happening in the future is Tara being emboldened by OP relenting and making even further requests in the future that are even more ridiculous (such as that)
Also she's doing this to A LITERAL CHILD! How petty of a person do you need to be in life to hold a grudge against a child and not feel like a shitty person?
One thing to add, you don't punish a child for something that their parent did.
I disagree with rslash on leaving the kid behind to go to the wedding. It's his kid and the only one who is being punished for something he did not do. Tara is being immature by punishing a child for his mother's actions. Also what's going to happen at family gatherings? Is Tara going to ask that her new nephew should stay away from her while she interacts with the other kids? How far is her immaturity going to go? I get that this time it's her wedding, but she's still singling out a child and taking out her anger on a child. Tara is totally a butthole.
Yes!! This!! Why is she punishing the child for something that isn't his fault? Say she doesnt want him to go to her wedding - where does it end? Birthdays? Parties? House gatherings? Nah. Also he's the only child excluded - that's just cruel.
Thank you I agree with you Tara is being immature and if the brother agrees with this behavior, later in their marriage when they have kids, she will be allowed to exclude the nephew from Birthday Parties, family gatherings, vacations and Iâm not cool with that. If my significant other doesnât want my niece or nephew at my wedding there will be no wedding.
I couldn't agree more, leaving the son out "just this one time" could set a real bad precedent for any future gatherings that will include Tara
I agree! How long until she starts to exclude him from other family events. The child didn't even do anything to her, she's honestly just being petty and unreasonable.
Definitely agree that rslash was definitely wrong in his opinion. Why does the OP have to keep the peace and leave his child behind to appease a woman whose taking her pettiness and jealousy on a child that did nothing to her? And if Op and his brother tolerate that, then this only enables her to continue to exclude him in the future. Because it will make her think that her happiness is more important. And why can't she get over this stupid grudge? That fact that rslash even said that he would leave his child to go to the wedding to keep the peace concerns me.
That ending just shows how impotent your baby is to you. also congrats on the new dad stuff.
When I was a child my parents were invited to a friend's wedding and my mom dad and sister were walking with groom and bride, however because the friends didn't want me to walk with my family my dad told me I wasn't walking with them and ended sitting at another friends table while watching
That memory has been with me for my life as I felt like I was singled out for no reason except I was a kid
If you let her exclude the son from the wedding thatâs the first step into excluding him from everything in the future because YOU gave in to her delusional thinking
And then insisting on other shit down the road. Not a good spouse choice.
The rent story: Op isnât ruining his sisterâs life. Heâs ruining his parentâs ability to control her life. NTA.
This.
We just aren't given enough info to give any kind of judgement here. Maybe she's a slacker who needs a firm hand. As soon as I got a job, I had to start chipping in at my house. My older sister the same. It's just how some people teach their kids financial responsibility.
This post even being included on rSlash was a bad call.
They sound like scammers to me. 550 bucks a month plus utilities from a kid still in high school to rent a bedroom? Thats crazy. I know its New York, but even so, I had an 1100 square foot 2 bedroom apartment to myself in Martinsburg, WV just 3 years ago, the rent was 675.
@@bando7567 I disagree. Even if she is under her parents roof sometimes the chance to go somewhere else can help a person grow and change. And 550 of rent while on a minimum wage job in high school is insane. If they're putting it to the side for her like he is sure, maybe but that isn't what it sounds like. If that were the case they should just talk to the brother and explain, and maybe explain to the daughter. Regardless, she's an adult, so it doesn't matter about the parents. She can do what she wants.
@@bando7567 Thats such crap dude. Firm hand my butt, you don't charge your kid whos still in high school FIVE HUNDRED AND FIFTY DOLLARS PLUS UTILITIES, thats just plain scummy and outright scammy. There are plenty of places in the country she could get her own studio apartment to herself for that much, not just a bedroom.
rslash's voice whenever he cusses... is one of the scariest tones i've ever heard. he will be a great father.
Damn, you know RSlash is serious when he curses and doesn't try to bleep it out. As someone who has a relatively minor birth defect(my left eye is significantly smaller than normal, making me completely blind in my left eye) I completely agree with your sentiment. The audacity of the MIL to blame the mother for her child's death.
RSlash: *Swears*
Me: "Oh, you know it's real anger."
The first time I heard it my jaw legit dropped. like full gobsmacked.
I'm not a mother, and probably never will... but the MIL at the funeral has me in tears. Cut off all contact, and if SIL can't accept that cut her out too.
*raises a glass in salute*
Bust out the scissors and cut out any family member pushing for this apology dinner bullshit, up to and including the husband.
Nothing about what that woman did to OP is redeemable for me. That is pure toxic bs. I hope OP stands her ground.
Itâs been like two years since rSlash has said âfuckâ uncensored
Yes Tara sounds like a petty grunt, I would have not have gone to the wedding and probably would have withdrawn from communication with them.
Going to the wedding without his son just sets things up so that Tara will never let his son be involved. Itâs a mistake.
The mistake is going to be the brother marrying the b**ch.
Not to mention the son will remember how his father took the side of someone who unjustly hates him!
My thoughts exactly, what is she going to have him banned from all family functions. Also he's 5 and it didn't even involve him but his mother who's not in his life...smh
agree
if the kid from the wedding story doesnt want to go to the wedding anyway its fine,
but imagine having to tell him his aunt hates him and his dad rather chooses the wedding as well
(plus his own mom isnt around much too), how cruel
he's 5 years old. Tara is excluding a 5 year old because of an old high-school grudge.
@@Someone-or8tp in edition to that she called the kids mom her "sworn enemy" legit how petty and childish do you have to be to not only call someone that but then hate a 5 year old cause their mom was a little mean to you in highschool. She needs to act like an adult and move on.
plus to have to hear later from his cousins about the wedding (cause lets face it, they will probably talk about it to him later)... like this kid is going to feel forgotten and left out.
@@RCKitKat84 Yes! And of course there will always be wedding photos to show everybody who was there, and who wasn't. This kid is going to be reminded of this throughout his life. And at some point, he'll find out the reason why he wasn't there, and be hurt.
I hope Rslash rethinks his position on this. Would he really allow his own kid to be excluded for the sake of "extending an olive branch" to the sister in law? She's just going to keep up this nonsense at every future family event.
Iâm concerned that if OP allowed Tara to forbid his 5 yr old son attending the wedding, it sets a precedent for any other event when the child would be there. Not sure if that would be a good idea.
Wedding story: I think you missed the mark on that one. She is singling out his 5 year old son and saying he isn't welcome. If someone did that to my kid I'd tell them to piss off. Does she want OP's son to not come to family events too? Imagine being that petty about a rivalry that you extend that hate to someones kid you never met.
I was painting while listening to this and when he said, âthe rest of my fucking lifeâ I got goosebumps. You can hear the immense emotions heâs feeling and how much he empathizes with this mother. I actually hit the like button just for that one rslash!
Dnfiekejwn sameee I was drawing lmao
As a Dad myself I can agree with his reasoning.
Thats the first time iâve ever heard him swear. It gave me chills
Iâm eating and havenât gotten to that part yet. Hoping I wonât choke
You know it's serious when rSlash actually says the F word with no hesitations.
Totally agree dude, that step mom is truly despicable, she isn't worth forgiving.
Thought exactly the same thing.
Rslash: *says the f word in a very angrily justified way*
Me: I think I just shit my pants in fear.
The story of Tara: if I was the groom, I'd kick her butt to the streets, where she belongs. It's a major red flag to me that she projects her hatred for other person on her son. It's her brother in law's son and her future husband nephew. She wants her husband not to have a relationship with his flesh and blood? If she can do that to an innocent child, what would she do to her husband if she gets mad at him? He'd better have dodged that bullet.
The pregnant woman story: sheâs so entitled that she doesnât want to walk up the stairs and find a compromise.
She just wants the red carpet treatment.
to be fair, walking up and down the stairs can be hard for some people, and even harder when they're pregnant. maybe she has some issues we don't know about? but im gonna say that it's unlikely and that she's just lazy. besides, she wouldn't even be pregnant anymore by the time she would have to use the stairs, so it probably wouldn't be as tolling.
There are people who workout while pregnant so not really just walk up the stairs
@@SH25808 my point is that if she really wants to not hear the noise, either donât come, or go up the stairs. She wants everyone to cater to *her* needs which is general entitlement.
Ok i understand now thank you for clarifying
Brother: wants family to be at wedding
Also brother: please do not bring your son
I know, right?!? Pretty fucked up if you ask me.
The pool story sounds like it could be the inspo for some mystery thriller or horror movie. The neighbour keeps getting flashbacks of what happened to their kid when they hear the current neighbours playing that leads them to do some untoward things to the new family.
Iâm all seriousness though itâs really sad that happened and I hope both families are doing well
Omg the rage in the last post was something I've never heard on this channel. He swore too! I'm here for it.
You know shit is getting real when rSlash hands out a 5/5 butthole score /AND/ drops an F bomb in the commentary of said story.
R/Slash: (censors himself 99% of the time).
Post/Story: Hits home and on a personal level.
R/Slash: (Drops the F Bomb)
Viewers: R/Slash is going to be the best dad to little Lilly.
Lol yeah we know we were thereâŠ
@@alliecatxx7921 no need to be snarky about it, donât comment if you donât like these comments
@@alliecatxx7921 You're definitely this snarky irl.
That's what I say all the time. My mom and I listen to RSLASH and whenever I hear him swear uncensored in his newer content it's like "Yeah that person is such an asshole they didn't even DESERVE a censor"
How tf did i not know r/ daughter was named Lilly
With the pool story the neighbors should have at least offered to pay to have the pool filled in. I can't imagine that's a cheap process.
Gotta disagree with you about the wedding story. Terra should place more value in her husband's desire to have his family together than creating inane problems over ancient history. She is showing that she has more commitment to petty nonsense than her new family. It would set the wrong tone for your relationship with her to allow her to sweep your son's existence under the rug.
I feel bad for you all, because she will probably never let this 2/5 buttholes to her and 1/5 butthole to the brother for just throwing his nephew under the bus. Don't leave your son alone with that lady, especially once she has a kid of her own.
That post made him so upset that he didn't even censor the f-word.
The last story absolutely broke my heart. I'm currently pregnant and I'm terrified of possibly losing my baby. I couldn't imagine having someone come up to me and blame me if something happened. I could never ever even see a picture of that person without being so ungodly mad and depressed. A funeral is to remember the life the dead lived, but OP's mother in law made that day forever stay in OP's mind as the day she was blamed for her child's death rather than a day to remember her baby. Truly a sad, sad story.
Everyone grieves in their own way. Perhaps mil does it by being angry at everything around her. It's an inconsiderate dick move, but perhaps she actually realises she went to far and wants to repent, but was to scared to settle it and be the bigger person. She might actually be thinking that the kid needs grandparents, putting aside her pride and shame and offering an apology dinner.
That said if that is true she's still a spineless person, and she should crawl through the dirt to apologize. But if op managed to set aside emotion and allow one chance, she'd be able to find out if the buthole is actually sorry. (although I don't judge the chances high, and we don't have enough circumstantial details to judge if she might be sincere).
I still don't think anybody should be treated like that, but irrationality is a weird thing that I will never fully be able to master and comprehend.
@@Olav_Hansen sorry but I canât agree!! Yeah people grieve in different ways, but there are limits!!! What the mil said to the mother in the funeral, can NEVER be forgiven!! Is totally unforgettable and horrible!!! She doesnât deserve a chance!!! Itâs the kind of thing that is unforgivable!!!
@@talitafranco7230the problem saying that there's things that are unforgivable is that you should be able to rate every action on severity. But things rate way different for different people. Unforgivable is usually the word people give to things beyond THEIR OWN ability to forgive. Which would mean that if they themselves were a better person they could forgive them if the other was truly sorry and repenting.
Still, even when you offer the chance, they still have to deserve it.
Wishing you a seamless pregnancy and healthy baby.
@@amberhasanaccount Thank you so much
I don't think I've ever heard r/slash more upset than the ending of this video
Remember that line: "She wants to apologize in front of everyone." Nearly 2 years later, and MIL still needs the attention on her.
Becky is literally Pokémon-style evolving into Karen.
Lol now I can't not see that! Thanks, I hope you are having a good day
I wonder if she is having an issue with her marriage.
Iâm like 151 on a PokĂ©mon comment, lol
God I feel bad for Kurt having to put up with Becky all the time.
Your Karen is evolving! Your Karen has just become a Entitled Mother!
There are certain people when you mess with kids have the attitude of âmay God have mercy on your soul, cause I wonâtâ.
I think rslash just proved he was one of those people.
if i was op of the last story idve decided that if the husband wants to be around his mom so much he can have her back in his life, i just wont be anymore, honestly if it was my family and my mom said that to my wife you can bet your ass id physically throw her out, like literally lift her up and toss her out the friggin door and tell her to go to hell
And I agree with him. I'm far from being the best father my kids deserve, but if anyone tried to disrespect or hurt any of them, God, Satan, and John Wick, with all their powers combined, wouldn't be able to save that person from wrath, and consequences be damned.
Papa rSlash vibes in that last story is the most wholesome thing I've heard in a while.
I am sick with a fever and have the chills, but rslash swearing gave me a whole different kind of chills
In the story about Tara all I was thinking was what type of person do you have to be to have beef with a five-year-old đ
An innocent 5 year old child!!
This Tara is definitely an asshole (5/5), she will definitely not be inviting the child to birthdays, Christmas's and other family get togethers. And she won't stop until that child is ostracised from the family. @rSlash is a 2/5 asshole for agreeing that the son has to pay for the father's sins.
parents : WE'RE HELPING YOUR SISTER GROW UP!!
also parents : _screams when they realise the sister is saving money while having a rent experience away from home_
@elf twentyfive damn, that's awful. i hope you're doing better now.
that f bomb gave me actual chills. it was something i wasnt expecting. you can tell its genuine. hope youre doing alright slash, and i hope the little one is doing well!
I'm sure that everything you had to say about the story about the family of the child lost to CHD would mean A LOT to the mother, and everyone involved on her side. Thank you for being so kind.
Massive props to the teenage swim coach - passing on your skills and teaching other kids to swim when you could be doing whatever 15 year olds do is admirable.
I think they do a drug called Toktik.
The stutter when RSlash's anger started to boil over scared the crap out of me-
"You can't swim in the pool where someone died. Oh, and someone died in an accident, so you can't drive on this road. And people die in hospitals, you can't go there either."
My sister died at age 3, and I saw what it did to my parents, she was born with a defect and it was noones fault, she choked in her sleep and passes peacefully, listening to that last one made me clench my fists, the amount of DISRESPECT that mother has is unbelievable.
R/: *drops an f bomb on a 5/5 story*
Literally everyone: *MASS CHAOS ENSUES*
Now that is an avenger level threat.
The vitriol in r/Slash's voice during that last post is legitimately terrifying. Never have I felt threatened by CZcams video, and have no connection to anything from it.
Goes to show how serious it is.
The way he said fhucc was heavy
Yeah, was not expecting that... but completely justified and understandable.
Dude caught me hella off guard when he dropped the F bomb. Actually terrified me a little lol
That's the first video in the 2 years of the channel where I've heard rslash drop the f bomb. That must have really hit a nerve
i felt him when he said "My Focking life"
U KNOW THEY GETTING A 5 / 5 RATING IF HE SWARES AND DOESNâT BLEEP IT OUT
XD
Are we all just going to ignore the fact that RSLASH swore it was the best thing ever he has turned into a papa bear đ»
I WAS NOT expecting that and it hit like a load of bricks. I was listening in my car and I felt the sheer MALICE behind it in my chest lol. Hardcore đ
Some people use the f word five times a sentence and it doesn't mean anything but when someone who usually never swears says it it hits you like a truck
mind seriously blown!
Yo you could hear the anger in his voice like.......wow-
Why do people care if he cursed?
RSlash is always so compassionate and I adore it when he rants or tells a part of his past to show how much it means, that âfuckingâ was just chilling
Tera won't have a new nephew, this is clearly a power-play to exclude him from the family.
you know Rslash is mad when he swears and doesn't bleep it. actual goosebumps, he's gonna be a great daddy
You know things are serious when rSlash drops the f-bomb on his own accord.
If my pregnant daughter-in-law was giving me s*** about our plans I say okay I'm going to tell everybody that you don't want them to go on vacation because you're pregnant and we'll see how popular you are after that.
I'd cancel her invitation entirely
Wouldnt it be funny if the daughter in law went to r/aita and asked if she is an ah for forcing to ban something because she's pregnant when mil actually listened and told others why? Lolll
I can understand the desire for her to be included in activities. But there is a right way to express that desire, and there is a wrong way to express that desire. What pregnant DIL should have done is sugguest activities for everyone to enjoy. What she also should have done is to think about ways to integrate herself in those activities planed, instead of "forbidding" them. She isn't allowed to drink alcohol? Then she should have asked, if everything for mixing virgin cocktails could be bought as well, and she could happily join the party with a virging colada in her hands.
I know there was a time that my sister was getting rightly frustrated because my family kept planning events that she could only half attend. And let me elaborate to an extreme, going to an amusement park where the only amusement are the rides. So she'd be able to go, but can't participate. (though we didn't do this, but somewhat similar).
I remember asking my family to think more about my sister when we plan things. Because not only was she pregnant, but she was, and still is, the only sibling with two other kids. There was a time when my family planned events on Saturday, at the exact times that I worked, so I could never attend and it hurt. I didn't want the same to happen to my sister.
During that time we adjusted activities some to make sure she had something she could do with us. Even now, with her having kids, we have to be considerate and plan things ahead rather being as spontaneous as we are. And, I mean, that's just being a decent human being.
The reason I say all this is because my sister appreciates that we recognized the issue and will always find something for her. She can't/couldn't always participate in all planned activities, but she'd never be left out and shoved to the side. (We are going to tye die shirts next!! Her kids will love it).
The woman in the post doesn't seem to realize she can't be there for everything. That she'll have to pick and choose what she can, and that there will be many more vacations there after this. Ones where her kid will be older and both of them will get to go on adventures with the family.
Yeah I totally understand my sister-in-law's actually pregnant with her second kid and she doesn't mind that she's not drinking she's just more concerned about the baby than anyting. Right now we don't know if she has coronavirus or regular flu which is scary
you know hes serious when an f bomb gets thrown out
Go to the apology dinner. Tell grandma that she'll never see the child and that she's going to rot in hell. Spit in the gravy and leave
Oh my... the last one. Me and my husband got so angry đ€Ż And he said: I would come to the dinner, listen for apologies and then say in a calm tone âI came here just to say in front everyone, that I donât forgive you and you will never ever see your grandkid.â Then leave.
And I love that answer.đ
I would never forgive her. Ever.
Iâd ask her if Iâd be a bad mother if my second baby died. Then flip her off and walk out
Rslash is way off on the wedding. As he says, now that sheâs marrying the brother, she has a nephew. She canât expect him to be excluded from family events, including ones she and her husband host. She just has to learn to deal, and this needs to be nipped in the bud now. (Edit: OP definitely needs to stand his ground and not go. This is a hill to die on.)
Damn straight! He absolutely should choose this hill to die on! If this bridezilla gets her way, that boy will never be allowed to come to any family functions ever again. Itâs absolutely unfair to that poor 5 year old child. It's not like he got to choose who his mother was.
Damn that last "fucking" was intense lol. It caught me off guard.
Rslash swearing gaved me chills! You know you messed up when he curses!
When RSlash curses without censoring himself, you know he means business, lads
The content sucks now. He doesn't do revenge anymore and whag he does is stolen from other reddit accounts
@@MrNbdyCrs what blyat
@@MrNbdyCrs how tf is he stealing reddit posts
That gave me chills.
I just heard that and im a bit shocked but ots justified
You know itâs serious when Rslash sacrifices an entire videoâs monetization just to prove a point
If Tara excludes the nephew now, what stops her from forever excluding him from future gatherings, holidays, reunions??? Tara should get 2 for being incredibly petty. Husband/brother should get 1 for being a weenie and not standing up for his nephew
Agreed
Wait a pool party... Then how was the kid not saved in time? Somethings up, either the parents were drinking or just not paying attention to their own kids?