This is the reason why you shouldn't have "crushes". If possible, as soon as you meet the person, you should make your intentions clear, and if they don't like you, you're at the place you started. Better than waiting weeks, months for the other person. If you're gonna get rejected, at least make sure you didn't waste your time.
Yes absolutely right..the worst thing is being friends with your crush for decent amount of time and then getting rejected or ignored at some stage of life..they wont bother leaving you as for them , you were just a friend. That is why just do a little bit of friendship and make your intentions clear instead of building deep connection and even if they reject you its fine..never ever be good or close friends with someone you like..
Master Shock Value I really like this guy so much but he doesn't like me back took me a long time to realise he didn't like me because when we spent time together (which wasn't often)I thought we had a connection but I think it was only on my side 🙈 then I started imagining perfect scenarios in my head and I think it made me like him even more even tho he wasn't that nice to me and most of the time he made me feel sad so I hope I meet someone else who actually treats me nicely in reality
parisryan you're a beautiful person, he probably didn't even deserve a girl like you, just keep looking and one day you will find someone who will truly love you .
The best way to get over your crush is to be happy for her or him that she’s happy without you or with someone else. You love her so that means you want her to be happy so accept the fact that her happiness may not include you. You don’t always get everything you desire in life. Be patient and humble, do your work, smile a lot and be happy and one day you’ll succeed in your pursuit of love and happiness.
What advice would you give to someone that doesnt like you back that lead you on and acted like they had feelings for you, but then decided they wanted nothing to do with you?
War & Remembrance sounds like that would be messing with someone's feelings in my opinion which is fucked up. I'd say fuck that person but whatever you decide.
War & Remembrance dude that just happened to me and I say just stay in the moral high ground. They clearly have their own issues and you don’t need to be a part of them.
That happened to me just recently and it crushed me I recommend you find someone who you know would never do that or just maybe just love yourself for a awhile. I know it's hard in still trying to do that myself but things will get better
Brooooo this is what EXACTLY happened to me it’s horrible because u just still have that hope in your head that they still have feelings for u and u just can’t tell if they do or not or they are playing some game and it hurts baddddd because u think u put them off u!!!
You’ve got a good heart, you’ve got value. Move on with confidence and understand that their rejection is a projection of something going on inside of them. Has more to do with them than you. So go on about your badass self.
That's so right, of course if you love someone you're gonna picture marrying them, dating them, and all that extra stuff. That's why I hate getting my hopes up. Thanks for this.
Thank you so much. This video made me no longer have a crush on a boy who doesn't like me back. It was a huge crush, since early october of 2017. Thank. You.
Never had I thought I would watch this video but I guess it's life, no matter how much I try to impress, love and care for a special girl I love more than anything she won't even respond to my texts, it's okay all I want is her to be happy in life and whenever she needs me I will still be there for her :(
Man I really needed this I knew your video was gonna help me feel better it just blows when they don’t like you back like you just feel down like a bummer
I’m confused because I’ve liked her forever and I know her flaws but I like them and I just still can’t get over the fact that she doesn’t like me anymore
If you have a crush on someone who likes to flirt with everyone, even if you got together, he would still be flirting with others and perhaps cheating on you, if he was the type that crosses that line.
There’s this girl on my bus and I didn’t like her but recently I had a dream where we like sorta loved each other and now I have a crush on here and I hate it ARGHHH
I had a crush at high school once , a cute girl. we always used to bump into each other every day, at first I thought it was coincidence, but then it started to become obvious when I caught her staring at me once, but I ignored which I knew I had the opportunity but I let my anxiety get the best of me at that moment. Another day I was standing with my Friends around the cafeteria. & I saw her going to get lunch with of friend of hers, me well I got nervous & I turned back to back & acted like I didn't noticed her, then when I decided to turn around & see if she was still their. she was a block away from me standing the same direction like i was back to back also, but I walked away like a coward couldn't approach because of her friend looking at me, me thinking negative that her friend could probably be saying something wrong about me. I knew I lost the opportunity at that moment also, & finally the last moment of me having the final opportunity was that I was standing in the front of the school getting ready to get picked up by my bus, & i noticed her walking with her friend passing by me, & I stared but she didn't so she walked around the building where I was & she ended up walking around me twice which I felt pretty nervous about, that was the last time I ever saw her though hurts that I had an opportunity & I failed. She was the type of girl I would've loved to get to know & spend time with but I didn't man up. & feel awful about it still.
@@yayo4099 Now I own a music studio and Im in love with life! Obviously I have some bad days but I can control it now. And I almost overdosed on benzos and ketamine a couple times, it made me stop doing it. I met new people and followed my goals. Thanks for asking, much love 💞
I found this also applies if you have a mutually healthy relationship because we all are sinful and flawed and sometimes mutual compatibility, respect, honesty, love and values, and chemistry doesn’t always work out before marriage and that’s ok. The worst would be if you are already married and decide to divorce and remarry. I had to learn this the hard way but it remains fact - Divorce and remarriage is violence, treachery and adultery. Don’t divorce and remarry, it will destroy you and others involved eternally in the long run.
The way I found out is my boy best friend, who’s cool with my crush told my crush through messages that I like him, and he said he could tell because it was obvious. he said lm pretty and all but he’s just not attracted to me because I’m not his type. He showed me the messages and I just felt kinda depressed the whole day because I never had feelings for someone the way I have for him, and it’s like I would see myself with him in the future because it seems we have that chemistry (we’ve known each other since like kindergarten and we’re high school seniors now). I like him so much that I literally would talk to God about him and everything, and me and my crush have been talking recently because we work together. Its just so unexpected that he doesn’t like me and it’s so upsetting that my heart literally hurts. I don’t wanna give up because I feel like we have something there/potential, but idk.
After what I though were signs that she liked me, I took a chance 18 days ago. I had a co-worker find out my crush's situation: not married and no boyfriend. After asking my crush what she was doing after work and she said nothing, I asked her out for dinner. She said she couldn't do dinner that night, but said that we would do lunch sometime. I figured if she had nothing to do as she said, that she just wasn't interested in me and was being nice; I figured if she were interested, she would have made time. So I didn't want to push the lunch thing so I have just been keeping distance between us. I made up my mind I wasn't going to chase her and I kind of wanted to give her some space just to see what might happen. I don't know her situation; she might have just broken up with someone or a million other possibilities. Even though I don't want to get her out of my mind, I have been trying to keep busy just trying to have a life of some sort even though it's not the life I want. It's hard to not keep thinking about the little things about her that attracted me in the first place. Who knows?
I recognize your situation. But Im a male attracted to a woman I spoke to a few times and tried to approaching her for like many moments. Once I tried to ask for her number and atleast trying to be friend with her but Im feeling she pushing me back on the spot always. She ignored me several times and I always thinking what I have done wrong and that lead to I that I thought by caughting her attention by impressing her but I feeling like totally loser amd pathetic after it. I used to everytime I go home, go by her work because that is the only way home. I can take another ways but then I need walk another round home instead. Please anyone explain to me and give me advice what I need to do to when I see her and get over her easily. I would really appricate it 🙏🙏🙏🙏
I’m always so conflicted because my crush gives me some signs that he likes me but then he never talks to me and he didn’t let me follow him on insta but I can’t get the thought out of my head that he might like me
Are you sure he is single? I am in a similar situation and turns out my crush us (happily) married. You never know bc some don't wear their rings all the time. You can def like and even have real feelings for someone besides being taken. Some men want both, some just want the fantasy, the flirting. Maybe that's why he doesn't want you to look at his personal IG. But I know it's hard to get over it
Anny yeah, I don’t like him anymore because he is an absolute dick. I was so blinded by how much I liked him and his looks that I never really noticed how much of a douche he really is. And, one of my friends dated him and can verify that he is the rudest, cockiest person you’ll ever know. I’m finally over him now and I don’t really like anyone because everyone in my school that I’ve met has a bad personality. I’m going to high school next year so I’ll have different people then.
Worst thing for me is that I'm straight, I had a crush on a girl and I got rejected so many times from multiple girls that I've questioned my sexuality and even my gender (I've never felt the gender thing before which is why its weird and I'm 17)
1- it's their list 2- don't approach a girl before you test the water,and see if she likes you or not 3- I suspect that you look after a certain type of girls,the ones who are narcissists and full of them self.so next time look after a nice one . 4-look good and happy not messy and depressed
You know what real embarrassment is ? Being a best friend with a girl , asking her weekly that why doesn't she like you and her only response is " I just like you as a friend " and you're just being needy etc. But then you realize that you have to face her the whole year knowing that she rejected you multiple times
So I need advice : my crush knows I like him , when he found out he said that he liked someone else and I know he wasn’t lying : that was a year ago : well now , a year later , I will be doing something and turn around and see him looking at me or I will look at him and notice he’s already looking at me , yet I still don’t think he likes me. Another thing, We’re friends on social media but he never likes any of my posts but he likes everyone else’s aka my friends and other people. Mixed signals here so please please please help
Aurianna Castor number one thing is: trust your gut feeling. Your brain will try to make up stuff and will force you to hold on to false hope that he might be the slightest into to you. But if ur gut is saying he doesn’t like you, then trust it. I’m warning you ahead of time, don’t be too involved with him. If he really likes you, then you will know. You will only get yourself hurt. I’ve had this happen to me twice. The first one, I felt something but at the same time I didn’t and I held onto false hope and he likes my friends pics but not mine but at the same time tagged me in photos and captioning ‘thanks to all these ppl who made it a great year’. He was nice, flirty(he’s a natural flirt) but he ended up liking my best friend. I didn’t tell her about him though which turned out to be a good thing cuz now they’re dating. My second one was earlier this year actually. He kept staring at me in class and I noticed cuz I obviously liked him. In the halls, he would try and walk next to me so we could start a convo. He seemed excited and into and for our conversations. He did a lot of double takes when walking past me. He was shy and just plain adorable lol. So as he went off to college, I decided to in a way confessed basically. And even though I’m still in the process of things right now, I’m 98% sure he is only just a nice guy. I think the only reason he texts me cuz he was just being nice and wasn’t bold enough to reject even though I said ‘you can say no I would understand’. So I’ve been crying every other night and I miss him a lot cuz he was kinda my first big crush and first whom I build the courage to confess to. He was a lot of what I had hoped for. But as I’m in the process of getting over it, I’ve come to realize that, I created a fantasy of me and him more than I do talking to him and getting to know him more. I barely got to talk to him, I was too afraid to get close, so I imagined every scenarios in my head and I build ‘us’ up too much that he himself couldn’t possibly live up to it. When we text a month after I ‘confessed’, it felt like he was texting me cuz it was a chore instead of wanting to text me. I became obsessed and practically stalking him through social media and the internet. I know it sounds creepy but this is what me and other girls go through. I set him up on a pedestal. 2 months into my broken heart healing zone, I’ve come to know that he is just a normal flawed human being. Look at the bigger picture and when time has gone by, I will eventually simply let go. But I still miss him as of right now and stuff but I think I’m getting better. I know that was a long thing for you to read if you read this at all. And I also know that was probably more than you asked, but I guess what I’m trying to say is: just be careful with who you entrust your heart with. I’m not talking about tiny cuz he’s hot crushes but I’m talking about the ones that can physically give u a heartache when he doesn’t love you back crush. Listen to your gut and I mean it when I say that. And when you do get hurt, look at the bigger picture and time does heal. But if he does like you and what your gut said was correct, congrats girl. That is rare and you should be proud and may you guys be together forever and be filled with joy. ❤️💓
But even if this crush that didn't like you back was "a human being with flaws", then so would be the right girl. Nobody is perfect. Your soulmate would have their flaws, too. Either way, you can't really have *everything* that you desire in someone. You'll never be with a girl that ticks every box. This is the hassle and annoyance of dating, relationships, having crushes and asking girls out. Just a hell of a lot of more trouble than they're worth, really.
Hi what do i do if i still have feelings for my crush but if my crush does not have no feelings for me at all but stares at me sometimes. How do i ik if he doesn't like me at all but stares at me sometimes?
Well i needed this, he was an ex coworker and we actually slept together a few times. Then he suddenly became cold yet would randomly flirt with me but then become cold again like the very next day, cancel plans and never re scheduled anything. sucks because im a all or nothing person, i don't flip flopping so it was a blow to my ego but i like a dumb ass still liked him. I swear I would not talk to him however i sent him a message last night which he just left on read. Sucks but fuck that shit, i don't deserve to be played like that. He was a fckboi
Bro I have mix feelings for this girl I don't want to forget her but nor she knows that I love her and she is 10 years older than me and she is my teacher can u tell me how to make her love me
Royal IaTom first how old are you? Over 18? If not, your teacher can get in alot of trouble even jail time. If you are in college, she ethically cannot date you while you are her student. Hopefully you do not wish to see her in jail and you leave her alone. If you are both adults, when she is no longer your teacher, you are free to ask her out.
Right on the money about the daydreaming scenarios, I'm more in love with the thought than the person. Which is kinda depressing ,but i got over it ,stupid gyn crush. Only problem i have now is I don't think any women like me.
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the hardest thing about a crush that reject you, is you think it hope that maybe they will eventually like you, but in reality they will never
SAME WITH ME FOR 1 FUCKING YEAR OF HOPE
3 year gang
1 year now :\
@@irecon-_516 5 year gang, yh i know i actually wasted 5 years to actually try
@@skbnzo damn man sorry to hear
This is the reason why you shouldn't have "crushes". If possible, as soon as you meet the person, you should make your intentions clear, and if they don't like you, you're at the place you started. Better than waiting weeks, months for the other person. If you're gonna get rejected, at least make sure you didn't waste your time.
This just happened to me :(
This Is pure wisdom.
Pharoah M you have been lied too so as society and movies. Tell your parents that this isn’t the 90’s or 80’s anymore
Yes absolutely right..the worst thing is being friends with your crush for decent amount of time and then getting rejected or ignored at some stage of life..they wont bother leaving you as for them , you were just a friend. That is why just do a little bit of friendship and make your intentions clear instead of building deep connection and even if they reject you its fine..never ever be good or close friends with someone you like..
Omg this is so me right now 🙈.. My imagination really got the better of me..I really hope I get over him soon ...
Master Shock Value I really like this guy so much but he doesn't like me back took me a long time to realise he didn't like me because when we spent time together (which wasn't often)I thought we had a connection but I think it was only on my side 🙈 then I started imagining perfect scenarios in my head and I think it made me like him even more even tho he wasn't that nice to me and most of the time he made me feel sad so I hope I meet someone else who actually treats me nicely in reality
parisryan you're a beautiful person, he probably didn't even deserve a girl like you, just keep looking and one day you will find someone who will truly love you .
Banana Nation awww thank you !
DreamBeatsBakery thank you ! Same goes for you I'm sure the right girl is out there for you !
Same here =/ feels bad buddy
Why does my heart keep choosing the wrong people 😥
Snap
What's it called when you're crush has a crush on you?
*Imagination*
The best way to get over your crush is to be happy for her or him that she’s happy without you or with someone else. You love her so that means you want her to be happy so accept the fact that her happiness may not include you. You don’t always get everything you desire in life. Be patient and humble, do your work, smile a lot and be happy and one day you’ll succeed in your pursuit of love and happiness.
Just let it go immediately. Even if you get it , may not last anyway
What advice would you give to someone that doesnt like you back that lead you on and acted like they had feelings for you, but then decided they wanted nothing to do with you?
War & Remembrance sounds like that would be messing with someone's feelings in my opinion which is fucked up. I'd say fuck that person but whatever you decide.
War & Remembrance dude that just happened to me and I say just stay in the moral high ground. They clearly have their own issues and you don’t need to be a part of them.
That happened to me just recently and it crushed me I recommend you find someone who you know would never do that or just maybe just love yourself for a awhile. I know it's hard in still trying to do that myself but things will get better
Brooooo this is what EXACTLY happened to me it’s horrible because u just still have that hope in your head that they still have feelings for u and u just can’t tell if they do or not or they are playing some game and it hurts baddddd because u think u put them off u!!!
Sam Nolan women do that often to gain non sexual attention. Attention is their currency so just don’t give it to her
You’ve got a good heart, you’ve got value. Move on with confidence and understand that their rejection is a projection of something going on inside of them. Has more to do with them than you. So go on about your badass self.
Also you must understand they might have already have their eyes on someone else and you don't want to be that girl who intervenes with a couple.
Can you speak louder next time? I can’t hear you over my girlish sobbing.
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My crush doesn't like me
That's so right, of course if you love someone you're gonna picture marrying them, dating them, and all that extra stuff. That's why I hate getting my hopes up. Thanks for this.
This one really hit home. Time to make some changes. Thank you.
I hate how angry I get when my crush doesn’t like me back
Thank u for this. I’m setting my crush aside and keeping my mind open.
The problem I have is that I know their just like everyone else and have flaws but I just see past all of them.
This popped up at the right time. Thanks man
Thank you for keeping your video concise and to the point. Other videos are unnecessarily longwinded.
You are the best! Concise and right to the point 👏👏 Thank you so so much!!
Extremely good advice! I’m currently going through this right now and will try my hardest to think this way. Thanks for the vid!
....Yeah but he did liked me back...but I had my head so far in my ass that I was to scared to talk him and now he's gone
What do you mean you were scared to talk to him? Did you like panic and scare him off?
I'm the same way, I Don't know what to say him when I do talk him
Same.
Usually these type of videos I take with a grain of salt but this actually works.
Thanks man so much. Really needed to hear this
I need to breathe this. Best video so far!
It's been a year still haven't gotten over her😭
Fuck that bitch
Damn I hope it doesn't take that long🥴 I already set my internal hearts timer to six months lol
Thank you so much. This video made me no longer have a crush on a boy who doesn't like me back. It was a huge crush, since early october of 2017. Thank. You.
Never had I thought I would watch this video but I guess it's life, no matter how much I try to impress, love and care for a special girl I love more than anything she won't even respond to my texts, it's okay all I want is her to be happy in life and whenever she needs me I will still be there for her :(
thank you for taking the time to make videos like this : )
Needed to hear this. thank you.
This has helped me so much. Thank you
Thank God for this guy
This video needs to go viral
your a genius i love your content man.
This was a great talk you have to face the reality
Man I really needed this I knew your video was gonna help me feel better it just blows when they don’t like you back like you just feel down like a bummer
Yup I've been feeling not good enough for 3 years
Ngl this vid helps me so much, so thanks
Thanks man, u made me feel a lot better xoxo
you're right. thank you.
I’m confused because I’ve liked her forever and I know her flaws but I like them and I just still can’t get over the fact that she doesn’t like me anymore
Everything is not what it seems same goes to people.
True thank you !
Keep it up my man👍👍
Spot on!
If you have a crush on someone who likes to flirt with everyone, even if you got together, he would still be flirting with others and perhaps cheating on you, if he was the type that crosses that line.
this ist so helpful
I feel you dawg...
Thank you
There’s this girl on my bus and I didn’t like her but recently I had a dream where we like sorta loved each other and now I have a crush on here and I hate it ARGHHH
Very true
I had a crush at high school once , a cute girl. we always used to bump into each other every day, at first I thought it was coincidence, but then it started to become obvious when I caught her staring at me once, but I ignored which I knew I had the opportunity but I let my anxiety get the best of me at that moment. Another day I was standing with my Friends around the cafeteria. & I saw her going to get lunch with of friend of hers, me well I got nervous & I turned back to back & acted like I didn't noticed her, then when I decided to turn around & see if she was still their. she was a block away from me standing the same direction like i was back to back also, but I walked away like a coward couldn't approach because of her friend looking at me, me thinking negative that her friend could probably be saying something wrong about me. I knew I lost the opportunity at that moment also, & finally the last moment of me having the final opportunity was that I was standing in the front of the school getting ready to get picked up by my bus, & i noticed her walking with her friend passing by me, & I stared but she didn't so she walked around the building where I was & she ended up walking around me twice which I felt pretty nervous about, that was the last time I ever saw her though hurts that I had an opportunity & I failed. She was the type of girl I would've loved to get to know & spend time with but I didn't man up. & feel awful about it still.
The worst part is that I never talked to her, cuz she never showed any interest in talking to me. So I don't even know why doesn't she like me back.
Love is so beautiful that I've been without sleeping for a week. 3 years and I can't get over her, I'm hopeless at this point.
Are you good now?
@@yayo4099 Now I own a music studio and Im in love with life! Obviously I have some bad days but I can control it now.
And I almost overdosed on benzos and ketamine a couple times, it made me stop doing it.
I met new people and followed my goals.
Thanks for asking, much love 💞
@@nora96780 I'm so proud of you. Life is like a rollercoaster. I'm struggling now, but I know there will be better days soon enough
I found this also applies if you have a mutually healthy relationship because we all are sinful and flawed and sometimes mutual compatibility, respect, honesty, love and values, and chemistry doesn’t always work out before marriage and that’s ok. The worst would be if you are already married and decide to divorce and remarry. I had to learn this the hard way but it remains fact - Divorce and remarriage is violence, treachery and adultery. Don’t divorce and remarry, it will destroy you and others involved eternally in the long run.
The way I found out is my boy best friend, who’s cool with my crush told my crush through messages that I like him, and he said he could tell because it was obvious. he said lm pretty and all but he’s just not attracted to me because I’m not his type. He showed me the messages and I just felt kinda depressed the whole day because I never had feelings for someone the way I have for him, and it’s like I would see myself with him in the future because it seems we have that chemistry (we’ve known each other since like kindergarten and we’re high school seniors now). I like him so much that I literally would talk to God about him and everything, and me and my crush have been talking recently because we work together. Its just so unexpected that he doesn’t like me and it’s so upsetting that my heart literally hurts. I don’t wanna give up because I feel like we have something there/potential, but idk.
they are called crushes because they crush your dreams
I love you.
Its frustrating when I've given everything a chance but i still can't get over her even after almost 2 years lol
what does it mean if your crush likes everybody else's (even my friends) posts on social media (instagram) but never mine
Your crush cares about you too much ? I guess. If so, that is great. Just act cool, move on. She/He will come to you.
Yeah I have the same problem but we barely know each other
still hurts alot
like alot
god.
I realised my crush only talks to people he can benefit from .... status, hairlength, skin colour is his benchmark.... sad he's now 50😵
I found out today that my crush deosnt like me, I asked her friend and she was like yeah she’s not into you.
After what I though were signs that she liked me, I took a chance 18 days ago. I had a co-worker find out my crush's situation: not married and no boyfriend. After asking my crush what she was doing after work and she said nothing, I asked her out for dinner. She said she couldn't do dinner that night, but said that we would do lunch sometime. I figured if she had nothing to do as she said, that she just wasn't interested in me and was being nice; I figured if she were interested, she would have made time. So I didn't want to push the lunch thing so I have just been keeping distance between us. I made up my mind I wasn't going to chase her and I kind of wanted to give her some space just to see what might happen. I don't know her situation; she might have just broken up with someone or a million other possibilities. Even though I don't want to get her out of my mind, I have been trying to keep busy just trying to have a life of some sort even though it's not the life I want. It's hard to not keep thinking about the little things about her that attracted me in the first place. Who knows?
You should try again asking her out..girl usually never agrees the first time..
I recognize your situation. But Im a male attracted to a woman I spoke to a few times and tried to approaching her for like many moments. Once I tried to ask for her number and atleast trying to be friend with her but Im feeling she pushing me back on the spot always. She ignored me several times and I always thinking what I have done wrong and that lead to I that I thought by caughting her attention by impressing her but I feeling like totally loser amd pathetic after it. I used to everytime I go home, go by her work because that is the only way home. I can take another ways but then I need walk another round home instead. Please anyone explain to me and give me advice what I need to do to when I see her and get over her easily.
I would really appricate it 🙏🙏🙏🙏
I’m always so conflicted because my crush gives me some signs that he likes me but then he never talks to me and he didn’t let me follow him on insta but I can’t get the thought out of my head that he might like me
Are you sure he is single? I am in a similar situation and turns out my crush us (happily) married. You never know bc some don't wear their rings all the time. You can def like and even have real feelings for someone besides being taken. Some men want both, some just want the fantasy, the flirting. Maybe that's why he doesn't want you to look at his personal IG. But I know it's hard to get over it
Anny yeah, I don’t like him anymore because he is an absolute dick. I was so blinded by how much I liked him and his looks that I never really noticed how much of a douche he really is. And, one of my friends dated him and can verify that he is the rudest, cockiest person you’ll ever know. I’m finally over him now and I don’t really like anyone because everyone in my school that I’ve met has a bad personality. I’m going to high school next year so I’ll have different people then.
I’ve had crushes 3 times and none of them liked me back. What am I doing wrong?
Look in the mirror , you'll see what's wrong lmao. Sorry😂
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AddyLytical ur rude af
Will Rebound relationships fail ? she seems to do fine with his new bf wtf so fast ? HELP MAKE A VIDEO OF THIS PLZ
Worst thing for me is that I'm straight, I had a crush on a girl and I got rejected so many times from multiple girls that I've questioned my sexuality and even my gender (I've never felt the gender thing before which is why its weird and I'm 17)
1- it's their list
2- don't approach a girl before you test the water,and see if she likes you or not
3- I suspect that you look after a certain type of girls,the ones who are narcissists and full of them self.so next time look after a nice one .
4-look good and happy not messy and depressed
For me, it's not so much that she doesn't like me, but I have to see her for the first time at school since she rejected me. It's embarrassment.
You know what real embarrassment is ? Being a best friend with a girl , asking her weekly that why doesn't she like you and her only response is " I just like you as a friend " and you're just being needy etc. But then you realize that you have to face her the whole year knowing that she rejected you multiple times
So I need advice : my crush knows I like him , when he found out he said that he liked someone else and I know he wasn’t lying : that was a year ago : well now , a year later , I will be doing something and turn around and see him looking at me or I will look at him and notice he’s already looking at me , yet I still don’t think he likes me. Another thing, We’re friends on social media but he never likes any of my posts but he likes everyone else’s aka my friends and other people. Mixed signals here so please please please help
Aurianna Castor number one thing is: trust your gut feeling. Your brain will try to make up stuff and will force you to hold on to false hope that he might be the slightest into to you. But if ur gut is saying he doesn’t like you, then trust it. I’m warning you ahead of time, don’t be too involved with him. If he really likes you, then you will know. You will only get yourself hurt. I’ve had this happen to me twice. The first one, I felt something but at the same time I didn’t and I held onto false hope and he likes my friends pics but not mine but at the same time tagged me in photos and captioning ‘thanks to all these ppl who made it a great year’. He was nice, flirty(he’s a natural flirt) but he ended up liking my best friend. I didn’t tell her about him though which turned out to be a good thing cuz now they’re dating. My second one was earlier this year actually. He kept staring at me in class and I noticed cuz I obviously liked him. In the halls, he would try and walk next to me so we could start a convo. He seemed excited and into and for our conversations. He did a lot of double takes when walking past me. He was shy and just plain adorable lol. So as he went off to college, I decided to in a way confessed basically. And even though I’m still in the process of things right now, I’m 98% sure he is only just a nice guy. I think the only reason he texts me cuz he was just being nice and wasn’t bold enough to reject even though I said ‘you can say no I would understand’. So I’ve been crying every other night and I miss him a lot cuz he was kinda my first big crush and first whom I build the courage to confess to. He was a lot of what I had hoped for. But as I’m in the process of getting over it, I’ve come to realize that, I created a fantasy of me and him more than I do talking to him and getting to know him more. I barely got to talk to him, I was too afraid to get close, so I imagined every scenarios in my head and I build ‘us’ up too much that he himself couldn’t possibly live up to it. When we text a month after I ‘confessed’, it felt like he was texting me cuz it was a chore instead of wanting to text me. I became obsessed and practically stalking him through social media and the internet. I know it sounds creepy but this is what me and other girls go through. I set him up on a pedestal. 2 months into my broken heart healing zone, I’ve come to know that he is just a normal flawed human being. Look at the bigger picture and when time has gone by, I will eventually simply let go. But I still miss him as of right now and stuff but I think I’m getting better. I know that was a long thing for you to read if you read this at all. And I also know that was probably more than you asked, but I guess what I’m trying to say is: just be careful with who you entrust your heart with. I’m not talking about tiny cuz he’s hot crushes but I’m talking about the ones that can physically give u a heartache when he doesn’t love you back crush. Listen to your gut and I mean it when I say that. And when you do get hurt, look at the bigger picture and time does heal. But if he does like you and what your gut said was correct, congrats girl. That is rare and you should be proud and may you guys be together forever and be filled with joy. ❤️💓
But even if this crush that didn't like you back was "a human being with flaws", then so would be the right girl. Nobody is perfect. Your soulmate would have their flaws, too. Either way, you can't really have *everything* that you desire in someone. You'll never be with a girl that ticks every box. This is the hassle and annoyance of dating, relationships, having crushes and asking girls out. Just a hell of a lot of more trouble than they're worth, really.
Hes pissed a guy That idk how he found out he told him and now he is PISSED
Hi what do i do if i still have feelings for my crush but if my crush does not have no feelings for me at all but stares at me sometimes. How do i ik if he doesn't like me at all but stares at me sometimes?
Kasandra Valdes I have the same problem
@@auriannanichole1931 Man these crushes just crush our souls by doing this stuff
Well i needed this, he was an ex coworker and we actually slept together a few times. Then he suddenly became cold yet would randomly flirt with me but then become cold again like the very next day, cancel plans and never re scheduled anything. sucks because im a all or nothing person, i don't flip flopping so it was a blow to my ego but i like a dumb ass still liked him. I swear I would not talk to him however i sent him a message last night which he just left on read. Sucks but fuck that shit, i don't deserve to be played like that. He was a fckboi
he call me yesterday he said he plan to marry me one day
I beg you guys, don't waste your time.
I don't understand the title... Somebody can explain? Thanks
nathalie1749 How to get over someone that doesn't share the same feelings for you as you do for them.
Sgreenenov13 thanks
Bro I have mix feelings for this girl I don't want to forget her but nor she knows that I love her and she is 10 years older than me and she is my teacher can u tell me how to make her love me
Royal IaTom first how old are you? Over 18? If not, your teacher can get in alot of trouble even jail time. If you are in college, she ethically cannot date you while you are her student. Hopefully you do not wish to see her in jail and you leave her alone. If you are both adults, when she is no longer your teacher, you are free to ask her out.
Right on the money about the daydreaming scenarios, I'm more in love with the thought than the person. Which is kinda depressing ,but i got over it ,stupid gyn crush. Only problem i have now is I don't think any women like me.
@@hikhuhvhh7883 yea, ur right plus I'm loosing focus I have to get back to what I was doing before I seen these females.
@@hikhuhvhh7883 yes I'm bout to get on it I need something drastic to help me out.
Bro this girl doesn’t even know me 😔
Fucking feromones