When They Don’t Love You Back | Russell Brand
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- čas přidán 5. 09. 2020
- Unrequited love is one of the most painful feelings, causing huge lows, sadness and a sense of worthlessness. Here is how I see it and hopefully a helpful way for you to work through it if you're currently experiencing this kind of heartbreak.
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You can’t love someone into loving you. Remember this: they lost someone who loved them and you lost someone who didn’t.
I healed from by biggest heartbreak by realizing that it wasn't so much HIM with whom I was in love, as it was that I loved ME as
"All pain is an invitation to burn ego." What an amazing quote.
"Even though I feel really bad now, I will feel better again." Best line ever. Thanks, Russell.
My son was watching Pepe Le Pew as a 5 yr old and said to me "he should find someone that loves him back" 😭 So wise little one!
A man so painfully in love is capable of self torture beyond belief
It just hurts, it hurts so much. I keep telling myself she’ll never love me but I still feel the pain as if it was new every time. All I came pray for is that it will go away with time cuz this is just so agonizing. It’s the most illogical pettiest feeling and yet it hurts so much. I hope one day I can come back and delete this comment to prove it’s gone. Here’s to the future.
you miss great things in your life when you think about someone who doesn't want you
"None of the things you are seeking, are in the other person." This is GOLD
This has really helped me dealing with an unrequited love situation. I want that person so much, but you can't make someone want to be with you. All you can do as Russ alluded to is value yourself, accept it's not going to happen & move on in your life. Wise words mate. Thank you :)
"None of the things you are seeking are in the other person" listened to it 10 times. Because It's nothing but the truth and reality. It's all in our heads and make-believe.
The problem with being in love (or infatuated), is that you never actually fall in love with the real person. You find someone attractive but you may not know them very well or at all, so you project qualities you find attractive onto them. Ultimately, so is often the case, you fall in love with someone almost entirely of your own creation who has little to do with the actual person, and this will inevitably let you down.
Being able to love someone else is the greatest gift we have and I don't care whether its reciprocal or not because that's not the point. It's about you, not them.
No one broke my heart. I broke my own. So, I get this.
"We make other people sacred in the absence of a true relationship with the sacred" 🤯 WOW
We don't fall in love with people for who they are, but who we want them to be.
I should listen to this 100 times
"None of the things you're seeking are in the other person. No matter how much you believe that."
Unrequited love lesson teaches us to love ourself deeply.
“I must have a lot of ego because I experience a lot of pain”