i think about a certain person every day...it hurts me to the core...and i know they dont care about me...i just cant get over it...but this video has helped thank you x
Sometimes when we’re having trouble letting go, there’s a deep seated belief attached. Go inside and look around to see if you’ve got a belief keeping you tethered to the past.
For example, I was stuck terribly on someone. I discovered he “represented” security for me. As long as I saw him as my source of security, I stayed tethered. Ironically, he wasn’t secure at all! My mind had just told me he was. I looked at how secure I already was and the tether broke loose. Sending you love. ~KB
@@KristenBrown am so in love with someone that doesn't want me
And it hurts so much
Thanks for this video
@@cynthiakwawu9388 I feel ya. I've been there myself. I hope this email gave you some hope that your ideal partner is looking for you too. :)
It fucking sux when I did everything gor him and still treated like shit and not good enough to be with me in relationship
guys it’s true! i’m young, attractive with plenty of options yet ive been consistently chasing my ex that broke up with me 5 months ago and he doesn’t even acknowledge my existence and any attempt to get his attention is simply ignored. i know that i am smart and i know that this has been totally embarrassing on my end but i couldn’t stop because i discovered that intellectual intelligence doesn’t equal emotional intelligence. i can sit and analyze all day how bad it is to constantly chase what is rejecting you, but if the foundations within myself aren’t rock solid (i.e true self love) then i’ll find myself continually looking for it outside of myself. i’m in the stage now where ive realized i didn’t love myself like i thought i did and now putting in the work to give myself the love i deserve. some days are harder than others but i know that it must be done in order to move forward, be more secure in myself and attract even better partnerships in the future
Wow! So beautiful said! Thank you for sharing. Sending you much love on your healing journey 🙏🏽💪🏽💕
Tired of being taken for granted and disrespected 😌😌😌😌
I understand completely. The key is to treat ourselves with so much respect and love, others have no choice but to follow suit. 💗🙏🏽
That person is deliberately choosing to not welcome us into their life, therefore he/she simply cannot be our source of love. The previous girl just Ghosted me, and never returned. She showed a lot of interest, but the moment I started suggesting meeting up she just vanished like I was dead to her.
Ghosting is so immature and rude. That’s on her and no reflection of your value 🫶🏽
Redirect your energy on better things, then wasting it on people who wont and dont reciprocate!
Dont waste time on people who wont waste time on you!
This video spoke to me word-for-word. I'm so scared of losing someone who wouldn't even hear my feelings out. All my life has been a chase. And I'm done of that. I owe myself better even if losing someone who meant everything and anything is gone. It hurts like hell. But I'm trying.
As much as it hurts, I can feel your conviction to yourself. Well done. You’re not trying, you’re doing. It takes a minute to heal/release etc but you’ll get there. Sending you so much love
I'm not chasing, I let them go without an argument, but I still want them...😢
That rejection, is my protection. ❤️🤩
Never ever chase....always attract✌️
I re-watch this video everyday as a daily reminder that I don't deserve the scraps, I deserve to receive the same love that I give. Thank you so much for this video, it's really really helpful for me, it's like it was made for me ❤❤❤
How do i start loving myself? I gave myself to someone who took me for granted, so many times. And then in one argument, its all over. I told her if i leave ill never be coming back. She said fine. 😢 I feel so unloved and lost. I did everything, everything to help her, support her through hard times. She is grateful, but not grateful enough to get me back
I never heard of you but as I sat on my patio praying for God to help me release someone that doesn’t feel the same way that I do & this video showed up. I am thankful and glad that I now found your channel. Blessings to you & your efforts.
Omg you literally described my whole situation and how I feel. I`m strongly attached to this guy to the point where I`m obsessed.. I think about him everyday and even dream about him every night. I keep chasing him even though I know nothing will change.
Thank you for this video I really needed it 🙏❤
I understand completely! I had one of those too. You are most welcome and I hope you found some peace. ♥️🫶🏽
I've been chasing my bestie/for buddy for far to long now. 5 years. He doesn't want me for a relationship and I don't know why I keep forgetting that. I felt like you were speaking to me. Thank you. I needed you to speak to me.
I have been with this guy for four years now and he lead me on making me believe we would have something special. I’ve held him down when no one else was there for him and now that he’s getting his self back on track he is giving all of his energy to this new girl. I feel betrayed because I’ve been there for him emotionally and in all aspects. I try to move past the hurt and anger but it’s a challenge. This video was truly helpful and I realize I need to love myself more and move on
I really needed this. I’ve been in love with someone for as long as I can remember and it’s gotten to the point where I begged to be with him or chasing him all the god damn time. It’s like this video was made for me. Thank you thank you so much.
I found you today and appreciate this advice. It was just this morning when I realized once again the person that I care about did not text or call me again this week...of course he will eventually contact me as I have been a total giver ...but this morning, I realized that I had to know my worth and that I should just 'smile and walk away'. This just enforced it for me. Thank you.
Thank you so much. I have been chasing someone as well and end up being treated like a trash and hurting myself. Thank you for the advice.
@Rakib Ahmed You’re worth far more than being treated like trash. Your ideal partner is out there looking for you too. You’ll find each other. Peace to you, KB
Telling it exactly how it is needed to hear this thanks a bunch! Better to be alone than with people who don’t value you.
@Fighting Warrior I’m pleased you found some peace in this video. PS I love your handle 👍🏽😊
I needed this today. You have no idea how your words act as a medicine. How it dig me up from under what is covering, the amazing part of me. Love you Kristen!
I watched this video, I started crying heavily because this is what i feel and what I did and think is exactly what you are saying. I'm glad that i found this thank you very much.
I don't feel sorry for people who chase love. They're too clueless to know when someone doesn't return your love, it's Mother Nature's way of saying that person is not a match.
Holy f, I am so happy that I came across this. You don’t know how much of a impact you are making. I’m only 16 and having a rough time. Thank you for keeping my head up! Keep going!
@Ankie j I’m so happy this helped you! And I especially love that you’re 16 and looking for answers! Im so proud of you! 👏🏽👏🏽♥️
@@KristenBrown thank you so much
All my life I have been forcing people to love me
Even my mother only gives me a little attention when I have money for her
So thank you for this words
I've been there - so glad I loved me more than they did. Time to move on! Love you Kristen!
I needed to hear this. I’m 37 male and never had a girlfriend. Mostly because I lost faith in finding intimacy from women since I had a mom that due to her past never could hug or be affectionate at all. I attracted the few women I did become friends with that would only see me as a funny guy or someone to hang with when no other options were there. I wish I could break the cycle and meet someone that enjoy and values my attention
You can break this cycle! It’s all about healing the programming and limiting beliefs that are holding you back.
I’ve wasted so much time trying to to be everything he wanted for him to only ever limit his love which has left me feeling worthless. It’s time to truly love myself enough to let him go. This video gives me strength and reiterates what I’ve always known in my heart but ignored. Time to love myself❤️
Thank-you for this video.
I’m so pleased it helped. You’re worth so much! I invite you to check out my book where I go in depth about self-love recovery. go.ht/book
I am suffering with unrequited love so I deserve to watch and listen to this video.
I know how hard that is. I hope this video helped even if just a little. 🙏🏽
Its so hurting that you gave everything and in return you got negative vibes. Obsession is not so good...
Thanks for this..
I really and truly needed to here this.
I'm actually a very special individual without even trying.
I've always given more than I've received
i’m trying. 😭 i really am, it’s just so hard because seeing him with someone when it was always supposed to be him and i. it hurts, i’m so so jealous it’s crazy. i don’t know why i put so much of my energy into him and wanting him. he’s all i want though. it’s not fair.
Thank you. You have no idea how much I needed to hear this. Some simple, solid and sobering truths. 🧡🙏🏾
Kristen, thank you sooooooo much. You just described my current situation. I really needed to hear this! Much love to you!
Thank you so so much 💕🙏🏼 I reopened the door for him it’s up to him to walk through but I am not chasing him. Nope!!!
Thank you love for the message.
For two years I took care of a lady who had a bad life but at the end she stopped valuing me and my love n care for her. She had more time for others than for me at all. I sacrificed my own feelings so that she can be okay. But at the end I am being left all alone. I am fighting everyday to get rid of her memories.
I think I should stop doing it.
The hard part was I care about him. I felt so comfortable with him. I never felt that with anyone else.
I come back to this video time and time again, struggling to let go of someone I love who clearly doesn't want me anymore. Sometimes it gets too much, this video comforts and helps me to ground myself again. Thank you x
Thank you for your message. I’m at this place right now. 😔 I’m so ashamed to admit that!
No shame, Amanda. We’re doing the very best we can in each moment. Take a deep breath and remember, your ideal person is looking for you too. 💓
well said Kristen thank you I needed this I made some bad mistakes in my relationship however I am having a good look at my self and making the changes if she wants me then fine but I AM NOT CHASING ANYMORE !!
Needed this AGAIN today! Thank you for being there for me again and again Kristen.
Thanks Kristen. I really needed this video today. I hope 2023 brings you peace and happiness.
Wow, am so touched, as I have been chasing people all my life. I am done. Thank you
Love you Kristen. Thank you again. Sending healing rays to you who are reading this, remember who you are🙏🏻
Wow! You have such a calm, reassuring delivery... This really resonated with me because I've been feeling worthless all my life due to childhood trauma... Thanks for this msg... I'm gonna start with self love!
I so desperately needed to hear you! Thank you so much. I am going through the same situation in life.
I really really needed to hear this today, and it makes just so much sense. Thank you for making me feel more than ‘enough’ x
I needed to hear this desperately...been chasing a friend who never called me....time to move on and start to LOVE myself...thankyou sOOOOO much God bless you🙏❤❤❤🌹
I feel this…… I can’t stop thinking about somebody who made all these promises and hopes to me to just leave me for her ex else SO FAST😿😿 she left to be all happy and stuff and left me miserable and alone and empty.
As a blind person it is very hard to find people who will befriend you. It is very discouraging.
So glad I had this video saved to go back to today. Thanks much AGAIN!
Some very good insights here, thank you! No Serial Killer.
yes great video, thank you! yes its the feling of not being good enough.
I am a Taurus and stubborn lol 😆 you are accurately correct!! It all resonates
I know this was recorded 2 years ago but it came up in my feed today and it is so timely.
Thank you so much. My world feels so upside down since she's left. So heartbroken 💔
This spoke to me deeply. I've absolutely destroyed myself for my love for my boyfriend. I've destroyed myself in every way. Everything you said spoke to me. Thank you again.
I love what you said, it really changed my perception when it comes to chasing someone
I needed this so bad, I’m going through a tough time where I want someone who’s moved on from me and I just can’t get over it :/
I understand more than you can imagine. I’m glad this video helped you. Remember who you are and what you deserve! ♥️
This was a beautiful message!! Thank you , it was perfect timing to hear this ☺️
Thank you Kristen Brown! You opened my eyes to the fact that I'm worth more than "THAT" person was willing to give me! So now it's time to say Goodbye to the one that I was trying to please constantly!!!
Hello, i m from india
This video really touches my soul
I m stuck with my past memories with him
He was not my boy friend or friend , it was like something else, today i met him , he told me he had never given me any hope or commitment, it was my call to staying with him , if i want to be with him i can and if i want to go i can , and it’s totally break my heart i gave alot of efforts to hold him in my life even though he was not even treated me right, he said his life is very busy he has no time for love or marriage,
But the real truth is when you have given alot of efforts and force someone to be with you , begging them for care , love , time in this all journey you lost your self
And i have to learn the lesson that don’t force things if its meant to be it will be yours if its not it will never be yours
Right now its very hard to accept the fact
My mind knows everything but my heart always say stay more
I m really in pain I hope i will be finding my ways ,
Thank you so much for the video ❤️
Thank you for making this video.
Thank you for this video
YOU are amazing!!! Thank you. I am one of your subscribers. I thank the universe in advance to give you a million more! 🎉
You are so kind. Thank you for holding that vision and gratitude! Much love! 🤗
Who chasing who I don't have time to chase unworthy people in my life move on I did
Thank you very much - it was like you were speaking to me directly, like you knew how I felt. The guy I dated over the past months didnt want to progress things, his excuse being that he wasn't able to give the time to me due to work commitments. After having a conversation about it with him a few weeks ago it took my time to move to the point of knowing to move on without even a friendship. He never properly invested in me to build an emotional connection or invested in time to build a relationship. Chemistry/attraction, some similar values, similar backgrounds are not enough. Im really learning from the experience. I have been enjoying my life, but I though he was the person and it took me time to accept this though i saw the signs. The few last conversations we had made me see him as someone who is not the right guy for me long-term. When im ready to meet someone else I will be open to it but be aware of something that doesnt serve me, and will take your advice of loving myself and enjoying life. Thank you.
It sounds like you have a good grasp on this even though you’re still experiencing the pain. You’ll get there, sweet one. Keep your face towards the sun. ☀️ 💖
I needed to hear this, i listen to you every morning, you changed my life thank you. You are amazing
I found this video so helpful when I found it the other day. My rejection is from family and I honestly don’t know why they feel this way. Over the years this rejection has shown up and I feel the rejection so deeply. To ask about it would just send me spiraling downwards as think about this over the years has frozen me for days at a time. Your saying “rejection is your protection” has been my phrase to go to when I find myself heartbroken 💔 Holidays is especially hard as I don’t feel I have any family that wants me included 😢
I understand how painful this can be. Love and accept YOU. That’s what your heart is yearning for. 🙏🏽♥️
I needed to hear this 😢 I will watch this everyday as a reminder to move on
Sending you love on your healing journey! You got this. You matter and deserve the ultimate love, respect and care.
Thank you so much for your amazing advice! I hope you have a wonderful day 🤍
Frr glad you got this here! Honestly even after seeing out what you'd had to mention I still feel kinda like if suppose needing from this same 3 people 2 guys that'd seem now to smoke just more and this one girl as well from middle school 8th grade since now me being on almost 3rd highschool year still trying to battle them off my head since I'd know they don't care at all from me and got on other schools even tho on the hs I got on other people that seemed to be alright and even Friended with me for what I like and how I am tho not really they knowing how it's been for me about it of these 3 other people since they like if didn't anymore like me for what I am for and being for goaled but I mean to say that now especially I'm actually really same time even really seeing to know what's up, you exactly saying so and hope it really gets better for me to stop caring even thinking about those same people even also after all still got very much other people from my old middle school that still is with me right now and alright being real with me for what I am for,even this one other guy who I know definitely is real with me since 7th grade even smoking and is even happy for me to have gotten on the hs he got on exept the ones I mentioned about negativitly but definitely thanks for this much! not even to have searched for and poped on my feed like that 💯
I can sense you’re on the right track. Keep trusting your inner guidance, it won’t steer you wrong. I’m glad this video helped. 💗
I really needed to hear this at this moment in time...! Thankyou so, so much, from a very grateful man...! Lots of love from the Uk...
I’m so happy it helped. Onward and upward, Augustus. Mutual love awaits you. 😊
It sucks when you want someone really bad but you can't be with them. Sometimes time doesn't heal these wombs..
I don’t believe time heals wounds; I believe people choose to heal their own wounds. ♥️
I know this is an old video but I really needed to hear these things, being adopted and being treated like garbage from my adopted family to getting bullied through highschool my self worth has been 0 for so long.
I’m so happy it was helpful! ♥️
PS It may be old but I still get comments almost daily. I appreciate you reaching out.
AND you’re worthy simply because you’re YOU. There’s no one like you! YOU are a gift to this world. 🤗
Thank you Kristen! I really needed this. Every single word!!!!!!!!!! ❤
I'm so glad it helped you. Remember, you deserve to be wanted, loved and respected! 💖
I needed this today, right now, in this moment. 🙏🏾 thank you 😣
Sending you so much love. Remember, you are divinely made and deserve love, respect and honor. 🙏🏽💗
I needed this message...
I’ve always felt that I was not good enough and felt that there was something wrong with me, I was looking for love with different women but ended getting hurt 😭
Absolutely! Thank you 🎉🎉🎉
I have been trying to find a video about this and I’m happy to come a across this because everything you have said it’s so true I didn’t want to face the truth but now I have wanted this I know what the right decision it’s so thank you ❤
You have incredible self awareness, my dear! Great job being your own advocate! You got this!
I needed this so much , I have been chasing this girl for over a year and trying to make her love me again it seems imposible . I wanted that feeling and intensity that we once had but she does not want. She can never find time for us and treats me we the worst disdain and indifference . Is hard but this word of advice help a lot
Thank you soooo much , i was suffering because of all You said is true. Blessings from my heart
Seems like a sweet good lady offering her help. We that need this listen to her. I think she’s been there. It is hard believe me.
Thanks Janet! I have been there and I’m out the other side! That’s why I teach what I do 🌸
You’re like the mom I wish I had. Thank you so much ❤
That’s the best compliment I could ever receive. You’re very welcome. 🙏🏽💓
Sometimes I feel my own mother doesn’t feel that I’m special 😂 😢 I was infatuated once with this girl (maybe still am a bit) 😦 I’m slowly changing my ways, but is very hard. Thank you for the positive message ❤ I feel warmer in my heart 💜 Take care 💛
I messaged a girl who broke up with me sometime ago and to be frank, she replied me like I wasn't worthy as a human. Listen, you can't chase people who no longer want you. Just because someone rejects you doesn't mean you're not good enough. Walk away like you don't care and find your purpose in life. Thank you.💙
Well said. Amen ♥️🙏🏽
They treat me less than humanely too 😢