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- čas přidán 18. 08. 2024
- You have to let her be free, fellas.
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Guys, listen to this message, you look weak when you chase her, she’ll push you away, women want a man of strong character. You can’t control them, don’t try. This guy is getting me through a rough breakup and it’s working. Thanks Shaun👍🏻
Me too. Finding this page was a blessing
I'm going through the same I think of her daily but when she dumped me I have just been silent and will not rise to her I have heard nothink for a while even sometimes I feel vulnerable and want to message her I won't through pride I must move on and however hard it is move forward
Great content. All facts.
You can do every thing right, by the book, and get bad results . Thats life.
It all comes down to finding a good woman
@@faroukmohammed2478
Which is impossible in 2024
I have never ever checked a woman's phone and will never do it. I've been around girls who have tried to make me go through their phones, and I declined.
If at any time a woman goes through my phone or stuff, we will be finished as well; that's an invasion of privacy.
Agreed
I made that mistake to let her go through my phone and now she went too far by spying on every move I do. I think am done and it’s has to stop NOW!
I’ve only had a few relationships in my life and the main thing i learned is Less is more!
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The ultimate form of love towards another person is to let that person be free.
No matter how much you get a person to like you or notice you, you have to let that person be and give that person the choice to seek your company.
If that person wants to, that person will. If that person doesn't want to, leave it alone.
We are all alone in this life and we need to learn not to be affected by what others say or do.
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Man you got the correct idea.
Don't give a fuck. The less you care. The more they care. Human nature. Chicks want what they can't have. Don't give a fuck is the key. Thanks Shaun
Fax 💯 when let them be free they will always chase u because u keep an abundance mindset 💯
I'm letting go for about two weeks now I have not texted her, but she did text me, I have not replied yet- thank for your motivation video - Regared from Sydney Australia
She has to live with what she's doing or already did.
So true. Woman are like cats, chase a cat it runs away. Sit down, chill and it will come looking for you to give her a treat 😊
I say don't have a girl at all. Trust me, it's too much trouble. I have a girlfriend, been together 3 years, and I'm telling you, it's not what it's cut out to be. Stay single detached from a relationship, especially with how things are, today. You have to focus on you. I'm sorry to have to break it like this, but we have to look at the current situation in today's world
Facts💯
I'd add... With my experience, if you let her do whatever she want and she break trust by liying or cheating, she is actually giving you a gift. She then demonstrated to you she's low value and you get rid of her because you deserve better and you now have even more free time to become better. After 9 years together I got cheated on and it was actually the best thing that ever happenned to me.
Exactly bro
Since I started following you my mindset changed. Thanks Shaun👍🏽
The last thing in my mind is to be jealously admiring a woman. Where ever they are happy; that's probably where they want to be;
You can't find if she cheats on you though without trying to check her phone. Women cheat it's easy for them you can't just walk down the street and catch her , but i get it it's weird i never checked my exes phones i asked my last one to show me because she wanted to check my phone 1 week earlier. And lord behold yeah she deleted few texts and told me her phone is stuck while hiding the screen from me , dumped her week later.
Man, kudos to you for being brutally honest... You always challenge guys to always be the prize... 💯🤘
Definitely bro
Good message. Good video. Fellas listen to this man. he speaks the truth - Go hard Shaun as always.
South Africa is here giving love Big bro. God bless ur hustle 🙏🙏🙏
Let’s gooo!!!
Imma tell you, let her be. Unless they show signs of cheating, don't sweat them.
Facts
“I turn flaws into flawless traits” 🔥
Ur money bro. Some good ass sound advice , and the outcome is pretty simple she will be more about u cuz it’s attractive and u will be less stressed. No brainer. Love ur videos bro and learned a lot. Preach on lol
💯 exactly my man- let’s get it fam
Shaun, Guys, I must admit - I am learning so much about myself throughout those vidoes. I can relate to basically half of content in each of them. I am 27 and never been in a longer, seroius relationship. Will say more - I lost myself falling in love with that last girl. So many mistakes made, I never had that huge life lesson like this experience. Literally looking with embarrasment on myself from above now. Realised I contrtibuted to downfall of this relation. Why I say contributed? Couse on the other hand I realised after evalutation of actions that I didn't capture any kind of jewel. Realised how calamitous falling for phisical appereance is and how us men (surely I) agree to settle for way less than we deserve just due to sexual attraction.
Shaun's been it some of those places, as he mentions often. Let's sit down together Gang and learn and listen to wisdom which is given freely to us by experienced Man.
Yessir fam- thanks for watching 🙏🏻
I can't really say for real but right this moment this and some other previous clips of yours got me motivated, I'm battling in relationship where she wants me to keep chasing her pleading for an unnecessary burden and taking advantage over being kind towards her and some silly things, bro you know what.. I'm just gonna dump her ass and she's gonna regret losing me as one of a kind.
Thanks man, I appreciate ya.
Stay up ⬆️ Fam
What's the update?
Hello Shaun: I finally got it now, thanks for the explain! An abundance mind set knows that you can replace her at any time, so you're not worried about if if she screws up...
Exactly bro- it’s about creating a low stress lifestyle for yourself.
Thank you for such a great content brother. Changing mens’ minds and lives one video at a time 💯💯💯💯
For sure bro, thanks for watching
The Heart wants what it wants. I've missed my first love from time to time. My buddy said she saw a picture that I was in and she asked him. "Who's that" He was shocked. Then she said Oh ya, I remember him. .. She said she didn't remember being with me. Just because you care doesn't mean they remember you.
If you were with her a couple of weeks it’s not a surprise.
But if you were guys in long term relationship, she is lying 🤥
It hurts dude. But what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
Damn she must have been ran through a lot.
Brad Pitt said he had trouble remembering everybody even close ones to him because he met so many people. Apply to that to a woman's relationship with men
the goat as always
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I wish that I Knew you before thanks for this precious content man
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Am also liking 💯before I listen,tks big bro,a big respect always.
I'm liking 👍🏾 even before watching because I know your content is gold 🤑 brother
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4k views in 1 day!!!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥
Love the glow up shun and great video
Appreciate you bro! ✊🏼
G, thank you so much for the info brother, I've always been so confused on whether me letting my girl go out with her friends on the weekend is disrespectful to me, personally I really don't give a fuck if she goes out or not but I'm concerned because so many online alpha coaches says it's some type of disrespectful behavior.
The truth is whenever I stop her from going out, in my gut I feel like my behavior is really needy and I hate it but so many alpha dating coaches say that if your girls goes out with her friends on the weekend it's some type of disrespect..
So I'm really confused here brother.
At the end of the day, every man must set his own standards with his lady, up front. Obviously don’t bother dating a club head, a woman who drinks too much and who always needs to be out w her friends. But the overall point of the video is you gotta give your girl a lil wiggle room to breathe, stop caring so much. Guys are walking around full of anxiety because their girl is out in the world living. She should be the one stressing over you
@@ShaunZachary Thank you so much brother, I get it now..
The best solution is to counter her saying by saying you want a night out too lol. It won't make you look needy as well as make yourself a confident alpha.
Besides, women aren't so that stupid. Yes 100 percent of them know it is disrespectful to even bring up the go out night thing.
The fact that she did this to you proves she's looking down on you. You're a low level man to her, you are still green
DUMP HER and DON'T TAKE HER BACK. Don't be pulled into her drama afterwards, show class and shut her out permanently.
Get Netflix and popcorn ready cuz her friends might knock on your door due to your masculinity, but that depends on how you handle it with your gf lol
This is a strong message
Alright I’m bouta follow your IG cause your videos is hitting it 🎯🎯🎯 and I definitely needed this.
Thanks fam 🙏🏻 ✊🏼
Such a blessing to my Feed. Keep up the consistency
🙏🏻 appreciate you as always bro.
Facts throwing diamonds 💯.
This information is 100% accurate and truthful. Your energy should be focus on making money, fitness/health, friends and social network, she is fourth. When she isn't the focus of your life, things just seem to work out better and you won't stress about them.
Just like DJ khaled , another one. Great message. I going to share with all the bros
🙏🏻 thanks fam
i needed this video last month.
All facts 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Thank you bro.
🔥🔥🔥🔥 on repeat this one.
Speak some goddamn sense into my brain 😤 thank you. Purpose is all I need. Not saying I did this at all. But I have enough accountability to say I have/had needy tendencies. I'm working on it.
Amazing video bro
Nice and very true 👍
Am Lucy to find you bruv 🙏, your such a blessing to our metal health
Blessings bro ✊🏼
bro thank you 🙏🏾 💯 for the great content
Fa sho bro thanks for watching 🙏🏻
Am going thru Depression anxiety from My baby mama and my son 3 year old and am trying to get my papers…this has giving me first step and I’ll be here December go give feed back So help me God..it’s hell right now 🥺😭😢
stay strong brother.
I appreciate your knowledge brother, for real...🤝
Yessir thanks for watching fam 🙏🏻
Bro you locked in all you saying is true
Dumped by baby mama video would be amazing. Haha
Nawl fr
His rite about dat dont be touching nobodys fone dats one thing i wont do but thanks for da advice i needed to hear dat
Masculine energy wants to be free, while Feminine energy wants to entrap.
Most dudes are on their feminine side that's why they trying to control/entrap their girl.
Let her try to that(let HER be in her feminine), let her focus that energy on you, instead of her using that energy on other guys.
Powerful content, fellas gotta listen up and apply it.
Best quote 😂the streets can have her @sssss
I fuckin love these videos 👊👊 this is the only way of getting to the souls of men to stand up proud and move forward 💪
Thanks for watching 🙏🏼
i fw ur vids but u be makin me laugh all the time😂😂 keep
up the good work tho
Seems like we've all had to learn hard lessons when it comes to women. I admit I made some mistakes. I was married, and the funny thing is my ex-wife went through my phone, and I never went through hers. If a woman accuses you of shit, chances are they're the ones doing shit they're accusing you of doing. Divorce does suck, but it was educational. These days I don't care what they do or they think, I do me. I do me and I like being alone, I can do shit I want to do! In one of your videos you said: "fuck the company." Sometimes one must say: "fuck that bitch" in order to grease the gears and shift forward.
Exactly bro! Well said
Going through same situation rn
About dudes going thru a woman’s phone, shit got serious quick.💀😂💪🏾
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Thank you get on these brothers.Shaun 😇🥰
Good advice 🐐
Coach Shaun .thats Wazzup
Wish I would have heard this a year ago
Thank you
It so crazy thinking back to my middle school days. All, I mean ALL the ones I didn’t care about stayed in line. They may have tested me, talked to a guy or entertained a flirt or two but ultimately they fell back in line or just stayed loyal. The 2 I slipped up and chased or check on was the 2 I lost to other dudes, crazy crazy real.
Y’all listen to this man Shaun, I just recently discovered this channel and sub’d after “ok, no problem “.
Yo I got a request video can you make one about disrespectful girlfriends and what to do in a long term relationship?
Your video will come out on Wednesday bro
I watch a lot of dating coaches your the realist
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Bruh is preaching from the survivor scrolls.
I love your content bro.❤
Thank you bro! 🙏🏻 💪🏼
Amen♥️
Good shit man. Have you read the book 'the game'?
Naw I haven’t but I’ll google it
I agree everything you said 1 thing is what if you dont snoop around her phone or house or whatever i understand its insecure noisy no privacy thing is how do you kno where you stand during the relationship if she is talking to someone or had someone around if she playing you like a fool , if you here respecting her privacy and during the whole time she playing you.
The point is to become the man who doesn’t worry about what she’s doing.
Okay 💯👍
Get home security cameras and let it worries for you. This cost maybe $500, I know it's pricey but think of how much money you could save from wasting on the wrong women best investment.
Learn to walk away
So true bro! Girlfriend left for two months, and I had a great time outdoors on the island, and when she came back, dang it was like the vacuum was left on all night lolololo. So never hold on, if they Wana leave , let them, but the ones that come back, dang!! Bro
Superb video
I think being territorial is in a man’s nature if she thinks u are over pressuring then I don’t think she understands how men operate. I mean you say you don’t care so does that mean you would be ok knowing she’s cheated on you? I mean with the current climate in the dating scene anyone Would be really concerned.
I think you’re missing the point. What I’m saying is, let her be free, if she chooses to cheat then she’s done. But why would I stress myself out worrying about what she is doing? That sounds like a miserable way to live life. Give her the freedom to make choices, no one wants to be controlled, if she doesn’t make the correct choices that fit best for you, move on to someone else. That’s my point in this video
@@ShaunZachary I understand brother and I think the way you think is the only way to sustain a relationship otherwise it’ll collapse. However, if you have great intuition and if you feel she’s moving shady it’s very difficult to drop something when you are in very deep . In that circumstance I guess it’s better to walk away. Just need to let u know that a lot of modern women aren’t trustworthy bro their hypergamy is on steroids. Like an example, I go gym and someone’s girl is always checking me out , that’s pure disrespect. When I had a girl she did the same thing with other guys!
I'm with my girlfriend for almost 3yrs. And now i feel stress in our relationship.
1. I feel like i'm always 2nd option.
2. I feel like she's controlling me.
3. I chase her many times because i'm afraid to let her go.
4. And i'm too worry when i'm not by her side.
5. I'm afraid when she wear a revealing clothes when i'm not around.
6. I feel like i am obsessed with her
Can somebody help me pls? What should i do? I want to pull myself. To bring myself back when we were like 3 to 6months in a relationship. 'cause right now i'm really stress, overthinking, paranoid.
Its spiritual warfare.she is projecting her own insecurities on you. Shes probably a narcissist. Time to enforce ur boundaries. If she is for you shell compomise if not move on...I did. I recognised ur message 100%. Before her i never gave a fuck and was on my purpose. Im back to getting there now 1 day at a time 😎
I let my wife be free, going to party constantly, I don't even call. She ended up falling for another guy, cheated on me, then blame me for not caring. If yall non-exclusive then you can let her be free. If you're committed and paying her rent, need to check up on her via video call, but make it seem like you're missing her not bcuz yur checking up on her.
I knew w a guy smothering a woman. They got married a year ago. She likes being smothered by him. Maybe cause she lives him.
Great video
This one was facts on facts. Been adapting this behavior and my girl literally flakes on girls nights cuz she just don’t want that. Ha
God damn
I can’t even believe men think like this 🤣🤣
Bro, you didn't say what you'd do if a girl asked to see your phone. I'm curious.
I’d tell her to get lost, no chance I don’t play phone games.
Omg that is too much 😂😂😂
I never go through a woman's phone
Hello!
My girlfriend remained friends with her ex-husband who is also in a new relationship. They may meet sometimes for a coffee in the city. I'm sure there is no any sexual bond between them anymore as it disappeared a long time before they even got divorced. Should I be concerned about that? I just don't like to put some pressure as you advise.
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From experience, I can tell this guy is speaking fact. Please guys, lisen carefully, I wish I knew this earlier. I had to learn this by myself.
What if you taking her serious you still don’t care ?
Does this apply when u have been married for over 10 years?
For me it would
Wondering the same here. How much of this approach carries over to marriage and how his previous videos would apply to one’s wife. If Shaun could do a video on long term relationships/marriage that would be great.
Yes please Shaun we need a video for us married men it's needed and thank you for you advice may the Lord bless you and your channel. This has helped me become a better man
I don't see how it's much different for marriages although you do have to protect the best interests of the Union because sometimes only one of the partners is thinking about that on the real. The first time I had bad feelings in my gut and came to a head I did look through her phone and there is always going to be shit that I dont need to see but it turned out she was hiding a drug problem from me, not necessarily cheating but she developed the mental tools to deceive me to get her instant gratification so I anticipate infidelity and have been focusing more on myself as the false sense of security will never return after getting that red 💊 I also have two wonderful daughters that take up a lot of time. Seems there is less and less time in a day to obsess about why women can change in the blink of an eye.
my g hows the scalp mico job u got not capping i want to get it done im white mexican almost same skin complexation u are what city did u get it done company no disrespect bro... thanks.
There's all sorts of different types of pressures too bro like I kept pressing her to get her shit together, that I ain't taking care of anybody I'm not taking care of any woman, that's right put a bunch of pressure under her with is I'm not doing anything for you though I don't want a woman where I have to take care of her I want someone who I can just do my thing and she does hers, and then there's trust bro but I was putting the broad under immense amount of pressure to get her life in order, and I I have absolutely no regrets in that deal with the woman who is dependent on me by any means, so I'm just going to keep plugging away at my life and if someone comes in I'm going to follow with the homie right here had said and a few videos back I'm not changing anything if a woman is trying to get at me or she has me is because she fell for what I was doing prior to her, so I will not at all by any means change anything about anything about myself I'm doing all the right thing there's no reason to if she got with me knowing that I was in the field doing my thing then why would I change anything up, it's all about power control and women seem to want to try to be in power and control dude but for what why did one get with the other for a reason? See you ain't about that anymore bro I know means, by any means necessary I will continually do what I know I need to do for my life, period!
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The problem is Man are too obsessed with woman.Break the obsession and addiction and you'll be good
Hey, you are on point with the ladies. I don't think that Z in the background mean anything. Some of us military vets may wonder if it's pro-Russian support in the war against Ukraine. Just an observation.
My last name is Zachary, just branding with the “Z” in the background.
I have a question. My ex of almost 7 years left me for a fat guy. I was starting to question myself about the phone thing. I never cared to go through her phone or get jealous of that manner, I'm too focused on my career and getting into a better position in life. She told me during the time of our break up that she liked how he opened up his phone to her and her to him, having each other's location on and ECT. That blew my mind, I respect a person's privacy. What do you think that means when she acts like that?
She wants complete control and someone who will listen to her masculine ass…. She did you a favor while that fat guy is probably working hard to get that fish hole that she gave to you In seconds…. Trust me, been there and done that….. I’m 22 and I have considered myself a chad….. but woman today are cold and ruthless…. That and I used to have hella flings in high school bro….. I’m not even flexing but the average 17 year girl old today easily has a body count of 20…. EASYYYY….. it’s a cold world we live in folk, but just do you and not worry about her ass….. if she really upgraded she wouldn’t have gottten no fat man…. She Just needs a simp, and it sounds like she left you because she didn’t have any control over you to make you hers…. Take ur blessing and walk….. no need to stress that she got w some fatass for the purpose of “phone control”. Stay Up⬆️ .
how old are u bro?
38 on Saturday bro
@ShaunZachary you still look like your in your mid 20's bro. Great genes and being stress free helps that out a lot as well. Keep the videos up, I'm learning lots and still learning...thank you.
Unfortunately,You have to treat modern women like call girls emotionally . You can trick a little dough snuggle under the covers for a bit to get your emotional needs met if your that type of guy, but always remember this ! she is not your girl, it’s just your turn. You have to learn how to control your emotions before you can successfully date women. If you want a wife with traditional values you have to travel to the country of the woman that check those boxes. Your best success is marrying a woman that you are not too lustful for because that is most guys biggest downfalls. Men see woman for beauty so when they loose them it’s almost an equivalent to crashing your brand new Bugatti the first day out. You have to view all women as Toyota Camrys if you wreck it you throw it in the gutter and go buy another.