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I made many mistakes with a girl not that long ago and it all went down the sink. But after months I am grateful now. This made me research and work on educating myself on how to actually be a man, which isn’t this obvious even though we are born as one. Every video Shawn puts out here makes us smarter and better prepared and now many of us know that we can do better than this woman before and that we can learn how to become a proper man.
Damn.. Slept with this girl on the first night.. Everything was connecting, we truly had chemistry and so many things in common. Woke up the next morning with her and then we smoked some buds and watched movies/sat on the couch all day.. Now she’s acting all distant, but I’ve realized i did everything right.. If she cannot appreciate me then im walkin.
Your content is something I wish I had stumbled upon a few months ago when I started dating . A lot of stuff that you go blind like a bat on your first times that are often counterintuitive with your inner gut. But hey, as you've said before, you gotta hit the wall before you really want to start changing. If I hadn't made the mistakes I did, I may have never gotten out of my way to actually search and improve all this stuff. So thank you bro! Hope your channel goes up to the sky . Peace! ✌️
Just Subscribed. Love your wisdom bro. Been making this mistake for a while. I suppose awareness is the first step. Just been dating an attractive girl for three months. She seemed so keen , cooked for me , great sex made me feel so good. I ignored blatant red flags. We went on holiday together to Greece for 9 days . It seemed perfect and I dismissed the small white lies she was transmitting. The holiday seemed to go amazingly and I quickly started warming to this woman. We came home and she still seemed keen on me. Then……… 4 days later out of the blue , she dropped me like I never existed. Said she was unclear on her feelings . Lesson learned. Listen to Shaun guys …… this is no joke protect yourself and become a giant for self improvement. 🙏
I actually thought this girl I was seeing for 3 months was also attracted to me I was dead wrong.. Women sure change on a dime I didn’t think she would do what she did but I was a fool
@@stevo6891 stay alert . Build your empire , if a certain lady doesn’t want to be with you , her loss dude. Let her run to the Chad or Tyrone who will pump and dump her . 👍😎💵
@@jayraw1120 Thanks man, long ago I thought of suicide.. I feel like a failure because I can’t get married and everyone I know is married.. Back in high school I had a huge crush on this girl.. We had classes together, shared laughs helped each other on homework.. Well one day I asked her out she told me she didn’t want to date anyone until after high school.. I was bummed out.. But after that it wasn’t long she started talking to this bad boy.. Once she met him she no longer looked my way or acknowledged me.. I was hurt no lie because she told me she didn’t want to date until after high school.. I guess her friend set her up with this guy.. Well after high school they got married and had kids.. 17 years later I heard from numerous people that he is mean to her and cheats on her.. It was actually around Christmas time last year we ran into each other in public she asked me how i am doing, how is life what am I doing for work?? I’m thinking to myself are you kidding me right now???? I’m sorry I have nothing to say to her I continued on shopping and ignored her.. That was the past and she means nothing to me.. The only woman who ever had my back was my mother she was always there for me.. When I thought of suicide I didn’t do it because I know I’d hurt the people who love me for who I am.. Shaun and Joker 🃏 from BB really helped me through life
@@stevo6891 you’ll be ok bro I was married for 10yrs got divorced had lots of other failed relationships…. Of course they hurt but believe you’ll be ok and before you know it you’ll find that sweet spot of self love . Women will be queuing up for you bro . Stack your paper and then you can pick the best out of the bunch. Work daily in meditation and self improvement work . Leave the simp mentality behind and spend you life doing what you want to do . Much love bro . 💵🙏😎
Now i know what to do next time i meet a new girl, been watching your videos lately since i been heart broken over a girl who wasn’t worth my mf time & had my hopes high af & played me, thanks again bro 🙏🏼💯
I understand you should not lie to a woman starting from the beginning but for some reason when you tell a woman that you're dating multiple people they shut you down. Even thought you've just met them and like you said they are most likely seeing other people. So how do you handle this situation.
You just have to tell her what it is and not be afraid of her reaction or scared to lose her. If she can't handle you being honest, she can kick rocks. The other option is to not directly answer the question by keeping it playful. You don't know this woman yet, so really it's none of her business who you're dating.
I’m a real Mack with women I’m not super attracted too, but soon as I got one the has the charm, body and the beauty I make all kinds of mistakes. I start acting like she’s wifey. This is where I always go wrong. Let’s continue to sharpen our iron fellas
I'm attached to a girl that I'm pretty sure has lost her sexual attraction for me, but still genuinely cares for me as a friend. I want to remain her friend, but in a way it feels like I'm being rejected by her every time we talk. I don't want to hurt her by ending the friendship, but I also don't want to continue hurting myself by subjecting myself to this sense of constant rejection. I want more from her than friendship, and it hurts to know that she doesn't see me like that anymore. Any advice?
Yes brother 🙌 I care for you and your mental health. Please let her go, I had to learn the hard way. Focus on God and improving your life whether it's career, family, hobbies, craft etc. Which will give you a good ROI: return of investment. A girl you like that doesn't reciprocate the energy will only drain your energy from becoming a masculine force and finding your purpose. What is your purpose? Doing the will of god by serving him, serving others, helping others and your community based on the gifts and talents god blessed you with and you just gotta find it. If she's not putting the effort to hangout with you then it's clear that she's not into you like that anymore and she may be just using you for a attentionand validation. I'm sorry to break this to you but it's true bc 😔 i've been through this before and it shattered my heart and the truth hurts but it will set you free. You're a MAN and we need you're value. Take a look at the world from the streets we drive on, the cars we drive, the planes we travel in, the houses we live in, the phones and technology we use are all built and maintained by a man so never let a girl disrespect you. I wouldn't waste my time writing this if I didn't care about you 💯. We men need to support each other
You gotta let her go Brother. I’ve been there it’s very hard I know. You will feel better sooner than you think if you let her go. The Universe is making way for you to grow , learn lessons and become a solid man endless in his pursuit. Never stay in the friend zone brother, your way better than that. 👍💫
@@davidrivas6412 I appreciate you taking the time to write that, man. I'm sure you know what it feels like when your head and your heart tell you two different things. I need to summon the strength to do what's best for me. Easier said than done, but I'll do it, and eventually I'll be stronger for it.
Thnx Shaun, another great video, Shaun I have a question, What do you say about, 'Semen Retention'??? I would love to hear you say something about it. Thank you in advance
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I made many mistakes with a girl not that long ago and it all went down the sink. But after months I am grateful now. This made me research and work on educating myself on how to actually be a man, which isn’t this obvious even though we are born as one. Every video Shawn puts out here makes us smarter and better prepared and now many of us know that we can do better than this woman before and that we can learn how to become a proper man.
Damn.. Slept with this girl on the first night.. Everything was connecting, we truly had chemistry and so many things in common. Woke up the next morning with her and then we smoked some buds and watched movies/sat on the couch all day.. Now she’s acting all distant, but I’ve realized i did everything right.. If she cannot appreciate me then im walkin.
As long as you got the box, you good.
Be detached all lifelong. Nice one brother
Best in the damn game. Period.
🙏🏻 🙏🏻
Even if she gives you that "box" on the first night gentleman, don't give her your heart yet!
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I love your simpy needy guy voice 😆! Great channel man x
Thanks my man!
That is what i needed. I was mr fall in love again and again
Your content is something I wish I had stumbled upon a few months ago when I started dating . A lot of stuff that you go blind like a bat on your first times that are often counterintuitive with your inner gut. But hey, as you've said before, you gotta hit the wall before you really want to start changing. If I hadn't made the mistakes I did, I may have never gotten out of my way to actually search and improve all this stuff. So thank you bro! Hope your channel goes up to the sky . Peace! ✌️
The big brother many men need right now! Bless up fam, another banger.
Just Subscribed. Love your wisdom bro. Been making this mistake for a while. I suppose awareness is the first step. Just been dating an attractive girl for three months. She seemed so keen , cooked for me , great sex made me feel so good. I ignored blatant red flags. We went on holiday together to Greece for 9 days . It seemed perfect and I dismissed the small white lies she was transmitting. The holiday seemed to go amazingly and I quickly started warming to this woman. We came home and she still seemed keen on me. Then……… 4 days later out of the blue , she dropped me like I never existed. Said she was unclear on her feelings . Lesson learned. Listen to Shaun guys …… this is no joke protect yourself and become a giant for self improvement. 🙏
Yea bro just having that awareness is key as you mentioned. Just be prepared for the fuckery and focus on yourself
I actually thought this girl I was seeing for 3 months was also attracted to me I was dead wrong.. Women sure change on a dime I didn’t think she would do what she did but I was a fool
@@stevo6891 stay alert . Build your empire , if a certain lady doesn’t want to be with you , her loss dude. Let her run to the Chad or Tyrone who will pump and dump her . 👍😎💵
@@jayraw1120 Thanks man, long ago I thought of suicide.. I feel like a failure because I can’t get married and everyone I know is married.. Back in high school I had a huge crush on this girl.. We had classes together, shared laughs helped each other on homework.. Well one day I asked her out she told me she didn’t want to date anyone until after high school.. I was bummed out.. But after that it wasn’t long she started talking to this bad boy.. Once she met him she no longer looked my way or acknowledged me.. I was hurt no lie because she told me she didn’t want to date until after high school.. I guess her friend set her up with this guy.. Well after high school they got married and had kids.. 17 years later I heard from numerous people that he is mean to her and cheats on her.. It was actually around Christmas time last year we ran into each other in public she asked me how i am doing, how is life what am I doing for work?? I’m thinking to myself are you kidding me right now???? I’m sorry I have nothing to say to her I continued on shopping and ignored her.. That was the past and she means nothing to me.. The only woman who ever had my back was my mother she was always there for me.. When I thought of suicide I didn’t do it because I know I’d hurt the people who love me for who I am.. Shaun and Joker 🃏 from BB really helped me through life
@@stevo6891 you’ll be ok bro I was married for 10yrs got divorced had lots of other failed relationships…. Of course they hurt but believe you’ll be ok and before you know it you’ll find that sweet spot of self love . Women will be queuing up for you bro . Stack your paper and then you can pick the best out of the bunch. Work daily in meditation and self improvement work . Leave the simp mentality behind and spend you life doing what you want to do . Much love bro . 💵🙏😎
Eye opener. Now I realize that when I wanna give them my affection right from the start, it puts em off.
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@@ShaunZachary just got played yesterday by a deaf chick :/
Perfect timing again, great video as always man
Great video Shaun!
Great message, thanks man!
😂😂 the Impression cracks me up 🤜🏽
Layed back. I like this!
Now i know what to do next time i meet a new girl, been watching your videos lately since i been heart broken over a girl who wasn’t worth my mf time & had my hopes high af & played me, thanks again bro 🙏🏼💯
Stay up ⬆️ fam
I wish someone would have given me this advice when I was younger. It would have saved me a lot headaches and heartaches.
Likewise! We had to learn the hard way
Once you get too attached, you are screwed
Brother thank you for this gold. Men are starting to wake up from this bs fantasy.
spot on Shaun!
To withhold BOX 📦 🔥🤣
I understand you should not lie to a woman starting from the beginning but for some reason when you tell a woman that you're dating multiple people they shut you down. Even thought you've just met them and like you said they are most likely seeing other people. So how do you handle this situation.
You just have to tell her what it is and not be afraid of her reaction or scared to lose her. If she can't handle you being honest, she can kick rocks. The other option is to not directly answer the question by keeping it playful. You don't know this woman yet, so really it's none of her business who you're dating.
This is the first video I saw from you, you a cool guy I’ll definitely going to keep watching ya videos man keep the grind fellas 💪
Thanks fam 🙏🏻
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I’m a real Mack with women I’m not super attracted too, but soon as I got one the has the charm, body and the beauty I make all kinds of mistakes. I start acting like she’s wifey. This is where I always go wrong. Let’s continue to sharpen our iron fellas
I'm attached to a girl that I'm pretty sure has lost her sexual attraction for me, but still genuinely cares for me as a friend. I want to remain her friend, but in a way it feels like I'm being rejected by her every time we talk. I don't want to hurt her by ending the friendship, but I also don't want to continue hurting myself by subjecting myself to this sense of constant rejection. I want more from her than friendship, and it hurts to know that she doesn't see me like that anymore. Any advice?
Yes brother 🙌 I care for you and your mental health. Please let her go, I had to learn the hard way. Focus on God and improving your life whether it's career, family, hobbies, craft etc. Which will give you a good ROI: return of investment. A girl you like that doesn't reciprocate the energy will only drain your energy from becoming a masculine force and finding your purpose. What is your purpose? Doing the will of god by serving him, serving others, helping others and your community based on the gifts and talents god blessed you with and you just gotta find it. If she's not putting the effort to hangout with you then it's clear that she's not into you like that anymore and she may be just using you for a attentionand validation. I'm sorry to break this to you but it's true bc 😔 i've been through this before and it shattered my heart and the truth hurts but it will set you free. You're a MAN and we need you're value. Take a look at the world from the streets we drive on, the cars we drive, the planes we travel in, the houses we live in, the phones and technology we use are all built and maintained by a man so never let a girl disrespect you. I wouldn't waste my time writing this if I didn't care about you 💯. We men need to support each other
You gotta let her go Brother. I’ve been there it’s very hard I know. You will feel better sooner than you think if you let her go. The Universe is making way for you to grow , learn lessons and become a solid man endless in his pursuit. Never stay in the friend zone brother, your way better than that. 👍💫
@@davidrivas6412 I appreciate you taking the time to write that, man. I'm sure you know what it feels like when your head and your heart tell you two different things. I need to summon the strength to do what's best for me. Easier said than done, but I'll do it, and eventually I'll be stronger for it.
@@jayraw1120 Thanks, man. She's a good girl, good heart, but this relationship is just so unsatisfying to me sometimes-it drives me crazy.
Thnx Shaun, another great video, Shaun I have a question, What do you say about, 'Semen Retention'??? I would love to hear you say something about it. Thank you in advance
I personally don’t buy into the whole retention thing. To each their own tho bro
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Am i the only one who plays these videos speed to 1.5x ?
What about the other way around? How can I make her attached?
I’ll try to do a video on this soon
@@ShaunZachary 👍🏻 💯
Fuk me this video hit me so hard