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  • Why you need to stop obsessing over one woman. Break free from that scarcity mindset and improve your life.
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Komentáře • 178

  • @o751106
    @o751106 Před rokem +124

    This hurts when you really like the woman, but this talk is true.

    • @markbrookes6915
      @markbrookes6915 Před rokem +11

      Yep going through that @ the moment
      Had alot of girlfriends but this certain Brazilian girl was so hot dated for 10 months

  • @Bzrking_hound
    @Bzrking_hound Před 9 měsíci +17

    She is never yours. It's only your turn

  • @funkygrassreviewsstuff3378

    "If you dated women, you know the fuckery is coming" 🤣🤣 Wise words from a bro!!

  • @divine_presence
    @divine_presence Před rokem +45

    Yup, it is THEIR loss, NOT ours because we do NOT need them.

  • @jbthajugganaut793
    @jbthajugganaut793 Před rokem +43

    A woman flaking and discarding you should be a telltale sign she does not like you. Just cut your losses and focus on you.

    • @davidcoppotelli3957
      @davidcoppotelli3957 Před rokem +8

      TRUE WORDS SPOKEN RIGHT HERE .

    • @monkymind4316
      @monkymind4316 Před rokem +4

      might also be a sign of extreme insecurity on her part. in any case stay away.

  • @ntsikelelonkambule2299
    @ntsikelelonkambule2299 Před rokem +25

    "Who cares what the information is, who cares what their reasons are, the only thing that matters is that she says she doesn't want to date you",you hit the bullseye 👏👏

  • @Keith-if6zv
    @Keith-if6zv Před rokem +22

    Best takeaway from this… if she wanted to be with she would. She will not tell the truth anyway so no point in asking or texting. Let her go, it’s really your only option.

  • @doraldobuchanan4041
    @doraldobuchanan4041 Před rokem +18

    These women are so cunning and they know how to play games by pretending they are all into you. I was caught up in this same situation, but I didn't go that far. Because my intelligence and my observation showed me every red flags. I've gained more intelligence after I started watching all these videos compared to Shaun Z. Now these same women are doing everything they can to get my attention. It's funny how they feel so curious of our absence and silence. Especially when we as men moved on and started living happily with another woman.🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @alecb1178
    @alecb1178 Před rokem +39

    After my last relationship I realized that I didn’t love myself. I believe the reason that men do stuff like this is because we don’t value ourselves. I’m on the path to self love as a men it’s going to be a long journey but men it’s the answer to dealing with woman on a low vibration.

    • @ndondiafrika249
      @ndondiafrika249 Před rokem +3

      True, self love is not really emphasized enough for men

    • @AndI0td763
      @AndI0td763 Před rokem +1

      Good call. Break ups are gonna hurt, but it’s how you handle the situation. Handle it like a man and move on. The women didn’t value us cause we didn’t value ourselves first and foremost. If she decides to leave that’s on her. Even if we made mistakes we gotta take it as a lesson and better ourselves for the next one that comes along.

  • @michaelpacheco6077
    @michaelpacheco6077 Před rokem +14

    I died laughing when you said about the potato salad. Nobody ever did that lol

  • @valueink
    @valueink Před rokem +61

    Is she's already seeing someone and went on a date with you, that's a red flag for me. I'd ditch that in a heartbeat. If she did that to someone else, she'll do the same to you when "better" opportunity comes up.

    • @leeortiz2687
      @leeortiz2687 Před rokem +9

      There’s a saying in my culture: ‘the way you get her, is the way you lose her.’

    • @cdub1991
      @cdub1991 Před 8 měsíci

      This shit just happened to me. Had a solid first date with a lady, and we were planning a second date when she said she had to be honest that she was talking to someone. Thank you, next.

  • @awilliams310
    @awilliams310 Před rokem +27

    Never allow a woman to be the source of your happiness. Shaun is BANG ON! PRIORITIES GENTLEMEN.

  • @metalmouth0413
    @metalmouth0413 Před rokem +14

    That's why it's called dating. Dating is more economical than a crappy marriage or a crappy relationship. I'd rather spend money on dinner and get blown out of the water afterwards than have nuclear fall-out spiritually, mentally, emotionally and financially from a potential unhealthy situation. If I get rejected these days, I just see it that I avoided potential Cherenobal Nuclear Fall-out Incident.

    • @ignaciocarda6004
      @ignaciocarda6004 Před rokem

      "Nuclear fallout spiritually, emotionally and financially". LMAO ! That's actually a very cool way to see it! Chernobyl grade of bullshit

  • @naturalbornkiller361
    @naturalbornkiller361 Před rokem +8

    Good girls are the girls that have not been caught yet.
    This is the reason why we should never get romantically attached to anyone. Be like James Bond: dress well, be skilled, be stoic, always go after your mission and let women chase you.

    • @jeffbardroff5873
      @jeffbardroff5873 Před rokem

      This gentleman Sean has a lot of intake on relationships what are you saying is the truth that's stupid texting its you Ramble On and On I know what it means cuz I've done it should be that morning at a date I think he's pretty right on the spot I like your stuff Sean keep bringing it on it's very interesting God bless

  • @cloudattack3279
    @cloudattack3279 Před rokem +7

    Never let go of your sword, or your shield. Keep a firm grip on both. The moment you drop them, they start to rust and lose their sharpness. 👍🇦🇺

  • @leprikonobecny6233
    @leprikonobecny6233 Před rokem +12

    So true lol, i just got ghosted by a girl I've been meeting for 2 months, really felt the connection there and thought things are gonna work out between us, she said how she is into me, she was being curious, we talked about future, interests and all that talk but in the end she ignored my last message like i was nothing and happily goes on living her life, i guess i over committed and liked her too much, she just wanted me for fun while i hoped for something more.

    • @mphomothae6258
      @mphomothae6258 Před rokem +3

      Exactly what happened to me, 4 months ago...she's been trying to throw me a bone and I never fell for her stupid tricks...I'm completely over her...

    • @cloudattack3279
      @cloudattack3279 Před rokem +3

      Watch out she may orbit back in to your square dude. Put her in her place quick smart. She isnt genuine, she missed out 👍

  • @benchyboy9668
    @benchyboy9668 Před rokem +5

    That's why I don't use social media, All my conversations are IRL unless their my homies

  • @CoachKen10
    @CoachKen10 Před rokem +8

    "Prepare for the fuckery!"
    That's absolute gold.

  • @setentaytres5303
    @setentaytres5303 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Man idk if my phone reads my mind, but this is exactly what I needed to hear. I have other options, but I don’t like em.😂 I don’t care why it hit today, but thank you.

  • @shubhkatheria
    @shubhkatheria Před 3 měsíci +2

    YOU GAINED A SUBSCRIBER BRO, TOP QUALITY CONTENT..

  • @BEASTMODEDYNASTY
    @BEASTMODEDYNASTY Před rokem +10

    She lost her damn mind 😂

  • @GeoffGroves
    @GeoffGroves Před 6 měsíci +2

    !!!! "The Fuckery is Coming" !!! Love this guy

  • @TimothyGPTSanders
    @TimothyGPTSanders Před 9 měsíci +4

    I really appreciate your videos my brother, wish I would've came to your channel sooner. I've noticed a pattern when i texted a woman, and then they get disinterested, now i see why. Too much focus on a woman can really damage you

  • @deanobambino9463
    @deanobambino9463 Před rokem +6

    Dont chase an ex that don't want to be chased rise up upgrade and better yourself let her see you doing good hit her were it hurts post the things were You are doing better

  • @jbthajugganaut793
    @jbthajugganaut793 Před rokem +7

    The first 35 seconds of the vid tho. 🤣🤣🤣

  • @sgreeff6678
    @sgreeff6678 Před rokem +5

    Man idk. My twin brother dated this narcissistic miserable female for three months in high school in 11th grade. She dumped him because she fell inlove with someone else. He can't stop obsessing over her, it's been 3 years and he still wants to be with her. Man he went to therapy, loads and loads of people tried to talk to him. I ended up not speaking to him for 6-7 months last year, he didn't even try to talk to me. This female has severed our ties completely, we both resent each other and i honestly can't stand this. It breaks my heart man, i tried talking to him about this but he screams and gets angry at me. He said that i can't possibly understand what they had and how they understand each other. I tried playing this video as loud as i can across from him, and not even 3 minutes in, he gets up and starts walking out. Man i have tried everything i can. I'm just done. If he decides to kill himself in the end because of this girl, so be it. I honestly can't anymore man.

    • @ShaunZachary
      @ShaunZachary  Před rokem +6

      You can’t red pill your homies, they will have to learn on their own (if ever)

  • @zyciebezlimitow
    @zyciebezlimitow Před rokem +13

    10 k subscribers well done 👏👏

  • @paladin6593
    @paladin6593 Před rokem +19

    Another masterpiece Shaun! It’s crazy how I will stomp any man who disrespects me, yet I would simp when it came to women or put them first. NO MORE!! Your videos and some red pills are working! Applying all of it is easier said than done, however, my new mind set is starting to form as time goes by. I will be patient, persistent, and consistent. Peace my friend 👊🏻

  • @zyciebezlimitow
    @zyciebezlimitow Před rokem +5

    So true only thing is when you was rejected as a kid that make a lot harder to over come the situation..

    • @RedTabletTalk
      @RedTabletTalk Před rokem

      I definitely understand. Kids used to call me ugly and retarded to my face. Even as an adult, when I piss somebody off, they tend to call me retarded or slow.

  • @Charleswhite2
    @Charleswhite2 Před rokem +5

    I’m just at the point now where idec bout none of that anymore. 3 years traded for someone else at an instant. It only 3 things on my mind now.
    Money
    Status
    Success
    I can do and live alone.
    Making progress and improvements so I will never go back in that place mentally ever again. That was the worse.

  • @awilliams310
    @awilliams310 Před rokem +14

    Always I mean ALWAYS...FOCUS ON YOUR PURPOSE..YOUR GRIND!!! NOTHING makes a girl's attraction go through the roof like a man on his PURPOSE. SHES NOT THE PRIZE!!! YOU ARE!

  • @TYE2020
    @TYE2020 Před rokem +5

    get to know yourself better before you find someone to date don’t be needy over one girl you like u need to focus on yourself and do things u like to do she will reach out to u

  • @nadiiabodnarchuk6630
    @nadiiabodnarchuk6630 Před měsícem +1

    Im a girl and this is useful for me as well!

  • @Tom-cp6yj
    @Tom-cp6yj Před rokem +17

    I was in a very "confusing" situation with a co worker years ago.. we had this draw to one another but we were both already in another relationship and all we could really do is just text.. it became an obsession on my end because I was obsessed with the idea of a new beginning which I believed we both needed and it didn't end well of course..

  • @trillmix0652
    @trillmix0652 Před rokem +2

    Nothing but the truth brotha!

  • @rramosrup
    @rramosrup Před rokem +1

    Thanks Shaun, excellent video!

  • @chocolatehater9027
    @chocolatehater9027 Před rokem +1

    This was really eye opening to listen to! Thanks Shaun !

  • @sanity1977
    @sanity1977 Před rokem +2

    This video is deep. Thank you 🙏

  • @dave-rupofficial4627
    @dave-rupofficial4627 Před rokem +2

    Another bombastic video . Thank you Shaun

  • @MRindependentTHINK
    @MRindependentTHINK Před 3 měsíci +2

    Become and develop Dark Triad traits

  • @TheKrisu98
    @TheKrisu98 Před rokem +1

    Thanks bro, I needed that more than you think. We grind

  • @waifuislaifu8791
    @waifuislaifu8791 Před rokem +3

    based. Ive been through it. move on

  • @hsucduw
    @hsucduw Před 5 měsíci

    I needed this, thanks bro

  • @joelhernandez41
    @joelhernandez41 Před rokem +4

    This man dropping hard facts. Love your msg

  • @just_arbu
    @just_arbu Před rokem +3

    Thanks man, your word's are getting straight into heart....🍀

  • @FinalLifeForm
    @FinalLifeForm Před rokem +3

    Thank you Shaun.

  • @the.orlandogonzalez
    @the.orlandogonzalez Před 4 dny

    There's this girl I liked back in middle school, I really liked her later on in my senior year I found out she liked me but she has a boyfriend, only reason why I'm obsessed is that she's the only one who liked me, she's actually obsessed with me as I do she found out the store I worked in and she comes around sometimes and she smiled at me when she gotta glance the 2nd time she came in here

  • @patrickcomack5259
    @patrickcomack5259 Před 2 měsíci

    Preach!!

  • @oliveronyango2075
    @oliveronyango2075 Před rokem +3

    Zach you're my dude. Oh boy, you've changed my attitude towards a woman who's been running me around! I'm getting over it, bro. Thanks so much.

  • @nickpapamallis8369
    @nickpapamallis8369 Před rokem +6

    You're a legend

  • @libo6368
    @libo6368 Před rokem +1

    Great video...nice and clear thinking

  • @benchyboy9668
    @benchyboy9668 Před rokem +1

    Thanks for the advice Shaun

  • @userwater777
    @userwater777 Před 11 měsíci

    So on point here!

  • @thefrenchmaninmyhead3297
    @thefrenchmaninmyhead3297 Před rokem +13

    My partner just left me today and took our 4 year old son and my life with her. All over a silly disagreement. But I have said before I don't agree with it and still does it in front of me. But I'm gonna take your advice shaun from a different video. And give her radio silence. I feel if we got back together, the same thing would keep happening and not get resolved ever. I'm so grateful I found you here in CZcams. You've made tonight more bearable for me. Thank you so much, from a man in need in the UK 👍

    • @olumideborofficemusic
      @olumideborofficemusic Před rokem

      Be strong my brother.

    • @awilliams310
      @awilliams310 Před rokem +1

      Prayers are with you brother. Stay strong for your child. Stand tall and act with integrity. You're the MAN and keep showing her that. Respect

    • @rogerlong6717
      @rogerlong6717 Před rokem

      Good luck bro.

  • @DFearsNothing
    @DFearsNothing Před 5 měsíci +1

    been dealing this this for a while. good stuff man thank you

  • @alexdk9955
    @alexdk9955 Před rokem +3

    Thank you for reminding us to focus on our purpose first of all, Shaun! ...oh yeah and that about the void... yeah men ...that's more than the truth!

  • @curtiscraft3297
    @curtiscraft3297 Před rokem +3

    Salute and Respect Shaun! Thank You!

  • @dc9582
    @dc9582 Před rokem +2

    Your videos are helping me to mantain a decent frame. Would like to see you talk about Stoic mentality

  • @CoachKen10
    @CoachKen10 Před rokem +3

    F+ck those text messages.
    She needs to hear your voice AND see your face when you speak.

  • @robertgregory415
    @robertgregory415 Před 6 měsíci

    So much wisdom in his words.

  • @berrybestlifestyle9188
    @berrybestlifestyle9188 Před rokem +2

    Best drop yet!

  • @chevchelioz6663
    @chevchelioz6663 Před rokem +2

    10k subssss for this Champion! Congratzzz!!🎉

  • @terencecassidy6477
    @terencecassidy6477 Před 8 měsíci

    I think I needed to hear this

  • @kula3975
    @kula3975 Před rokem +1

    When u said u r trying to fill that void with a woman.losing battle it is.Really hit me..really did !!!!!!!!!

  • @donovinmatthews1827
    @donovinmatthews1827 Před rokem

    Great video!

  • @Sam-uh3oe
    @Sam-uh3oe Před 5 měsíci

    Shaun, I appreciate your bluntness and intelligence. You’re at the top my man but I can see you’ll go even higher.

  • @michaelfelix126
    @michaelfelix126 Před rokem +4

    Damn Shaun, You are the true G for sharing us this tips. God bless you Shaun.

  • @thevision7947
    @thevision7947 Před rokem +3

    Damn my guy Strikes again

  • @deetee8089
    @deetee8089 Před rokem +2

    Truth!

  • @Diego-tg3xs
    @Diego-tg3xs Před rokem +1

    Thanks for the video bro 👏💯 you’re like an older brother to us younger guys 😌

    • @ShaunZachary
      @ShaunZachary  Před rokem +1

      Just tryna pay it forward bro. Hope you do the same one day

  • @godsonrobinson9843
    @godsonrobinson9843 Před rokem +8

    Ay man I just wanna let you know you are highly appreciated you truly taught me so much

  • @JamesJones-yw6to
    @JamesJones-yw6to Před rokem +7

    Lmao I couldn’t help but smile when you said she’s dating multiple men while dating you.I’ve been four weeks removed from telling shorty I’ll never speak to her again.our silence as a males is power.she’s used to chasers and I just separated myself from the orbiters 💯 sure she’s with a lame rn but I’m the one she thinks about,the guy that was able and willing to punt her

    • @OnyXApolloK
      @OnyXApolloK Před rokem +3

      same situation exactly down the road we'll be up they can kick rocks lmao

    • @JamesJones-yw6to
      @JamesJones-yw6to Před rokem +3

      @@OnyXApolloK us winning in the end is already written.it get tough some days but we can’t afford to play bout our respect.💯

    • @OnyXApolloK
      @OnyXApolloK Před rokem +2

      @@JamesJones-yw6tospot on well spoken

    • @ShaunZachary
      @ShaunZachary  Před rokem +1

      @@JamesJones-yw6to 💯💯💯Facts

  • @proof5024
    @proof5024 Před rokem

    Thank you Shaun

  • @user-zk2hj7hp7f
    @user-zk2hj7hp7f Před 9 měsíci +1

    I love you shaun

  • @nawinmutti4091
    @nawinmutti4091 Před 9 měsíci

    Thanks

  • @electric7508
    @electric7508 Před rokem +3

    You shouldn't be obsessing over women period.

  • @briangilbert137
    @briangilbert137 Před 6 měsíci

    Shawn says it like it is! This is sound advice. This is the attitude to have with women. Just like he said work on it and apply it.

  • @michaelhurst2911
    @michaelhurst2911 Před rokem

    Great video he's 100,percent 👌 true 👍

  • @ndondiafrika249
    @ndondiafrika249 Před rokem +3

    true, actually 99% of time you created her 'perfect persona' in the mind. which is not real

  • @RAJNOVA784
    @RAJNOVA784 Před 4 měsíci

    It didn't do a justice where she was self centered and wanting to place interest in her and goes into toxic relationships.

  • @jameslanz2117
    @jameslanz2117 Před rokem +1

    “Like human fucking beings”. Dude. Nailed it.

  • @leeortiz2687
    @leeortiz2687 Před rokem +1

    Shaun is true playa. Listen to this man! If it wasn’t for him I would be fukd up

  • @Chopperdog
    @Chopperdog Před rokem +3

    My woman looks like a instagram model but she has only ever had one phone call from me and it was only to return her missed call i only return her messages to she never complains.

  • @luiseleon93
    @luiseleon93 Před 6 měsíci

    I prematurely let go of my side chicks when I found her 😂 my biggest mistake , she didn’t want anything serious and I was anxious as hell because I was in scarcity

  • @nicholasr4774
    @nicholasr4774 Před rokem +7

    Yeah but Shaun..you just don't understand.. that potato salad was so. Damn. Good.

  • @clintonsthilaire
    @clintonsthilaire Před rokem +4

    Another one !!!!

  • @jasondavis8952
    @jasondavis8952 Před rokem +1

    its hard to let go.

  • @MrPdoyle007
    @MrPdoyle007 Před rokem

    That simp voice (and we’ve all been there, unfortunately) is absolute gold 😅

  • @mike.pittsburgh3466
    @mike.pittsburgh3466 Před 11 měsíci

    A lot has changed in the last 20 years.

  • @RedTabletTalk
    @RedTabletTalk Před rokem +1

    I just turned 40 a week ago and I even changed my CZcams name from holyvampirealucard to a more mature name Red Tablet Talk. This maturity includes not obsessive over any woman anymore. At this point in my life, I feel more comfortable being alone than with a woman or anybody else for that matter. My sex drive isn’t what it used to be, so I’m able to focus more on my purpose.

  • @Krishnnan2079
    @Krishnnan2079 Před rokem +1

    🙌🏻🤟🏻

  • @ignaciocarda6004
    @ignaciocarda6004 Před rokem +1

    Potato salad 🥔, LMAO! Keep preaching bro! I have one question. Has your "Flake on a first date" video been taken down? Or can we find it on your patreon now? I can't seem to find it again and I wanted to show it to some friends! That's the video that made me subscribe to you 💪

  • @adriellmcontreras9314
    @adriellmcontreras9314 Před rokem +1

    Yup

  • @RuuTrades
    @RuuTrades Před rokem +1

    😂😂😂😂Intro

  • @AYYYEEEEYOOO
    @AYYYEEEEYOOO Před rokem +1

    Bro my story is when I get a girl I like all of my insecurities and feeling not worthy comes out and I end up sabotaging the shit.. I get and can keep ALL THE CHICS I don’t care about 😂. Funny but so frustrating

  • @THEMANMINDSET
    @THEMANMINDSET Před rokem +2

    lol good vid

    • @ShaunZachary
      @ShaunZachary  Před rokem

      Appreciate you stopping through and checking out my video, Steve. You are one of the OG’s in the game. Much respect ✊🏼

  • @leeortiz2687
    @leeortiz2687 Před rokem

    1000%

  • @mike.pittsburgh3466
    @mike.pittsburgh3466 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Correct me if I’m wrong, but isn’t the entire idea of marriage that you are supposed to be focused only on one woman?

  • @randomvideos3674
    @randomvideos3674 Před rokem +1

    i like when this dude talks about other guys like the poockies and the rays rays funny sh1t

  • @robertgregory415
    @robertgregory415 Před 6 měsíci

    Shaun. You should take up stand-up comedy.