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  • What to say when she tries to break things off with you. "OK, No Problem".
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  • @ShaunZachary
    @ShaunZachary  Před rokem +7

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  • @devontezp347
    @devontezp347 Před rokem +108

    I wish I would've just told my ex wife "Ok No Problem" when asked for a divorce. Luckily I moved out & did no contact. Since then she's now reaching out through her burner aacount on Facebook. She's also reached out through a banking app we used to share together. I just read what she wrote & I continue to work on self improvement. Fellas don't let these women stress you out. If she walks away, then bid her farewell & you keep it moving. If you share kids with a woman who dumped you just focus on yourself & your children. You don't owe your kids mom nothing. Stay on task & focus on your purpose. Life is a Marathon & you will have lows & highs on this journey. Make the best of this life we've been given. Stay Blessed Everyone

    • @ShaunZachary
      @ShaunZachary  Před rokem +12

      Blessings bro have a good weekend ✊🏼

    • @bjnaves1192
      @bjnaves1192 Před rokem +5

      Wise words bro. I know first hand about the BS with an ex wife and kids. Whatever you do, stay on your purpose and don’t let her get to you. Don’t let her use the kids on you either

    • @planetphatness
      @planetphatness Před rokem +3

      My ex wanted me back but she wanted me to fight for her. I laughed about that one, I'm like, I'm not the one asking you back.

    • @devontezp347
      @devontezp347 Před rokem +3

      ​@@bjnaves1192 she's already using the kids against me. I also know her mom went back & told her that I have a girlfriend. At this point in my life I don't care about her feelings. I'm about my money & making sure my nieces are well taken care of. My girlfriend is a blessing & I'm ready to start this journey with her. If lesbianism doesn't work out for my ex-wife then she will be screwed in her dating life.

    • @devontezp347
      @devontezp347 Před rokem +3

      ​@@planetphatness we should never fight to have a woman stay with us. I'm glad you laughed at her goofy ass & you kept it moving.

  • @AnthonyMassarelli
    @AnthonyMassarelli Před rokem +25

    I am done putting my heart into women that don't deserve it.thanks for your help

    • @su2sa1li4
      @su2sa1li4 Před rokem +6

      Your heart is only to god and your mission

    • @stevo6891
      @stevo6891 Před 3 měsíci

      I agree man because every time I did it got crushed no more..

    • @stevo6891
      @stevo6891 Před 3 měsíci

      @@su2sa1li4You are absolutely correct

  • @cosmeticcarrepair
    @cosmeticcarrepair Před rokem +37

    I managed to do it in two words last time ‘No Problem’ 🤣
    She last minute cancelled a date. So I went straight to my gym instead
    Brilliant motivational content as always 💪🏽

  • @stevenmorganofficial5696
    @stevenmorganofficial5696 Před rokem +13

    I rather break her ego than to inflate it

  • @jbthajugganaut793
    @jbthajugganaut793 Před rokem +10

    Silence is also golden.

  • @67spankadelik
    @67spankadelik Před rokem +12

    I have a reply better than that. And that's no reply at all. Instant ghost! Guys silence is power. They want to provoke you and Gaslight you into sending a beg text back so they can show their friends and laugh at you.

  • @Sexytaco71
    @Sexytaco71 Před 11 měsíci +27

    Confidence is walking away from something that no longer serves you, with indifference and no reaction. It's a super power.

  • @drewgriffith1808
    @drewgriffith1808 Před rokem +15

    Works like a mf charm. When we exercise control over our emotions we win even when it seems like an L. Never ever chase! Let the universe universe!

  • @williamtsol636
    @williamtsol636 Před 8 měsíci +5

    👍
    Speaking as a 63 year old male !!
    100 %

  • @thinkingoutloud675
    @thinkingoutloud675 Před rokem +6

    My go to phrase is always
    "i understand"

  • @Tonycrossfit
    @Tonycrossfit Před 9 měsíci +5

    Dumper laugh now cry later. Dumpee cry now laugh later 😂

  • @felipemotta797
    @felipemotta797 Před 9 měsíci +5

    Man, even that is saying too much. I just turned my back and kept moving. I'll never forget that day. And after almost 4 years, she still spying on me. Keep moving forward!

  • @jayl8547
    @jayl8547 Před rokem +14

    Listen fellas just start going to the gym. It will get your mind and body straight. If you already go to the gym distract yourself with something else. Believe me it will work. But first say the three magic words lol!!!!

  • @jacknorton3771
    @jacknorton3771 Před rokem +26

    Perfect timing on this one bro. My ex is trying to worm her way back and moved on. I have a new woman I am interested in and she knows it. She closed the door on herself that was all the closure I needed.

    • @jacknorton3771
      @jacknorton3771 Před rokem +2

      @@northsideyanks you are correct. Just trying to see if she can steal me away from the new one and then bam , kicked to the curb. She is that kind of person.

  • @Ash_Hudson
    @Ash_Hudson Před rokem +31

    It works so well because it takes a monumentally large pair of balls to be able to just walk away like that, especially when feelings were involved. It's really hard for dudes to do because so much ego is involved as well. It's a fucking strong response though, devastating for her even because it's so rare for them to witness. This was a good video, man.

    • @ShaunZachary
      @ShaunZachary  Před rokem +6

      Facts bro 💯

    • @adad5891
      @adad5891 Před rokem +4

      Real talk!!

    • @Avareee.
      @Avareee. Před 7 měsíci +1

      I did this to a girl whom I saw in a regular basis, I asked her out, she declined. I straight up ignored her afterwards, while she was still staring at me from time to time. After the 3rd week of ignoring she stopped showing up. Idk if it's coincidence, of her not showing up anymore though 🤣

  • @carlmarch9591
    @carlmarch9591 Před 11 měsíci +9

    This is gold mate all the best to our allies across the pond 🇬🇧🇺🇲

  • @Extrapua
    @Extrapua Před rokem +5

    7:21 she knows before you even months in advance when she gonna break up with you. Always!

  • @CoachMacho954
    @CoachMacho954 Před rokem +29

    Told a chick "no problem" in December. Didn't speak to her for months. Well guess who just randomly popped back into my life and got them cheeks clapped? 🤣 Play the long game fellas.

  • @sihlemasondo2898
    @sihlemasondo2898 Před rokem +7

    " ok no problem " and next !

  • @OziBlokeTimG
    @OziBlokeTimG Před rokem +8

    23 years of marriage, invested heavily in the whole process, loved the girl dearly.
    Would have done just about anything not to finish in divorce. Long story short, conversation went, from her, let's get divorced. Well I said I've given you everything else you asked for so if it's divorce you now want, consider it done.
    Yes it was painful and still working through it, every day now getting better.
    Love your channel Shaun, you have great advice and certainly seem to have it together.
    Keep it rolling..... best wishes.

    • @OziBlokeTimG
      @OziBlokeTimG Před rokem

      @@albertodeulofeu5277 Exactly, sipped out, looser.

  • @trapped-ion
    @trapped-ion Před rokem +24

    The immediate response I got was:
    "What does 'OK, no problem' mean?"
    😂

  • @universal728-
    @universal728- Před 9 měsíci +5

    Just gave the ok no problem 😎

  • @lasvegasplease
    @lasvegasplease Před rokem +18

    Wow, was feeling a bit down today then my brother comes up with this. Thanks dude. Much love

  • @ntsikelelonkambule2299
    @ntsikelelonkambule2299 Před rokem +4

    Just cut your losses and move on fellas 💯

  • @agsotonukable
    @agsotonukable Před 11 měsíci +6

    It's going to be so difficult, seemingly impossible at the time, but no matter how bad you feel, how much you want her back, please please listen to Shaun's advice on this video.

  • @whitegriffin92093
    @whitegriffin92093 Před rokem +13

    Amen! A-freakin-men! Shaun, I wish I could've heard this back when my breakup with my narcissistic cheating ex was fresh!

  • @ThAgOOsEmAn1
    @ThAgOOsEmAn1 Před rokem +7

    Let’s see if this works I’m using your strategy as we speak. Truth. Will follow up.

    • @ShaunZachary
      @ShaunZachary  Před rokem +2

      💯💯 Good luck

    • @ThAgOOsEmAn1
      @ThAgOOsEmAn1 Před rokem +5

      @@ShaunZachary shit worked like a charm. Killed the ego. Options matter. 👍🏼

    • @ShaunZachary
      @ShaunZachary  Před rokem +1

      In under two weeks, salute🫡

  • @MarkHadleyUK
    @MarkHadleyUK Před 9 měsíci +2

    The best video yet. I'm going to remember this.
    In the past, all I have done is try to persuade them not to dump me. It never worked, it only ever made it worse or dragged it out.

  • @MrTundra24
    @MrTundra24 Před 10 měsíci +2

    My brother Shaun is only trying to help us!!! Tough talk sucks sometimes. But it means he cares and is trying to make an impact.

  • @dominikkkkkkkkkkkkk
    @dominikkkkkkkkkkkkk Před rokem +3

    great video, let her miss you and think about her decision

  • @alphap9007
    @alphap9007 Před rokem +3

    In my experience you’ll get more answers if you say this to her then go grey rock & silent.
    Even though her answers are basic “ I’m a confused little girl that’s also testing you”, excuses.
    Everything under the Sun, has already been done!
    Dont sweat it, don’t be bitter, don’t be vengeful.
    Your girl, my woman any woman has nothing new to say when it comes to rejecting you.

  • @TES-yl4wj
    @TES-yl4wj Před rokem +4

    One of the best videos yet... Real talk and perspective.. "Ok - No Problem"..... Thanks Shaun! 😂🤣😅

  • @MegaDrummerdude13
    @MegaDrummerdude13 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I am still so embarrassed that one time I had oneitis... I allowed a woman to hold power over me. I put her on a pedestal and chased her when she ran away! Pathetic.
    I won't allow myself to act like that again. I was better, I am better. I just broke up with the girl I was seeing for the last 3 years. She was becoming disrespectful and unappreciative. Bye Felicia

  • @CoachKen10
    @CoachKen10 Před rokem +7

    This video is gold!

  • @JSoulKeys
    @JSoulKeys Před rokem +12

    Fam I needed to hear this again.. I appreciate you alot. Love bro 💯

  • @Extrapua
    @Extrapua Před rokem +7

    I wish you to become so big as Kevin sammuels

  • @michaelshollaj6428
    @michaelshollaj6428 Před 21 dnem

    My mistake was that I remembered her all the beautiful things we did in past, how it started and she told me to never leave her, her answer was "this was in the past" and I yelled at her, I regret for that. I shouldn't acted emotional at all, just I should've said to her, okay no problem. Lesson learned

  • @killswitchrich1430
    @killswitchrich1430 Před rokem +1

    This been my mindset for ever, like I don’t need closure or clarity it’s over ok cool I’m out don’t hit me up for nothing

  • @jamesmadison6336
    @jamesmadison6336 Před rokem +2

    Well said. 💯

  • @Out_my_cotton_picking_mind
    @Out_my_cotton_picking_mind Před 10 měsíci +2

    I like the “sweetie” at the end

  • @PlumeMarqueur
    @PlumeMarqueur Před 9 hodinami

    As a women this is of true. If I finally make that decision to break up with a guy, it’s because he either cheated or cheated! Orrr the communication is bad because he lies or shows no interest. Now if he come bad abs fights this is looks very good and makes a woman feel like he do cares. If he says okay, no problem he really didn’t care from the beginning

  • @kev69323
    @kev69323 Před rokem +7

    Thank you my brother! The timing of this video is impeccable! I am in a very similar situation!

  • @Snappingttturtlle
    @Snappingttturtlle Před rokem +2

    Thank you Shaun i needed someone to tell me this.

  • @zyciebezlimitow
    @zyciebezlimitow Před rokem +3

    Good one Shaun 👍 thank you

  • @logixv
    @logixv Před rokem +1

    Again Shaun, brilliant my brother 👍

  • @tayedillon2594
    @tayedillon2594 Před rokem +2

    Yessir speaking facts, have a good one OG.

  • @joshwilliams6517
    @joshwilliams6517 Před rokem +5

    Right on time once again

  • @ravenron9154
    @ravenron9154 Před rokem

    Thanks for this video

  • @saiufhasjfih8220
    @saiufhasjfih8220 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Appreciate u bro needed this been subbed for a while

  • @zamilmilano8552
    @zamilmilano8552 Před rokem +4

    Ok, no problem ✌️. Great video Shaun!

  • @francoismarc3
    @francoismarc3 Před rokem +1

    Truth to POWER!!!

  • @Andrea_ft.V
    @Andrea_ft.V Před rokem +2

    You know Shaun, a thing that i find very interesting about videos like this and others that you've made, is that this can be related both if the girl is in a relationship with us or if she isn't...or at least, that's what i feel watching your videos. Keep this up 😄 (thank you from Italy)

  • @kebman
    @kebman Před rokem

    Thank you!

  • @emmanuelmushe6739
    @emmanuelmushe6739 Před rokem +4

    Shaun you are the real deal thanx man

  • @patrickcomack5259
    @patrickcomack5259 Před 8 dny

    Preach, sir!!

  • @johnT906
    @johnT906 Před rokem

    All facts 💯

  • @boyzbad1978
    @boyzbad1978 Před rokem +3

    Love your content bro...we appreciate u. 💯

  • @therealistthereis3852
    @therealistthereis3852 Před rokem +4

    My guy Shaun always coming with that 🔥

  • @mooneyrj76
    @mooneyrj76 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I gotta admit i have been there...great advice.

  • @cedricraphiel3339
    @cedricraphiel3339 Před rokem

    Let's gooooooo 💪🏿👐🏿 hey another great video appreciate u my guy ...

  • @bigvegas0549
    @bigvegas0549 Před rokem +4

    Excellent ❤video Shaun 🎉

  • @bjnaves1192
    @bjnaves1192 Před rokem +4

    Man you kept it 💯

  • @nunkito
    @nunkito Před rokem +1

    Much support from Australia 🇦🇺 Shaun. Thankyou

  • @Myrslokstok
    @Myrslokstok Před 10 měsíci +2

    "We want women who want us" 😃 yes we do!

  • @Yung_Wicklove
    @Yung_Wicklove Před rokem

    Word up!

  • @darion1kTv_speak
    @darion1kTv_speak Před rokem +1

    Shaun I love your channel man I’m only 20 years old just turn 20 3 weeks ago and the videos u put out here it amazing man I love your channel keep it up dude!!

  • @josephgreer2685
    @josephgreer2685 Před 10 měsíci

    Needed that

  • @KhmerGuy1988
    @KhmerGuy1988 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I’m gonna do it for my BOY Shaun! The next time…

  • @MrJayChoww
    @MrJayChoww Před rokem +2

    He's so right, African man say ok, no problem all the time

  • @Lunaiee
    @Lunaiee Před rokem +1

    10 months radio silence, whenever, if ever she sees me its gonna be like she saw a ghost 😂

  • @smokiegalaxy8650
    @smokiegalaxy8650 Před rokem

    real talk ok no problem

  • @thetruthwillsetyoufree7167

    Great content I would say most men will go through this what your saying is 💯 facts but I would say let them get burnt it’s the only way to learn brother that’s how I did but what your saying is facts if they go get with other woman straight away even if your in pain and hit the gym and focus on your money

  • @indiamoreno4859
    @indiamoreno4859 Před 11 měsíci +1

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤I Love this Brother Shaun😅😅😅😅meow

  • @RobertTanguay
    @RobertTanguay Před rokem +7

    Wild stallions lol

  • @athertonwisdom5442
    @athertonwisdom5442 Před 8 měsíci

    Ok No problem

  • @clintonsthilaire
    @clintonsthilaire Před rokem

    Word🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @MrFennmeista
    @MrFennmeista Před 10 měsíci +1

    I'm here cuz Shaun speaks str8upFaxx

  • @giannimorandinix2156
    @giannimorandinix2156 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Goat

  • @nivea878
    @nivea878 Před 7 měsíci +1

    😂 nice next time i do exactly that

  • @bencobbina1409
    @bencobbina1409 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Damn, i wish i knew this 3weeks ago.

  • @RT-hz5uv
    @RT-hz5uv Před 11 měsíci +1

    I need to admit this. I did some of this. Only because we have a child together and she was being secretive. We didn't break up though either. As soon as I found out, I did nothing but try to see my kid. Nothing else.

  • @dougholimon
    @dougholimon Před rokem +4

    Thank you Shaun... I needed this. I've lately been trying to "work" on our problems for the sake of my three children but I dont take her seriously. In fact I tell her all the time I cant take her seriously... Ive been improving myself and living in the gym the past year. Im done with school. Im just going to move on. She's not even worth it... I needed this big bro. Corner coach Shaun for the win again.

  • @jacquesviau6165
    @jacquesviau6165 Před 4 měsíci

    I heard the English, the Spanish I did not hear the French one 😂😂😂

  • @KW-gs2gp
    @KW-gs2gp Před 15 dny

    Ok, 👍 is even shorter.

  • @legendarybuck7210
    @legendarybuck7210 Před měsícem

    What happens if you beg and chased and then told her I never want her in my life again and send some of my sh*,t back?

    • @legendarybuck7210
      @legendarybuck7210 Před měsícem

      Shorty angered me so much I just told her to basically f*ck off

  • @planetphatness
    @planetphatness Před rokem +1

    "Bustdowns"
    I haven't heard that word since 2003

  • @MrIowahawks77
    @MrIowahawks77 Před rokem +2

    At first this is hard than it’s like don’t waste my time. Next

  • @Myrslokstok
    @Myrslokstok Před 10 měsíci +1

    Well 9% of guys are:
    1) unmarried
    2) $40k a year
    3) 5'8"
    4) nonobeese
    Usually they think its 90%.

  • @MrWatauga71
    @MrWatauga71 Před rokem +1

    Yeah my ex broke up with me a week and a half after our families met for the first time while she was on her graduation trip in Europe with her sister. I panicked for like three days and called her family a couple times. We met up and had to exchange our shit and she called and lied to the cops to get a sheriff out to meet us and I still don’t know why. But after that I blocked her and haven’t given a shit since. Fucking crazy ass woman.

  • @ben.scanlan
    @ben.scanlan Před rokem

    As he's outside her house

  • @CanYouHandleThis
    @CanYouHandleThis Před 8 měsíci +1

    Embarrassed to say I did this in my 20s (30s now). He’s right, it didn’t work for me! I guess I was wired and influenced by movies, where the message is ‘to fight for her’. All and all it is horse shit and you should just walk away!

  • @shiBuyaking109
    @shiBuyaking109 Před 11 měsíci

    Yup in my 30s I don’t do any of the things I did In my 20s it’s that simple

  • @indiamoreno4859
    @indiamoreno4859 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Don't go back and don't waist your sexual energy .Tell them brother ❤😹😹😻💋

  • @kayochambers9418
    @kayochambers9418 Před 8 měsíci

    What if she get mad(as in started getting attitude) and say ill talk to u later and then she hangup. Is that flat out disrespect or kinda sum to look over???

  • @TYE2020
    @TYE2020 Před rokem +1

    Just say the three words and move on

  • @jdarnellsix
    @jdarnellsix Před rokem +1

    Good job Shaun, as usual.