After A Break Up?

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  • čas přidán 8. 09. 2024
  • A discussion on understanding the roots of our discomfort and depression when going through a loss, loss of a marriage, break up, relationship..... Understanding what is it that we are missing and therefore what is it that is making us feel sad and out of place and depressed......
    #Breakup #heartbreak #lifecoach
    Mehran Dadbeh (Author)
    Break-Ups, Life & Your Psyche
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Komentáře • 45

  • @MehranDadbeh
    @MehranDadbeh  Před 9 lety +23

    Ya I know lol . I crack up myself every time I watch this segment ! Life is short dear, laugh it up, nothing other than serious health issues is of importance to the point of depression or everyday misery. So just don't allow things to keep you down and just go on and find new good things for yourself and know that everything changes and this what ever it is you are going through and dealing with , will pass as well, and if that is so in most all things in life, then why not feel as how we would feel when it has finally passed ! lets have that feeling of freedom which we will have then , now . because we know that it will happen anyways , it will pass any ways and we will get over it any ways, so lets benefit from it from right now on the notion of the fact that it will eventually ! :) Knowing that knowledge is like knowing the future , so then lets enjoy what we will enjoy in the future, now . :)

  • @karen.island3697
    @karen.island3697 Před 6 lety +3

    Oh Mehran!! I adore your sense of humour! I crack myself up like that all the time too. You have to be able to laugh at yourself, right? 🤣 Once again...another wonderful video. I always feel better after listening to you. Have a beautiful day. 😀

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 6 lety +1

      Lol, thank you, Karen. I am glad you are enjoying the videos and the humour in them as well. :)

  • @MikeJackson690
    @MikeJackson690 Před 5 lety +1

    I miss my best friend. I miss the future plans we had. I miss her voice. I miss doing things with her. I miss sleeping next to her every night. I miss making plans together. I miss her wisdom. I miss her touch. I miss hugging her. I miss seeing her every day.
    It's absolute agony, every day is a nightmare. 6 months on (last contact was in July) and I still feel the same. She was the one for me but I wasn't the one for her. I was too negative, insecure, argumentative, never lived in the moment.
    Now I feel more secure than ever.

  • @serhiyfriz1286
    @serhiyfriz1286 Před 8 lety +9

    hahaha your laugh is soo contagious :)

  • @kittenheels1958
    @kittenheels1958 Před 8 lety +6

    Ok ... I probably commented n I know I "liked" this but I'm back again to watch you laugh cuz it makes me laugh n u are a blessing to humanity Sir... I just can't get enough of this video... It's just the best medicine when I get down I come here and watch it all over again just to laugh with you.

  • @spcinfla
    @spcinfla Před 7 lety +4

    You laughing just made me laugh for no reason

  • @harebell6850
    @harebell6850 Před 7 lety +1

    Your laugh is a real tonic!!!

  • @theresemeggitt8455
    @theresemeggitt8455 Před 7 lety +2

    Mehran watching you laugh I couldn't stop laughing ; ).Reminded me of childhood my 2 brothers would try everything to get me to stop laughing. Laughed a lot as a child.

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 7 lety

      Therese Meggitt I couldn't stop either! :)

  • @cherbug1197
    @cherbug1197 Před 6 lety +1

    You're so fun!

  • @ritatelles8725
    @ritatelles8725 Před 7 lety +1

    Love to hear you laughing!!

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 7 lety

      :) Glad you are enjoying the videos Rita.

  • @kittenheels1958
    @kittenheels1958 Před 9 lety +2

    Very uplifting and encouraging

  • @_rachid
    @_rachid Před 7 lety +1

    That's so deep .. Thanks Mehran.

  • @Musicnyc777
    @Musicnyc777 Před 7 lety +1

    Thank you. I wrote once yesterday to thank you, I live in NYC and am 58. As a more butch Lesbian I can kind of identify with the boy role, although we are not all in a role, as stereotypes may be so. You enjoy your own company and humor like I do, I'm resonating.....there is no audience but you still enjoy. You have a good nature.

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 7 lety

      :) Yes Audrey you are right, I do enjoy what I do and the topics I discuss, and hope it will be enjoyed by others around the world and found helpful as well. I am glad You enjoy them and find them helpful as well.

  • @MrAlykinor
    @MrAlykinor Před 8 lety +1

    i love your term on Memories "illusions" that is very interesting to divert the moment emotion when missing something.

  • @futurergd
    @futurergd Před 10 lety +5

    I think you accidentally added something unusual into your cup :))

  • @andomandango6993
    @andomandango6993 Před 6 lety

    I thought i get over her but then there was a simply Talk with friends about a Greece island, where i were mit her a few months ago. And then i started crying a little bit because of the memory that we had together. This memory finished me...again. :(

  • @nazraahmed2881
    @nazraahmed2881 Před 6 lety +1

    Your very funny guy but also your intelligent person..!!! Thank you so much

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 6 lety

      I am glad you find them helpful Nasro. Please feel free to visit and like my FB page : facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/ where I have my announcements for Live Q & A Talks, and place supportive posts and videos. Please let me know from which country you are watching the videos and to which age category you belong to. It would be wonderful if you would share the videos you like on your social media to help others know that there is support after break-Ups and bring more exposure to what I do. Be good to yourself always. With thanks, Mehran
      P.S.
      How to join the live talks:
      You can join my live talks on Saturdays (At 11.30 AM Vancouver ( Pacific ) Time zone.) on Fb Page:
      facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/
      or on Sundays ( Same time ) on Fb Pagefacebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/
      This is how the post looks like for the Live Talk on Saturdays or Sundays which I will post it on my FB page: (facebook.com/mindthatseekstruth/) a day or a few hours or minutes prior to the Live Talk:
      LIVE Q & A on Your Breakup, Your Relationship, Your Psyche & Life.
      With Mehran D (Author)
      Unlock Your Mind & Move On!
      Sunday 11.30 AM Vancouver time (Pacific), 2.30 PM (Atlantic),
      12.30 after midnight (India) Right here on this link: facebook.com/AmazingThingsInTheWorld/
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  • @addygomez123ify
    @addygomez123ify Před 7 lety +1

    mehran i could not stop laughing with you, we have to learn how to laugh a our selves life is to short

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 7 lety

      good, lol yes it cracked myself up too when I watch it! :)

  • @STARWARSvagi
    @STARWARSvagi Před 7 lety +1

    I miss my gf because I had someone that I could kiss and hug...it was a 1Month relationship and I broke up 1 week ago and I am depressed...she was mynfirst relationship and now I am again alone and i hate it...please help me!!!!!

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 7 lety

      That is part of being a human being Evangelos. These are all experiences we must go through to learn how to feel and how to endure and how to manage when things don't go our way in life. These are all normal feelings and are not your cue to feel lost or feel alone or lonely or devastated. It just mean you are a normal human being and you want to have a girlfriend. All these relationships have their duration and there will always be another one which will present itself to you in time. So don't get too nuts it will all be fine and when the next relationships comes along you won't even remember or care about this one! :)
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    • @STARWARSvagi
      @STARWARSvagi Před 7 lety

      Mehran Dadbeh I don't know what's wrong with me but I can't eat anymore because of the break up. :(

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 7 lety +1

      Evangelos Paps. Dont worry you will eventualy move on and will wonder "why the hell did I ever felt so bad , what was all that for? " we have all done it and felt same ways and all recovered and hidenly laughed at ourselves when got a bit older and had found many more experiences in relationships. :) this is normal. Just know this and take it easy its not a big deal it just seems that way now.

    • @STARWARSvagi
      @STARWARSvagi Před 7 lety +1

      Mehran Dadbeh Thank you very much! :)

  • @lakshitjuneja265
    @lakshitjuneja265 Před 2 lety

    His laughing made me laugh so much 😂😂😂

  • @timoscherer2233
    @timoscherer2233 Před 7 lety +1

    hahahahahaha xD amazing xD by far the Best videó !!! 🤣😎 there couldnt be better Therapie in any way

  • @AnandTiwari-vc2zb
    @AnandTiwari-vc2zb Před 3 lety

    I'll have what he's having.

  • @fabiopetralia3018
    @fabiopetralia3018 Před 7 lety

    Hi Mehran, I know this might be a stupid question... how much does it take to get used to the new "me" ? Is there a way to speed up this process ?

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 7 lety

      LOL I know what you mean. :) Perhaps the easy , simplified answer would be the time it takes for you to get used to the new me equals to when you do not want or think about the ex. What you can to expedite this is to identify what you really like or love to do , create, contribute, research, complete a project and then pay full attention to this ( what ever it is ) that you like or love. A cause, a project, a goal for your living , future preparation to accomplish.....What ever it maybe of a positive nature that you thoroughly enjoy or like to learn, research, create, or accomplish and then pay full attention with great seriousness, attention or determination towards it.

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 7 lety

      These two videos may also be of some help :
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      czcams.com/video/mlQfY6XzafY/video.html&list=PLqVdLz3vowWHNdTUoPYYisSMDwEYzeSor&index=2

    • @fabiopetralia3018
      @fabiopetralia3018 Před 7 lety

      Thank you very much! I'm going to watch both of them. I sent you a private message on youtube and facebook, I would love if you could read it and tell me your hopinion, I really need your help and trust your way of seeing things.
      Thank you anyway! Have a nice day :)

    • @MehranDadbeh
      @MehranDadbeh  Před 7 lety

      Yes I saw it 20 minutes ago and responded. :)

  • @birdiecurry2100
    @birdiecurry2100 Před 5 lety

    Hilarious 😂

  • @maniialmonte
    @maniialmonte Před 7 lety

    u always laughing