Mens Age Matters To Date in Japan // Japanese Girls' Perspective

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  • Mens Age Matters To Date in Japan. (Even for foreigners who date in Japan!)
    Dating in japan as a man can be fun. No age limit, more options, nothing no worry about the future... But that can be a big mistake for some of you because mens age matters in japan!
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  • @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan
    @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan  Před rokem +20

    Of course it's your life, your choice, I'm just here to let you know how Japanese women in general think about men's age. Cheers!
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    • @Diebulfrog79
      @Diebulfrog79 Před rokem +1

      Too many bots

    • @close_friend_of_your_mom
      @close_friend_of_your_mom Před rokem

      Hello Asagi! I've been wanting to ask you for a long time. Is it true that your parents really like Asahi beer and that's why they called you by a similar name?

    • @openranks4519
      @openranks4519 Před rokem

      The average man does not have a lot of options at any age😂

    • @Yannis2022
      @Yannis2022 Před 10 měsíci

      And women in their 40's, do they also prefer men 28-32?

    • @BelleMorue
      @BelleMorue Před 7 měsíci

      OMG, I am a leftover at 46 yrs. I am always a leftover, but it is not so important. I met classmates from High school. A classmate's husband was violent, he killed her daughter and her with a knife. It was a real carnage a lot of blood everywhere in the house. This day, I understood, I was not ready to have a girlfriend in my life, too much emotional. I am sensitive, you know. My pleasure is different. I fixed my motorcycle after many weeks of work. Cheap old motorcycle, nobody wants to fix. I got out of the garage when the sky was red with this noisy and smoking machine. It was possible to see the beam light in the smoke. Myself, I was in my cloud near to paradise. I rode in the middle of the night outside the city, my 50/50 exhaust pipes received some complaints from cows on the country road. I park my motorcycle watching the sunrise thinking about the half of people in my life death before my 30 years old. Don't ask me to be with someone, I have enough with myself, enough crying for someone else's.

  • @guitarraiden
    @guitarraiden Před rokem +104

    I think many women are under the wrong impression that men don't want to settle in general, while in reality we may just not want to settle with the woman we are currently dating. When it comes to dating, men are not picky at all. However, we are very pick with who we settle with. Off curse, no one enjoys hurting someone's feeling so one may say "I am not ready to settle" instead of "I don't want to settle with you".

    • @koolkokujin7015
      @koolkokujin7015 Před rokem +3

      Truth!

    • @michaellovullo7363
      @michaellovullo7363 Před rokem

      Yes 80% of girls are attracted to the top 10% of men. A lot of guys now have no chance of meeting a girl that is why mgtow is a thing.

  • @30803080308030803081
    @30803080308030803081 Před rokem +35

    Most men are doing far less "casual dating" than you think.

    • @RiseUpToYourAbility
      @RiseUpToYourAbility Před rokem

      That is because most men don’t even meet the criteria for dating. Most women want a man making 6 figures and who is at least 6ft tall. That is already less than 10% of all men. 90% of men have no dates while 10% of men are spoiled for choice. The top 10% of men can casually date till they are well in their 50’s cause there is no way women are “settling” for average men.

    • @rafae5902
      @rafae5902 Před rokem +13

      Most men are doing no dating at all.
      We get burned up in our 20s by this cat and mouse game girls in their 20s play and in our 30s we just want to stay safe and not let things get too deep to avoid being burned up again.

    • @giannilyanicks1718
      @giannilyanicks1718 Před 5 měsíci

      another stupid generalizing. so easy to do that when you pass your life on internet

    • @BrgArt
      @BrgArt Před 4 měsíci +2

      @@rafae5902 try 25 bro. i got burnt at 19 ahah

  • @i_run_far1132
    @i_run_far1132 Před rokem +74

    My wife is Japanese and she is 5 years older than me. I was 22 when I met her and I was attracted to how sane she was. All the girls I dated in Japan were younger and slightly psycho.

    • @matthewvido3902
      @matthewvido3902 Před rokem +5

      Psycho how?

    • @TheAcadianGuy
      @TheAcadianGuy Před rokem +10

      @@matthewvido3902 date one and you'll know

    • @matthewvido3902
      @matthewvido3902 Před rokem +4

      @@TheAcadianGuy Already did, that's why I'm asking.

    • @matthewvido3902
      @matthewvido3902 Před rokem +3

      @@Wingzero90939 In what way?

    • @callmewhatever.7963
      @callmewhatever.7963 Před rokem

      @@Wingzero90939 On the psycho scale from 1-17, how psycho would you say the majority you have dated are? If not many, choose one that stands out and apply them to the psycho scale if you wish. 🧐

  • @RiseUpToYourAbility
    @RiseUpToYourAbility Před rokem +8

    The only reason why men are popular is their 30’s is because it takes that long to be financially successful. I didn’t become a doctor till I was 29, and finding a date is so easy. As long as you stay in shape women will keep coming well into your 40’s. A woman rather date a successful guy in his 40’s than a struggling guy in his 20’s. The so called left over men weren’t getting dates even when they were young. They have no career and no woman is willing to date them

  • @cutoffslim2003
    @cutoffslim2003 Před rokem +19

    Meeting a bunch of new women and finding out she didn’t have what he needed to dedicate his life to her isn’t ever fun.
    Ever.

  • @MrElderlee
    @MrElderlee Před rokem +10

    The most important thing is to have a true friendship.

  • @serenityssolace
    @serenityssolace Před rokem +124

    Am I the only guy that wants to marry/settled down with only 1 woman in my entire life and enjoy endless romance with her? And by settle down I don't mean to end my life in boringness. I actually want to start all the adventures and exciting experience together with my wife after we marry. After marriage the fun should start. Not the opposite (Yes, I am a bit too idealistic and romantic but I'm not the type that is dating many women.)

    • @Arycke
      @Arycke Před rokem +14

      No, I am this way, too.

    • @serenityssolace
      @serenityssolace Před rokem +11

      @@Arycke That's awesome! Stay the way you are and believe in your ideals!

    • @Arycke
      @Arycke Před rokem +7

      @@serenityssolace most definitely. Thanks man

    • @bannedgotit185
      @bannedgotit185 Před rokem +6

      That's very traditional and that's the best way. Sadly it's mostly men and women are mostly smash and pass.

    • @shutensarubachababa5072
      @shutensarubachababa5072 Před rokem +5

      Yes, you are the only one

  • @terminative
    @terminative Před rokem +14

    One of the benefits of having children younger is that you can share your youth with them. If you are feeling like you might be getting to old for children think about this; we *just might* have the opportunity to live drastically longer lives than ever before and age much more gracefully thanks for new technologies being developed. Best of luck!

    • @HarryNicNicholas
      @HarryNicNicholas Před rokem

      yes indeed, luckily when our son was growing up i was fit and healthy, but he's 24 and i'm 68 so although i'm not an "old fuddy duddy" the age gap is wide.

  • @Azraeluchiha999
    @Azraeluchiha999 Před rokem +16

    The real question is, why do women want to die alone so bad? Men have to be a certain height, certain race, certain age, make a certain amount of money, take you to certain places, have a certain type of car and house... Am I missing something?

    • @clinton4161
      @clinton4161 Před rokem +10

      Too many simps online and the self-esteem movement has made some people delusional. Some women are humble enough to be dateable. Not many left that are single. Don't forget to be humble yourself. It goes both ways. Guys can get unrealistic expectations too.

    • @30803080308030803081
      @30803080308030803081 Před rokem +2

      Women usually outlive their husbands. There might be a psychological adaptation for this in females. We men don't want to die alone, but women expect to die alone even if they are married.

    • @Rezzmari
      @Rezzmari Před rokem +1

      This is straight up generalizing. As a female, I won't generalize men in this way because not all of them are like the typical stereotypes you hear of. Just saying.

  • @dieinfire920
    @dieinfire920 Před rokem +9

    Single 42 years old man here, slim shape. After dating a few years in Japan, most of them were 10 years younger than me. My longest relationship with a Japanese was with a woman 6 years younger than me and we lived together for 5 years (dated for 6 years and for X reason never married). But I don’t mind if the other person is younger or older than me not either how she looks physically. What’s more important for me is her personality above all and if she can tolerate me going to concerts frequently (I happen to have a band also so I go out a lot). Now prioritizing on meetings someone who wants to settle up and get married.
    In my experience when it was about casual encounters, it happened for them to be very young, but when it was about dating, the age gap was much much shorter.
    Needles to say, I never used a dating app, it just happened when meeting people on concerts and such.

  • @jardeusmaximus4323
    @jardeusmaximus4323 Před rokem +16

    I stopped dating women at age 32.. I got so tired. and got addicted from being single. I felt secured once your sibling had children.

  • @AncestorEmpire1
    @AncestorEmpire1 Před rokem +17

    Pre 35:
    I got my health, some cash, and a car.
    Nah, I’ll be fine.
    37/ nowadays: if you don’t have a sense of humor, life gets miserable fast.
    Also: *Guts theme sold separately*

  • @martinulreich2567
    @martinulreich2567 Před rokem

    What a cool video - it´s pure fun to listen to Asagis wisdom.

  • @chamcham123
    @chamcham123 Před rokem +12

    The situation is very different in the US. 80% of the women will exclusively only go for the top 10% to 20% on dating apps. For the remaining 80% to 90% of American men, dating apps is an empty, dry desert and they would struggle to even get a few good matches. There was a video or article about a tall guy that swiped right on 16,000 girls on a dating app. In the end, he only got 3 real life dates and those dates didn’t go well. Also, men tend to reach their financial and mental peak around late 30s or early 40s. Maybe the situation is different in Japan because of the economy.

    • @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan
      @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan  Před rokem +3

      Lol. I've just talked about this in the same livestream. I'll edit that out 🤭

    • @CyberJedi1
      @CyberJedi1 Před rokem

      @@AsagisLifeNoBSJapan Most men are single today because women are too picky, women have way more options than men because of dating apps, so they develop an unrealistic expectation about men, they all want those 10% top guys, so there is not enough men for all the women! simple math. It's easier for women to lower their standards a little bit than to ask all men in the world to become tall, rich and handsome.

    • @GenyaArikado
      @GenyaArikado Před rokem

      Was he tall and ugly ?

    • @explorermike19
      @explorermike19 Před 9 měsíci

      @chamcham123. No. No. The idea that women only go for the top 10% or 20% of men and all the rest of the men are desert dry deserts is bullshit spread Mainly by CZcams. If 90% of men are single and lonely, then 90% of the women are single and lonely. Don't you believe it. Comb your hair, put on a clean shirt and get out their and date. There are MANY excellent women in every part of the world who would be happy to date you no matter what your height or financial status. Don't listen to all the CZcams bullshit.

  • @ramixpAPEX
    @ramixpAPEX Před rokem +1

    Omg I love your videos LOL thanks for the tips😂😂😂😂😂

  • @adrianlunn6449
    @adrianlunn6449 Před rokem

    Very good advice!

  • @vijaisingh2973
    @vijaisingh2973 Před 11 měsíci

    Hi Asagi , this your first video which I watched and I just loved your presentation❤😍. I was able to know few things about japan . Would love to watch more videos and know more about japan , japan culture , food and japanese woman. Thanks for sharing 👍

  • @SpawnedInTheHades
    @SpawnedInTheHades Před rokem +11

    I'm 5 months away from being leftovers? Oof. Lol, it's just as well, I think all the Japanese women I like are also considered leftovers, so maybe we can be leftovers together?

  • @robbieg416
    @robbieg416 Před rokem +9

    I can completely understand that age matters to younger Japanese women. What I'd be curious about, is if there is any realistic hope for a 40-year-old American with limited Japanese language skills to talk with a 40-year-old Japanese woman. I imagine the number of English-speaking single Japanese women in their 40s is probably small.

    • @osmanisildak2448
      @osmanisildak2448 Před rokem +2

      good point- there are women in their 30s looking to settle down.

    • @dieinfire920
      @dieinfire920 Před rokem +7

      If you are blond, clear eyes, tall and have money, you will not have any problems. I’ve met many people with those characteristics dating very beautiful women here in Japan, and in fact it’s usually the women the ones who want to settle down.

    • @clinton4161
      @clinton4161 Před rokem +1

      I'm 40 and talking online with a very attractive woman that's 43. My Japanese is pretty limited too. Some women will be interested for sure unless you're a total disaster.

    • @Wingzero90939
      @Wingzero90939 Před rokem +1

      Even so man either she has to be more on the western end of things/ western minded and be able to speak pretty high-level English… And I say that because Japan‘s test scores suck when it comes to the international entrance exams to study abroad for university TOFL/ TESOL... and that’s the younger generation I can’t imagine if she’s older than say someone in their 20s.
      So to be honest the same rules apply, you gotta find someone who has studied abroad and is at least Western educated or has Western sensibilities. Even if you learn to speak Japanese getting across emotions and understanding feelings that is far more complicated than just being able to order something off of a menu or buy something off of Amazon.
      Also you don’t want her to treat you like a Japanese guy but in a different skin, it has to be give-and-take with a balance your feelings matter too.

    • @702TifosiGambler
      @702TifosiGambler Před rokem

      @@dieinfire920 All that stuff doesn't matter 90% of my wife friends are single and 50% are interested in foreigners and of those its fairly split on what kind of foreigner they like it all varies from non Japanese asians, blacks(more than you think), white, Brazilians, Hispanics (more than you think) etc it doesn't matter all that height, skin color, hair color eyes is b.s lmao too many single women and relatives strained financially for them to be that picky here in Japan, your scope is either jaded from what you see on tv or in general limited. The hardest part for a foreign man is finding a High Earner Japanese woman who speaks English and is interested in a foreigner typically the financially well have done It in a corporate environment and don't go against the grain, but simply finding a Japanese woman is not hard all the way up until I got married I had other woman my age and even up to 15-20 yrs older than me who wanted to marry some for a visa for my home country others for the financial stability and support, some for genetics all types of weird wacky shit imo. Japan is like everywhere else in the world some people like "this" some people like "that" just gotta ask they'll tell you without telling you

  • @carlosa7598
    @carlosa7598 Před rokem

    Nice contents as always. Keep it up. 😀 Hello from Saga

  • @JRCOBRA
    @JRCOBRA Před rokem +7

    37 think I'm just going to stay single.

  • @kalmtraveler
    @kalmtraveler Před rokem +12

    I think this is a bit similar in most countries - at least in USA too. I was never a player type, but I became more picky as I became older because I know more specifically what I want or don't want from the girl so I am still not married in my late 30's. Although I would like to settle down, if I can't find a girl who is a good enough match, I'll just have to accept single life I guess.

    • @ShiKage08
      @ShiKage08 Před rokem +4

      I'm in a similar situation in my 30s. It's hard. Dating sucks. If you meet women in their 20s, they're often times too wild and want to party all the time. If you meet someone in their 30s, they're often times already getting set in their ways and won't be compromising in terms of relationship goals. They have a solid ideal man and don't want anything less.
      That said, I'm sure this goes both ways. I'm not a woman in the dating pool, so I can't say much about guys. This is just my experience.

    • @619AGT
      @619AGT Před rokem +1

      I’m agreement with this as well. To
      be quite frank, I don’t think I see myself as being able to handle a married life.
      It’s not because I’m against marriage, but because I don’t want to risk getting tied to someone who I might not be comfortable with.
      Apart from that, I’ve witnessed many people that I’ve known, end in breakups with someone they were with for a time, so that’s sort of left a bad impression on me about marriage.
      Why would I waste my life, freedom and happiness with someone who never cared about me in the first place?
      Now I do believe there are plenty of women in the world who genuinely want to get married with a special someone, but I too have come to declare that if I never find anybody by the time I start reach my early 40s, I will decide that I’m better of living as a single man. And to be honest, I wouldn’t have any regrets about it. I will have less problems and more time for myself.
      The most I could probably do is be a sperm donor.

    • @summerforever6736
      @summerforever6736 Před rokem

      Bette to stay single less headache

    • @Youtuber-ly6tx
      @Youtuber-ly6tx Před 11 měsíci

      Bro. Exactly this for me too.

    • @giannilyanicks1718
      @giannilyanicks1718 Před 6 měsíci

      it's not a good idea to generalize. People become toxically pessimistic today i guess

  • @ad.6472
    @ad.6472 Před rokem +3

    If guys after 40 have a problem getting married, well, it is a very hard game for women in Japan. Just my observation.

    • @Wingzero90939
      @Wingzero90939 Před rokem

      Doesn’t Japan have the expression that is Christmas cake… After 25 they hit that wall for Japanese women... I know in China it is after 28 and they are literally called leftover women.

    • @ad.6472
      @ad.6472 Před rokem

      @@Wingzero90939 in reality if you are not married when you are at Uni it is very hard to find a partner.

  • @jimmyxflare7347
    @jimmyxflare7347 Před rokem +2

    my family keeps making comments like "i wonder when youre going to settle down and have kids" and im just like hmm...good question

  • @pigbenis274
    @pigbenis274 Před rokem +6

    I'm 37😰....but I wasn't popular when I was younger either, that means I'm ok, right? lol

  • @CriticalEatsJapan
    @CriticalEatsJapan Před rokem +2

    I'm guessing your channel analytics are 98% guys ;) Though I am always surprised when I see a news report showing a guy's picture in the corner with his age. He usually looks older than me but I'm always shocked to discover he is younger!

  • @Supersonic
    @Supersonic Před rokem

    Facts!

  • @osmanisildak2448
    @osmanisildak2448 Před rokem +6

    if a very young woman looking to date an older man, chances are highly likely she is dealing with father issues and may experiment on you. I dated with several young women and all end up in the same crazy basket. Be aware, do not get captivated or you may end up heart broken or even be in trouble. young adults acts and decide carelessly.

    • @cgigammez5749
      @cgigammez5749 Před rokem +2

      Cope

    • @Wingzero90939
      @Wingzero90939 Před rokem +4

      Taking an objective stance on this I would argue that Japan is one of the worst places to date simply because mental health doesn’t particularly exist, either the concept of it or treating it.
      People aren’t encouraged to talk about their feelings and if they have any particular disorders people hide it… It makes sense why you get all of those crazy dating stories when mental health services are practically nonexistent.

    • @shironushi6549
      @shironushi6549 Před rokem

      @@cgigammez5749u need to cope 😂

    • @cgigammez5749
      @cgigammez5749 Před rokem

      @@shironushi6549 no u

  • @openranks4519
    @openranks4519 Před rokem +8

    The average man does not have a lot of options at any age😂

    • @GenyaArikado
      @GenyaArikado Před rokem

      Then the handsome men gets to carry on their genes to their sons so they also become handsome

  • @donfern4897
    @donfern4897 Před rokem +3

    Great video. Lesson learned don't be spoiled. Lol

  • @angadsingh6252
    @angadsingh6252 Před rokem

    Asagi can you please tell me for Japanese women beard or moustache matter if a person keep beard and moustache can he date a Japanese women

  • @johnnysmile01
    @johnnysmile01 Před rokem

    Lol i liked what you Said about James Bond thing that was funny, i am a portuguese guy and i have to speak in English not sure why i keep doing this in English maybe it's my fault but well i think more people cá understand me

  • @osmanisildak2448
    @osmanisildak2448 Před rokem +2

    stay fit stay healthy and good carrier 👍🏻

  • @pabloyagani
    @pabloyagani Před rokem

    These are cool
    Videos.

  • @user-fq2ty
    @user-fq2ty Před rokem +1

    What is the meaning of "Settled Down" in this context? I mean, be married?

  • @intpninja
    @intpninja Před 29 dny

    You’re saying the only reason women would avoid older men is because of looks?
    I’m in my 30’s and look 25. In my actual 20’s, I had no muscles, no money, and knew less about interacting with women.
    I feel like when I’m 40 if I look 34, if I go on dating apps then, the number - the fact that it says “40” - would probably be more of a red flag than how I actually look.
    What do you think about this?

  • @stanleytaylor3374
    @stanleytaylor3374 Před rokem

    Thanks

  • @tonygee6418
    @tonygee6418 Před rokem +2

    I don't think age matters. From a logical standpoint it probably does, however whenever a woman's emotions are set forth and committed to a certain man, age does not come to her mind. Case in point: Céline Dion & René Angélil (26 year age gap)

    • @Cyborg647
      @Cyborg647 Před rokem +4

      That's an extremely rare exception

    • @tonygee6418
      @tonygee6418 Před rokem +1

      Oh, and after 25 years of marriage, Sylvester Stallone and Jennifer Flavin are getting a divorce
      (22 year age difference)

    • @Wingzero90939
      @Wingzero90939 Před rokem +1

      @@Cyborg647 I mean I’m sure you can find other cases like that too but they tend to exist in different worlds celebrities/rich people and also for emphasis they tend to be filthy rich…

  • @LinuxAndCoffee
    @LinuxAndCoffee Před 9 měsíci

    I would love to see a video about how to stay attractive to women. I'm 38 years old, yet I appear much younger (27). But I'd love to see any tips for how to improve myself.

  • @JOYRIDEUS
    @JOYRIDEUS Před 11 měsíci +2

    The numbers you gave don't reflect the fact that Japan has an aging population. If women really wanted me 27-32 there would be more kids. Also, looks for men hardly ever matter that much, it's women that need to be young and beautiful. Men get more valuable as they age until they are too old. Most men don't want a woman thats past high fertility ages. It makes sense for a younger girl to date an older guy it's not a surprise it's been that way since all of history dane

    • @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan
      @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan  Před 11 měsíci +4

      You believe what you want to believe man. I'm just sharing this info to give heads up so that men won't miss the best time to settle down with Japanese girls. (If they want to)

  • @bawad01
    @bawad01 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Men also have a financial burden when it comes to relationships. The men that delay getting married might be doing it to secure a better financial position. This considerably expands their dating options by the way.

  • @Wingzero90939
    @Wingzero90939 Před rokem +2

    Question for anyone here if that’s true then why are Japan’s marriage rates declining, a recent study that I looked at said that for 2021 only 514,000 marriages were registered in Japan in 2021, that’s the lowest since the end of World War II in 1945....
    I get it traditionally marriage matters in Japan but if it’s declining so rapidly and as is the population there must be a reason people aren’t wanting to get into relationships and they’re not having children...

  • @wendallsaito484
    @wendallsaito484 Před rokem +1

    You should make a commentary about "why skinny women are attracted to fatter/bigger men".

  • @cyriloppa5250
    @cyriloppa5250 Před rokem

    I really like girls from Korea and Japan because when I was kid I watched japanese dramas and kid shows like kaman rider and anime ✋😊☺️

  • @supermonk3y07
    @supermonk3y07 Před rokem

    I'm 31. So basically I should be desperate and hurry up and find someone? Dang. So only got 1 more year or 2 till I'm unpopular

  • @MarvinMcHardy
    @MarvinMcHardy Před měsícem

    Would love to see a video about Dating Women in their 30s 40s and 50s if you are a man in his 30s 40s and 50s . I prefer women that are a little more mature. Young women are amazing, but I learned that they tend to have far too much energy for me to keep up with.

  • @phoenixhenson3689
    @phoenixhenson3689 Před rokem

    I love it

  • @Youtuber-ly6tx
    @Youtuber-ly6tx Před 11 měsíci +7

    Wow. I'm 36 and I needed to hear this. I've only had one girlfriend (when I was 26) but always felt like I had plenty of time to meet that perfect woman. I went to Japan this summer and the women there thought I was 28, so I guess I age well. It would be nice to find a woman but...I'm currently learning Japanese which is gonna take a couple years lol.

  • @louditalian1962
    @louditalian1962 Před rokem +2

    Thanks god I’m only 30 and have time to find my woman

    • @jamesbedukodjograham5508
      @jamesbedukodjograham5508 Před rokem +2

      Help me I am 40 years old and my situation has become untenable.i find Japanese women amazing but she might to relocate to Accra Ghana by 2023.

  • @jerometsowinghuen
    @jerometsowinghuen Před rokem +2

    I don't know about that, aging could be important in Japan.

  • @jeremymetcalf2502
    @jeremymetcalf2502 Před 5 měsíci

    I’m 37 and I’d be happy with someone in their 40’s-50’s.

  • @liferx4343
    @liferx4343 Před 3 měsíci

    What she said, about men, not wanting to settle down, not so true about me. I wanted to settle down with a girl; but I never met a girl who wanted to settle down. However I live in the United States where money and good looks are important for girls it seems. At least the girls I have met. A nice genuine, down to earth guy with a good heart is not valued; or at least I was not valued with the girls I dated who already had several kids of their own of which I did not have kids. I did not mind that a girl did have kids even I was okay with it but it still seems those girls want to play games and not really settle down. I think you have to be fair skin, tall, and either slender or muscular or perhaps wealthy to find a girl that will settle down with you. I do not even judge on body type or looks myself.

  • @UrzuaTroskenia0369
    @UrzuaTroskenia0369 Před měsícem

    Thank you, it helps being realistic pushing 40, I'll add an opine that while I'm not religious anymore or too materialistic, I think theirs a preternatural purpose to aging with grace if it's in your stars and mythos.

  • @foodiefoodie8563
    @foodiefoodie8563 Před rokem

    When I was 30 I only started my career earning less than 500,000 yen not dare to date any women because I feel I was earning less.
    Now I am a single 41 year old handsome men earning 20 million yen per year , but don’t know where to find a nice woman in Japan. Any idea how ?
    Would I get the chance?

  • @majpanik
    @majpanik Před rokem +2

    I'm 47 and even I wouldn't date me! I'm a terrible catch and as I already have a child I'm not too bothered about fishing myself 👍

  • @richardsingh5827
    @richardsingh5827 Před rokem

    Leftovers sounds like food in the fridge 😂😂

    • @tremnch
      @tremnch Před rokem +1

      😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

  • @BruhMan_5
    @BruhMan_5 Před 6 měsíci

    Men and women both hit "the wall," we all have a timer. It's just mens hits later than women'. Thisbis obviously generalized

  • @justchill4885
    @justchill4885 Před 4 měsíci

    Does this mean if I'm 36 I won't meet any women when I travel to Japan?

  • @drakew9856
    @drakew9856 Před rokem +5

    And some things to add to what she said, as far as the women go.
    1- Most Japanese women age 25 and older struggle to get a man. This may be because once they hit age 25, they begin to age rapidly. You would never know this if you have never lived in Japan, because American TV only shows beautiful Japanese women, and we hear that Japanese women never age. And even if you come here as a tourist, you only see beautiful Japanese women. But you will be shocked at the fast aging process if you live here. This doesn't mean that they look bad, there are many attractive middle-aged Japanese women. Just that they look older than their actual age. In the face though, not physically. And they are magicians with makeup, so even if they do look older, they hide it well.
    2- Japanese men prefer younger women. Japanese women age 25 and older usually have better luck with foreign men.
    3- I don't know why this is, but from my experience interacting with women here, the younger women generally act more maturely than the older ones. The older ones play the mixed messages game. If the younger ones like you, they will show it.
    4- If a man is still single in his 40s, he usually loses interest in dating.

  • @Mikesworldna
    @Mikesworldna Před měsícem

    I have not had a hard time connecting with 35 - to 55 years old....now I don't look my age either...at my high school reunion 35 years....(yes technicoly I'm old..haha) but at the high school reunion ...there were guys with canes....and my best friend had both knees operated on the year before and a couple of my friends were using like walkers......so for me ....well I was suprised no one wanted to dance....we were playing the early 80's songs and 70's songs ...and everyone was kind of shaking in their chair to dance....but no one would get up and dance...haha....I still love to dance....I think my age might be just a thought...cause I still play softball on our church team (oldest one on the team including the coach..haha) ....but I like to keep active....maybe at sometime I will slow down...but for now I love my life...keep going....but I'm happy to connect with anyone....who knows if it's going to be a romanic involvment....or just friends.....I'm open for either ..!!

  • @keronstewart9446
    @keronstewart9446 Před rokem

    i have yet to find that right person!
    and now at age 39 going to 40, its unlikely i will get lucky enough
    😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @dreadinside654
    @dreadinside654 Před rokem +1

    I'm a 40 years old malay guy from Malaysia. Next year in January I will be 41. I always want to go to Japan to try my luck to find a Japanese wife. After watching this video I wonder what are the chances to get a Japanese wife there. I don't mind a woman in her 30's or late 30's. Good thing about me I'm active in martial arts like Brazilian Jiujitsu and Judo.

  • @walterb.3592
    @walterb.3592 Před rokem +1

    I'm I the only man who doesn't want hook ups at all and is just interessted in a serious relationship?

  • @tasteapiana
    @tasteapiana Před rokem +1

    I'm just picky. It doesn't matter to me if I never find the right person. That said, I still look 20 years younger than my age as both sides of my parents' families - the men look good up into their 80s lol. It's just a thing. And, why is there not a ring on your finger?

  • @ConnorsCrapTV
    @ConnorsCrapTV Před rokem

    1:13 why do I feel like I’ve seen this actor in John Wick?

  • @Sushii132
    @Sushii132 Před 7 měsíci

    Thankgod man is 37 , women usually pas 30 is already leftover and start panicking lmao , but in their 20s their so proud of themselves and got no one

  • @PAPAJOHANNESPATRIOT
    @PAPAJOHANNESPATRIOT Před rokem

    So we senior citizens who did not age well need to look for senior Japanese women?

  • @norinickrrostron9001
    @norinickrrostron9001 Před rokem +5

    As hard to believe as this is but quite often older men are happy to date age appropriate women...that they will likely have more in common with.

    • @kalmtraveler
      @kalmtraveler Před rokem

      yeah I think it depends on the individual, also 'how' old they are etc. I am late 30's and since I still would like to have a small family I don't consider dating if that isn't a possibility.

  • @darklotus5309
    @darklotus5309 Před rokem

    Just my opinion & with the lenses of western thinking. But I’m assuming Japanese women use thought process when considering men. Wouldn’t a western man in their 40s or 50s not be considered leftovers if they are divorced or widowed? Also I’ll admit to my ignorance but I thought I read Japanese women are less into casual “hookups” & more interested in settling down (that doesn’t necessarily mean child raising). Also I thought finding Japanese girls is a difficult endeavor because they are too busy.
    Again please excuse any ignorance because my understanding is based on a few “top ten things about Japanese culture” videos & articles I’ve read/watched. My only experience with an Asian female was back in my teens I worked with a Chinese student & I got the idea her family wouldn’t be cool with her dating an American. She was really cool though.

  • @MeMeBot1337
    @MeMeBot1337 Před rokem

    The last 10 years I've gotten 5 years younger. 37 years old but look 28 ;)

  • @patrickomeagher9868
    @patrickomeagher9868 Před rokem

    What about people who are divorced?

  • @boxerr1100s
    @boxerr1100s Před rokem

    Been there and done that but now in my 60s, lots of wasted opportunities.

  • @Daoistify
    @Daoistify Před 9 dny

    Actually, I would not have advised my Japanese wife to marry me because of my age. She was turning 40. I was 61. Fifteen years later, looking back we have had a great relationship. However, I feel bad for her. She will be with an elderly man soon. I’m healthy now but she is only 56. I will die in the next 5-10 years most likely and she will be alone and still relatively young.

  • @TheCyberMantis
    @TheCyberMantis Před rokem

    Everything matters. On both sides.

  • @Spartacus547
    @Spartacus547 Před rokem

    Nicolas Cage 25million$ Jamine Foxx 170million Daniel Craig 160million obviously these rules don't apply if your ridiculously rich

  • @Tymczas
    @Tymczas Před rokem +1

    true for Japan, not exactly true for south east Asia

  • @mizore7484
    @mizore7484 Před 9 měsíci

    Oh no, I just turned 40 recently and still am single... at least I still look quite young.
    Maybe there's still a chance for me to find a Japanese woman.

  • @burbery17
    @burbery17 Před rokem +3

    leftover man and proud ✊

  • @martiuscastle
    @martiuscastle Před rokem +5

    I was born old, I think. I got married when I was 24, still in love after 20 years, and I have never even seen a dating app, I'm still happy and I encourage people to get someone good, for whom they are genuinely atracted, as soon as they can provide for themselves. Love is a consequence of people, not the other way around. Just my point of view, though.

  • @johnnysmile01
    @johnnysmile01 Před rokem

    I don't think man Over 30 or 35 are leftovers there are lots of people man and women who didn't got a chance or life didn't went like "it should be" it's not an obligation to get married here lots of couples don't marry they just live together

  • @JosueC730
    @JosueC730 Před 8 měsíci

    I'm 36, almost 37. Never ever dated nor anything. I guess I have lost all hope. am I a leftover? I guess so.

  • @txfreethinker
    @txfreethinker Před rokem +3

    I would be interested in a video about how to stay attractive and date young Japanese women. Please make it. Thank you!

  • @knivesthe
    @knivesthe Před 9 měsíci

    I think Asagi is trying to tell me I am no longer James bond at 38 years old and I am triggered.

  • @marcedwards2464
    @marcedwards2464 Před 2 měsíci

    Right but you can't leave out genetics diet and exercise

  • @ChristopherWoods
    @ChristopherWoods Před rokem

    Leftover crew where you at 💪🥸🤘

  • @HarryNicNicholas
    @HarryNicNicholas Před rokem +1

    i had been avoiding marriage and children, i worked in tv in the west end of london and was having a great time. then i met a japanese girl who is 13 years younger than me and i got fed up of hearing her complain about visas and the home office, and she was an excelent person - and still is - so we got married and started a family.
    what went wrong was that my work means i could work for a six months, and then have six months spending all my money until i needed to work again, and, when we had moved three times, the last time she had to take on the full amount of the mortgage, i was in my late 50's - that's when the cultures clashed, i lost her respect as head of the house and eventually (20 years of marriage later) we split.
    we have a son, so we are still in touch and get along pretty well, but the age difference, although good for me to begin with, is probably worth avoiding if you can. my ex was a brilliant wife and mother and her family were the tops, i love japan and the japanese people. it hasn't been a conscious effort, but all my girlfriends have been a year to ten years younger than me - i am young at heart as they say :)

  • @yomamashouse8508
    @yomamashouse8508 Před 5 měsíci

    Personally age shouldn't matter (as long as both are legal adults) but I wouldn't want to widow some poor woman when she's in her 40's when I die in my 80s or earlier.

  • @josephstone7429
    @josephstone7429 Před rokem +6

    I would date any woman other than American or Japanese.

  • @SARUJAN5
    @SARUJAN5 Před rokem

    28 and a virgin, already want to settle before I hit 30.

  • @NordicAdvRider
    @NordicAdvRider Před rokem +3

    In general young Japanese women are very childish. You can compare a western women around 12-13 years old with Japanese women between 20-25. About same behaviour. Look elsewhere to find a mature woman

  • @dexdavd
    @dexdavd Před rokem

    Actually ANYONE outthere, look down not at yo age or the best.
    -with FAITH just TRUST IN GOD.
    -HAVE HOPE IN GOD &
    -BELIEVE IN GOOD for the best that SUITS U

  • @romabryzgalov1937
    @romabryzgalov1937 Před rokem

    You are such a gorgeous woman.

  • @eduardomaldonado1647
    @eduardomaldonado1647 Před rokem

    Any man who is worth a million bucks looks like a million bucks. Women want providers at least the smarter women who are looking for husbands.

  • @mathieucossette9019
    @mathieucossette9019 Před rokem

    I'm 40.. but look in low 30's hehe

  • @davidw8668
    @davidw8668 Před rokem +1

    1. Not true. 2. What entitles you as a woman to give man advice in such questions? Are you really standing above your own vanity or is what you are pursuing.

  • @Enz1612
    @Enz1612 Před rokem +1

    Im sure it doesnt matter if they are white, right Asagi?

  • @johnp.johnson1541
    @johnp.johnson1541 Před rokem +2

    Guys who are quite wealthy can buy always younger because they have high sexual market value while females lose their sexual market value each year they age.
    There are so many divorced females that guys in their 40s have no problem getting them.
    Your commentary add-on is quite good though Asagi. Your voice always is pleasant to hear.
    Enjoy! Matane.

  • @biguncle554
    @biguncle554 Před rokem

    Is it so much to ask for a loyal wife to come home to with a bowl of rice in one hand and a plate of raw sea creatures in the other, I mean I spend all day on missions from king Kai piloting my gundam and vanquishing foes to the shadow realm with my buster sword.

  • @williamfriend5942
    @williamfriend5942 Před 7 měsíci

    Girl, What in the world is your infatuation with "James Bond"??? Do you have fantasies about being a "Bond Girl" and hooking up with a "007" caliber type of guy? Don't hold your breath, You need all the oxygen you can get and take in. If you don't and when you finally deflate, you're going to find yourself full of wrinkles and nowhere near "007 James Bond" caliber, If you're even that close to it now in your youth. Remember sooner or later "Gravity" pulls us all down, ALL OF US, Some lower than othes.