Q&A 4-8
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- čas přidán 17. 10. 2022
- Do I regret my transition?
What would I say to a young woman who wants to transition?
What did I like most and least about my transition?
How has my transition and detransition impacted my relationship with other lesbians, how do I feel about womanhood now?
What would I say to my past self?
Your perspective is correct! If we humans didn't make mistakes we would have nothing left to learn right?! I agree that we women have something that men will never have, that is a community, a special sorority of deep sisterhood where men and trans women are never-ever be allowed cross into.
Also, great painting. Honest and brave
These Q&A's have been amazing. I find you really relateable, and hearing from someone like you has meant a lot to me. I avoided transition but I still struggle with being gender non conforming in a world not designed for us (especially since the LGBT community has become increasingly toxic where I live). Solidarity with like minded people helps, and seeing stuff like this online helps when it's hard to find people locally
Thanks a lot for sharing that. It’s why I do these.
Did anyone ever (lovingly) warn you against medically transitioning? If so, how did it make you feel? And is there anything someone could have done/said to change your mind/give you peace sooner or even before making any changes? (So much love to you. Make sure to take care of yourself dear heart)
2 questions-
1.Have you or do you think you’ll ever consider getting a surgery to have breasts again, even they aren’t the same? Implants aren’t the only option either! You can do a fat transfer to make them (which in my opinion works and looks even better and is safer for the body). What are your feelings on this as of now?
2. What would you say to young people that are having gender dysphoria or believe they are trans, and what are your thoughts on traditional therapy vs. “affirmation therapy”? I personally feel like “affirmation therapy” is as ridiculous and harmful as “conversion therapy” and that it is also a pyramid scheme between those psych doctors/pharma/and the surgeons. And I don’t think they will slow down their money train until people start suing their doctors and winning. Chloe cole is currently in the process of working towards that right now and I really hope she is successful and continues to raise noise towards the reality of what is happening in our society and to so many youth right now!
If you are still taking questions I've got another one. You found that transition didn't help with your mental health, but what DID help your mental health?
Asking for myself I guess. Transition is hyped up as a panacea for gender non conforming people but you often hear from detransitioners that they actually needed something else. What is that something else? And how do I get me some of that 🤔😅
please do a video on this topic.."regular" people all have had and loved lesbian woman friends and gay male friends and we understood you and coexisted with you..we dont understand trans and queer and non binary and we are so afraid of miss gendering this group or using the wrong pronoun or getting fired from our job or being caught up in an exhausting conversation that its just easier to avoid you. we will be polite and professional but not friendly and engaging. this may be sad but its true. people choose where and how they want to spend their time and energy
Sending you love.
That was powerful. Maybe you should become a counselor for detransitioners.