r/Bestof My Boyfriend is an Evil Psychopath
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To skip R word description jump to 3:27
0:00 Intro
0:11 Disgusting truth
3:27 Skip the story
12:17 Free car
"Sneaky Snitch" Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) License: CC By Attribution 3.0 - Komedie
Story 1: So basically, Paul was jealous that OP had a male friend and tried to run his life. Add that he tried to hurt a receptionist while drunk and his rehab failed leading to another criminal charge.
I don't think there's any saving him. He should stay in the slammer
Yeah OP said he “looked” remorseful in the court room, but 9 times out of 10 they’re only remorseful about facing consequences.
@@stevenandcarminabeedle9089 I bet the thing he regrets the most is telling OP the truth, NOT hurting her or others.
But he was never arrested or prosecuted. So that saves him from any kind of extra stress.
Yep pretty much
God I’m so happy Mark came out on the other side and found happiness. People kill themselves over false allegations.
Thankfully, OP didn't try to press charges. It's often the fear of charges that push them over the edge.
She should stay away from Mark. He will always look at her and remember she thought he was capable of grape.
@skyecoleman5449 She was confused, drunk, and manipulated. Don't victim blame her for assuming her partner wouldn't rape her.
That can be so bad. Someone I went to church with was a chiropractor. Years after I had left, he worked on a fellow church member and she died from a brain anurism. No one knew she had it. The entire area (VERY small town) called him a murderer. He hung himself.
I'm glad OP sent a letter to Mark.
@@DopeioThePhoneBoi I agree. She can't magically know Mark isn't the kind of guy who wouldn't attack her, especially when she's being told he did, and it seemed like he did. Most of these kind of assaults are committed by people the victim knows and trusts. They believe the perpetrator would _never_ do such a thing, until they do. Then the victim is often blamed for not knowing better. Not her fault in the slightest.
Love how rslash is like "wait.. a normal human being who is actually reasonable, WHAT A CATCH"
common sense is in short supply, really
i got whiplash too. dude was just a young naive adult who didn't knows how taxes work and he didn't even want the new or old car anyway? just borrow the old one occasionally? AND he said he would take care of his family and make sure they understand the situation? that's too reasonable in this day and age.
@@endernightblade1958 should really rename that, more like uncommon sense lol
Lol yea
Yeah, reddit makes you lower your standards: He did not want to steal your car? Marry him already!
Story 2: after so many stories involving cheating/lying/backstabbing/gaslighting spouses, super toxic families and/or crazy entitled Karens, it’s so uplifting to hear rSlash cover wholesome sugary-sweet stories!
We really needed the palette cleanse after the first story
Lol yea
Or stories ending with karma befalling the wicked ones, and their victims recieving rewards.
100% expected this guy was going to be a total douche like all the other stories but nope he sounds like a great guy!
I thought story 2 was going to end horribly, or have a second update where things went to hell, but it didn't. Though after reading the initial post... They had us in the first half, not gonna lie.
Mark is so gracious. I don't blame OP for believing her boyfriend, but I'm so glad that Mark knows that no one thinks he's a r*pist anymore. I can't imagine living with a good friend thinking I would do that.
"Beta orbiter snaps" is such a common story that OP would have been a fool NOT to believe Paul in the moment, even knowing Paul was the actual attacker and was lying about everything.
Same. It's messed up, and I don't care if it's a rational knee-jerk reaction for her to have, but that'd be me checking out and never coming back.
Imagine saving someone and then being accused of the very thing you saved her from. I'd completely lose faith in life, relationships, everything.
Holy shit, Paul is one of the most evil people I've heard about on this channel, and that's saying something. Mark is really lucky that he avoided having his life completely ruined. I feel so bad for both OP and Mark, both of them are the victims here. And yeah, I hope Paul rots in prison forever.
Yea for sure. That was a rough story
Amazing that Mark literally saved her at the cost of not only being beaten but also the facing the risk of being sent to prison for decades. And we're calling him lucky....
No good deed goes unpunished, I suppose.
It is always a red flag when your guy or girl partner gets mad at you for having close opposite sex or gender friends. Poor Mark because he was willing to be seen as a rapist to his closest friend. Paul deserves jail for a very long time!
"Mad" sure. But let's be real, women cheat on guys with their "best friend" all the time. If you're basically going on dates with a "friend" when you have a bf that's pretty disrespectful, especially if he tells you he's not comfortable with it. I told my ex I wasn't comfortable with how close she was with another guy, and she told me it's fine because he's gay, but he wasn't, and she was fucking him.
Not *always,* depending in why, but if it’s something they can’t get over then they aren’t ready for a relationship.
@@RealCoolstriker64 nah, if you're that close with another dude and you're bf isn't cool with it you should either stop going on dates with you "friend" or just dump your bf and date your "friend" already. 99% of the time your male friend is just waiting for his chance with you, and men know that, that's why we generally aren't cool with it. My ex was way too close with her male friend, and she swore it was cool because he's gay, but that was a lie because she was screwing him. That happens all the time. That's why "the guy she told you not to worry about" is a meme.
Uhh no? He certainly wasn’t willing like what?
@@Dog_in_tree I have several very close male friends and I'd never ever consider dating them even if I wasn't in the most wonderful relationship of my life. If something is bothering him, I listen and make changes within reason.
Some women are lacking in integrity like that, but some men are also overly jealous over something they try to project into their partner's friendships.
I am so glad the story at the end was wholesome. No manipulation from the boyfriend. And he was super reasonable when he found out how much keeping the car would be.
Story 1: I'm glad OP realized the truth behind her boyfriend. He is willing to go extreme lengths to just break up a friendship. Jesus, calling this guy disturbing is a complete understatement.
Unfortunately stories like this are gonna make it a lot harder for some people to seek help for their addictions. If this guy hadn't confessed as part of the 12 steps, he wouldn't have gone down for a lot of what he did. Even if it's not articulated, the thought of "they're just gonna lock me up" is plenty of reason to avoid seeking help.
Yep it's crazy
It's amazing that I basically see you on every rslash video
Yandere may be hot in anime but in real life it’s a giant problem.
@@josefbajarias3109 Lol yea
Story 1 : I heard this story before it is disturbing on how far the boyfriend was going to go to just break up a friendship I’m glad that OP realize the truth.
Yeah when I first heard that Paul said to not press charges, that set off an alarm. At least op and Mark are doing better and maybe .. they can rebuild their friendship..
@@SimipourfangirlI think after what happened, the friendship won’t go back to the way it was.
It won’t. He will never truly trust her as a friend again.
Yeah I would tell her basically if you thought I was capable of something so heinous and never did it before to you and you couldn't hear my side. Yeah I don't trust you nor want to be near you, seek therapy.
@@drwboy07I mean it was either him or her before and I would be much more inclined to trust my boyfriend.
I dated a guy who had psychopathic tendacies and was a diagnosed covert narcissist. It was my WORST relationship and healing from it has been rough.
I’m sorry to hear that. I’m glad it’s over and I hope you’re doing better!
Was he diagnosed while you were with him? Was it relieving atleast to find out it was all his issues?
Oh wow
So... What mental deficiencies do did you have?
Because a mentally sane person wouldn't continue dating a narcissist in the 1st place~
Any 1st date, should have been the last.
@@Robin93k a pushover would.
giving them closure is the best thing. I remember a story where OP was the entitled stalker of their own story. post was asking how they can show their love despite a restraining order (or something), was denial they were stalking...but eventually saw the light. then became "should I let them know I finally got help, taking medication, etc" which people posted similar responses (yes...she may never forgive you for instilling fear...but giving her closure she will never have look over her shoulder again is best)
Story 2: It's just a classic misunderstanding with an assumption. At least everything worked out in the end, hope nothing bad ever happens again
Frightening how easy someone innocent could've gone to jail in the first story.
Especially if you're a man
Story 1: so even though you were dating this guy he was actually going to r words you because you had a male best friend? I just want to know what exactly he thought was going to happen when he told you that he not only tried to do that to you but also threatened to kill Mark and assaulted him for trying to save you.
I don't know who he thinks he's fooling but alcohol is not the reason he did all that stuff he did, he deserves to rotten in prison.
Yep
Op’s therapist in story 1 is a gem. She gave Op the best advice.
Am I the only one who thinks it's a little sad that OP feels she has to "give Mark space"? I read Mark as actually being very open to resuming their friendship - he wanted her to meet his then-fiancee, and he invited her to his wedding. If OP feels it's safer for HER to keep a distance, that I understand. And I do think it would be hard to resume a friendship after such a break. But I think Mark really is willing to try.
But more importantly, Paul is in prison. That's what matters most.
Last story: people need to realize before going into a raffle/competition/contest where the winning prize is a car:
if you could afford the insurance and whatever else, the winning a car will be great
But if you can’t: it’s a nightmare unless sold.
Cause you’re going to have to put insurance on it even if it is just sitting there unused
OMG for story 2, I thought the bf was gonna flip out and scream at OP for being greedy and not giving him what he already said was his. This was so much better!!! Thank you random man out there for showing that there ARE some good people still kicking around. 😊😊
He's definitely a keeper
Especially the fact if the gender roles were reversed 💀
Hope she screenshots his confession, and first apologizing to mark then asking him for his statement. Go to the cops and get him arrested
Somebody didn't watch the full story before commenting.
I sincerely hope Paul becomes VERY popular in the prison showers.
Second story, this was a really nice story. OP's bf seems pretty decent though probably should have talked about the car situation BEFORE telling his mother but he recognised his screw up, apologised and didn't fight, argue or push back at all. Honestly seems pretty healthy with a few improvements to be made here and there but eh, no relationship is perfect and neither are OP and the bf. Also OP didn't bring it up in front of the family either which definitely could have made it escalate. They both talked about it in private and understood each other's positions.
Oh yes they're going to LOVE him in prison, not only in the showers.
SA tears your entire world apart. I lost a friend because of it, even though they weren't the perpetrator. It's a truly evil thing to happen.
Anybody else refreshing constantly so you don’t miss the next upload. When he doesn’t post on time, I know there are people just sitting and waiting. 😂
Glad to see I’m not a Karen and the only one
I debated about posting but I know the real OG’s would be here
1st story: The fact that OP needed reddit and her therapist to convince her to apologizr to him is scary
Because she still wants to pretend that Mark isn't a victim in this story.
Why in the world did OP in the first story need to be told to clear up the miss communication? A kindergartener has higher levels of empathy
If money aint loosely falling out of your pockets, you NEVER keep a new vehicle
Yep
“I for one hope Paul has a miserable time in prison”
Don’t worry. Sex offenders almost never have a good time.
They're low in the pecking order with the only prisoners that are lower being company executives and the short-eyed ones.
Mark vs Paul story: OP, I'm glad you finally learned the truth and that Mark had a good life afterwards. Paul has gotten a minimum of what he deserved. But overall, I think you were right in not seeking to become closer with Mark again. It has to be a painful memory of being falsely accused. Being occasional pen pals is probably enough for the both of you.
Story 2, I would recommend to that lady to hang on to that guy because he's a keeper. It's rare to see a young man using his brain to think rather than his junk.🤣🤣🤣
PSA: Alcoholics Anonymous isn't an addiction support group. It's a religious indoctrination organization. American courts literally rule that forcing alcoholics to join AA is a violation of the First Amendment.
Story 2 reminds me of another story that RSlash covered some time ago. OP found out about a raffle for a refurbished car and the tickets to enter the raffle were $50. She asked her boyfriend if he wanted to get a ticket together and split the cost. He declined. So she bought her own ticket and won! When she shared the happy news with him he got really excited and was calling it their car. She quickly corrected him that it was hers and she was going to sell it. He made a lot of noise about them being a couple who made big decisions together and that he had changed his mind and was planning to give her $25 to share the ticket but somehow hadn’t yet. She reiterated that the car and the decision of what to do with it were entirely hers. She dumped that choosing beggar! This story is SO much more wholesome!!
imagine seeing your friend get assaulted by her bf, then get accused of doing it. then getting the crap beat of you. but nothing can be done about it since your friend (who believes lie) could file a report in response.
I'm glad that the poster of the first story owned up to her mistake and spoke to Mark. He deserved to have closure in that way himself.
Even if they are only friends that talk once in a while.
Paul will, indeed, have a miserable time in prison if the inmates ever find out about him being a sex offender, and/or the sexual assault
Who'd have guessed that the secret to a healthy relationship is clear and open communication
Story 1: I feel for Mark, as I’ve been in a similar situation. I was falsely accused of cheating. Me my girlfriend at the time (ex now) my gf accused me of trying to cheat with my best friends girlfriend (ex now) with my girlfriend and my best friend just standing by and doing nothing. I had my friends telling me it didn’t happen (we were all drinking) and I knew that I wouldn’t do that to anyone so I told her it was over once I came to my senses
Just thinking if OP wanted to she could trade in her new car, get a more affordable cost friendly car and still get some money out of it so then both can have good cheap cars and some money.
Obviously if they don't want to do that its fine, but just a thought.
Story 1: I hope Paul finds a boyfriend in prison that treats him how he deserves.
Mark is a better man than me. Call me an unsympathetic grudge holder, but the moment you don’t hear me out when I’m being accused of something so heinous, you’re dead to me forever.
Rslash is late to upload dear god the end is near!
DEATH TO THE IRON THRONE!!!
The free-car BF may be a keeper, but his mother is not. I would not want this woman as a MIL.
Okay, but if she somehow thought they'd won the car together, then maybe it can still work out? Also if, like the bf said sees them as basically married because she wants her son to marry OP already, that sounds like she at least have good intentions.
Compared to the rest of the folks on r/justnomil that could still work out with good communication and boundaries and all the good stuff
rslash: "huh, where am I is this reddit?!"
currently you are in the trunk of a car somewhere in china instead of your studio, I hope this helps
1:20 aaaaand that's step one of isolating the abuse victim,
That last story ended really nicely ❤️ Love hearing about couples who know how to communicate!
Story 1: Wow that hits a little close to home. As a Mark who was falsely accused I understand what he must of went through. So sorry for the pain and the fact that you probably felt like you lost a really good friend. We need to remember yes she is a victim. No question but so is he.
Story one is why you always ask questions before making decisions like that. Take a breath, step away, and look at the evidence. Otherwise you and others get hurt.
Tbh though if she was really drunk and her boyfriend told her something happened, she’d most likely believe her boyfriend. I feel most people would believe their partner.
I know this is an overused thing people put in the YT comments but F in the chat for Mark and O.P. after one S.O.B named Paul (apologies to anyone whose actually named Paul) who tried to ruin their livelihood by being jelly of their friendship.
Free car Story: never ever give sth that's worth over 1000 bucks to just a bf!! NEVER! it's a huge sum of money! The first time this bf gets the car thoes bf is gone!! Of course HIS family is saying "give him the car". It's HIS family! After such a gathering a would get rid of this bf! But nice to see that this ending is whole some and funny. I am really glad that this story ended so good!! RSlash found sth whole some!! 🤣🤣
Ty for the time skip, it was sounding close to something that happened when i was younger.
today's video is available on spotify
Thank you I was about to flip 💩 poopy cause I didn’t see it.
Damn I don't have a Spotify
If anyone ever tells you not to file a report, file the report. Safety is no joke and even if it doesn't go anywhere if they do it to someone else it establishes a pattern of behavior
I hate when people block someone without listening to them once. OP in the first story might not have believed Marc, but maybe he could have said something that she doubted Paul's version.
I understand where you're coming from, but given the extreme situation I think it is unfair to blame her for anything that happened here. Her reaction to someone she thought was her rapist made complete sense to keep herself safe. She was a victim of rape, and she and Marc were the victims of Paul's lies.
On the other hand, why would she want to keep in contact with someone she believes tried to rape her?
The last story was surprisingly wholesome. The fact it had a happy ending is absolutely refreshing
Story 2: It was definitely foolish of him to assume things, but man, what a guy. He didn't get upset at OP, but instead processed it all and even had a rather considerate game plan beforehand, and even agreeing it would be the best for them that the new car be sold for future affairs. I do trust that the OP's boyfriend would smooth things out, he sounds rather wonderful and supportive. Here's to a happy future for them.
rSlash, you read so many bad story that when you find a good/wholesome ending you're like : omg! there's hope fore us yet!
1st story: OP was not 28 when she met Paul; Paul was.
Rslash can't read 😂
Lol haha 😂 imagine making a simple mistake hahah😂😂😂 so funny
@@DarkestFIameMaster
He has a degree in English and reads for a living.
Also, editing is a thing.
@@davesaylor7829 I have an degree in being an asshole and I can say that sometimes I make a mistake.
@@DarkestFIameMaster
Indeed. It should be "a degree."
Use "A" if the next word begins with a consonant, and "An" when the next word begins with a vowel.
12:12 Yes, as opposed to the wonderful time in prison most people have, lol.
That last story is a prime example of why you can never judge these stories just one off.
Because people’s perception of events are always skewed and non-biased. She portrayed the story like the BF and his family want the new car when dude wanted to borrow the old one and even pay the cost of using it. Smh
Story 1 consensus is theres no justice in the world, and rapists get to do what ever he wants unless he confesses.
Ngl, if I was the bf in the 2nd story I'd be a bit bummed, but I wouldn't really expect her to hand a car over. It'd be nice if she bought him a 5k car or something.
Story 1: A little correction: he wasn't remorseful. He was sorry for himself. Alcohol didn't make him do any of this. He's a sick bastard.
Thank god for story 2 needed that wholesome story after story one
Huh, Paul's prison buddies are going to get a new punching bag, splendid!
my immediate thought would be to make an agreement for him to buy the car (maybe at a discount), with a payment plan
Glad to see Mark get the closure he deserves. Hope the op keeps her healing path. It's a shame she thinks of herself as "intruding" on his life. He's clearly opening the door to be friends. Though I don't blame her for feeling bad and not walking through. I just hope she can let go of the guilt. Cheers to that therapist for letting the op realize she should message him.
Also, cheers to the couple in the second story. Communicating, learning from mistakes and misunderstandings, and clearing things up with the family. THAT is how you do it.
Yea hopefully her and Mark will be ok
YOU OKAY BUDDY?!?!?!?!
Story 1: leave Mark alone. He doesn’t need friends like you.
Story 1: i hope they can be good friends again. Not likely but his wife seems cool. It would do her good to be around healthy relationships.
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I think he felt guilty a bit which is why he confessed, maybe thinking it would fix something broken in himself and unfortunately it didn't. (Feel like it happens alot with stories like this, super glad he didn't go to the next level-for other women's sake.
Don't get me wrong, 100% deserves jail. It just sucks that trying to get some peace didn't work for him and he'll continue to be a terrible person.
Seeing that Sometimes there is no saving a person from themselves sucks and i think thats what I'm caught up on.
Obviously too late now. I hope hes away for a long time.
RIP R-Slash. He leaves behind a wife, child, and more importantly, his adoring fans.
What do you mean
story 1: so she listened to her bf's ludicious story and destroyed a man's life and reputation, and she thinks a ops sorry essay will mend all the damage done to him? Nah no...
That’s a bit harsh. OP was a victim and she was drunk. Of course you’d believe your partner.
4:06 But why didn’t Paul wants you to file charges? That’s telltale sign number one
He’s been steady having late uploads lately. I hope everything is okay with him and his family 🙏🤍
Remember he is still in China visiting family, so everything is probably good, the time zone is most likely messing with him.
I'm so glad OP & Mark made up.
Well here's hoping that poll from the first story gets a wonderful new cell mate named Mr. Stabbie McStabberson.
What’s up with Rslash’s posting schedule? The videos used to post at 9am EST, now it’s 10. But it’s 10:22am and no new video is up (3.18.24)
The change from 9 to 10 is due to day light savings time
Are we Karen’s for expecting him to keep a schedule? Yes he records the videos but he never uploads them he has someone doing that so that’s why I’m upset. The guy he has doing it has no reason not to keep it to the nine am time slot
@UAF1966 well we don't know where this person is, they may still be uploading at the same time in their local time. Maybe they don't have daylight savings there.
@@TheSoulessPoet if you’ve watched his channel from the beginning you would have more info and also realize the guy who does his editing has reused about 20 stories
Is there a video today? March 18th
Story 2: I think a nice gesture, should OP choose to do it, would be to set a little of the money from the sale aside, then when the boyfriend is in the market for a new car, she could perhaps offer to chip in a bit. Of course it's up to her, but it's what I would do in that scenario
Thx for the timestamps, glad you said it right in time 🙏🏼
I hope Paul had clumsy hands while in the shower
Story 2: why did OP even say anything about it, knowing the boyfriend’s no-car situation? Yes, it was not right for them to assume he could have it, but at the same time, I stand by my statement: when you have a windfall of any kind, NEVER TELL ANYONE.
Thank you for providing that warning and skip. I've been pretty bad in the past just thinking I could power through stuff that was triggering for me but this situation seems like a combination of the 2 events that caused my PTSD so I'm not gonna take that chance. I'm so glad that OP finally got some justice as it's very rare to happen even when it's an open and shut case.
Story 1: the math isn’t mathing on the age thing. She met Paul when she was 28, yet he was around for her 24th birthday…? I know it may not be important to the story, but still majorly confused.
She's 28 now, she was 23 when she and Paul started dating, and her 24th birthday was the event where all this happened. She does mention that this all happened 5 years ago. Hope that helps!
It's R/Slash being silly as usual, in the post Paul was 28 at that time an is 34 now, OP was 23 when they met
I was confused too, but she's referring to Paul's age at the time of the situation, then says his current age after
@@smbsmw1111 Thanks for the clarification. He tends to leave “minor” details like this out of his readings. Lol.
last one sounds like she was not into the relation as much as him. she keeps saying they are not at that point but sounds like he and his family were
Story 2 I'm glad it ended on a wholesome note. As an alternative since you 2 have a good chance at making it. Just take that 10k use 3 to 4k on a good used car for your boyfriend/ fiance. Make a contact prior to getting purchases and put the vehicle in both of your names. When the loan is paid off, then the car can either go in his name solely or stay in both names, depending on both of you. If for whatever reason you 2 break up either hell continue making payments or you get the car back sale it get the remaining payments your owed back and give the remainder back to him, easy solution.
I sincerely hope Paul drops the soap every day in prison.
Story one : I’m 3:41 mins in and after what I just heart I slammed my hand on my table and just said what?! Dude no file a report
5:37 holy actual shit
You walked through a magic mirror into another reality, Dabney. The portal closes in 24 hours.
Starting spring break morning with the best YT ☕️
Morning yall
Good morning!
Morning! ❤
Good morning, dude.
Good morning
Morning!
I love "Woah a normal person!?!?!"
Best of gotta be some of the craziest videos...
Honestly, big W that she didn't go to the cops when she did think it was mark. That would've ruined marks life when he saved her.
There's a special place in heaven for Mark, there's a special place in hell for Paul
Lowkey in that second story , if the taxes on the new car weren’t crazy high , I would’ve said OP should totally sell the old car ti the boyfriend
If I was in OP's shoes, I would give the car I didn't like as much to my S.O. But the family assuming her giving the car is rude.
Ugh, Paul utterly derailed what could have been a wonderful lifelong friendship between OP and Mark, on top of potentially giving her a whole slew of psychological issues. Hopefully he either becomes a decent person at some point, or his life is as shit as his impact on others.
Ironic...
OP was a little emotionally traumatized... And got all the support from everyone.
Marc was heavily physically and mentally traumatized, and got absolutely no support.
Even his "best friend" aka OP, didn't support him, an instead added to his trauma!
Finally story was crazy for reddit
Happy Sunday rslash fam. Hope you're all doing amazing! ❤❤
The last story was perfect! That’s a decent guy! :3
Story 3: This is why you don't assume Rslash... As we've told you before
11:36 if you listen vary closely, you can hear Yugo walking around his set up