How Porn Affects Fidelity w/ Dr. Trish Leigh
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- čas přidán 3. 08. 2024
- When you watch porn, your chances of cheating on your partner SKYROCKET.
While you may not want to believe it, infidelity issues are a huge problem among men who have a porn habit. This is due to the seeking and searching behavior that porn will inevitably lead to.
Your brain will get so used to seeking and searching for the next dopamine hit that it will bleed into your real life. While you may be in a committed relationship your eyes will begin to wander as you encounter possibilities for a new dopamine hit with a passing female.
In order to thrive in your relationships and develop a healthy sex life, this behavior needs to end and porn needs to go! For help:
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CHAPTERS
00:19 What Is The Coolidge Effect
01:41 The Rat Study As It Relates To The Coolidge Effect
03:35 Darwin's Study
04:22 Pair Bonded Animals
04:39 Porn Ruins Your Chances At Finding A Partner
05:42 Seeking And Searching
06:30 How Porn Leads To Infidelity
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I'm convinced porn itself is a form of infidelity. Could be worse than actually cheating with another woman.
I agree for sure, it was something my ex partner would end up hiding, lying and betraying about much like cheating and would feel like what I was competing with for his love and attention.
Yes!
It took me 55 years but finally, after this video, I can see it clearly. I always wondered, and my ex-partners asked me, why I was never able to maintain a stable and long-lasting relationship, and let go of a lot of valuable people along the way. Now I have the answer I was always looking for. Thank you Dr.
Does that piss you off that 55 years have been affected by this?
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Also Dr. Trish, it is very possible that if you watch porn, you are watching someone who has been sex trafficked. So by watching porn you are supporting a sex trafficker. Disgusting! So everyone consider that as we work to stay away from porn. Thank you again Dr. Trish for trying to help so many change their life for the better
Lust is never satisfied. Praying everyone struggling finds the reason and strength to beat this. Also, just wanted to tell you Trish that you’re looking really good and healthy!!! God bless
faithful to ourselves and protect our minds from the societal traps, for true freedom
It's a decision we each need to make to give it up. Decide to avoid the booby traps and be free.
Thanks Dr. Trish your videos changed my life. Hi from Turkey ❤
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Thanks Dr. Trish your videos changed my life.
I'm so happy I've been able to help!
Nice. This video was really helpful. Really needed to watch this
I'm glad you found it helpful!
It's already an act of infidelity by itself.
Doc looking good as usual
Thanks Dr. Trish I'm still paying attention.
You are so right I am so glad I went back to watching your videos again I have been on a backslide I really wish that I can unwire my brain and get back on track porn is truly a major problem keep up the great work because I really do have a great bonding partner and I don’t want to lose her
But it’s like the old saying you eat corn flakes every day you get tired of them but if I look at it in another way I want them corn flakes forever
Keep fighting the good fight
I recommend meditation
Hey Doc!! I'm still looking for my P.I.C. Partner In Christ!! But I know I'll find her, thank you so much my friend!!🐔👫
I wish my ex watch this I've recovered but lost someone I truly love
5:20
Satisfaction relays on three factors, personal preference, reciprocal behaviors and daily life
You cannot just expect your relationship to be perfect for not doing anything, and not in every relationship you will have a the same mental connection with that partner
That is the second part that nobody tells you
Is the only problem will be just porn, relationships should be easy
5:30
Independently for our biological behaviors, there are some other factors that make our relationships unstable
You cannot live thinking that anybody will be your next best friend of life, a good relationship requieres a lot of “equality” between you and your partner and that it doesn’t something that has to do with male or female
Strong bonds are made with something else called “mental equality”, rather than the luck of a random male finding a random female and going tied up in a corner
Even if you live in a desert island with a partner, this doesn’t mean that you will have a mental connection outside the biological instinct of wanting a partner
What’s the difference between knowing someone only because you dream about her being a wife and someone that you know for playing a lot of chessboard games and learned a lot about it
Relationships differs between persons, the problem of not wanting to stay with the same woman, is not only because of the biological need of changing partner, but it also could about what does that woman as a person represent to your daily life
There is not always an easy answer
6:00
How do you determinate happiness in a relationship?
Relationships are more complicate
I never thought of porn as cheating. I got into a long-term relationship and I hurt my wife’s feelings when she found out I watch pornography. She asked me did I like the women more than her. It’s been hard but I’m 5 days in and I hope I can make it one more day.
You've got this! Hearing her and listening to her was a very powerful thing!
3:30
Solid Bonds are not something determinate by our biological behaviors
Is what you do with that partner in general life
Something that you can have with that partner in particular and not so easy with others
Any biological reason to have a partner is replaceable, if you pretend to have partner because you feel empty, is not a good way to start a relationship
4:50
If you made a good relationship, porn should not be an issues for the bond
Cause humans are not only together for biological behaviors
3 months porn free. I look forward to a lifetime of never watching porn ever again.
And if the person is single, is the situation the same?
It can make it incredibly difficult to find new relationships!
Mam please make video on sexual timeing
Some trade up like trading a car in for a better model.
This can be the type of thinking that keeps you in the screen!
and how is that I suppose to satisfy my man needs? 🤔
Looking to the sunset will not be enough
By being open, having good communication, and being respectful!
6:17
There are different reasons to have a partner, the main reason is to procreate and nothing else
Unless you discover your partner by playing chessboard games, you cannot say that your bond is more than biological
Biological reason to have a partner expires in time
Even if you don’t change your partner, you wouldn’t care about something that you don’t have
Many people want a partner to have a connection, intimacy, happiness, and love!
Thank you for this message 😊
To go even further, P0rn IS Infidelity!
“But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.”
-Matthew 5:22
This knowledge shouldn’t condemn us every time we have a passing s3xual thought or fall back into a P-M-O cycle, but should instead remind us that God is merciful to have forgiven us despite our failings. And every victory that you have over your struggles should be celebrated because we are in a spiritual war, not a physical one, even though our flesh is what’s yearning to be satiated, know that it will never be! It just wants more and more. So don’t give up ladies and gentlemen, Look up, He’s got you! 👆🕊️❤
I’m gooning