After 40 years in this life and many woman on my life , simple stuff think about yourself, be yourself and Fuck if she like you or not , the one who loves you will stay in the good and the bad enjoy your life , you will regret trying spending your life trying to be what she likes , THEY ARE NEVER BLODDY HAPPY 🫡🫡🫡🫡
@@RaveSceneTribute not true , women always think the grass is greener on the other side and aren't loyal , there is a reason why they say doggs are loyal not women .
Man disagree, as i See it in my personal live, women would rather be with an attractive dark Trips abuser than an unattractive responsible man, but if they are Similiarly attractive ,she will pick the responsible man
Nah, women who are broken maybe. But you should be noticing red flags long before they can do serious damage. Women want a man that’s solid, their rock, because it makes them feel safe. They need to feel safe because men are natural provider protectors. If you put women at risk because if your lack of self control or impulse, that’s a very in attractive trait. In return women should realize they are the care givers, the ones that calm you and give you piece. If you don’t see a return in your woman, that to me is a red flag.
The type of women who find that boring are not the type of women you want anyway. She'll destabilize your life and bring chaos to your family. If you willingly go for that, that just proves your own intelligence. Or lack thereof.
markouljancic975 when she says he's stable she means he pays for her stuff and handles her problems. But, understandably, she doesn't want to sound like a golddigger, so she has to say he's stable, reliable
Im attractive to women And even more so because i do what i want when i want i am a real life peter pan i go out on my motorbikes when i want i play my music when i want i drink in bars when i want . Guys stop giving a shit what women think live your life how you want
Shes talking about women who are at the end of their 'hoe' phase and are ready to settle. Remember, this isnt the end. People stop liking each other all the time and stability can be provided by others too.
It's not, actually. She's just using you. As soon as possible, she'll find someone she is attracted to to meet her needs and continue using you. Money meets other needs but not the same needs that attraction means.
@O1OO1O1 no shit dawg. That's why you treat it like buying a lady of the night. Enjoy yourself, pay for your service, and send em on their way. Keep winning
As a man I completely disagree. Women love saying this but their actions are the opposite of what they say. I don't understand why some and I'd like to believe most women, want the guy that's not responsible. Among other negative traits.
That's correct. She's just telling how women want to be seen. But that's just big BS. Most women are instinctively attracted to A holes. It doesn't mean that every woman will fall for it, but the instinct is there ...
Its because the irresponsible man will spend himself into a deep hole to have her, once she has used up all the money he can borrow she will move to the next
You clearly don't understand women. We want responsible guys but not boring ones! Be responisble and fun at the same time. This is the typical answer i hear from "nice" guys who have absolutely nothing going on in their life. No game no fun hobbies no nothing.
Who cares? You're not gonna be with most women, are you? Why would you want a woman in your life who is attracted to chaos and instability? She'll destabilize your life, bring chaos to your family. You need to either find a stable woman who likes stability in others, or stay single. Otherwise it's like a woman willingly settling for an abusive dude. Profoundly stupid.
There are many dimensions to attraction, but in my opinion physical is the deciding factor above all else. Its just biology, human instinct. If a woman is physically attracted to you chances are you will get her, atleast temporarily. All the other stuff like money, status, etc..... really means nothing if she does not find you attractive.
Stop thinking like that, it’s that kind of mentality that ruins your confidence. Sure those are very positive traits but it’s not always about that. Confidence and charm is the real key.
There’s different levels to attraction. Sexual attraction is magnetic attraction. Whilst basic attraction is otherwise fulfilled by social and emotional qualities. When it comes to sexual attraction, if a woman is sexually attracted to you, she will let you know. It’s instinctual not impulsive. If it’s mutual attraction sex will transpire regardless of circumstances or wealth. If a woman is not sexually drawn to you she will only be with you to satisfy her social and personal needs. This is where money, wealth, resources and friendship come into play. So basically sexual attraction is easy but social attraction requires a man to possess more than physical attributes if he wishes to succeed.
Keep your body in good shape, good hygiene, well groomed, read something everyday, have money, and have your own home. Doing these simple things will guarantee that women will want you. Having said this, you should always be doing this as a man for yourself and not for a woman. But you will attract their attention nonetheless.
@@proadsfinest you do realize not everyone can afford a home. A lot of adults live with parents or homeless. Not as simple in today’s economy. But you are not stupid, you know this, right?
As someone who looks back at my marriage and have since looked at advice like this about female nature this is GREAT advice. If she doesn't have Genuine Desire for you then you are going to have a nightmare time with a woman.
This is so true, as a woman, I cannot be with a man I’m not attracted to, I don’t care how stable or wealthy they are . Attraction is a very mystical thing indeed.
@@Farhan_049 well so long as we are talking about physical attraction, I assume that's what this comment is referring to because that is the context of the video. My point is that you are generally physically attracted to someone probably above your league, so the chances of someone getting someone that they are really physically attracted to is slim.
The only thing she said that really makes sense is … she has to be attracted to you …. Exactly .. The rest I am not sure … girls love an impulsive guy cause he is unpredictable etc
Women chase who *ain't* chasing them.. they almost always go for the inaccessible man. And they run away from those desperately chasing em.. Focus on doing you, and the right one will be along that path anyway. (especially if that path involves you making more money for yourself). Kings stay focused on the right things 👑 ✅️
No you are half correct ,rich, strong,fit,taller then her, handsome, high status men who aren't chasing them are guys women are chasing Girls will run away from guys who are none of the above desperately chasing her
@gamestorm-tz2rw that is incorrect. I've seen shorter men who are self-proclaimed to not be the best looking amongst men and not necessarily gym bros neither.. and those guys still have a beautiful "trophy" Wife on their shoulders. How many questionable looking dudes in the industry of music, movies, and showbiz do we see that fit this bill? There's many living examples. Flava Flav, for instance (no offence to him or any other I might use in this example), has 8 kids and multiple BM's.. you think he'd still have even the chance to lay with that many women if he didn't have some form of wealth? , or even Jay Z.. how often do you hear women talk about how good-looking he is? Never.. it's the money.. Even CZcamsrs like KSI and his Brother Deji proclaim to not be the tallest, strongest or best looking but they're wealthy: therefore: they acquire all if not most of the same things only broke = good looking, tall and strong men acquire. I even know real-life examples of individuals in my own life that have levelled up monetarily, and it's introduced em to a whole new echelon of women that weren't previously accessible. Women don't pursue much, but when they DO get to the point of deciding to do so.. it's usually with a guy that is inaccessible to em.. in a different realm financially if not physically. Get the bag and then tell me I'm wrong. God Bless 🙏🏾
@@Cee-Real I know but the I just gave you different metrics in which guy has to perform to get women and remember if you only have money and not the other traits required to attract womem as I mentioned you would only attract gold diggers not real women who you want to start relationship
@gamestorm-tz2rw of course, 100%, I agree. But with all due respect, bro: this isn't me saying I condone the notion of using money and *only* money as a means of attracting a woman (I'm happily married). This definitely wouldn't be the way to attract a "good" woman, but fortunately, that isn't the point I'm making. I just mean that: when a man has money , unfortunately in today's society: it is indeed sufficient to attract a woman period, regardless of whatever calibre of woman she is.. Since the initial comment of mine you responded to = was me stating that women "chase" inaccessible men for the most part (usually the ones that are set financially) .. I made no mention of whether or not one could acquire a *"good"* woman or a *"good"* Wife via money.. I'm just discussing how having money (as a man) directly influences whether or not a woman will deem you worth chasing or not. The pursuit habits of women change depending on the affluence of the man. This is traceable. But yes, I do wholeheartedly agree with your statement in that (usually) the calibre of woman that is *only* attracted to your riches..definitely is telling for the category of woman she belongs to. (Golddiggers, etc).
There’s different levels to attraction. Sexual attraction is magnetic attraction. Whilst basic attraction is otherwise fulfilled by social and emotional qualities. When it comes to sexual attraction, if a woman is sexually attracted to you, she will let you know. It’s instinctual not impulsive. If it’s mutual attraction sex will transpire regardless of circumstances or wealth. If a woman is not sexually drawn to you she will only be with you to satisfy her social and personal needs. This is where money, wealth, resources and friendship come into play. So basically sexual attraction is easy but social attraction requires a man to possess more than physical attributes if he wishes to succeed.
And men who are not physical attracted to a Woman…the Story remain the Same….why you Tell us such easy thoughts?….men AND women can Never be a couple if one of them has no physical attraction for the other …..
Thus girl is definitely eyeing the stables for a stable boy. Done chasing the Prince in the castle. Even Cleopatra had to down grade to a stable boy after Caesars passing as she failed to capture the eye of the young emperor Augustus.
I know this is just a clip but i dont like that the mainstream always seems to talk about what a man should be and not what a woman should be in return. Having balanced control over the relationship should also be matched with someone who recognizes that they also have a role. When i stop constantly hearing about what i should be doing i am much more likely to listen to someone who wants the best for the relationship.
Someone said it, finally. And now that we’re here, can we please talk about the toxicity of votes (“she’s a 10”, “he’s an 8” etc.) and “body count” too?
If she doesn't hugs and kisses you few times a day, that's basically it. It is the simplest thing you can do to show your love. Leave her and find a woman which does. You are just "friends" living together.
Um i beg to differ, they like it when guys dress neatly. The only become close to u if she trusts you. Girls like gentlemen, just look at kdrama guys which girls love. I guess they like you to control your impulse in a manner that you dont engage like youre starving but slowly and deliberate initiate
@@azul1964 Wrong on so many levels, and are you seriously going to compare real relationships with K-Drama? I don't even see how you can be reasoned with!
what guys need to attract women: be somewhat genetically gifted ( be tall be good looking have a lean body dont be bald ) be rich , be smart , be funny , be charismatic , be in control of everything , have a fun life and ..... what women need to do to attract men: just exist (any other thing is optional )
Haha, and then the woman will cheat with one of those impulsive chaotic guys and get pregnant. That's the time when she will settle with the responsible guy telling him he's going to be a father soon...
You are so right, I was sitting in jury duty waiting, she was behind me, she tapped my shoulder, asked if I wanted to talk, what followed was over 2 decades of the best part of my life Miss her till I go, 2 songs make me smile and tear up, if I could only dance with you/ Jim glazer and Alabama's/ she and I.
Attraction is different for everyone. What one person likes, another may not. A general rule is having a fit body and good face symmetry and balance. And being clean and well-groomed. But you'll know when a woman is attracted to you because she will make it VERY obvious. If you can't tell, she's more than likely NOT attracted to you.
If a man makes the fist move he can be sued for millions of dollars with no statues of limitations in New York now. She doesn't even have to know what year it happened
What I don't understand is that feelings are fleeting. People can be attracted and then lose it, and that goes for both partners. It's unreasonable to assume someone will hold the same level of attraction or even love at all times. Sometimes in life, we can have moments where we are hard to love. I think ppl need perseverance and grit. It makes me upset when I see therapists telling people to cut off toxic people or anyone who causes them problems. It's so selfish. What happens when you need people to stand with you? Or your elderly parents? Overall, I like her advice.
@@GOD.KALKI. I don’t think like my dad. I just look around me at how unsightly most men have become. T-shirts, knit shorts and flip flops in public, like the entire world is their bathroom. It’s like men no longer understand how a mirror works.
I thought the same thing. If you want to be taken seriously especially on a discussion about attraction don't dress where a baseball cap to interview a woman who is in make-up and a dress. You look like you have no business talking about attraction triggers in the opposite sex being this far off what women like.
@@crisalcantara7671 Dressing like everybody else is what you are all doing already. That’s pretty much pure peer pressure, coupled with a total lack of concern about how you present yourself. Here’s a clue… men who make the effort to look attractive ARE attractive to women. And Clothing was something human beings came up with intended to flatter our often less than ideal physiques. But hey, you wanna look like an immature slob… you do you.
00:02 Choose a woman who's attracted to you 00:11 Attraction is not just about being out of someone's league 00:20 Physical affection is a key indicator of attraction. 00:28 Physical contact initiation indicates attraction 00:39 Self-control influences various aspects of life 00:50 Self-control is key in relationships 01:00 Women want a naturally responsible man 01:11 Impulsiveness is unattractive to women Crafted by Merlin AI.
i even have a situation now. if anybody wants to give any advice it is welcome. there’s this girl i’ve been talking to for a little bit (maybe a month or two) and the past three days it’s gotten a little ramped up (more flirty stuff, etc) and she has tattoos and im not attracted to tattoos but i believe her face and personality are her best traits so i’m stuck cause idk what to do. i have saw somewhere, similar to this video how the girls who do like you and are attracted to you are important and shouldn’t be avoided, so idk.
There’s different levels to attraction. Sexual attraction is magnetic attraction. Whilst basic attraction is otherwise fulfilled by social and emotional qualities. When it comes to sexual attraction, if a woman is sexually attracted to you, she will let you know. It’s instinctual not impulsive. If it’s mutual attraction sex will transpire regardless of circumstances or wealth. If a woman is not sexually drawn to you she will only be with you to satisfy her social and personal needs. This is where money, wealth, resources and friendship come into play. So basically sexual attraction is easy but social attraction requires a man to possess more than physical attributes if he wishes to succeed.
well its because of the simps who valued women more than what they deserved. that's why these women have a high expectation with a guy though they have nothing special to offer on table.
From Wikipedia: "The term hypergyny is used to describe the overall practice of women marrying up, since the men would be marrying down." I can't seem to find the word exclusively for men doing this.
Hypergamy vs Hypogamy. Hypo- (Lower ) Hyper- (Higher). Like Hyperthermia (too hot) vs hypothermia (too cold). Is silly because Hypo and Hyper sound and look the same so people often miss the distinction.
This is what she and others will never understand: you get a person who is close to God. Because if you focus on bodily pleasures, your marriage will fail. You will get a divorce. There is no ifs, ands, or buts about that.
Point number one is 100 percent correct and is the only real take away of this intervieuw the rest is bull, anyway you dont pick up the signals she is attracted to you, dont lose your time unless you have no choice and you need to use other qualities to attract women (money) but understand then that everything is fake in your relationship, do not trust her, protect your assets (home, car, bankaccount,...) and enjoy your ride because its not gonna last once she realises she cant get to your assets.
@@eastbee103 it's like me and you have our roles swapped, that the point you're trying to get across feels like it should be coming from me instead. Polygamy.. I'm not for it, I don't see it for myself, but also wouldn't go as far as discourage other Muslims. I'm sure you're not proposing polygamy. I understand that in your outlook those relationships don't need to be marriages. It's like very few of us guys graduate school and say they wanna get married, see it more as a financial trap or at least too soon. But what's the alternative? Other than to have yourself surrounded by family, especially 50 years down the road. I can't imagine how difficult it would be going through old age, not to mention all alone while having an endless line of willing women in and out of the door. Yea I know, jokes. Could you imagine while being 75? Problem is most marriages are doomed when girls would get off on attention from anyone and guys would get off of looking at anything that moves. Why even be in a relationship to begin with when girls want their ig and guys want their corn. Like everyone just waiting for their opportunity to cheat. It's not all doom and gloom even still. Guys and girls still manage to swift through all that trash and find each other. And they understand being unselfish and making sacrifices is a big part of it, like no one said that your marriage is not gonna be tried and tested. Impossible. Yea but good luck finding that one who's 'physically' attracted to you with all those inflated egos. Each one of them out there thinks she's an 8.
@@casterol you need to stop talking what you don't know!! I been happily married for over 20 years!! I had a choice of some of the finest successful black women because i stayed on my grind!! I chose the right one!! I didnt bone every girl that i could have because i respect myself!!
But also be spontaneous and unpredictable. So we need to be stable but unpredictable, fun and not boring, but also boring; spontaneous and not impulsive. Strong but also weak. Good but also bad. Seems like we have to be a rollercoaster of emotions and behavior traits.
Nope, no rollercoaster, not doing of two opposites, on the contrary... ....It's different: Be(com)ing mature (also emotionally) covers most of it. Only pro's and no cons to that. You then make choices that are actually beneficial for you instead of automatically doing certain things that might seem good from such immature perspective or are just labeled good by oneself because of doing them (often driven by an impulse instead of a really conscious perspective and/or programmed into you because of how you grew up ... which you can change!). Some unhealthy people can find you less interesting maybe when you 'upgrade' yourself, but you really dont want these, especially when you know what they can cost you and others can bring you, and definitely not when you become more mature. (Which is pretty much what tons of awesome ppl think about these self proclaimed Peter pans) Now, because of where you stand now you think in these two opposites. I think of it this way: Being the right partner for a matching with you person. Responsible ánd interesting and/or creative (which of the two depends on a persons own preference), Safe physically ánd emotionally (meaning towards your own partner also) Respecting boundaries is very important. The right person for you wont find you boring. Healthy balance of together and being your own person too will keep it cool too. You know who can find ppl boring: people with attachment issues, psychopaths and other people with excessive dopamine needs
Be a millionaire every women is attracted to you.. simple answer explained in one sentence.. we don’t need this.. cox ths doesn’t work in reality.. even she would be attracted to millionaire in no time..
Women: "If we're attracted to you, we constantly initiate physical contact". This is OK. Men: "If we're attracted to you, we constantly initiate physical contact". This is SA.
Why does the guy look like he's reevaluating his relationships with women? 😂 I swear his face said, "my girl never initiates...guess she's not attracted to me"
thats why I will never get men who are fighting over a woman, etc... Its like if she compares me to somebody and its hard for her to choose, she obviously doesnt want me as much as I want her and in that case I dont want her anymore 🤣some people still have the idea that the man should "deserve" it and pursue the woman but its like yall have to show some interest too, Im not gonna just chase a woman that acts like she doesnt even want me 🤣
Mmmm idk abt the stability and respect thing but she is right about needing a woman who is very attracted to you. That much is certainly true. Don’t go after girls who don’t want you, waste of time and heartache.
Yeah, the problem is that most women, even 6/10 women, are only attracted to 8/10 or 9/10 men, due to social media and internet dating and seeing beautiful men on screens all the time, plus general female pickiness. So then, if you want to follow the advice of "choose a woman who is attracted to you", you're dating down by like 2 - 3 points. But as a man I'm not willing to do that.
There’s different levels to attraction. Sexual attraction is magnetic attraction. Whilst basic attraction is otherwise fulfilled by social and emotional qualities. When it comes to sexual attraction, if a woman is sexually attracted to you, she will let you know. It’s instinctual not impulsive. If it’s mutual attraction sex will transpire regardless of circumstances or wealth. If a woman is not sexually drawn to you she will only be with you to satisfy her social and personal needs. This is where money, wealth, resources and friendship come into play. So basically sexual attraction is easy but social attraction requires a man to possess more than physical attributes if he wishes to succeed.
The greatest waste of time is pursuing a woman who doesn’t like you. The next greatest waste of time is pursuing a woman.
To the point 😂
Totally agree. Spend time improving yourself and women will just naturally gravitate towards you.
Exactly
Those are wise words. Never pursue anyone especially beauty. Beauty is a super attractive bait.
After 40 years in this life and many woman on my life , simple stuff think about yourself, be yourself and Fuck if she like you or not , the one who loves you will stay in the good and the bad enjoy your life , you will regret trying spending your life trying to be what she likes , THEY ARE NEVER BLODDY HAPPY 🫡🫡🫡🫡
Be her father. Got it.
Yes, that's the point.
🤣🤣‼️
Exactly
Be her daddy...
Be a man, not a boy, that's the point
Fact: women mostly leave calm and responsible men who have everything under control and rarely leave dark triad abusers.
'damaged women' do that.
@@RaveSceneTribute not true , women always think the grass is greener on the other side and aren't loyal , there is a reason why they say doggs are loyal not women .
Man disagree, as i See it in my personal live, women would rather be with an attractive dark Trips abuser than an unattractive responsible man, but if they are Similiarly attractive ,she will pick the responsible man
@@crisalcantara7671 that's the best picture i saw from Jin Kazama so far who draw that?
They always leave "dark triad abusers", but first: not a lot of them around anymore, second, they usually just rebound to another one.
Don't ask a fish how to catch fish
Ask the fisherman 😂
Fckin right
Exactly!
Ahh another disciple of the great Patrice O'neal, greetings comrade.
Was about to say this 😂
Sadia is 40 and has never had a man her entire life so I guess it would be safe to assume she has not a clue what she's talking about.
But she is beautiful i dont know ho beautiful she is without the makeup
@@King_droid4908 Perhaps not as much.
She doesn't look 40 she's gorgeous
@@King_droid4908are you blind 😂 she's wearing makeup homie
@@RoxanneGutierrez010 ok cool but she is still good looking
Stability is more often than not boredom to women. Shes capping.
Nah, women who are broken maybe. But you should be noticing red flags long before they can do serious damage. Women want a man that’s solid, their rock, because it makes them feel safe. They need to feel safe because men are natural provider protectors. If you put women at risk because if your lack of self control or impulse, that’s a very in attractive trait. In return women should realize they are the care givers, the ones that calm you and give you piece. If you don’t see a return in your woman, that to me is a red flag.
@@Mugsey1984 I'm uncaring, so, yay to me.
The type of women who find that boring are not the type of women you want anyway. She'll destabilize your life and bring chaos to your family. If you willingly go for that, that just proves your own intelligence. Or lack thereof.
markouljancic975
when she says he's stable she means he pays for her stuff and handles her problems.
But, understandably, she doesn't want to sound like a golddigger, so she has to say he's stable, reliable
who doesn't want stability must be chaotic himself , why would you need that kind of maniac women
Translation: if you're tall and VERY handsome, it's fine, pick any woman. If you're not... stay single.
No shit, is this surprising to you?
yep , unless you are rich than you can show off and get more hoes .
@@charleswhitman8614 it's for those newbies who think wmn are to worshipped , pin it on top .
You might be able to pick any woman but not keep her.
6 figures, 6 inches, 6 feet
Im attractive to women
And even more so because i do what i want when i want i am a real life peter pan i go out on my motorbikes when i want i play my music when i want i drink in bars when i want .
Guys stop giving a shit what women think live your life how you want
💯💯💯💯
only guy in here that has a normal brain .
☝☝ This....
You can always spot the ‘Old Teenager’ because he’s gone grey and still has a fuckignponytail!
I always did what I want , but then I became a Dad...
She's so right. I will say, she's talking about women who are a bit older and mature though.
Women are not worth this much effort, what’s the end prize for a man? Losing all money and security through divorce, alimony, and child support.
And one who is not Asian
And she's talking BS ...
This woman talks outa her ass
Shes talking about women who are at the end of their 'hoe' phase and are ready to settle.
Remember, this isnt the end. People stop liking each other all the time and stability can be provided by others too.
A fat beer gut may not be attractive to a woman; but a fat wallet is always an aphrodisiac!
It's not, actually. She's just using you. As soon as possible, she'll find someone she is attracted to to meet her needs and continue using you. Money meets other needs but not the same needs that attraction means.
LOL!!! so true!! that golden man!!!
A fat wiener trumps everything!
@@O1OO1O1Exactly. So many of these incel bozos are so lost.
@O1OO1O1 no shit dawg. That's why you treat it like buying a lady of the night. Enjoy yourself, pay for your service, and send em on their way. Keep winning
How the fuck do men not know this???? This is why ive always dated down, she has to be attracted to me more than I am her
As a man I completely disagree. Women love saying this but their actions are the opposite of what they say. I don't understand why some and I'd like to believe most women, want the guy that's not responsible. Among other negative traits.
only a green fool would believe anything a wmn says unless you know her personally for a while and trust her but other than that it's all yappin .
That's correct.
She's just telling how women want to be seen.
But that's just big BS.
Most women are instinctively attracted to A holes. It doesn't mean that every woman will fall for it, but the instinct is there ...
Its because the irresponsible man will spend himself into a deep hole to have her, once she has used up all the money he can borrow she will move to the next
You clearly don't understand women. We want responsible guys but not boring ones! Be responisble and fun at the same time.
This is the typical answer i hear from "nice" guys who have absolutely nothing going on in their life. No game no fun hobbies no nothing.
Who cares? You're not gonna be with most women, are you? Why would you want a woman in your life who is attracted to chaos and instability? She'll destabilize your life, bring chaos to your family. You need to either find a stable woman who likes stability in others, or stay single. Otherwise it's like a woman willingly settling for an abusive dude. Profoundly stupid.
I became a bad boy so women would be attracted to me. - I quit recycling.
I also stopped recycling. I’ve even taken to throwing recyclables along the side of the highways.
IKR
Gentlemen, you are the true heroes
devious man 💀💀
There are many dimensions to attraction, but in my opinion physical is the deciding factor above all else. Its just biology, human instinct. If a woman is physically attracted to you chances are you will get her, atleast temporarily. All the other stuff like money, status, etc..... really means nothing if she does not find you attractive.
Rule 1. Be tall. Rule 2. Be incredibly good looking. Rule 3. Be rich.
Nope. Just don’t be a soft as self-victim who’s not willling to play their best with the cards they were dealt.
@@jamalmahamed7840 So in short you're neither tall, incredibly good looking or rich, but have a hand to deal?? I think you dropped this.🧢
Stop thinking like that, it’s that kind of mentality that ruins your confidence. Sure those are very positive traits but it’s not always about that. Confidence and charm is the real key.
Only rule: Be rich. Lol
There’s different levels to attraction. Sexual attraction is magnetic attraction. Whilst basic attraction is otherwise fulfilled by social and emotional qualities. When it comes to sexual attraction, if a woman is sexually attracted to you, she will let you know. It’s instinctual not impulsive. If it’s mutual attraction sex will transpire regardless of circumstances or wealth. If a woman is not sexually drawn to you she will only be with you to satisfy her social and personal needs. This is where money, wealth, resources and friendship come into play. So basically sexual attraction is easy but social attraction requires a man to possess more than physical attributes if he wishes to succeed.
Simple formula.....work hard.. work smart...be rich...and don't throw yourself on her ...create backups....
Keep your body in good shape, good hygiene, well groomed, read something everyday, have money, and have your own home. Doing these simple things will guarantee that women will want you. Having said this, you should always be doing this as a man for yourself and not for a woman. But you will attract their attention nonetheless.
Have a house is simple lol do you live in a forest?
@@proadsfinest you do realize not everyone can afford a home. A lot of adults live with parents or homeless. Not as simple in today’s economy. But you are not stupid, you know this, right?
As someone who looks back at my marriage and have since looked at advice like this about female nature this is GREAT advice. If she doesn't have Genuine Desire for you then you are going to have a nightmare time with a woman.
This is so true, as a woman, I cannot be with a man I’m not attracted to, I don’t care how stable or wealthy they are . Attraction is a very mystical thing indeed.
Enjoy being lonely
@@Ripa-Moramee We have an old teenager here!😂
@@Farhan_049 well so long as we are talking about physical attraction, I assume that's what this comment is referring to because that is the context of the video. My point is that you are generally physically attracted to someone probably above your league, so the chances of someone getting someone that they are really physically attracted to is slim.
Spiritual attraction is real thing ...@@Farhan_049
That’s funny my understanding of women is that they only care about money and being take care of while doing nothing in return.
Women don't no wtf they want. Hang out with them, enjoy your time with them and understand they'll eventually move on then you can never be broken.
The only thing she said that really makes sense is … she has to be attracted to you …. Exactly ..
The rest I am not sure … girls love an impulsive guy cause he is unpredictable etc
Women chase who *ain't* chasing them.. they almost always go for the inaccessible man.
And they run away from those desperately chasing em..
Focus on doing you, and the right one will be along that path anyway.
(especially if that path involves you making more money for yourself).
Kings stay focused on the right things 👑 ✅️
No you are half correct ,rich, strong,fit,taller then her, handsome, high status men who aren't chasing them are guys women are chasing
Girls will run away from
guys who are none of the above desperately chasing her
@gamestorm-tz2rw that is incorrect. I've seen shorter men who are self-proclaimed to not be the best looking amongst men and not necessarily gym bros neither.. and those guys still have a beautiful "trophy" Wife on their shoulders.
How many questionable looking dudes in the industry of music, movies, and showbiz do we see that fit this bill? There's many living examples. Flava Flav, for instance (no offence to him or any other I might use in this example), has 8 kids and multiple BM's.. you think he'd still have even the chance to lay with that many women if he didn't have some form of wealth? , or even Jay Z.. how often do you hear women talk about how good-looking he is? Never.. it's the money..
Even CZcamsrs like KSI and his Brother Deji proclaim to not be the tallest, strongest or best looking but they're wealthy: therefore: they acquire all if not most of the same things only broke = good looking, tall and strong men acquire.
I even know real-life examples of individuals in my own life that have levelled up monetarily, and it's introduced em to a whole new echelon of women that weren't previously accessible.
Women don't pursue much, but when they DO get to the point of deciding to do so.. it's usually with a guy that is inaccessible to em.. in a different realm financially if not physically.
Get the bag and then tell me I'm wrong.
God Bless 🙏🏾
@@Cee-Real I know but the I just gave you different metrics in which guy has to perform to get women and remember if you only have money and not the other traits required to attract womem as I mentioned you would only attract gold diggers not real women who you want to start relationship
@gamestorm-tz2rw of course, 100%, I agree. But with all due respect, bro: this isn't me saying I condone the notion of using money and *only* money as a means of attracting a woman (I'm happily married).
This definitely wouldn't be the way to attract a "good" woman, but fortunately, that isn't the point I'm making.
I just mean that: when a man has money , unfortunately in today's society: it is indeed sufficient to attract a woman period, regardless of whatever calibre of woman she is..
Since the initial comment of mine you responded to = was me stating that women "chase" inaccessible men for the most part (usually the ones that are set financially) ..
I made no mention of whether or not one could acquire a *"good"* woman or a *"good"* Wife via money.. I'm just discussing how having money (as a man) directly influences whether or not a woman will deem you worth chasing or not. The pursuit habits of women change depending on the affluence of the man. This is traceable.
But yes, I do wholeheartedly agree with your statement in that (usually) the calibre of woman that is *only* attracted to your riches..definitely is telling for the category of woman she belongs to. (Golddiggers, etc).
There’s different levels to attraction. Sexual attraction is magnetic attraction. Whilst basic attraction is otherwise fulfilled by social and emotional qualities. When it comes to sexual attraction, if a woman is sexually attracted to you, she will let you know. It’s instinctual not impulsive. If it’s mutual attraction sex will transpire regardless of circumstances or wealth. If a woman is not sexually drawn to you she will only be with you to satisfy her social and personal needs. This is where money, wealth, resources and friendship come into play. So basically sexual attraction is easy but social attraction requires a man to possess more than physical attributes if he wishes to succeed.
And men who are not physical attracted to a Woman…the Story remain the Same….why you Tell us such easy thoughts?….men AND women can Never be a couple if one of them has no physical attraction for the other …..
Thus girl is definitely eyeing the stables for a stable boy. Done chasing the Prince in the castle. Even Cleopatra had to down grade to a stable boy after Caesars passing as she failed to capture the eye of the young emperor Augustus.
There is no league there only is attraction
I know this is just a clip but i dont like that the mainstream always seems to talk about what a man should be and not what a woman should be in return. Having balanced control over the relationship should also be matched with someone who recognizes that they also have a role. When i stop constantly hearing about what i should be doing i am much more likely to listen to someone who wants the best for the relationship.
I love how we’ve got ‘leagues’.
Know who’s in your league.
Lol
This is absolutely NOT what’s wrong with society….😂
Someone said it, finally. And now that we’re here, can we please talk about the toxicity of votes (“she’s a 10”, “he’s an 8” etc.) and “body count” too?
@@mauropuglia7991no bro body count is important.
Dont run after women, the result of all this discussion
As a man here's my answer :
I don't give a fuck what woman wants me ... I give a fuck what i want me to be.
Most women love 2 drink, party and shop til the drop and U call Men impulsive lol
Everyone is different. She's putting everyone in one basket.
There are no league's. We are all human.
Yes.
And men are the prize.
Well, get used to sharing, -ladies- girls.
This guy nodding like he's got enough time left in his life to use this advice
😂😂😂
My wife isn’t attracted to me. Got it.
Thats basically what i heard
If she doesn't hugs and kisses you few times a day, that's basically it. It is the simplest thing you can do to show your love.
Leave her and find a woman which does. You are just "friends" living together.
@@redsun9261can’t do that man I got two kids. There’s more at stake than my feelings.
Impulse control,,,, responsible,,, trust worthy,,, things it seems women dont want
Um i beg to differ, they like it when guys dress neatly. The only become close to u if she trusts you. Girls like gentlemen, just look at kdrama guys which girls love. I guess they like you to control your impulse in a manner that you dont engage like youre starving but slowly and deliberate initiate
Well dressed thugs it is, then @@azul1964
@@azul1964 Wrong on so many levels, and are you seriously going to compare real relationships with K-Drama?
I don't even see how you can be reasoned with!
@@Farhan_049 im just saying why girls like k drama compared to guys, because girls see those as "ideal" relationships. They see oppa as ideal guys
A woman's heart goes through her vagina.
what guys need to attract women:
be somewhat genetically gifted ( be tall be good looking have a lean body dont be bald )
be rich , be smart , be funny , be charismatic , be in control of everything , have a fun life and .....
what women need to do to attract men:
just exist (any other thing is optional )
You could also just *exist* in Patpong Alley in Thailand.
These days many women can be attractive without existing: Welcome to AI.
Haha, and then the woman will cheat with one of those impulsive chaotic guys and get pregnant. That's the time when she will settle with the responsible guy telling him he's going to be a father soon...
Are men attracted to you when you’re not wearing tons of makeup?
Are women attracted to you when you're not sniping like a little girl?
Thanks for the heads up Mcgruff
wow. So insightful! I heard water is wet also.
Naaah.. Leave women to the streets
you're hurt. women are fine. go fix yourself
Looks means literally everything.
Not in her case
I practice celibacy...
Save you your house and pension wise.
involuntary
Great if you're channeling that libidinal energy elsewhere, otherwise if you're forcing it that's just not gonna be sustainable
you mean involuntary celibacy aka incel?
you mean involuntary celibacy aka incel?
You are so right, I was sitting in jury duty waiting, she was behind me, she tapped my shoulder, asked if I wanted to talk, what followed was over 2 decades of the best part of my life
Miss her till I go, 2 songs make me smile and tear up, if I could only dance with you/ Jim glazer and Alabama's/ she and I.
This woman talks the most shit
I agree with you, however if you ever feel someone is "out of your league" then I do feel sorry for you
I agree with her. Once the woman is attracted to you, then they want the stability. Being attractive to women is the hard part.
That sounds very, very complicated .
So be attractive but can’t explain attraction. Got it
Attraction is different for everyone. What one person likes, another may not. A general rule is having a fit body and good face symmetry and balance. And being clean and well-groomed. But you'll know when a woman is attracted to you because she will make it VERY obvious. If you can't tell, she's more than likely NOT attracted to you.
she actually spitting facts. most influencers just be talking..
People who use the phrase 'out of your league' unironically when dispensing relationship advice, are not worth listening to.
Very true .......
It's nothing but limiting belief nonsense.
If a man makes the fist move he can be sued for millions of dollars with no statues of limitations in New York now. She doesn't even have to know what year it happened
What I don't understand is that feelings are fleeting. People can be attracted and then lose it, and that goes for both partners. It's unreasonable to assume someone will hold the same level of attraction or even love at all times. Sometimes in life, we can have moments where we are hard to love. I think ppl need perseverance and grit. It makes me upset when I see therapists telling people to cut off toxic people or anyone who causes them problems. It's so selfish. What happens when you need people to stand with you? Or your elderly parents? Overall, I like her advice.
A grown man who still dresses like he’s 14 years old.
Each on its own. There are 9 billion people. Not everyone will think like your dad
@@GOD.KALKI. I don’t think like my dad. I just look around me at how unsightly most men have become. T-shirts, knit shorts and flip flops in public, like the entire world is their bathroom. It’s like men no longer understand how a mirror works.
let's all decide for you what you shl and shld not wear how about that .
I thought the same thing. If you want to be taken seriously especially on a discussion about attraction don't dress where a baseball cap to interview a woman who is in make-up and a dress. You look like you have no business talking about attraction triggers in the opposite sex being this far off what women like.
@@crisalcantara7671 Dressing like everybody else is what you are all doing already. That’s pretty much pure peer pressure, coupled with a total lack of concern about how you present yourself. Here’s a clue… men who make the effort to look attractive ARE attractive to women. And Clothing was something human beings came up with intended to flatter our often less than ideal physiques. But hey, you wanna look like an immature slob… you do you.
Advice from a Gold Digger.
How do u know she's a gold digger? U know her?
@@alejandronano6557she ain’t dating or marrying a man that doesn’t make 6 figures at least. I will bet my life on it 🤷🏾♂️
@@alejandronano6557 yes of course.
That's a genuine advise.. 😮
Great lesson
But do they know what a man wants in order to keep him...
A women out of a Man's league... Thats like unheard of. 💀💀💀
“Never take advice from a Fish on how to catch Fish”
Benjamin Franklyn
00:02 Choose a woman who's attracted to you
00:11 Attraction is not just about being out of someone's league
00:20 Physical affection is a key indicator of attraction.
00:28 Physical contact initiation indicates attraction
00:39 Self-control influences various aspects of life
00:50 Self-control is key in relationships
01:00 Women want a naturally responsible man
01:11 Impulsiveness is unattractive to women
Crafted by Merlin AI.
i even have a situation now. if anybody wants to give any advice it is welcome. there’s this girl i’ve been talking to for a little bit (maybe a month or two) and the past three days it’s gotten a little ramped up (more flirty stuff, etc) and she has tattoos and im not attracted to tattoos but i believe her face and personality are her best traits so i’m stuck cause idk what to do. i have saw somewhere, similar to this video how the girls who do like you and are attracted to you are important and shouldn’t be avoided, so idk.
Just roll with it brother
Absolutely gorgeous woman giving the most appropriate advice. Very appreciated. Thanks sincerely. Wishing you all the best.
Okay simp now go back to your couch and eat your patato chips
Isn`t that the same , if a man doesn`t find the woman attractive, he won`t have the same level of respect and love towards her.
The guys who takes dating advice from women either ends up single or in a break up....
There’s different levels to attraction. Sexual attraction is magnetic attraction. Whilst basic attraction is otherwise fulfilled by social and emotional qualities. When it comes to sexual attraction, if a woman is sexually attracted to you, she will let you know. It’s instinctual not impulsive. If it’s mutual attraction sex will transpire regardless of circumstances or wealth. If a woman is not sexually drawn to you she will only be with you to satisfy her social and personal needs. This is where money, wealth, resources and friendship come into play. So basically sexual attraction is easy but social attraction requires a man to possess more than physical attributes if he wishes to succeed.
young people were innocent and knew nothing bad, they learned bad things and impulsiveness from adults making hasty decisions
Responsible is the LAST thing these women want.......
Women can't be the only ones choosing. Men are tired of dating down.
well its because of the simps who valued women more than what they deserved. that's why these women have a high expectation with a guy though they have nothing special to offer on table.
women don't chose sht , men decide who to marry and wmn decide who to open there legs for .
One thing I learnt "never take advice from women on how to attract women as women dint know themselves what they want"
Big Fat P-Enis always wins
She has to adore you. Period.
😵💫 My brain short circuiting after this word soup.
Comments section is savage 😂
She's beautiful and articulate. She is quite right in her views!!
This interviewer dude is like wat I know nothing about this
From Wikipedia:
"The term hypergyny is used to describe the overall practice of women marrying up, since the men would be marrying down."
I can't seem to find the word exclusively for men doing this.
Hypergamy vs Hypogamy. Hypo- (Lower ) Hyper- (Higher). Like Hyperthermia (too hot) vs hypothermia (too cold). Is silly because Hypo and Hyper sound and look the same so people often miss the distinction.
obviously not, men are protectors and providers. are you that clueless?
she is looking for a double alpha!!
This is what she and others will never understand: you get a person who is close to God. Because if you focus on bodily pleasures, your marriage will fail. You will get a divorce. There is no ifs, ands, or buts about that.
Great advice!!!!
Point number one is 100 percent correct and is the only real take away of this intervieuw the rest is bull, anyway you dont pick up the signals she is attracted to you, dont lose your time unless you have no choice and you need to use other qualities to attract women (money) but understand then that everything is fake in your relationship, do not trust her, protect your assets (home, car, bankaccount,...) and enjoy your ride because its not gonna last once she realises she cant get to your assets.
Fellas get ya money and wealth and stay fit...you can have a lotta women if you focus on bettering yourself!!
Why "lotta" gotta be the goal? Can "one" not be the goal instead?
@@casterol each man is not man enough to handle one woman!! A successful man can have his choice of one woman or a lotta women!!
@@eastbee103 it's like me and you have our roles swapped, that the point you're trying to get across feels like it should be coming from me instead. Polygamy.. I'm not for it, I don't see it for myself, but also wouldn't go as far as discourage other Muslims.
I'm sure you're not proposing polygamy. I understand that in your outlook those relationships don't need to be marriages. It's like very few of us guys graduate school and say they wanna get married, see it more as a financial trap or at least too soon. But what's the alternative? Other than to have yourself surrounded by family, especially 50 years down the road. I can't imagine how difficult it would be going through old age, not to mention all alone while having an endless line of willing women in and out of the door. Yea I know, jokes. Could you imagine while being 75?
Problem is most marriages are doomed when girls would get off on attention from anyone and guys would get off of looking at anything that moves. Why even be in a relationship to begin with when girls want their ig and guys want their corn. Like everyone just waiting for their opportunity to cheat.
It's not all doom and gloom even still. Guys and girls still manage to swift through all that trash and find each other. And they understand being unselfish and making sacrifices is a big part of it, like no one said that your marriage is not gonna be tried and tested. Impossible.
Yea but good luck finding that one who's 'physically' attracted to you with all those inflated egos. Each one of them out there thinks she's an 8.
@@casterol you need to stop talking what you don't know!! I been happily married for over 20 years!! I had a choice of some of the finest successful black women because i stayed on my grind!! I chose the right one!! I didnt bone every girl that i could have because i respect myself!!
Why are we even having this discussion when we dont even know what a woman is 😂😂
😂🙏🏻
“ Make Me a Sandwich 🥪 🍺 “
Sound advice.
But also be spontaneous and unpredictable. So we need to be stable but unpredictable, fun and not boring, but also boring; spontaneous and not impulsive. Strong but also weak. Good but also bad. Seems like we have to be a rollercoaster of emotions and behavior traits.
Nope, no rollercoaster, not doing of two opposites, on the contrary...
....It's different:
Be(com)ing mature (also emotionally) covers most of it.
Only pro's and no cons to that.
You then make choices that are actually beneficial for you instead of automatically doing certain things that might seem good from such immature perspective or are just labeled good by oneself because of doing them (often driven by an impulse instead of a really conscious perspective and/or programmed into you because of how you grew up ... which you can change!).
Some unhealthy people can find you less interesting maybe when you 'upgrade' yourself, but you really dont want these, especially when you know what they can cost you and others can bring you, and definitely not when you become more mature. (Which is pretty much what tons of awesome ppl think about these self proclaimed Peter pans)
Now, because of where you stand now you think in these two opposites.
I think of it this way:
Being the right partner for a matching with you person.
Responsible ánd interesting and/or creative (which of the two depends on a persons own preference),
Safe physically ánd emotionally (meaning towards your own partner also)
Respecting boundaries is very important.
The right person for you wont find you boring.
Healthy balance of together and being your own person too will keep it cool too.
You know who can find ppl boring: people with attachment issues, psychopaths and other people with excessive dopamine needs
Be a millionaire every women is attracted to you.. simple answer explained in one sentence.. we don’t need this.. cox ths doesn’t work in reality.. even she would be attracted to millionaire in no time..
The correct term is “man-child”, your welcome 👨🏫
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Where can we see the whole conversation on this?
Women: "If we're attracted to you, we constantly initiate physical contact". This is OK.
Men: "If we're attracted to you, we constantly initiate physical contact". This is SA.
Why does the guy look like he's reevaluating his relationships with women? 😂 I swear his face said, "my girl never initiates...guess she's not attracted to me"
Long and alive bait🙌
"Go for a woman who is attracted to you"
Anyone who recently watched Baby Reindeer.....😮
thats why I will never get men who are fighting over a woman, etc... Its like if she compares me to somebody and its hard for her to choose, she obviously doesnt want me as much as I want her and in that case I dont want her anymore 🤣some people still have the idea that the man should "deserve" it and pursue the woman but its like yall have to show some interest too, Im not gonna just chase a woman that acts like she doesnt even want me 🤣
Guys get intimate with the Virgin Mary she will give you the deepest connection ever if u stay faithful to the rosary
Mmmm idk abt the stability and respect thing but she is right about needing a woman who is very attracted to you. That much is certainly true. Don’t go after girls who don’t want you, waste of time and heartache.
Nahh, I don't want someone I'm disgusted by.
Yeah, the problem is that most women, even 6/10 women, are only attracted to 8/10 or 9/10 men, due to social media and internet dating and seeing beautiful men on screens all the time, plus general female pickiness.
So then, if you want to follow the advice of "choose a woman who is attracted to you", you're dating down by like 2 - 3 points. But as a man I'm not willing to do that.
@@lightworker2956 A lot more than 2 - 3 points. I'm not looking for a platonic relationship to pretend it is anything else.
@@lightworker2956 Do yall ever leave your house? Social media got people beliveing the dumbest things.
There’s different levels to attraction. Sexual attraction is magnetic attraction. Whilst basic attraction is otherwise fulfilled by social and emotional qualities. When it comes to sexual attraction, if a woman is sexually attracted to you, she will let you know. It’s instinctual not impulsive. If it’s mutual attraction sex will transpire regardless of circumstances or wealth. If a woman is not sexually drawn to you she will only be with you to satisfy her social and personal needs. This is where money, wealth, resources and friendship come into play. So basically sexual attraction is easy but social attraction requires a man to possess more than physical attributes if he wishes to succeed.
Not every attractive person has an intense amount self control. Certainly not in every area. Male or female.
I don’t know why people still invite this woman to their podcast