WHY WOMEN CHEAT AND HOW TO HAVE HER LOYAL?
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In this episode of Khalish Times, Yasmeen and relationship expert Sadia Khan explore the realities of long-term relationships, discussing how to maintain attraction and navigate betrayal. Sadia shares insights on the importance of staying curious about your partner, the impact of physical appearance on desire, and the complex dynamics of infidelity. Learn practical strategies for sustaining love and trust over the years and how to rebuild a relationship after betrayal.
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As a man married over 30 years I live by one sentiment...always be ready to let it go...
This really hit it. Thanks sir!
That’s always rule 1
maybe at 30y married, your children are adults and can survive on their own - there are concerns about those who are 'stuck' in a marriage because kids are involved.
As a commenter, i agree.
@@per_growth ...oh trust me I know we were stubborn over a decade bc of the 4 children we have together...now there's also 4 grandchildren...marvelous thing, but after steak every night for over 3 decades a salsd from time to time would be delightful
Once a woman cheats, the respect is gone! It is over!!
Once a woman cheats on her man, the man should let her go because she'll never be the same in the relationship again.
100%
True true and it’s my personal experience.so the lesson is men should not give up all of themselves to women…it doesn’t matter….it means nothing to women when they are not emotionally attached or connected to you ,they will only be pretending to love you but their feelings and hearts are saying something else and that’s makes women dangerous and wicked people.and as a matter of fact women are more heartless than men
the respect can be gone before that
If she cheated there was no respect there
A woman will come home, hug you, tell you how much she missed you, kiss you, and tell you she loves. She'll do all that right after another man was just inside of her.
Pay close attention to her new actions or lack of
There are men who get turned ON by cheating women, then ENCOURAGE their wives or girlfriends to do it again! There is a very popular genre of porn about that kink, cuckoldry.
They always drop clues when there's another man in the picture. Always.
@@Boababa-fn3mryeah like his pimp juice leaking down her leg 😂
@@Boababa-fn3mr yes. It's hard for a woman to keep her normal routine while entertaining someone on the side. Little things will change and you'll have a feeling inside that make you think "🤔." When you get a couple of those moments most like someone else. Or they'll fight with you on small stuff so they can justify in their mind what they're about to do or already have done. That way they won't feel bad or have to deal with the feeling of shame. Cut bait, don't ask questions, get loud, be disrespectful, walk away......quietly. it'll stay in her mind forever. Especially when she gets used up and dumped
Man how did you know my wife? You described her perfectly.
It’s funny how there’s next to no females in the comment section. Accountability really is kryptonite to women..
I am female and left different comments here replying to other comments.
How can you know if a profile is a woman or not?😅
@delaslight my comment still stands correct..”there’s next to no females in the comment section”. You don’t have to be Sherlock Holmes to figure out which profile belongs to a female. Generally the comments that are most combative to what men are saying. It ain’t rocket science..
"Accountability is kryptonite to women". Agreed
@@delaslight Female posters usually 1) blame shift. 2) play the victim. 3) lack accountability. EVERY SINGLE TIME.
Facts 👍
My ex cheated and I forgave. I could never see her the same and couldn't even be intimate with her. Two weeks after taking her back she said, " I should leave you." At that moment I got full clarity. She had lost all respect for me and was flexing her control. I was lost and alone. I internalized everything. I left the relationship that day and never looked back. Men once she cheats it's over. Never take them back. It's very difficult but your dignity and self-respect mean more.
I feel you bro, like to the bone here. The already Spoiled Bitch since childhood(my ex-gf) just came back only to clean her slate, gain control and change people's(neighbors) perception I guess after all. I wish someone told or showed or mentored me on this one like 10-15yrs ago(since 13Sept2008), then I guess everything would be totally different now. Yeah!!! She's married now(good for her) to some gold digger guy who lives with her now at her place(a friend of her close cousins, brats like her), the sad part, she's my neighbor man. So, I m reminded of her cruelity like everyday I wake up in the morning, the moment I lay my eyes on her house and her daddy's looking at me with penetrating eyes(well not all the time, the last part there, as he(her father) hides behind a half opened curtain most of the time doing/helping his special son's with his office accounting work I guess, hahaha, the fucking old sly greedy banker bum). Finally, I M FREE OF THE EVIL(ex-gf and all that shit that baggage she shoved on me, since the very first days I guess) NOW, GUESS THATS WHY HE(her father and all his friends and relatives) HATES ME STILL, THE bloody OLD BANKER-LAWYER political BUM THIEF, a murderer too???). Especially maybe, after me winning his/their frivolous legal case, one which they had designed/crafted very well all along and slapped on me like a few years ago(17June2017). 😊 Anyways, Peace my Brother, the World is calling us TODAY AGAIN, whatever age we maybe at now. NO MORE WALKING ON EGG SHELLS, EVER AGAIN. AMEN.
Dated TODAY: 14/July/2024, 11:35PM.
Location: Planet Earth. 😊❤
Suga Free said, "No woman wants a man she can have total control over and talk to any kind of way."
My question to you sir is, "why you bullshitn?"
How do you define "cheating"?
Absolutely word for word my situation. They lose respect for you and you're being the bigger person here! It makes you question everything... from women in general, who to trust, what to commit to... there's too much to come back from. Men are very straight down the line but women seem to have this weaving it in down pat, and being OK with it! They move on easily. Still with her years later in marriage but should have definitely left.
I’m going through a 19 year situation exactly like yours but we still haven’t gotten back together… Even though I still love her, I hope if the opportunity ever comes around, I’m strong enough to not take her cheating ass back…
If she cheats on you, Walk Away, Walk Away. You can Never Ever Trust Here Again. Single Life Happy Life 🎯
100%
Dont marry a shiny gold digger in the first place. Marry a good women. Good women are not shiny. Thats why men usually dont notice them.
@@CityBoy5705 absolutely true
Yes it’s better
Men don't forgive cheaters. We tolerate for different reasons but, but won't ever trust again
But staying around just gives her the green light to cheat again and again. And she will do so because she no longer respects or wants to sleep with the guy she cheated on. Forgiveness pretty much makes you one step closer to being a cuckold, IMO
You dont trust the cheater.
Women get disgusted by the cheater.
Huge difference.
Although many women stay with the person they are disgusted with for money or other similar issues and will hate him every single day.
"Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner."- Neil McCauley (Heat)
Gangster asf
I literally just watched that movie the other day.
Almost 30 years later and I still haven't forgiven that mofo Waingro ...
Well you know for me? The action is the juice, I’m in
Don’t attach to the external.
An old man once taught me that divorce is so expensive because it’s worth it. Keep your old friends.
Men pay one way or the other. Best to negotiate a contract. Prenup, paid escort, barter sex for service i.e. auto repair, kitchen remodel, or whatever. Get business minded fellas and get what you want & give her what she wants - WIN/WIN!
If she is cheater dump her because she doesnt respect him anymore. Period
It means she doesnt love him. Huge difference between love and respect.
@@delaslight if there isn't respect then there is no love
@@omertaez i know that.
The point is if there is respect, it doesnt mean there is love.
Plus, faking respect is much much easier. We see it every day in society.
When it comes to cheating always remember. “If they’ll do it with you, they’ll do it to you”. 💯 of the time. End of story.
Absolutely...
How you get them/ find them,
Is how you lose them
Just do not take them seriously because they do not even take themselves seriously. There is not a p__sy on the planet worth stressing over.
Men should forgive, but keep their boundaries. If she cheat, give her the gift of missing you forever for the rest of her life. It's the only right move to do. Keep her then she will lose respect for you, be mad at her then she will lose respect for you. Send her away with love, that's all a man could do, there is no turning back once a woman choose to cheat.
@LocPham-kw5ut I agree why is it ok for a man to cheat but a women can't men don't like a taste of their own medicine cheating is wrong regardless of gender
@@LocPham-kw5ut love this message, not forgetting this one 💯
It's over if she cheats. That's all there is to it.
Stop. When a woman has relations with another man, there is an emotional feeling and connection she likely has. For her to open herself up to another man and let him dip in waters is a huge issue because it’s difficult for women to move to the next at the flip of a dime. Men are more so able to have relations with little to no emotional attachment. I’m not absolving men or women from cheating. But to say what you said means you have very little understanding to our wiring as different sexes. There are DISTINCT differences between men and women.
@@charlie_remi I think traditional, religiously and morally it's only right for a man to marry a woman or women and not the order way round.
Men must be men and women must be in their place and space
If a woman cheats, the man needs to walk, leave her, leave the kids, scorched earth, give no support. Cheating is the ultimate disrespect and betrayal to a man, and if she cheated those kids might not even be yours.
One thing that massively changed my understanding of women ( reduced my trust of them ) is as a certified massage therapist the amount of women, very often physically attractive, working in a range of professions like airline pilots and airline stewardesses, attorneys, nurses, stay at home wives, etc, who indirectly and directly express sexual openness & interest during their massage sessions. Even when I worked at high end spas, clinics. So many would subtly or overtly remove their draping, move sexually invitingly, grab me, etc... Even when they have a boyfriend or are married. Unfortunately many women also get vindictive and threaten or make false accusations against honest men if men decline womens desires, or are open to them, to attempt to hide and avoid their equality of responsibility and accountability for their feelings, attitudes, behaviors and effects of such.
so did any get hostile with you if you rejected their advances?
@@lexzenis2544 yes.
Yes the old 360 always at play ..Knight takes Queen...Queen takes pawn
I think the reality is initial physical attraction fades over time. Unless there is an emotional connection to begin with, speaking for myself only, once the physical attraction goes away, it is very difficult to stay loyal. I think it is the same with women. I used to think we, as men, are more likely to cheat but my personal experience has been that women are more likely to cheat while in a relationship because she gets so many more temptations and offers from other men.
Agreed... We don't realize that women has evolved especially in the past 30 years... They’re a different breed & I'm not sure whether the available academic literature on the topic still covers the topic accurately.... 🤔 I highly doubt it, though 🤷🏽♂️
I agree with you completely.
If you are expected to be sexually faithful to only one person for the rest of your life and that one person does nothing to stay physically attractive for you - I really can't see how this is fair.
If she brings sex and sexual attractiveness to the table and you bring in money and security.
Does it mean that if she fails at keeping herself physically attractive you can also stop providing for the family?
@@per_growth No, not if you are in the hook by marriage especially if you have kids. You have legal obligations as well as moral obligations. I never married so I don’t have that problem, but I do get attached emotionally to a woman I’ve been involved with, many times to my detriment. I have a really difficult time detaching myself from a relationship that has gone sour because of guilt and sorrow over what could have been. Honestly, I don’t mind spending my money on a woman I’m attracted to because I enjoy beautiful women’s companionship more than anything really so that doesn’t bother me. I’ve never understood how some of these men can have one affair after another without feeling any remorse or guilt over the ending because for me when an love affair ends, it takes few years for me to recover. I never cared for body counts because it’s the quality of pleasure that matters to me, not how many.
To everyone in this comment section, no the academic research says other wise to women evolving. They clearly show they haven't changed at all in the last 30 years.
They haven't changed but for the factors of being lazier and more sly. It shows that they don't regret the action of cheating but the act of being caught cheating.
@@godleveleldritchblast5257 Hahaha. I think you are right based on my recent experience.
This is why I’m cool with being single forever. Solitude is bliss 💫
I would never be in an other relationship.Never!!!
It isn’t but I guess we can pretend until we die. It’s all temporary like Stephen Hawking says.
This is the most honest ive ever heard a woman be..
Cheating is pure disrespect and there is no coming back plain and simple.
her mom told me she was not ready we married she cheated then married him and cheated on him. l loved her just respect yourself and let Karma take over and find the good woman a unicorn in todays world many blessings
There are so many levels to this. As a divorced man of a disastrous marriage involving a woman with a secret secondary life. The protective steps a man needs to take these days before saying “I do” needs to be an open topic. And let’s be honest , not all men are loyal either so the subject matter should be shared universally. Thanks to technology, social interaction with others outside the relationship is easier than ever and we all need to protect ourselves
Just don't say I do.
Find a God fearing woman. That’s the answer.
AMEN! THE Church ladies are old school loyal.
Church women are just as bad. The rate of cheating and divorce is exactly the same when a woman is a Christian.
They cheat too.
They cheat with the pastor
@@7thlion1😂
A woman may feel regret for cheating, but she will never change her habits. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Before you enter into relationship with a woman, you have to observe her for many months to see what kind she is.
This is WHY I (almost) find it "amusing..." that these over 30- 35 women (especially those with a child or more, by other men!) think ANY MAN (vs. man- boy) is going to "trust her," and why I always "left first..." after giving her (them) enough rope, to "hang with." (i.e. No rings... and no 'spoils,' for the undeserving...) And once a hypergamous "monkey brancher," they can never again, be "trusted." (Nor properly: pair- bonded...) "No fault" divorce, is a CRIME. It benefits the Temple BAR and practically noone else! (Certainly not men, nor the children!!)
I've actually heard this before from relationship therapists. They will feel bad but would do it again, based on a survey.
There are billions of people on the planet, no sense trying to make a relationship work with someone who has already established they are not trust worthy. If you have kids it even more reason to show them there is a time to walk away.
The choice of being single is also a wonderful option. Being single is better than being with someone who has zero respect for you
I've seen first hand how a damaged famiily has affected the child. It is not a pretty sight - and I fear that won't get fixed anytime soon.
Having kids is the same as having a 20 year sentence. If they become adults and can go about on their own - that's the only time I would freely leave.
Other than that - I'm dad and I'm here for you no matter what.
@@per_growth Doesn’t work that way. You cause the children more harm by staying. It teaches them that it is acceptable to live in a toxic environment, they will mirror these relationships in their future.
IF HEART IS NOT ENGAGED , NO ONE IS LOYAL :)
I can’t even begin to think about forgiving a cheater until we have been split and I am over her completely. Only then can I dig deep inside and truly let it go. As long as we remain together I just have disgust and absolute hate for her. I will never love her again even after I’m over her and forgiven her.
This woman is extremely intelligent.
I'd be careful with the idea that Men forgive more times than not. A Man with options is more likely to dump you and move on than deal with disrespect. If he doesn't have options, or confidence, that's probably why you cheated or thought you could cheat in the first place.
But then the question becomes, why did you pick him in he first place if he wasn't your best option? Which leads to another point which is that many times, Women miscalculate or don't know what level of Man they can actually retain long term.
You can get plenty of Men to sleep with you, even good looking or rich Men, but that doesn't mean that those Men are good for you, or will commit to you.
More discernment and self awareness (introspection) needs to be developed in some Women. If you aren't sure (and sometimes you aren't) ask a Male Relative or Friend to help you evaluate the Man you're interested in. Don't let your pride or your passion keep you from seeking trusted Male advice.
And if you don't have any Man that you trust, you should then ask why that is. Is there something you could be doing differently to change that? Because you need to.
Great video.
All i heard was man's life ain't easy but we keep rolling.
Nobody cares about that though. We're just expected to keep rolling with no regard for the build up over the years. This is the problem in society nowadays, men have no outlets for their traumas. This is often self-imposed though. Men, if your friend had some sort of issue, would you let him vent and get it out so you could talk it through? 99% of men would say yes they would, but they wouldn't open up to their friends who are most likely in that 99%. But that's the expectation, shut up and keep moving. No wonder the MGTOW movement got so popular, loneliness is easier to deal with than bottled up traumas.
@@compostdave true.
Forgive her for cheating and work out where your responsibility lies, be it choosing the wrong woman or acting weak but don't stay in a relationship with her, your asking for trouble if you do.
I've never cheated even though I've had opportunities, it''s a behavioral thing, if they cheat, they're gonna do it again, if people wanna be with someone else, just break up with the person you f'ing weasels.
If a woman cheated on me, zero chance we're getting back together.
Transactional loyalty is not loyalty.
This is the ultimate level of disrespect some men may be able to forgive others are more primal and just will not accept the disrespect!!! Women who choose to do this better know which of these men they are married to.
There was no hesitation from me, I walked away from a 10 relationship after I found out she cheated. Women will always try and find better, if you’re missing 1 of their desired traits they will cheat on you with a man that has that trait. It’s impossible to meet their ridiculous standards, just walk away from them legends! Be comfortable being single 💪
Why men self delete. Suffering in absolute silence and pain.
All women do not cheat I'm 47 years old and I have never cheated on anyone in my whole entire life.Its easier to just walk away than to become anything less than who you are.
you are a rare find then
@@lexzenis2544 Thank you.Yes I am.
@@lexzenis2544 The opportunity to walk away is always easier than the alternatives.
You mean to say; "Not all women cheat", followed by; "Only some are faithful."
@@briancanbefound No those are your words I stated mine the way I said it.But you're still on the same page.👍💯
I don't care how wonderful she is,..... she cheats... she's GONE.
Women live in such a state of emotional delusion it never ceases to amaze me.
Here is my motto for all men to live and stand by:
No fear
No fucks given
No emotional attachments to any outcome.
Women never consider it cheating when they do it -
True because it's an emotion need that is met and that's not 'cheating' technically in their minds somehow
any man that has forgiven a cheating woman (idc if its just emotional cheating).... is not a man. He is a little naive boy with insecurities who doesn't have experience with woman nor a mentality of abundance.
it’s not that a man necesarrily forgives his partner’s indifelity because he wants to, it’s becuase he knows damn well how much the judicial system is weighted against him and he literally cannot afford the implications of the financial loss, nevermind the emotional cost, of seperation. women take this for granted; men literally cannot afford to.
At some point we will have to accept that one true love, marriage and monogamy are not real things for the human species. Male or female.
Sadia is great! Between her and Jordan Peterson, one can learn quickly the tools for a better life. Both are wicked smart, think fast, and communicate effectively.
"if you don't stay on top of your looks, your partner will lose interest in you". 100% spot on.
Letting go of yourself, gaining 20lbs because you lack discipline to look good will make you less physically attractive. Period.
You will be less attractive to your partner just like you will be less attractive to anyone else.
It doesn't mean he won't love you - but why would you assume that your partner SHOULD FIND YOU PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE when you're really NO LONGER physically attractive?
I agree. Also if a man provides a lifestyle that he can’t maintain- that makes him less attractive as well.
@@tiacann2571 agree 100%.
Nah - fat married women get hit on daily by others - maybe not their husband - so they cheat and blame it on their husband's lack of attention- because losers will fuk anything and validate a fat women so she never has to change. Husband loses because he has a fat wife and he loses because she's a cheater.
The irony is that even if she puts on 20lbs she will still be able to find some Chad who will bang her just because she lets him. I suspect for guys who are 20lbs overweight it is the exact opposite.
@per_growth i totally agree, just she is allowed to get fat and lazy.
Sadia speaks the absolute truth here... so insightful, especially about forgiveness. I typed up a response below from my own experience, BEFORE hearing anything fro, 6:00 and the words I heard were music to my ears.
Thanks Sadia, I resonated with this 100%. Its Harsh and unfortunate but it doesn't make it any less true. What that forgiveness will cost you as a man in the long term just isn't sustainable. she can't love you, if she doesn't respect and desire you.
Respect and desire can only survive where there is a fear of consequence and loss. The later two fade extremely quickly when she still attains your forgiveness in spite of her disrespect and its worsens when she sees us disrespecting ourselves by sacrificing our boundaries just to keep her.
Our forgiveness can mask our pain and disagreement and end up conveying that the magnitude of the offence was minor. which as you said, makes them forget the betrayal and just repeat the offence because they now deem it trivial.
It wasn't reversible at this point. It simply drives them to pursue that connection and safety with the other person. I know it hurts guys but that shouldn't be a cost we are willing to pay. Goodluck guys better and more genuine will find you again.
This lady speaks the real truth
Great stuff!!!
How to have them loyal forever:
1. Have a great sexual chemistry (satisfy her multiple times, everyday)
2. have respect for yourself and don’t let her, nor anybody else, step on you. She will respect you too.
3. Stay in shape and don’t become lazy, especially after marriage.
4. Always try to improve as a person, husband and father.
5. Always try to be more competent and make more money.
6. Choose a wife material girl, even if she’s not a top model, even if she’s not perfect (nor you are). She will be the best wife for you, and the best mother you can give to your kids.
Good luck
You forgot the MOST important requirement. Choose the woman who has a deep, burning desire to just be in your company, the woman who likes you MORE THAN YOU LIKE HER!
@@anthonywatson8050Be careful with that. Women don’t desire men like men do women. It’s just lust and limerence. Liking someone vs Desiring someone are worlds apart.
7. Grow together. Respect each others individuality and your/her journey in life. Support this and enjoy it.
You can have all these things and she will still cheat … lmaoo good luck
Sadia you are always on point. It actually hard to listen to these videos because there always true
So in short as long as no one gets sick first or has a misfortunate setback they're okay. The first one that does will be deemed unappealing
This woman is only here to help women have failed relationships
They are SO qualified for talking about not letting yourself go, when they both look so imaculate
Good job Sadia. I really b hearing ya
Very intelligent conversation here
This woman is Highly intelligent on this subject. She speaks fact.
Financial cheating is just as detrimental. I tried to forgive, then I was the bad guy somehow. Much happier and just as poor without her. Leave gents, leave.
What a feminist approach. If a woman cheats, she doesnt go back, but man does. Huh. As a man, if I start thinking to cheat on my girl friend or my wife, it means something is wrong with the relationship/marriege. Then I speak to her, if I am sure the problem will not be solved I inform her and I leave. I don't cheat. Cheating is for loosers. Cheating is fooling yourself. If a person, whether man or woman cheats, then it is all about their lack of personality and character. It DOES NOT ABOUT GENDER. Do not try to show that women are higher version of human kind. And Relationship/marriage is a commitment and has to be managed equally by each side.
Indeed... And if a woman is (or becomes) "a feminist," then she clearly isn't: "LTR material." (Perhaps the ultimate "enslavement and depop, etc." Agenda 2100 part of the PLAN?!) Talk about "delusionally denialist, cognitive dissonance!" (PTB: "I know! We'll market it... as: FEMALE, empowerment?" Bravo! The tax and debt- enslaved 'sheeple...' are so dumbed- down, and GULLIBLE!!")
So true, most of the time, when there has been betrail, returning and working on the relationship is impossible as she wants to be treated like a queen and he feels like a begging little boy, best to just walk away.
100% of the opposite happened in my case. Didn't let myself go & 18 yrs down the drain because betrayal is unacceptable.
Suffered the same fate
The ladies to smart and aware.
You know, it would seem easier to clean off a hotdog that someone spit on than to clean off a pizza/burger that someone spit in. Both are nasty, but one just seems dirtier than the other. Just saying...
😂
No one cheats you.
You cheat yourself by not being able to accept the truth of who you have chosen next to you.
You need to do better. Every day. For the rest of your life.
Then, you’ll never be cheated. You will be respected because you respect yourself.
Enjoy
I don't agree with the fact that men forgive women more. In the past, men made fun of it, and in recent times, women made fun of it shamelessly as well. That doesn't mean that men forgive more. men do not forgive cheating. they leave or go have a happy home elsewhere. any man who forgives cheating has been doing it without remorse and is okay with it. Have a look at Will and Jada. Will only found out he made a mistake by allowing an open marriage because he wasn't always around or his wife cheated, and he wanted to cover it up with an open marriage. Men can't live with the imagination of his wife submitting to another man. If you say men forgive, then for how long will they live with it. That's the question. Men who forgive and live with it longer are the ones who their wives provide for them rather than the other way round. No man, who is the provider, forgives cheating. Please go and do your research and get back to me at the @sadia Khan podcast.
I wouldn’t say men “forgive” more, but they most likely stay and tolerate it until the can’t any longer. Men have way more to lose, especially if they are married. If he cheats or she cheats - it’s still no fault divorce. It’s the same reason why men cheat and go back home. It’s where their money is - it’s an anchor.
It's mathematical: the bottom 50% of men would struggle to attract any woman, maybe buy their way in with gifts in an extended sense, including paying bills for her&her kids, OF "donations" etc.
The bottom 50% of women have more actual sexual opportunity than 50% of bottom men, and way more perceived opportunity and value. Hence abundance - actual and perceived.
Never forgive. Truth gives women a lot more control. You walk away and leave that day.
This is sooo true
Relationships are built on trust and once it's violated there is no going back, because whichever one gives in will be owned by the other forever.
Heard, she's a single mum, rich family, rumours? Either way advice is always beneficial
My advice for all man if she cheats, use dark psychology, but before going into relationship be sure that she is Suitable girl
If they cheat they cheat you will never change a person that way, making someone happy to not cheat is an impossible task you can not possibly hold someone accountable for someone else’s happiness. If you aren’t pleasing your woman more times than not that’s her not letting you do it most times not all the time, cheaters cheat because they want to do that some cheat for sexual gratification others cheat because they think they’ve found better than their current partner either one is absolutely unforgivable and disgusting. If you are with a cheater she or will will cheat period,,, you won’t stop them, it’s better for you to set boundaries and live by them
Lol iktr marc can't turn no how into a housewife 💯💯😭
She is on point
Sometimes in marriage I think the key is being happy about being unhappy.
If a woman cheats it is NOT the man's fault or the other way around. If you're involved with a cheater you my friend are simply involved with a person with no moral values, period. Drop her like a hot potato and move on with your life.
If she cheats, drop her. It is so much easier for men to be alone and I would rather be alone then have no self respect. Once that union is comprised, there is nothing left.
sadia reinforces the reasons i choose to stay single
As a man you must be ready for any thing, women change over time ....
No it's tough there's a difference
If she's always accusing you of cheating, trust me, she's cheating
How to have her loyal…. Listen to her needs. If she keeps telling you what she needs it’s not nagging, she keeps repeating because you’re not giving her what she needs!!
Yes, I understand men want desire! So do women!!
When a man desires another woman in public, online etc.. women lose desire after they see how easily another woman can distract a man from their “ loyalty”
Stop the porn!! It’s killing relationships.
I don’t like porn but him turning to porn is a sure sign that she isn’t fulfilling him, or something is missing in their relationship so this works both ways. She isn’t giving him what he needs.
Modern women have people telling the, they look cute every time they post a photo so over time that tends to go to a woman’s head. That explains why 80% of US divorces are initiated by women. Sadly evidence is that many regret it when they find that the grass isn’t greener and social media Likes and comments do not translate into a replacement relationship.
I've learned to never listen to what a woman says, watch what she does. Women nag as a shit test and they wind up losing respect for a man that doesn't put her in check when she tries to nag.
Women also like to test boundaries (like chatting up other dudes in front of her man) and will also lose respect if not put in check.
Basically, women are constantly testing to see what they can get away with (like a child) and seem to stay with the men that put up with less, not more bad behavior.
This has been my experience time and time again.
The so- called "British Invasion" (i.e. of loose Sex, Drugs and Rock n Roll 'pre- programming') Femi- schism, abortion, contraception, and porn!
Yes.
"most betrayal involves an unmet need" - let that sink in
An unmet need that is usually based on a delusion. And when the reality of the consequences of that delusion hit home, they usually can't take it. And spend the rest of their lifetime in regret.
Never fully emotionally commit. Don't worry about wether she's cheating or going to cheat. She is. They cannot help it it's the way their wired
I found out my Ex cheated and although I took her back for some time I couldn´t really forgive and trust her again and started cheating with several women myself. Made me feel bad about my relationship and myself because I wasn´t acting true to my belief sets and the whole thing was just a big mess with lots of feelings being hurt. Just end if ffs. If someone cheats the relationship is over - healthiest for everyone.
Long-term is hard everybody doesn't age the same you got to have good genetics
As a man I can tell you that if you forgive anyone for cheating you're a fool. Walk away immediately and never look back.
A relationship only works when one is willing to give more than himself to the other when both are invested in this way emotionally they put the other before themself it will be working as stated by sadhguru
It isn’t anyone’s responsibility for you to be a decent person other than your own. It’s not your daddy’s, lovers, mothers, friends or environments responsibilities to make sure you are loyal and faithful to the good things in your life, or for you to appreciate what you have rather than long for what you have not infinitely until death.
Yeah im done with relationships
That beautiful woman knows exactly what she's talking about!
To a man his woman maintaining her physical attraction is paramount above everything. If we don’t want to sleep with you then we don’t want you. It’s that simple. Why do people think getting married is a get out of shape free card?? It’s ridiculous and destroys nearly every marriage imo.
How can a woman who has not grown old with a partner tell you about how to keep it interesting with a partner? Theory and reality are two complete separate things. No matter the conviction someone speaks with, it does not mean it is the truth. JaH bless
If there is cheating then both parties need to leave each other.
Natural women is the best also with out make up.
My wife stepped out. And when she stepped out, it just opened up the door for me to do what I wanted to do. There were no more chains on me. Stay together for the kids, but get out there and spread your seed
Ladies, if your husband cheats on you, divorce him immediately. The trauma and damage he causes is devastating. Many women commit suicide as a result of their husband cheating. Men do not see their own cheating as being horrible. But it always is to a woman. Cheating is extremely traumatic.
How do you know they killed themseleves cuz their husband cheated? You asked them?
There no more real love it all about the money. NO MONEY,, NO HONEY❤
That's really not true at all. If a woman is in a relationship with you just for money, she is nothing more that a prostitute. And that makes the man a trick at best .
Dam this was a home run
Good discussions here and very true. Toxic feminist would want to make you believe otherwise
Before u put a ring on it...make sure she got your back..and your future plans ?
Women need to stay beautiful for their men in order for the man to be attracted for a long period of time and the man needs to be masculine and independent. He needs a life outside of his relationship so that the woman wonders what he is up to. She needs to know other women desire him so staying in shape is great for that.
Women form and maintain attachment to men through time apart and men from attachment through time together. It’s a game and it never ends.
As a man Always be ready to let go