How to get a loving relationship

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  • @sadiapsychology
    @sadiapsychology  Před 4 měsíci +23

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    • @visiop1
      @visiop1 Před 4 měsíci

      ‌John 3:16 Modern English Version (MEV)

      ‌16 “For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish, but have eternal life.

      ‌John 14:6New International Version (NIV)

      ‌6 Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.
      Acts 16:31 New International Version (NIV)
      31 They replied, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved-you and your household.”
      ‌ John 3:36
      New international version
      36 Whoever believes in the Son has eternal life,(A) but whoever rejects the Son will not see life, for God’s wrath remains on them.
      ‌John 20:28King James Version (KJV)
      28 And Thomas answered and said unto him, My Lord and my God.
      Acts 4:12 New International Version (NIV)
      12 Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved.”
      1 John 2:22King James Version (KJV)
      22 Who is a liar but he that denieth that Jesus is the Christ? He is antichrist, that denieth the Father and the Son.
      2 John 7 New International Version (NIV)
      7 I say this because many deceivers, who do not acknowledge Jesus Christ as coming in the flesh, have gone out into the world. Any such person is the deceiver and the antichrist.

    • @user-uj6cw7ex1t
      @user-uj6cw7ex1t Před 4 měsíci +2

      i'm que no tiene nada que hacer para ser más fácil y que no 😢 1:41 3:01 3:03

    • @wonglokhey
      @wonglokhey Před 3 měsíci

      0:28 0:28

  • @daktraveler56
    @daktraveler56 Před 5 měsíci +501

    Any man or woman who has a truly loving relationship is blessed indeed.

    • @Vener349
      @Vener349 Před 4 měsíci +7

      That’s me 😊 so grateful

    • @daktraveler56
      @daktraveler56 Před 4 měsíci +2

      @@Vener349 well, amen baby ! Don't lose it !

    • @justnow4846
      @justnow4846 Před 4 měsíci +8

      No. “Having a loving relationship” doesn’t determine whether you are ‘blessed’ or not. We are all already whole on our own and have deep love within us.

    • @daktraveler56
      @daktraveler56 Před 4 měsíci

      @@justnow4846 I'm not gonna argue with that. Preach ! 😉

    • @angelynbenjamin7727
      @angelynbenjamin7727 Před 4 měsíci +1

      I jus cheated ma man and I feel very bad 😢

  • @demetrianicole1657
    @demetrianicole1657 Před měsícem +14

    “They fall in love with the feeling of being desired. That’s why they fall prey to gold diggers bc they know what they are doing.” This made me even think of dancers who tell men what they want to hear and get the man to keep pulling out more money. I remember my ex (going through mid-life crisis) said he wanted to know if he still had it. It’s important we communicate our needs.

  • @tereziavarga3315
    @tereziavarga3315 Před 5 měsíci +223

    It’s not rocket science
    Love and respect yourself and your body
    If you respect yourself you won’t let anyone treat you badly
    Respect your body
    Look after it
    Don’t let just anyone use it, if you don’t value it nobody else will.
    Be kind to yourself and others who respect and care for you, and don’t waste your time with people that don’t.

  • @TheAttractionTriggers
    @TheAttractionTriggers Před 4 měsíci +63

    *It is not our purpose to become each other; it is to recognize each other, to learn to see the other and honor him for what he is.*

  • @Rudelherz
    @Rudelherz Před 4 měsíci +31

    I could never cheat on my husband. He puts me first in every decision and contains my heart and soul as his most precious treasure. There is also just no other man reaching up to him. But I am starting to realize how unfair and hard it is for men in general in this society. Because of a few narcissists, they are put down, misjudged, and outcast easier than women, not being better or even worse! Very interesting talk. Lovely women those two. Could listen for hours. Thank you❤

    • @xan8185
      @xan8185 Před 3 měsíci

      This is probably the first comment I have seen ever that really sympathizes for men. I have a wonderful step father. A very loving and giving brother. A dedicated, hard working, protective husband. A son that I love with all my being. The way I see women complain and bash men honest just bothers me so much. Even videos that are meant to help women with men by getting us to understand them, you just see they go and complain and their comments are almost always “whataboutism”. Many of these videos helped me understand the psychology of men and it’s helped me tremendously. I also see that in acknowledging the needs of my husband as a man and improving myself, he too has been so much better to me. We need to help each other bring out the best versions of ourselves but it just seems like the trend is to shit on men when they can.

  • @ned1621
    @ned1621 Před 5 měsíci +59

    Sadia is extremely gifted on this stuff. But personally as a man if a woman cheated on me No 1 I'd be gutted. 2 The humiliation and betrayal would be depressing. 3 I could not look at that woman the same way again as in my feelings for her I just couldn't. 4 I could forgive maybe eventually but it just could not ever be the same again, because that thought will always be there 'She went off with another fella'.... It is what it is there's no other way around it... So man or woman think before you do something stupid...

    • @jarkachalmovianska7812
      @jarkachalmovianska7812 Před 5 měsíci +3

      There is always 2 to tango...

    • @pawel3241
      @pawel3241 Před 5 měsíci +5

      This happened to me after 7 years of being together. Why not communicate or end it? Why actually do it behind my back? Can't control other people. But the damage done is huge. It's like seeing the person as a stranger than a person you used to love.

    • @jocelyncao9233
      @jocelyncao9233 Před 5 měsíci

      ​​@@pawel3241believe or not, She tried to communicate with you, but you wont listern. Or when she tried to communicate, you were dismissive. How do i know? I dated a guy a few years ago, he had the same story as yours. I found he was extremely difficult to communicate. Luckily, i was one that brave enough to end things. His ex took his money and went off with another guy after being together for 7 years.

    • @Apfelkaninchen
      @Apfelkaninchen Před 3 měsíci +6

      I totally agree and I feel the same way as a woman. the humiliation, the betrayal, the lies. and every memory you had change after the partner cheating. but I would say it can be because some was not loving enough but even if you are loving. it doesn't stop people from cheating or guarantee they won't. you can get cheated on even if you were the most loving and appreciating partner in the world. so, I don't agree that it needs two to tango. sometimes it is just the cheater being a cheater. there is no reason to blame a perfectly loving partner for the other one cheating.

    • @AR-zn1uy
      @AR-zn1uy Před 3 měsíci +1

      100 percent. Me ex was seeing a sugar daddy on the side. I dumped her she begged on her knees. I cut her out for good. I'm territorial and loyal, enjoy having no kids n being alone when he replaces u.

  • @SG-xb7de
    @SG-xb7de Před 5 měsíci +40

    13:48 If you don't have the ability to walk away & the relationship breaks, you leave confused if you didn't give enough or were incompatible. This just opened up my brain!

  • @nameless3616
    @nameless3616 Před 3 měsíci +14

    Holy.. This lady actually cares about us men. Not only that, she does know what she is talking about.

  • @LeoIsaac-hn1yp
    @LeoIsaac-hn1yp Před 4 měsíci +52

    We need to accept no one is perfect...when we accept that life gets alot easier....

    • @jerryc5743
      @jerryc5743 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Men can do that. Women today cannot.

    • @Yay-hovah
      @Yay-hovah Před 2 měsíci +2

      Exactly, men do not expect perfection and we usually have realistic expectations. It’s women that have astronomical and unrealistic expectations.

    • @alenaadamkova7617
      @alenaadamkova7617 Před 27 dny

      So it means also the men contributed to parenting wrong too.... or both parents, wrongly parenting the daughter so their son in law has no chance.
      based on the comments..
      Why all my femnale and male cousins have happy marriages, because the fathers did good job, raising them the values...so its not just women but fathers who have think twice when implementing values into new generation.. :)

  • @drleo6409
    @drleo6409 Před 4 měsíci +17

    Very very true if a woman complains, ignores and shows no interest in being with you then someone else shows attention and concern for you sincere or not, it will look very appealing.
    So a wife can provide that.

  • @mattgraves3709
    @mattgraves3709 Před 4 měsíci +35

    Right off the bat you nailed it, we too need to feel loved and appreciated

  • @karisphone3729
    @karisphone3729 Před 5 měsíci +43

    Sadia should be the only person allowed to write relationship books. I can’t tell you how much it would have changed my life had I heard her earlier.

    • @Paeoniarosa
      @Paeoniarosa Před 4 měsíci +3

      Esther Perel is also excellent.

    • @Foxie770
      @Foxie770 Před 3 měsíci +2

      Same!! I love her. We need more public figures and teachers like her.

    • @Yay-hovah
      @Yay-hovah Před 2 měsíci +1

      Yeah, but she misses the mark on some very important things about men. At the end of the day, she is not a man so her understanding will be limited.

    • @anthonymagee5725
      @anthonymagee5725 Před 15 dny

      @@Yay-hovahI don’t care about how she’s limited on the ideal of men, I just care about how she’s educating me on women.

  • @ricardasgerulis1090
    @ricardasgerulis1090 Před 4 měsíci +38

    Cheating is unforgivable, end of story, you can't forgive someone who's share the body with someone else, no mater what is the circumstances.

    • @kabelontjana2577
      @kabelontjana2577 Před 4 měsíci +2

      I have three children with different mothers all because of being unable to forgive.

    • @Yay-hovah
      @Yay-hovah Před 2 měsíci +2

      @@kabelontjana2577 I don’t blame you, I would never forgive cheating. I don’t care how many kids we have.

    • @ItsAngieFly
      @ItsAngieFly Před měsícem

      Lies

    • @devenherbert3579
      @devenherbert3579 Před měsícem

      What if the man never slept with the women or the woman he got caught giving his interest to due to his primary girlfriend who was unable to forgive him for his past but kept reinforcing the behavior by bringing up the past so much that it caused him to go into a mental guilt prison,fear and pressure that created an emasculating mental and emotional torture room in his mind for years fear from his shameful and inexcusable way to find temporary remedy through other women expressing their interest in him to increase its value interpersonally
      While she was verbally abusive with sudden outburst.
      But then at times would be loving and delicate.
      But then as she gets her breast surgery she becomes more confident and finds herself value raise enough so she could find the strength to make that decision to separate.
      It seems like the real question is when women get cheated on and they don't separate are they keeping the man as a placeholder and rather trauma Bond until they find confidence in whatever way by whatever means to discard that man.
      It's not right either way but what are your thoughts?.
      I'm not supporting the actions of either side when it comes to offending one another in a relationship.

  • @josepablolunasanchez1283
    @josepablolunasanchez1283 Před 3 měsíci +23

    Sadia. My wife and I would like to show appreciation for the work you do. You are doing a great thing for humanity, even if you do not see it. In life what goes around, comes around. Karma is real. Expect something good, you deserve it.

    • @daniellamoreno3616
      @daniellamoreno3616 Před měsícem +2

      She truly is does amazing work and changing lives…..

    • @josepablolunasanchez1283
      @josepablolunasanchez1283 Před měsícem +2

      @@daniellamoreno3616 The best thing is that she provides constructive advice for people. It is not just about "don't do this" but also "do that". Showing the path to a healthier way of doing things.
      And Sadia has a grasp on reality, she analyzed with a down to Earth approach, and she talks about her findings, but these are not ordinary lose findings, because she connects the dots.

  • @Foxie770
    @Foxie770 Před 3 měsíci +17

    3:19 Attraction is emotional connection and live. It’s not about physical only, or novelty. Both partners need to take care of themselves and stay fit, healthy and put together. But love and emotional intimacy is what creates desire.

    • @godswordevangelism
      @godswordevangelism Před 3 měsíci +1

      That's not quite true. You can have desire for someone you don't love and don't even know on an intimate level! You can have desire for someone you just met or just saw across the room! You do not need an emotional connection or 'LOVE' to have desire.

    • @Yay-hovah
      @Yay-hovah Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@godswordevangelism well Said

  • @bobanristic8721
    @bobanristic8721 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Sadia is #1 in the world. For sure there is no better person for solving and explaining this kind of problems.She answer every question fast ,without any delay.

  • @Sarah-zg2iq
    @Sarah-zg2iq Před 4 měsíci +12

    A big no, because you can also communicate with your partner instead of “analyzing” why someone cheated..no one has the right to cheat. If you are not ready for a true relationship..stay single and don’t mess with someone’s heart.

    • @gabrielakarl3859
      @gabrielakarl3859 Před 3 měsíci

      Cheating is not a "right"...people are faulty and immature and they fuck up....sometimes more than once. It's terrible, but it's what IS and It's up to the other partner what they are willing to work with and/or put up with.

    • @Sarah-zg2iq
      @Sarah-zg2iq Před 3 měsíci

      @@gabrielakarl3859 Yes, people should respect their selves more and be willing to walk away when a situation like this happens. Saying yes to someone who did you dirty means saying no to yourself.

  • @jessicacorrea7221
    @jessicacorrea7221 Před 4 měsíci +6

    I like Sadia because she is an actual psychologist not a woman speaking out of trauma or generational curses passed down to them by narcissistic mothers, or broken dysfunctional environments they were raised up in. I enjoy advice from those who give it in a wholesome way, not in a toxic agressive passive manner. Sex is human nature thats how i see it. But if one has low libido for you get a hormone lab test panel, many medical professionals fail to check testosterone levels starting in our 30's. Testosterone starts to decrease at 30's. Perimenopausel women or endropausel men also suffer from low libido. Get those hormones things in check fast because this leads to insecurity. A woman or man should be healthy psychologically and psychologically, especially spiritually.

  • @Alejandra-by5lf
    @Alejandra-by5lf Před 4 měsíci +5

    I’m 25 and been single for a year now. I’m sorry, but no man has approached me that I feel is worthy enough. In that case I much rather stay single for longer and grow as a person and mentally till the right one comes around.

  • @alphabeta8403
    @alphabeta8403 Před měsícem +4

    2:00 Physical vs intellectual attraction
    3:00 Stay curious about each other
    6:00 Women can’t reverse sexually
    9:40 Public and private info
    12:40 Love and surrender
    14:10 Multicultural dating in Dubai

  • @tkanon
    @tkanon Před 5 měsíci +50

    Men are visual creatures! That’s it… they like to look at beautiful things. Besides taking care of your health (mind, body & spirit) is a sign of self love ❤️

    • @theresakunda4407
      @theresakunda4407 Před 5 měsíci +28

      Women are also visual creatures and most men do not take care of their appearance.

    • @kareem199928
      @kareem199928 Před 5 měsíci +6

      ⁠@@theresakunda4407Women are not to the same extent as men that’s why men can get away with not taking care of their appearance.

    • @ReginaMcNeish
      @ReginaMcNeish Před 5 měsíci

      @@kareem199928that’s false. Women CREATE beauty because THEY LOVE TO BE SURROUNDED BY BEAUTIFUL THINGS. This includes bodies/people. You see the pretty girl is hanging around other pretty girls. WHY is that? So she can tell HER friends, to get with YOUR friends.. so WE can be friends. 💋 This also explains why so many little things catered to women come with glitter and an array of different PRETTY colors.. The industry capitalizes all things visually pretty TO WOMEN….
      Competition is fierce but you can’t compete with a bad body crew full of other girls with bad bodies. You won’t get the kind of man’s attention you want and will have to settle on sloppy looking men. We love beauty… and to look beautiful on the arm of our man not Quasimodo… that’s for a reason. And the girls that’s say “No not all of us.. that’s not true..” go get with those girls cuz THEY will settle but you will be mad though cuz the pretty one is not on your arm… Go ahead and think the pretty ones are superficial. What better way of understanding the fable of the Fox and the sour Grapes…..

    • @hiannahgus574
      @hiannahgus574 Před měsícem +1

      @@kareem199928 I wouldn’t be attracted to a man that didn’t take good care of himself. I do and am attracted to others who also do.

    • @kareem199928
      @kareem199928 Před měsícem +1

      @@hiannahgus574 You can only say that because in 2024 being well groomed has become quite common. You probably wouldn’t care as much if we were in the 1800s.

  • @liamcanning8268
    @liamcanning8268 Před 2 dny

    Just hearing you talk about a Man as a cared about Human being has definitely made my Own life so much more fulfilled 🙏🏻❤️

  • @healthybalance5748
    @healthybalance5748 Před měsícem

    I love Sadia's honesty. Thank you!

  • @KZRaly
    @KZRaly Před 3 měsíci +4

    i really respect this woman, she always supports us

  • @lisab.99
    @lisab.99 Před 4 měsíci +14

    This works both ways. Women wants to feel desired too.

    • @xan8185
      @xan8185 Před 3 měsíci

      You came to improve or shit on men?

    • @Yay-hovah
      @Yay-hovah Před 2 měsíci

      Except it usually women who lose desire for sex first. Especially after marriage or their first child.

  • @indianpavilion
    @indianpavilion Před 5 měsíci +61

    Hey Sadia, I'm 21 and you have helped me a lot when it comes to relationship advice and where to look for the signs.

  • @checka1963
    @checka1963 Před 4 měsíci +4

    This was pretty spot on !❤

  • @jacintaakee9938
    @jacintaakee9938 Před 4 měsíci +4

    I'm glad I found you through TikTok
    I really enjoy how to talk about human behavior 😊❤

    • @byronryan4216
      @byronryan4216 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Jacintaakee I am finding stillness and suspending the chatter of my thoughts, which are seemingly pulling me in all directions . Intuitive senses are trustworthy and can become more adeptly attuned , too . 💆‍♂️

    • @NechamaGluck
      @NechamaGluck Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@byronryan4216Yes, trust your intuition. It is an amazing gift! ❤️

  • @wesley8624ify
    @wesley8624ify Před měsícem +1

    As a man. I was in a relationship where I was cheated on. I was immediately turned off by her, time nor sex could mend the relationship. Loyalty is very high on my list.

  • @LaLaBlahBlahh
    @LaLaBlahBlahh Před 5 měsíci +29

    How I would love to be in a strong, respectful relationship with someone. I feel like I have so much love to give, but the dating world these days is wild! I’ve been single for a year and before that was in a 4 year relationship… dating was soo different even just 4 years ago. I’m trying not to lose hope.

    • @ThegrayareawithYvette
      @ThegrayareawithYvette Před 5 měsíci +6

      I feel you I'm in a similar boat but it's been almost three years for me now. I've learned so much about warning signs I ignored previously it's challenging to find ppl who aren't setting them off now. So many ppl are not actively putting work and effort into themselves let alone others/relationships

    • @slumy8195
      @slumy8195 Před 5 měsíci +5

      because dating now is so overtaken by everybody following whatever teen vogue says or another magazine. When everybody is copy pasting its all going to fail...

    • @oksanakafarova9218
      @oksanakafarova9218 Před 4 měsíci +3

      Same here but it’s almost two years single. And I’m not rushing into anything. It takes time to find a good person

  • @EDA-music
    @EDA-music Před 4 měsíci +7

    I’m sorry, but it's not about how you look or think sometimes. Men often lose attraction to their partners over time due to a lack of curiosity. Even if you are the prettiest or smartest, it may not work in this moment.and its not that easy to keep curiosity while you live with someone already :)

  • @earthairandselfcare
    @earthairandselfcare Před 4 měsíci +2

    Love the topic of surrender & autonomy

  • @mlfitness67
    @mlfitness67 Před 5 měsíci +10

    I don't know the men she knows but must men I know including myself, don't want a woman who's cheated. Once another man has had you, stay with him

    • @godswordevangelism
      @godswordevangelism Před 3 měsíci +2

      I'm a woman and I totally understand that! Once someone else has touched your spouse you no longer want or desire them. Like a mama bird no longer wants her chicks if they've been handled by someone else.

  • @jimarger8533
    @jimarger8533 Před 3 měsíci

    I have found in the many arenas of life, prioritizing what one can put on the table rather than what one wants to take off the table works really well IF both parties are friends and both parties contribute. Otherwise ....

  • @amandoktorcanimkuzumdoktor5193
    @amandoktorcanimkuzumdoktor5193 Před 4 měsíci +6

    Be curious about each other learn something new about each other

  • @Perfection219
    @Perfection219 Před měsícem +1

    Stay curious about each other ❤ and serve each other.

  • @HAK_5
    @HAK_5 Před 5 měsíci +11

    My ex wife stopped desiring me , stopped making me her #1 priority
    Hence she became my ex! I couldn’t continue in the marriage. I pleaded her with two years to have a realization and make some changes and amends but she took it for granted till the day i ended it!

    • @jessicacorrea7221
      @jessicacorrea7221 Před 4 měsíci +2

      I believe it started in her perimenopausel years, I bet. Hormones play so much in emotions. Usually, women start to act differently when their hormones are jacked up, especially 40's omg it's crazy.

    • @Foxie770
      @Foxie770 Před 3 měsíci

      I had an ex husband who did that too. Some people are dense and stubborn. Then at the last minute when it’s over, they suddenly want to make the effort you’ve been asking for!

  • @Summer20032
    @Summer20032 Před 3 měsíci

    Being all that to my partner and he still listens to interest in me after 4 years in our relationship.

  • @Aquawomen22
    @Aquawomen22 Před 4 měsíci

    Goed werk Marleen, super dat je jouw ervaring van je proceswerk kan delen, taboes eraf, nu de maskers nog

  • @user-vu1rp3gx1e
    @user-vu1rp3gx1e Před 3 měsíci

    Great points …love is great guys ..

  • @abdolhamedsharef2924
    @abdolhamedsharef2924 Před 3 měsíci

    Amazing speech and clarity

  • @yusrironi2098
    @yusrironi2098 Před 4 měsíci +1

    MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS AMEN

  • @mahenthiranramalingam7999
    @mahenthiranramalingam7999 Před měsícem +1

    Problem with women nowadays is taking advice from their friends who don’t know anything about real relationships.. it’s best that both couples talk this through together

  • @abdolhamedsharef2924
    @abdolhamedsharef2924 Před 3 měsíci

    Outstanding communication skills

  • @anue84
    @anue84 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Love between lovers is conditional love between a parent and child is unconditional

  • @cristianzamora7108
    @cristianzamora7108 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Body game is always an important factor for attraction. Shout out to Uncle Willis.

  • @StimParavane
    @StimParavane Před 5 měsíci +52

    "Men need more friends" - thanks. We are not women. If your partner is your best friend and they betray you then it's even more trauma.

    • @jarkachalmovianska7812
      @jarkachalmovianska7812 Před 5 měsíci +10

      Thatswhy your partner is your partner and your friends and your friends. One person cannot and should not fullfill all your needs.

    • @StimParavane
      @StimParavane Před 5 měsíci +3

      @@jarkachalmovianska7812 Good point, but as Sadia said, women have more social. support.

    •  Před 5 měsíci

      TRAUMA doesn't have a place in a relationship! Even if he has an another girl or woman, you'd have to pretend nothing happens, you'd have to understand the needs of a polygamous man! Do "never" crucify him, for something he does NOT understand, or not in control of! howdy this is it!

    • @natalieboult3122
      @natalieboult3122 Před 3 měsíci +1

      cause we are open with our feelings, I hope you find a friend you can open up too

    • @Yay-hovah
      @Yay-hovah Před 2 měsíci

      @@natalieboult3122Most men have friends they can talk to about things troubling them, it’s simply that your wife or girlfriend cannot be that person. It’s in a woman’s nature to weaponize damning information so a guy is better off confiding in his best friend (a male).

  • @GodHelpMe369
    @GodHelpMe369 Před 2 měsíci +1

    life hurts
    so much trauma
    so much suffering
    heartache and despair
    rage and grief
    I can no longer bear the darkness

    • @LisaFoster-rl3fv
      @LisaFoster-rl3fv Před 2 měsíci +1

      I feel you 😢
      are you ok?
      I have lots of different trauma too. Relationships are painful.
      Bless you

    • @GodHelpMe369
      @GodHelpMe369 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@LisaFoster-rl3fv I'm not okay. are you? wanna say more?

    • @LisaFoster-rl3fv
      @LisaFoster-rl3fv Před 2 měsíci

      I'm not too bad at the moment. Not been good lately though. Thought about ending my life many times lately. Very dark and lonely. So what's going on with you? If you dont mind me asking ?

    • @GodHelpMe369
      @GodHelpMe369 Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@LisaFoster-rl3fv same. perpetually suicidal. I pray we both heal.

  • @celiaverdinho9835
    @celiaverdinho9835 Před 4 měsíci

    Hello ladies, Amazing interview! 😊

  • @nuramahmoud1002
    @nuramahmoud1002 Před 5 měsíci +6

    I don’t think men are more forgiving with cheating

  • @Gwendolyn96
    @Gwendolyn96 Před 4 měsíci

    thank you sadia,

  • @WhinHam-xh8st
    @WhinHam-xh8st Před 5 měsíci +5

    Thank You Sadia As Salaam Olaykum 🤲

  • @Gtt198
    @Gtt198 Před měsícem

    thanx alot for your advice sister

  • @zafer150211
    @zafer150211 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Good questions important lessons

  • @Gowalkabout
    @Gowalkabout Před 5 měsíci +3

    Ma’m, you are so good at your craft.

  • @kimhongyay7848
    @kimhongyay7848 Před měsícem +1

    I'm just freshly separated and we were together for 13 years I have always wanted and desired my partner even after 2 children, we love each other etc. Then one day she told me I don't love you any more, blame me for things that I did to her 10 years ago with exes, but then at the same time tells me I'm a great dad, but we cant be with each other any more.

    • @Jtradesz
      @Jtradesz Před měsícem +1

      Yea seems like 6 months or 16 years. Whatever you did she didn’t “like” at the beginning is going to be brought up for whatever true reason she doesn’t want you anymore. I’m recently going through the same and it seems like everything is transactional in todays world

  • @Lisa-ck5bm
    @Lisa-ck5bm Před 4 měsíci +18

    Given stats showing that marital therapists and psychologists have equally or higher rates of divorce, I’d like to also see more successfully married psychologists and therapists sharing advice and insights

    • @wayneONvolarte
      @wayneONvolarte Před 4 měsíci

      I like your comment Sometimes I don't think it's possible, But I believe Some teach can make it possible for some. And to agree with you believe me, I'm no expert. You know that but I enjoyed your comment❤ Really. I love honesty. It says a lot about you. I'm sure you'll see what you're looking for I want to wish you well. I'm a million miles away From you but for some reason I get your Vibe. I fought that way myself before. I hope this lady.
      Keep skeep giving advice because men truly need it. We just don't get it young, Hopefully now we will. I really enjoyed your comment thank you.😊

  • @GodHelpMe369
    @GodHelpMe369 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Beloved child,
    I see the pain and the hurt that you carry within your heart.
    I see the tears that you have shed,
    and I am moved with compassion for you.
    I want to heal your broken heart
    and to bind up all your wounds.
    I want to restore the joy of your salvation
    and to give you a garment of praise,
    instead of a spirit of despair.
    I want to comfort you and bring you peace
    in the midst of your storms.
    I understand the struggles and the challenges that you face in this life.
    I know the temptations and the trials that you endure.
    I will never leave you nor forsake you.
    I am your refuge and your strength,
    an ever-present help in times of trouble.
    I want you to know that I have great plans for your life.
    I want to use you to touch the lives of others,
    to bring healing and hope to the brokenhearted,
    and to set the captives free.
    I want to use you to bring light into the darkness,
    and to be a beacon of hope to a lost and dying world.
    My child,
    I want you to know that My love for you is unconditional and unchanging.
    I want you to know that you are My beloved child, and that I delight in you.
    I want you to know that you are precious in My sight,
    and that you are more valuable to Me
    than the finest gold and the most precious jewels...
    I want you to know that I rejoice over you with singing.
    I want you to know that I am always with you,
    and that I will never leave you nor forsake you.
    I want you to know that I am your constant companion,
    and that I will guide you and direct your steps.
    I want you to know that I will give you the wisdom and the understanding that you need
    to navigate the challenges of this life.
    I want you to know that I am the God of all comfort,
    and that I will comfort you in all your troubles.
    I want you to know that I am the God who heals you,
    who binds up your wounds, and who sets you free
    from the bondage of sin and its consequences.
    I want you to know that I am the God who restores you when you have gone astray,
    and who brings you back into the fold of My love.
    I want you to know that I am the God who gives you the desires of your heart
    when they are in alignment with My will and My purposes.
    I want you to know that I am the God who blesses you abundantly,
    and that I am a God of more than enough.
    My child,
    I want you to trust in Me with all your heart,
    and to lean not on your own understanding.
    In all your ways acknowledge Me,
    and I will make your paths straight.
    I will guide you with My eye,
    and I will lead you to the place I have prepared for you...
    I will never leave you nor forsake you.
    With all My love,
    God.

  • @NovellaDeParmesano
    @NovellaDeParmesano Před 5 měsíci +1

    I learned so mucg

  • @LindaQueLeenda
    @LindaQueLeenda Před 4 měsíci +2

    With all these losers giving dating advice online (that target those with traumatic upbringings) we really needed her ❤

  • @alvijay
    @alvijay Před 3 měsíci

    The truth was spoken here

  • @flowersvg
    @flowersvg Před 5 měsíci +2

    very informative

  • @MichaelAlberta
    @MichaelAlberta Před 4 měsíci

    Fascinating

  • @user-fd7ju5sb6b
    @user-fd7ju5sb6b Před 5 měsíci

    The best way is to watch videos on CZcams.

  • @GrammarProductions
    @GrammarProductions Před 5 měsíci +5

    The equating sexuality with a great meal is everything. But, honestly, sometimes all you want is a quick sandwich. I feel the secret is in the connection. And when I'm hungry, I'm gonna connect to that sandwich tooth, gum, and tongue 👅

  •  Před 5 měsíci +2

    In short: BE A GODDESS!!!

  • @livolchok
    @livolchok Před 3 měsíci +1

    All done no kids but she’ll preach what good woman is

  • @StimParavane
    @StimParavane Před 5 měsíci +16

    What frustrated me about my last relationship was that my girlfriend would get dressed up to go to the office but then immediately take it all off as soon as she got home. Thanks.

    • @cynthia-jo1zz
      @cynthia-jo1zz Před 5 měsíci

      You never married her.

    • @jocelyncao9233
      @jocelyncao9233 Před 5 měsíci +11

      Why that would frustrate you? I am a woman, i am the same . Office suit makes me uncomfortable and stressful. You may think women look good in it, but i sont like myself in a office suit.

    • @BushcraftQuebec
      @BushcraftQuebec Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@jocelyncao9233 how many men do you follow on youtube ?

    • @crystalisabella
      @crystalisabella Před 3 měsíci +1

      The last thing I wanna do at the end of a work day is stay in my work clothes

    • @demetrianicole1657
      @demetrianicole1657 Před měsícem

      Work clothes are uncomfortable. Maybe communicate with your next girlfriend and she may find something to wear at home that’s comfortable for her and still appealing to you.

  • @annmariemaciver8886
    @annmariemaciver8886 Před 5 měsíci +2

    This goes both ways.

  • @rachelleFM
    @rachelleFM Před 4 měsíci +1

    I’d love to hear the rest of the answer of the last question.

  • @amc3964
    @amc3964 Před 29 dny +5

    This isn’t Dubai. You sound far too sympathetic on cheaters. If a person cheats on you ONCE -there is a 350 per cent chance HE will do it again; serial cheaters.

  • @muzahirk
    @muzahirk Před 5 měsíci +6

    Thank you for your wisdom, Sadia

    • @10.11.9
      @10.11.9 Před 5 měsíci

      Wisdom? She hasn't hit 40 yet. 😄

    • @jarkachalmovianska7812
      @jarkachalmovianska7812 Před 5 měsíci

      ​@@10.11.9have you?

    • @muzahirk
      @muzahirk Před 5 měsíci +3

      Age doesn’t always bring wisdom 😅 there are 50 year olds who probably have less wisdom than a 20 year old. “Wherever you go you will find your teacher, as long as you have the eyes to see and ears to hear”

    • @byronryan4216
      @byronryan4216 Před 3 měsíci

      🤦‍♀️

  • @angelslove13
    @angelslove13 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Awwww I desire my man to take out garbage in time😂

  • @adambushaway6426
    @adambushaway6426 Před 5 měsíci

    Look up patrice o neal.... legend on this subject.

  • @yasinozkan
    @yasinozkan Před měsícem

    that ending lol

  • @daniellaNicole0
    @daniellaNicole0 Před 4 měsíci +3

    There are so many women who stay looking gorgeous even after kids. I love makeup and fashion and I love gym but I can’t imagine not trying to look great for m my man all the time. I want his compliments and I want him to want me and if I look like a rat died in my hair and like I was buried in my pajamas who’s gins be happy with that. He wasn’t attracted to that and I wasn’t attracted to a man who lives in pajamas and slides. It’s just not attractive to me. I was raised traditionally where u funny leave the house without getting ready properly or do things during the day.

  • @Helfarbjdr
    @Helfarbjdr Před 5 měsíci +6

    I have a question for you: if a woman has a child and then puts aside everything for in order to raise her child, which many women have to do, what are the effects of that child leaving once they are grown up? I began thinking about this after watching Season 35 Episode 2 of the simpsons, which has a similar question. how would you deal with depression and a lack of purpose that comes from that? also this does happen to men as well, but women are typically much more attached to their child resulting in a greater feeling of loss

  • @t5396
    @t5396 Před 5 měsíci +1

    What is the name of the woman hosting the podcast?

  • @trueloveconnects
    @trueloveconnects Před 5 měsíci +3

    Wishing you all true happiness in 2024 and beyond ❤

    • @BushcraftQuebec
      @BushcraftQuebec Před 4 měsíci

      Naa hard work and handling bullshit is my goal

    • @byronryan4216
      @byronryan4216 Před 3 měsíci

      ✨🌟⭐️🌈💥☀️☀️🌤️😊

  • @alienautopsy9326
    @alienautopsy9326 Před 5 měsíci

    It will be very difficult for most people to consider advice from the two ridiculously gorgeous world class women in this video . Sorry ladies, reality is a little different for the rest of us 98% who don’t have your god given grace and beauty. Walk a mile in our shoes for a week. Either way you both are beautiful and may god bless you . We would wish you good luck but you don’t need it. You give the world hope

  • @kritigoel5922
    @kritigoel5922 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Why does betrayal always refers to cheating. Betrayal can be other forms.

  • @godswordevangelism
    @godswordevangelism Před 3 měsíci

    It is absolutely true about infidelity. If a man or woman are missing something in their marriage, they will seek to find it elsewhere. They both need attention and both need to feel desired. If the woman finds what she needs from another man she will begin developing emotional attachment to him and will reluctantly go back to her husband. If the other man is willing to take her, she will never go back. The man, on the other hand, will stay in his marriage unless/until his wife finds out. In either case, it is extremely hard to forgive and get past it. I have been cheated on twice by my husband and we are now heading for divorce.

  • @aliciar8978
    @aliciar8978 Před 4 měsíci

    I love that blue dress, can you post a link to your dress?

    • @BushcraftQuebec
      @BushcraftQuebec Před 4 měsíci +1

      Delusional question she will never read tour comment

  • @bozku8815
    @bozku8815 Před měsícem +1

    Danke!

  • @DanPlayMore
    @DanPlayMore Před 5 měsíci +2

    She gives a lot to the world but i just can't stop wondering if she's really happy? if by beeing so smart and right in many ways she has managed to find someone on the same level. Just by analysing the way she looks and talks, even though she gets so much attention i believe that at the end of the day she is single and she is channeling all the energy in what she does.

    • @cameliasyarief
      @cameliasyarief Před 3 měsíci

      She's taken n in relationship dig deeper n get to know before U misjudged n she's certified psychologist

  • @theprolificnetwork4670
    @theprolificnetwork4670 Před 4 měsíci +5

    I would like to see this lady be married successfully for over 10 years. Then what she says will have some value coming out of her mouth

  • @mariaali5872
    @mariaali5872 Před měsícem +1

    Always their is some one i only make eye contact also i think about him always what you think guysssss

  • @blesstalks
    @blesstalks Před měsícem

    "They can't be attracted to her back" BARS!

  • @RA-ge89
    @RA-ge89 Před 2 měsíci

    I wish you were around to give me advice in my 20s

  • @Mytholic
    @Mytholic Před 4 měsíci +1

    Why did it just cut off at the end? what the heck?

  • @RandallSampson-hp3gz
    @RandallSampson-hp3gz Před 29 dny

    When selfish to be loved by a women is simply cause we scared that we can't dare to break there heart.. ❤😢

  • @rafaelbabar3494
    @rafaelbabar3494 Před 5 měsíci +1

    That was too cropped. The last and most interesting question wasn’t answered.

  • @d2007ma
    @d2007ma Před 4 měsíci +2

    Step 1: have Sadia's look

  • @jarglee4471
    @jarglee4471 Před 12 dny

    Anwsering to the question in the title: I think it's almost impossible to get a loving relationships nawadays because there are very few people mature enough to understand the idea of two people being together for one another.

  • @prenalachetty1114
    @prenalachetty1114 Před 2 měsíci

    Hi Sadia, of this topic, you have mentioned in many clips that you feel women who come from families that are divorce, have daddy issues, will eventually have dysfunctional relationship. People come to you for advice and labeling women that way separates them… and will feel not good enough… please explain?

  • @shady6703
    @shady6703 Před 2 měsíci

    Loving relationship is possible only between a nice guy and a traditional average woman. A bad boy or a hot model who has access to dozens of other options would most probably explore or wanna explore his/her options.
    A healthy relationship is only possible between two individuals who lack options and attractiveness.

  • @heavenlyhell9288
    @heavenlyhell9288 Před 3 měsíci

    The ending was brilliant! That was my favorite phrase is the entire video! I am not even joking! 15:45

  • @ayeshanasir9916
    @ayeshanasir9916 Před 3 měsíci

    Well unless he has always been a chester ans u didnt know.... story of my life.... i did everything without realising he married me for convenience, and definitely not love....
    It gets frustrating when u r showing interest & love in every way but its not reciprocated....

  • @lovetruepink8140
    @lovetruepink8140 Před 4 měsíci

    I'd really love to see where she graduated and how credible her degree is because there's not much on her website.

    • @byronryan4216
      @byronryan4216 Před 3 měsíci

      This is a gentle nudge to stop looking for answers from outside sources and tune in to your own wisdom, which is your most reliable navigator .
      How credible is your inner wisdom miss lovetruepink ? 🙋‍♂️

    • @prakashbishnoi9366
      @prakashbishnoi9366 Před 2 dny

      Why is that so important ?! She has amazingly so knowledgable all about this, and can hear her for whole day that is what is truly enough i guess 😗