How to go from dating to a relationship

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Komentáře • 121

  • @sadiapsychology
    @sadiapsychology  Před 5 měsíci +3

    Hi guys for all my exclusive content, and the ability to ask me any question see my patreon
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    One to one sessions see link in bio

  • @michiahnaylor7476
    @michiahnaylor7476 Před 5 měsíci +7

    I honestly adore you Sadia. Your logic and mindset lines up so well with mine and I'm constantly becoming more aware of myself and the people around me the more I watch you.

  • @simonlevante2257
    @simonlevante2257 Před 6 měsíci +82

    The title of the video does not answer, strategize or even focus on that question. The subject matter bounces all over the place. Beware of your time.

    • @ghostsounds9995
      @ghostsounds9995 Před 6 měsíci +11

      Yh i like her message but all her videos are like this she needs a channel manager

    • @AnDrea-lp1di
      @AnDrea-lp1di Před 5 měsíci

      Thank youuuu!

    • @Iknowgia_222
      @Iknowgia_222 Před 5 měsíci +1

      @@ghostsounds9995omg sooooo true. Thought I was the only one thinking this 😂

    • @missfefe4461
      @missfefe4461 Před 3 měsíci

      @simonlevante2257 Thanks for the heads up. Because of your comment, I listened better because I didn't want to have your same experience - who wants to miss sage advice, right?
      Ouch, I feel for those who didn't get it. Gems were being dropped and it flew right past your head and you didn't see it simply because it wasn't flying on your predetermined flight chart?
      Come, Simon, you owe yourself more than that? Come accept my challenge to open yourself up to another listen? You may find it worth the dare

    • @SDHome-nc3qy
      @SDHome-nc3qy Před měsícem

      This comment reveals your inability to relate and apply the principle and insights she’s sharing with the process of dating. If you’re looking for “5 easy steps…” choose a different podcast. They’re a dime a dozen.

  • @AdrianaJSC11
    @AdrianaJSC11 Před 6 měsíci +20

    I’m a woman and I resonate with you so much ❤ I’ve always felt more comfortable with male friendships as well, but when I do connect with women, they are very kind and loyal, I just have to weed them out. Finding you and your advice online this year has been so helpful for me

  • @SDHome-nc3qy
    @SDHome-nc3qy Před měsícem +1

    Sadia, beautiful intelligent kind women have had this experience with other women since the beginning of time. Sara, Abraham’s wife, Leah and Rebekah in biblical times…jealousy, envy. You speak truth that many women don’t like because they are living or have lived lives that don’t align with true femininity and virtue. So to preserve their own ego and view of self they must tear down what you speak of and represent. Please continue to speak truth in kindness as you do the young women need to hear this against the screams of feminists who cloak their hate of true feminine virtue in words like “equality”. Masculine/Feminine is beautiful and the way we were designed to live in harmony different but equal, complimentary in strengths and weaknesses. ❤

  • @OrangeMusk-zo3ju
    @OrangeMusk-zo3ju Před 5 měsíci +2

    As a woman, I love your content and I find your advice very level headed and far more based in reality than a lot of other content online. I'm glad to have finally found a channel that resonates with my own values.

  • @veronixawardwell8802
    @veronixawardwell8802 Před 6 měsíci +9

    I’m a woman and love you!❤️You have the audacity to be honest…I love that. Most people don’t.

  • @Anonymous-ni6ni
    @Anonymous-ni6ni Před 4 měsíci +1

    I'm a woman too Sadia! I think you're amazing & the work you put out is absolutely amazing & helped me so much! I love you ❤

  • @estelaa.6737
    @estelaa.6737 Před 6 měsíci +6

    The disappointment is when you find that your male friends ended up wanting to get physical. 😢 I value my genuine friendships so this does hurt.

  • @nimsa2000
    @nimsa2000 Před 6 měsíci +19

    I'm a woman, Sadia, and I love you so much❤😊🎉thank you for your platform and sharing values that mean so much without diminshing or degrading others' values 😊😂❤ I love you so ❤️ much

  • @queenj.8i895
    @queenj.8i895 Před 6 měsíci +11

    Lots of good advice! But! Definitely introduce someone you’re considering as a potential partner to your loved ones BEFORE you’ve gotten serious. Many times your friends/family can spot red flags you’re overlooking. Take their feedback into consideration.
    God bless 🦋

  • @tiniciayoung
    @tiniciayoung Před 4 měsíci

    GOLD! AMAZING INFORMATION. VERY HELPFUL LIFE COMMENTARY

  • @jessg3995
    @jessg3995 Před 5 měsíci

    Sadia I am so grateful for you. Your advice has helped and improved my life immensely. Thank you!
    Your comment sense, anti political correct advice is refreshing and sorely needed. Any woman who take issue with you require deep self reflection.
    I just want to encourage you and pray for your continued success.

  • @barbaratortato6262
    @barbaratortato6262 Před 5 měsíci +2

    I would love to see a video on how to navigate the difficulties in a marriage. I tend to feel that most advice on boundaries and femininity in relationships are for unmarriade girls. Beeing in a marriage with children you can not, or should not, just leave if your spouse is not treating you right or acting right in life. I really really struge finding content on that perspective and I would LOVE to see your advice on that. Love from Brazil 😊❤️

  • @Anonymous-cw1ng
    @Anonymous-cw1ng Před 5 měsíci +1

    I’m a woman and I love you! 💕 you’re smart and beautiful, no need to hate because you’re amazing lol

  • @user-uv2eu7gm5z
    @user-uv2eu7gm5z Před 6 měsíci +7

    I am a Woman and I love you and super love the content that you present and the way you handle every topic !!

  • @MediTANKtion
    @MediTANKtion Před 5 měsíci +1

    I love you so much!

  • @biglimited
    @biglimited Před 5 měsíci

    Thank You both 🙏

  • @AllHandlesRTaken
    @AllHandlesRTaken Před 4 měsíci

    7:05 They respect you in your absence. Exactly!

  • @mistyvance4544
    @mistyvance4544 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Women can often hate another woman on sight, without any other interaction when the woman they see is physically attractive. It triggers jealousy.
    I don't consider myself all that great - just maybe in the average to cute category, but I get some women that look at me like I've stolen or about to steal their man and their man ain't even around to steal.
    One time, I was talking to a man at work about work, and his girlfriend stared me dead in the face to see if there was any flirting going on between me and her man as we interacted.

  • @loakyguiadeen24
    @loakyguiadeen24 Před 5 měsíci +1

    I love you. You are awesome and very intelligent. I don't necessarily agree with a few of your points, however I respect your opinion and your thoughts. ❤

  • @patrickd3349
    @patrickd3349 Před 4 měsíci

    "To each their own." Words to live by.

  • @xtruxlilxdiax
    @xtruxlilxdiax Před 6 měsíci +6

    I’m also a female who struggles more with female friends… but all my female friends say the same! And I also love Sadia… I feel like there’s a commonality there where those types of females are drawn to each other

  • @josephineprimm5303
    @josephineprimm5303 Před 6 měsíci +7

    I love your message and you are giving such good advice that isn't only morally based but also good for people's mental health. I really love hearing someone expressing some of the feelings I share and trying to help people get through this crazy modern dating.

  • @Natasha-jf3vq
    @Natasha-jf3vq Před 6 měsíci +6

    Women are jealous of you coz you have both beauty and intelligence

  • @galina6707
    @galina6707 Před 19 dny

    Sadia is absolutely right about female friendships 👏👏I'm woman and I agree 💯💯Sadia is gorgeous ❤️I prefer men by the way 😘

  • @bayareaprepper
    @bayareaprepper Před 6 měsíci

    Sadia looked like she had fun in the interview.

  • @deren2001
    @deren2001 Před 6 měsíci +4

    I'm a women, and I love you, you are smart, cute, well spoken, very wise and so so pretty. You are the whole package, You are confident in your female energy without the need to rival with men. Most modern women in western society don't like that

  • @EmilyMVCoach
    @EmilyMVCoach Před 6 měsíci

    Loved the quick fire questions 💌

  • @Sachinguptahbs
    @Sachinguptahbs Před 6 měsíci +2

    I can’t believe this is the same Ms Khan from Greenford High School! Only interacted with you once but it’s insane how far you’ve came on CZcams!

  • @FinancialHealth-ku1ry
    @FinancialHealth-ku1ry Před 6 měsíci +2

    4:35
    Instant RED Flag 🚩

  • @ghitakamar8739
    @ghitakamar8739 Před 6 měsíci +1

    i love you so much sadia

  • @avalanche8414
    @avalanche8414 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Mike Thurston loves you

  • @12344491brandon
    @12344491brandon Před 6 měsíci +1

    Your so Beautiful ! ❤

  • @sweetpea6230
    @sweetpea6230 Před 3 měsíci

    Love the part where she goes over how to go from dating to a relationship

  • @stillawake76
    @stillawake76 Před 6 měsíci +5

    I’ve never understood how people can claim to be a follower of a particular faith, but cherry-pick which rules they choose to adhere to.

  • @SpeakerGregoryDwyer
    @SpeakerGregoryDwyer Před 6 měsíci

    Love listening to you.

  • @amolkumawat1830
    @amolkumawat1830 Před 5 měsíci +1

    They hate you because your so neutral and rational in your views and they may like something more romantic. Same reason men like you though.

  • @AdmiralBet-ei3nb
    @AdmiralBet-ei3nb Před 4 měsíci

    My religion is my partner our life together. Same his religion is me myself. Period.

  • @immapianese7658
    @immapianese7658 Před 2 měsíci

    How can women hate her? I would love to have Sadia as friend!

  • @bsislam
    @bsislam Před 4 měsíci

    Seen you said having friendships with opposite sex is haram but important to note we can have friendships with siblings and cousins growing up

  • @pickyourbrainswithbenjamin761

    I'm eastern European Jewish born in the USA im 38 no wife and kids I feel the same as you as well nit a sin but I haven't gotten these rewards yet

  • @yellowdrangon
    @yellowdrangon Před 6 měsíci +4

    Very cool conversation! I think there is a little bias towards Muslim values which isn't a bad thing, just something to be aware of when listening to your advice.
    Really liked the conversation on the realization that even though you maybe of the same religion it doesn't mean the person will have the same values! (this isn't intuitive!)
    It's a person's values that should be at the forefront when looking for a long term relationship with someone.
    One other bias for your conversation is, it feels like you're giving advice to wealthy people sometimes vs just the avg women or man listening. Not necessarily a bad thing but it makes you a little less relatable when you talk about these issues (everyone deserves good advice though) . All together informative convo I learned a lot!

  • @luth0Zuz0le
    @luth0Zuz0le Před 6 měsíci +1

    soulful material. good medicine

  • @noirettebeauty
    @noirettebeauty Před 3 měsíci

    Word choices that change with context:
    Friend: “women”
    Foe: “females”

  • @user-lj2uu1ps2c
    @user-lj2uu1ps2c Před 6 měsíci +1

    I am not dating with any one so i don't know.🎉

  • @addicted2me
    @addicted2me Před 6 měsíci

    I am a woman.
    I accept what U say. And I do accept the pick Ur sins.
    Cos truly not all the hijabs are kind too.
    I focus on personality more than the surface
    "Don't beat/look down on everyone else just cos they sin differently than u"
    That's what I always say 😊

  • @tjbroussard3524
    @tjbroussard3524 Před 6 měsíci

    Nadia is calling everything a red flag while creating new ones lol 😂😂😂😂

  • @su-mu
    @su-mu Před 25 dny

    3:25

  • @PopFizzPaperDani
    @PopFizzPaperDani Před 6 měsíci +2

    If the majority of women don’t like you, you’re the common denominator. Knowing an audience is primarily women and going up in front of them with preconceived notions of them already hating you might be a good place to investigate. Our energy precedes us, after all. 😊

    • @sadiapsychology
      @sadiapsychology  Před 6 měsíci +7

      I’m very glad these women don’t like me it’s always ones I don’t respect or want to look or be like

  • @KarelBeelaertsvanBlokland
    @KarelBeelaertsvanBlokland Před 6 měsíci

    You are such a wise Psychologe. BRAVO! and handsome

  • @marwancodecreateurmarwanle8634
    @marwancodecreateurmarwanle8634 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I adore you and you are very beautiful

  • @Murad20241
    @Murad20241 Před 6 měsíci

    You will live in enteral conflict damn sadia you walked yourself into that one

  • @ayanamoon5941
    @ayanamoon5941 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Sadie I’m a women and I think that you are amazing…😉🌺🌺🌺

  • @tundun8365
    @tundun8365 Před 5 měsíci

    I don’t think introducing someone to your family is a red flag. I think we should engage in more courtship based relationships so that we can weed out inappropriate candidates. And that is why I think it should be green flag.

  • @johnfolk1448
    @johnfolk1448 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Is the Sadia in the video the same Sadia that is replying to people commenting? The one in the video sounds reasonable and the one replying sounts venomous.

  • @user-ej5jc5dk1e
    @user-ej5jc5dk1e Před 5 měsíci

    I don't hate women .

  • @TumwineProsper
    @TumwineProsper Před 6 měsíci

    We're grateful for your sin. 😂. We get beautiful advice while admiring you 😂

  • @leeche87
    @leeche87 Před 6 měsíci +1

    How did this happen Sadia built such big online presence within months ?

  • @inspirationalguy81
    @inspirationalguy81 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Men love bashfulness in a woman. We certainly don't want for her to be overly confident and loud, especially in the presence of other men, nor for her just to sit their comfortably in a group of men and act like she's "one of them." For a woman to feel that she needs and wants male company other than her partner and male members of her household, then that is something she needs to look deep within to find out why.

  • @warrensmith3070
    @warrensmith3070 Před 5 měsíci

    Beautiful women have few female friends because other women are jealous of their beauty...

  • @Rose-nw9mg
    @Rose-nw9mg Před 6 měsíci

    We didn’t get to hear the ending. All I heard was, ewlwlwlellleel

  • @GokuBlack-sn5dr
    @GokuBlack-sn5dr Před 6 měsíci +1

    muslim women who have male friends usually end up having boyfriends which is haram!

  • @SecretSquirrel33
    @SecretSquirrel33 Před 6 měsíci

    If she knows she is sinning, WHY is she sinning?

  • @liodemirror1775
    @liodemirror1775 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Sadia is the example of pretty privilege

  • @Sammy36843
    @Sammy36843 Před 5 měsíci

    Damn who she?? She looks hella fine

  • @Awesam3rd
    @Awesam3rd Před 6 měsíci

    🧐🤔🇺🇳🇺🇸

  • @Coco-so1ve
    @Coco-so1ve Před 4 měsíci

    Not wearing a Hijab is not really considered as a sin in your opinion or you wouldnt do it just say hat 😂

  • @jessmaan9722
    @jessmaan9722 Před 5 měsíci +1

    She’s naive thinking men are seeking friendship with her

  • @josephlocurto8749
    @josephlocurto8749 Před 6 měsíci +3

    Not really true here. While I agree that friendships can be friendships I do believe that men need to be VERY cautious of the other men that orbit your woman. In particular, you should really pay attention to then men who women let in to their friendship circle. What access does she allow? When do these conversations happen? Is this friend objectively good looking? As men, we all know that women keep ortibters around who they can can call friends but would be more if something happened negatively in their relationship. Sadia is right that women should be able to have friends but naïveté kicks in when she says men should just accept this. She might have ironclad morals but in reality, most women are sheep, as are most men, and allowing a bunch of male or even female friends who have not been carefully vetted to hang around is foolish for men in particular. Women act on emotion and I cannot tell you how many stories I have heard that involve a woman cheating with an orbiter after an argument. In dating, selection is so very important because it’s very difficult to change people. That logic also applies to the friends you keep and the friends you would permit your woman to keep. Men need to pay very close attention to the childhoods of the friends their girlfriend chooses and consider VERY carefully the influence and impact a man or woman will have on their girlfriend - keeping an orbiter that she either finds attractive or wants to sleep with her is simply disrespectful to the man and unless he enforced some boundaries he can be sure more disrespect will follow because he is silently telling her that what she is doing is ok.

    • @trollzynisaacjohan1793
      @trollzynisaacjohan1793 Před 6 měsíci +2

      Just ask your spouse don't fuck em.
      Set that boundary and be willing to walk away.
      Men and women can be homies. If there are healthy boundaries.
      You can't gatekeep either.

    • @josephlocurto8749
      @josephlocurto8749 Před 6 měsíci +2

      @@trollzynisaacjohan1793 I think it’s a bit more nuanced than that. But I agree with the sentiment. You need to carefully monitor orbiters because women are so emotionally motivated. Leave the wrong man in orbit with your significant other and the moment she is mad at you he will sweep in with the validation and attention she craves. Game over.

  • @yowceph8111
    @yowceph8111 Před 6 měsíci

    What I find interesting is a woman who lived that life she's exposing, is giving advice to men when she herself is unmarried and wouldn't marry most men who don't provide her with the Lifestyle she desires. So in one way shape or form, she has to bought in her old age to be a wife. She's probably kept that masculine mentality, and that's why most men don't want to deal with her single unfeminine nature.
    Especially coming from a Mohammeden woman telling Mohammeden Men what they should do, when we know Women have a deficient mind, their opinion is worth half that of a man and that no woman suffers more than the Mohammeden woman.
    It's pretty ironic if you ask me

  • @Jdjdjdjjdj1997
    @Jdjdjdjjdj1997 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Can you make a video without you're make up on thank you

    • @abdullahahmad9300
      @abdullahahmad9300 Před 6 měsíci +1

      I agree Marracan man

    • @Jdjdjdjjdj1997
      @Jdjdjdjjdj1997 Před 6 měsíci

      ​​@@abdullahahmad9300 you got libanse women for me I heard they are beautiful

  • @defiantrascal6214
    @defiantrascal6214 Před 5 měsíci

    HARAM!

  • @muma6559
    @muma6559 Před 6 měsíci +5

    Sadia ! It is not good, neither healthy to wear hijab. A lot of religious practices and rituals are NOT what God wants.

    • @sadiapsychology
      @sadiapsychology  Před 6 měsíci +2

      I highly disagree. Please keep your unnecessary opinions to yourself.

    • @muma6559
      @muma6559 Před 6 měsíci +6

      @@sadiapsychology What ?! That's not like you Sadia.. ? You've kept your opinions public and this is a public forum. What the heck are you triggered for ? God wants us to have adequate Vitamin D, yeah ?

    • @muma6559
      @muma6559 Před 6 měsíci +1

      @@sadiapsychology there are sooo many religious women who have chronic medical problems because of rituals that are not healthy. You are intelligent and educated, please....

    • @User77587
      @User77587 Před 6 měsíci

      You definitely didn't read that in the Quran, thats for sure.. how are you going to say this is not what God wants when the hijab is mentioned in the Quran?

    • @muma6559
      @muma6559 Před 6 měsíci

      @@sadiapsychology Also, women can't get pregnant with low Vitamin D

  • @freedom1013
    @freedom1013 Před 6 měsíci

    Its haram to have mâle friends

  • @5j5jnavarro
    @5j5jnavarro Před 6 měsíci +1

    Did sadia get a nose job at some point in her life?

  • @williamroldan8842
    @williamroldan8842 Před 6 měsíci

    Drop the Muslim label, dating is not Sunnah!!! lol

  • @christbaby
    @christbaby Před 5 měsíci

    Jesus doesn't make you wear a hijab 😉

  • @ukbulldog2024
    @ukbulldog2024 Před 6 měsíci +1

    As a Hindu I cannot be friends with Muslims, Why? Disrespect by Muslims towards Hinduism and Modi India. it is difficult to understand Sadia by her reasoning of exceptionalising Muslims.

    • @syahiraamran2800
      @syahiraamran2800 Před 6 měsíci +2

      I hv no business interfearing with ur internal country affairs, but as far as I know prior to Modi, Hindu Indian & Muslim Indian hv been living peacefully & respectfully & being kind to each other for a very long time, but it all change when Modi goverment take over and mess you guys up.

    • @kareem199928
      @kareem199928 Před 6 měsíci +2

      The acts of a few does not represent the opinion of everyone. You can certainly find a handful of Muslims with whom you can be friendly with.

  • @fitwithartin
    @fitwithartin Před 6 měsíci +3

    Your personal beliefs about hijab and Islam’s interpretation are your business but I’d hope more Muslims see many moronic Islamic strict rules actually as not sins. Let ppl make whatever they want out of this religion. Maybe sth positive comes out of it for some ppl then.

  • @0286andre
    @0286andre Před 5 měsíci

    I'm not okay with it at all I'm just seeing testing how far these people go but once it's my turn it's going to be a lot of bad things are going to happen and a lot of guys is a my situation really is watching how far these people go when we need to do our job we're going to do it and some some of these guys are very violent and they're pissed and I'm pissed too