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Must thank you for your tips. Super helpful 🙏
One of the biggest signs shes using you is if you're watching her now. Oh the irony. Total scam artist for money like Tarot
When she is a bombshell and you are NOT. LOL
Hahaha. So true. Lol
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Haha facts
She Said and you are a dot 😂😂
Just wanted to write the same comment haha 😂
One benefit to not having an incredibly high income is that you never have to watch out for gold diggers 😂
😂😂😂😂 hilarious but true
Never a truer word spoken.
Greetings from Melbourne, Australia.
Every hot women I know who married a rich men and said they re in love on them end up cheating later in life.
It's a classic case of supply and demand. Every man wants a hot wife. But there are not enough hot women to go around for every man. Every woman wants a rich guy. But there are not enough rich guys to go around for every woman. That means that people are forced to lower their standards somewhat.
Give up on romance. It's better to be lonely than angry 😑
Biological needs are very stubborn ... You refuse then, and they create endless new problems elsewhere ...
Just pick the best among what you have available. Then hold your nose, and strategize how to make the system stable.
@@wayandoplaya lol
I usually ask this: How much money does man need to be in relationships with you?
And the answer is always self explanatory.
Sadia you are a treasure, it’s rare to see someone not blaming men every time
Men don't have to be a 10 since women are perfectly happy to settle for a 9.95.
I like nice things and I've always gotten them for myself.
That’s great, that just means uncomplicated sex for men. Especially if you pay your own bills, rent,entertainment, gifts, vacations, protection, pay for overall utility of man when you need something fixed or done. We need more females like you.
Spot on. The gold digger in my life checked off each of these red flags.🤕. I can't believe this. I am definitely pushing the replay button.
Are you still together?
@@fortinatv she is still there. Trying to rebuild trust. After l caught her red handed getting a lift from someone she is claiming is her university lecturer. But I am still trying to figure out how this lecturer magically showed up 1000's of miles away from her school. We were on vacation in my city. I didn't expect her to know anyone here.
@@user-pf6dk1mt3oI’ve been in a similar boat brother. My advice- RUN!!!
@master-of-mind5881 why are you allowing red flags into your life? Why are you choosing them? And you are choosing them, consciously and unconsciously. How do I know that? Healthy people don't
Man, just see if she's up for a coffee or breakfast date. Both are usually inexpensive and if she insists on dinner or something more expensive, walk away.
What a stupid advice! I do not go to coffee date. Getting ready is so expensive, I won't go anywhere further than my street for a coffee date
@@Nanshashakadi Then you're not who most guys are looking for. We don't care if you spend a bunch of money getting ready to mask your insecurities.
It's pretty difficult to go from a coffee date or breakfast to the bedroom. You need a setting that allows her to make that transition easier.
@@moemanm1202 That all depends on what you're looking for. Quick lay, just go with the wannabe gold digger then.
@@Duneek I have zéro insecurities and do not worry I have no issue regarding men looking for women like me. Not everyone wants a hoodie unkept woman.
Moral of the story. Women don't make you happier. You make you happier learn this and you will never have a problem seeing through the fake personality and looks (this is all they have if they are not genuine) and you will drop them even without trying.
Smart words, women don't love man we need to focus on self love for every reason
Best Way, is for a Man To Go His Own Way... imo
My ex was EXACTLY like this. Glad she broke up with me after i had some trouble with money.
Good for you don,t want major red flags in your life let her leave & never take her back.
@@christianbenn316 Yeah and i realized that women don't necessarily leave you for something better but for something easier.
Your content splits rocks💪🏽 of ignorance my lady and i like it ❤
I appreciate your helping all of us try to figure things out
Thank you Sadia! Great advice! ❤
What she says reflects research and study she is confident and knowledgeable presenter.
Thank you I really needed this lesson video.
How i wish my mum had sat me down and spoken to me the way Sadia does. All she did , and still does, is make me food even when i wasn't hungry.
Food is important too ... She did what she could.
I understand you, bro.
Women are attracted to men who have wealth and status because nature has programmed them to look for a male who will provide for and protect her and her offspring. So there is no problem with "gold diggers" but make sure you as a man are getting a fair deal. Does she respect you, treat you well. Does she cook and clean? Is she pleasant? These things have value equivalent to money. If you marry her get a prenup. You can have a good life with a gold digger provided she plays fair and you never give her control of your money and status for that matter. Also it is good to give her an allowance that she keeps or spends as she wishes. The key is negotiation. If the woman wants to be the earner and she wants a man that serves and entertains etc, that is fine too. Only 1 can lead the dance.
It is instinctive and biologically in women... it's called hypergamy.
What you are describing is not a relationship based on love but a business deal where you have to be on gouard all the time, not trusting your partner. Its no way to live dude, straight way to hell not lasting happiness and fullfilment. Find not a gold digger who you will use as a maid and entertainment and who will use you for money, but a good, honest person with whom you will build real intimacy, trust and love.
Love this
@@braskevful5760 You got employer in relationship with employee, employer in relationship with employer, employee in relationship with employee, which one do you think works better? It doesn't matter which gender is which. They can both be the same gender. I think employer-to-employee works best; employer gives goods and employee gives services, yes like a business and so long as roles are clarified and each fulfills his/her role, it is the closest thing to real love.
@@xrjx1511 this is absolutely crazy talk from someone who is emotionally disabled, doesnt understand what love, commitement is. Looking at intimate relationship as an employer-employee dynamic is just sick. When you love someone, you want the best for them, to be independent and happy from you and if you decide the best option for both of you and the children is for a woman to stay at home and not have career and money of her own you get married and your money is her money, you have a family, home and financies together. Not a situation where one is a empolyee that you can dispose as you like, its not love, its not wanting the best for your partner, its not trust. Its using someone or being too afraid for the real relationship. I pity you and your future partner.
If she wants to keep rich life style on a back of a man, that is gold digger regardless if she had money in the past or not.
People commit to their peers from the same socio economic background..you won't let your daughter marrying a bum if you are wealthy
@@user-gq1uf3qk8p Priorities make you who you are, I am sorry she is still gold digger.
Not necessarily,females like to work to earn their money.
@@Zemlja_je_ravna why does she have to prioritize your way of living to hers? That's not fair, that's why u LL never be around somebody rich..
The CRUEL HARD TRUTH!
This is pure gold!
You described my ex gf in most of these things to watch out for. Thanks. I only wish I had seen this sooner
All i say is never take money from a guy you don't love.
Great advice as always. I'm sure it will come in handy as one gets older
Right on, very true!
So are used to think that you have to make people pay for stuff or that they don’t like you if you don’t. But now I’m realizing like I’d literally rather just pay for everything.
Sadia best explanation I have heard for years.... Respects sister!
Have never seen a young woman so wise . You are full of knowledge
Everyone loves money, be it a man or a woman, but when they end up lying about their feelings just to get into a relationship then that’s what is wrong and unacceptable. Targeting women as gold digger is wrong . In many societies women are not treated equal, they suffer so much even when they marry for love. So there’s no guarantee of loyalty even if u have money or you don’t.
thanx Dr. appreciate the advice. i'm a 50 year old new retiree moved southeast asia. i need to watch myself
as always your enlightenment is wonderful, and since u open our eyes on the evil ones i guess the bad women must hate u ; it doesn’t matter
since we ❤ U
… so easy to spot them…try to kiss her … true love can’t hide… but always remember: try to kiss her and see her response… if she into you… you would feel her right away….
I don't wanna go through that.
Sadia at her best 👌🏼🙏
Thank you
Sounds like every mail order bride ever
#1 sign she's using you: she has a pulse
lol. 😂
😅😅
Lmfao...best comment 😂
How do you know the difference between: In the relationship for money vs. wanting stability?
A woman who wants stability will be much more interested in your behavior vs. your net worth. True, she won't want to take on a guy buried in debt but a guy who has stability will demonstrate sexual integrity, he will keep his commitments ( no matter how small), he will not lie, he will be a hard worker without bad habits (addictions, etc), and will demonstrate he has a secure attachment style.
You have to know if you're the type that gets used. Have you always been a leader? Have people always taken advantage of you? I find that women pick up on that.
It takes a gold digger to know another one.
LOL WTF
You're worried she's exposing your type
Exactly 😂
Thanks❤
Wow I learn so much I am very sharp when it comes to boundary
Always giving us good ways to notice things 😁
Glad you think so!
Fairly sensible advice. A buddy of mine with good money got rolled by a gold digger.
When he finally left her, he always took first dates to Torchy's Taco. Any woman that balked was blocked. He's married now to a great woman with a lovely family.
No hymen, no diamond. Teach your sons. No compromise.
As a virgin woman saving myself for marriage, I expect the exact same standard for my future husband. Don’t think just because you’re a man you get to sleep with hundreds of women then settle with a virgin.
@@user-rx7uh9mg4f This should be advice for Indian men
Do you know that not all virgins have hymen? Virginity is a state of mind, not a state of body. Hymen is very often gone when girls live an active lifestyle, many sports can result in hymen being gone by the time it's legal for them to have intercourse. Please reconsider, this can have serious consequences and it is dangerous to spread around. Kind greetings from another psychologist.
❤Always stay blessed
What does that even mean?
All nice points! 👌🏼 Funny you have a G wagon prop in the background…
Your the best
Thank you!
OBVIOUS!!!!!!
Hey can you do an episode about where you got your psychology degree Mrs Sadia psychology ? We’d like to know about your credentials in an episode. Thanks
You can see all on my website and then if you don’t want to believe them you can not watch me and watch someone else very simple
@@sadiapsychology I watch you alot sadia, you're intellectualy gifted, which can't be taught , anyway.
@sadiapsychology whoa! Someone is a little spicy.
Way Off!
Maybe foreign women behave that way bc they are raised and polished to find a sponsor but as an American woman, I have never felt the need to use those ‘tricks’. As for my taste if luxury labels, it’s due to the company you keep…you simply become a part of your environment.
I wish I was told this 12 years ago, it would of saved me a lot of money and heart ache. 😂
Good point if she doesn’t come from money
💯 on that one 😂😂!
#1 secret to dealing with gold diggers, never let them know how much gold you really have. This is for guys at any level.
They don’t always need to know HOW MUCH you have. Just knowing that you have some? Or that you have the propensity to make a lot it is enough
@@ElJefeQ1 Look here's the deal once they show they are a gold digger, and make it somewhat a transactional relationship, they make them selves a product. At that point you have to decide weather you are getting the best value for your resources, what ever those might be. If they set that tone I have no problem leasing them like they are car and trading in when I get bored, or see a better deal.
Rich and sensible man who longs for a true long relationship often has this unsettling doubt; Does she love my money or truly me?
golddiggers taking notes rn.. :p
Join your patreon??? Do you have a bill that needs paying?
She’s telling the truth
It ends up always with money, atleast in these times.
Ever on point,Sadia khan ❤
Paul Elam from " A voice for men" summed it up with a classic conversation between a man and woman.
Her: "How much do you earn ? ".
The Man: "How much do you charge ?".
I’m sexually attracted to high IQ men regardless of their looks(and money) that are usually 6-15 years older than me, and not younger than that, and I don’t lack money because of my family… I didn’t build a career because of health issues that I’m mostly past of. Damn I check so many checkboxes but I don’t think of myself as a gold digger AT ALL. If anything I’m looking for emotional stability and guidance from someone that has lived more on earth and has some brains. It’s not that black and white, sorry. Life’s more complicated than that and humans are very complicated with complicated lives and psyche.
I think that it is very obvious that there are acceptions to almost every rule. You are correct in that it's not a black and white thing. Nevertheless, based on study and experience, I agree with every single point Sadia makes. But yes, there are grey areas in life. Most, but not all psychology advice deals with proponderence of averages, probabilities, and not absolutes.
How can you determine, who is physically more attractive?
The whole internet society is telling us, that "beauty is subjective", so how on Earth can you say who is more or less attractive?
Are we, as a society, ready to accept that beauty is actually measurable and OBJECTIVE?
You know when your woman is out of your league
@@immers2410 society thinks, that there are no leagues ;)
Why aren't we supposed to figure this out ourselves 😬
sometimes i feel “ i wanna be used “ , at least i can feel a woman’s touch & affection 😉
Is there a way to actually to talk too her
Simplest way to know:
Ask if he has any gold. If not, then she ain’t a golddigger.
The last point is obvious and very prominent this days … that’s what I see in today’s generation …
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Not true! I have a career and worked in my profession consistently for 17 years. I own a home and did this all on my own! I then met rich guys later in life and was not looking to use them for money! Our first date was my favourite breakfast and fro yo and I got 10k after one date. I never asked or expected. Older rich man want me and just did it!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Men need to follow principles.
Can u talk about hoq to raise kids boys girls so they grow up to be mentally healthy adults
Just stop using tinder and dating apps, get a woman from a trusted background, college, work, common hobbies, daughter of a family friend, friend of a friend. 9 out of 10 times would be a good pick.
Women will adapt to any man’s ways as long as she is getting what she wants from you and when she got what she wanted she will move on with another man who can give her what she wants again. Men are just a Uber
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All i heard is not to marry.
Duh.
I'm 44 an my gf is 29. Is it wrong to pay for most things? I make significantly more money than her so I don't mind picking up the tab. She's never asked for money or to buy things for her. She does have expensive tastes, (don't we all) and her parents have a little bit of money from being retired and her being the only child. My concern is slowly becoming a human wallet down the road if living together or marriage comes into play.
Answer the questions that Sadia listed. What did you conclude?
What percentage of men and women are actually not gold digger, jealous, low esteem, or narcissist? Is it rare to find or are they the majority?
Step 3 is the guveaway
How do you identify male gold diggers?
Always if you have money have two of all material goods. If she hates all the cheap stuff you know. In reality the cheap stuff actually may work better and last longer. Gold diggers don’t care… pick her up in a hooptie on the second date see if she likes you or your 💰
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Never date gold diggers for they are walking red flags.
You are brilliant
I ask no questions. I pay for the service of her company, I dont want to marry. I havent the time to validate others, I want success for me alone, So if she is a golddigger but is pleasant, does not bother me.
If you are single and have a high income, always have a nice-ish but average back-up car or truck. Like one you would be ok leaving at the airport for a week. Pick her up for a date in that. See her response.
This woman is so interesting.
Carpe Diem. ❤
Actually woman have the right to have a financial stability provided by a man, I agree with Sadia there is a manipulation when a woman want just money from a man but a woman need to have financial standards especially when she likes him and think of him as a potential husband, now the difference between a gold digger and a normal woman is that a normal woman wants a good hard working and god feering man who treats her well and respect her while a gold digger wants your money she is here just for the money. But I think that men should work on themselves and have money then thinks if a woman is a gold digger or not because you find some broke guy talking about women that they are gold diggers it's just not logical, have your own money then choose, actually they say this because they can't afford the woman next to them. And in all case we should choose people who like us because they will do efforts for us❤
Women want the millionaire lifestyle. not the actual man
Very complicated question but what if she meets NONE of the things you said. Maybe occasionally one or two of the six criteria are met on occasion but otherwise nothing really rings the bell. BUT as a man you STILL feel like she is a gold digger? What now?
Then, why are you with her?
@@sadiapsychology that’s a difficult question. What if she is a big part of my successes. Meaning she practically runs my business. I feel that I love her. I believe it runs deeper. Where would I get help? A gold digger that meets none of your criteria? You tell me….🤷♂️
Rewatching your bullet points. I might add that she is incredibly attractive. All the women I have dated are attractive though, and on a different level. I am a handsome guy and being in shape matters to me since society will judge based upon a number of factors.
It’s pretty obvious to see lol 😂
If a woman spends a million dollars to investigate a man. Is that really out of ordinary
Brace for impact 😂
They will attack you Sadia SOo0 ferociously
Must hold 🎉