HOW TO STOP BEING MANIPULATED BY WOMEN
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You have changed my whole life for the best. Thank you soo much Sadia 🙏
Your videos have been so insightful and helpful. Thank you
The reason why I hate online dating is because I don't know who I'm speaking with what or not those pictures are real as well as the person
Hi ma Sadia you are really a gem how I wish you could l also include in your content value teachings for new parents esp the
Mother to give proper guidance to raise a good human being men and women alike, in this way some childhood trauma can be addressed if not eliminated if parents have a sort of blueprint to glean on and not just grope in the dark by hit or miss in raising kids especially these challenging digital era
3:00 Oof. You're not insulting me, you're describing me...
Experienced divorce lawyer here. So many men would save themselves from a trainwreck of a marriage and nasty divorce if they simply listened to this video and walked away from a disrespectful woman. Great video!
Wow a lawyer. Such a high status person. Thank you for commenting❤
Men got indoctrinated into thinking that they only become truly happy through marriage. So if they don't have women lined up, they stay and try to fix the problem that doesn't want to get fixed.
Men were taught to think that they only become truly happy through marriage. So if they don't have women lined up, they stay and try to fix the problem that doesn't want to get fixed.
Yes 👍
Experienced married man here . Curious which woman is not disrespectful ?
When you walk away from her make sure to walk towards yourself and not someone else.
Wise advice!
@@oneloveoneheartonedestination Don't try to replace her with the first opportunity to ease your pain, wait for the one who deserves to come!
@oneloveoneheartonedestination soul twin? Just move on, if it hurts that's life. Just work in yourself and better things and women will eventually gravitate your way
Solid advice here.
I walked away to my car to leave I got five shots and one was in my back case still open cause her dad a powerful master mason but my body is the proof it was all close range but honestly this lady is right sometimes we see red flags and blind ourselves. Fellas always value yourself or anybody really value yourself. But God brought me back and even though I lost everything I built up until that point I'm well on my way to getting all that back plus more God gave me a major vision and it's been fruitful and will pay out major soon real soon. Success is the best revenge let GOD deal with any and everything trust with your whole soul and the higher power got you I promise you that ❤
When she says women never lie! That is a lie in itself.🤣🤣🤣
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You didn't understand what she said brother. What she meant was, women always showcase their red flags, it's us men that choose to ignore it.
So if my wife tells me she was with Hailey and I then discover that she was with Paul what do you call that? A red flag?@@kratosgod-ci4tq
This ☝🏾
@@kratosgod-ci4tq Hiding the truth is also a lie
She sounds so much like the last women I dated, she was also a psych. Very self centred and felt she needed to explain everything to me. Also turned out to be a serial cheater while telling me I was crazy.
Gosh... You've dated the best one😂. To me sounds a bit like rhetoric to explain how women, even bad ones, are still not doing harm, as they "showed" you how nasty they might be... Imagine how men would be treated if they doing the same... 🙄
Women show, they don't tell. Don't listen to what she says, watch what she does.
FACTS
Never listen to a woman. Always watch.
Yep! All that matters is what she does. What she says is often meaningless. What she says is what she wants to believe and portray, rarely the reality.
@@twoweeledsoto6072why? why why why why why
This right here.
I just walked away from a beautiful strong woman because she broke my boundaries with the way she thought she could talk to me. Once I left she begged and apologized for everything until I told her bluntly .. it's time to move on it's over. Then she became the victim. It was and still is painful but I respect myself for walking.
Thats powerful. Thats shows you got Power. It pains, but there no Game without Pain.
@@KS-yy2cp not pain. walking away always makes u better and stronger. its a win win
My respect for your decision
I had exactly the same woman……it’s very painful but we’ve made the right decision and moved on……
@@gods_bruhit is painful but time heals
" women don't lie - they simply don't tell the truth!???"
& Bait N Switch!
I think it's to be understood in the following way: they do not necessarily try to deceive you on purpose, but they are themselves unaware of what they believe in. Thus not telling the truth.
@@Kyousei. For many of them it's a career plan - half a dozen divorces & live it up forever. - Why do you think they favour the rich guys or the high flyers?
@@Kyousei. That is just justification for lying. If they know the difference between good and bad and choose to hide the truth to protect themselves, their feelings, etc, that is lying. Plain and simple.
If you can't rely on what she says, that it's "technically not a lie" is a distinction without a difference. Leave her.
Some people will only "love you" as much as they can use you. Their loyalty ends where the benefits stop. If someone really loves you, no matter how many other people they meet, their feelings for you wouldn't change. A real lover can't be stolen.
Yup
"You'd be surprised at how plain most women are without makeup." - My Dad
Wise dad
Smoke and crazy-ass bullshitery!
Two t's?
Wise mad
Your dead was wrong. He just never got used to women not wearing make-up. The women I've been with looked much better without it.
One of the best things a man can be taught is that he can tell people no. Especially to those he loves and adores.
I concur. Kindness is weakness ONLY if you allow it. You can always say 'no,' as long as you are polite, honest, & direct. Equally important is to have the strength to stand by your words. This means standing your ground, or walking away as appropriate.
Amen to that
@@Ace01.. you're right
And to walk away. Walking away is a powerful ability
“If you want to know someone’s mind listen to what they say, if you want to know someone’s heart, watch what they do.”
Woooow. I have been a weak man. Thanks for awakening the beast in me
U R THE MOST POWERFUL PIECE OF GOD]
Roar :3
Choose better. Have criteria beyond attraction.
None of them cook or clean anymore.
Straight up!
Love is not a choice
@NBl-qw8cg love is both a choice and a verb. To insist otherwise shows me someone who is not in a space to self reflect and is most likely a partner who blames the other person for their own choices. You can choose who you are attracted to and partner with, but you need to want to do the work. You are not a victim
@@JeffCaplan313thats a belief system that will hurt you in the long run. Because you”ll see and atract only that type of women.
Where is the real proof no women is doing those things in this whole entire world?
Take care
"When you value the connection more than the respect that's she's giving to you"
Wooooaw, such a revelation for me, i can't thank you enough.
That phrase hit me like a brick.
Itnis so true. My Ex was A beauty. But found it odd she was showing off pics in bikini while her male coworjer were commenting on that. I asked her to stop doing that cos I don't like it. Instead off saying ok she rather argue me. I spoiled her cos i Ioved her. And sometimes man aren't perfect too we all have red flags and itnis give and take. But the fact she love getting attention was a big thing for me.
@@enjoytheplays i feel you
Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her
wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
You are suffering from oneitis. I suggest that you read more masculine books especially the Rational Male series by Rollo Tomassi. Fix yourself because love is just but an illusion.
Getting back your ex is the worst idea!
Bro , this is a love spell. 100 %.😊
Dude just get another one its so simple life is too short . Just imagine she passed away . The best thing happen in a relationship when woman leave me , she just gives a chance to get a younger and more beautiful woman.
I was married, she cheated and left, I am done. I don't need this nonsense. Thanks Sadia, for opening my eyes. 🎉
Most guys should’ve learnt this through experience by the age of 25… one of the sad facts you have to face is often once a woman realises you can’t be manipulated she’ll completely lose interest & sometimes actually become quite unpleasant towards you.
Lived it but a little later in years lol. That's legit
Very true. Immature women who cN't manipulate a self respecting man are similar to the naughty kid in school who has contempt for the strict teachers who take no bs and instead the kid will gravitate toward the leanient teachers who let shit slide.
Needless to say that a mature high value woman won't encounter these issues as they never exist to begin with.
Theres literally no women like that. Theyre all into it, at some level or another and you have to have some allowance for it. The trick is to impress her on a higher level in order to make her manipulation productive for yourself. No, this is not a contradiction. She helps, she finds the details, she improves and makes beauty if youre on the same path. If theres no path then what are you even doing
@@NDakovic did you make that comment using google translate?
@@saneman7177 very appropriate response dude
Woman here. Sadia is 💯 percent right. A man with clear boundaries and who doesn't accept disrespect is seen as high value. Also, always be willing to walk away after disrepect no matter how beautiful the woman is. She will get in line if the feelings are mutual. 👍❤
Basically, women need to be treated like children to keep them in line? 😂 Sounds a little odd, from both perspectives. Personally I agree with everything Sadia said in this video, but it seems to me like this is more a problem with women's attitudes than it is with a guy's intentions?
@@MattitudePlays Most people push boundaries in new relationships (like children)...to see what they can get away with. Men and women both. Sadia is helping men with this advice. Sorry you see it this way. But it is just the truth.
Wow! Well said 🎉
Unless she is a narcissist she will run away when you expose the truth to her
@DefineHatespeech The right woman will hold herself accountable and change her disrespectful behavior when she sees she has crossed a boundary. That's the point. Sadia is right... She says that having a happy relationship starts with choosing the right person in the first place. If the woman has been disrespectful and you have shown her your boundaries, but she remains disrespectful...it's time to leave...no matter how attractive or beautiful/sexy she may be.
My ex walked all over me for 25 years because I didn't stand up for myself. Definitely, will not happen again with my new relationship. Learn to say no and stand strong with your boundaries
Exactly what I needed to hear. Going through it as I’m writing this. When she kissed someone else I forgive her but kept going with the same person and her excuse was I don’t have anyone else to hang out with, here I stepped back and ignored her she went into a roller coaster of emotions without addressing that she made mistake and she is willing to change, she only came when she feels down want me to tap on her shoulders. The fact is I believe in forgiveness life is too short to inflate your ego, but even that didn’t change she jumped into another man in less than month and called me to check if I had replacement ( I said I focused on myself) I don’t need to be in relationship just to continue living. She will come back either to make me feel bad or try to get me back to her, but I won’t pick up the phone anymore. I hope she heals, she was good until she wasn’t.
Thank you Sadia for your work
It’s been said, “charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting.”
'but a woman who fears the LORD is to be honoured' (Proverbs 30)
I had this happen to me last year, she was very charming (voice, smile and behaviour). Being in the position I am now (stronger) and looking back I can see her for what she really is, I thank God for protecting me from her and making me learn the lessons needed.
The more the body count and abuse drugs, cigarettes and alcohol in their youth the harder they hit the wall. I've seen so many pretty women I used to know that were in the party scene back in the day that are late 30's and 40's and damn near unrecognizable now. Straight up tadpole to frog, a few are my exes.
Guys just coping here, accept that she defeated you and that is over for you. Religion is just a coping mechanism, lool hahah.
@@AKrst3vsk1 Ever read Ecclesiastes 7 or Romans 7? It is true, we all might be simply hypnotized by aliens, who's fault is that? We may never know. 🦋🦋✝✝🤡🤡👽👽💀💀
This is spot on. I just dumped a gal after 4 episodes of disrespect (name calling). She actually was a pretty good person other than that - but the boundary had been crossed repeatedly and it was time to move on.
4 episodes? u should've left after the first & showed u were a beta male by letting her push past your boundaries 4 times & putting up with it. she already knew you were a doormat. imagine thinking she's a good person after calling you out of your name 4 times lol smh
It took you FOUR times???
@@asdfxcvbn746And you’ve just done the same by name calling and disrespecting that person……the irony 🤡
I’m glad you gained the strength to leave brother Ik it’s hard
It's a test U will pass next time from 1st go
How to know she's lying: Her mouth moves
This video confirmed it for me - there's no point in even bothering 🫠
When I was a kid, my mom would slap me almost every day. One day, when I was almost as tall as her, I stood my ground and put up my fists to defend myself. She backed off and never tried to hit me again. If you show weakness, you will be taken advantage of. If you show strength, you will be respected.
Damn dude, that never should have happened!
When I was a kid, my mother used to sit me out on the back porch and feed me with a slingshot every day. Then one day I became big enough to buy my own......
Sorry you had an abusive mother that is very traumatic
Samething happened to Me Max ✓
@@tikihutdweller5944 Buy your own what? Slingshot, mother, food, back porch ? Inquiring minds must know!
You manage to communicate a life changing information in eight minutes, that other so-called coaches can't explain in 30 minutes. That was solid.
Absolutely
Simply put- don't reward bad behavior. If a person crosses a reasonable boundary, tell them it's not acceptable. If they do it again, it will be met with actions, not words. Then do it! This indicates you do what you say, or, you can be trusted. Not following through shows at best you are all talk, or at worst, you are a deliberate liar. Neither is a good look to wear.
I concur with Sadia. Just be 1) polite, honest, & direct. 2) ensure that your words & actions ALIGN.
The rest should take care of itself.
No offense and it's worth reinforcing but most of this should be absurdly obvious.
@@Ace01..easy to say if you physically attractive, not if you aren’t. To allow a physically unattractive male to live by these rules is to basically consign him to a life of singledom and loneliness.
it's amazing what communication and boundaries will do. I told my newish gf that i was doing all the work in the relationship. When I got home she had cleaned my house, did my laundry, and made dinner.
It is truly shocking how well you can lay this out. I needed this advice 15 years ago, thank you!
If she’s breathing she’s lying
😂
They hold their breath and tell lies too
Hahahah😂
Yesssssss
This is the truest statement on the internet. Period. If a woman is speaking. She’s lying. He’ll. They lie in their sleep
Intelligence and depth of character is far more sexy than looks. There are so many beautiful women out there with ugly hearts
I’m dealing with this past week and yesterday I appreciate it to stand up and infuse great self respect. I have been watching your videos and I have found a fuel source I needed to make a breakthrough in my life at 42. Best regards!! I am open minded to navigate with a current toxic partner that I now don’t trust and cope and arm myself with confidence I need to stand my ground and expect to heal myself for over 8 years of wasted time it’s so stomache wrenching at the thought how far evil has grown being together for so long that the disrespect is out of control like getting out the car and being yelled at and people in the parking lot looking at me so humiliating and I just built callouses and powered through until i recently said enough
When I found about this lady I had to download all her podcasts. This lady is not painting pictures. This are true talks.
I'm chosing to walk away from her again and respect myself. Thank you.
again? that means you didn't do a good job the first time
👍
@@boomshine7i gave another chance aswell and broke myself 😭😭😭😭😭
@@laurivaltter We all make mistakes. In school, first you get lesson, then you get the test. In life, first you get the test, then you get the lesson. And the test will be repeated until the lesson is learned.
I am confident you learned the lesson, and you not be tested again.
Here's to a brighter tomorrow.
@@boomshine7 it's ok..at least now he is free and he was able to rise up from his weak mindset
Very right. Therefore in my own instance, I saw the red flags from the onset but chose not to take them seriously, thinking it is a man's utmost duty to chase a woman until it works or try to change who she is fundamentally. Does not turn out well, and I take the majority of the blame for ignoring the red flags.
1st commenter i`ve seen own it - well done!!
This is exactly what I found myself doing. I even thought after the chaos was over "I saw the red flags from the start" and I marched on thinking I could fix them, and whilst the crossed lines weren't cheating or stealing etc, there was a LOT of stuff I didn't address when it happened. I let it build up. That's on me.
For what it's worth , many of us have been down the same path - as long as we learn from it and run the other way next time
Yep, exactly. Men stay and try to fix a problem that doesn't want to get fixed. And women rely on that, they know they can behave as badly as they want and that he won't leave. They blame him for her behavior as a cherry on top.
Wow. Victim here. I feel like I can fix everybody and everybody.... especially her. What a shell of a man I have become. I can't fix anything with a woman who is no good. It's hard fellas but you must you must leave when you are disrespected. Boundaries must be set it only gets worse
Sadia. Thank you. I am a nurse and worked psychiatry too. Your insights are really valuable. I am in the middle of a crisis at the moment and I find it hard to just abandon ship. Over the years I embarked on a health journey to become the most fit person and the more mentally strong I could ever been. There is not a day that pass without me achieving religiously that goal. I see the manipulation, the emotional blackmail very clearly now. How every little sentences I say becomes the start of an argument for my partner, I see how the tables flips around and I am called disrespectful while having to hear many insults and tearing me down comments at the same time. I have a hard time creating the consequence of the boundaries. My boundaries are known, basically dont bring me problems without a dialogue about finding solutions, dont disrupt my peace just to lash out and be overly critical of everything. Etc. Inside of my heart I just want to leave and I feel like I cant. The old me got into a relationship with her but now I am in a different place I can see who truly put the work. Everytime I mention I want out of this toxicity I get the "oh now we see your true colors, thats why you didnt last with your exes etc" comments. Yeah, well. Besides looking really intimidating now, this part of my life prevents me from blooming into a smiling laughing happy or at least peaceful person. I developed anger issues, I react loudly now I am this "I am going to burn the whole world before you come burning me once again" mode.
Guys, the solution is simple; Don’t Fall in Love. Once you fall in love, you will start to lose your grounds. You may have boundaries in the beginning but soon as you fall for her, that’s the end. She will begin to test your love and how deep it is. Start doing things you warned her not to do. Begin talking to guys and once that love is deep, your power to walk away diminishes. The reason why they like bad boys is not about tattoos or piercings or dreads, it’s them being nonchalant and having the ability to not give a crap about your existence. Don’t fall in love, liking her enough.
You can love deeply and still walk away. I’ve loved all my girlfriends a lot, but as soon as they cross boundaries I told them about im gone. Some beg and apologize, some just let you go.
Guys, go your own way. No woman, no problem.
True.
I agree 💪
that aint what she's saying, she's saying real strong men should have boundaries and selfrespect
@@elcheleloco What is your definition of a "real strong man" ? Are you a "real strong man"?
@@elcheleloco That's not going to help you with the modern Western woman when she calls her pimp. {the government}
Once I had a girlfriend who had kids. My childhood was so wholesome that I tried to pass that to the kids too. So they had great family moments. But apparently she felt jealous of her own kids because I dedicated time to them, so she broke with me. Did I beg her to come back? No.
She met a guy who scammed her, so he took the money and left her a big debt. She told my brother it was a mistake to break with me. But by that time, I was already marred. Once I break, I do not look back. There is a reason why we broke and going back will not make it work. I always to my best and if that ends up being not good or not enough, not my problem. Breaking is the best solution for both.
see, you already failed at step 1. Having a gf with kids. IGNORE THESE SINGLE MOTHERS. They are single for a reason. They will never love like they love their kids.
You are not as good as you think. No high-value man will marry a single mother. No matter how good she is.
@@tonny9168 You got it wrong. High value is a matter of values and behavior supporting these values.
The good thing is that I do not need to prove anyone anything. Thinking is difficult, this is why people judge.
She was not a single mother. She was divorced. She met her man at the church, but some years after marrying he started to get drunk, spend the salary at the bar and came up empty handed, and one day she discovers he had an affair. Her only option was to get divorced, find a job and be the provider at home.
Her father always kept her away from men, but since this man was from the church, he did not oppose the marriage. That husband was her first man in her life. I know her mother and father, who verified the story.
Do you see how bad you judged her? Many people depict church men as simps. This was the opposite case. She thought a man from the church would have the proper values to form a family. But he did not. Church men are just like other men in the street,.
@@tonny9168 maybe you overwatch this new craze of men obsessed with relationships the way women are but they hide behind "manhood coach",alpha e.t.c, because even hard sciences have general laws , theories, postulates but you seem to think that what your relationship 'gurus' tell you are absolutes
Thank you so much. You’re very intelligent, and I very much hope that hundreds of young women watch this video
I believe many men who struggle with asserting themselves with women might have been raised by narcissistic mothers. In such environments, any attempt to establish personal boundaries during childhood was likely met with punishment, ingraining a pattern of behavior that persists into adulthood. Asserting oneself could have made things worse, leading to a learned helplessness in standing up for oneself. While I may be projecting my experiences to some extent, I'm convinced that distancing oneself from such a toxic influence and focusing on personal growth is crucial. Embracing your autonomy and worth is, in my view, one of the most transformative steps you can take.
💯 agree.
Not always the case. Some men may not look attractive physically. Whether it is height, facial looks etc so it will have some impact on their confidence
literally my childhood experience...learning to unlearn learned patterns and behaviors now in my adulthood
Very perceptive comment.
Dude you can literally not be a parent who doesnt set boundries. No child can set a boundry, its your job and obligation as a parent to do that for them. Makes little to no sense in context you said it. You set your boundries with ur buddies, gfs etc and with ur parents eventually when ur an adult
This is true. Many years ago I ignored red flags consistently from women & the damage to me was devastating. It destroyed an already shattered self esteem. Now I have zero tolerance to them.
Now you will be treated as the King of your Castle
@@slydoskibelieveinc.7748 You have to have self respect & follow your own path. What I’ve experienced is that the more beautiful the woman the more headaches she causes. The sheer self canteredness is excessive.
@@NoName-jq7tj no, it's opposite in my case she was very ugly, still I loved her by heart. Im handsome, rich guy. Still got over confident & cheated me, despite she had proposed me 😢😮
Same happened with me, on the positive note, they broke us and we rebuilt ourselves better than we were before. I'm actually glad I went through that experience, it's almost like they slapped it out of us lol (she wasn't physical though)
This might be the best commentary I've ever seen on this subject in a nutshell. Have had issues with this my entire life in investing myself in women who I had a passionate connection with on one level but who did not respect or truly care about me or the relationship as time went on. It was all about them.
I could almost give you a hug for so much truth and love
I went silent and now I avoid them... too manipulative, even to complete strangers.
I liken that to pure evil.
Manipulation is accomplished through lying. So when Sadia said in the beginning that women never lie, she was lying.
BillKlacks is cool too?
2:46 That makes soo much sense value the respect over the connection she is giving you. Currently going through a divorce and trying to understand 😢 thanks Sadia
Stay strong! Also going thru one as well
Ive been looking for this channel, ever since seeing a couple of clips. Very pleased its finally shown up in my recommendations, subscribed straight away. Your advice and explanations are top end.
Your insight is so succinct and rendered in such simple language yet I can tell it's based on years of study and work. Keep up the good fight!
This woman is so interesting. She doesn't seem to have the anger so many people who talk about the opposite sex have, whether it's the men talking about women or the women talking about men.
Couldn’t agree more
She’s selling something and she knows her target audience.
@sloebone7399 💯 but she's good at it and she knows it! 😅
Her anger does come out against men
@@sloebone7399 she is selling the truth. At least you know it's correct.
Effectively, actions speaks LOUDER than words.
By action, mean body language. Demeanors is a better tell tale sign
Perfect advice! Lived it many times! I never loose an argument and never let them win ever! They will grovel.
The best advice and video I’ve ever seen. I watched it 20 or more times to memorise it. It describes the whole demise of marriage in my life. She picked early on that my mother was abusive and that’s all she needed.
Lessons I unfortunately had to learn the hard way. This is 100% spot on.
Me too
It appears after watching numerous videos like these women are simply children. They need somebody to give them boundaries and otherwise hold them accountable because they are incapable of doing it themselves. Why would anyone get with a person like that?
On the other end of the spectrum after setting boundaries, you get told that you are a control freak just like all men & then she continues to stab you in the back to her friends about how controlling you are making them all have an unjustified bad opinion of you. It's a lose-lose situation.
yeah just be homosexual, problem solved Bradley.
To clean your house and cook your meal
As mundane as might come across., this is exactly it - and Sons too We like Sons 💪🏾 @@mikkischuk3634
😂 I guess you took the easy way out huh? @@orionp.9476
I can vouch for her that she is absolutely right. She’s spilling the facts based on a female’s psyche, which is so relatable tbh.
Hi Doctor. My name is Shai from NYC, USA ( LOVE your healing work) ... Wow!! you spoke to me in this Video. Your examples used was you literally describing my prior/current situation w/ my Ex Son's Mother.... YOU KNOW!!! what you speak of. I should have known that she would denied me my Only child ( til' this day/ 6 years already).... I met her w/ 3 frim her prior and kept him from them and i thought "Captain StepDad " would’ve worked BUT it FAILED terribly!... you also hit the nail w/ upbringing>> I did not have a Loving Mother, abusive and on drugs.... while i dont have those traits , I seem to consistently attract Women that are Toxic and moreover "Dominant" .. even if its few words> please shed light over me...?😔😔
I wish I had heard your content 4 years ago. Thank you for sharing, it’s really made a difference in my life hearing this.
Me too!
Casey Zander is the master, look him up
Simply they have too many options and also no consequences for cheating...sums it up
I learned that the hard way...pain, rage, disappointment , OMG lesson learned thank you!
You have the most accurate truth I've ever heard in my entire life.
Facts hitting hard thank you Sadia! 47 year old lad out here
As someone who’s been blessed to attract beautiful women whether through the physical, demeanor or being an artist I’m definitely going to share this vid to my male inner circle as it contains irrefutable truth. Sometimes we “Win” in locking her down as a girlfriend but “Lose” due to the motives behind her choosing us.
That last sentence. I can relate so much to that haha
last thing was very wise!
@@facelessandnameless ikr lol
@@svtk5104 much appreciated 🙏🏾
I am Thankful for this video.
You have brought to me, so much peace.
Glad I learnt this on youtube instead of experiencing something worse in real life
If she's breathing, she's lying
That sounds like a psycho version of "if their lips are moving, they're lying" lol
Facts facts facts....DO NOT IGNORE THOSE RED FLAGS. EVERYONE HAS THEM BUT CHOOSE WHICH ONES IS WORTH DEALING WITH AND SHE IS ABLE TO WORK ON.
I needed this video before I got married. Great video!
Thank you Sadia 🙏 I didn't receive the consistent love you were talking about as a child and have been working with this for a while now. In you breaking down the mechanics of this, I feel a clarity presenting that unifies all the work I've been doing and streamlines it for understanding and implementation! Deep Gratitude!
There is so much truth to this. I grew up that way. Because I never received that unconditional love I accepted whatever I could get from women in realtionships. So this lead to being lied to and accepting it. This lead to being cheated on ect. It took time for me to learn my childhood tramas and see that I was allowing all of this which made me bitter. Boundaries are so important for a realtionship and yourself.
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This was really good. It was truthful and didn’t beat around the bush or sugarcoat, and taught. It didn’t make me feel stupid or like I was being accused of oddly cheating on / hurting myself.
Thanks for your presentation. I've fallen into this cycle. But now I've broken this connection to understand myself and behaviour and women's red flags My new life started 6 days ago. No contact. No begging. Equals no pain. Thanks again 😊
Great short vid, lots of truth!
I 100% ignored multiple red flags in my past relationship in the beginning & throughout. Can almost certainly say my trauma as a child led me to not set boundaries from the get go. In doing so i definitely clung onto the connection rather than leaving the relationship, respecting & putting my health & wellness 1st. I can now say I've learned a very valuable tough leesson &
I wont be ignoring any red flags in my future relationship.
Thankyou!
Omitting key details is lying, this is something I can't tolerate. When it comes to those behaviours that are contrary to the kind of person she is, I can agree that we tend to ignore things until they become too much.
This is how we learn to heal our toxicity. love is a very powerful thing even if it is one sided.. It changes you for better..
Thank you very much for the eye opening information,, iv known the truth all along but didn’t want to believe it. But lately she’s shown me she clearly doesn’t care anymore and that I’m only a convenience to her because I buy every thing and give her the love she’s not receiving on the side.
« Women never ever ever lie »
For sure..
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Followed up by the just don’t tell you the truth. I can’t believe that was said. This is good content to stir up incels that’s about all
This message today resonates with me at how far I’ve come in my journey … I’m not a big fan of yours but I listened to this today and you are spot on sister! If this message helps even one soul, there is a star up in heaven above.
Your exactly right ... I’m the perfect example of what you discussed .
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Listening intently
I came from the reels for the laughs but there is actually some good stuff here
The worse women are the ones that appear to be everything you wanted in life but are extremely private and passive aggressive. Social media on lock down, cell phone on lock down, vague in communicating or punish you by silence. It doesn’t matter how stylish they dress, success in career, success in money, light of the party. They mostly cheat because the need for validation and attention is too strong to stay loyal.
Same applies to men here too
Wise man
True very true maan
So true, best comment in here so far.
This is true and have known this for the last 2 years after having dated more than a few bad apples. However it is virtually impossible to meet a woman nowadays who doesn't do at least one of these things sometimes
Your looking in the wrong places.
@@MagoCelta Where should he look then?
@@niallg3551 not at -church, work, gym, bars/clubs, school, online dating apps- . I think all of those have been eliminated. What's left? Who knows?
By design, I think.
@@MagoCeltaWhere are the right places
Top notch. The delivery is spot on. Kind of video rewatch.
This video is pure gold. Thank you.
Facts. The last few chicks I dated were from the same recovery community, with various amounts of sobriety, so I thought that our common bond and foundation would be built on that. I ignored the red flags because I figured “she doesn’t have nearly as much clean time as I do, so maybe it’ll take some patience.” The more red flags I saw, I started to realize “even when I first started out sober, I wasn’t this bad, I wasn’t even mean to people or rude, this is just how these chicks ARE”. The last one got comfortable enough to start yelling at me, in MY car, bitching that I wouldn’t take her to the mall, because at the time I had a hose leak in my car which made it overheat (it’s all fixed now, see CZcams channel 😅) anyways, I was thinking to myself “this is what we’re doing now? So be it 😌” I pulled over and said “hold on, who the fuck you think you talkin to like that?” She was 😳 I told her that I’ve been patient with her bullshit long enough, but if she’s gonna sit there and act like I’m on her payroll, while she talks shit to me in MY car, there’s the sidewalk. Hit it. She shut tf up and stared out the window. The moral of the story is, you can’t win nasty over with kindness, don’t ignore the red flags, ignore the whole damn woman, or it’ll cost you.
Thank you Sadia i needed to hear this message 🙏🏼
Totally picking up what Sadia is putting down.
Paul Elam spoke these very same words many years ago.
Quite a breath of fresh air to have a woman concur perfectly with his views.
Thank you.
It all comes down to self awareness. Then comes self respect and compassion. Our world is but a mere reflection of who we are...stay strong!
This is from the perspective of someone growing low-vibration, traumatized people. Not people that do the internal work. This is not referring to ALL of either gender..
I hope this is kept in mind by the listeners, so they don't mistake it as a blanket description of behavior.
Most people who grow up in today's day and age have some trauma. I usually assume someone has trauma when talking to them, but I still try to enforce boundaries to see how they react to it first. Depending on how they react, I know whether to bring them closer to my life.
Wise words
This is the MOST accurate advice 😮and comment I have ever heard this is 10000 correct 💯 and I will definitely take this advice
Very true. You need to learn and practice saying NO. If you are indeed brought up like that, this requires years of practice. Not an easy thing
I always learn so much! Thank you for sharing ❤
Please note: This video doesn't apply to Narcissists that have abused and hounded their partners to the point that they are disrespectful due to the frustration from the abuse you've caused! 🙏
THANK YOU for your video. I dont have any issues mentioned here but i thought it would be interesting to hear the psychology behind all of it. And i am grateful because when you mentioned that a lot of this behaviors has to do with the Child's up bringing. Made me realize that i need to be much more gentle, and much more apologetic to my little girls. I loose my temper very easily and realize i overreacted AFTER the damage has been done and i NEED to let them know that that is NOT acceptable behavior from me and apologize to them. Because i dont want them thinking the flaws they see in me as their father is the Standard for a suitable partner when they go out to the world. I need to show them as a man that i too make mistakes and that man also NEEDS to and MUST apologize to them when they are wronged. and it starts at home.. with me.
Some things are better left unknown. Checking each other's phone or social media is probably the most toxic thing that can happen in a relationship.
Hiding the truth is called lying!
That is one of my boundaries..🤷♂️
A girl can dare to cheat on me , she can dare to disrespect me, change her behaviour, start playing games - if she ever does I'm out and ignoring her forever. Wish all men follow this 💯💯💯
You saved my life, thank you. Love from Brazil
Hey she doing the I am not responsible for my own actions thing again.#1 they never lie.
Thank you big sis for all the info! Stay blessed as always 🙏🏾💯