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“Make sure you’re investing in the right ones” & “reward gratitude not entitlement” That is some solid advice.
It's silent and deceptive entitlement, not gratitude.
WOW how profound hahaha this is the problem people admire common sense its actually insane who on gods earth doesn't know that already come on people my god
No Pornography, No Drugs and No Alcohol... YOU ARE A GEM!
I agree with Sadia
I'm 47 with 5 kids and I worked hard to lose the baby weight and look good. Not just for my husband, but for myself, because midlife crisis hit hard and I'm clawing on to what's left of my youth 😂
This guy said "as long as you keep him attracted your fine." Well, if a woman has a duration of a decade that she's pregnant, nursing, & postpartum...that's going to be a decade of not being in tiptop shape. So good thing he let us know ahead of time he can't be a reliable husband during family baring years when she needs him the most. Women suffer lots of mental challenges as well during these hormonally delicate times.
I love your open mindedness and how well you interact with the interviewer asking him questions showing curiosity which must make it much more interesting for him too.
Its not even about sex and getting women etc, men's addiction to porn runs so much deeper. If you look at the lives of men addicted to porn, you'll see they lack real human connections and interactions. That's what it is. The good thing is for any guys reading this that have that addiction, is that you can get over it fast. The idea of just abstaining is proven to fail. You need to actually get out into the real world and genuinely interact with folks and build friendships etc. Do it daily. In 90 days, you're a brand new person. One way to do this is sign up to kickboxing or something similar that is a class setting. Go one hour daily, watch how different you feel and look in 30 days.
I Agree! But, it's not only the addiction to porn, it's also the addiction to social media and that 'False Courage' that comes from hiding behind a screen and typing. Anyone can front Courage in hiding but to get out there in the Real World and Advance Towards That Woman That You Are Interested In is what truly shows Your Courage and Mettle...
... I, Myself, enjoy the adventure of advancing towards a Woman in the Real, Face To Face, 'See Me Eye To Eye' type of situation and occurrence. It's just so much more Gentlemanly and True. And, it Really takes One being Courageous. And, even if the Woman that a Man advances towards in the Real isn't interested, She still appreciates and admires His courage. She most likely will never tell You that but She does because it's the TRUTH Of Things...
This is it right here. If you focus on quitting porn it’s super unnecessarily hard. Just focus on creating the life you want and you’ll get there eventually.
Most people don’t want to better themselves though. Most people are very content with the idea of comfortability which is sad.
@jimmyjohnny1 the fact that it's hard means you're addicted. If your can't just stop then you are addicted.
The interviewing man seems immature. He kept saying "girls", he thinks the toughest thing for a woman is getting older, so it tells me he knows nothing about women. He tells his "girl" immediately when she puts on some weight instead of asking what could be going on in her life. He is entitled and primitive and I doubt he can make any woman happy outside of spending money on her. Seems like the types of "girls" he likes would 'upgrade" him for the next sugar daddy. Sadia is very poised with her answers and too classy to rub it in his face.
Imagine a woman would tell her husband, I noticed you haven't gotten a raise in the past year, I am not attracted to you anymore and will be looking at other men from now on. So primitive!
I've seen a couple negative comments about Mark. It's been a lesson for me to never judge or make an opinion of someone after a few brief comments in a video. I hope you'll take the time to watch videos on his channel. I've never perceived him to be a primitive entitled person but I can see where you could make that opinion from the few comments he's made. The entire video is on his channel "soft white underbelly". Would really like to know what you think after watching his videos. He gives freely of his time & money. Maybe, I'm wrong & there's another learning lesson in this for me. I'm usually not easily deceived so I'd really like your further opinion after viewing his channel. Thanks.
I agree. I didn't like "oh we will get you drunk tonight" uhm no. respect my boundaries and values. Idiotic behavior by him. i'd be turned off immediately. And sadia was so graceful and said "good luck" and changed the subject. Good girl. it's like someone saying "oh let's start smoking" no dude. no. He is divorced. And still wants sex fast as he says in the interview. And loses attraction and bails. PASS. Imagine if he had a medical condition he couldn't control. What makes you think he isn't going to chase after the next "hot" girl. Physical is so superficial. it's like a girl showing her body off and attracting men. They are going to chase after the next woman who shows it. That isn't a real relationship. Cuz is immature for sure.
And sadia will gain weight too when she hits menopause and gives birth. Your body changes. We aren't 22 anymore. She is not speaking from first hand experience. A good man will stay with you and a good woman will show they are trying. PCOS can develop through no fault of the woman's. Both miss the mark here
You are not losing out by putting fake, physical stuff into your mind.
Consider yourself lucky if you have never done that.
It just makes you feel like you are missing out on something.
Sadia is the best !!!❤
Sadia..I am an admiring woman .Love your I telligence, practical advise and you are so beautiful. You have not missed anything by abstaining from alcohol.You will not age like your peers who do drink
Amazing podcast thank you ❤
I love this channel ❤
Men don't reward women who are greatful to what they get from them or don't ask them much is 100% true.
This is from my personal experience. These women are not needy but have respect for thier partner. Sad reality. If my man doesn't ask for anything but greaful to have me, then I will be more curious to find out what he likes, buy him things and do things to make him happy.
Thank you
I really agree with the fact that women who expect less are rewarded less
When I myself was a “I want more” woman, I got more and was praised by men. Now as I try to be more grateful in my relationship, I face less effort. Why are we built this way 😂
Hypergamy, solipsism and Briffault's Law. Look them up and educate yourself and share your findings with other women. They won't listen typically, but at least you tried.
How hard is it to be grateful after being “I want more” your whole life?
@@raritica8409 well, I got bachelors degree in psychology 😂 also working with a therapist. Still quite hard though
@@valeriakeiira975 Well done! But be honest, being grateful should come naturally when we receive blessings.
@@valeriakeiira975 Congratulations. But you must be joking! Finding gratitude can be so simple and rewarding, many people go without any luxuries!
The part at 14:00 is gold.
Sadia, I just finished your videos on Mark's channel. @ 16:27 YES, reward grateful women. Don't reward just to stop the entitled woman from complaining and/or because you think it makes her happy. I added the second part. You have wonderful advice. I sincerely hope many men take the time to listen. You're a tremendous asset to the mental health community.
There's so much that stuck with me but the part about the Asian girl that marry's a man from a different culture & age & how she will still think about that young man she knew that was selling nuts along side the road. That is so true. Our backgrounds, upbringings & cultures should be similar. That's why I struggle with the relationships I've seen with the big difference in age. What could they honestly have in common? It's extremely shallow.
If you taught at a college or online, I'd probably enroll. I really would. I shared in another comment the only A+ I ever obtained in college was in my Abnormal Psychology class. It was fascinating. I will take the time to check into your Patreon. Thank you, for being here.
Sadia, I wouldn’t say it’s a courage issue when it comes to initiating a conversation with a woman. In my opinion, it would be the rejection. Especially if you have been rejected before. I remember you saying, date within your league and I get that. I guess at what I’m trying to say is. I have acne scars, so right there my confidence is completely shattered. I used to be so outgoing, have great friendships, talk to any woman it did not matter. I have been getting better though throughout the years. Hopefully this clinic gets back to me about getting rid of my acne scars and hopefully I get my confidence back to 100 percent. I would like to thank you though and your stellar morals, much love and respect.
learned helplessness
I can reassure you that there are women that will look right past those scars or not even notice them. There's still women who genuinely look at a man's heart. It seems to be harder now than it was years ago when I was dating but I'm sure there's women out there especially those that have also been rejected because of some type of physical feature. I have empathy for you being rejected. People can be extremely cruel especially today with the self centeredness in many.
Dear Zen with the acne scars… listen.. when we ladies fall in love with a man; we see beyond the scars.. we ladies are capable to see the soul.
If you are a gentleman, kind, funny (especially funny) honest pure, and look at my eyes when I talk…
You got my heart.
Focus on beautifying your soul other than the outside.
I telling you this with lots of love and respect.
Sincerely..
Delia❤
Fascinating 😅
Me ex was addicted to porn and it was such a turn off. It made him appear so weak in my eyes.
Amazing ❤❤❤❤
Such an elegant and attractive woman
A lot of this sounds like surface things and being caught up in the things that society and the world get mesmerized by with focusing mostly on the outward of an individual. And, Yes, I know that as humans what We 'SEE' is one of the initial things for Us to be attracted or drawn to another but there is so much more that is important than being so focused on the outward. I always say, if One is attractive but an Asshole with an unattractive attitude, character, personality or mindset, that One becomes unattractive...
... And, I notice that the conversation turned to emotions and connection, which is what keeps relationships strong and able to endure...
... Also, this conversation is between two individuals that seem to have money and material, speaking on how it is for them and/or how it is for individuals with 'things.' I feel that the conversation should be between a group of individuals from different backgrounds with varying lifestyles to get a broader perspective...
... There are some Good tidbits here but mostly it seems to be about Societal and Worldly Things and that isn't the Truth of True Loving Relationships...
... Sadia, I would Love the opportunity to sit and talk to You about some of these topics. We would really have some Great things floating in the atmosphere around Us during Our exchange. Can You tell Me how a conversation between Us could happen?...
-MP
You got vulnerable like it
15 yrs and still going strong....
Eleven years for myself & my husband. Anniversary is this Wednesday. We were together 5 years prior to marriage. Thanks, for sharing. I really like hearing about people that stay together through the good times & the bad.
Hi checking in went to bed early
Sadia you know you are the best, thank you so much for showing up, showing out, speaking the truth, remember lunch on me when I come to Dubai, and I was about to say, the guy doing your interview wonder why his ex girlfriend didn't appreciate him, he doesn't sound like a great giver, if he is, he doesn't give from the heart, no worries we all have work to do, all is well, stay blessed and let's go! 👪👪👪👪👪👪
Hello, I rarely comment about another person but I've been following Mark's channel for a few years. He is one of the most giving people I've ever seen that genuinely gives from the heart. I hope you will take the time to look at his channel. He gives freely so much of his time & money. He has a wonderful heart. You will see it quickly. I don't know about his relationships but I can assume she was a taker & had been given to by a lot of people which probably started with her family. She also probably never had to need or want for anything. Therefore, she doesn't understand the concept of appreciation. Hope this helps. It's just my observation & opinion. I sincerely hope you will take the time to watch some of Mark's videos . He often visits skid row in LA & poverty stricken areas including Appalachia. I've honestly never seen anyone give as much as he has to people he doesn't know. I've told him many times "he's as rare as finding a diamond in a West Virgina coal mine". Yes, he's that rare. Take care...
smart and beautiful. sorry had to give u some validation.
I❤ you Sharron
The truth is no relationship or marriage is guaranteed, you can do all you can to save something or someone and the truth is people cannot save themselves sometimes
Women should look into who are capable to offer what they're asking for. Before I accept to get dinner with someone I look to see if he's under the table looking for crumbs or if he's able to sit with me to eat like civilized people. Too busy? Picky with his resourses : money, time, energy? How fast does he call me? Messages are for boys. Men call. Initiative? No? bye, not changing diapers. Instead of taking someone trying to change, better run, putting yourself first. I would never give my magic resourses to a man that guaranteed nothing to give me in exchange.
So well said!
Good points. But just make sure you're also not someone a man needs to change, meaning you have what the man you desire is looking for in a woman
most men reward entitlement not gratitude❤🔥❤🔥🔥
I am so grateful she said this. I don’t think men understand how they contribute to why women are moving the way that they are with the entitlement
There is nothing to save it is and never was my place I am here and it is your choice..
The interviewer seems pretty healthy
May Allah guide you to the right path
Women also lose attraction in their partner who gained weight and got older.
Got older 😅
What is hard about being a woman. Loneliness.
14:27 whew
How do u look on insaights
How do you feel another person’s emotional energy
You do not take to account that any woman can ruin your life.
It is not courage.
It is suicide mission.
It is not if, It is when.
Regards.
Omg ❤
We need more restricted up bringing
What’s wrong with your top Sadia? x
I was wondering the same thing. xx
Mic?
She looks hot nonetheless
@@danbaltic9678 yes, so elegant and beautiful
You are beautiful and elegant with such good content on living fulfilled life 😁😁 thank you
It’s good to be religious, only chaste women can be am inspiration to men in the idea of giving it all to a family if the woman will also value taking care of the children Has Her Husband’s Legacy
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We're just over complicating things here. I'm trained as a life coach and its as simple as mutual respect.
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Women get respect as she exist. We must earn respect.
@@piotrekmajkowski5422 if you are just giving a woman the utmost respect for just existing and giving of yourself to her proactively just for existing, you are your own problem. I sure don't do that.
@Dominic-te4sl I mean really, if someone isn't respecting you, why would you hang around? Too much of the manosphere focuses on running game, negging blah blah blah one million different strategies for figuring out and getting women and getting them to respect you and it's all bullshit. Just don't fuck with those that don't respect you from a basic human perspective. While a woman might not be interested in you, if she's at least a good human being, she's not going to treat you like shit. But guys out there can't even seem to figure this basic stuff out. It's not all their fault. There are a lot of charlatans in the manosphere there to take these types of guys' money.
Is there a podcast from her giving advice for short men? She once said that unattractive men can compensate his lookings by being funny or charming etcetera... but what about being short? There's nothing you can do, yo can be the most funniest guy in the world. If you are not loaded or famous women barely talk to you. Can someone tell me if she once talked about this topic?
is this for Mark Laita's "soft white underbelly"??
Yes
Yes, there's an entire video on his channel.
@@whippoorwillholler740 thank you
This woman gives me the Willie's.
So does that guy. Creepy.
When does this video ACTUALLY start?!
What are your credentials? Which college did you study? Where is your certificates, doctorate? Does anybody have any proof that she is an actual psychologist with a college degree?
Assuming she has all that, what’s truly motivating you to ask that question? How would an answer in the affirmative help your personal life?
@@bobw2034 I’m assuming she doesn’t have that. My life won’t change either way, my life isn’t dictated by CZcams personalities.
My long distance wife wants to divorce because she found out i texted someone(girl) but didn't sleep with her. Now she is blaming me on cheating. I think i was guilty for this but i didn't think it would be enough for divorce... any advice please ?
Mark collapsed under her beauty and I know she saw it lol. He normally so real with everyone else and if he just would have been himself I believe honestly could have had at least a casual date later to see more about what he's all about. Swing and a miss for such a cool ass G 🙏🏼
A simple answer.Dont get into a relationship.You only get ripped off.
What if she doesn’t ask for anything and you still invest in her and she doesn’t appreciate it.
Weight gain is reason to say good bye
@1:12 I thought the gateway to Alcohal was milk...
You better get lawyered up seems like they trying to set you up !
Women don't let themselves go because of Kids or not having time.
Women let themselves go for not being appreciated and loved by their husbands.
Right worn tf down by lifes demands.
Not being appreciated and loved by their husbands could definitely be a reason. But there are surely so many other reasons a woman may let herself go.
Men let themselves go, too 😢.
Men and women benefit in lifting one another up. It is in giving that we receive.
We all (men and women) must take full accountability for our lives. There are so many amazing resources to help us thrive - we have to be willing to seek them out.
For me, it starts with my connection to Spirit. And then finding the balance with everything else.
Much love ❤️.
Dont try alcohol or porn
Who is he? Name? Thanks
No Sadia you cant start watching p rn now 😂
Right so much trauma and alot of them are probably sex trafficked. So sad, thought she was smarter.
@@ladymiss9134 : i dont think she will proceed to watching even for reason such as in aid to make her understand it better. We all know p rn is not good period :)
Why all the older guys saying don’t get married?
The interviewer sounds like he's 4 years old.
I find it almost impossible to reward entitlement. Doesn't motivate me in any way whatsoever. In fact, it's a huge red flag, and a major turn-off. It makes me want to try less, if at all. Because I'll think, "Doesn't matter what I do. It will never be good enough." You'll never buy or perform an entitled person to happiness. 'Humility before Honor' - in everything. Always.
That's what I was thinking. That a man who has self-respect and a mind of his own would think exactly the way you just described.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts 🙏🏼.
you are a goddess
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Hi sadia. She owes me 5,000$ that I'm paying Interest on. She is trying to squirm out of paying me back. I broke up with her and told her we won't be friends. She justifies her bad behavior and refuses to accept responsibility or take accountability. Only excuses. She demands to have my affection but refuses to respect me.
The interviewer calls women “girls” and blames the woman when he loses interest 😅
If i get compared to an ex ....bye
These guys should buy her a home gym.
Then the guys can complain if she does nothing about it.
It takes a lot of energy to run out to the gym after a hard day's work.
Entitled women end up divorced and alone in the long run. Men eventually get worn out.
Nope, you dont cheat on your lady period! Ever ! Keep the shit out of the home. Fck no
I don't think that is generally true. If you recognize a gold digger and have experience with gold diggers you will know to avoid them. Just like women are drawn to bad boys. You can get your heart broken only so many times before you learn the lesson that a bad boy doesn't make a for a good partner.
We are drawn to people of the opposite sex whose self worth is equal to our similar to ours. A therapist specialized in trama psychotherapy said, "we are often in a relationship with someone whose trauma is similar to ours".
@@v9b23j Except most people are not psychologists to know they have a trauma or recognize it in others. When i see an attractive woman, i'm not looking for her trauma. I'm a simple man. Plus the psychotherapy field is out of its mind. Just look at Freud and the nonsense he tried to rationalize and justify. Those who live in the western world don't really know what trauma is. If you listen to the modern-day psychologists you'd think everybody has been "traumatized" somehow. Our grandparents had trauma after fighting in WW2 seeing all the pain and suffering humans can cause to one another. They got out alive while their friends didn't, got married, started a family, built a house, provided for the family and were also respected members in society. We know nothing about trauma by comparison.
@@defiantrascal6214 Thank you for sharing your POV. My understanding of trauma is not what we experienced, but the meaning we assign to our experience. It is also how our nervous system reacted and perceived our experience. So trauma is subjective to the person who experienced it.
This one of your videos that I have to disagree with . I know so many beautiful women who ve gotten cheated on by their average and over weight partners, including myself. I feel like they have more courage when they ve obtained a pretty arm candy partner. Also, why would you want to watch porn knowing most of those women are acting out of sexual trauma. This is one of your most ignorant interviews.
No u shouldn’t watch filth
Her open mindedness will help her understand people even more
It’s not about understanding people , God will give her the proper understanding when she keep her heart pure and purified from any filth . Watching filth will have a great impact in her heart in ways we don’t even understand. Keep filth away from hearing and watching will equal to a purification of the heart . We need to look out for our hearts before we can understand other people .
When challenged about his personal life this fella folded like an old deck chair. - totally failed to express himself.
He's kinda intrusive
No, you should not watch it.
Why do you allow interuptions so much, you cut people off and you let people do it to you. I personally wont allow that . Its an anoyance I wont allow . If you can not or will not allow me to fully express myself ( say what I'm saying to it's end) , then you get told a few times and if you cant correct it then I put you in a lower class because you are .
What's hard about being a woman? Really?
He interrupts with immature responses.
The way you have dressed makes the viwer uncomfortable.
Don't, it will not enhance your wisdom in any way to try porn.
Trump2024
How can you talk about something you've never seen...
The man speaking is so closed off to reality 😅 make it stopppp. Love Sadia tho
Sometimes they just appear closer than they really are czcams.com/video/3jPMv9zJ1LE/video.htmlsi=flEKIb3kcEa2Tuv5
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What is hard about being a woman. Loneliness.