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- "The Biggest Mistake Men Make About Women's Attraction | Sadia Khan Reveals the Truth"
Welcome to our latest video where Sadia Khan delves into one of the most misunderstood aspects of relationships: attraction. đ Do men really believe that women donât care about looks? Think again!
In this eye-opening discussion, Sadia Khan tackles the biggest misconception men have about women and attraction. Itâs not just about looks, but the kind of attraction women feel versus what men typically value. Hereâs what youâll learn in this video:
1. *The Misconception:* Many men think women arenât concerned with attraction. This video breaks down why thatâs a huge mistake.
2. *Attraction Differences:* Discover how womenâs criteria for attraction can differ drastically from menâs. Women need to find a man attractive, but what does "attractive" mean to them? đ§
3. *Buying Love:* Sadia explains why you canât buy a woman's love or please her into loving you. Spoiler: Genuine attraction is irreplaceable!
4. *The Consequences:* Understand why so many men end up heartbroken when they try to win love through material gifts or favors.
5. *Real Love:* Learn what truly makes a woman fall in love and how mutual attraction forms the basis of a respectful, loving relationship.
đ *Key Takeaways:*
- Women do care about attraction, but their perception might surprise you.
- Kindness, respect, and genuine connection outweigh material gestures.
- Heartbreak often stems from misunderstanding what women really want.
đ *Watch now to transform your understanding of attraction and relationships!*
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If youre a smart man, do not proceed with attracting her. Observe first to see if she has the right characters you want. Then if the boxes are checked, you may proceed with attracting her with the superficial stuffs like richness, materials, gestures. Because once the superficial stuff will get rusty and stale, whats left is her character and usually people with the right characters choose wisely. Character is for life. Of course it goes both ways.
âMoney comes and goesâŠ
Beauty fadesâŠ
Character staysâ. Me-
A lot of women find men attractive if other women already find him attractive. So don't worry about attracting them to soon, one lady might be to shallow for you but her friend who is not so shallow might become attracted to you after the fact. So flirt first ask questions later.
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"Money comes and goes, beauty fades, and character stays".
Itâs all about ATTRACTION
You must know how to ACTIVATE IT..
If sheâs never attracted she will NEVER follow youâŠ
Also attraction is multi faceted
@@Sarcasmarkus itâs the âcopyâ effect and âsocial proofâ
If other women are attracted to you it signals you have âvalueâ or âstatusâ
_âAttraction is NOT a choiceâ_ - Corey Wayne
This quote within itself should urge men to just focus on themselves and their purpose; the right woman will orbit you.
The feminine is DESIREDâŠ. SEEN⊠by the masculineâŠ. The masculine hunts⊠hunts⊠this isnât âchasingâŠâ big difference my Padawan
Some men think they can convince a woman to find them attractive.
You're right. I believe that is her point đ
â@@MadisonChloeLoves and were do you think men got this notion from?
Its always women who say that if a guy treat her good she find it sexy...
And i always tell guys if she doesn't find you attractive she will only see you as friend no matter how good you treat her.
Just be yourself an don't lie, if she's into you you'll know if not get on with ya life be real be cool be happy be kind
Bad advice / if youâre not attractive you need to grow and change and become more attractive or you wonât mate.
How important the role of physical attraction is can be debated; but it cannot be dismissed. So here is what I say to you: Make yourself more attractive. Lift weights. Eat healthy. Have good posture. Keep yourself well-groomed. Smile. Only speak when you actually have something to say. You will likely be the most attractive man in the room.
Nope. Don't smile if you want to be more attractive to women. Studies show (if you want to read it, I'll link it) that meanwhile men considers women who smiles more attractive, women scores smiling men the lowest in attraction, even lower than a man who feels shame or regret. That doesn't mean you can't smile sometimes while speaking to her, but don't laugh around and smile around like a fool. That's feminine.
@@fergoka You contradicted yourself. Good luck.
I do all of this but still nothing lol
It's true bro don't laugh like a fool in front of herâ@@pauldixon6217
â@@fergokaDon't confuse smiling and laughter. Sense of humour is a masculine trait and the more the better. That being said, the subjective quality of it is key. If you keep laughing at stuff she doesn't find funny, she's gonna think you're a creep and an idiot. However, if you make her laugh and then laugh with her, she's gonna feel a massive connection. And with smiling it's also kinda similar. Depending on a woman, some like guys welcoming and approachable (so some degree of smiling is good), wholesome and caring, and others prefer intimidating and rough men (so casual smiling is not good for these). All women will like to see the guy they like smile IF HE HAS A GOOD REASON FOR IT. Never smiling is bad. So is grinning like an idiot all the time. It's nuanced and you need to have a good balance that fits your personality.
In other news, the water is still wet.
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Genius this one is.
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Water cant be wet
So Iâve heard
masculinity & can handle woman's emotion (stoic) is the best attraction so far
She: Just spends 3 minutes saying that it's all about the looks.
This guy: "Confidence bro".
This is a good example of how much coping is built into men. You heard nothing she said, and just reverted to your safe space at the end.
â@@ThulsaDoomrshe didn't say it's all about looks. She said attraction. It's different for different women. A guys sense of humour or intellect etc. Confidence will always be the best way to feel as a man. Because it means no matter what he's ok. That is attractive to most women. Look after your body and mind.
Probably study David Deida to learn how to absorb feminine chaosâŠ
@@MroZzzzz Your looks decide how your personality is interpreted.
Tall = confident.
Beautiful smile = kind.
And so on...
@@ThulsaDoomr in some ways but only in the short term. Your personality and confidence/belief in yourself will always be thr most attractive thing. Not everyone is going to be attracted to the same people. Some people yes are visually attractive but that doesn't create connection, it's just looks.
She is absolutely right. It is ALL about the looks, that is what actually holds relationships together; lust, not some BS love. Love does not exist, and a good personality vanishes when you inevitably have an argument, or a fight. If there is no lust, that relationship falls apart. When the couples fight or disagree, lust is what brings them back together. Lust is based in reality, it's based on looks, and physical desire. It's considered a dirty word because many people just simply do not want to face the truth. Lust and attraction is an incredible thing; you can't buy it, it's priceless. And if someone is genuinely attracted to you, there is nothing you need to do, and very little wrong you can do.
No she is saying looks are a prerequisite, not that it's all about looks. Looks to get you in the door.
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NO! itâs NOT all about the looks that is one facet of what creates attractionâŠ. Its layers my PadawanâŠ
1. P = physical what she seeâs first
B = behavior how I behave and interact creates attraction or decreases attraction
S = status attracts as well
All three work together holistically to attract
@@climbinghenge6382 I second that.
Bang on âš
My Grandfather advised me to choose Her with your ears; because looks will fade and you'll be left with a wireless (radio) you can't turn off đ€đâš
Yeah, looks are nice, along with good hygiene, but as a woman, attraction for me is a man's character, his intelligence, his ability to handle stressful situations without going off the deep end. Looks fade, let's be real.
At the end of the day, it's character.
And despite what a lot of men like to think it truly isn't always about money. The richest guy in the world can be a total monster behind closed doors. And if he isn't, then he throws money at you and you never see him. Who wants to be in a relationship alone? I want character and personality. Those qualities last.
Wise Woman.đ
Attraction is also the fundamental determinant of sexual harassment. Itâs only harassment when it comes from undesirable people.
Thank you for confirming the truthfulness of the black pill theory.
I believe she's correct and I'm not sure that you can even manufacture attraction. But attraction is not always obvious.
Your still one of my favourite speakers on this site.
But thatâs the sake the other way around: If a man doesnât find a woman attractive, there is nothing she can do.
Sure there isâŠ
â@@climbinghenge6382 No. There isn't.
@@hadieartiel1147 do you understand how âattractionâ works? Itâs based on âsignalsâ , signals operate at the innate instinctual level. They are activated , and that activation causes specific things in the body to happen which creates attraction. If youâd like me to teach you I will.
@climbinghenge6382 Sure, I'd be interested to hear. from my experience though, I've never found someone attractive if I didn't the first time.
She is dam right. Couldn't be more right. I'm a perfect example where I am average to little money with a junk car but I have a drop dead beautiful lady who have men and many rich swooning at her and she doesn't give them the time of day and I'm ugly as faaaak.
But how đ what do you have or do that make her so loyal and attractive to her?
She was never yours, it was just your turn.
REALLY THE BIGGEST LESSON MEN NEED TO LEARN.
Yes. For quite some time in the past.
Oh right..So there's no fire without a spark
A valid statement,... "but"....for many woman money as well, "is very atractive" , so as well they easyly could fear to abandon or loose that "attractive price"..., Money
that's what i was going to say. no matter how much lecture she give, the main fundamental of attraction for women is money. NO matter how much a women is attracted to a man, but if he doesnot have money then she will marry or chose that who has money.
Yup 100% true
I think this goes both ways. However, I will say that when you get to be a certain age (50-60), sex is still really important to men, whereas it usually isn't to a post-menopausal woman.
Im a really good looking guy and the my whole life i was rejected by guys who were less attractive than me, but they know game i was a little entitled boy because my phsyical looks, in the end RESPECT triggers attraction in womans brain.
i learned the hard way.
She's always right
Working on my public image. Some advice from people is do not be original. I'm kind of messed up, so I have to act a certain way. In my worst moments I wouldn't want to be with me!
Sheâs right.
lol most women donât find me physically attractive. It also depends on the area you live in. Iâm 5â6 half Filipino and Hispanic which is that absolute worst combination for physical attractiveness. I live in Nashville TN which a predominantly white small city. I used to live in Dallas which was far more diverse and I did a little better there than I do here however there is more competition there. Itâs all about looks first then personality and other traits second.
"The moment your gf/wife isn't jealous of other girls liking you, is when you should be worried"
I have to correct you, donât worry because at that point the train has left the station. You have to monitor and check for attraction and look at the subtle signs. She expects you to be the guy that just gets it so be that I suppose (i know it sounds infantile to expect people to read your mind but it is what it isâŠ).
Wrong. If I have to be jealous about other women I lose interest instantly
Have taken that factor into considerationđą that's why it's hard for me, to fall in loveâ€for me even at 24yrsđąđ
This ironically has me defeated. Iâm a 32 year old single guy whos been rejected my whole life. Iâm 5â2 and not very good looking. Iâve always believed that a woman needs to be attracted to you and Iâm sick of my friends telling me I can compensate by just becoming rich.
Even though I know thatâs not true, I knew I had no choice but to âgive it a try,â since the best case scenario, which is a woman being attracted to me, has never happened and probably never will.
Now Iâm being told point blank thatâs it all pointless. Which I know it is anyway.
What hope do short unattractive men like me have? I fkin hate my life and I hate my parents for brining me into this world.
Dude, you can compensate by getting jacked or at least as strong and muscular as you can. That will also change your mindset and confidence. Also if you have money plastic surgery is an option and there's no shame in that.
Money and muscles get you a lot of the way there. With those you can even go to a place like the Philippines and attract a woman if you are of good character.
There are lots of ways to change your appearance and your circumstances.
Women are attracted to protectiveness, humility, to hard-working men, and yes muscles help some.
You do not need to appeal to everywhere. The rule of the game is to never give up.
Iâm 5â1â and I always marvel at the women that are 4â8ââŠbecause itâs really a huge difference. Which meansâŠ.you just need to find someone shorter than you.
Listen to these guys in your comment section, they're absolutely right. I'm pretty tall with a nice face, but I didn't start getting any real attention until I started lifting weights (Got Jacked) and Played Sports (Got Confidence and Grace). And yeah, go to a place where the Women are shorter than you, trust and believe, these simple things always work.
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This algorithm really got us
I might find someone attractive but they are not right to me or do not respect me I'm not scared of loosing anyone
Yes, Men should actually know this already. I think some Guys are just being Bullheaded, or just fooling themselves out of desperation. Sad to say, but many Guys won't do things to improve themselves, something might be wrong with them Mentally or Emotionally. One thing that every Guy can do is go to the Gym and get into fabulous shape physically. Ladies like a nice Physique and always have.
Another is dress better and groom well (get the right haircut for YOU, etc.). Last but certainly not least is to improve your Charm (ability to talk to Women, so read books about building self confidence). These things are even more important than having a ton of money (although you do need SOME). But these things take effort and some people are allergic to that. Maybe they're afraid to fail, or even more afraid they might succeed. Goes back to having Mental issues.
Some of these so called "Incels" won't even attempt to do any of the things listed above. Same goes for Rich awkward Men who try to buy Women's affection. Never truly works though. Get back to BASICS Fellas. Most importantly, focus on the Women that choose YOU and stop chasing or trying to buy the the ones that DON'T. Don't be willfully ignorant Fellas, isn't that what you complain about in some of these Women?
Great video.
That's true -- attraction is natural
It can be manipulated (to certain degree) by make up, money, status, 6 pack.
But if u r not by the nature of someone, he/she would not be attracted to u. Better look for someone else.
I've never thought women didn't need to be attracted to their partner. WTF
âAttractionâ s fineâŠbut how does one maintain it âŠ?
If men are getting so many things wrong- Why are so many men successful with women and women continue to want them All Over the World!?â đŻ. Btw many men keep women as long as they want & then get new ones! And we are Not loosing our Assets- which is most important- we have learned!â đŻ
There is truth in this - I've been THAT guy on the wrong side of it all
I sorry but I never get this wrong. How do you know if a guy got this wrong or not especially if you were not there.
You can compensate by getting jacked or at least as strong and muscular as you can. That will also change your mindset and confidence. Also if you have money plastic surgery is an option and there's no shame in that.
Nice outfit who you wearing?
This can backfire. When a woman attracted and fell so much in love with you she panics and feel inferior to you she constantly thinks you will reject her. By this she creates unnecessarry drama and eventually she make herself rejected. And you feel bad cause you know she's actually a kind woman but her low self-esteem and lack of confidence ruins it. Quite a shitty situation.
Well to be honest it is usally the women who claim that they don't care abt this
I thought we had evolved as human beings, but obviously not, and we still behave like animals when it comes to finding a life partner. Attraction as much as important would not last forever because it is mainly based on physical attributes. How about we start looking for common goals, similar interests and humour, similar life philosophy, etc. Just a thought.
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I will support your massage, I have to disagreed. Most women donât care about that anymore or anything that have to do with values & respect
They have reckless mindset.!
Good to tap to beautiful to keep life is to short for drama
There's absolutely no need to belittle people who have drug addictions by calling them "crackheads." As an "influencer" you should know better, especially as you know that they have experienced horrific trauma and that's been their way to survive...
Single and happy , MGTOW for life..
That's because of social media and the Kardashians
I'm never wrong with him him wrong with me for any reason everyday I want to fix my intentions with him he hates for any reason my coach This is not my faute yesterday I talked to him today I am taking to him about the same thing I don't no what wrong with him today I have a good planification with him I don't no what happened about him he hates for any reason
I attract women to me by building plastic model airplanes at a coffee shop and having a sign out that says, "Please do not disturb, genius at work.
So basic, which man thinks women don't need to be attracted to men đ đ
Only commit emperor's if she has value
Most people don't love themself and value material things over love ... Be brave and always be prepared to walk away. She is always searching for something that feels better đđâ€
Our characters are revealed by how we treat a crackhead, Sadia.
If that were so, than male models would earn the same as female models.
Your hand movements take the focus away from that being conveyed đ
Yeah but you abolutely can create attraction through your behaviour
The biggest mistake is to believe anything they say. Neem ze met een korrel zout.
I knew when I clicked on this that I would learn nothing... ...and I knew that whatever she thought I, "always get wrong" is something that SHE would probably wrong about instead, and I was right on both counts, but it was good clickbait .... She won't get me again though... 8 fucking minutes to say NOTHING!!!!
Be a millionaire or billionaire you will be attractive đ
In a nutshell Las Vegas and Thailand is much more easier, legal and safe than working the hell out of getting some basic beeeaaatchđ€·đđ€
I had a feeling she was Pakistani
you make a point. still you are taken - but attracted to other men? won't end well. my 2 cents.
Why is that everything she says is absolutely wrong to me after my life experience
She can speak with only 6 words
Seems like that should be obvious as it's exactly the same for men.. However women seem to think it's a negative thing when it's the man who feels this way. He's only interested in how a woman looks, he's not very deep, only interested in the superficial things. You could change this video's title to be "the biggest mistake (what a woman always gets wrong)" and it would be 100% valid, but for some reason women would find that distasteful.. These kinds of videos all get a bit tiresome. Maybe the question women should be asking at this point is "are men concerned about what a woman thinks is a big mistake?" Maybe the women ought to be more worried about the mistakes they might be making, because as an older man I am increasingly of the opinion that women need men a whole more than we need them, and that most women are frankly kind of a pain in the ass.
"Why so many men end up heartbroken... . ... because they never understood..." Once again boys, everything is your fault. đ
Here's a secret to succeed with any woman: Read her thoughts. đ
All she saying is that if you guys don't have a beautiful face and good figure no woman will be attracted to you đ
This woman loves the attention
Sherlock bl00dy holmes this one is
There is beauty in every god creation. Don't waste time to prove it. Understand it.
Talk about women right in Islam?
(Crackhead vs Handsome man) that is safety not attraction.
Ted Bundy was considered very handsome. Nine women ended up dead at his hands anyway.
This sound like womanexpainning sound fake deep đđđđđ
Stfu get away from me đ
Just by reading the title and not watching the vid I'm gonna say, being nice
yes. but attraction in a woman is much wider concept then a man. If Woman finds you not masculine and not strong, she can jumps to Handsome guy to even less right away.
The tickle always wins
Absolutely