Does He Like Me - 5 Signs He Doesn’t Like You That Much
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- čas přidán 2. 07. 2024
- Does He Like Me - 5 Signs He Doesn’t Like You That Much
Are you spending too much time wondering if a guy likes you?
In Todays Video, I will share 5 signs that He Doesn't Like You and Will Waste Your Time.
CHAPTERS
00:00 Does He Like Me
00:59 Signs A Guy Doesn't Like You 01
02:11 Signs A Guy Doesn't Like You 02
03:05 Quick Relationship Advice for Women
03:40 Signs A Guy Doesn't Like You 03
04:57 Signs A Guy Doesn't Like You 04
05:53 Signs A Guy Doesn't Like You 05
07:51 Closing
1. Lack of Communication
In today's constantly connected world, slow or short replies can signal a lack of interest. If you're the one initiating most conversations and his responses are unenthusiastic, it might be time to reconsider.
2. He keeps Canceling
Everyone cancels sometimes, but consistent flakiness shows disrespect for your time. Someone who prioritizes you will make an effort to keep plans.
3. He Wants a Secret Relationship
A guy who truly admires you will want to shout it from the rooftops! If he keeps your relationship hidden, it could be a sign of deeper involvement elsewhere or a desire to keep his options open.
4. He Pulls Away After Intimacy
If his affection fades after intimacy, it suggests he sees you as a physical rather than emotional connection. True commitment goes beyond the bedroom.
5. Makes Excuses To Avoid Commitment
Beware of guys who offer excuses to avoid relationships. Whether it's "not being ready" or focusing on "themselves," these are often ways to let you down gently.
Remember, you deserve someone who makes you a priority. Don't waste time on confusing or inconsistent behavior. By recognizing these signs, you can free yourself to find a partner who is genuinely interested.
Ismael Gomez III
I'm a Cuban - American Relationship Coach, Author, and Speaker.
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It means a lot to me to see you want to learn about these topics.
1.) lack of communication
2.) he keeps canceling appts
3.) wants a secret relationship
4.) pulls after physical intimacy
5.) excuses to avoid commitment
List of the harsh, cold truths 😢
Agree 😢
It's to save you from these and move on actually run away from those types and multi date.
He's married
The relationship is just sexual.
Thankfully, I am old-fashioned woman, so if a man doesn't show much initiative, I show none at all. That solves this problem right away.
That's just the right attitude!! Which I had to learn the hard way... but now I know!
This happened to me. This guy "slightly" flirted with me. He just showed me mixed signals. I had questioned myself if he is really interested in me or not. Then one of his friends gave me so much attention and very good signals that he likes me. The first guy was jealous. Lol. He even asked me why I am always talking about his friend. Dude! One moment you were flirting with me, the other time you became cold as ice! What was I supposed to get from your "game"?
I am just going to grow old with 100 cats....I am just going to put dating on hold. And put the love into myself.
8 🐈 😻 🐈⬛️ 🐱 🐈 😻 🐈⬛️ 🐱 & 1 aussie shepherd combo. 🐕
I already did, minus ➖️ the 🐈 cats.😅
When a girl is not a hot b1tch, no man will ever have a high-interest in her. That's my destiny and I'm making peace with it.
Good girl ❤ I took me 3 years of dolo work n I'm still workin on it, but, but, but, I think I may have finally found real love
I implemented this years ago and I have never been happier ❤😄
I knew this guy Craig wouldn't cancel. He'd call 2 hours later saying "something came up. " I gave him a pass the first time. After the second, I ghosted his sorry a$$. Called me at my job trying to be nice, told him I was busy and hung up.
Yasss girl ❤
You don't need too many signs. It's consistency. Period. When a man loves a woman he will be screaming at the top of his lungs that she is his basically.
I'm with you on that.
Agree! My Grandmother said when a Man loves a Woman he will do anything to be with her
@@jessicaagosto3633 absolutely.
Don't chase, don't beg, no booty calls. Don' make an effort for him that he doesn't make for you. Ghost and block him.
If you have to ask, he doesn't like you that much. It's that simple. When you're into somebody, you can't stop thinking about them. You can't wait to talk to them and spend time with them. If someone is not showing much enthusiasm or it comes and goes, they don't like you. You are better than nothing when they are bored or don't have other options.
That’s really insightful. How has it influenced your perspective?
That's basically what I have done and how I end up being single. Men are far less sincere than we think. And they are there to get what they want which is not love
But, you don't have to have sex if you don't want to.
You can still enjoy some personal time with him.
Caressing, kissing, cuddling and nothing more.
I told him upfront.
I'm not interested in having nothing more than that.
He was okay with that.
They all lie.
Ladies: consider that your proclamations of there being no good men out there become a self-fulfilling prophecy. Women in general need to heal themselves, whether or not there’s a man in the picture; learn our value beyond sexuality; and start showing up as an empowered persons who don’t “need” a man. Do this and our friend Ismael will be out of a job (much as I love the service he’s offering on his channel). Learning to love and honor yourself - whether man or woman - is the greatest thing you’ll ever do in this life.
So many men out there who waste your time! Where’s the good ones?
Ikr, I do believe that those good men are there but what about the good woman?
@@Silencer796 Few and far between. But I’m a good woman and so are my friends
If you can appreciate a guy who is fun and has great ideas on stuff to do, but just wants to live in the moment and not talk about the future, it might not be that you're wasting time with him but rather you're both accepting things as they are in the moment.
You drive us away.
Amen…it’s really disheartening
Everything he says is true!
Go with the ones that treat you the best!
As a man, there are some good points here. However, for the first point I know I'm not a good texter. I don't like texting or social media, and unless I'm actually in a relationship or actively dating someone I'm not going to be doing a lot of texting as I feel it's a bit desperate. I'll match the interest level of a woman I'm interested in. If she's more responsive I'll try to be more responsive; if she isn't I'll pull back. I'll primarily use the phone to set up dates and occasionally reach out, but that's about it. I'm pretty sure I'm not the only man who feels that way.
Makes sense. Most women prefer phone calls anyway. If you and this person are compatible, you will probably have the same preferences when it comes to communication.
I like the way you think! I had a man who texted me every day for entire day, that Was Tooo much!! In 5 days I got soo bored of him and now I'm just ignoring him!! Too much is too much!!😮😮
Im Having mental break down after watching this lol, crying & feeling desperate cuz all of this sign resonates with the relationship i have right now and i love him so much ..
Hey dear, don't punish yourself. Watch my other videos on connecting with a man emotionally and building attraction. Those can still help your current relationship.
Girl, same…I had the feeling he was pulling away. I was distraught and upset for days. You know what, there’s billions of people on this planet. Hold you’d head up high, go find your person who APPRECIATES you and will do anything to keep you-hugs ❤
Why would you love someone who treats you like this. You are trauma bonded not in love
@@annaa6259 Because she is in love with what he showed her. She fell in love with a persona. All of us have at some point. I went no contact with a guy who kept breadcrumbing about a year and a half ago. It happens. The trick is to dump him and move on.
You don't know how much you are helping to innocent women out there..a big thank you on their behalf. Huge respect 💪❤
That means a lot. Thank you for your lovely comment.
@@SaveTheMessenger ❤️🙏
@@shubhangisharma5883Honestly I don't care about men and their dumb cues. I'm being amazing myself and when the right time comes, the right person will show up and he's the one without too many excuses. Ladies, don't listen to this video trying to figure out how to win men over. Just blaze your own trails and keep efforts to please men to the BARE MINIMUM. Build your lives and be amazing, and along the way y'all meet the one without the no. 1-5 hottentotthingys. If y'all strong, beautiful and independent, you won't give a thought or time about men's uninterested behaviour. For example, if he gave a lack of communication, a lady that's sure of herself will just shrug and 😂😂😂 and move on to the next person who is surely better than the canceling appts guy. Or for those considering you but wanting secret relationship, you can laugh at his face and make a big L SIGN at your foreheads while sticking your tounges out. THESE sort of things. Identify men behaviour, but don't give them more than 5 seconds to mope about it. Life's too short and there are 8 billions people in this world. Cheers.
i’m broken, I thought I would be the one , I dated a man who was still in a realationship, it hurts so bad , I sacrificed days just waiting for him to call me, i’m such a fool, thankyou for the videos
I needed to hear this and confirm I did the right thing by blocking him 5 days ago. For 7 years hot and cold with him. Thank you! 🙏🏻 ❤
I am hurt lately dealing with most of these points. Held my breath for the whole video. The last line gave a sigh of relief "For your relationships to change ... you need to change!" May we learn, change, and become such that no one, not even us, would take us for granted and hurt us - Aameen!
Ameen summa Ameen❤
Āmiiiin! 💔
Thank you for your time.
On Android phones and iPhones you can see if someone read your text and when. If you reply to his text fast but you see that he didn't read the reply for hours the chances are he's not that into you. Sure, something could have come up, maybe his work blew up then, but if it's a pattern, then he doesn't really care what you texted back.
You can only see that if they turn on read receipts.
I could relate to 4 of them and felt really sad. But yes, thankk youu for sharing soo helpful information so we can walk away from these type of men.
You are so welcome!
He was in, engaged, never canceled a plan and all that stuff until I start having health issues and then he detached himself. Better for the ambulance to come to pick me up rather than him. I believe the beers with his colleagues was much more important… So at my 49 I am not going to start thinking what’s going on or mothering him telling him what is what I expect from my man. So…. Next!
I knew it! I recently broke up with a guy that didn’t want anybody in his group to find out about us. Later I found out he is also dating a girl from that same group and trying to keep it a secret but everyone comments that their interaction is like they are a couple and a friend saw them meeting secretly after work
😢
😢
I appreciate you sharing that. How did it make you feel?
He's just meditating😂
Great video!! So many times we women make excuses for men that we like, but who aren't really into us! We want it so badly that we project excuses for them!! He's shy, he's busy, he's been hurt before, he doesn't really know how to have a relationship, or he doesn't have enough money to take us out!! I've seen men I thought were "too shy", move heaven and earth to be with a woman they were really interested in!
I'm no longer fooling myself!! If you have to wonder whether a man is interested or not--he probably isn't!!
Thank you for the HONEST answers.
You remind me of Johnny Depp!🙃
God help your beautiful daughters protect their hearts❤
Very nice explanation, thank you!
Great advice! Appreciate you! ❤
Thank you for this video. It's very helpful.
Appreciate your advice ❤
Great work
Excellent thank you
Soo Insightful ❤❤
Thank you ✨
Thank you, for your advice ❤😊
New subscriber- thank you!!
I had a cardiac surgoen interested in me. He asked me if I could find more time for us to be togeather i my house. Not even go out. I said look I feel guilty asking my family to take my children for me. He has ghosted me and hasn't phoned back. we work in the same building but I doubt we will see each other. However if he does contac me again I will ask him how bored he is. Litrally too advantage really.
At YOUR house?!? How "considerate" of him. NOT. Move on. Have no more concern for him ever. He's probably trying that w/ others on DL. LoL
Sounds likes you was a side chick...
If he contacts you, you should say you’re busy and hang up. He was trying to use you as a side piece he’s a disrespectful male
I dated a guy for 4 years that had red flags. So, I decided to date him because the sex was great and I just got out of a divorce. After 3 years I decided to start pulling back and finally told him I want to date other people. He said what about us...and I told him there is no us. I think he was surprised and shockingly hurt.
Thank you so much 😇
Saved my life,thanks
U helped me now with this video and thank you! 👍
Great video and reinforced the fact that my guy is into me. Thanks Ismael and it was that girl's loss. You're a gem ✨
#3 - that's my situation at the moment. I've been thinking about what to do with it for a couple of weeks. He said that this is how you should earn true love: through the struggle and the rare nights spent together that no one knows about (even the parents). And during those rare meetings we'll think about how to build a relationship further.
I even thought for a moment that maybe he was right, because people tend to hide their true happiness and what is really valuable to them in order to preserve it, because some people say don't overshare it, because people tend to destroy beautiful things. *Learn not to tell anyone anything. Only then will everything be okay.* - a quote from George Bernard Shaw.
Hilarious. I just found your video. Now I'm sure I need to close this door.
Thank you 🙏
You nailed it, Ismael! Very honest and to the point!
Thank you for leaving such a wonderful comment.
Thanks for sharing this info its so helpful esp women❤❤❤
I like your videos
Straight to point and very genuine
Ur a truthful man , and i love ur factual messages 😅😊
Thank you for your compassionate approach with women. ❤
I dont pursue anyone
Grateful for this video
Grateful for your comment.
That little anecdote was such a great way to make your point. Great insight! 🙏🏽
Love seeing you ladies watch the full video instead of skipping through it.
Super helpful, thank you Ismael!
Glad to hear that!
Very insightful
Music to my ears.
This was the best video! Thank you. I need to watch it over and over
Glad you enjoyed it!
I love your videos!! They give us more clarity.
Awesome! Thank you!
This channel is so insightful .
I’m really grateful, you’re a marvel.
Thank you
Are you single? 😉 I love the thing you said about being a private person and not super active on social media. My friends would be like “Why don’t you post more sexy pics on insta?” and I always said it’s because I only wanted to share those with my man. I don’t want anyone to just be able to see bikini pics of me whenever they want. I deleted all the apps from my phone last year and couldn’t be happier.
I stopped hoping to find a good man years ago. I decided to pour all that love and hope and effort on me and my personal development. And on books, instead of cats😊 Not everyone can find The Person, some of us, I think, were born to be alone.
Thanks Ismail that's most important video for women who has confused about what Men feel and react❤❤❤
Much appreciated 🙌
So true… I can’t stop smiling
New Aussie subscriber 😊
AMEN to all of this
Wow. That was clear and to the point. I appreciated the very interesting anecdote about the situation you had in Cuba aswell. It's so easy to understand when you put it like that. Thank you.
Glad it was helpful. Thanks for watching.
@@SaveTheMessenger No need to thank me. I can't wait for your next one. Thank you.
Every man isn’t the same though. So though I can’t agree to disagree because there are men like this but they give that energy off so if a woman knows how to read through him she would know how to treat the situation. I appreciate the relationship advice and I will look out for those signs. I’ve never had these issues. Hi 👋🏽 my neighbor from Jamaica my Cuba friend.
Well said ❤valid valid points ❤thank you❤
I'm glad you found my video helpful.
You have such good takes! So refreshing 😊 keep up the good work
Thank you! Will do!
Omg Iloved it. You are so sincere. Thanks for the advice. 👍 I subscribed to your channel
Awesome!!❤
Thanks a bunch, you’re so thoughtful.
Very interesting and informative
Glad you think so!
This older man living in my building got me back by standing me up from time to time because I once told him I wasn't interested in having a relationship then but years later I became interested &; he held a grudge & got back at me by standing me up many times.
Wow - talk about ridiculous
You dodge that losa
True 💯
It's louder,
It is clearer
Thanks
I have found your videos most helpful. Before I didn't think I needed to change, I'm fine the way I am. Now, I understand the adjustments I need to make to find a good match. What to look out for and simply accept if things aren't meant to be.
You made my day *feeling accomplished*.
I enjoyed your video.
I truly appreciate it.
This video is so insightful about recognizing low interest in relationships! Do you think a man’s inconsistent communication always means he's not interested, or could there be other reasons like personal issues or mental health?
He’s not interested. And don’t fall for it.
@@caranasser3710thanks for your input! Really appreciate that.
I made excuses for mine…until I got tired of it. He still tries to breadcrumb me…I didn’t want to be a jerk and block him. I will tell him I am and then do it, so hopefully he’ll stop this nonsense
@@deniseunknown4576 best of luck!
yes, he ticked all the checkboxes and when I was done with his shit, I ghosted him. Since then he wouldn't stop calling me. men like this are just assholes.
Thank you for sharing. What was the outcome of that experience?
So true
Nice advise, too late 4 me it may seem.
That's true! This is my story now 😢
my story all the time
Sorry 😔
Great message as always and I know you keep saying the same thing in each video I watch trying to wake up the HELLO in me, but this is 4 red flags of my friend from as I mentioned hadn't seen in 50 yrs .he still is "best friends with his X wife" that lives 4 hrs from him, so I think your advise over and over makes sense I'm just a Wall Flower wanta be thank you...❤
Love that!
Thank you ismael ❤😊
It's really helpful video
It's true if someone has genuinely love & respect for you , distance or any kind of excuse doesn't matter🎉
I love you 😘 so much ismael
Nowadays YOU ARE MY HERO & LIFECOACH❤
I appreciate your comment dear 🙏
@@SaveTheMessenger thank you ismael🙏💐☺️
Truth❤
Thank you so much.
Ismael Gomez…
Wow!!!! You are doing a very huge good deed! I’m a lot older and haven’t dated in over 20 years. I no longer trust. Where was your great advice about 30 years ago?? Thank you for helping ladies wake up!!!!
Wow, that’s fascinating. What advice would you give to someone in a similar situation?
Well this guy the guy who’s been pursuing me…he sure put in the effort until he got me and now nothing…smh
... knew i shouldn't have clicked this one... now i am severely depressed and want the earth to swallow me whole...
I would add that he keeps talking to all his old girlfriends and they have no interest in getting to know you so we can all hang out as friends.
It hurts to see this and realize it but it is the hitting truth unfortunately, these all are signs of rejection low-key. But probably the secret is to not take rejection personally, when you feel ur not wanted then it’s time to find someone else… 7:44
You are very handsome and I didn’t know you were Cubano! 🇨🇺
Muchas gracias.
No need too...
God says he is done.
I already knew that. All the more reason why the person doesn't need to be in my account in that way. If there is nothing after that from messages or whatever I'm not even going to bother I'm not going to be one of those women that would blow up some guy's phone with messages or whatever it is. I'm just not really big anymore on answering phone calls I have my major reasons also. I definitely don't do long distance relationship that's not going to happen I'll be your friend but it's not going to happen on romantic relationship I already tried that once and it was really really not what I thought it was. And then sometimes if I don't respond immediately or any of that sometimes Shell shocked on not knowing how to respond. Trying to communicate the best way I can at times in the right way patiently with one another.
Question:
If you meet someone online (not through a dating website or anything like that) and express interest and he says “I want to meet you first and then we can talk about dating”…is that an avoidance of commitment?
Because I just met a man that I’m really into (first time since my fiancé’s death 13 years ago) and he treats me well. He always says “hi” to me and asks how I’m doing and we have the same values and beliefs.
Thing is, he’s in Seoul and I’m in the States.
Honestly I feel like a teenager trying to figure out the dating scene for the first time.
I don’t get it why people don’t just say honest where they are. When I met a guy and I feel he likes me or ask me out I tell him harshly. No im not in love w you. Why? Because it sets him free.
Curious how much this applies to us men for men
I love the idea of not showing pictures of any woman you're dating on your social media unless it's your wife. I went further in not showing pictures of myself with a person of the other gender alone in one picture - unless we are two girls and some guys
There was this boy who told me that he really liked me and we dated for like 3-4 days and at that time I was preparing for my end sem exams also and I gave time to him and all ,but one day we had an argument and he didn't try to solve it so after two days I asked him to let's just clear things out and as we were talking I said something bad about my bestfriend and he considers my bestfriend as his sister so he defended her and said you can say whatever you want to me but don't say anything about her .and one day after this I tried talking to him that why he suddenly stopped talking to me ,he can tell me ,I can solve the problem and clear things out but he said that if anyone say bad about my family (my bestfriend indirectly) then I won't tolerate it and he hung up the call saying he is sleeping don't disturb me .after some more day I tried talking to him but he said he don't want to continue so that's just in one week all this happened and I didn't get the thing that she wasn't even her blood related sister so why he's blaming me and defending her .
To all. Ladies becareful nòt to waste time with peoplle who do not have any intrest in u.
Like is a four letter word.😂
I do not know why, I have learnt to understand some of men's traits, may it be because I have some little ability to see both sides, I have no idea what, why, or how, but the ability to see this is real, I get some things wrong, as I should, as I am not a man, and I do not have to be a man, to understand some things.
It's easy do the money test.
Most men hate spending money on women.