How To Attract a Man - This Gets Him Attached To You
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- čas přidán 2. 07. 2024
- Ladies, today we're diving into How to Attract a Man and Keep Him Attached to You. We'll focus on a key aspect of male psychology in relationships. Men have certain instincts ingrained in their DNA, and understanding these can help you attract and keep a devoted partner.
CHAPTERS
00:00 Starting
00:36 How To Attract a Man Tips 01
02:42 Quick Relationship Advice for Women
03:14 How To Attract a Man Tips 02
04:32 Quick Relationship Advice for Women
05:04 How To Attract a Man Tips 03
06:42 What Did You Learn Today?
07:42 Closing
01. The core idea is that men want to compete for a woman they feel is out of their reach. This might seem immature, but competition is ingrained in men in all aspects of their lives. Men, including myself, often feel a strong desire to win, whether it's in business, personal goals, or relationships. This competitive instinct means that if a man feels he has to work to win your affection, he will value you more.
02. For a man to stay committed, he needs to feel that he’s constantly winning you over. If you pursue him too much, he may perceive you as lacking other options, which diminishes your perceived value. Show interest, but let him take the lead in pursuing. Also, avoid men fixated on someone else-they'll be too preoccupied to value you.
03. A healthy relationship dynamic involves both partners continually growing and maintaining their own lives outside the relationship. This ensures that the relationship remains exciting and both partners feel they must keep improving to stay worthy of each other.
So, what steps should you take?
One crucial point from relationship studies is that the more power someone has in a relationship, the less committed they tend to be. Ensure you maintain your own interests and passions outside the relationship. This makes you more attractive and keeps the relationship dynamic.
Therefore, attracting a man involves creating a sense of competition for your attention and ensuring you have a fulfilling life outside the relationship. This keeps the relationship exciting and prevents him from taking you for granted. Men value women who are constantly growing and maintaining a sense of mystery.
Remember, there's no one-size-fits-all answer to How To Attract a Man. But by focusing on self-confidence, authenticity, and engaging with the world around you, you'll be putting your best foot forward. Pursue your passions, cultivate interesting hobbies, and let your inner light shine. The right man will be drawn to your genuine energy and appreciate you for the unique person you are.
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It means a lot to me to see you want to learn about these topics.
I asked him for birthday party,he wrote will do something,and this smiley 😅. I was watching this video and I wrote leave it and immediately he texted no,will arrange something....god,m in love with a guy who has not propsed me and younger to me.....god knows if he will love me with my son or not..
Insecure men want to compete for women out of their reach to have a trophy to show to validate their insecurities. Dont fall for that kind of people, because they never get tired of the chase. If the man is healthy and confident, if you look for him, you will find him and he wont retract because you are showing him interest and love, he will show the same to you. But if you want insecure men that you are just a trophy to fill their ego, then look for guys like that. Stable people are looking for love, not playing games.
Your point does apply to certain men, but not all. If you compete for the best job you can get because you know it will make your life better, you don't call that man insecure and that he wants to show it off as a trophy.
@@SaveTheMessenger A woman is not an object nor a "job" and what says that a more difficult woman will make your life better? If a woman is really interested in you, she doesnt have to play hard to get, those are childish games. She just have to show she is interested, that doesnt mean you will take her to bed in 2 days, but at least you know she is interested.
@@raymondcampusano2991 Not all women are trophies either just because they're either young and beautiful or simply take care of themselves..
There's good and bad in everything...then there's e v i l and they're the one's we need to be educated about..
I think you're missing the point. Someone can show they're interested in you and you still think she's out of your league.
Wow! This is so true!👏👏👏👍👍👍 Every word is precious! Exactly! F*** them insecure motherf******! I'm going for a real man who loves me and knows what he wants, who's honest and adores me! Enough with games and waiting for the narcissist to have mercy on me and give me the crumb of his attention! Enough! Mister professor's gonna have to seduce another one of his students, until they fire him for seducing students.😂 I'm not playing this game anymore. 👍
The way I see it, if he loves you he’ll stay committed to you. Simple. No games involved,no bullshit. And the same goes for a woman if you love him you’ll stay committed no games,no bullshit. Simple
not simple
@@mariepetterson7281 why not simple? People shouldn’t have to play games or always having to prove themselves. Being with someone shouldn’t be difficult especially if she/he is the one. There should be a natural understanding between two people.
Ameeen it should be like this😢
When I was in my twenties going out to parties I observed that most men noticed me and kept staring at me for a while, then they decided that they are not playing in my league and went for some "easy" chicks.
It is pretty hard for intelligent, good looking and spiritual women to choose and pick a guy. No large selection there. 😬🐒
Thanks for telling me about it. What was the biggest surprise you encountered?
So true
@@SaveTheMessenger The biggest surprise? Maybe that most women nowadays are more masculine than most men?
I observe that women chase men, they just do everything to get noticed by men and they do everything for them.
Men just lean back and enjoy their state of being chased low testosterone beta-males.😅 Why should they even work hard when everything is served on a silver plate to them?
It all happened so quick, within one or two centuries.
Same!! They’ll stare all night and not come over to talk to you. They end up talking to the “plain Jane” type.
This is actually unhealthy. It's a bad habit created for men and to treat a women like that. Sounds like a lot of healing needing to take place.
In my opinion , people should be attached to themselves and no body else.
It is great to love and be loved, but,
Wise women want wise men , happy women want happy men !!
Happiness is within ourselves do not look for it in somebody else ❤
Still need to ask ourselves how we feel around them, & do we like who we are in their company.
If the union is confusing, frustrating, or hurtful more often than not, it's not the right fit.
How long do we last in a pair of shoes that don't fit us properly ???
There's no difference between an ill fitting pair of shoe's and a relationship that hurts, because neither are sustainable!
Well said 👏🏼
@@kathyphillips1272
Absolutely!!
Our energies have to make us stronger and happier as a couple
Without a doubt.
Its so true... When i keep myself in my mind... Ignoring guys they chase me... When i reciprocate to their feelings caring or showing my feelings for them... The attraction get lost
Girl, ALWAYS!! Makes no sense-we reciprocate, they got their ego fix and then pull away 🙃🙃🙃
The person who cares less will always have the most power. If you have to ask for love, it's not coming from the person it should. Always have your own bank account, and shut up about it, even when married. You may need a run fund. Don't move in with him. When he cheats, you'll be homeless. Don't be with a man who's looking for a servant/mommy he can sleep with. Don't get tied down by a baby unless you can support it alone.
THIS
😂you are right man when i am focusing on my life,when i didnt care about him ,he chased me but then i started giving him attention now he is doest giving me any attention 😂😂 now he is dating another women
Do we need these kind of stupid games? No, we need normal men , not these immature.
@@asp4752yes, we are tired of having to spend time to get to know a person just for them to move on to someone else, then START OVER again. 😢
@@asp4752It's pathetic, exactly.
Stay away from these types of men.
Amen to that.
30 years dang! Mister, you don’t look a day over 25! 🎉
This was great! Thank you. You made some valid points.
Thank you! How do you feel about it?
Well said
Good video. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you immensely! What are your thoughts?
This video is so richly packed. Thank you. Answers a lot of my questions.
I’m grateful. What are your thoughts?
super helpful, thank you!
Thanks! I'd love to hear your opinion.
Thankyou for your wise and insightful words Ismael ☺️💕
I appreciate it. What's your take on this?
Thank you, I love your videos. I don't multitasking when watching your videos because I am learning so much from you.
Sincerely appreciate it. What's your opinion on this?
Excellent advice.
Thanks a million! How do you feel about it?
All true thank you ❤❤
Love your videos
Thanks. What’s your take on the matter?
VERY useful info...thank you Ismael! 🙌🏻
I’m so appreciative, you’re fantastic.
@@SaveTheMessenger YOU ARE! ❤️
Thanks for this❤
Much appreciated 🙌
New subscriber here. I'm surprised you don't have a million plus followers. Your videos are so thought provoking and insightful. Im really enjoying your content. Top quality. 👌
That's very sweet of you. Much appreciated.
You are giving us a great insight into male Psychology!
Thanks so much !
Always my pleasure. Thanks for watching.
you have said a lot of truth, thankyou!
Thank you kindly! What do you think about this?
@@SaveTheMessenger I think all woman should know about this video, we have to put our pride down and learn how to understand a Man, it took many years and marriages and dating to start to realize Men have to be recognized and respected also, thankyou for teaching
All your videos have clarified the error of my ways. I have become a lot more excited at the idea of dating than before. I dreaded meeting men, now I feel your advice has me seeing clear and thrilled to see what is out there. Muchisimas gracias ❤
That’s incredible. What would you do differently next time?
You have inspired me to the point of finding my self respect. After watching your last video I completely felt so free and happy to break out of the cacoon I built for myself. I have been waiting for a guy for over two years and now I feel completely healed. i have deep feelings for him living for day he comes back. Now I don’t care. Your style of coaching really resonates with me. Thank you
I appreciate you took the time to leave such a lovely comment.
Hello Ismail, I am watching your channel for a specific video clip. It shows you know, not without limiting a culture but the truth. Thats why i wanted to subscribe. Thank you for your great ideas! Personally I want to be single forever..this is only for him. If he an go away from me anytime. But this is ending to me. I will focus to another thing rather than thinking a person.
Thank you ❤
I truly appreciate it.
Thank you, hope you have a wonderful day as well.😉🙏
Thanks a ton, you’re a gem.
Thank you 👍
Thanks! I'd love to hear your opinion.
Ismael, you are adorable. Love your insights!
These are ways of attracting a man I didn't even know about. I want to start dating but I keep holding myself back and I haven't figured out why.
Your video about the 9 things to never do for your man was an eye opener I had no idea. I think I lost the the respect of my ex. I just am not sure how I did that.
Very hepful 🎉thank you😊 ythank you for telling US the true❤
I’m grateful. What are your thoughts?
Why is it a constant game? Sheesh! Even when men do compete for you and chase you forever once they get a sliver of attention from you they start to retract. Lol Bizarre!
Not really, and if he does that, he is not a good match.
Is this why the men I'm not interested in won't leave me alone? Yet the ones who show interest and I show interest back basically make a u-turn. This is basically the same as men thinking we're just playing hard to get and that if we say we don't want them it means try harder...
But my question is, does this mean chances of a woman getting a man she actually wants is slim because we would immediately reciprocate the interest? Because I recently had this happen to me.
Met a guy, he showed interest, I was 'feeling' him out first because he was a total stranger to me, but the more I got to know him, the more interested I was and I showed it, only to then be told "I'm not looking for something serious at the moment", we stop talking as I respect his decision, only for him to try and chat me up a couple months later.
Make it make sense, please.
Did you get physical with him? Or was it just talking?
They all say that because they want the benefits without having to sacrifice.. it’s like they have men’s summits and they all decide how they’re going to play and say to women.
ah yes, the u-turn
@@SaveTheMessenger just talking
What if a man chased me for a while but when I choose MY professional goals instead of staying with him in this town with no perspective, he offended and falled back? Does that mean he was never that into me and all he wanted was not me but just any girl which would be “comfortable” for him?
Yes.. been there
@@mm62426 oh... can you elaborate please?
@@mm62426 can you pls elaborate?
Sounds like he wasn't willing to support your goals and that he just wanted someone to be there for him to support his.
@@Ashtarot77 typical for men... they only see themselves and other males as “humans”, but any woman is just a serving tool for them.
I don’t give compliments no more … they make you feel worse for it
Who exactly is he competing with when he competes for you?
With other men.
@mirela... what other men? Sorry but I don't have a bunch of them swarming around me at the moment.
I agree. The sad thing is while you guys are competing, so are we. We want the handsome guy that makes money because in the end, no matter who the guy is and what he looks like, or how much money he has, they are all the same. Ladies, do not settle. Let that sink in...
❤❤ first watch
So?
Thank you kindly, you’re a blessing.
Omg and this is why complaoning but why we are always said to
Play games ? Lean back , dont follow him, be unavaibale , make him happy but dont realu on him, give him thungs because this is feminine energy but dont expect anything and wait , wait, wait because its feminine to wait and masculine to initiate . Give him but not try to much , answer emails and sms but don’t initiate it. 😮😢 plus be mindful he may pursue you, like you, love you, have segs, children … but still not considered wife ever … and we are superseded why women don’t have children earlier , Mary earlier and end up as single moms 😢
If he's able to take a person for granted, then he's not a good person to begin with is my opinion! Is he not aware that people are special in their own unique way?! That if worse comes to worse and the relationship DOES end up breaking apart, then eventually they'd be able to give their love and affection onto someone else who DOES appreciate that. ..In a way, a person who is not capable of loving someone or giving/sharing that love, is not someone who will ever understand their role in giving it! Sad but true. You can't force someone to love a beautiful sunset if they don't want to appreciate that.
I was everything before meeting my ex
When we were in relationship during my examinations we fought everyday because a guy spread false rumors about me
So much so that even after knowing me more rather than that guy he believed that guy
And when i got lower marks than others( i was my colleges top 3 rank holder)
He started to chat with my ex gbsf
They used to bad mouth about me that im dumb and all those stuffs
What hurted me more was that she told my bf to breakup with me
Moreover being in relationship with me he talked to many random girls
Also he was physically abusive and bodyshamed me too
At end he dumped me cause he was unable to remove them from his life
If a woman chases, first she’s desperate and second she’s operating in low self worth and third, she’s in a masculine energy. She doesn’t have feminine energies or qualities that’s why she needs to chase. Women need to know the differences between masculine and feminine energy in this dating game.
Men are attracted to feminine energy. The more you can embody the positive, high quality (non-toxic) feminine qualities and energies, you don’t need to chase no one. They will flock to you Iike a moth to a flame.
Back in the day there wasn't this modern nonsense of masculine and feminine energies. Women chased after men and got what they wanted and many were in long happy marriages where partners treated each other equal. All this talk about different energies is modern mumbo jumbo. How do you expect a woman, who has had to fend for herself for many years after a relationship broke up, to be in her feminine energy because a man won't take the lead? People either accept you for who you are, or they're not for you. Simple as.
This is so weird. Ismael you are right about not beeing available to him… i have this colleague that is very mr nice around the office with every lady he chats with but some time ago we started to have great conversations about difficult things and he asks me many things to advice him on. Then i went back to do what i do but now he is every where all the time, constantly around , giving me hugs, gifts ,support and he totally ignores other women and now im like oh oh cause i think now he is on a hunt … i feel attraction there but feels akward also. Not good in the workplace so to speak and i have a boyfriend and dont fall easilybto temptation. What to do
Haha im an intovert Id take the left side lol, but as always thank you kindly Im tryimg to follow your advise so I will let you know as time goes forward if it worked, if not as you say its not meant to be but I will now love me ❤
Well, what I said is you'd be more curious. So even if you picked the left side, you'd still wonder why so many people wanted to watch the other one.
@@SaveTheMessenger thank you for pointing that out appreciate you sometimes it takes time to sink in ..
Ismael, but he said I could call him anytime 😅
Me at 6:41 when he said my name 🫠🥵
How does a woman make herself more valuable or somewhat unattainable in the eyes of a man, I don't really understand that
This sounds toxic AF. I don't want a guy who thinks like that. I don't do games. If someone likes you, they like you.
How to attract a man. Rule number one. Don't. Follow me for more tips.
what if there are other candidates but i am not the perosn who talks about it. it would be stupid.
I do not know how to be this clever
So I am single
I cant recognize that enibody is interested in me
So I read books
Watch movies
How do you get them not to move so fast. Men from what I can see want commitment to fast in my opinion. It’s like slow down Romeo
Exactly, slow them down. If they pull away, it means they were not that interested.
@@SaveTheMessenger they don’t leave I have to withdraw from them. I am personally not interested in a man with that character so there is no need to entertain
😩 what ??? I think my husband is commited
I’m not arguing with you…. It’s 100 💯 fact.. it’s aggravating
Your comment made me smile. I appreciate you.
@@SaveTheMessenger no way 🙀
Ones its a wife he misbehave
Well my man I think you are wrong in this one. She must text me she must show me that she really wants me. And I do the same. And no the women isn’t the final selector what are you talking about you are also contradicting yourself. If a women is beautiful to me and she is my women not playing games if I don’t close this deal then I’ve loss big not her. She needs to do 100% not 10-15% ok with that said there is a place for hard to get but this is only done by her just enough to make sure the man is serious. The more Handsome the man the bigger the hard to get will be. Don’t worry Handsome man you can take it.
Haya go out more don't spend your time online
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