HOW TO NEVER GET CHEATED ON
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How to never get cheated on - don't get in a relationship
Easy Peezy Lemon Squeezy
😂😂😂
nope
Everything has a chance to fail why bother breathing then if you'll die randomly
😂
Sex is destroying everything. It’s not something to be swung around easily. It’s sacred and it’s being destroyed
I think so too
Yes, sex is a union of two souls not a giveaway or obligation.
nah it's just a pp going into a vageegee nothing sacred about it. unless you're holding a bible or like wearing a jesus costume or something while you're doing it then i'll agree you've added some holiness to it.
Now sex and talk over it like discuss over ur fantasy is as common as , discussing political agenda , people have destroyed it and it's gonna destroy them , amen
Conclusion for Men:
•Be vigilant for infidelity Like women are
•Have your personal accomplishments to have a strong self esteem
•Learn to walk away and LEARN from it
•Have strong values and make them know. If they're broken leave.
•Men/Women will change when they value the relationship if not then your a toy
•Have a high demands
•Be a good person yourself you'll attract good too
Add point in comments or rebuke me 😂
Thank you I have an attention problem even to interesting things...such summaries really help me
@@lonewulfmo9128 Your welcome. :)
Magnificently stated.👏
yep
Yes! i will also add
-stop watching pornography (date at your level)
Rule 1 : Avoid early attachment
Rule 2 : be vigilant and assess her character through her behaviour. If any red flags are detected, walk away or pull away a bit (pull away only if it's not a major red flag).
Rule 3 : have strong boundaries and make them known.
Rule 4 : always have the willingness to walk away whenever necessary.
Rule 5 : value healthy values in a woman which are conducive to a healthy relationship more than her physical appearance.
Rule 6 : meet all her needs, physically and emotionally.
Rule 7 : be the best man she has ever had.
Tru
Be a superman. So she can decide to give you a chance. Oh no. By any means.
Sometimes men judge and reject good women who has health boundaries and feel she's hard work but in actual fact she's a decent good women.
Boy she still gone cheat it's a human thing cheating ain't bad
@@Romeferlanostop trolling, if its not bad then why do people not like it.
Anything can happen at any given time!Be confident in who you are and don't be dependent on anyone for your happiness!No one will ever take you granted!
THIS IS GOLD, and that's because I've noticed and thought about these exact things "if she's really the loyal girl she portrays she wouldn't put herself into positions like that"... They called me insecure for this.
Nope they call you insecure because as per Saadia "you chose a woman like that and now you don't like her habits and try to change her"
Also just lay your bounds and leave when they're broken so simple.
@@oanling917 💯
As a woman I've said that, and I have been called toxic for it.
TRU
@@oanling917this right here. The most important part of this video is being SECURE within yourself. Having internal boundaries and if they are violated then you walk. If you’re not secure, the neediness, jealously, controlling, and passive aggressive behavior will show out.
Only the men or women who want to be kept and raised and have morals and ethnics will not cheat on you. You can be the best wife or husband..
There is nothing you can do to prevent your other mate to not cheat.
An insecure man will leave for an insecure woman if he is being asked to step up to the play and support the loving partner.
People cheat because they are insecure and don't like being called out on their behaviour- so they leave for someone that enables their bad behaviour.
You cannot control the results, only your actions.
Super
Fall in love with nature it's beautiful and you will never be cheated 😎💯
Thunderbolt ? Tsunami ? Forest Fires ? hmm ?
So true, nature never disappoints
Everyone doesn’t cheat so
@@oanling917i prefer a tornado! I want a partner who will lift me off my feet 🤣
nature doesn't have a poosy though
When you're too smart, they call you insecure.
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Hello!! how do you make such monthly, I’m a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down of myself 😭 because of low finance but I still believe God
Thanks to my co-worker (Carson ) who suggested Ms Christy Fiore
She's a licensed broker here in the states🇺🇸 and finance advisor.
After I raised up to 525k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states🇺🇸🇺🇸 also paid for my son's surgery….Glory to God, shalom.
Can I also do it??? My life is facing lots of challenges lately
Give this woman a medal
A medal made by men 😎
What's interesting is these traits about women who cheat are the same for men who cheat. Deceitful behavior has a pattern that can be relatively easily detected when you observe the person you're dating closely and carefully.
The mistake I made
Observe? Ok
Very Tru
Actions over words
Absolutely!
11:30 gold advice. This is where love yourself first before entering a relationship comes into play
Avoid online dating. Doesn't matter how pretty or well put together they may seem. Speaking from experience and from friends' experience in a big city.
@rajmathew6220 please explain further
It just doesn’t work
@@IkeFromFrontStreet It doesn't end well a lot of the time. It's better to put yourself out there doing stuff you love/enjoy or initiate convo spontaneously in coffee shops, music venues, etc. Or through friends. Between online dating and meeting women in person, the latter has always been much better.
No digity, no doubt!
@@veramorgado5152
Sometimes it works for few people
We need a Sadia and Dr. Orion interview
So true! Orion Teraban and Sadia Khan together would be epic!
Please. This will be epic!
@sadiapsychology
In the end, a woman cheats because she is making the choice to cheat. Life is never perfect, but cheating does not solve life issues. It only makes them worse. There are certain women that belong to the streets. She was never yours, it was just your turn.
"Your turn"? A man of standards wouldnt even want a turn. You are one of them😂😂😂😂
@@Maijn2345 You clearly misunderstood what he was actually saying.
Simple solution. Don't be in a relationship.
be a coward
Hahah
Wise man.
Pretty much .
Great advice for the weak
The bruised self-esteem or a broken heart is far more brutal than a dagger into the heart. Emotions at play, inability to walk away from a toxic relationship.
I wish u a happy day and keep doing these videos, Mike was right u are very good at it !
Dude this woman is amazing. This is GAME. Absorb this information fellas
Boundaries!! Willingness to walk! Leaving a “alpha man” who brought me unknowingly into a third party situation. Healing from CPTSD!
17:10 - I think this applies more to women than men. Because of social media, many average women think they deserve a tall, handsome, self-made billionaire.
And you think porn and insta models hasn’t made men think they deserve hot women ?
I don't think so. Whatever a woman might say, she ultimately settles for a man who is ambitious and kind, and mostly it has nothing to do with looks. There are exceptions to this rule of course.
@@sadiapsychology There are a lot more hot women than there are tall, handsome, self-made billionaire men. I think men see a lot of average, below average men (in terms of money, status, looks) hook up with these hot women enough times where they think, "why not me?" You are spot on in your video though; love all your content.
@@sadiapsychology That's a fantasy. Its not real. Any sane man should be able to differentiate between fantasy and reality. Unless if the dude is completely delusional.
@@sadiapsychology Men want hot women, sure. But they are way more realistic about what they can get and where they really rank than women.
The world is like your shadow. When you chase it it flees. To gain the world you have to turn within.
Excellent video. Thanks Sadia. It's always a pleasure to listen to youe valuable podcasts.
u don’t force her to change , u allow her to live how see wanna live and u choose how u wanna make the deal … 💯💯❤️
Self Love Self Respect always put yourself FIRST
@ 14-15...you have summarized it so beautifully.
Thank you. Summary is this.
Some people assess value better than others. Its not the ones displaying values, either. Once that is clear, you start redefining what success really is and which one you really want.
WELCOME BACK.... ❤
it’s happened to me, and it’s whatever now; you just need time to unravel and process 🌊
Dating is to build up connections, independence is to cut off connections.
While I wouldn't recommend staying in a bad relationship, indifference is much worse trait than independence. I would never teach anyone an irrecoverable ability to cut off people or want to date a person so emotionally broken to be able to do.
This video summarised my 2 year roller coaster on-off relationship with a gorgeous young women who turned out to be a lot of trouble and for which I was not mentally ready for (after having injured a great blow to self esteem due to personal circumstances)
Get a Christian woman and your chances go very high that she won’t cheat. You look at the woman’s behavior, if she respects yourself, values herself and has morals that’s the best you can get. If u get a girl from the club, bar, chances are she will cheat just a matter of time
I’ve been with mine for 5yrs and after several godless I’ve never been happier. Shes loyal, a wonderful mother to our children, she respects and supports me. I went through hell and wish I had done this sooner
Don't give them your trust right away.
Learn who they are and what there about.
Take your time to get to know the person. Trust comes with pain.
Trust is like glass once it brakes it's hard to put back together again.😅😊
Google the song: "Treat Her Like a Prostitute" by Slick Rick. Old song, but it talks about what you're saying.
sometimes after watching many videos of good any type of relatable sadia pychology content, it has a real flatness.They all have a gradual drastic look, you heard all you needed to hear, the rest is more and slightly in the air they breath without knowing.
I think it’s simple, just always have guard up. It’s self care. It’s ok to be in love with someone, just understand and be ok with the fact that you don’t know what’s going through someone’s mind. I get what she says when she says women don’t want a sense of false security, men are supposed to be the backbone of the relationship in all matters. I’ve set boundaries early on in my relationship. It’s needed. But once again, keep your guard up and pay attention.
You can set boundaries, and ultimately not cheating should be an obvious one, but if that partner has no respect for you because they don't respect themselves....
They'll run to someone else who allows them to stay in their insecurities.
I'm over approaching conflict, and stating hurt to people that just don't care until you're gone.
@@jordansharp7081 it may be important to let them early on ahead of time to let them know that you are a valuable asset in their life. One thing I’ve seen in some of these videos that I agree on is, leave your girl atleast one time. Very risky if you want the relationship to work, but you’ll also get her feed back on where she stands as well. And… in a weird way, it’ll turn her on.
This lady knows how to split rocks !!!❤
Sadia, your knowledge is stunning. You've beautifully unraveled and organized the behaviors of both sexes. So much to learn from you and so on point. Thanks
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Well said. Thank you very much. Have a beautiful day
Are you single?
@@Shystar79 yes i am
Men don't think women will not cheat on them. We just don't have time and energy to investigate you, we are happy with being happy we don't go around looking for reasons to hurt ourselves.
What she saying is so true when you stop and think about it...she is right about so many things. You think to yourself ill treat her like a queen and better than her last partner then she will love me forever....that is so right.
I can't even get beyond 2min. This is content for men.
She is brilliant amazingly confirms rich cooper /wander theory from female perspective.......added to my subscriptions
Zander
@Sadia, you are so very beautiful inside out. I love how you show women that we can be our own beautiful successful woman.You are féminin, you care about how you look, you seem super simple and nice. I love watching and hearing your take and great advice on relationships. Thank You for sharing your gift. May you continue being the happy person you peace to be. Loads of Love❤
Omg this lady is SPOT ON. I had a roommate who values her independence and HERSELF always higher than ANY relationship. She has NEVER been faithful or loyal to anyone. The men are really as mentioned giving themselves a false sense of security. She puts herself in positions that are just...not ideal.
Guess who has the same mindset? Men. Nothing is wrong with women putting their own needs first because that is exactly all men do
Easy, don't commit to her and be indifferent. Become emotionally attached at your own risk
Then you can't get cheated on, because she will never be in a relationship with you.
I agreed with you. Been with my wife for 30 years now. Master indifference. Don't waste your energy over spilled milk. I am a AHOLE. It's my way or the Highway. She wants to be a part of my life; she has to play by my rules. She knows that I will walk away without a seconds thought if I THINK that she is messing around. ( I don't need to verify anything, if I even think...it is over). I know my wife better than I know myself, if there is even a single shift in habits or behavior I would know. Lastly, gaslighting does not work on me....I heard it all...I grew up with players, cheaters, and bad boys since I was 16 years old, and I am about to turn 50 this year. There is not a single line or phrase that I have not heard of.
Never get emotionally attached NEVER
That's a learnt skill.
@adz-ql6kv It's learned the hard way
Self esteem issues is what i told my cheating ex is the main reason for cheating. If you have self esteem you have boundaries and certain things that you just won't do. Learned the hard way, stay away from hyper independent women and party girls
Sadia the goat 🐐
This was so good
Appreciate you
Brilliant education here.
Let me translate this again:
- Even if a woman is in a relationship with you, she has so little ability to tell you'd cheat or not, she will not let it go until she finds her own value seen through the man's eyes. That validates the initial attraction apparently.
- Experienced men know about this, which is why they don't take women too seriously in the beginning. After all, you'll be giving her potential opportunities in her head, for you to cheat. Don't show your power until she's attracted to you. Then she lets her walls down, which just means she doesn't look into the negative towards you by default.
- Women need facts to make decisions, but its hard to check feelings that may lead to cheating. Especially if she herself has been ran through, she doesn't know what trust looks like. To those women, facts are something that can be weaponised against her, much like how friendliness and inticimacy can be used against men.
- Men who are weak adapt to a woman's perspective BEFORE she is attracted. Strong men only do it towards the values or actions women have acknowledged to be attracted to.
- Essentially an inexperienced man OR woman, do not know how to recognise the 'safety' in one another. That's why its a number game (in the beginning).
- If you have trouble with intimacy, Sadia apparently has some material for you. But from what I've gathered, its marketing. In another video Sadia said every women has her own values, and therefore her own things to be attracted to. There is no universal manual to a woman's attraction aside from simply being superficially valuable (charm).
- Both men and women have trouble to walk away. If both of you do, that's when you got something toxic in the making. Ironically real connection has value only when its negotiable (giving it is still a choice, and not a given). If you do not excersize this choice, you cannot walk away. Men are more likely to learn to walk away, as he has to do the initial investment (approach) initially (that isn't sex).
here you go :)
Cheating or getting cheated on can happen to anyone if you allow to be put in certain situations. Don’t expect too much from a human, we are flawed.
Excellent, Here is a secret:A leader sees and knows everything. ❤
don't force her to change. that was spoken directly to me
No truer words have been spoken. I was so shocked going into the women's word. I learnt women are not as innocent as I thought... 😢
Can’t lie she speaking truth sad but true!!
Pinpoint marketing message - value add and target market. Nice.
Good points to consider when in a relationship..
Thank you for uploading this video, it was very educational and informative; I found it very helpful and will bear this in mind.
Whenever I think I am seem to make a connection with a woman, I always assume there is a third party...
Safe assumption
She isn't on the money regarding men's attitudes to sex being the cause and women with low experience having difficulty finding a man. Her being a selective woman that hasn't played the field like the rest has given her a blind spot on that issue, despite being great on most other points she makes. I have no issues getting a date and I'll only select women with low experience. I'm not the only one by far. I'll also never commit to one with tattoos/high body count - and not because of a judgement of those things. Aside from the fact I don't find it attractive, I just acknowledge that the 'cause' of those things manifesting will also be the cause of her inability to pair bond in a healthy relationship with me. The outward manifestations themselves aren't the cause. She also didn't quite get the number of partners vs damage thing for men in another video suggesting its more damaging for men. In fact, its only more damaging if we bond during the encounter which for men, unlike women, doesn't happen during sex - it happens through other components of the experience and interaction. Commitment and resource allocation for example. As for if the bonding itself is more damaging to men - I'd say that's correct because we haven't evolved to have to deal with it like women have (war/invasion etc). It's just that we rarely bond due to sex and women exclusively do. If the clients she notices these patterns from had no issues with women, they wouldn't be consulting with her. As such, she notices the patterns specifically of the men with difficulties that need her help. When it comes to understanding and explaining women on the other hand, she's probably the best there is.
Best there is best there was best there ever will be
You described what is going on perfectly. I 've heard her say that there is not problem for women having a high body count but it is a huge problem if men have a high body count because they're more likely to cheat. There is substantial data showing that promiscuous women are more likely to cheat so her comment is completely false. I think she has good things to say but a lot of it comes from a very narrow perspective and a lot of it is just the same info repeated over and over on different podcasts.
@@knowledgelibrary1141 Totally agree. It's weird how accurate she is with so much except that, which is way off. I mean even the simple biology of how many women we can get pregnant a day vs women obviously reflects the situation. I think a few of her own fears coming to the surface on her opinions on that to be honest.
@@Mark-mo4bo🎯
She is right.
Sadia i love you ❤ you're a role model to every woman, especially young age ones❤
A beautiful woman that she is much insight Sadia 💖
Women cheat a lot more than men. (In general) That's just the way it is. Now, eventually, she will face the consequences. You see, women often leave a guy because they get bored or think they can do better. In reality, they left a good man. It's only later in the future by real bad experiences with real jerks that she thinks back about that good man. She realises her mistake. In the meanwhile, this good man has moved on. This guy is genuine, reliable, stable, and caring. I have seen it so many times women, really regretting leaving a good man. However, there's no way back. A good man has values, morals, honour, self-respect, dignity, and is strong inside. So even if he's still single, that woman has no chance to win him back.
Words of wisdom, "The toxicity comes from the inability to walk away."
I read about the tragedy of Sadia. I cried, she was so beautiful and smart. Will miss her lots.
I missed that story. What happened?
Is this the full interview? Any chance the full interview will be posted?
Sadia makes a good point about men who have been with a lot of women, and how they have seen the "cheating side" of women. I've been with between 75-80 women (I know guys who have been with a LOT more). I'd say about 35-40% of the women I've been with had boyfriends, fiances, or husbands. Since I have personally witnessed that side MANY times, I just assume women are going to cheat.
One thing that troubles me is the lack of precision with language. I get that it’s difficult and less sexy, but it’s technically more precise if you say a majority of men or a minority of men or a significant number of men as opposed to just men. Because then otherwise, I have to constantly address all of the assumptions that are being made while you’re speaking and that takes a lot of energy.
Say that you reject generalization...And I agree with you on that
I swear, every time she speaks (the facts) it's equivalent to Uma Thurman in Kill Bill and my thoughts are the Deadly Venom assassins😂😂😂
This is all about greedy people who can’t trust each other and social media multiplied it all by 100. One way to not get cheated on is to become a rock star but that can be fairly hard seemingly.
8:45 Maybe I do not understand the meaning of "choke hold" correctly, but I do not want to keep a person I love in a choke hold. Choke hold to me sounds like the ingredient of a toxic relationship.
Actually it is a quite "strong" word...
As a cheater , I can honestly say she is not lying.
haha THANK YOU XX
lol what happen
Red flags 🚩? cheating? Why waste ur precious time analyzing whether the person is cheating or not. You simply cannot find out the ugly truth as people are wearing mask all the time. Instead listen to your gut feeling 😊 Ur intuition will send you signs if the person is not right for you.. also people who cheats (so called liars) have bad karmas so they might be going through their own lessons in life. Anyways this woman is beautiful and wise love her hair 😮
Keep it up goddess
All they need is to be as beautiful as you +being smart like you.
Be with your true love
She's so spot on.... My first official adult girlfriend was a literal neck breaking 10, but something intrinsically told me never to compliment her looks. It worked until she started getting super freaky and I became the original "crack" addict and she knew it... leverage lost! 😂😂😂
People are a mess. Around the year 2000, a woman in another department said that. I found it quite amusing. Without humor, I would be in trouble.
I didnt know what she was doing in the front seat, then i realised she was ducking and hiding from guys in other cars and sidewalks
Some people say marry someone uglier than you. Maybe just change your definition of what cheating is. Or just be honest with each other and work to repair any damage. Or...............
She’s very intelligent
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN WOMEN GROW UP IN A SINGLE HOUSEHOLD WITH A MOTHER? THIS IS NOT MEN VS WOMEN, IT'S GOOD MEN/WOMEN VS MANIPULATING MEN/WOMEN!!!
Sadia repeatedly gotta get that 'chokehold' or walk away...
Sadia, you are very good! I really appreciate your content, but try to articulate a little better, sometimes I don't understand you.
Thank you in advance.
Be the best version of YOU, they’ll adjust.
DAYUM EVERYTHING SHES SAYS IS TRUE AND MAN I HATE I HAD TO LEARN ALL THIS THE HARD WAY
Sadia, you are a beautiful woman, please don't do more plastic surgery. Something seemed to happen to your cheek. There is no need for this.
You are already the most beautiful woman, be grateful for what you have 🌻
“Chokehold” 😶
She's talking about herself and her OWN values. Through and through. Although I am 100% within her belief system.
Edit to add, she talks so fast and so much... whoa. The last part is true...
@ItsLaurenBiiTCH1
You are the most astute person here, and by default, the SMARTEST.
Your observations are spot on👌
Yes . . . Sadia has had a very middle-class life and obviously, obviously amongst upper middle class, which provides a barrier.
Here in Australia we refer to this caccooned environment as:
Living in La La Land
She also contradicts herself every third point.
That is, Sadia will make a point and 3 sentences later, contradicts her main point.
Non -sensual Rambling
E.g. Men in today's society over value sex
Really ?
Hedonism and promiscuity by default demean sex into a base, meaningless animal act.
As sex has no place in relationships in the West- USA, UK, Canada, Australia, New Zealand, Germany and France -
thrse relationships collapse after 3 months.
They are just 3 months long one night stands.
The "men have a choke hold over women" comment that Sadia said over and over is a red flag for me. Choke hold implies power over.
The only issue i have with this video is that accusing someone without proof can backfire
You can see dude doing the math in his head and thinking, "shit is my woman cheating on me?!! F#CK!!" 😂😂😂
100% and women are more sneaky, and creative hence men never find out. The second thing is many men go for looks and don’t care about the character that much. That’s why need to trust the gut and don’t date women without values.
the problem today is everybody wants love but mostly people don’t want commitment. And the good love is hand by hand with the commitment. All types of good love need commitment. You can live your kids if you don’t do the commitment that you have like a good parent for keeping clean, feed and care for your children. You can't love your dog if you don't have the commitment to pick up his shit off the floor and spend at the vet. You cannot have good love if you cannot commit to valuing, caring for, investing in, and above all considering, your partner. These days everyone wants things that are easy and immediate, most people don't want to deal with the commitment and see the success that a long-term relationship brings because they don't want to go through the awkward moments. And that only shows that we have become a more immature society. Good love comes tied with commitment. And the most necessary thing in love is consideration!! a person who does not consider you DOES NOT love you.
Disney and my single mother have shaped my understanding of "love", which I view as a tool for manipulation and unfulfilled desire. This contrasts with the idealized fantasy of love often perpetuated by societal messages and religious beliefs.
In my view, people who believe in the idealized version of love are often suppressing painful memories and experiences to maintain a sense of normalcy. This denial of reality can lead to further manipulation and disillusionment.
Instead, I believe love should be tied to purpose, not to a specific person. This allows for a more fulfilling and authentic experience of love, free from the constraints of societal expectations and personal baggage.
Would you jump out of a plane with a 50% chance of it failing????