My partner doesn’t accept my disabled child! | But I'd Never Marry A Blind Woman

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  • čas přidán 14. 05. 2024
  • The word burden is often a word that is said and chatted about in the disabled community. Lucy chats about how she feels when answering this Disability Dilemma from Reddit.
    Remember you can send in your own disability dilemmas to help@lucyedwards.com
    We can’t wait to see you next week!
    #BINMABW #ButIdNeverMarryABlindWoman #Podcast
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Komentáře • 32

  • @PredictableEnigma
    @PredictableEnigma Před 4 měsíci +21

    No matter what, your children's wellbeing should come first. Any "partner" that doesn't understand that I'd throw to the curb. They can find a new partner, but my child can't just leave to go find a better parent. They rely on you.

  • @Kikafur
    @Kikafur Před 4 měsíci +19

    Am I the only one that’s just amazed with the intro!🤩

    • @MeriaDuck
      @MeriaDuck Před 4 měsíci +1

      It is very good indeed!

  • @badfairy9554
    @badfairy9554 Před 4 měsíci +10

    The best thing in life is childrens laughter. That man is not feeling that. So he is the one with no joy.

  • @kimberlybrinkhuis
    @kimberlybrinkhuis Před 4 měsíci +2

    love the pod, also the voice work is like music to my ears!!

  • @PurpleNoir
    @PurpleNoir Před 4 měsíci +3

    If the partner doesn’t like your child, that’s already a HUGE problem. But them thinking that her disabled child is a “burden” is just plain awful.

  • @eye_straindigital
    @eye_straindigital Před 4 měsíci +3

    Wow you guys have a great podcast! Sending good vibes from Texas 🇺🇸

  • @Dots_thepuppy
    @Dots_thepuppy Před 4 měsíci +2

    I have left hemianopia and on my plane when the flight attendant found out she gave me the French menu. (I now find it funny) I hate living where I do they have almost zero public transportation, so at 36, I feel so less independent than I wish.

  • @mayapatel62442
    @mayapatel62442 Před 2 měsíci

    When you mentioned the audio description headsets, I realized that there are none of these in South Africa! And I watched incredibles 2 so many times.

  • @GeminiLeo6
    @GeminiLeo6 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Great show. ❤❤

  • @kayleahgrossman5402
    @kayleahgrossman5402 Před 2 měsíci

    I luv it when Ollie looks at the camera. Its reminds me so much of Jim from The Office!!

  • @richardarmstrong6676
    @richardarmstrong6676 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I have had cerebral palsy for 27 years 28 this July, and I agree with Lucie‘s outrage 100%. We are not bound to wheelchairs we use them and when the problem society is

  • @Sinc3r3ly
    @Sinc3r3ly Před 3 měsíci

    As an autistic girl who lives with her mom and stepdad I can kinda relate to the child. I’m very thankful my stepdad has been understanding thus far, though sometimes he makes kind of mean jokes or misunderstands parts of me. I hope the child grows up with a father who won’t treat him badly.
    Also, my brother had Cerebral Palsy and was a wheelchair user and we still had a two story house; it’s just that all of his equipment and room were downstairs.

  • @MeriaDuck
    @MeriaDuck Před 4 měsíci +2

    Hahahah, it is many years ago that that babies-everywhere vibe suddenly rushed in with my spouse, you sound like a 27 year old, which you are 😀; wish you all the best on your journey of becoming very good parents.
    At 3:30 when Ollie took a sip at the Wrong Moment, he kept his composure only just when Lucy said 'family epidemic'.
    12:30 rightfully blood boiling there, that was just so sad

  • @ritikakhanal8247
    @ritikakhanal8247 Před 4 měsíci +1

    You two are theh best, and I can’t help but write down quotes. But in all seriousness, we didn’t have this kind of content even five years ago to connect with people talking about having issues like going to the movie theater and having a night ruined because they didn’t take the time to do their job and make sure audio description works. In producing this alone, you are helping push conversations that are so important. I can’t even count how many times I’ve tried to salvage situations even while feeling completely lesser than over something that seems so little to anyone who doesn’t get it. Its not a mainstream conversation, and the Steves in the world that don’t take the time to put themselves in the shoes of the people they are interviewing for stories like this simply don’t get how degragating that word choice can be. It definitely takes a certain kind of news room, but if a high school news room can have those conversations and responsbily produce content, so can these dunderheads.

  • @ALittleSnowFairySaga
    @ALittleSnowFairySaga Před 4 měsíci

    Paracetamol is what we in America know as acetaminophen (Tylenol).

  • @badfairy9554
    @badfairy9554 Před 4 měsíci

    My friend has tatoons of her pets. They are very good.

  • @megandmauiguidingpaws
    @megandmauiguidingpaws Před 4 měsíci

    I wish that we had a better standard for our service dogs like requiring proof but we don’t and it just makes it dangerous for the legit dogs my girl has been attacked four times and every time you have to rework things you have already worked through

    • @PredictableEnigma
      @PredictableEnigma Před 4 měsíci +1

      Its so awful that people lie and exploit systems that are made to help people 😢

  • @powderandpaint14
    @powderandpaint14 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Surely deliberately getting pregnant and then "deciding" whether to continue with it if the child has a certain condition that you're already aware you may pass on to them is completely unethical? Either don't use IVF and accept the child whatever condition they have, or use IVF to screen if you have a condition that may be passed on to your children.

    • @xWickedPlansx
      @xWickedPlansx Před 4 měsíci

      What's the difference? Either way, you are discarding an embryo.
      Either you are ok with that or you're not.
      I'm ok with it either way. It's their choice.

  • @jacksonkalisch2943
    @jacksonkalisch2943 Před 4 měsíci +1

    First

  • @WeAreLegion-
    @WeAreLegion- Před 4 měsíci +1

    Shit sounds toxic. Just find a decent person. Simple.

  • @IvarTheBoneless40
    @IvarTheBoneless40 Před 4 měsíci +1

    But why are they speaking about very private thing on youtube?

    • @powderandpaint14
      @powderandpaint14 Před 4 měsíci +5

      Because it may be something a lot of other people are going through aswell.

    • @oscodains
      @oscodains Před 4 měsíci +5

      That’s the point of the podcast.

    • @IvarTheBoneless40
      @IvarTheBoneless40 Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@powderandpaint14 but some things are better left private. You have things you can talk about in your podcast thats for sure. But not private things.

    • @powderandpaint14
      @powderandpaint14 Před 4 měsíci +5

      @@IvarTheBoneless40 it's their choice though isn't it?

    • @IvarTheBoneless40
      @IvarTheBoneless40 Před 4 měsíci

      @@powderandpaint14 ones your speak it out in public, everyone knows now. And that will feel like your stripping yourself of your clothes